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| 17 | 4 year old gets returned to abusive motherWhat a cancerous site that is. It doesn't let me do anything unless I allow notifications on my phone. | /r/PussyPass | 13/10/18 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Why are comments like this allowed?Reddit usually has all opinions represented. It's the upvotes that give you a meter of what people think. I've been in the boat of being banned or having my comment removed because the mods didn't like what I was saying. You feel hurt, betrayed and excluded from the conversation. That sucks for everyone as you become radicalized in your thinking and start seeing sides where there are none. Instead, if you're simply downvoted, you are still a part of the conversation and usually have a number of … | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up at a hippy/psychedelic rock concert?Take drugs, have fun. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]More about what? | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 10:18 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I prefer to have struggled to get girls, so now I know exactly how to do it, rather than it having come naturally and not having any control over it. I prefer being rejected, so I know how to deal with it and can turn it into a yes, rather than never having experienced it and having no control over it. Something I thought about a long time ago. I know people that haven't had the experience and have no clue how they succeed. I've seen them run into walls and they just lose their shit. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | 3 months ago, I posted about being the funny guy to being a Man who's funny. Today I want to share my tips for Inner Game and Life.Good point. It's pretty much impossible to write for all levels of skill and I'm as guilty as anyone else of getting the audience wrong. :P | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Gradually breaking down the friendzone.You have to introduce the concept that you aren't an asexual being. Being only friends is like being siblings. You have trouble even picturing them in a sexual way. You already have the emotional connection, you are her type (acc. to you, at least) and you spend a ton of time together. The only thing missing is to subtly flip that switch. This is a hard thing to do subtly, but you can start being more open about sex. Crack sexual jokes, mention being horny (though for the love of god make it a b… | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | 3 months ago, I posted about being the funny guy to being a Man who's funny. Today I want to share my tips for Inner Game and Life.Agree with a lot of it. I like to think of working out and meditation as two sides of the same coin. You have to take care of your mental and physical self. I'd also recommend starting to do some serious stretching. It's pretty awesome. I disagree with number four. I think you should always approach more and don't be afraid to approach guys as well. The first part of seduction is just getting to know the person, letting them get to know you and charming them with the process and that's something… | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | List with a lot of helpful tipsYeah I noticed as soon as I read your reply that we were on the same page here with some minor differences haha. Yeah I'm really fucking weird and I've more than owned up to it. Hell, people tend to notice it from the moment they meet me. I like to blame my father and my cousin (who I grew up with) for it. They're both weird and my cousin really leans into it. DBZ is awesome BTW, though I transitioned from Shonen a while ago. Anything nerdy is a pretty good way to get my attention as well. Fucki… | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | List with a lot of helpful tipsI very much get the anti-4chan stuff. It's an unregulated place that tends to heavily follow the flow of the group, is incredibly unreliable in pretty much all information it shares and has an incredibly purposefully-just-for-the-sake-of-it toxic atmosphere, especially towards minorities. Still love it though. That cesspool has birthed a lot of cool stuff. There's a great argument there that it's either conducive for what it's given us, or that it just happened to be where it came from. I'm sorr… | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | List with a lot of helpful tipsNumber 31. Always keep someone's history in mind but, personally I treat people based on how they treat me, not others. I have friends who have cheated and I have friends who have done worse. They have always been great to me and I've never seen them do something bad enough that I lost respect for them (those I have, I've dumped). I probably wouldn't date a cheater though, but my dating standards are intense. Number 33. Do this for everyone. Studies have shown that people associate the stuff you… | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | List with a lot of helpful tipsThis is going to come out way more judgemental than it should since this'll make me start to nitpick the list. Keep that in mind and the fact that these are just two conflicting opinions and OP is a pretty good nut. Number 4. Don't see a reason to always wear something underneath. I'm not the type to do the half buttoned down thing, but I know some guys who absolutely rock it. Number 5. I agree, but you should get a brown and a black one at least. A leather belt is not going to go with everythin… | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 04:55 PM |
| 4 | List with a lot of helpful tipsI think your advice is the unhelpful one. Today's society is glorifying this idea that you needn't put any effort into your life and everyone will still love you. They wont and they shouldn't have to. There's a difference between loving yourself and expecting the world to love you. The idea that you should be confident with yourself and OK with being who you are has been bastardized into an ode for slothfulness and inculpability. Of course confidence is the most important factor. Of course you s… | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 03:19 PM |
| 3 | List with a lot of helpful tipsActually yeah haha, but Imma make a list. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 03:01 PM |
| 8 | List with a lot of helpful tipsI was honestly waiting for that to turn ugly given that it's from 4chan, but it was pretty sound advice all the way down. I disagreed with some points, but that's to be expected in a list as long as this. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Pro tip for finding out if she gave the Right/Wrong number.To be honest I don't do numbers. I just add people on Facebook. Or Snapchat if I'm not that into them. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Pro tip for finding out if she gave the Right/Wrong number.Yeah just think of the lost time this could save both parties if he decides to stay and talk to her more. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 Also, I don't see the issues you had with that girl as you simply caring more than she did. You guys were attracted to each other for a reason; imo, this happens often because we all have issues to work out and solve in life, and we're attracted to people who present those life lessons to us. This is the running theme in the people I'm interested in. But the issue with the original girl was that it was all about not having other options and forming a connection with a person I didn't have anyt… | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?2 I call it oneitis because it's feelings that have been largely inflated by a shortage of both experience and other options. Similar to how oneitis grabs a guy that's in a drought and has little experience. The over-pronounced interest in a single girl is what I think of as oneitis. Yeah bit of a misunderstanding going on there. I haven't given up on love. I just came to realize that love has nothing to do with whether two people work well together. It's an emotional state and has little to do … | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 I know what you mean, but there is still only so much time you can devote to things before running out of time. I've had it happen where I expanded my friend's circle too much and no longer had enough time for everyone with a lot of people grumbling and feeling ignored. It's true that you don't have to devote a lot of time to strong friendships, but you can't really form those over such a short amount of time... Oh and I already have an open invitation all around the world as well as a number … | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 I get what you mean, but it sucks losing friends. It's hard getting into a friendship that will last for maybe 4 months with two of those being only online. There's always that vacuum aftur you lose friends as well and that has negatively affected my social game before. Then there's the fact that this is a zero-sum game. The time I spend befriending and forming that relationship I could spend on forming other relationships or bettering myself. 2 It's a pretty long story. The gist is that the g… | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 Oh bit of a misunderstanding! I mostly go after local girls, but I do extremely well with foreigners. But they can be tricky for a couple of reasons. I'm only looking for casual relationships for anything but that top level of connection, by the way. I was more talking about befriending people. Foreigners leave pretty quickly and I don't feel like investing time in them because of it. 2 Honestly I could. But I got a son and I've been focusing on the custody battle for the last couple of years … | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 Oh no I mostly stay away from travelers. You meet a lot of awesome people, but they're gone within 2 months and you pretty much never see them again. It's hard and just creates a false economy. It's a very real problem that young people leave my town to live in the capital, so you're often losing the best parts of your friend group, but travelers just exacerbate that. I'm not traveling enough right now. I neither have the money nor the time and I barely manage to meet the friends I made when I… | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?1 Yeah it sounds like we have pretty similar methods. I'm pretty fast at hooking new people and then I stripmine their friend group. If they're cool, I'll keep socializing with them, but I've mined more than one person for others and kept contact with their friends and not them. I kind of got into social game, but recently I've hit the snag that it gets kind of hard with so few here. Conversely, social game seems to be easier in this environment as less people means less interesting people, maki… | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?I guess I haven't really done too many "dates." I usually end up hooking up in way less traditional ways than a "date." Unconventional is fine and all that, but I guess I focus more on More on what!?! The suspense is killing me! :P But yeah I'm the same. I rarely if ever go on dates. I get nearly every girl I'm with by meeting them downtown or through people I've met. I'm a black hole of value at this point. People that enter my orbit usually stay and girls I meet get sucked in eventually. I've … | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?In that category, I would put people who mistreat or are rude to service industry workers, like waitresses and customer service people. I'm thankful that I've never personally met someone like that. As in, when not working. 2 No not really. It's kind of a weird subject for me. I'm friends with multiple bouncers, for example and I've taken a few martial arts in my time. Still, I'm very against violence and if I see someone using it without good cause (or threatening to), I eject them. It is all a… | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?A big one missing in number one is people that seem to have no respect for other people. Especially guys who seem to see women as objects. Oh and people who are violent. I'm OK with defending yourself or 'looking' for a fight (it's kind of a thing where I live), but I can't stand people who see violence as appropriate when angry or losing a verbal battle. 3 I don't help people that don't want help. If it's something big, I usually cut them out. Downward spirals like that have a tendency of hitti… | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?Yeah it sounds like we're pretty much on the same page. The trouble is when you have to make a decision without having had the proper chance to evaluate someone or something clouds your judgement ('pity' has gotten me into trouble multiple times). The big thing though, in my opinion, is that you can only read if a person is doing something deliberately. If they're self-destructive without admitting so, you often just have to find out for yourself when it happens. I have a couple of methods that … | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?I got a lot of people coming in and out of my life. I usually screen them out over time as they reveal more of themselves. I'm pretty proud of the fact that, out of all the people I know, I'm the one that has the least drama-oriented people in my life. So I'm not too worried about that. Still, I screen them as they reveal themselves because you really can't tell who's good and who isn't. I've heard guys talk about all kinds of preferences for finding quality girls. It's all bullshit. Be extremel… | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?I don't mean any offense to you or your son but of course you'd say that. Neurotypical humans are pretty much evolutionary hard-wired to become super attached to our offspring once they're born. Yeah I know. It felt pretty insane when it happened. Consider it the best high in life, man. It's like saying how you're constantly afraid because there's a loaded gun on your office desk and anyone might grab it at any moment to shoot you but you won't unload it. Kind of. You have something that could c… | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Is vasectomy the only effective birth control?My ex didn't take her pills regularly and didn't tell me. So now I have a son. It's a pretty weird situation where I love him so much, I'd probably go through the same twisted relationship all over again just to get him in my life. For that reason I'm going to advocate you don't get a vasectomy. Being a dad is amazing. Just make sure it happens with the right girl and don't trust anybody but yourself to make sure you're safe. People talk to me. I keep secrets. My friend's ex got pregnant 'by acc… | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl at the gymThat is a big win! Congrats man! | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Tip: How to Have Fewer Regrets.This is really good advice. I can also say from experience that trying something or just saying 'yes' to whatever is being thrown at you is nearly always the right choice. When I think back nearly all the regrets that stick out are regrets over not having done something. Of holding back. The two regrets I can think of that are for something I did (both women, go figure) we're a matter of the odds finally working against me. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 09:43 AM |
| 7 | Advice- Record yourselfThis is an awesome idea! Keeping close track of what you do is really important and this removes the rose-tinted glasses from it. I'd recommend going the ol' fashioned way and writing down how your night went when you're clubbing. This, along with setting yourself clear goals like solving your sticking points when going out, are probably the most important points when it comes to getting far in seduction. Oh, and you could probably put the recording on here when something funny happens. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 01:53 PM |
| 14 | Oneitis, and how to get over itI feel like this list is more complicated than it needs to be. And fuck me, number four is what everyone should be doing at all times. It's rule number one IN LIFE! Be aware of when you think of her, when you meet her and when you talk to her. It's important to realize how much you are doing this to stop it. Replace her in all of the above. Keep yourself from thinking of her. When you want to meet her, meet somebody else instead. When you want to talk to her, talk to somebody else instead. She's… | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 07:06 PM |
| 5 | How to get a guy to have sex with meI'm the same. I understood so little about human interaction and nearly nothing about male-female interaction. People are always criticizing seduction for teaching things 'everybody knows' or teaching things it shouldn't (showing people how the sausage is made), but I'll always be grateful to it. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | The best players are asking themselves how to improve by 1% every day.I like to think he meant in the Disney sense of the game having always been inside of you. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 02:19 PM |
| 10 | The best players are asking themselves how to improve by 1% every day.I agree with Snap on this one. You are both being too literal with the 1% change as well as asking for a cure-all. He's just using 1% as an easy term for a tiny amount and he specifically avoids naming any categories to improve in because those are individually based. Even your metrics would be individually based. Some want better quality lays, other more lays and other meaningful relationships. So it could be 'What can I do to improve my small-talk by 1% today?' but small talk would just be a s… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 4 | The best players are asking themselves how to improve by 1% every day.One more point that separates the best from the rest: Do a lot of self-review. The best are usually those that meticulously go over every outing and everything they do. This helps them realize what areas they're lacking in and see all the minor improvements they're making. Not to mention that that helps them be more aware of themselves and their surroundings when they're out and that awareness is a big part of being attractive. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Today a very sad event made me come to a realization./r/nothingeverhappens | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 08:03 AM |
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