Ruin369 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Didn’t use protection One time? I'm sure she won't get pregnant. I'd be worried about STDs, though. I haven't used protection for over a year, and she hasn't gotten pregnant.	/r/seduction	17/03/25 05:13 AM
1	Woman wants our first date to be at a college bar? I went bar hopping(college town) in the evening of my first date with my fiancé. Just go in with the expectation that you'll both be paying for your own drinks. This levels of the powe dynamic. If she wants more drinks later in the night, offer to pay once she's lossened up. If there's a dance floor, ask to dance. I've also seen the pattern to not stay at the same bar all night with her. Try and bar hop, which changes the setting snd people you are around. Also, if you guys get hungry, add in so…	/r/seduction	22/02/25 09:08 AM
–	Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides. Yes. My fiancé and I met when we I was in school and had no money. I had to quit school, but she was always there and supportive. Once you meet someone you truly love, all the materialistic stuff doesn't matter. I never dated for 25 years because I was willing to wait for someone I really bonded with emotionally and intellectually. This is a testament to how much I value who she is as a person. Before we met, we both didn't care about hooking up or sex. We both talk about how we were asexual too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 06:21 AM
2	Can somebody explain this? She wanted attention at the club but didn't want anything more. It could be because she was inebriated and once sobered up wasn't feeling it. This is really common and will happen again. Don't overthink it or think you did anything wrong.	/r/seduction	14/02/25 08:37 PM
11	It's crazy how much of a different texting her less makes A lot of guys message my fiancé whenever she posts a story in insta. We both look at the messages too and laugh. A lot of emoji, "heys", or "you're sexy". It's funny too because her profile makes it clear she's with someone. It's crazy the amount of guys will hit on a girl when she's clearly taken. It must be a "chellege" or they just think she will run to the nearest dick as if I'm not satisfying her. We work together, and a couple of our co-workers have even messaged her. There's a queue of gu…	/r/seduction	17/01/25 05:09 AM
1	Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls. Im gathering from your post, desperation, bitterness, and low confidence Women can recognize these from a mile away.	/r/seduction	17/01/25 05:02 AM
1	How do you text with girls on insta? If you already sort of knew them, it could work. E.g following from an event you met them at or met them somewhere else, then followed. Randomly messaging a stranger? Good luck. I met my fiancé through Instagram	/r/seduction	16/10/24 03:51 PM
2	Love bombers that suddenly ghost you You were the 2nd guy	/r/seduction	09/10/24 07:54 PM
3	The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die already Being nice is literally just a normal human trait. If you have to say you're nice, what does that really say about you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:54 PM
0	Would you date an absolutely mediocre person? Absolutely, not. Why would you do that? You only are on this planet once! You might as well try better than mediocre	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 04:11 PM
3	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties Going alone has a lot of benefits. It gets you out of your shell and brings confidence up over time. You are learning to start convos, holding them, and being an overall interesting person. I've gone to bars alone hundreds of times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 03:05 AM
5	Men need to learn to be happy being single So men that are happier in a relationship than being single, are damaged?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:24 PM
5	Ladies, when hooking up with a guy, what’re some tells/signs that he’s inexperienced? Porn generally doesn't teach about foreplay though and isnt a accurate representation of sex. We are talking about virgin men, right? Or just inexperienced? My point was moreso that guys will skip over that and just go to PIV. It's not that they are shitty. It's just that they don't know that you should make her feel good before you even do PIV.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 08:12 PM
-7	Ladies, when hooking up with a guy, what’re some tells/signs that he’s inexperienced? He doesn't do anything to pleasure her. You should make her orgasm at least once before y ou even stick it in. Obviously, all women are different down there, but the idea stands. Put her first. New guys get so excited they totally forget this step and rush to PIV	/r/seduction	02/09/24 05:33 PM
14	Tips on getting someone out of your league Does she feel the same way about you? You are framing this as If you are soulmates / already in a relationship with her. If you aren't, you need to take a step back because this is how you get really hurt and end up looking like a fool.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 03:45 AM
7	Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them? Before I met my fiancé she went through a phase where she hated men. This was due to a string of abusive and cheating exes, so she grew to hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 12:55 PM
1	Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating? In person always. I never had good luck with apps even though I'm pretty attractive and tall. Its ironic though, I met my fiancé by DMing her on insta!	/r/seduction	24/08/24 09:22 PM
1	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? "Revenge" ? As in FOMO?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:32 AM
2	If the government passed a law saying all premarital sex had to be prostitution (even for only a small $ amount), I think men would lose all interest in it Both women and men like sex. What a strange post. I'm guessing OP is very religious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 09:56 PM
1	Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy. It's not even enjoyable when you aren't good at it. I really started to enjoy sex once I began researching, how to eat a girl out, and a lot of practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 09:52 PM
2	Decent car for getting girls? The only thing you'll attract with a car is other men, and if expensive enough, gold diggers. Pretty pointless endeavor trying to use a car to pull imo	/r/seduction	23/05/24 06:25 AM
2	I love it when they play hard to get but you still win A bit of an oddball approach: Did they ask for any of your socials? Why do you think they didn't?	/r/seduction	13/05/24 02:28 AM
3	Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies? I don't see any point in doing it in the bathroom. Just go home	/r/seduction	11/05/24 08:11 AM
3	How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game? Dating career started at 25(when I actively started dating) and met my wife at 27. Though I met her more out of sheer luck. I still took it upon myself to message her and the rest is history :)! Though this IS a seduction sub, and seduction doesn't end when you are with someone - so take that as you will.	/r/seduction	28/03/24 02:04 AM
3	Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it? I had 0 game in most my teen years. Like, didn't even bother speaking/trying with girls. At 25 I got pretty good at it. At 27, I met my wife. You are not "old" OP! Your brain isn't even fully developed yet....	/r/seduction	17/03/24 11:29 PM
3	In an exclusive relationship, now what? This relationship sounds like it doesn't have longevity. If during the "honeymoon" period, you already have to ask these questions	/r/seduction	13/03/24 04:24 AM
3	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym It's more of an observation than anything. I don't think everybody here is a incel, but I'm going off posts I see here(skill level, not calling people here incels mods lock/remove incel posts). A lot of posts on this sub are people butchering basic social interactions, poor takes, etc. I guess people are on here for improvement for a reason, so it makes sense. Im still here to read posts for fun, and maybe still learn a little(I'm in a relationship/have a fiance). Seduction doesn't just apply to…	/r/seduction	05/03/24 07:59 PM
51	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Hard Truth: The people on this sub are not proficient enough to do this(which is why they are here in the first place). so there is a bit of bias here to why people say you cant approach women in the gym, because they never could. Only a small group of men can pull this off, and chances are most of them are not on this sub looking for help, because they don't need it. I never approached women in the gym because I didn't need to. I had a large enough social-circle to where I could meet women in o…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 02:36 AM
1	There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me? Yeah. Don't get in a relationship just to be in a relationship. That's how dead bedrooms and unhappy marriages start. You're still pretty young too, just a heads up, I met my girl when I was 27. I spent all those years improving myself as a person to make myself more desirable. Its funny, my gf and I spoke about this. Had we met at an earlier point in time(teens/early 20s) we probably wouldn't have dated because we were totally different people back then. We met at the perfect time to where we k…	/r/seduction	29/02/24 07:11 AM
0	There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me? I had flings and did sleep with those people when I was younger, but I never got into an exclusive relationship with them since there wasn't a spark, and they all fizzled out. Getting experience and shopping around is a good thing. It helps a lot with experience because having 0 experience in your late 20s is going to be a turn-off to most women. When I say never settle, I don't mean don't date. You need to date to get experience. But don't jump to the first girl that shows interest if you aren'…	/r/seduction	29/02/24 05:22 AM
3	There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me? Never settle. never! I was single for 95% of my life. Even though some women tried, I was looking for that spark I found her, and she's my soulmate. But this was only possible since I refused to settle, even if that meant I would be single for 5, 10, 15 more years.	/r/seduction	29/02/24 03:06 AM
2	Can I get some advice? Cycle of Porn, ED and no girls Hey man, I used to watch porn and also had ED issues with two girls. Quit the porn all together. It really messes with your drive and dopamine system. I also take Tonkat Ali, which helps I find. Every time you watch porn you are rewiring your dopamine system a little more. It causes a lot of damage, IMO. Stop masterbating. This and porn go together. Have you considered that maybe you need a romantic attraction/strong chemistry to get a erection? I discovered this after some time. Now that I have…	/r/seduction	27/02/24 08:37 AM
1	Girl says her schedule Is unpredictable It's a soft no. If someone really wants to be with you, they will make time. Nobody is busy every waking moment of the day.	/r/seduction	22/02/24 07:33 AM
1	Pilates classes They will sense this from a mile away that you are there to meet women and not actually pilates...	/r/seduction	22/02/24 03:52 AM
2	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! It's not that it gives fuckboy vibes, the thing is you have to incrementally escalate. A fucboi would just push for sex and not show any other signs of affection. You want to ask questions and show interest to the level she is then up the ante a bit. For instance, talking and texting, then hanging out is the first level. -Holding hands? Okay good. But keep being engaged and talking. Even stuff like sitting closely, touch.dont freeze up and start acting differently. -On my GF and I's first date(w…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 08:09 AM
16	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! You had 4 dates and never escalated? There is your answer.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 07:43 AM
1	Valentine’s Day just reminds me how lonely I am every year I agree, I like how you said the change won't happen overnight. For me, I really started making changes at 21(going to bars alone). I was at my peak at 27, before I met my soulmate. For me, it was 5 years of constant work. These things take time.	/r/seduction	16/02/24 10:28 PM
5	Valentine’s Day just reminds me how lonely I am every year It doesn't even have to be until your 30s either. When I was OPs age, I didn't have nearly as much experience as I do now. All my friends asked girls to prom, and I just went alone with the group. Once I turned 21, I started going to bars by myself and learned to speak and talk to women(but don't use alcohol as a crutch). I'm 27 now and have had a ton of experience with women. I've now met my soulmate and love of my life that i plan on marrying. Things get better. 20 is literally just the beginn…	/r/seduction	16/02/24 09:25 PM
20	How to escalate flirting to sexual questions when I myself am a Virgin? Why are you asking those questions at all? The ONLY case where these questions are acceptable are if you are having sex already, which you aren't.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 05:30 AM
3	Sometimes when I ask for a girl's number, she would reject me but insted offer her social media info. What would you do in this situation? Being pushy is an immediate turn-off. You take the rejection and move on....	/r/seduction	31/01/24 10:36 PM
2	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy Ask her to send all her single girlfriends your way It works, but not like you would think	/r/seduction	17/12/23 05:45 AM
1	I think a good solution for women would be to stop having sex with men. "If I can't have it, nobody can!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 07:56 AM
1	Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women? Of course, its possible to have female friends. Not exactly sure what the first part of the title is saying? I look up to and admire intelligence	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 12:51 AM
2	Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and age. Men are just mad that the game difficulty got cranked up due to the advent of social media/OLD/internet. And that's not a bad thing necessarily. I'm a 25 Y/O man btw	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 05:23 PM
2	How do guys pick which girls to go for if most girls kind of look the same? Ha, I found this title really funny and relatable anybody that has been to, or lived in Boulder Colorado knows what I am talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:39 AM
1	Is dating actually fun for you? eh, Its just not on my priority list right now. It takes effort and without a doubt can impose detrimental effects on mental health but also very positives ones if you find the right person. I would rather work on myself than have to deal with another person who I have to appeal to, communicate, find medians, sharing finances, ect. No thanks, not right now. I am currently a student and in a weird spot(26 M). I find not dating until my 30s completely fine. I want my education done, finances…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:33 AM
3	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy Seriously!!! Hookup culture is so glamorized, its really not that great imo. I don't even do hookups anymore. I've lost all interest after I realized how I thought about these experiences afterwards... not memorable at all. The past few times I've had ED issues and the overall experience wasn't even enjoyable. I've come to terms that someone I can be intimate with has to be someone that I know personally and have build a relationship with. Hookups often don't allow this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 02:59 AM