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So is fat. Fat is just a word, not an action. Yet fat has been successfully reclaimed by the radical size activist community (of which I'm a member), because the word fat does not have it's roots in degradation. Fat is simply an adjective, a word of description, the same as tall, short, thin, brown haired, green eyed. Fat simply means "different from thin." All the ugly connotations that people often associate with the word fat have come from decades of fat hating assumptions about fat people, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:02 AM
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So how, exactly, are you going to "take away the power" from a word that's already meant to be demeaning? Explain how that's possible, since you seem so all fired up to reclaim this word that exists only to demean women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:40 PM
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I know, shame on me for standing up for women's representation, right? How horrible of me! ...But thanks for the laugh, dearie. You're quite the laugh riot today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:33 PM
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"Lady" has always referred to comportment, not to someone's identity. Why ever would you want to reclaim a word that has, for eons, been used to demean women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:24 PM
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I've always called people sweetie. It's just part of my nature. I've yet to hear how "sweetie" is demeaning. Do enlighten me, won't you, since you seem to have a burning desire to 'put me in my place.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:23 PM
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Yes, internalized misogyny does happen a lot, very unfortunately. Judging other women's appearance does nothing to lift us up. And neither does using demeaning terms like "ladies," which refers to comportment, not WHO WE ARE. We're women. We don't have to be "ladies," and that term should be retired from use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:17 PM
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"Lady" refers to comportment, not who we are. As in "be a lady," "act like a lady." Therefore, it is a demeaning term and any feminist worth her salt will tell you so, as I'm doing here. "Lady" is not fine, so please stop referring to women with a demeaning term, ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:14 PM
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All your blather doesn't negate the fact that "ladies" is demeaning. Again, "ladies" refers to comportment - "be a lady," "act like a lady" - which is demeaning to women. But if that's who you want to be, if that's the issue you want to stand up for, to use language that's demeaning to women, perhaps I'm not the one here who's missed the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:13 PM
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"Ladies"? Really? I don't get the continued use of this demeaning term in this sub. "Ladies" refers to comportment - "be a lady," "act more ladylike," and is demeaning. Women is the preferred term. Why is this still an issue here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:06 PM
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What does that have to do with "ladies" being a degrading term? I'd love to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:01 PM
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Ugh. What a fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:41 PM
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I agree with you completely. However, referring to women as "ladies" is demeaning. "Ladies" refers to comportment - "be a lady," "act more ladylike" - and is demeaning to women because it implies an expectation of how we're "supposed to" act. If your point is that we don't need to act a certain way to achieve attention from men, then don't refer to us as "ladies." Women is the preferred term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:31 PM
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I'm not saying guys who want to fetishize childlike bodies don't have pedophilic desires. But you're being obtuse if you don't consider where those desires come from. Why do you think pedophiles obsess over and believe they're sexually attracted to children? Because they can control them, manipulate them and convince children not to talk about being abused and raped, that their behavior is "normal," etc. The desire and obsession over childlike bodies first comes from a place of control. And this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:41 PM
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That's definitely part of it. Many men are obsessed with childlike, undefined bodies and expect the objects of their obsession to "naturally" have this shape without need for exercise because exercise can result in more muscle tone, increased energy and stamina, which they don't want objects to have. ...But again, this comes back to control. They want to control the appearance, want complete compliance from the object of their obsession, which they get by visualizing and having physical contact …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:49 PM
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While, yes, there's a definite obsession with frailness among many men, Musk being one of them, I've always thought obsessions with women's body size and appearance has less to do with actual body size and more to do with control. I'm a fat woman, have never been thin or frail, and while that definitely shrinks the dating pool for me, due to the number of dudes who want to only date thin women, I get my share of attention from fat fetish dudes, many of whom have that fetish because they believe …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:14 PM
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All true, but also worth noting that we don't have to be partnered. Finding a man, finding a partner is not our purpose in life, not our ultimate goal. We're just as valid if we're single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:43 PM
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Response: "No." Then block & delete. Nothing else needed. In truth, no response is even needed, just block & delete. But sometimes just telling them no feels good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:19 PM
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Asshat dudes like this feel entitled to do whatever the hell they want with women. It doesn't matter what YOU think you look like - messy hair, no makeup, etc. All the 'standard' things many women think men want, most men don't care about. That's not what turns their sexual crank. But the point is IT DOESN'T MATTER what turns their crank. What matters is this asshat dude thought he could get whatever he needs from you by filming you. I would have flipped the script on him and taken a bunch of ce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:55 AM
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100% agreed. I'm an older biddy (51, about to be 52 in a week) and grew up with an older parent. She was a single, working mom and never hooked up with any guy while she was raising me, or after, and is largely why I developed a healthy skepticism of most men. But she had many married co-workers and women friends who she told me stories about, mostly as cautionary tales. Many of her co-workers and friends worked lesser paying jobs to support their families while their husbands went to school to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:03 AM
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