RummedHam Archive

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1	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... It depends on what you mean when you say "agree" with. I agree that other people understand that there is a problem with some perceived cultural norms and they aim to fix the problem they precieved. I believe their perception is wrong and is formed from low resolution understanding of, a lot of things honestly. So my solution is to guide them to the right problem, instead of suggesting the problem doesn't exist at all. You could argue the "severity" of the "problem" being insignificant, sure. Bu…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 05:14 PM
0	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Arn't you precious. I used to get upset when people strawman and misrepresent me like this, but its starting to just become funny to me now. Since basically your entire post is just nonsensical garbage you created using low resolution representations of my point, and reality for that matter, its really not worth it for me to individually respond to it. If you would like to try again without the obtuse levels of misrepresentation, I would be happy to discuss something with you. Maybe your problem…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 04:39 PM
0	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Except "boys should not cry" is not "toxic" nor is it in any way related to masculinity. So its kind of absurd to suggest as much. (The same could be said about basically everything you listed out) To break down the notion that "boys should not cry" is essentially "men should not develop their feminine side". This is not masculinity in of itself. The notion that men should not develop their feminine is mostly correlated with men who are/were soldiers or hunters. It was evolutionarly essential fo…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 04:07 PM
1	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Regardless of whether the words are recognized as legitimate or not, like most things, they are broadly prescribed well beyond any reasonable sense of their meaning. The language was meant to be used to manipulate and control, which is why they often have very malleable definitions or applications. Im pretty sure you have skipped over this more than 2 times now. Is it because that paragraph shatters the low resolution representation you use to classify those you disagree with (or atleast those w…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 03:42 PM
-1	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Absolutely. Too much compassion and empathy is a really bad thing. It stifles development and growth (especially in children. Its the oedipal mother. The helicopter/bulldozer parents). Also too much compassion for people who are not your family/friends is also not a good thing. Not only is it impossible to hold together a familial bond with a large number of people (psychology speaking), but theres also the fact you make yourself far too vulnerable if you do that with everyone you meet. Having c…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 03:14 PM
-3	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Is this copy pasta? I dont even understand anything what you just said. It sounds like incoherent rambling. None of what you listed could be construed to mean toxic masculinity/femininity. I dont believe in the terms, but if you are going to use them or talk about them, then you should use the most strict kind of definition. I define the words by taking the definition of toxic and the psychological and philosophical definition of what constitutes masculinity and femininity. The results of such c…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 02:45 PM
3	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Did you not even attempt to read my post?	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 02:29 PM
1	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... I never claimed those traits to be negative. Aggressiveness and assertiveness are positive traits. Without aggression and assertiveness, we would not be able to act in the face of adversity and danger. Those 2 things make up what becomes courageousness. Also, none of what you listed are feminine traits... honestly, they are not traits at all. If anything they would be things more closely resembling mental or social illnesses. Honestly, your entire reply is just as toxic, hateful and dumb as your…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 02:29 PM
-1	Feminist says she'd love it it popular YouTuber - Isaac Butterfield - killed himself, basically condoning male suicide, just because she disagreed with his views. And they say toxic femininity doesn't exist... Toxic masculinity (if you would recognize it as a real word at all) would only refer masculine traits taken to the extreme. Things such as aggression, assertiveness, competitiveness. Toxic femininity (again if you consider the words to exist) would only refer to feminine traits taken to the extreme. Things such as compassion, empathy, nurturing. Both masculine and feminine traits when taken to their extremes are bad. If her behavior would have to be classified as one of them, it would be toxic m…	/r/MensRights	22/01/19 01:48 PM