Runbmc717 Archive

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6	She cancelled our first date twice within a week. The biggest issue here I see is you keep saying "I wonder if she lost interest". To be honest, why haven't you lost interest? You met her A COUPLE MONTHS AGO and haven't been able to see her since. And then you allow multiple reschedule attempts, and are still worried if SHE'S interested. Step back and ask yourself this: "How interested am I in her? What do I want to come from this?" I totally understand she may be sick, and to her credit, she's offered to reschedule both times without you askin…	/r/seduction	28/02/19 08:17 PM
1	Asking a girl I just met out on a movie. Am I moving too fast? She's waiting for you to reach out champ, girls rarely strike up a text conversation first after exchanging numbers. Text her and ask how he weekend has been and ask her out on a date some time this week. You honestly already went multiple days without contacting her which isn't smart. Don't play "hard to get" before you've even met her. You honestly probably waited too long already. Legit if you get a girl's number, you should text her the next day.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 05:27 PM
3	Asking a girl I just met out on a movie. Am I moving too fast? Personal rule of mine: Don't ever take a girl to a movie on a first date, you can't really talk to her and you're both focused on something else rather than each other. And making it a double date would make it even more awkward. If you want to see her, reach out and ask her out to drinks/coffee/dinner some time SOON. You're not moving too fast, if anything you want to see her again in short order.	/r/seduction	17/02/18 02:25 PM
1	Uk is 6 tinder likes (3 were matches) on the first day bad for a dude? Yeah I remake it every week or two depending on how many dates I get set up with that initial batch of matches. Usually every 2 weeks though. I don't want my profile to pop up TOO much in my area, too often. There is a new user boost for the first 24-48 hours, it's to get users addicted to tinder and once they're hooked on it, their matches throttle down to a more normal rate.	/r/seduction	14/01/18 07:29 PM
1	Uk is 6 tinder likes (3 were matches) on the first day bad for a dude? Huh? What's a side pic? If you want assistance or advice, I'd suggest you go to r/tinder to get your profile reviewed.	/r/seduction	13/01/18 04:49 PM
2	Uk is 6 tinder likes (3 were matches) on the first day bad for a dude? I'm in the USA, 27 yo male, reasonably attractive and fit in a pretty major area. I usually get 15-20 matches in the first 2 days and then it tapers down to anywhere from 0-5 a day (usually 2-3). I do unlimited swiping though since I have Tinder Plus. 3 matches and 6 likes on 200 right swipes honestly isn't bad. Though I wouldn't worry about the likes if they're girls you're not interested in, I'd focus on matches.	/r/seduction	13/01/18 04:09 PM
1	When I am talking to a girl or someone new, I feel like I am always the one asking someone the questions and I never get asked any. What should I do? If you must be overly literal, yes it COULD work on rare occasions. But it's simply not good strategy to send a boring copy/paste message on Tinder. You're better off sending a stupid joke that makes them laugh, or just asking the questions you talk about in your post. Too many guys do something over and over again because it "used to work" or it worked once or twice. I was merely warning against that.	/r/seduction	02/01/18 01:49 PM
3	When I am talking to a girl or someone new, I feel like I am always the one asking someone the questions and I never get asked any. What should I do? On Tinder, this absolutely would not work. Has a chance on OKCupid. But you're better off on either site asking a question that demonstrates that you read her profile. EDIT: This was purely in reference to the "Hey Girl's name, I was reading through your profile and became curious about you. I wouldn't mind just asking you some random questions sometime and getting to know you better. If that doesn't sound bad to you, then we should do it!" line. The rest of the post is honestly really solid adv…	/r/seduction	02/01/18 04:08 AM
3	Did I do good? I can't tell. Whenever the fuck you want to? Do what you feel is right, don't worry about earning her approval. After she responds to your text (you should text her ASAP), then if you must, mirror her texting cadence. (I.e. If she takes an hour to respond, respond an hour later). Personally I just text whatever I feel like, whenever I feel like it and don't worry about potential rejection. If a girl is gonna reject me because I texted her, she's not a good fit and isn't worth my time.	/r/seduction	02/01/18 04:02 AM
2	Got the number. Made out and agreed to meet up again. What’s the better of these two options? I would always opt against bringing a potential cockblock into the situation. Her and her friend are going to go to a party where they know no one else besides you. If you ever separate the girl from her friend, her friend may just get bored and want to leave. Do drinks first with her. If that goes well, say you don't want the night to end and offer to make her dinner/drinks at your place. That formula always works for me,and I use that with 1st dates with girls on tinder. You've already physica…	/r/seduction	02/01/18 03:53 AM
2	The girl I approached yesterday at a pub got scared of me. I mean, you can't ever, possibly, get upset at a girl not welcoming your approach when she's with another guy. I assumed you at least approached her when she was in her own or in a big group. The guy is more than likely her boyfriend. Also, walking up to a girl with a guy to wish them (her) a Happy New Year out of nowhere isn't gonna get you anywhere. You'd be better off saying "I couldn't help but notice you from across the room and I wanted to meet you. What's your name?"	/r/seduction	02/01/18 03:42 AM
4	The girl I approached yesterday at a pub got scared of me. In general, learning to deal with rejection is the most important part of gaining women's approval. If you actually are comfortable knowing she may be uninterested, you won't feel upset afterwards at all. It's a positive sign that after a bit you moved forward with your night, so good job on that. Women can sense neediness from a mile away. It's tough to fake it. My guess is that based on you writing this up after one rejection, you walked up hoping she'd be interested and say yes, rather than a…	/r/seduction	01/01/18 06:06 PM
1	It feels like something is missing Girls aren't going to just throw themselves at you and beg you to go on dates with them or sleep with them. To me, it sounds like you're simply too timid to either ask the girls out, make a move, or kiss them. If you're not escalating physically when you're out for drinks, you have zero chance at a girl sleeping with you that night, you need to help generate the physical attraction. You can't miss if you don't take a shot at it, but you also can't succeed. It's not easy, but my best suggestion i…	/r/seduction	23/05/17 03:04 PM
1	Why would women in commited relationships stare/flirt with another guy? My suggestion would be in future instances, before asking for her number, slip in a "Are you single? Because I'd love to take you out for drinks Friday night". That way you make it abundantly clear you're ONLY interested if she's single. Some girls are attention whores that love to string guys along. Could be possible that her bf doesn't give her a lot of attention elsewhere so she looks for attention from other guys that she's still sought after. She could just want eye candy while she's at the…	/r/seduction	19/03/17 09:56 PM
3	Why would women in commited relationships stare/flirt with another guy? A look isn't lack of faithfulness. If you think your or anyone else's S.O. won't ever find anyone else attractive again, you're insane. It's acting on that attraction that matters. These girls boyfriended you after having wandering eyes. You've certainly had wandering eyes before, but given that women rarely approach, they haven't approached you. Perfectly normal for any person, regardless of gender to have wandering eyes. Hell, maybe they just thought they recognized you from somewhere. Maybe y…	/r/seduction	19/03/17 09:40 PM
1	First date succes, how to go on from here? Okay that's not as bad. Still though, I encourage you to not hold back from communicating how you'd like to. The biggest thing women found attractive in me was that I wasn't scared of rejection and was up front and honest. If you're not scared of rejection and immune to it, dating becomes "Is she worth my time?" Rather than "I hope I'm worth her time". For example, I'm a texting whore. I didn't hold back from texting girls because I could risk losing them. And because of it I met my girlfriend a…	/r/seduction	12/03/17 08:30 PM
1	First date succes, how to go on from here? She moved on, you waited over a week to text her, bad move. Stop playing games of "when should I text her?" You know what women respect the most and are most attracted to? Guys who are confident and go for what they want. When dates went well I wouldn't let them leave without having scheduled a second. Or I'd follow up same night and say "just wanted to say again, I had a great time! Are you free on (insert day and time) to go out again?" Can't know you're interested if you don't show them.	/r/seduction	12/03/17 07:01 PM
2	Does even girl like this exists? BECAUSE GUYS ARE DIFFERENT UH BECAUSE.... THEY JUST ARE. It's not different at all, OP is looking for someone to echo his thoughts and isn't finding it.	/r/seduction	11/11/16 02:39 PM
6	Does even girl like this exists? Stop reading Red Pill because you're taking it WAY too literally. The premise of Red Pill is that a man should be willing to assert his desires and require that his partner meet certain standards in order for them to date. It's also about confidence and knowing there are plenty of women out there, so don't get hung up on a specific one for no reason. It is NOT about assuming all women are cheating whores and that girls who don't cheat are the minority. Most girls are very faithful within relatio…	/r/seduction	11/11/16 12:17 PM
1	Getting back to the dating game after a year. What's your favorite books that offer the right mindset? Mark Manson's "Models" was super helpful for me in learning how women approach dating and developing a healthy outlook on dating/attracting women.	/r/seduction	27/10/16 03:57 PM
2	[Advice] How to flirt with this girl on tinder "Give me your number and we can start to write our own story." She already told you she doesn't want anything serious, so don't overthink it. she's looking for sex and the longer you wait to get her number, the less likely it happens.	/r/seduction	31/07/16 12:59 PM
9	[FR] F-close was in reach She didn't want to have intercourse on the first date and knew her limits. She was fine with escalating to a bj and nothing further. Many girls simply just have a firm rule on not having sex date 1. You respected her boundaries and did the right thing.	/r/seduction	18/07/16 09:42 PM