RyanBanJ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	She pulled the pin today Yes that does happen, each woman is different though so no guarantee things go back the same without her getting therapy for what she's experiencing. So many factors, her family/friend circle, what happened during pregnancy, her mind frame etc. For me, I wasn't a lay around the house dad either I was in the military and did everything afterwards while she worked remotely. Nothing seemed to make a difference, since there was always something I wasn't doing. It didn't get better, so I had to leave…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 05:38 PM
5	She pulled the pin today some women get narrow sighted when it comes to post partum, they tend to think you are never doing enough and they do everything. It's a mental heath issue that is going to take a lot of work, in your case since she already put the divorce in motion best bet is to get a lawyer man and do not leave the house until an order is in place. If it hadn't gotten to that point, I would have advised a post partum therapist but now you have to protect your assets and child visitation.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 01:22 PM
2	Just passed……men are screwed again. There are possible jobs that might involve abroad travel such as federal contract gigs. I could be laid off, and found a gig that requires travel to designated areas like Iraq. Based on the article, they are sticking with the law from 1996 which unfortunately does not count for inflation so it's $2500. My concern is that many could fall into that trap for trivial amounts. I don't support deadbeat, I had a deadbeat dad in the 80s so I get it. But for the dad's that try and has to fight the system…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 03:00 PM
4	Just passed……men are screwed again. It starts at 100k, aim is $2500 once HHS pulls more data	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 12:13 AM
7	Just passed……men are screwed again. If you bothered to read, it goes down to $2500 which is not much and can easily happen today with a layoff and a court being uncooperative.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 12:12 AM
7	Need advice So she pops out two kids and now decides she wants the free life? I don't think you should feel guilty for wanting to kick her to the curb. Parenting should require the two you, not just you working hard and a lazy mother. You are raising two kids, not three.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 11:02 PM
2	Cymbalta Changed Everything Cymbalta and Lyrica does make some changes, gotta be careful with those drugs. My wife went cold no sex drive and depressed all the time when she did Cymbalta	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/26 04:43 PM
4	How much do you pay monthly child support? How much custody do you have? How about alimony? Good lord	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 07:42 PM
2	This is just brutal, getting divorced in a few weeks. The GLP-1 has nothing to do with gaining weight back, when people generally lose weight they are at risk at gaining back all plus more. It's a lifetime drug, but just like regular weightloss requires lifestyle changes to maintain.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/25 02:03 AM
1	Just Venting I like the WWE reference	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/25 09:26 AM
1	We’re good communicators ya’ll Women communicate totally different, more emotions.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 06:22 PM
5	Going to start my divorce Unless you live in a 2 party consent State.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/25 10:21 PM
7	Do I visit my dying Ex-wife? What do you have to lose? Life is short it will likely be the only time you see her again alive.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/25 04:07 PM