RxCKSTxR Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Roughly how long after you file.. do things start to resolve, like house sale, alimony, retirement split I was married in California, strangely I think that helped speed things up.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/23 03:22 PM
1	Roughly how long after you file.. do things start to resolve, like house sale, alimony, retirement split Filed in April, looks like July or August will be finalized. I live in Kansas.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/23 10:04 PM
7	Is my loose-change bowl a permanent home for my old wedding ring? Tossing it in the San Francisco Bay.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/23 10:01 PM
2	13 years.. Married for 7 You got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/23 03:15 PM
6	13 years.. Married for 7 I am few years older and probably half a year ahead of you in the divorce process. I found a good support system, I work out regularly, I started yoga, I quit drinking and quit coffee for awhile. I realized the further away from her I got the better my life became. My career took off, I made amazing friends, I started a band and even though it’s advised against I started dating an old flame from college going through the same thing. I worked on being a good dad, I seem to have them 90 percent of…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/23 02:57 PM
10	13 years.. Married for 7 You gave it your all, you were not appreciated. Don’t worry about what she does, you can’t control another person’s actions or behavior focus on bettering yourself and being the best version of yourself you can be. Grieve this loss, truly feel everything from sadness, to anger even bitterness and resentment if it comes once you work through that you will be at peace. You will move on and be happy, wether you find someone else or go it alone is up to you. That’s the great thing about life it’s a …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/23 02:26 PM
2	Blindsided by divorce and heartbroken Literally going through a similar situation, I felt a fucked up stigma from the parents at my kid’s school and it seemed like every weekend she created a new drama. I started grey rocking her, and it helped. Unfortunately I replay the conversations in my head later and be emotional about it. I started doing yoga, I reached out to friends. One of which was going through something similar as me, she became a support system for me. I started going to therapy regularly, and working out. Generally ev…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/23 04:03 PM
30	Why did she cry? My stbxw has done similar Things, part maybe loss of control, part maybe the idea of a future with you is now irreversibly changed, part maybe they didn’t think things through . Regardless, the person you thought you married is not the one you are divorcing and as painful as it is, you can’t look back you got to look forward. Day by day week by week it will get better aNd you will come to find some sort of peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/23 07:26 PM
1	Anyone else’s wife lose her mind after kids? Are you me?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/23 12:30 PM