Ruftup Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do women actually prefer "older" guys? I think what women want is “perceived” maturity. I think we see the trend of women pursuing older men because an older man seems like they’ve finished growing. But then you hear cases where the older guy is actually still a man baby and the outer shell of a mature man was a facade It makes sense. An older man is probably more likely to be emotionally mature than a guy in his early 20s. Doesn’t mean thats always the case though	/r/seduction	13/12/25 03:45 AM
13	The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power Bro wrote a manifesto instead of going to the gym. Big bad lady break your heart?	/r/seduction	09/12/25 06:43 AM
24	How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy? Lol I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who was such a walking stereotype. You’re literally the nice the girl that’s dating the asshole/player only for you to get your heart broken later on and then ask yourself “why can’t meet a nice guy”. Re-read your own post. A person that treats you this way and plays games with you to manipulate you to feel something for him is what you’re describing. Obviously he’s gonna pump and dump you. Tbh, he’s probably fucking other women Just accept the fact that t…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 04:26 AM
2	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? How bout put yourself in their shoes? I see some nervous awkward looking guy approach me. Already I’m on guard because he is bigger than me. Absolutely no clue if he’s going to assault me, show me his dick, or ask me out. I’ve got my own expectations of how I see men approaching women and I see it in the more “Prince Charming” way: open, warm, friendly, and confident Oh he’s talking to me. Doesn’t seem so bad but he’s stumbling over his words. Still unsure of his goal but I think hes trying to g…	/r/seduction	03/08/22 07:03 PM
7	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? From what I’m seeing here, you actually seem a little sexist in your view towards women. Not in the “women suck” kind of way, but you’re assuming all women are these delicate little flowers. STOP PUTTING WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL They are people like you and me. Your biggest fear is that you’re worried about creeping them out and making them uncomfortable? That is some of the most narcissistic shot I’ve ever heard. As if your behaviour is the most important thing in their life. It’s not. Your actions …	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:53 PM
1	Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done? Dodged a bullet it seems. Think of it this way: if you pursued a relationship with this girl, you would probably be seeing the friend quite a lot more	/r/seduction	28/01/22 09:51 PM
11	Treat yourself as if you were someone worth fighting for. I appreciate this post a lot. I'm in a huge depression spiral rn and feeling the most insecure in my life so far. I've been lurking this sub and other similar ones trying to find advice on how to improve. I see the advice and it's helpful. But then I don't use it because im so defeated in my own self pity I just think "what's the point?" It's weird, because I've read other posts elsewhere about loving yourself, but it never clicked for me then. Maybe i just needed to hear some harsh words for it…	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/21 11:16 AM
6	She's looking for a man who is "motivated to be better" lol! I guess bio-dad isn't Tbh tho, if you’re a guy who’s at least in your twenties, you’re playing with fire going for girls 18-20 on tinder. If I even get an inkling that someone might still be a teenager I get super grossed out	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/03/20 04:49 PM
23	She's looking for a man who is "motivated to be better" lol! I guess bio-dad isn't That’s exactly it. I knew 15 year olds in high school posing as 18-20 years olds on tinder	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/03/20 07:39 PM