| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 64 | Between two women, one is a Nigerian-American, one is Nigerian | General | Rumpelstiltskin98 | /r/MensRights | 15/11/25 07:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | Why is Women's Attraction for Men Often so Absolute?Yes, social status is all they care about right | /r/MensRights | 30/07/26 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Wife had an “Emotional Affair”, now wants to fix the marriage. See details for full context.She’s going to keep you hooked on reconciliation until she builds enough leverage to flip the story on you, paint you black and run a smear campaign while at it. This point should be the most careful you should ever be, pay attention to all her actions, never react, make sure you document everything. Video, audio everything. It could save your life, literally | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 3 | I love my wife with my whole heart, but she wants a divorce.Of course because you love her with your whole heart and she’s aware | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/26 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Three years after divorce - alternative point”Date, date, date. The best thing I did for myself was to have multiple short term relationships. It made me realize my ex wasn’t special at all, and also people get attracted to each other and sick of each other very fast, within 3-4 months, so it’s no wonder that me and my ex got sick of each other after 20 years” This is the part that I always try to open the eyes of many here to, your ex or stbx is not special, your new one isn’t either, stop pedastalising them by thinking “oh I’m so lucky … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 11:18 AM |
| 3 | My son said his Mom said this the other day…and it bothers me but really shouldn’t by nowShe’s really just an ordinary human, having the mindset that you’re lucky to find her will lock you into pedestalizing her, which is a slippery slope towards her eventually treating you like a fan. That mentality never ends well. A word is enough for the wise | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 11:50 PM |
| 4 | My son said his Mom said this the other day…and it bothers me but really shouldn’t by nowNice story, but this part got me “I got pretty lucky to find her imho.” This is not a good ideology to have about your partner, it’s scarcity mindset and will not lead you anywhere good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | She just changed overnight[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Contrary to popular belief, I think the things that most lonely, single men miss most is not the sex, rather, it is the daily companionship.Whatever delusion rocks your boat good sir | /r/MensRights | 04/07/26 08:59 PM |
| 13 | Contrary to popular belief, I think the things that most lonely, single men miss most is not the sex, rather, it is the daily companionship.Exactly | /r/MensRights | 04/07/26 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Contrary to popular belief, I think the things that most lonely, single men miss most is not the sex, rather, it is the daily companionship.Speak for yourself good sir. I only miss sex, the companionship is an illusion it’s not real anyway so I never needed it | /r/MensRights | 04/07/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?Don’t bother with these men. They will keep paying for rejecting the truth | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 02:37 PM |
| -6 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?Says the man that his wife is cheating on | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Marooned in HawaiiWhat kind of an advice is this??? What’s wrong with men on reddit, are all of you this eternal pushovers? Christ | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 11:06 AM |
| -6 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?This is exactly the same reason why 100% of the men in this group are always cheated on and divorced by their wives. All of you lack emotional independence. Even if you marry another one she’d still leave you because you need her more, and women can smell this need from a mile away. When will you men ever learn | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Just filed after 15 years... and 5 years after posting on r/SurvivingInfidelityTbh, you deserve everything. Enjoy your suffering in peace | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Just need to vent about my ex because I have no one to talk about itMy good man, she’s poking and prodding you for reactive abuse. She wants you to react, please keep your cool and ensures she leaves the house as soon as possible. Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Four years out of winning my divorce and I cannot find peace.Thank you so much for finally saying this truth the way it is. Every time I come across a post from men on this group, I’m reminded of how much majority of the men don’t want to accept this simple reality. They keep making the same mistakes over and over, and then come here to whine | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 10:18 PM |
| 0 | 7 year post divorce update: I remarried yesterday and I have found my peace.The next heartbreak will hit like crack buddy. You are clearly not healed and lack the level of self awareness to even see it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 07:17 PM |
| 0 | 7 year post divorce update: I remarried yesterday and I have found my peace.Not to be that guy but you sincerely need women too much. It’s been just one year and she’s already your entire peace, all the talk about universe. Just give it more time good sir | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Wife of 6 years left via text…Because they don’t respect Men’s safe spaces and boundaries | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Wife of 6 years left via text…Check the Ops comment history | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 10:27 AM |
| 5 | Wife of 6 years left via text…The Op is a woman mind you | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 07:39 AM |
| -8 | Wife of 6 years left via text…What are you doing in Divorce men when you are not even a man?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Help!Yup, marriage does do that. Which is why it is necessary you maintain some level of emotional anchor with your own personal friends. Men should learn to not sign away all their personal relationships for the one created jointly with their partners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/25 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Help!It doesn’t matter, you’re drowning in that marriage. Save yourself first, you will build another community. Put yourself first, if the reverse was the case, she’d do same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/25 07:56 AM |
| 15 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageShe’s already cheating on you, trying to get you to end things so the blame can be on you for breaking the family. Classic women move once they start cheating. It’s over for you dude, get ready for the shit storm and prepare for the inevitable. All the best | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 09:28 AM |
| 11 | Letting go of past friend groupsIt’s product of smear campaigns. It’s very hard to believe but all women pre smear their partners most of the time, lol. And then after the end of the marriage they intensify the smear campaigns. Cut those people off, anyone who wouldn’t reach out to hear your side, was never your friend. Cut them off and move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 08:31 AM |
| 4 | 1 year laterFor what it’s worth. I’m very happy for you, but it must be said that you should prioritize healing and moving on alone. If I were you, I’d go the next 2 years learning how to be happy and self sustaining ALONE! You are falling into the trap of falling into the Bs of another woman, putting her on a pedestal and thinking that she’s perfect. Then using her as an emotional anchor, this type of behavior leads to a situation like the one you are in, some years later. Focus on yourself, your only true… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 06:42 AM |
| 8 | Finally coming to terms and at peace, but terrified of what’s next.Once a woman has had an affair, you can never ever come back from that. I don’t know why men don’t get this simple maths. An affair from a woman brings to an end all forms of respect she had for the spouse. Taking her back will never ever ever ever work afterwards. I’m sorry you had to go through this. May you find your peace. I hope other men learn this too | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 08:39 AM |
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