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Oh no he's not grossed out by it, I think everyone ITT now thinks my BF has done something to make me this way like shamed me! Not at all, he has gone to the shop and bought tampons for me and we have had period sex in the past I just think it can be a bit of a rubbish time for the both of us so I do my best to make it less rubbish by being politely discreet, not secretive. I think my health issues surround it also mean that it takes up a larger % of my time than some women so I just try to mini…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 10:30 AM
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Language: is important to me I try not to talk about it because my BF doesn't need to hear about it, however if it is unavoidable I will refer to it as Lady Week. I may have to mention that I have a stomach ache to answer why Im looking for tablets etc but that's as much detail as I go into. I think neutral 'under the weather' language is best for this. Appearance : Im a shower girl but on the first and last day of Lady Week i'll have a bath or an extra long shower and pamper session, making sur…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 03:21 PM
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By having sex sans condom My BF doesn't 'provide' for me in the sense I think you are suggesting. However we (my BF and I) both want to get married, raise our family and share life together. I would like to stay at home for as long as possible (at least until they go to school at 4) to give my child/ children the best possible start in life. I am also conscious that my BF wouldn't be able to provide for more than one child on a single income so I unfortunately will have to go back to work sooner…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 06:16 PM
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The best thing you said there that really hit home was: If a woman on the RPW sub said "I'm out of shape and always have been" everyone would tell her to stop making excuses, hit the gym and and eat better. You can curtail this behavior and work to be less off-putting. He isn't being sensitive if you are acting like a witch Because I put a lot of effort into keeping fit so really this is no different. Yep. I need to work on it, if he doesn't like it anymore or never did in the first place it has…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 03:33 PM
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It might be important to include an incident that kicked it all off. The kitten fell off my knee and on her way down she tried to cling on with her claws in my bare leg, it REALLY hurt and I screamed. My BF laughed and I swatted his arm and said "piss off laughing at my pain!" His face went really serious and looked me up and down saying "Don't ever hit me". Seriously I would never 'hit' anyone, I was being playful I thought but he took it really seriously and wouldn't speak to me. Another examp…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 11:47 AM
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Unfortunately this week has been one of the worst in our relationship. Please feel free to jump in and advise. We work from home together and go to the gym together (he drives us both there we don't workout together) and it has always worked surprisingly well until this week when we've had probably 3 'cross words' I wouldn't call them arguments in the sense of arguments I had in previous relationships. But unhappy, angry even heated conversations. They've been based around me being too sarcastic…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 11:40 AM
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Contentedness comes before grace. If you're content you're secure and confident, in your movements, in how you speak to others, how you carry yourself, enter a room and dress. Being content means that you feel you have nothing to prove so the grace doesn't come off as showy or arrogant confidence. If you're not content you're carrying insecurities with you, constantly worrying does my bum look big in this (used to be my problem), ill just shuffle into the room hoping no one notices me cos Im not…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 02:39 PM
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I live in the north of england and it is COLD, wet, rain like we've never had before and the highest winds ever recorded. I would usually wear leggings with knee high socks and wellies, for a cute dog walking in the cold look, with a short puffy jacket but this weather is so bad I have to dress like a total man or I will cry with how cold it is. So im relying on making sure my indoor look underneath the layers is cute and cosy and my hair and make up are weather proof. Which Im not ashamed to sa…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 02:41 PM
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Some great advice, although I had to laugh with the 'don't be in the blood red nail brigade' as I currently have post box red nails with added glitter! Particularly like the part about life being mirror, so smile and it will smile back at you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 01:56 PM
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Just did this, I used to do ballet, 2 hours 4 times a week for 11 years and 30 minutes of this just killed my thighs, so out of practice, thanks for sharing :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 12:53 PM
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Squats Yay! I do cardio at the gym but for squats, sit ups etc I like to do those in the mirror wearing a lot less clothes than I would wear at the gym, at home. So I follow this video at home for doing squats, after the first few times you may want to mute her! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDpB8pWEjhk But the burn ooooh the sweet sweet burn! I have some weights for my arms but they are a bit too heavy for me to do much with at the moment so I do this arm work out every few days http://www.you…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 07:47 PM
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I hope that someday I'll be able to be even half the mother my mom was. That's something I dearly wish I could say, I do feel ungrateful that I don't think my mum's "the best mum in the world". Lovely that you have such a positive female role model and you plan to be one too :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 06:52 PM
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I've had very short pixie hair and hair right down over my chest, I wouldn't say it put men off but you certainly have to over compensate for the short hair with more provocative clothing, diet has to be spot on to maintain a 'pixie' like appearance and full make up all the time. It just depends how you wear it as to how it makes other people view you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 11:39 AM
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Me too, it finally caught up on me this week, I've been so run down even though Im eating so healthily, working out and drinking plenty of water, I was confused and in denial that I need to go to bed earlier. It feels like Im giving in to getting older going to bed earlier! Must stick to it though, 9.30 pyjamas on, in bed for fun times or reading by 10pm.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 02:11 PM
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2014 Im coming for you! Exercise my arse off and shift the 'love chub' to get back to my best possible figure Move house/ Sell my house and buy home together with my BF! Become a morning person so we can have better more productive days Stick to my skincare routine past March (most years I start this and it fades away) Be a real asset to the company I work for more so than I already am Im sure ill add loads more as the year goes on and when our lives change dramatically by relocating across the …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 02:28 PM
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I'd say go the whole hog and cook dinner as well! Have a nice dinner, a bottle of wine, the cake you've baked. If he has expressed a wish to 'do something' then I'd take that as a green light to go for it. Making things, putting effort in, remembering his favourite food and cooking it is the way to go.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 02:21 PM
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Yorkshire, North of England New RPW but have made some contributions, the tipping point was not wanting to end up like my mum and dad , she used him as a doormat and I always knew she didn't treat him well but not until I found my BF did I realise how I could avoid making the same mistakes and RPW fits my relationship beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 01:23 PM
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It's not your usual hobby but Im 25 and I joined a community benefit society, they are trying to save beautiful old buildings in my city from being bulldozed and reuse them for other things instead. I find it really interesting and have learnt so much about planning laws, architecture, government funding and politics that I would never of known before. People contribute whatever skills they have and I know shorthand so I take the minutes at the meetings.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 10:14 AM
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This is probably a whole other thread but sometimes I need to blow off steam away from my own gender especially when they're so mean about their boyfriends constantly , like as the whole topic of conversation, all night. But yes I do need to reconnect with my single friends who have more to talk about.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 09:25 AM
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Cheers! (im a Brit). I've said the minute I am no longer financially viable to the business I will get a different job. I already have some money I have invested (as I didn't go to university I saved the money my parents allocated for that instead) I am going to buy a rental property to rent out and have as either my income and stay at home and we can think about starting a family or as a supplement to part time work. We have really good frank conversations about our futures and money and I like…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 04:04 PM
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I make his breakfast and lunch and take it up to his desk, I sometimes sit on his lap for a minute when I take him his coffee and your comments about the fresh air are so true I feel revived if I pop out for a walk after work. Im not actively looking for faults but maybe Im over concerned, I want to be constantly improving on our work and home life and maybe that can come across as fault finding.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 03:54 PM
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I can't speak for him but I don't get the impression he is tired of me yet, I just want to be mindful and proactive and not allow it to get to the point where we are tired of each other. My friends ask me if we have nudge nudge wink wink stress breaks because we work together but we're so busy at work (which is great) that it never happens on the clock, but once 5pm hits and the rest of the world is doing their boring commute sat in traffic ;) that's a real bonus of working from home.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 03:37 PM
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The hobbies bit is something I added recently but I thought more of getting out of his way for a few hours rather than keeping myself interesting, good angle for me to keep in mind. thanks
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 03:05 PM
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At least boob length is pretty long hair IMO, I don't have the patience to wash, dry, straighten and style that much hair everyday, luckily my BF prefers my hair shoulder length as long as I never get rid of my fringe (bangs in USA) he really likes me with a fringe.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 01:46 PM
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Im quite short (5ft2) and have a very sedentary job (I work from home on the computer all day) so I have to be so so careful what I eat and remembering to do little exercises throughout the day. Im about 40% on that chart although Im lucky in the way it's spread, I have a very thin waist and a big bum. I try to incorporate stretches and yoga moves into my day to keep me flexible and improve posture and it also helps with my concentration at work if I do five minutes no screen time and some yoga …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 01:11 PM
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That's really good advice, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/14 09:24 AM
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I could certainly learn "how to communicate concerns without sounding accusatory" when you learn how to do this please let me know how!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 05:45 PM
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Thanks for posting this, I have had conflicting thoughts on how I can be a better girlfriend for a while, I found RP recently and now RPW and I can see that I don't have conflicting views, I have in built cultural ways of acting and treating other people vs how I can see those cultural ideas failing and divorce divorce divorce all around me! From my family, friends and school, telling me men and women are exactly the same to me accepting we're not and it's ok to celebrate those differences and n…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/14 04:02 PM
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Female here This article is very perceptive and rings true for me and conversations I have had with female friends. The most important thing that was left out however was that sexual pleasure for women is at least 70% in the mind, are you stimulating my mind i.e. are you saying the right things, looking at me (or not) in an arousing way, how did you initiate the sex, are you being powerful and masterful/slow delicate? I know it's difficult to do everything all at once and still enjoy it yourself…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 04:30 PM
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