Why the fuck would you want to be "a Chad"? Attracting that sort of woman? Find a woman who shares interests with you, who you have stuff in common with, find a woman who can tolerate you and who you can tolerate living with. You achieve that? You're already 75 percent farther along than most.
I was being semi-rhetorical. I know many "ugly on ugly" couples. I'm now tempted to follow that up with something like "They're happier than you are" or the like, but...naw. You're too young to get it. You will, one day, perhaps at 35 or so.