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in some way, kinda? i would assume he has options or/and is a fuckboy. however from my experience so far, the goodlooking men have been more respectful than averave/unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:46 AM
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i am a woman and i agree. if i perceive the man to be of high value ( looks, money, personality ) then i will engage. men cannot comprehend this because to the any kind of female attention is good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:45 AM
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hot women dating ugly/below average/average men = accepted, the standard, often romanticized hot men dating ugly/below average/average women= somehow it's the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:45 AM
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chopped guys in miami and new york have money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:41 AM
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bro go buy a bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:35 AM
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because there are women who care about size? i am a woman and i do not want a man with a micro or a small one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:33 AM
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last time i checked the lgbtq community isnt that healthy either. how are straight ppl the weird ones when you guys also deal with toxic shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:06 PM
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porn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:18 PM
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eastern europe is feminist???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:26 AM
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men are so desperate they will literally fuck women they do not even find attractive. they often admit it on places like /askmen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:45 PM
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if he is a 10/10 then yes. but that rarely happens since most men are average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:25 PM
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men don’t ‘enter their prime later,’ they just gain resources later , that is a big difference, and they hit biological prime in their 20s, same as women. geriatric sperm doesn’t care about his hustle or his empire since mutation rates rise with age no matter how many podcasts he listens to and calling childcare ‘a woman’s job’ proves what your views on women are. there are women who accept that deal just like there are women who accept being single mothers by default. but let’s not pretend it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:02 PM
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men technically can have kids later, but that doesn’t magically erase the reality of geriatric sperm: higher risks of genetic mutations, autism, schizophrenia, miscarriages, and lower overall fertility and no amount of broccoli, gym time etc reverses biological aging meanwhile, the young woman is the one who ends up carrying the child, doing most of the emotional and physical labor, and later dealing with a partner who’s aging into frailty right as she enters her prime just because something is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:44 PM
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being older and more mature does not compensate for geriatric semen. by the time the young woman is older and wants children, the old man will be too frail and weak to support his pregnant wife, child rearing and overall being an active healthy father
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:35 PM
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if the old guy has resources then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:17 PM
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told her what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:12 PM
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just like men accept crazy women just because they're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:34 PM
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a lot of times women admit to staying with toxic dudes due to good dick. from what i have seen and experienced myself, most men struggle with accepting the fact that women can be just as shallow and superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:29 PM
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i am a woman and i agree. if a man wants to waste my time then he better be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:27 PM
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nope. it is that we are aware we might get settled for, if the guy we are asking out has no other options and is dating a girl cuz she was the best he could get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:46 PM
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yes but it seems to be getting worse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:34 PM
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your whole reply actually proves my point instead of contradicting it. you keep turning this into a generic “people are sometimes inconsistent” take, but that ignores what makes this case specific: sex workers face heavy stigma while their labor is widely consumed, and that stigma is overwhelmingly aimed at the workers, not the consumers. that’s not comparable to janitors, fast food workers, or any neutral job where people might not date someone but don’t publicly shame or dehumanize them. this …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:34 PM
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your so called ‘smoking gun’ study doesn’t actually touch my point. the argument i made isn’t about what women think or policy preferences it’s about behavioral hypocrisy among men who consume sex work services. my claim is that many men simultaneously shame, stigmatize, or demean sex workers publicly while privately paying for or using their services, which creates a clear cognitive dissonance. a survey of policy preferences among women says nothing about whether men who engage in transactional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:51 AM
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whose*, maybe you can also go back to school and learn to 1. spell correctly and 2. actually be able to find good sources. say goodnight to your imaginary wife from me little kevin!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:49 AM
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wow kevin, you read a study about women’s preferences and still have no evidence that men shame sex workers while consuming them.your point evapored a long time go like your imaginary wife🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:48 AM
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you might have more upvotes but still cannot bring sources when you were the one who brought them up in the first place...now people can see karen humiliating you in all these other replies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:35 AM
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yeah, we all know you struggle with basic logic. maybe it is time for you to go back to school and learn some
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:32 AM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-025-01133-4 - shows that stigma against sex workers is real, widespread, and creates psychological distress, even though men are the main consumers of their services https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-025-03112-7 - study which demonstrates that men consume pornography frequently but stigmatize women performing it https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23268743.2024.2404557 - explains how societal stigma against sex workers pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:31 AM
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imagine claiming to be oh so intellectual but cannot find one good source to back up your points. if you are this bad with research then no wonder you are single and soooo bitter towards women, lil kevin🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:27 AM
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barkk barkk barkkk, kevin is proving he cannot find a source...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:23 AM
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at least i brought one, yet you are still all bark but no bite. your turn to link a source little kevin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:19 AM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-025-01133-4 - shows that stigma against sex workers is real, widespread, and creates psychological distress, even though men are the main consumers of their services https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-025-03112-7 - study which demonstrates that men consume pornography frequently but stigmatize women performing it https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23268743.2024.2404557 - explains how societal stigma against sex workers pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:14 AM
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saying ‘I do A but not B’ is literally admitting to doing A🤣🤣🤣 holy shiit the mental gymnastics is insaneee but somehow women are the ones who have a problem with being held accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:13 AM
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the sex worker does not wanna date you either, i am not sure why men always bring up the topic of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:10 AM
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except aella is an exception, not the general rule of sex workers. you tried i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:04 AM
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women treat it as a finite resource because sex is riskier for women. if ALL men would have respected boundaries of women, use protection, actually bring them pleasure and were actually attractive then yes, more women would have been generous with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:02 AM
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sex work stigma and psychological distress, a mixed-methods analysis of an international sample of sex workers,’ sexuality research & social policy 2025: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-025-01133-4 your turn now, kevin smartypants. oh wait, you cannot read big boy words
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:59 AM
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you are the one who brought the subject of claims. link them or go back in the shame corner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:50 AM
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you just gave me a long emotional essay about disgust, but not a single point that actually contradicts what i said. men feeling disgust doesn’t erase the hypocrisy, it actually proves it. you’re literally describing a group of men who: -are sexually aroused by women they claim to despise -consume the content -rely on it but still throw shame at those same women because they wouldn’t date them. that is the definition of hypocrisy and the rant about who men would or wouldn’t ‘wife up’ is complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:49 AM
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so you do not have any sources to claim your what about wameeeeen whataboutism. unlike you, johnny in first grade can actually prove his point with eligible claims!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:42 AM
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bring your own sources then i'll do the same. bring it on smarty pants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:34 AM
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except you didn’t show anything, you just asserted women do the same thing without evidence and hoped that would magically make the original point disappear. even if women were hypocritical too, that still wouldn’t erase men’s hypocrisy and the irony of you demanding a ‘source’ while providing exactly zero for your own claims is wild🤣🤣🤣 you’re not correcting anything, you’re just allergic to staying on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:28 AM
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you didn’t deconstruct anything. you just dragged women into a thread about men’s hypocrisy because you couldn’t address the point without deflecting. the topic was men who shame sex workers while consuming their labor. you couldn’t argue against that, so you tried the classic "b-but women too!🥺🥺🥺"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:23 AM
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except you do, proving each time by every triggered comment you leave on my own thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:21 AM
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except you do have one against women smarty pants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:20 AM
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truth hurts, i know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:20 AM
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you keep pretending i'm saying all men who can’t get women = all men who use sex workers = all men who shame sex workers. that’s your strawman, not my argument. my point , which you still haven’t touched, is simple: a lot of men publicly shame sex workers while relying on, consuming, or benefiting from their labor, that includes porn, not just escorts. that contradiction exists regardless of whether it’s ‘most men’ or ‘some men.’ instead of addressing that hypocrisy, you’re nitpicking numbers i …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:19 AM
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i am talking about men though. try to stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:16 AM
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emphasis on age increases, when even that is not something guaranteed for each man out there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:15 AM
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then make a post about that and stop being such a wuss
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:15 AM
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the janitor analogy doesn’t work because janitors aren’t demonized for the work they do while people still use their labor. sex workers are. that’s the entire point you’re sidestepping, the stigma + consumption dynamic is unique. and calling me ‘exhausting’ isn’t an argument, it’s just you getting annoyed that i'm not rolling over and accepting lazy explanations. i’m responding because half the comments keep dodging what i actually said: men shame sex workers while consuming them. pointing out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:14 AM
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i was talking about men, not women smarty pants. make another post about women since you got sooo mad about my own and stop complaining so much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:12 AM
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you were the one twisting my point and accusing women ( because you got triggered), instead of trying to reply to my thread. muhhhh accountabilityyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:12 AM
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most men in relationships/marriages watch porn even if they have good sex lives. they admit it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:43 PM
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that’s literally just a rationalization😉 the hypocrisy isn’t on women, it’s on men pretending they’re ‘above’ something they literally consume. wanting sex without accountability is exactly why the industry exists. time constraints don’t erase the fact that most men still look down on the very women giving them what they want. stop blaming women for holding a mirror up to your own double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:29 PM
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so now it’s about ‘std fluids’ and morality instead of the actual hypocrisy🤣🤣 men shame sex workers not because they’re perfect or rich, but because they make money and control access to what men want. the second a woman profits from sex instead of giving it for free, suddenly the fragile male ego explodes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:21 PM
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can you stay on topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:20 PM
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stop stalking my threads if you don't like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:19 PM
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the shame isn’t coming from women being threatened by sex workers, it’s coming from men’s own hypocrisy. they consume the service or content while pretending it’s ‘disgusting,’ because admitting they want it openly would make them accountable. the double standard exists regardless of women’s opinions, men created it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:19 PM
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men still consume the labor and bodies of women for sexual gratification while simultaneously shaming them. semantics don’t erase hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:08 PM
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that is you who is rambling since you are not intelligent enough to come up with good arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:04 PM
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rage against men's hypocrisy yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:03 PM
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that is still viewing content. pornstars are sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:00 PM
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they do not watch porn? crazyyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:56 PM
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so you’re saying only rich, perfect, fully independent sex workers ‘count’? the point isn’t whether every sex worker is empowered, it’s that men shame women for selling sex while simultaneously consuming it, idk how so many of you are missing the point unless you are doing it on purpose. your nitpicking about who qualifies doesn’t erase the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:54 PM
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that is still in demand.. cuz of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:52 PM
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but that is fine since those women do not wanna date those men either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:38 PM
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and men shame, consume, and cry about muhh accountabilityyy, then act like calling it out is pointless. take responsibility instead of blaming the messenger 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:36 PM
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funny how men like you will marry the so called worthy woman and then end up on cheating on her with the opposite of your oh so virginal loving god fearing wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:34 PM
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no one is forcing men to pay 10k to a hot woman in order to stuff action figures up her ass though accountability is such a foreign concept
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:30 PM
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empathy for men’s fragile egos doesn’t explain shaming women. the reality is simple, men want sex without accountability and feel threatened by women who profit from it or control it. if they could get it freely, the industry wouldn’t exist. the rest is just excuses to rationalize insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:28 PM
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but who said anything about relationships? these women would not want to date you either unless you pay them. whenever a guy brings up dating in a context that is not talking about such topic makes me believe deep down he would date them but since the male ego is too fragile, he has to make sure he rejects them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:27 PM
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always bringing whataboutism when certain males get triggered...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:26 PM
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and to answer your illogical comment, women aren’t shaming men for using sex workers, we’re shaming men for being hypocrites, consuming what they denigrate. if men could get what they want freely and without insecurity, the industry wouldn’t exist. the problem isn’t women, it’s men refusing to own their own desires and double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:24 PM
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exactly. i asked, you answered, and then tried to spin it like my point was invalid🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:23 PM
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you said: i don’t look down on hookers or escorts but you are doing that. you guys are something else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:21 PM
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if noticing men shame what they secretly consume is ‘girl manaplaing,’ then yeah, guilty as charged
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:19 PM
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except most men aren’t out here investing in relationships with women who meet their needs because they lack the maturity, emotional depth, or effort to actually earn it. they shame sex workers not to ‘protect the pool’, they shame them because it highlights their own inadequacy. if men were capable of getting what they want freely, the adult industry wouldn’t be booming. hypocrisy, NOT strategy, drives the cruelty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:18 PM
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so you do look down on them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:16 PM
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men shame sex workers while paying for them because hypocrisy is easier than holding themselves acoountable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:15 PM
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sex workers do not want relationships either with the men they fuck for money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:14 PM
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men admit it themselves. many of them can not even get a girl let alone multiple girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:53 PM
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whataboutism lol. seems like i struck a nerve now answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:52 PM
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i am woman who is not denying this. actually i am wondering why a lot of women say they grow to be attracted to a guy after getting to know him better. my theory would be that they are trying to, somehow, justify the lack or attraction in the first place for me it is simple. i am either attracted to him or not. no need to get to know him better, if i am looking for a partner and there is no physical attraction on my part
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:03 PM
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don’t stick your dick in crazy is literally the same as don’t date bad boys, it’s a warning about your own choices. the difference is men say it jokingly, like it’s a funny war story, while women get lectured like they committed a moral crime. you don’t get to glorify recklessness when you do it and then moralize it when women do the the same. and something you forgot to mention is that most guys who say ‘don’t stick your dick in crazy’ already did it multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:19 PM
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women absolutely do it. even if they admit it men will still find a way to shame them and get mad. similarly to how women admit being attracted to tall men and they still get made fun of
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:34 PM
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men frequently brag about chasing unstable women and treat it like a badge of honor. they’ll sleep with women who are manipulative, selfish, or even abusive, and act like it’s just fun or excitement. when women are attracted to “bad boys” or make similar choices, suddenly it’s framed as a moral failing, a lapse in judgment, or irrational behavior. the truth is attraction works the same way for both sexes, biology and desire don’t have a gendered morality. the only difference is society lets men …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:32 PM
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the less hot, more stable girl with a low bodycount does not want you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:40 PM
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men try to draw a line that conveniently absolves them of responsibility while keeping the “fun” parts they like. calling it a spectrum is just a way to rationalize enjoying chaos without admitting the actual harm. total double standard, totally predictable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:32 PM
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this reads like classic male projection. you’re conflating what some men say they want with what they actually do. men absolutely chase chaotic, bad women when they’re hot, rebellious, or exciting, that’s not a myth. the fact that many of them try to rationalize it as ‘i only like nice girls’ after the fact doesn’t erase the behavior. also, framing it as women having a buffet while men sit out ignores that men constantly compete for attention from attractive women and often take what they can ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:15 PM
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the idea that women are morally failing for being attracted to ‘bad boys’ is pure projection. men openly chase chaotic, selfish, or abusive women and even brag about it, yet act like women are irrational for the exact same behavior. attraction doesn’t have a gendered morality, it’s biology and desire. the only difference is society lets men off the hook for being reckless while shaming women for identical choices. it’s not about consequences, it’s about double standards and control
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:38 PM
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are you also aware of the sheer number of men who are obsessed with crazy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:13 PM
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you proved my point. men are allowed to openly admit they chase dark triad types or hot women who are chaotic but when women are attracted to bad boys suddenly it’s some moral failing or irrational behavior. same logic, same biology, different rules. it’s hilarious how little self awareness goes into these complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:13 PM
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sure, if you’re pretending “crazy” only counts when it’s fun in bed and not when it’s abusive, manipulative, or dangerous. calling that a spectrum is just a convenient excuse to ignore the real consequences while still jerking off to the thrill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:11 PM
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this sub and the whole redpill/incel/bs movement is literally filled with men complaining about women liking bad boys. stop changing your stance when you get called out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:04 PM
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they change sooo fast by saying umm acsually men do not complainn🤓but this sub is full of men who do complain about women liking bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:56 PM
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then why do men complain about women having the same mindset and behaviour towards bad guys? i asked something else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:40 PM
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pressing false charges, breaking stuff, threatening the guy, yelling, acting irrational, manipulating....but sure, crazy only in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:31 PM
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so you’re admitting men will put up with abuse and chaos as long as the woman is hot. sounds a lot like the same irrational behavior you love to mock women for, jst with less self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:28 PM
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except men actually do sleep with the women they call crazy and then brag about it later. women writing to killers is a fringe thing, not a cultural norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:25 PM
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super “self aware” to call women crazy and then brag about how you can’t stop sleeping with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:25 PM
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that’s not a calculation, that’s literally you admitting to the same irrational behavior you accuse women of. you’re just dressing it up as logic because men hate admitting they pick based on lust too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:23 PM
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seems like i struck a nerve..funny how men get defensive over women they claim they do not want aka "damaged goods"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:04 PM
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then why do men lie about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:17 AM
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the reason women are punished for doing the exact same thing men do aka exploring attraction casually when they’re young, then prioritizing stability later, comes down to social conditioning and control, not logic. men get social credit for sexual experience (player, fuckboy, ladies’ man), because male sexuality isn’t tied to moral worth. women, on the other hand, still get judged through the lens of purity culture, a leftover from when women’s sexuality was literally tied to property, lineage, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:03 AM
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average women are an alternative. average men are into them, supposedly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:33 AM
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you’re basing your argument on the idea that these women are somehow “accessible” because you can split them into madonna and whore roles, when in reality high maintenance women don’t even consider you if you can’t handle the effort, stay out of the game and stop pretending you have a shot with women out of your league. otherwise you would not be on reddit giving the false illusion that you are able to choose these women in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:35 PM
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careful now. you will trigger the men who claim women are not visual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:30 PM
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you’re turning every woman into a cold robot that only calculates money and “compatibility” while excusing men for being visual horny apes. women aren’t less sexual, they just don’t settle for average men. if there were as many genuinely hot men as there are conventionally hot women, you’d see the exact same behavior from women that men brag about online. selective isn’t a flaw, it’s a reality check and modern men can’t handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:09 PM
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pretty interesting that you confidently believe these high maintenance women would date you, let alone for a week🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:52 PM
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you’re missing the point again. women valuing money historically doesn’t mean that’s still the main driver now. plenty of women today don’t care about status as much as basic attraction and compatibility. the difference is that men keep pretending it’s all about resources so they don’t have to face that most women just don’t find them physically or emotionally appealing. and no, women being more selective with sex doesn’t mean they don’t want it, it means the supply of men they actually desire i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:49 PM
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that’s not “biology,” that’s economics. women go older when survival depends on it. in modern dating, most women make their own money, so looks and chemistry matter more than a man’s bank account. if what you said was truly universal, broke old men would be drowning in models, but they’re not. if there were more genuinely hot men around, women would be just as openly sexual as men are, like in the scandinavian countries where women cheat more, have more hookups, and don’t pretend sex is some sac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:31 PM
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that comparison doesn’t even make sense. women saying they wouldn’t marry a heavy drinker is a preference. men chasing high maintenance women online but calling them “undateable” after being ignored is projection. you can’t choose not to date someone who never wanted you in the first place🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:05 PM
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old men are not the peak of attractiveness either. the only time a young and attractive woman is gonna consider an old guy is only if he has money but most men are average, earning average income. otherwise she is gonna choose a young and healthy attractive man that is gonna give her the best genes..which is not always a promising thing either since nowadays men are balding as soon as they hit their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:39 PM
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it is not a waste of money for the guys who can afford them. stop talking in the name of chads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:36 PM
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you guys do not want a relationship because you are aware it is not possible to date them in the first place unless you are in the same league or above. the cope is real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:35 PM
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they can not do either of those. unless they pay, but they do not even have that kind of money either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:14 PM
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cause you can't afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:47 PM
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so simple that they are caught saying one thing but doing another. if anything they should just stop projecting when they say average women are not interested in average men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:05 PM
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yeah, men definitely follow these women for their good personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:46 PM
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and the point still stands. a lot of men online claim average women aren’t into average men, and that narrative gets repeated constantly. meanwhile, men chase women out of their league or hyperfeminine women despite being average themselves. calling me defensive or projecting doesn’t change the pattern since it’s easier to blame women than admit attraction isn’t evenly distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:40 PM
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because it is all cope. they say they do not dream of dating one but behind closed doors they will obviously lust after them, even more so when they gain social status and are finally able to afford a high maintenance woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:29 PM
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of course they have to pay since they are not desirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:26 PM
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and yet, most men don't reach that level hence why they have to follow these women. sounds like pure typical cope from men who are not desirable enough for high maintenance women, marriage or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:25 PM
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they can't do either actually because these men lack the resources to do so, therefore it remains a fantasy and a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:10 PM
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except these women won't fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:05 PM
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i’m not projecting or asking every man on earth to chase me. i’m pointing out the bs you and others spout online about “average women not being into average men” when the reality is the opposite is way more common. if anything it is men who are projecting, since it is easier to blame women than to admit they are not that desirable for high maintenance women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:01 PM
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you sound really defensive for someone who claims to have options. if you were actually as above average as you say, you wouldn’t need to convince strangers online
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:59 PM
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then men should stop lying and projecting by saying that the average woman is not into the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:53 PM
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you’re proving my point, again. men complain about women “putting a price” on beauty, but then turn around and admit they only value women based on how much effort they don’t have to put in. you’re not describing attraction, you’re describing entitlement. if the average guy can’t get an average woman, maybe it’s not because she’s overpriced, it’s because he’s overestimating his own value
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:50 PM
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they would give them any of that if they had the resources
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:42 PM
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so basically you’re saying attraction is a luxury now? that kind of proves my point. men claim to want low maintenance women, but when given the choice, they still go after the ones who look high effort. it’s not about affordability, it’s about priorities. if the “average man” stopped treating beauty like an investment and more like a mutual attraction, maybe dating would be easier for the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:41 PM
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you are honest about it though, the rest are not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:39 PM
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but i thought the average man is into the average woman unlike the other way around. so it's plain gaslighting then? why would the average man expects the average woman to put effort into her looks when he is not willing to do the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:33 PM
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yeah, actually they start balding way earlier these days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:57 PM
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a head full of hair on a males head is a sign of youth and vitality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:38 PM
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so true, especially that she does not go bald as soon as she hits 30 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:22 PM
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true i also noticed porn addicted men are either very average looking or downright unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:06 PM
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may i ask what you look like? i am skinny and petite, all of my exes would watch porn with women whose bodies were different than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:14 PM
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true. lots of men will say this is not how men think. but if you take a glance at their online spaces a loot of them think the same (gf is not my type, but i will still date her not to be lonely, have access to sex and also compensate with porn)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:13 PM
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what similarities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:50 PM
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men do not settle for women. they are just incapable of levelling up and becoming the man that their type wants. if you want a 10/10 woman then become a 10/10 man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:24 PM
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My looksmatch have been a hot few men I could not get commitment from cause they had other options. Also there are way more attractive women dating ugly men.It is the male gender who is obsessed with getting the best looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:44 PM
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Other way around. Men want women so much that they have no standards and will date whoever they come across as long as it has a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:11 PM
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I suppose. But you also have to factor in most women have to give up on attraction if they do not want to be settled for. Attractive men are so rare that women do indeed favor interests, humor, values, personality type etc. So either way women do not win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:10 PM
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Not my fault you have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:15 PM
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Guys on reddit who are also married irl to women they do not love. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:52 PM
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Oh that is typical. I used to work in a male dominated field and the amount of losers complaining about their wives to me was enough to make me lose hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:48 PM
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Mind sending me link to that video?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:43 PM
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If that was the case then men would not be the gender with the highest rate of cheating. Not to mention how many married men solicit sex workers and are porn addicted because they were unable to get the woman with the 10/10 body. I could go on, but the amount of men bitching and crying about their wifes is enough to let any woman know that a lot of men settle with the first woman that shows interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:36 PM
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Because if the guy does not genuinely love her and is attracted to her then she will end up doing most of the work. Which already happens since a lot of men are currently dating women they are not even attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:29 PM
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then they should keep it to themselves and not broadcast to the world that they have to pay for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:31 PM
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thank god it died out. imagine being a desirable slavic woman settling for a 4/10 western guy cuz the local 10/10 western women do not want him🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:39 PM
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indian culture is hell for indian women. id be better off choosing a nordic individualistic culture as a woman over the indian one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:37 PM
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the cope is insane. the real winner is the alpha chad who can attract women for sex without paying for it. but if that makes u feel better..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:42 PM
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hot asian women who are being paid to suck their cocks. pattaya is a thing because of such men, otherwise they are aware they cannot get a hot woman to give pity sex unless they pay them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:41 PM
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slavic women dont want western men. theyre close to western europe so they know first hand they are not as desirable as they portray themselves to me. the slavic bombshells i know are married/dating rich asian men and turkish entrepreneurs. also helps massively that they come from similar cultures so these men know how to "protect, lead and provide". on the other hand women outside europe often have a hard on for these western men but do not really know what they are like. but given they come fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:05 PM
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