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| 2 | Repost: How some people are "naturally skinny"I think this is an excellant write up. My family has a history of anorexia also. Thank you very much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/26 08:35 PM |
| 11 | How to handle "dread game"When they go away for 2 months I would drop them. Consistency measures interest imo | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/26 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do men settle for and appear unhappy in their relationships so much?Aww thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 24 | Why do men settle for and appear unhappy in their relationships so much?Honestly, this is a classic case of people choosing the "predictable misery" of a life they checked out of years ago over the scary uncertainty of starting over. When people rush into the standard checklist—marriage, kids, mortgage—before they actually know who they are, they get trapped by the sunk cost fallacy. Instead of doing the hard work to fix their lives or leave cleanly, they stay for the comfort/status quo and use external validation as a coping mechanism. The fact that they criticized… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/26 09:35 PM |
| – | As an unattractive woman, will I never be loved because of my looks?I would post a photo and headshot in natural light and let us help | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/26 11:04 PM |
| -3 | Found 🚩 info about a guy I’m talking to- How bad is it?This is like 10 red flags. Too many. I would disconnect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/26 05:12 PM |
| 16 | All I wanted was to be a wife but now idk what to doIt only gets worse, not better. There is nothing lef5 to salvage, just more abuse to experience. Please don't get pregnant with him, start over and focus on vetting better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Giving up on finding a husband as I approach 30This, I need to work on my men filter | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Single and Happy? Are they?Living Apart Together (LAT) goes into that. I am introverted too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/26 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Single and Happy? Are they?Many of those happily single women have had a least one serious romantic relationship, maybe even several and they do not want anymore especially if they cohabitated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/26 12:14 AM |
| 3 | getting badly anxious about aging out of my mid-20sI would look into Alison Armstrongs dating advice | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Widow of 4, provider husband passed last yearFelons and assault records are not good husbands. Listen, your husband just died. You are heavily pregnant and about to give birth. Take a year and a half post birth to focus on you, your new baby and your kids before dating. There is no rush and you will make better decisions if you wait. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/26 10:45 PM |
| 11 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billMaybe when you asked if he wanted to split it you signalled to him that you saw him as a friend. He said no, because he saw you as romantic, but then he conceded when the time came. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Staying With HimYou can be by going to therapy. I did it. And I come from the gutter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/26 07:33 PM |
| 20 | Staying With HimCheating is abuse, and abuse is not love High value women do not love men who don't love them. Break your bond to this guy, go to therapy, learn to love yourself, and find a man who loves you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I’m 23F and my bf 23m shouts at me often and has anger issuesAgreed with everything you said. The former gets worse and worse actually. This man is showing you he doesnt want you anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Am I(20f) being too naive about a man I’m seeing?Men dont respect women who cant put their foot down though | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/26 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Am I(20f) being too naive about a man I’m seeing?I feel its a red flag if they are initally only interested in my body | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/26 09:17 AM |
| 6 | Am I(20f) being too naive about a man I’m seeing?A) he askes if you want to see his apartment on a first date, this signals he is interested in your body and not interested in you long term B) he has a 2 year time limit on being in the same country as you. he likely doesnt want to start something serious. i had a male neighbor try to date me and he was clear about moving to a new city in 9 months. i avoided it, met someone else and he got a different girlfriend. 9 months later i heard their fight when she realized he was moving to a new city a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/26 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there any way I can get him to want to pursue a relationship with me?An hours drive would mean a long distance relationship, which I dont do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Hi! Do men prefer hot or cute?Guys want to marry natural beauty I will let you imagine what they want to do to bombshells Its important to be comfortable with who you are though, and if that is a bombshell then so be it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/26 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Met a guy, slept together, now communication is confusing should I meet him again?When things get confusing he isn't your guy. The guy that wants you won't confuse you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/26 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Joining with a high paying job, and grew up without a fatherI am a Type A woman and I was dumped by every Type A man for not being feminine enough. My most sucessful relationships were with Type B men that also had the capacity to lead. It is refreshing to let someone else lead while I relax and offer a hand or two. I am still Type A at work and on my own projects. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/26 03:40 PM |
| 4 | I'm consistently being called "independent" by men I go on first dates with and I'm wondering if this is pushing them away and how to change thatYes most pHd programs are more like working. You were basically hired by the University to perform for them. I ran into this problem with men too when I was younger. In general, young men want to be the "bigger" person when relating to their woman. They want to be needed and to have something to give to you. When you have a PhD they dont feel that protective over you or turned on by giving to you. You also may doing better then they are. In general women mature faster then men. You are looking f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 26 | I'm consistently being called "independent" by men I go on first dates with and I'm wondering if this is pushing them away and how to change thatIts a good thing when men say you are interesting, its not ideal when they say you are independent. I have a phd myself and its a lot easier to talk with men who also have higher education. Like we speak the same language | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/26 11:14 AM |
| 5 | FIL cut my toddlers hair behind my backI would raise the issue with my husband and request that he set boundaries with his family members. I have gone low contact with his parents. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/26 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Do men really treat older women as they describe on the internet?The men who spew that viriol aren't worthy of a good woman and likely will never be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/26 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Is 19 and 25 way to big of an age gap?This. Too much can go wrong investing in such a young man unless he is totally in love with you | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/26 03:05 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with some manosphere guys degrading women?From my experience those guys churn through women and never learned to love. They usually end up alone at 60. Men receive from giving. Some never learn how to give. The men you are talking about are very immature. Even if they did manage to fall in love and start a marriage, there is no guarentee that they could keep their marriage intact. I have seen men in that community glorify assault and rape of women. I do not think that is true redpill. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/26 03:35 AM |
| 3 | I’ve been seeing an older man. I don’t know what he’d want from me, or what meaningful contribution I could be making to his life beyond what he already hasI think its important for you to understand and get clear on what a woman offers a man in general, and what specifially a woman your age and your position offers a man in his age and position. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/26 11:24 PM |
| 13 | How to be a good wife to an angry husband?Addicts create chaos in their life that affects everyone close to them. It also prevents adults from maturing. They stay stuck in a immature state. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/25 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I want to escape my body sometimes..Yeah, and they might be able to point you to a place where csa survivors can talk freely. My mom was one. She was a toddler. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I want to escape my body sometimes..This sounds a lot like PTSD (I have had it) Which means the problem is not in your boyfriend or your current relationship. The problem is hidden in your past relating to beds and being sexual with men My trauma was not around sexual things but I imagine there is a subreddit for women who have experienced sexual trauma at a young age. The only thing that helped my PTSD was mind body therapies that focused on healing PTSD. Sensorimotor, somatic healing, etc. Female Liscensed Masters in Social Work… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/25 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Do most men really want a woman that brings them peace or do they like the chaos?If a man keeps rejecting me and then coming back to me I end it by blocking him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/25 09:00 PM |
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