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Yeah I hadn't thought anything of it until last time when we were chatting and I said sometimes the boss "hooks us up" with food from other places lol and she was really leaning into me like "good, you deserve to be hooked up" with an intense stare.
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:50 PM
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Wdym
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:09 PM
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Yeah this is what I figured, about the women not suggesting sex thing. Guess it feels like if I make the move in these circumstances then I'm like unprofessional or whatever
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:59 AM
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Well yeah but the thing is I am working so I can't really hang out. I dunno if that makes me lame or what but I guess the idea would be like her asking when I'm off and she always orders later closer to closing so maybe that means something
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:58 AM
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Yeah but like what do I just say like "can I give you my number?" Randomly after talking about like... What we did that day etc.
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:15 AM
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Well I think she might have as I deliver to her often and we've built a rapport and as I said she tips me way more than the other drivers at my work. Which I realize is like... An indicator of her affection. I never thought money could be used flirtatiously like that but I guess that's just our world
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:14 AM
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❤️ the sincerity of this response has left me so heartwarmed (yes I'm making up words). This was so powerfully insightful, wise, and just exactly what I needed to hear on so many various levels. Especially the self esteem thing... That's kind of a big part of it. I've known the groom since junior high and though they know how charismatic I can be and talented with music or whatever they know I've always had low self esteem with the ladies even though I am told I'm attractive. This girl was frien…
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:41 PM
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You're a true legend. I can't really thank you enough for hearing me out. That is true. I obsess over the stereotypical fashion of how things should go down. And you're right, both about only my buddy seeing the outcome and also how people aren't paying as much attention to me as I feel.
/r/seduction11/10/21 07:17 AM
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Specific to game, I honestly can't remember. She was very sarcastic (which I liked), so initially the conversation wasn't too intense. And if you read my reply to other commenter you'll see that we had already danced and stuff at the reception, so talking wasn't really necessary at this point. All I had to do was ask if she wanted to go be alone. But I didn't. And then she got disappointed and fell asleep. I can't remember the moments exactly of what was said and at what point she went to sleep.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:09 AM
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Well thank you for your sincere willingness to hear me out. I'm gonna try and summarize the relevant details over all of the emotion and logic intertwined with the events as best I can. I guess it's just that it feels like it was a reunion of old and new friends, some I haven't seen in forever. I have been through some rough times and I know most of them know that and love and respect me and were happy to see me doing well now. That was enough for me, I wasn't expecting to actually meet a girl a…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:08 AM
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Okay I gotcha yeah I'm totally aware of those social cues. Haha I guess the point I was making by saying no way of fighting my natural impulse to talk to her was more just yeah, an exaggerated way of saying my self doubt cloud had cleared, being replaced with sunshiney rays of better self confidence and composure. And I think that's why, like I said, she said "hey" and smiled when I looked at her. I wasn't giving off any anxious or doubtful vibes that I always seemed to. I saw her look at me a f…
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:50 PM
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Funny ya say that because I always saw the idea of making a public approach and actually getting numbers as just something in cheesy romance movies. This sub is what made me realize it is a possibility in the real world if it's what you want and if you want to conquer your doubts, etc. I do overthink too much, that's why I came to write this post was because I finally managed to NOT think and just communicate with a female stranger which for someone as shy and analytical as myself was a huge mom…
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:47 PM
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Haha yeah fair point. Well I was working labour at a construction site. I do have a good haircut, not sure what threaded eyebrows means (do you mean unibrow maintenance?), I actually just recently started using facial moisturizer 👍, I have my own fashion sense and wardrobe that I handpick tastefully, different outfits for different occasions, sometimes sporty, sometimes street vibes, but never raggedy. I do work out as well.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah just clear your mind and go with the impulse. If she looks at you, there's no harm in being civil and engaging with her platonically. What I felt before was butterflies, after what I felt was adrenaline. Pretty much yeah, there was no loss. The fear does disappear, yes. I would just recommend letting go of expectations, focusing on your own self, and just doing it for the purpose of enjoyment. If it goes to a next level then great, stay cool, but just don't feel let down if it doesn't spark
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:30 PM
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Hahaha so I was like a player as a kid and had lots of girlfriends but chubbed out and got really quiet in Jr high/high school then got confident again after high school and had a few relationships and really made some good pulls but there was never any public approach. It was coworkers or mutual friends, bar hookups, etc. Never a sober, public setting, approach. So I was just kinda feeling stoked and wanted to share. Glad you found it interesting. I figured laying everything out on the table wo…
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:28 PM
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Glad I could help buddy. Yeah that's just from my experience. Yeah I suffer Frome xtreme thinking which other commenters here have pointed out, lol. I am glad you at least am getting some benefit from the post.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:26 PM
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No, I don't believe that, that was poor phrasing. She just seemed to be kind of confused as I drove away saying have a nice day.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:16 PM
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You mean like described myself as hot and sweaty and whatnot?
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:17 AM
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I realized that I had an ego. And that by making small, small steps and starting from square one in terms of just treating everyone the same was where I had to start. It was hard to accept, because so many people seem to be born with no fear. But I just had to take the time to understand how we're all different and you gotta do what you gotta do to get where you wanna be. What then took more time was understanding that by just engaging in simple exchanges with women at the beginning, it made me …
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:29 AM
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Thanks man I guess that's what I wanted to share, how it just seemed to come out of me so naturally today out of nowhere. The fear was like, gone. And that didn't mean I felt like the biggest coolest stud on the planet suddenly, there was just an apparent lack of my usual fear and hesitation that shocked me when I realized halfway through talking to this girl what was happening. That was that one of the best pieces of advice I got from this sub was to just not worry about outcomes with female in…
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:13 PM
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Hahaha yeah definitely a bit of an egocentric statement. Not ruined, just she might have been confused. But yeah. 7 billion people on this Earth I'm not hung up on it. Just learning. Thank you for clarifying this and letting me let it go a bit more lol. Thanks for reading as well.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:58 PM
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Having trouble finding a place to do it as we both live with our parents, and also not sure if that's what she wants or not. Too concerned about looking like a douche by asking / ruining a chance at a legit relationship with a cool person
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:38 PM
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What's the difference between a woman with a high libido and a woman who would be referred to as a "slut"?
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:40 PM
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I wasn't even arguing with what you were saying, I was just helping another commenter understand what you were saying. Your game tactic isn't wrong about getting coffee without asking permission. It makes sense. I just explained how to this other commenter. Regarding my opinion on this sub and its members, I never said anything about betas or simps. I just said there is definitely other things in life to pursue than the game itself. And how you guys literally tend to objectify the female species…
/r/seduction07/08/21 10:29 PM
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Whoa, I'm wet
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:17 PM
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Asking for permission from your partner for something as trivial as another cup of coffee can subtly indicate how invested the partner is in the other, too. Like, to say "can I have another cup" kind of displays the underlying feeling of "I'm so happy to have this person as my partner, to the point that I have forgotten about my own freewill" which the other partner inevitably will at some point unconsciously decipher and realize. And that will kinda disappoint them and make them feel overwhelmi…
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:15 PM
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I came here to post saying all my matches stop talking to me after a few exchanges, and think I might agree with the tone over text not getting across who I really am. It's too bad because I have encountered some crazy cool/attractive women on tinder who I seem to scare off in record time. But I know I'm desirable to women.
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:59 PM
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This is really solid advice, probably the best any man could take. I definitely found it helpful when I met your mom
/r/seduction24/07/21 02:25 AM
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Lol I appreciate your dedication to helping me and your passionate word choice. True about the happy life. But I guess what comes into play is like, I also don't want to end up regretting past could haves. Could you provide an example? One example I have that leaves me hanging is just like a cute girl at the liquor store. Like it seems like a pretty easy opportunity. "Hey, how's it going, what are you doing later?" Cut scene to movie-esque passionate sex scene. Again, I'm not a misogynist, I jus…
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:34 PM
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Lol, touché, I guess this newfound realization of me being a catch or whatever have led to me acting on those OG impulses that a typical man learns to abandon after their first few lust-inspired encounters. I guess I'm just trying to live as if I'm 20 again, sprawling on the scene and making mistakes and having fun meeting new women etc. Not caring about the end result, just trying to achieve glory. Yet I'm 29 and guess it's time to be mature and focus on the end game.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:55 PM
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That's what I try to do I'm just trying to organize my behaviour regarding the voice in the back of my head that says "you could fuck this chick if you really tried". That may sound brash but it's biologically accurate.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:45 PM
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OP is right but I mean we all have a right to think. Especially in the first world. Overthinking isn't healthy no, but it's not like the alternative is "just go do it". Some guys are happy with who they are, want a relationship, but also don't want to become some egocentric toxic machine programmed to only "seduce" every girl they meet. They just want balance. That's all I want, anyway.
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:41 PM
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I guess I should have clarified it's not when I try to make smalltalk. It's literally before I even get past "hello". They go into business mode. And then I just don't feel like cracking through that front.
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:39 PM
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Thank you, lol? I'm blushing. Certainly will keep you posted on my future endeavours with your advice in mine. Haha how does my talking establish intrigue if I may ask?
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:38 PM
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Most times though I find, women are extensively smug, when they are at work and sending the vibes. Like you can't really get a smile out of them unless it's once they realize you're going to stop trying to be polite with them. Not sure if that's how they handle their nerves. But when I try to make polite small talk, I am met with cold logic and dismissive tone. Not saying they're being bad people. I just find it difficult.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:15 PM
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Haha
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:53 PM
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These are some very logical points I hadn't looked at it that way. Thank you. Yeah beautiful women at work are like 20x as enticing I think it's because you know they're stuck there and are forced to interact with you.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:52 PM
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This is my usual approach when I feel confident enough. I've just been making small talk, asking for the time, making jokes, etc.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:51 PM
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True. I guess that's where the intimidation comes in. Mostly these days its just because my life is unstable. So I wouldn't really be at my best. It just sucks that women sometimes maybe don't realize that not every good looking man is part of some successful lineage of ladies men who have to hit on every girl they see. Some men are sensitive, traumatized, mentally ill, etc.
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:51 PM
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This too
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:47 PM
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Well how about that. This is highly valuable advice! Wish I had known sooner lol. Thank you. I'll remember this next time a girl is sending me signals and I decide to downplay it. Instead, I'll make the leap and request a number or ask for a date. I guess without sounding overly self loving people always say I am likeable within seconds of meeting me. Literally no idea what it is. I'm definitely thankful for it either way. Just need to start capitalizing. I will trust my gut. That tends to be ri…
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:47 PM
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Word. If I could candidly ask, do women agree to giving numbers or going on a date with a guy they have just encountered? Like, this is weird but I seem to have the guts to go all out and just say "I want your number" or "let's go out" than to make small talk. But my brain kinda just goes "you can't do that dude she's a literal stranger". But then it's like, what am I supposed to do with these signals she's throwing out haha. But yeah either way. I try not to waste time on the what ifs. This sub…
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:54 PM
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You took too long to respond, she took your lack of response for 8 minutes as you being too upset to respond, in her eyes. Even tho you just were finishing ur shower. I'm not saying it's reasonable, but I'm pretty sure that was what prompted the tweet.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:56 PM
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Can you define the straightforwardness? With this particular girl I would be looking for a relationship. But there are others I know would be just for sex. So I just wonder what advice you'd have on that front, haha. Other commenter gave me a pretty high quality rundown on how to establish communication/number swap
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:29 PM
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I love this. Thank you so much. Stay tuned for my updates. This is really helpful
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:27 PM
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