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We went to a few counseling sessions because things had gotten a bit rocky after our 2nd child was born. The counselor was a young white female fresh out of university and training, so I braced for the worst. We made it through about 7 sessions before the counselor began to see my wife as the problem. After the 8th session, we suddenly stopped going. Wife's idea. Our divorce will be finalized this year.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 03:24 AM
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Have you had a good experience with one? I'm considering this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 07:14 PM
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You'll likely get nowhere with the school system. It's run by women and already pretty anti-father and anti-male in the first place. I'd be getting an attorney in a hurry. And if your private life is squeaky clean or sealed up, then why not call your local news station?
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 12:25 AM
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I got an older girlfriend that has also been divorced. She's horny and so am I, so we meet once a week. We have crazy sex, I cook for us, we watch Netflix, have more sex, go to sleep, wake up and have more sex, eat breakfast, exchange goodbyes and then I leave. No pressure.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 03:28 PM
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It sure is, my friend. What was even worse was that immediately after separating from my wife, my step-daughter invited her biological father to her high school graduation instead of me. The guy had never done anything for her and still owes $20,000 in child support.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 10:39 PM
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Met my step-daughter when she was barely 5 years old. Her father had left when she was 2 and then had just started getting visitation again. I raised her as my own for 13 years, teaching her how to ride a bike, helping with homework, helping her get a car and her license. She even called me Dad instead of her biological father. My ex began an affair with a coworker and I was pretty much excommunicated from my own family by way to false domestic allegations. And she turned my step-daughter agains…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 02:44 PM
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She began to make more money than me halfway through the marriage and I could tell she resented me for it. Then came the nightmare that is perimenopause. She began losing her patience with me and the kids at the drop of a hat. She started taking more of her adderall than she was supposed to which really amplified her anger toward anything, no matter how small. I got into better shape over the course of the last two years we were together, but she lost attraction to me. I found out it was because…
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 07:15 AM
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That's an apt description. I was so naive and couldn't fathom that someone I once treated so well was capable of such evil.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 04:42 AM
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About 6 months before we split up. Then she lied to authorities and had me kicked out so she could cheat with him in my own house.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 05:43 AM
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I thought the same thing for a long time about my ex until I realized she was only my supposed best friend because she had alienated me from all my old friends and family. Then when we split up, I had no one to turn to for help or at least support. She was a classic sociopath.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 05:05 PM
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Good for you! A great way to get over her is to get under someone else. I found this out after being severely depressed and then finding a girlfriend when I wasn't even looking for one. Feels good!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 07:05 PM
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Take my word for it. Call the police if she starts physically abusing you. If she's this unstable and you let it go on, she is likely to bring false allegations toward you the next time she doesn't get her way.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 04:28 PM
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Thank you. That's very kind of you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 03:32 PM
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She hit menopause and instead of trying TRT, she increased her Adderall dosage and drank more. Where she was once sweet and fun-loving to me and the kids, she became irritable and had no empathy no matter how much money I made or how clean I always kept the house. Soon, I found out she was cheating with a co-worker and that was it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 05:52 PM
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At least you escaped marriage relatively unscathed. My ex put me away for almost 2 years with false DV allegations. So now I'm in the dating world with a very recently acquired criminal record. But hey, at least I've always liked chubby girls and I've got that going for me!
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 04:41 AM
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She may be a decent person. Odds are, though, that either she's putting on a mask for you or she's not that connected to you and doesn't want to feel indebted in case she lets you go.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:28 AM
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This is EXACTLY what happened when my wife began to make more than me. I even met her when she was going through school and making minimum wage. As soon as she began making more, her demeanor changed completely. I was seen and treated as if I were below her.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:26 AM
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I probably can't talk you out of it, but I married a nurse and now I'm going through the worst time in my entire life from the ensuing divorce. She turned out to be a real sociopath and a serial cheater. I even served jail time over it. The stereotypes of that profession are there for a reason. I'd be very cautious.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:21 AM
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I just turned 40, as well. Not as tall as you at 5'11" but still have a nice 6-pack from going to the gym all the time, still have a full head of hair, crystal clear skin, a good job, etc. I don't really know what to make of the dating scene, either. I don't have any tattoos or piercings. I don't do drugs. So there go two things I don't have in common with many people. A huge problem is that women that were normally considered to be on the lower end of the totem pole 20 years ago have now been s…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/25 10:52 AM
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My ex wife constructed a similar situation that had nothing to do with reality. They all know what is and isn't true. After all, they're adults. Of course, society tells us that men are adults when it's our fault and women are adults when something is cause for celebration. She knows what will look good in court. And I can guarantee you that there will be tears and righteous indignation. It will be behavior that you've never seen from her and she will say things that are absolutely off the wall …
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 01:33 AM
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On a related note, is there any way to find out who the guy is that is living with your child if you and the ex can't have contact with each other?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/25 01:54 PM
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It really is no joke. I just spent 2 years in jail after false DV allegations. She took out a protective order so I would be kicked out of our home we worked so hard to get, just so she could move the new guy in that she was cheating with. I violated the order just to see my kids when she wasn't home and got caught. 12 years of marriage and my freedom down the drain. And we're still married on paper. Now I get to fight to even see my kids while starting over with nothing. How's that fair?
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 02:07 PM
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