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| 1893 | Thought this belonged here 😉 | FDS HUMOR | RufusLaButte | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:59 PM |
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| 174 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeThe sad thing is really that there are plenty of educated women who fall into the more “conservative” side of the political spectrum when it comes to things like foreign and economic policy, who also have an unwavering belief in a woman’s right to choose and does not buy into religious conservatism’s view of women. Those women are all over academia and corporate America, they are not really rare, and usually consider themselves political independents. On an elite scale, think of women like Jenni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:05 PM |
| 54 | Tell me you have internalized misogyny without telling me you have internalized misogyny.Her stupid condescending smile through all of it (that she actually knows is bullshit but “sounds reasonable” to other hardcore pickmes). Miss me with this bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:44 PM |
| 124 | A bit of weaponized incompeDance“Traitors” - I love that!! Men cannot be feminists and I HATE the word “ally”, “traitors to the patriarchy” has a nice ring to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 71 | At least the effort was acknowledged right? Too bad not co author.Wow that sounds like an extremely interesting course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:18 PM |
| 307 | At least the effort was acknowledged right? Too bad not co author.I always wonder how many of “man’s” achievements throughout history have really been women’s that were stolen. Probably a lot. Einstein comes to mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 27 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Looks like a potential Herman Cain Award recipient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 130 | Old but goldRe: men trying to marry abroad - a large part of my professional work deals with intercultural and international affairs, and I’m always baffled that these men (think the 90 day fiancé types) who think they’re importing a subservient, quiet, compliant bang maid and come to find that isn’t how the woman is at all. Women worldwide are actually waking up to this shit, plus women in poorer or more conservative countries are used to a certain social structure that expects the man to heavily provide, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:38 AM |
| 144 | Thoreau - the baby manI love to see a good Thoreau bashing. Like most men his biggest resource was his audacity. I have a degree in the humanities and studied a lot of English literature but did not learn these details about him until after my undergrad. I was not a super fan of Thoreau and would have loved to drag him in class lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Lysistrata has entered the chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 36 | Channeling this energy today.Mid-30s here and have just been coming into this feeling in the last couple of years. It is SO great. So freeing if you let it be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.I’ve always thought that was played as fairly satirical? Hadn’t ever taken a listen to that in particular, just always loved her as a guest on other shows & improv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 515 | Why you should NEVER react to a man's mind games/shit testsI’m in my mid 30s so I’ll cop to maybe being out of touch with the youths but…I’ve traveled extensively, met tons of women in my life, have always had a big diverse circle of friends, coworkers, and acquaintances, and I cannot imagine any woman I’ve ever known reacting like this to something like this. I could be wrong. But this smells fake. Smells like scrote fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:17 PM |
| 15 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.I love TH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 29 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.THIIIIIS. If you’re a comedy fan or want to check out some better quality lady comedians check out one of my earlier comments with recommendations. There’s much better out there than this crap because women are actually hilarious when they don’t pigeon hole their comedy into this BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:06 PM |
| 69 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.I am a HUGE comedy fan (I even did stand up for a bit in my early 20s, just for fun and I was actually kind of good at it, but I have a real career and comedy is a late night hobby that I’m too old to actively do in my city anymore, lol). I can’t stand Nikki, Whitney, Iliza, etc. I don’t follow their comedy. If any FDS ladies want better quality lady comedians to follow, I suggest people like Chelsea Peretti, Lauren Lapkus, Tawny Newsome, Nicole Byer, June Diane Raphael, Lennon Parham, etc. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 11 | Are we clear? Any questions?I could absolutely support this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 52 | Are we clear? Any questions?This is me. Very short story time. When I was 22 and finishing university, I was the victim of a home invasion and attempted rape. I was able to fight him off hand to hand (once I started fighting, back he ran from the apartment fairly quickly - I’m lucky af). He was a complete stranger from another city who apparently creeped around my university town. He was only caught and prosecuted because there happened to be a HVM sitting on my neighbor’s porch waiting to give them an early morning ride t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:15 PM |
| 49 | Are we clear? Any questions?💯- I can definitely agree with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 188 | Are we clear? Any questions?I’m sorry, I think we should absolutely be allowed to disagree about guns. Statistically, having a gun in the home is far, far more dangerous for women and children than not having one. I’m fine with whatever other people want to do, but I’m hugely anti-gun based solely on statistics and research (with a bit of my own personal experience mixed in). If it makes you feel safer, have at it, but not all women feel this way and their feelings are absolutely backed up by research. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 16 | Integrity is the pinnacle of being high valueI expect any man I’m with to protect and stand up for me, absolutely. However, I firmly believe violence is ONLY acceptable as self defense - woman, man, anyone. I would want to see the man I was with confronting someone who did such a thing as you described, but in that scenario I would more want him to quickly let the other man know “not fucking cool asshole” and then spend the rest of his time attending to me or helping me reorient myself or extracting me from the situation. I would, in no un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 41 | Pickmeisha is not like the other girls, so she’ll only befriend men when they only want to be her friend so they can fuck herOh believe me I know. I recently left behind the last one of these kinds of lingering friendships during the pandemic. Same shit, she’d go from talking crap about how our one friend will “probably of course get pregnant around her wedding time” (meaning the friend won’t be in “ideal” shape to be a bridesmaid) and then out of a different side of her mouth talk about how people always talked shit about her behind her back. I used to always get so worried she thought I was talking about her too (I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 115 | Pickmeisha is not like the other girls, so she’ll only befriend men when they only want to be her friend so they can fuck herWhat does she think she is? Is she telling on herself here? She’s describing 100% pickme behavior so it’s total projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 06:45 PM |
| 7 | What's everyone's MBTI type?ENFJ-A! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Don’t fall for the illusion of control. You will never truly know your partner, and you can never make yourself 100% safe - you can only react to what you know.Such and important observation. It’s equally or (imho) more important to be able to recognize and repel the bad stuff away from you as soon as you can. That’s where you have actual control. Other people being attracted to you? Not in your control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 20 | Don’t fall for the illusion of control. You will never truly know your partner, and you can never make yourself 100% safe - you can only react to what you know.Absolutely. LOA is a dressed up, woo-woo version of the common sense human wisdom/experience that “intentionally doing something to get what you want will usually net you greater results than doing nothing.” Bang on with your point about inequality. I started researching LOA because I noticed how many annoying and ignorant wealthier people in my circle were using it to blame poor people for their situations. I abhor pseudoscience and I judge wealthy, stupid/ignorant people incredibly harshly and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 5 | What to do when your friend is being emotionally or physically abusedThat’s amazing, what a great person in your life. Sounds almost like a movie honestly!!! Like You’ve Got Mail but actually empowering lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 65 | Don’t fall for the illusion of control. You will never truly know your partner, and you can never make yourself 100% safe - you can only react to what you know.I really can’t stand that “law of attraction” stuff. the Secret is based entirely on the (non-scientist) author’s misunderstanding of quantum physics and energy and it’s honestly a ton of harmful mumbo jumbo that the happiness and self help industry has turned into a phenomenon and helped legitimize. It’s all part of the cult of toxic positivity and I absolutely do not recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 50 | Streamer does 6% of the housework, leaves everything else to his gf🤮This is so embarrassing. Why is this man advertising that he has no self respect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 47 | Defending yourself against men who want you to be a pickmeBefore my brother turned his life around and more or less “saw the light” on many things (we were all raised in a very conservative and rural area in our country and he went into the military very very young) - I had actually blocked him from my social media and stopped speaking with him. The straw that broke the camels back was when I saw him and his military buddies joking and commenting on social media on really fucked up story (unsure if it was true or not) about a woman who basically tricke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:36 PM |
| 16 | Mother-son bondsTo my brother’s credit, he’s really turned himself and his life around since he got divorced (he went from being a full on Trumper to now being totally embarrassed and regretful and talks about how stupid he feels). He’s still quite young and definitely not perfect, but I think my ex sister in law leaving him and having to deal with being away from his son has really, really woken him up. My sister and I try to be a good influence on him and tell him the shit that I know my parents won’t, and no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 81 | Mother-son bondsThis is also my mother. My brother was horrible to his ex wife (whom he married too young and too quickly and got pregnant right away - ahh, military life) but my mother INSISTED that my brother’s ex wife was “too demanding” “wouldn’t compromise” “wanted everything her way” meanwhile my brother was like on his way to alcoholism and was at the very LEAST extremely verbally abusive to his ex wife (I witnessed this myself). My mother wouldn’t acknowledge it at all. Probably cuz my dad is/was also a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 34 | Female octopuses throw things at males that want to mate with them and harass them 🤣. This is such a mood.Same, Octo-lady, same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 5 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?Same!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:14 PM |
| 5 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?I have a couple of dear friends who were in bad, long term situations (they kept it quiet from everyone until it blew up) and are now entering the dating world again, and I’ve been out of it for over a decade and I realized the advice here was super helpful in helping me help my girlfriends. I came to the sub initially because entertaining posts were popping up on my Reddit feed and I ended up sticking around because the basic advice here is so spot on and helpful and like I direct my single wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 89 | Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasureThis is so f****ing weird. Why does this exist? This might be a woman owned company but it’s solving a “problem” that a man made up. But also I’ve never known a man or woman IRL who actually complained about this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 08:01 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inOoof yikes actually really sorry about suggesting this. I totally understand, yes safety 100% first. I’ll just keep linking women IRL in need here lol. Also double ooof in realizing my username is pretty misleading, I’m a woman but just a huge Rufus Wainwright fan. I get why the mods are so careful about everything on here and it is appreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 14 | First date quick vetting tipsReally anything as long as it’s not an insecurity you actually have. Skinny/big ankles, short/long fingers, “crooked” smile, skinny/bushy eyebrows - people get insecure over weird things so just pick something that could be perceived as a “flaw” but that actually doesn’t bother you at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Have You Met Stupid People Who Are Praised as Brilliant in the Office? How to Harness This DynamicThis 💯. Excellent advice!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:18 PM |
| 18 | First date quick vetting tipsSomething like “I’ve always hated my small/large feet because it’s so hard to find good shoes” or something similar (as long as it’s not a real insecurity that you have). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What YOU do wrongI will also do my own search for it, but if you happen to have a link handy for that cartoon I would love to use it in some of the work that I do. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Check-inThis is a random thought I’ve been having - I feel like women need in-person groups (post covid obvs) to meet and discuss these kinds of things. I hate that I also immediately think about how those groups might be targeted, but at the end of the day I do think bringing some of these principles to women IRL groups/community could be really useful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenI can’t repeat it enough, If you’re part of a truly child-free couple, the man should be getting a vasectomy if he doesn’t already have one. The ease, danger, and recovery time is nothing compared to what is needed for female sterilization. Vasectomies are where it’s at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Dailymail degeneracyHard agree. This is a pass from me. Just reinforces those “woman is the relationship project manager” vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.Oh for sure. I’m almost always rocking 100% natural and untamed, but you really do got to trim things up a bit from time to time for your own comfort! I find during the summer months I’m more comfortable if I’m trimmed up but honestly I don’t think about it much until I start to notice it’s making me itchy/uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.This. My husband is 41, his attitude towards pubic hair when we got together was basically “I mean whatever you want to do, it’s your hair/body” because he didn’t want me to feel pressured into his preference - his preference being au natural & untamed lol. He finds the natural look/experience to be very erotic for exactly those reasons - because he’s attracted to ADULT WOMEN. At the same time, he also gets why I occasionally shave/groom down there especially during the summer months, it’s hones… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...Girl, get him in for that vasectomy stat. My husband had one before we met. The FREEDOM you will feel at never ever worrying that you’re pregnant will change your life & sex life. It’s phenomenal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Lmao Jennifer Lopez is literally starring in a RomCom called “marry Me” that is out next year with Owen Wilson. Also, Jennifer Anniston’s heyday may have been a decade ago, sure (IMDB backs up her output from roughly 2009-2012ish)…back when she was in her early 40s, lol. Not exactly a fresh 23 year old yet highly, highly bankable. Also lol @ the idea that a role only “counts” if it fits your specific parameters of what type of story a lead actress is featured in (BUH Buh buh that was a COMEDY!!!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?It’s crazy that you personally know 99% of women, quite an achievement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Access to better mates isn't enough to motivate people to grow upThis this this. Applies equally to men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Access to better mates isn't enough to motivate people to grow upThis is the only correct answer. My entire life has just been an exercise in trying to be a better person, mostly because I experienced a lot of abusive bullshit from family and early in my career and vowed never to be like that and not treat people in those ways. Doesn’t mean I act perfectly all of the time but the goal is always to be working to be better. I’ve also found that I’m genuinely so much happier when I’m both 1. Working towards my goals (which can be anything from career related to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proving_a_negative Lmao, are you in highschool? You aren’t even familiar with how basic logic works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Jennifer Aniston and Jennifer Lopez have entered the chat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?lmao at the dude trying to prove a negative. Zero logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?“Wait until she proves she’s not a slut”. Hey, has anyone ever told you that proving a negative is not an actual thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.I mean I would chuckle too (who doesn’t love a good laugh at a clown?) but then would block and delete. I’d also never ask a man to pay me back for a date because if he’s letting me pay in the first place he probably isn’t a position to pay me back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.So if after a first date a woman said to you in a very kind and honest way “thanks so much for the evening, but I don’t think we will work out long term. Good luck!” - that would be holding up their end of the deal according to your terms, correct? If so, I can get down with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 5 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Yes I’m sure that every time you don’t get hired for a job, it’s the company’s fault and not anything you may be lacking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 0 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.It’s funny that your first thought is “ok here’s your receipt” and not “what am I doing wrong that every single person is rejecting me after a first date?” Weird way to handle personal problems, making them someone else’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:41 PM |
| 8 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.What does that have to do with one date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Oh he’s far from perfect my friend, and he would be the first to say so. He just spent more of his time doing things that added to his life and made him an interesting person rather than obsessing over women who wouldn’t date him. Like, if you really think this is a crazy and unattainable list, I’d say perhaps you need to be more motivated. It takes work, sure, but like literally almost everything on that list is attainable for people committed to working at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Handsomeness is subjective. He’s also worked at it (I’ve seen his high school and college photos, lol) - the right dress and a decent haircut and grooming can do wonders for a man’s attractiveness. Also, yeah he has a great sense of humor because one of his many cool hobbies was comedy writing and stand-up, meaning, you know, things he actually worked to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.There is an epidemic of absent fathers. Start there instead of with the incredibly tiny number of (wealthy) women who have their shit together enough to have a child via the official sperm donor process. Otherwise, take it up with absent fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.My husband is 5’7, not wealthy (by US standards - he makes a solid middle class salary), healthy and in shape but not “jacked”. I find him very charismatic, but in a very down to earth and attainable way. Here is also the following: extremely handsome stylish practices basic hygiene above average intelligence has interesting hobbies is a good conversationalist respects women knows how to take care of himself and a household (knows how to cook, knows how to do laundry, clean, etc - and DOES his a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Same. I’m so glad I missed the era of app based dating, men online really freak me out these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Are you married and how many children do you have? Of course it’s not exhausting to look after just yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Because you used vulnerability as a tactic instead of actually, you know, doing work on yourself to understand how feelings and vulnerability operate in a healthy a person. I’ll give you a hint - it’s not something that people do to attract others. It’s something they do for themselves to better themselves. So I’m absolutely not shocked you didn’t get “results”. Emotionally intelligent people see right through that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.They don’t want to hear that it is actually about support with house/life work and emotional labor. It has to be about being “tall” or “conventionally attractive” or whatever other excuse used to avoid the fact that they need to do more and different kinds of work to be in a successful relationship with a modern women. I’m so, so lucky I found my husband who didn’t need to be convinced of any of this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Your use of the term “betabux” is a big cue to me that you spend at least some time in and also buy into “manosphere” BS, at least on some level. I screened aggressively for these attitudes before meeting my husband. I dismiss any man who buys into that type of misogyny so I’ll say good day to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.That is my point. It doesn’t matter how good or normal you think you are, build a nice life for yourself before you go asking to be inserted into someone else’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Your experience is not universal and yes there are enough men out there taking advantage of women in every single way in relationships to merit women having to specify and demand these things from their partners and aggressively vet for them. You would be extremely surprised what even conventionally “attractive” women have to put up with from men. I’m gonna need some sources to support that “99% of men would do this” thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.I mean, if your only experience comes from the world of modern online dating, I can’t help you. Except to say that your personal experience is not universal and plenty of heterosexual couples are enjoying mutually beneficial and loving relationships. I’m sorry that hasn’t been your experience, but maybe you should get offline and out into the real world to experience something different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.I opted out of the whole childbearing thing so i’m good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.All of the above. When I was single, I lived with either one other close girlfriend or a couple of friends. We’d divvy up bills, housework, do favors and errands for each other and generally just looked out for each other. We’d also be there for emotional support for each other when one of us was struggling with issues at work or with dating or family drama or whatever. Come to think of it, besides sharing bills, these are all things I’ve experienced in my female friendships regardless of living… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 8 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.You have no idea whether anyone besides yourself is “good” or “normal”, so maybe start with your perceptions. Plenty of “good” and “normal” women are just fine building a life by themselves if they don’t meet someone who they feel will add to their life. Perhaps men should take a page from that book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Because most women work full time outside of the home in Democratic countries now. So it would make sense that their responsibilities in other areas of the relationship would lessen. Like, honestly what is so god damned terrible about a couple who works full time splitting housework? It’s not like women just “stopped” doing everything they did before - they just added full time, income generating work on top of it. Also LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL if you think the average man in a hetero relationship takes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.To be fair, if you’re a woman, it depends a lot on where you live and how you were raised - I’m speaking in generalities as a middle class US woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Plenty of lesbians get by just fine without male emotional support. Yes I mean their friends and family - women typically create and maintain closer and longer lasting bonds in these networks. You’re welcome to not believe that, but that doesn’t make it any less true. It comes down to men not being able to fathom the idea that a woman could be perfectly happy without a heterosexual partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 03:52 PM |
| 8 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.I mean, it’s not. It’s how I chose my own husband (whom I also love deeply) - why would I partner with someone who offers me nothing? Why would my husband do the same? You need to be able to rely on your partner in order to have a real life, and yes that includes multiple facets of support including financial and emotional. Relationships that offer mutual, multi-faceted value and support are not transactional - they are healthy and sustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.Women do crave emotional support, but they are more likely to get that from their established networks already. It’s no secret that one of women’s top complaints in marriages is the lack of emotional support from their husbands, so it makes sense for women to rely more on their networks than take a chance on someone who is less likely to offer that support, and in the meantime possibly jeopardize their safety, finances, and happiness. Men do not generally establish those networks in the same way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 18 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.I will tell you how more and more women are learning to approach this market, and it’s really not an answer men tend to like. The average man is no longer in competition with other men for a woman’s time and attention - they are in competition with the quality of life a woman provides for herself as a single person. And honestly, it’s unfortunate, but a large number of men cannot offer a woman a quality of life that’s markedly better than or equal to the one that many women in democratic countri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 135 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Here’s how a man should react to your period: will respect whatever you want regarding sex when you have it (hate sex on your period? He won’t bother you for it! Like having sex during your period? He won’t be the tiniest bit grossed out and will enthusiastically join if he’s in the mood). understands it’s a literal physical burden on your body and depending on the woman, can be incapacitating and so he does everything he can to help you feel better and be more comfortable (THIS INCLUDES GOING T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:12 PM |
| 4 | OLD strat: what's yours?This. I also met my husband via OLD and this was largely my “strategy” to the extent I even had one - but this was also way back in the day before OLD was app based and MRAs had completely poisoned dating culture (pre-tinder, basically). somehow, that extra layer of having to manually log into a website on a computer seems to have, back then, provided just the tiniest bit more screening. I mean OLD has never been great as it is, but holy shit some of the stories I’ve heard on this sub have me co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 40 | Childfree women, have you been able to find HVM partners?This. My husband has two children from a previous marriage (he was raised in a very cult-y religious situation and so pressured into marrying very young, it’s a long story but both him and the ex wife got out and realized they were not suited to each other. It’s a super long story). He told me about his kids on the second date, I told him I didn’t want to have any children and he said that was cool because he had gotten a vasectomy and decided he didn’t want to have any more children so that his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 52 | guys who try for sex at the end of an obviously bad dateIm furious every time someone tries to use autism as an excuse for shitty male behavior. My husband is on the spectrum and took it upon himself long ago to learn how to not give off creeper vibes, observe social norms, and respect others. It makes me so angry because autistic people do not deserve to be represented like that and yet some men will try to co-opt any marginalized identity for their own ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Age Gap Relationships Discussion ThreadOnce again, based only on the text of your threads on here, the reason women don’t want you literally announces itself. It does not matter how you actually look. Women can sense what men like you are about, they don’t like it, and so they avoid you. It’s fairly simple and has nothing to do with your face - but calling yourself “average in looks” and blaming that for your lack of “success” in dating is a very convenient way for you to blame someone else your whole life. Women can sense these thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap Relationships Discussion ThreadIf you think that you can hide the fact that you are an “average straight male” in your OLD profile…I have some news for you. It’s cute that you think you are totally great at hiding your true self on OLD though, that makes me confident that you are a person with normal, good intentions!/s Also, you were born a straight male. The fact that you’re average is completely your own fault, and totally within your control. Stop blaming women for the consequences of your mediocrity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap Relationships Discussion ThreadEver wonder if there is a reason women don’t want to meet you? Because I’ve read your threads here and it’s obvious to me why women don’t want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadThe more common scenario is the bathtub. I’ve never, ever heard a woman complain about fucking throw pillows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:12 AM |
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