RussSur Archive

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2	Every other thing we talk about turns into an argument. It wasn’t like this before, how do I fix it? I haven't seen anyone else offer this observation, so here goes. The specific question you gave as an example is a leading question. It presumes a correct answer (in your example, "Yes"). Note that in the legal world, your friendly lawyer is not allowed to ask leading questions to you, but your opposing, hostile lawyer is expected to do so. Just to illustrate with some over-exaggerated examples, what replies might I give to your question "Wouldn't this be nice for our wedding?" "Yes" - Did I jus…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/22 12:01 AM
3	I stood my ground with a woman at work and she attacked me behind my back to the others all day... how can I respond to this now? SHE: I'll never bother you again at home, considering I was here at work while you were on holidays too busy to do the assignment. YOU: Thank you. Maybe add, "And I'll give you the same professional courtesy as well." (If you think she's simply too dense to even recognize she just lost.) Your error was accepting and responding to her passive aggressiveness. She was trying to lay guilt on you for not being eager to work for her on your vacation/holiday. You accepted that guilt by defending yourse…	/r/askTRP	27/04/17 02:22 AM
1	About to graduate college with a horrible GPA and a useless major, any advice and ideas on turning my life around so I am not broke as an adult? Who said anything about a "respectable grad program?" I know you don't like the field you are in, but you mentioned grad school twice, so you're obviously thinking about it anyway. If you continue in this field, your goal is not to enter the best graduate program, it is to enter A graduate program. Other advice here is better (like the Air Force idea), but if you decide you want the grad degree, don't sweat being accepted to "the best" grad school. Especially since you have no debt. Get accepted…	/r/askTRP	19/04/16 09:40 PM
1	Terrible at backing myself up/arguing my points well?(Terrible for my frame)... Or how to be more aggressive Look up your nearest improv comedy group and join, or take a class. Improv is all about thinking on your feet, committing to your choices, and using what came before. Plus, it's fun.	/r/askTRP	10/03/16 06:34 PM
1	INFP's with TRP? In what way is it the opposite? As an NF (or NT), RedPill is about recalibrating your internal model to change your outer behavior. Other personality types may adopt TRP differently, but for us, it provides a way to re-tune our intuition. When/as your intuitive model aligns better with what's actually happening in women's brains and feelz, you get to become truly "natural."	/r/askTRP	21/12/15 07:11 PM
6	Failed date attempt and I think she tried to turn me into an orbiter, any feedback would be helpful "You're not dating? Neither am I. See you at my place at 7:00. Wear red; I like that color on you."	/r/askTRP	17/08/15 08:20 PM
1	Holding frame Here's a trick for you. After you've sat in stunned silence for a moment, say "I can't believe you said that!" With puppy dog eyes. When she apologizes, hold out your fist for a fist bump. But when she reaches out, pull your hand back and say, "No," while you look away like she's not even there. She'll think it's the funniest thing you've done all night, and she'll probably laugh very loudly. Going from confident (before she broke your frame), to meek and supplicating (offering to "make up" with…	/r/askTRP	26/01/15 08:18 PM
5	So...can we just have a quick discussion? Some comments so far have only alluded to this. So I will spell it out. Many of the men in TRP are working through the Five Stages of Grief over their newfound worldview-shattering knowledge. Let's look at those stages one-by-one. Denial and Isolation - "Who needs women, anyway? They lie, they divorce-rape, they falsely accuse, they don't even know what they want! I don't need that sht, that's for damn sure!" Anger - "Women are awful, they deserve to be used because AWALT. Fck 'em." Bargaining…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/15 10:00 PM
1	Okay, I totally fucked up my sex drive, I'd like your advice on how to fix it... I bet if you pay close attention, you'll find that your symptoms include: Fatigue Muscle loss Long recovery times from exercise Low libido That combination of symptoms correlates very strongly with low-T.	/r/askTRP	07/11/14 12:21 AM
4	How do you deal with a main plate texting "morning babe" Every. Fucking. Morning? Why do anything about it? She's giving you free affirmation and validation Every. Single. Day. Look at it, smile, and go about your day. Do you feel some obligation to respond every day? Stop feeling that way. Let her give you feminine love and attention. Enjoy it as much as you can; ignore the rest.	/r/askTRP	24/10/14 11:53 PM
10	How to deal with being insulted in this situation? Congratulate her on the great insult. She did well. You're amused. Maybe even proud of her. Nothing says you are above the fray like commenting on the meta-situation. It seems to me like you let yourself remain "in her frame" by letting the put-down be a put-down. If, instead, you call it out as clever, or funny, or quick, or whatever, it shows that you are unaffected by it. Of course, you have to actually be unaffected by it. If you turned red, or were suppressing anger, or whatever, just accep…	/r/askTRP	24/10/14 09:17 PM
3	Should I take her to the concert? If she already paid for the ticket, it belongs to her. Drop it off at her house and go to the concert. If she is prepared to go with you, take her. If she still thinks power games are more fun than being with you, go without her.	/r/askTRP	16/10/14 09:29 PM
2	Did I push this cheating girl too far emotionally? I may have been over-cruel On the infinitesimal chance that she is capable of changing, do the next guy a favor. Do not give her closure. At least there will have been one time in her life when she felt bad for lying (or at least getting caught at it).	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 02:16 AM