I’m a woman, so I think I would know. If I was dancing with a guy and he disappeared and came back with a drink for himself, I’d consider that a clear sign I should leave. If he’s not considerate enough to grab me a drink, he’s probably not considerate in general. Red flag number one.
Second this! If there was no kiss on date 1 or 2, I wouldn’t be going on dates 3, 4 and 5. It doesn’t show “class” it shows that you are uninterested and don’t desire her.