| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 156 | I dumped my LVM BF! | #KickHimOut2020 | RunningWithTheBoys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 107 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!! | REMINDER 👑 | RunningWithTheBoys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 08:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -27 | We need a cure for this ASAPI don’t know, this ‘meme’ seems a little needlessly callous to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 31 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Girl, are you me? My father ditched us when I was 6 as well and refused to pay for child support even though having a baby was literally his idea that he pushed for… then he contacted me while I was in college wanting to reap the benefits of having a grown smart beautiful daughter. So what I did was, I changed my last name to my mom’s maiden name. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:13 AM |
| 62 | I hate it when LVM approach me in publicI’m in the same boat and it makes networking or meeting new men (in non-dating settings) stupid hard. I’ve pretty much given up on new male friendships as they always immediately try to corner me for one-on-one ‘hangouts’ which inevitably leads to a confession on how attracted they are to me, but even in a professional setting their only agenda seems to be to date/sleep with me. Nothing stops them, not even if they’re married! The last guy I gave my number to to keep as a professional contact wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:42 AM |
| 4 | A reminder to practice what you preach!I recently went on a date with a guy who asked me out at work. He was short and very average looking and didn’t check any of my standards, but I thought he had a good personality. He was very handsy and I had to assert boundaries and by the end of our date, he asked me if I’d be FWB with him. 😪 I had caved and let my physical standards go hoping and thinking he had a good personality to make up for it, but of course he didn’t. I played myself too, sis. 🤡 But it reminded me now that I really only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Girls, it's that time of the week again! Post your hotties! 🔥👨🚒🦸♂️🏊♂️🏃🧔🏄♂️🔥Has this been an ongoing thing? I’ve never seen it before today and I agree with your sentiments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Ross Butler anyone?I’m an actor and I personally worked with him as leads in a short film a few years ago. He’s really lazy and not a hardworking individual at all. He relies on his looks to make up for his lack of preparation at work and it seems like that’s been largely working for him. Why these people are glorifying him? I don’t know. Edit: Also, HE DOESNT EVEN MEMORIZE HIS LINES, which is the bare minimum. He reads the script right before the scene starts and then attempts to ‘wing it.’ I have been told his p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 9 | Love her certainty and confidence.I feel like I must do a little attacking here! My ex was named Kevin and he never took a shower or brushed his teeth, even when I asked him to, the lowest of the lows LVM! The most delusional man I have ever met to this day. I have stories for days about him and I was with him for less than a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:17 PM |
| 59 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.My ex sent me a Xmas text which I just read and cackled at, and then I went about the rest of my life forgetting about it up until this post. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Scrotes make it harder for us to do this every day that passes 🤣stay and don’t get sexy murdered hmmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:01 AM |
| 4 | Why did he ask these questions?The last time a guy was asking me awkward questions like this, it was because he was a huuuuuge pothead and thought he was being a deep person, saying he just likes to “think” deeply about things, when really it was all just super cringe and he had stunted social skills. We weren’t even on a date, we were at work working. Seriously, I hate all the men I meet at work. Edit: I would like to add, this guy also asked if he could rap for me his own lyrics and good god it was the most crass ass song I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 8 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedI love that you literally just parroted back what he said to you. “You are a 6/10. Rate me?” “You are also a 6/10.” “pls you must lower your standards” 😂😂😂 I was voice chatting recently with my friend very briefly who happened to be twitch streaming at the time. He introduced me on his stream as his ‘beautiful friend _____’ to which a scrote started demanding proof of this statement, LOL??? I mean, I’m sure my friend was just being classy and polite to introduce me that way, but fuck it I’m beau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:48 AM |
| 2 | List of men with jobs to avoid. Please bear in mind that women in these jobs could be fine, as we are socially conditioned to continuously work on self-improvement, whereas men are not. I’ll start the list in comments, please contribute.When I find disgusting people like that, I tell myself that they make women like us (and HVM) shine that much brighter as gems. And that is their sole purpose in life! To make us shiny, beautiful, rare, glittery gems in this polluted sea planet of gross people littered everywhere. They serve the purpose of being all of the repulsive things in the world we are not. I even apply this in a broader light - to historical figures who did terrible things. The purpose of their entire lives was to displa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | List of men with jobs to avoid. Please bear in mind that women in these jobs could be fine, as we are socially conditioned to continuously work on self-improvement, whereas men are not. I’ll start the list in comments, please contribute.Dated a fireman and he thought his job title was enough to overglorify him all of the pussy. He wasn’t the brightest bulb in the box, and he pushed really hard to be sexual on the FIRST DATE even after I expressed to him I didn’t feel comfortable to do anything remotely sexual yet. He also definitely had yellow fever and shared with me his dating history was pretty much all asian women. WHY the FUCK would you tell me that... but also THANK FUCK you told me and outed yourself to me, freak!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 100 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...Yeah seriously that part was so ridiculous. I cannot believe this is the only comment here addressing this. She says she can never ever tell anyone for any reason whatsoever if something is bothering her. The way she said she reacts - a full meltdown complete with bawling and total loss of verbal function. That is a seriously debilitating disability to live with. She should get therapy to figure out how to overcome or work around that. She LITERALLY cannot say no. It’s no wonder she found hersel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 41 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄I remember this topic came up a while back on a different subreddit and I commented saying it would be nice to have womens only gyms (in the US) because men make women feel uncomfortable and even try to ask them out on dates in inappropriate settings like this. I GOT DOWNVOTED LOL and the responses were all men saying “I can ask anyone out anywhere I damn please” and that I must be a “beta male pandering to females.” Men are straight crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | So lazy, so boring....these Hinge profiles send me into a comaI’m childfree, liberal, and agnostic too and I get about 5 likes a day that I 99% of the time swipe left on. I never send any likes out or use any other dating app, I just let hinge sit in the background of my life. I’m sure location plays a huge part as you mentioned and understand it can get frustrating so I implore you to try to forget about these dating apps and fill your life with all good things and keep moving forward, staying busy. Let the dating scene sit in the background, especially a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:35 AM |
| 39 | (Ex) boyfriend called me while cheating last nightYes! My crazy ex, after we broke up, I blocked him on everything! Phone calls, texts, and all social media. So what does he do? HE STARTS EMAILING ME LOL. In this day and age... I didn’t even realize he had my email! It’s only for professional use. I was truly flabbergasted and disgusted by the content he was writing to me. This guy seriously seriously had lost the plot. From what OP wrote, her man sounds mental too. He will find a way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:35 AM |
| 11 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!!“Lawsuits [on bank] from 2010 and 2015 detail an office culture where women are sexualized and harassed as a matter of course – in one instance a woman was demoted after reporting her sexual assault by a male co-worker.” - One of the articles that delved further into the company’s history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:22 AM |
| 8 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!!Wow, cocaine possession is really bad too and equally as terrifying if you consider the assumptions you can make about his life based on that one fact, which is a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:10 AM |
| 12 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!!I actually googled him because I was curious about his job. He had one of those vague job titles on his profile you know like “sales” or “entrepreneur.” I think in his case it just said something like “investor.” It’s literally the only reason I googled him because I usually don’t do the research part until they offer to meet me, then I look them up to see if they really pique my interest. So glad I looked early cause now I didn’t build any rapport with him and instead got a clean unmatch. ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:02 AM |
| 11 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!!You’re right, I won’t give him a heads up!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 11 | Having opinion / not having opinionsMy ex had a superiority complex, therefore he had an aggressive opinion about everything. He also stated his opinions as facts. You can imagine what trying to talk to him was like. “Hey, what do you want on your pizza? Pepperoni? Pineapple?” “People who like pineapples on their pizzas are fucking stupid.” “...I don’t think that’s-“ “LITERALLY the DUMBEST MORONS on this planet.” “Okay, then what about-“ “In fact, we should probably exterminate them my god it shouldn’t even be an option on a pizza… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 19 | “When you know, you know” and other poor excuses to rush a relationship.I had a girl friend in college who had a boyfriend at the time and just “knew” he was the one. When I asked her to explain how she knew, because I was curious and naive too, she pretty much said the same thing: when you know you know, it’s just some kinda feeling. I figured the stuff in movies was real and wished her the best after we graduated. We’re still friends now, but boy did things not end well and she finds herself single. She’s embarrassed about what she expressed about him before becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:46 PM |
| 4 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowHmmmmm... this happened to a close friend of mine. She was constantly in relationships with men who after a period of time, could not or would not move onto the next step with her in their relationship beyond boyfriend. She lived together with her last boyfriend and after a normal period of time brought up the idea of marriage, but he seemed to enjoy things the way they were so she chose to end it. (Just fyi my friend is GORGEOUS!) Almost RIGHT AFTER this, she met her new boyfriend who has propo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 26 | My mom was run over by a car and had to undergo brain surgery, my dad...Awww, thanks sis. I ended up calling my mother promptly after and she clued me in that... remember you have car insurance? Oh right! Haha, silly me. Of course, that sounds like the next logical step one would take in my situation. I guess people can’t always think straight when they’re freaking out, and that’s ok. Then I called my car insurance and they walked me through everything... which certified shop was closest to me, towing my car there for free, and providing me with a rental car while i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 06:36 AM |
| 65 | Remember, men will lie about anything to get what they wantWhenever I go to the bar with my friends, a man will usually try to buy me a drink. (I actually don’t drink alcohol, I’m just there to hang out with my friends.) So I’ll tell him, “Oh thanks but no thanks, I don’t drink alcohol.” This will INEVITABLY AND WITHOUT FAIL always lead to the man saying, “Oh I don’t actually drink that much either!! It’s just tonight my friends... blah blah blah.” I have never had a different response. Men WILL always lie to you to get you to like them or sleep with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 108 | My mom was run over by a car and had to undergo brain surgery, my dad...My car broke down once randomly on a street and I freaked out a little bit because it had never happened to me before. I pulled over and called my then boyfriend because I wasn’t sure what to do. He picked up and said, “Oh, that sucks! But why are you calling me? What do you want ME to do about it? I’m at work.” It was the most unsupportive and unhelpful phone call I have ever made. You can never rely on LVM for anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayHey, OP! 👋🏻 I actually worked as a print & hand model for Summer’s Eve and all the other models and crew members that day thought this product was equally ridiculous. None of us models had even heard of this product prior to the shoot date. We would all probably agree with your post! Especially in this era where this information is so easily accessible on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Pickmeisha PastMy recent ex had me wake him up too because he couldn’t do it by himself 🙄🙄🙄 he was incredibly grumpy and mean in the morning and refused to get up anyway. Then he’d blame me later for his inability to get up. I had the balls to tell my mom this today, among other things on why the relationship didn’t work out since I’m visiting her. (She lives alone.) Her reaction was, “Why did you let him train you like that?” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 20 | What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship?I’m saving so much on gas (of course he didn’t have a car) and I have so much time for myself! I used to feel obligated to always have to be at his place because he didn’t enjoy being alone and had mental health issues. Somehow, everything was always my fault on the most ridiculous bullshit. He didn’t wake up in time? I should have woken him up AND made sure he got out of bed. I used to wake him up, but he would put up a fight and choose to go back to sleep and then afterwards would get upset wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:52 AM |
| 11 | Don't date men who are mentally illI needed to hear this. Thanks for posting, sis. 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 13 | I dumped my LVM BF!I understand where you’re coming from, and no I do not think of myself as a weak individual who needs to be chaperoned everywhere. However, some of my friends have been robbed at gunpoint in my city. There are mentally ill homeless people everywhere. I have been followed in my car before, but was able to notice before I reached home and drove to the nearest police station where they promptly fucked off. You’re right, crossing traffic isn’t a big life threatening deal. But I’m mindful of these th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:53 AM |
| 6 | I dumped my LVM BF!I still can’t believe it, what the hell was going through his mind! Why not just wait for the light to turn green on a busy street like a normal person? My god, such a dumb hill to die on. We weren’t even arguing or anything! I’m so glad we didn’t reach the 1 year mark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 15 | HVMs turning into LVMs because of alcoholism and addictionI’ve lived it too, sister, albeit a much shorter time than most. I was in love with who he used to be, but that person has looooong been dead due to alcoholism and weed addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:42 AM |
| 16 | I dumped my LVM BF!Thank you for your support. :) It just never occurred to me that anyone would do this. It IS a complete feeling of betrayal thinking he was a safety net out in public. Any of my friends male or female would wait for the light to change like a normal person while engaging in a conversation with me. This might come off as bitter, but I’m flabbergasted at this stunt and can’t help but think he’s completely mental and 100% delusional after his texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 7 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity As a fellow actor in Hollywood, I 100% support you and understand completely where you’re coming from and am glad to have you here on this sub with us. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 112 | Dudes who complain about women with fake butts/boobs don’t seem to realize they’re not the target audienceOne time, I asked this small skinny man his opinion of Hermione because he seemed to be a Harry Potter fan. He immediately said he wouldn’t do Emma Watson because she wasn’t his type/not attractive to him. The fuck?!?! Having sex with Emma Watson was never on the table and will never ever be on the table you ratman. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Wholesome Realization(juliehangart)This is right up the alley of a song I know called “Most Girls” by Hailee Steinfeld. Great song, give it a listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 09:34 AM |
| 10 | Should you feel sparks on a first date?The guy I’m currently seeing was one of those ‘average’ first dates as you described. I didn’t feel an initial spark and I decided I probably wouldn’t see him again. I did cut him some slack though because he seemed very nervous at our dinner date, but I appreciated that he tried to keep the conversation going! He gave me a kiss after our first date and it was like kissing my brother. It totally cemented the idea that this guy wasn’t it. However, the days following, he continued texting me and I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 06:48 AM |
| 7 | A typical male "4" that claims he is a "7" or "8". Commence Vomiting....LOL Joining this hilarious train, sis! ribbit ribbit 🐸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:02 AM |
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