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I dodged the question because i felt like she is gonna "take away my freedom" and i just needed time to think about it. In the next couple days she completely changed her behaviour towards me, she now has a behaviour like she doesnt need me,,,.and i feel the freedom now i have much space and i was like fuck why did i dodge the question.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:34 PM
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Instant panty drop
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:35 PM
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So what, laugh it off together, you shouldnt give a shit
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:31 PM
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You a straight up savage boii
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:30 PM
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Nonetheless OP should be going out meeting new girls
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:26 PM
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"She’s told me that she wants to stay loyal to me". Sure, let her be loyal to you. But you go get some man
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:47 AM
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If he was to remove the anger outbursts and the smashing doors part, he would probs be a perfect alpha in my book atleast
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:45 AM
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They realise how stupid the post actually is.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:08 PM
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No. I should have tried when i think about it
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:42 PM
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I feel like they get mad at me and just try to ignore me and hate me together with her friends
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:29 PM
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Yep, will do
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:28 PM
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I dont know how it is in Brazil, never been there
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:26 PM
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Hate or love, its still a strong emotion, if a girl can hate you, you probably can get her to love you. Exactly
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:25 PM
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Basically.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:24 PM
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Wow, thanks for the explanation. He truly was a master at it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:23 PM
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Idk it seems that some girls would rather prefer a guy that doesnt screw around with everyone
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:27 AM
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That is true, but i mean might as well use it to pull girls, why not
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:24 AM
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You proved to her your words don't mean shit. How can she trust a guy that doesn't stand behind his words. She can't. The exact same thing happened to me, i pulled the i'm breaking up with you, (was heated in the moment). She started crying, she tried to throw the blame at me "look what you did" "you don't give a shit about me" "can't you see how much i actually care". I was happy to let her back in, And i was like wow this works. Then shit hit the fan and totally backfired. She lost respect for…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:21 AM
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Exactly, i mean most of the girls ive been with slid into my dms
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:00 PM
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Will do!
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:59 PM
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I get invited to lots of parties whether it be a birthday one or just a normal one,i hit the gym, always meeting new people, spreading my social circle. I post stuff on instagram because i found it useful to get girls from it, the girls seem to come to me and slide into my dms. Thats the only reason i am keeping instagram but lately its like something went wrong, i guess thats just the normal "high and low". Nothing to worry about i believe, but definitely will tone it down a bit with the girls
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:24 PM
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I kinda got into the "preselection" thing too much.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:03 PM
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You know what, i had met a girl, and she was cool and stuff, then she started acting needy as fuck, (crazy needy, shouted my name outside the night club) and i was like dafuq man. That was an instant turnoff for me. Time passed, she found new guys, became prettier, and had that "no one can have me" look. But still even after all that, deep down i knew she was the needy girl that shouted my name. Maybe in like 10 years when i forget about her ill change my mind but not anytime soon. When i look a…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:56 PM
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Im not insecure about it, im just stating out the fact so i can get clear explanation
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:55 PM
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You are right, i did already know the answer but i just wanted to be sure, thanks
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:26 PM
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Yes, exactly what i thought Thank you
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:24 PM
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thank you!
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:24 PM
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Yea makes sense!
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:23 PM
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Yea, just recently. Im like a couple of months now into it.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:04 PM
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I was just trying to get an explanation why did i get this feeling, i never had it
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:57 PM
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Yea that must be it, i was lowkey angry at him for not knowing how to lead the class.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:57 PM
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I am 17?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:54 PM
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No worries dude, she already found a replacement fast, but i found one too so its okay, i just wanted to figure out this situation
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:41 PM
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Honestly, when i think about this situation with this specific girl, my game isnt bad, i was improving i had multiple girls, i have a bunch of friends and was out all the time.Yea maybe i did text alot but when i think of it THE BIGGEST THING I FAILED was at the time when she had sky rocket high interest and wanted to see me constantly, she called me every 3 days to meet and we met a couple of times and we were alone and she was facing me and i kinda froze up and didnt take the chance to k close…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:35 PM
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hahahaha no need to throw it at my face, im here to learn
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:17 PM
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I really need to work on that and stop having empathy for creatures that dont give a shit about guys feelings
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:50 PM
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I had a similiar story and same, she broke up with me, i swear its better to let them rot in their own un-success than try and fix them. I also watched patrice o neals show black phillip lately. One quote of his "Let the bitch know you are better than her" And he is so right, i remember a time where i constantly showed her i am better than her and she viewed me as a god. Then i started acting weak and being too nice to her and everyone knows how that ended...
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:46 PM
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I know she trusted me, but we werent making out anymore, she turned the cheek and all that Her interest dropped and she viewed me as a friend (i know what i did wrong but its too late already, i will know better next time) ​ Yes i was just a friend, the thing that bugs me the most is the knowing that if you did everything right that things would be different, my biggest problem is probably when i start caring about a girl my emotions will override logic, and even though i know what i should do i…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:04 PM
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Yep! But as others said i was an emotional tampon
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:59 PM
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I get you, thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:58 PM
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She was defo pretty messed up in the head, ye
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:56 AM
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Daym thats savage jhahahahahah
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:55 AM
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Will definitely try ignoring once in a while.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:55 AM
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Yea my mistake is mainly too much texting, ive lost quite a few girls like that. I gotta put a stop to this
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:54 AM
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Makes sense,thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:53 AM
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You are absolutely right, thank you. Wow the subservient role by being the listener, i really didnt think of it that way, that really explains a lot. Do you have any idea how to turn those negative emotions into tingles? Any post you can link me for that?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:56 AM
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Oh crap, wow i never thought of it like this, you are right, she did actually complain quite a lot like "why do you always type hahahah" "why is everything funny to you". I should maybe tone it down a bit, but just a little bit, i really cant hide it, i am a very optimistic person and i laugh all the frikkin time even when things are serious
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:48 AM
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The funny thing is, when someone disrespects me i throw it back at them instantly and dont let them shove me around. But when it is about my girl im like, meh who cares
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:46 AM
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I should probably be less available, and text less, i fucked up welp ahahah
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:43 AM
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Exactly, when there was no drama she would create it, she fed off of it like crazy. She drained my energy completely, she was toxic as hell. I cut her off few weeks later and i was so happy and my energy came back thank god
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:16 AM
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what do you mean by "what you want to do is make her feel good"
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:13 AM
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You are right ahahahhah thanks! ​
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:12 AM
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Could be, thanks!
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:10 AM
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Oh yea that makes sense, Problem is i tend to lean on the non fighting side, i always try to defuse a situation. But i totally get you
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:09 AM
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All right. Now here is my fast forward. We talked for a couple months more after that and stringed me along for attention, i was her form of validation and her orbiter. She started using excuses like " i cant im busy" and then hit me with the LJBF. And i was like nahh bye, and that is it hahahah you got it right man. I guess i fucked up once again by texting all the time and being available to her constantly
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:40 AM
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Thats all cool, but why did she get so pissed off i mean, she probably wanted me to get worried for her
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:37 AM
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young girls have a constant need for texting and if you dont text them atleast a little bit they will think you are not interested in them (17 years old) ​ I tried texting only for logistics and havent had success atleast with my age group. I need to learn how to deal with this situation. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:34 AM
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logistics yes i know, but young girls have a constant need for texting and if you dont text them atleast a little bit they will think you are not interested in them
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:31 AM
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this isnt the first time doing with this girl and we are both fine with it and we just continue our friendship like always.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:09 PM
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Well you just failed. You dont even know the girl and you say lets fuck, good job, you just screwed yourself over
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:06 AM
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I hope you do know that girls click "like" on every frikkin thing that pops up as they scroll down. A "like" whether its on instagram or facebook or any other social media page really doesnt mean much. Initiate a conversation, you will then see if she is interested.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:55 AM
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Bitches come and go, friends are the ones who stay! Dont let a crazy hoe fuck your whole night up. Remember abundance mindset, theres plenty of much hotter girls than her
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:37 AM
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DO NOT STOP GOING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS. This girl is very insecure, red flag. She started clubbing, red flag. You do not need to cut her off completely. If you get the chance to fuck her once again, why not take the opportunity. Use protection, she is probably on CC. Fucking other bitches will help you get over her. If she can really fuck you up in your head, then it is probably best to cut it off completely. I personally like to get the max out of every situation, so in this situation myself i…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:05 PM
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I always tease girls, i love doing it. Had a good male friend a couple years ago and i spectated how he was doing it, i implemented that and my game immediately went up by a notch. I still kinda believe she was kinda uncomfortable because we were in a heavily crowded place and that was why she turned the cheek. But oh well ahhhaha
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:16 PM
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Exactly. The best feeling i got in a long time was me going to a party and meeting 5 girls that were awesome at conversation. Added them all on instagram (didnt neccessarily want to fuck them). It really boosted my confidence and i was like, damn man, who gives a crap about this one girl when i can meet like 5 other girls in one night. It really helped me
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:01 PM
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First date did exactly that, asked her questions. She was crazy talkative i couldnt get my word in how fast she was talking. I kinda just laid back and relaxed. On 2nd date i was all over her and i was constantly talking something. She even told me i talk too much. Kind of a fail on my side. Just glad i got some experience from it. I will know better next time. ​
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:57 PM
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5 weeks in NO contact. Some never come back and that is totally fine. Point is to do self improvement. Exactly stay on my purpose and lift heavy. She is hella insecure i bet she will call some time in the future. I am using social media to my advantage here and posting a bunch of events and parties i am on and of course i am not viewing her stories anymore and liking her pics aka giving validation.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:53 PM
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I always tend to look to the positive side, which is "I am thankful for the experience she has given me, i will know better for the next time" Like you said, on to the next.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:47 PM
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totally agree with /u/INNASKILLZ2K18There is your answer OP
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:55 PM
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Give less attention
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:00 PM
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Seems like you just havent found the girl that knocks your socks off. Keep looking. Always look to the bright side, its better for you to not feel anything than get stuck on a girl and getting your heart broken
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:43 PM
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UPDATE....there were a couple more dates and a couple more times she called me to see me, and every time i felt i had the chance to kiss her i kinda chickened out because the moment she turned the cheek on me always hits me like "what if she rejects me" She started using me as a validation tool sadly, i displayed more weakness.. Her respect for me dropped so low to the point she said "I already know you wont leave, so shut up already" weeks have passed and i finally said "look i feel like a frie…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:31 PM
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