Rubitinwhydontyou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How come when a girl feels pressured to act a certain way, it’s because society imposes unfair standards and expectations on her, but when a boy feels pressure to act a certain way, it’s “fragile masculinity”? I think that falls more under the umbrella of internet memes and jokes, like the 'get back in the kitchen' days of yore. Yes, and it would be a lot funnier, with me laughing right there with them, if it weren't for the fact that they had a collective panic attack any time anyone suggested women were less than perfect.	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 12:22 PM
2	How come when a girl feels pressured to act a certain way, it’s because society imposes unfair standards and expectations on her, but when a boy feels pressure to act a certain way, it’s “fragile masculinity”? I think to a certain extent you're correct, that any movement, especially one that is decentralized and overwhelmingly online, will have toxic members. What I judge a movement on is this: [1] The willingness of its members to disassociate themselves from that toxicity and speak out against it. [2] The popularity of the toxic views within the movement, and the support they receive. [3] The views of the academic elites within it. So, let's look at a couple of Tweets: the disease is called men Men …	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 02:30 AM
1	How come when a girl feels pressured to act a certain way, it’s because society imposes unfair standards and expectations on her, but when a boy feels pressure to act a certain way, it’s “fragile masculinity”? I fully agree that Tumblr feminism/cancerous feminism is distinct from other more positive forms of it. It has happened with every wave, though. First Wave Feminism had a lot of toxicity that pushed away moderates, Second Wave Feminism had the political lesbian/anti-man angle which pushed away moderates, and Third Wave Feminism has it too. Third Wave was supposed to be a sex-positive all inclusive fighting for the rights of more minority groups and include men in the picture, but it went to shit…	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 01:05 AM
5	How come when a girl feels pressured to act a certain way, it’s because society imposes unfair standards and expectations on her, but when a boy feels pressure to act a certain way, it’s “fragile masculinity”? I think we need to understand the difference between the intended meaning of terms used widely by feminists and their meanings in practice. What you're saying about "toxic masculinity" would absolutely be true, and it's something that the MRM would be fully on board with eliminating. As a matter of fact many of the discussions here have been about exactly what you're saying: that the notion a man is any less male for what he drinks, what he wears, how he dances, or what he does in his free time …	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 12:16 AM
3	My former high school teacher taking a stand on Facebook. Probably a non native English speaker.	/r/MensRights	15/01/18 12:19 PM
9	Moderator of LegalAdvice goes on Anti-MRA rant in thread of man asking what his legal options are for child support now that he's found out his cheating wifes child is not his. Mod proceeds to double-down on their clear bias against mens rights when called out on politicizing it. Worse yet, mods allowed dozens of comments encouraging OP to financially support the child, and deleted dozens that sympathized with him for being "off topic." When the agenda pushing reaches mods it's over. /u/parsnippity is the type of guy who has nothing in real life so the best he can do is assert power online.	/r/MensRights	15/01/18 01:03 AM
4	All your masculinity belongs to us. Two weeks ago I had some guy respond to a comment on another account saying I was an alt-right troll masquerading as a liberal to try and spread right wing propaganda. My initial reaction was that I should defend myself, but instead I just mocked him. Other people showed up to mock him too and overall it was pretty funny. Then he started showing up wherever I went on reddit to try and do the same thing. He posted in two completely separate threads trying to warn people about my alleged alt-right…	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 03:48 AM
75	Feminists are cancerous to the society Feminist: Waah, society is so unfair. Air conditioning is sexist. Men: ... Feminist: Uh, emoji equality? All the female emojis suck. Men: ... Feminist: ...ALL MEN ARE PIGS. Men: Hey, what the hell is wrong with you? Feminist: Oh, are you going to complain now? Why do you feel the need to butt into my every discussion? It's not like you should care. You should just try to keep your mouth shut and let women talk about their issues.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 07:33 AM
4	Feminists argue that sexism against men does not exist. On a logical level I agree with you that the difference between benevolent sexism and privilege is stupid. The theory itself is stupid. But using dishonest means (the distinction between the two) to get what you want (preserving the status quo of women being a protected class) and affect the people way people think (gynocentric bias) using all resources available (inherent societal expectation to treat women with care) to you is shrewd.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 06:27 AM
8	Feminists argue that sexism against men does not exist. It fools a whole lot of people. If it's stupid and it works ... it's not stupid.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 06:12 AM
30	r/Feminism user thinks that the reason more men die in war is that they "start the wars." How the hell did his comment get upvoted? It's critical of feminism on /r/Feminism. It should be -30.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 02:16 AM
56	We made it into vices 'toxic subreddits' guys. Why is it talking about /r/MensRights but then it links a picture from /r/MGTOW under it? Of course in their eyes, MGTOW, PUAs, GamerGate, TRP, MensRights, and Incels are all one big ball of the same people.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 02:03 AM
43	Feminists argue that sexism against men does not exist. The feminist in the OP is using "benevolent sexism" as a reason why women have shorter sentences. The only difference between benevolent sexism and privilege is that it's benevolent sexism when a woman has something to gain, and privilege when a man has something to gain. Essentially, it's a convenient feel-good word to fit their worldview about women always fighting every battle uphill. It's quite shrewd really.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 02:00 AM
-5	I was also unable to locate the men's restroom at El Pollo Loco I was at a restaurant just yesterday that had the same exact two types of restrooms: one was for women. The other was for men, women, and the disabled. For a restaurant with limited bathroom space it makes perfect sense to have this style. Not only do women go to the bathroom more often than men, but for anatomical reasons they take longer. During hormonal changes during pregnancy they also urinate even more frequently, and the need to go can be urgent. They are also more likely to experience an…	/r/MensRights	03/09/17 11:07 AM
5	Shitting is also a natural biological function IT'S NORMAL IT'S NATURAL there's a whole lot of natural shit that's disgusting you dumb fuck. It's OK to be ashamed of certain human bodily functions because they make others uncomfortable. The fact that one of the biggest talking points of your social movement is that you think you shouldn't be ashamed of your skid-marked panties shows that it's time to move on.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/08/17 02:01 PM
2	Female founder hires women using affirmative action and then fires them after realizing her mistake. [Link to full article in comments] TwoX saw a large influx of male posters when it went default, so the only two types there are women who can cut it when their ideas are challenged and the guys who like to discuss women's issues without being downvoted to -100. The feminazis migrated into TrollX, which as you would expect, is a cesspool of man haters.	/r/MensRights	28/08/17 01:38 AM
55	Feminists literally believe men's stricter gender role is misogyny The theory of feminism is that every corner of society is designed to cater to men's wants and needs, and women always get the short end of the stick. Anything that doesn't fit into this box--this social theory--neatly is stuffed in with force. A simple example is that if women are expected to do more housework than men, it's misogyny. They'll claim that men feign incompetence to get out of household chores constantly, or that men are emotionally unwilling to do "women's work," but the message i…	/r/MensRights	26/08/17 11:52 AM
3	Laura Perrins: Feminists should watch Dunkirk and thank men Fucking hell I'm glad this is the first comment. The whole problem with this generation's ideas of original sin and identity politics is that Twitter addicts/redditors give credit to themselves for shit they had absolutely nothing to do with. You have these bizarre racial supremacists talking about things like Greek philosophers and what white men did, or African kings and what black men did, but who gives a single fuck. No, success is not in your DNA. Success is in your own actions. Then you ha…	/r/MensRights	26/08/17 03:31 AM
5	Switching 'conventional' gender roles is making both sexes unhappy: Women feel depressed as breadwinners as are men when they are stay-at-home fathers, study finds. This post makes me appreciate my wife so much more. When I get home my sofa chair is waiting for me, where I sit down immediately. She brings me a mug and pours me a glass of water (or beer when I prefer it), kisses me, and continues making dinner. When dinner's ready she calls me over and we have a nice meal together, free from nagging. When I explained this to a feminist online a few months back she absolutely lost her shit on me and said that I was treating my wife like a maid. Other women on…	/r/MensRights	25/08/17 08:08 AM
10	"Welcome" men I think a lot of things in modern politics and society can be explained by very vocal femdom fetishists.	/r/MensRights	23/08/17 02:38 AM