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| 4 | Met girl at a bar. Gave signs of attraction. But playing very hard to get over texts.If she was into you she would've given her number. Move on breh, she's using you for attention. The next time you try and take a number and they suggest ig or snap instead, just say no thanks and leave or you'll become one of the hundreds of dudes hitting her up everyday and getting nothing in return. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | A girl from tinder told me she like to fight her demons in her free time, what am I even supposed to sayA lot of answers here say she's being funny, she's not. She's being completely serious and letting you know she's a person with problems. Don't bother with some tryhard charismatic reply, make it short and go for the meetup. She's being messaged by countless other guys and most likely uses the same line on all of them, and is currently being banged by several of them and none of them are you. Save the small talk, shoot your shot. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 02:18 AM |
| – | Are any of you teetotal?I say a short simple truth, i'm happy as i am and alcohol adds nothing to my life. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 0 | issues of feeling creepy doing pickup?You cannot control other people and what they think or feel is nothing to do with you. You can only control what you do in life, and you should do the things that you want to do. That's all there is to it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 08:05 AM |
| 7 | I was misled that I would not be happy after I got attention from a girl.Girls you've not banged that send nudes usually have personality disorders and do the exact same thing to a number of guys they're messaging. You're happy because you're insecure and she validated you. When you've had more sexual encounters and emotional experiences, you're self esteem will come from acceptance of yourself as you are and not from the validation of others, and when that happens girls will not make you happy anymore. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 07:35 AM |
| – | Guys, how do I stand out?Most of what you wrote is about the way you look and your insecurities about the way you look, and you reject guys who approach you for the way they look instead of getting to know them as people. You say you have a good personality, yet everything you've written suggests otherwise. You aren't outgoing nor social, and you have no friends to speak of. If you want a good quality guy, or good quality people in your life, you have to be a good quality person. If you want to stand out, be an awesome … | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 03:15 PM |
| – | not being so timid kissingJust don't open your lips when he tongues you, he'll get the message. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I will assert, and I will set a date, a time, and place. It never goes right.Leading doesn't mean to control everything, that's obsessive and stupid. It just means be decisive and sure of what you're doing. It's going right and you're doing fine. Keep having these experiences, but don't be afraid of saying no. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 04:31 AM |
| – | I Should Have Texted HerMaybe means no. She's not into you. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 04:20 AM |
| 6 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingStop chasing people who do not want you. She's not shit testing you, she doesn't want you. Move on. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 03:58 AM |
| 4 | How would you have responded in this situation? Would you have responded at all?I would have ignored her and deleted her number. Most of the time the excuses girls give for bailing or flaking are completely made up. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 03:31 AM |
| – | How do you know if you’re over pursuing?Don't make the mistake of asking her if she wants to hang out, just invite her out to some place at some time on some day. Make it a statement not a question. If she's interested she'll agree or reschedule. If she's not interested she'll either give some garbage excuse or not reply at all, in which case move on. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:43 AM |
| – | Talking to groups of girlsNormally groups require less conversational input because they have their own momentum going. Really all you need to do is introduce yourself, learn their names, make a few observational statements about each one of them, and say a few words every now and then. They'll do the rest, you just concentrate on your girl mostly, and if your girl likes you she'll fill in silence out of fear of losing you. If you're putting in all the work and running out of things to say then you're just a dancing monk… | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Texted too much, what should I do going forward?If it was a mutual agreement you should have set the date/time/place to meet up not asked when it was going to happen, and not necessarily to hookup but to chat over a coffee or something, or any activity really, then take her back to yours/hers/wherever to hookup. Pushing directly for sex over text is needy and desperate and I suggest you don't text her again. If she wants your attention she'll contact you, but she's most likely changed her mind. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:23 AM |
| – | I feel like i just fucked it upChill. Don't message him again and he will get back to you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 3 | How should I play a situation where I almost hooked up with a girlAssume you missed your opportunity and go after other girls, but hit her up with a day/time/place text and hope for the best. It's outside your control now, and the next time this happens with a different girl, let her know you don't mind that she's on her period - a lot of the time when they are most horny is when they'll be on their period so you should expect it. She invited you in, she wanted you to seal the deal, but that was then and this is now, if she doesn't give you the chance again, l… | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:09 AM |
| – | What to do when two girls give you their numbers at the same time?Dude, no matter who you "think" you choose, they will talk about it together. Your best bet is to go for the one that was most interested. Everything you do and say will be talked and laughed about and if you go for the one that doesn't like you and she rejects you, the other one will follow her and reject you too. You've made yourself a pawn in some game. If the girl you chose has said she wants to meet with the other girl too, it's because it's the other girl that likes you. You aren't getting… | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I never approached today, and today I approached 15 women !!!Dude, enjoy the highs, you should be proud of yourself. However, numbers are easy and are equally worthless as they are easy. The majority, if not all of them will end in a flake or a ghost. Anybody who tells you that you have a good success rate is a person who does not go out and do this themselves. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I never approached today, and today I approached 15 women !!!This is the truth. Most of your best experiences will come from choosers, they will stare straight into your eyes as they walk by, so you shoot your shot and the rest is history. Any other type of approach will lead to a lot of numbers and a lot of wasted time. You also have to go all in that same day, that very moment, otherwise there is a high chance you will be flaked on or ghosted afterwards. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 01:23 PM |
| – | 30 Day Challenge to Meet Five Women a Day (Day 4). Field Report Included. Come Join Me and Let's F%$king Get Laid!Dude, your posts are inspiring. Ignore the guys hating on you, stop responding to them. That last guy who used your name and brought up your past was creepy as fuck. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 02:33 PM |
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