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| 1 | How do I approach her correctly. | Conversation | Ryu_Saki | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 11:59 PM |
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| 15 | Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.Probably, I'm just a lurker and have been that for a long time now. | /r/seduction | 08/05/23 10:26 PM |
| 9 | Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.Not really, for some ppl its just not worth the effort, me included. I dont need a woman and I'm not pusuing it either, but if it happens it happens. | /r/seduction | 08/05/23 10:23 PM |
| 7 | Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.To sum this up, it sucks being a guy in todays dating world. | /r/seduction | 08/05/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How many women have you approached with romantic interest in the past year?Happy cake day | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Beggar | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Choosingbeggar much? | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLThey just an asshole | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:54 AM |
| -1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLMost girls that I talk to online are real lookers but I don't date online anymore. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.That's true, but I don't I just don't like going there. My preferences are else where, however that doesn't mean other places are any easier for me tho. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.Also, many guys are just not made for bars/clubs. They just don't function in that loud/rude/drunken environment. Im one of those I just don't like those areas I also feel no point in drinking really. Social game is quite fun tho. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?You will eat more when you are actually working out, your body will adapt. I know becsuse I hade the same problem as you before. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?You will need atleast 3000 (more or less) if you work out 3 times a week. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:51 PM |
| -4 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?Yes but also no because you are licking the hair rather than the pussy itself, depending on how much bush there is of course. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:57 PM |
| -2 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?Well you do you licking hair then I prefer licking actuall pussy which OP seem to do also. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?Do you also like hair in your food? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Autistic adult here: an ELI5 guide on How to talk to women?That doesnt work in case like this | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here regularly think of suicide?Actually I have the same feeling as you have. I'm talking to a nurse on a regular basis about all of this and they say to keep trying which I guess is true but its so hard and I dont know where to start really idk how it is for you tho, have you talked to anyone about this? The only advice i can really give is to keep trying even tho it can be hard. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.There is no shame in mentioning it if the subject it brought up. I mean according to me going to therapy is a strenth because that means you want to get you life together and making that a prio if the girl can't see that then I would just move on. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Age detection?How is the reading comprehension? It clearly states in the post that he DO NOT want to have any business with the kids... | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 3 | QuestionYou do know most girls can't cum from just penetration right? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:18 AM |
| 11 | Have any of you seen a move like this?Uhhh you are joking right? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Well they are not resposibility, they can get someone professional for it. This kind of isolation might be one of the causes to your depression and such. I recommend you to talk to your grandparents about it and then start your life from there. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysI'm into asians and I can just say talk to us and we will respond. If they like you back you will know. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.I dont really like cold approaching sure it is a really great way to get fucked on but that's pretty much it atleast for me. I would only use this method to fuck but not to get into a relationship with someone because it feels fake. I would rather do that from social circle since i already have a rougue idea what she likes, its just a gamble with cold approaching and for me that's a waste of time. But if it works for others then good for them. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.Ikr femcel isn't even a thing... Incel isn't just specific to men | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:27 PM |
| 0 | I (25F) don’t know how to find guys/ get datesYou are definitly using the wrong words for this. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 3 | What red flags do you look for?Bad Relationship with her Family How is that a red flag I mean it could be but not by default. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.You are literally talking against the whole essence of this sub... | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesMeans centre of attention. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] Approached a famous pornstar at a barYou do know that a rejection could be a simple no even if you have barely said anything to her. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | How will you describe a 10/10 guy?They don't exist, the rating system is flawed. In reality the rating goes between 3 and 7. Human can't be flawless not completely ugly. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 4 | The number of incels in this sub is outstanding (you are the reason for your own failure) + common questions answeredI just blame myself and my own insecurity, which I do work on btw. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | why don't I feel like socializingI feel the same bro. Like I feel all energetic and stuff get the wants to do stuff when I'm outside doing something but when I'm at home I sit on reddit and youtube scrolling while not feeling to do anything at all. I shall talk to my psychologist about this, I'll advise you to do something similar. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 2 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?Feminist women? I guess you are refering to the loud radical ones? If that is the case then I agree. The other point you are making make sense too. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:56 PM |
| -4 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?Yes and there is more of them than you think same goes the other way with men liking masculine women. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:08 PM |
| -7 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?"men do not like masculine women" such a generalization you do. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Approach French girls like Ted Bundy or Richard Ramirez?I don't know what to say really you should delete this post. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:27 AM |
| 5 | I Caught My Aunt Cheating And Since Then I'm Not Same Anymore whats wrong ?r/TrueOffMyChest | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itall that matters is that chicks overwhelmingly dislike guys who spend their time playing video games Never heard anything more untrue as this. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:53 PM |
| -1 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.Yeah social circles is the best, in fact I have it just as hard getting friends as I have getting women. I have no social circle and getting one is the hardest thing cause off my social anxiety, I am working on those things tho so I hope things plays out with time. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | You Can Bring an Incel out the Basement, But you Can't Bring the Basement out of the IncelThere comes a point where there just isn't time to do this stuff Then make time for it. And also new behaviour can be learned it's hard but its doable jsut as you say if you want that significant change you gotta dom the shit ton of work. I know how it is. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?It's irrelevant so I wouldn't mention any of it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Overcoming sexual insecurityDon't Sex is more than just the dick, I mean lesibians has great sex and so can you! I trust you bro! | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | how to get out of bro zone? (f)Funny thing is that what you describe totally work on me but understand that most guys don't. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:34 AM |
| 6 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleThe point of this is good but most of this is just wordpooping and could be way shorter than this. We would still get what you are trying to say with less then half of that. Most people won't read it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.My best friend is also an ex we have dated 2 times but the way we talk and stuff is like that never happend. I personally have no problem with that and its easy for me to just throw away those old feelings and just talk to her like any other human. For me it is hard to understand how people can't be friends with their exes. Would love to hear your thoughts on that. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to meet a girl on facebook?Not only that, facebook dating is apparently a thing, I get notifications about it all the time, kinda annoying actually. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:55 AM |
| 10 | I ruining a probably good relationshipFrom what you tell us it does seem that he like you and if he does then he won't care about you being poor nor homeless. And please don't say that he is better of without you, you don't want to have that mindset. Also the sooner you tell him about your situation the better it is, if he is decent then he will understand and support you. Don't be ashamed about telling him. Wish you the best :) | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 66 | What are some things I can do to be around more women?That's why you take dance classes ;) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | How To Be An Attractive ManOkay so the approach by it self is the single hardest thing for me, the rest after that is quite easy. I can give an example with the approach. Yesterday I was at an event about a hobby I have to meet new people tho I never interacting with anyone I just stood there completely frozen getting nausea so I just left. When approaching ppl I haven't met before with socializing in mind I just get sick in my stomach and can't get a word out without sounding weird and stuttering alot, I have no idea how… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??Yes atleast where I live and has been normal for quite some years now. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop missing sex/relationships?I'm like this and I never seem to learn tho I have booked an appointment with a therapist that knös the area. So i don't repeat it again. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | i am honestly afraid of growing old and having to hookup with age gap.Where does he say that girls 18-22 fuck 30 yo guys? | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What does snapchat mean to older Gen z (20+). Does he care about the streak?I only care about streak due to my OCD other than that it doesn't mean shit to me. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itWhat is a V-card? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Sure I didn't know the correct name but that's not a reason for being a dick about it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?Yeah that's what you do if you want to get taller, you cut the bone in half in both lower legs and then stretch it out. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?you can't change your height You can it's called Bone Stretching. Nothing I would recommend doing tho. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Sexual attraction is a universal language of mankind.Well you can still want a relationship without the sexual part. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | This is a friendly reminder that you should start a skincare routine if you don't have oneNo I don't have anything to scrub with but I could get something for it. I try to have my bedding changed atleast every 2 weeks I could do it more often tho. My diet is also quite unbalanced atm. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 8 | This is a friendly reminder that you should start a skincare routine if you don't have oneI second this I mean I have huge problems with acne espacially on my back so have like alot of scars, no Idea how I should treat this tho, will probably ask the doc about it. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]constant communication and timing I do this alot and have done for many years I would assume its because of my Monophobia and separation anxiety. It's actually quite exhausting, tho I'm trying to change this with some therapy because I don't wan't to feel the need to to this. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Thinking about having sex with my teacher.I don't know what I should say about this. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!I mean in my case on why I want someone is probably to fill in my empty space I have since I'm always bored and I also have monophobia. The first thing I can solve is just to do to stuff and when I do some things I like I do get more happy but thing is I can't afford the things I like to do atm and since i few years back and it's really damn hard to get a job not only because of covid but also because of atychiphobia. Life fucking suck and I will contact my Doctor for a psycologist right after I… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!I think I need therapy regarding this but not only that I think about woman way too much and it brings me down so to the point that I'm just depressed and miserable it just consumes alot of energy. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do women always act so weird around me?Why do you make such a deal out of their legal age being 16? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?What does FWB stand for? | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You definilty did the right choice, I mean fuck that. Would never spend that much on someone I never met before and definitly not on someone with her attitude. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?That's the dumbest thing I have heard all week. But if that's the case then getting a drivers license must be dirt cheap? | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?If it were that easy my friend then everyone would have a car and since I assume this is in the US then its way easier to take a test there then it is over here where I live. And for that you need lessons or someone you can practise with. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?Can even see that it is more responable in a way since you learn to respect time a little more due to having to time public transport schedules. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How can I find a beautiful girlfriend?It is supposed to be incredibly difficult for men. Yeah I can feel all that. I have had instances where I just had to say yes to become their boyfriend but have always said no due to insecurity and I did have regret having missed those opportunities I still have regret about it but not nearly as much as I did because you can't change the past so having regret doesn't make sense. Rignt now I have a harder time approaching women because this time it is IRL before I used Omegle. But knowing the dif… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What are things to talk about on 3rd date?"not ready to date" I have had this happen to me once. I'm like why not be upright about it. I know that women can do this quite alot like saying something but mean something else. It just bugs me. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Do as much small talk as possibleI have never done this before cause I just don't know what to talk about like I'm beyond worthless at small talk. I mean cold approaches makes me stutter ALOT so can't even say what I wanna say. I guess my autism has play in here since I do have that. i would like to change this so I will be able to do all of this. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Do as much small talk as possibleHow the fuck is it creepy not having social media precense? I can tell you it's not, and not everyone wants to do that kind of thing I'm one of those people. I do have Insta, Snap and FB but I barely use them at all because I just don't like doing it and many ppl think the same as me. Nothing creepy about it. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!It does have some effect on it and it definitly plays a part in it all. I for a fact would have better success if i had it better finacially because I can't even afford a date as it is right now. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"What does OLD mean in this context? | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have the same problem as you. Haven't really made a single friend since I was 8 years old and I'm 23 now. This is not friend specific tho, it's has hard for me to approach women as it is approaching potential friends. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How far away is the farthest that you would date someone?I have only had had long distance relationships before and the one that lived teh furhtest aways was around 1000 KM but right now I don't really feel like having it that far away. So today I would say not more than 3 hours. If its online dating then it doesn't matter where she lives. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Single guys, if you were set financially, what would you do with your life?Spend a shit ton of money on VR since I love that so much but also build some stuff since I have a passion for wood working but also travel visit some friends I have all over the world. There are lots of more stuff than this tho but there is too much stuff to mention. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you that really means alot. I am actually really proud of myself that I finally managed to talk about all of this in greater detail (been to psycologists before but then failed attempts at actually talking). Right now I'm basically exposing myself for my own fears by talking about the problems I have for my friends and it really makes me feel better. and I'm gonna continue to expose myself because those are the only thing preventling me from being who I want and I WILL do it. I have always… | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 10:28 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateThis is pretty much my case tho she didn't shame masculine behaviour and she didn't hate against men in general just my little brothers dad, my dad and her own past partners. She was aggressive and abusive both mentally and physically and she never let me do anything that revolved going to my friends also never encuraged me to do anything. All this made me into a mess I am talking both to a psycologist and a Speech therapist atm and I'm working hard on those things that put me down. I'm 23M btw. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 7 | My most effective pick up line..Ih this I might actually have use of this because I have a girl that I am intrested in, she also happens to be intressted in me. So I will use your tips and se how it goes. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What, in your opinion, is your biggest challenge with women?For me its my social awkwardness, agora phobia and that it's hard for me to keep myself interesting for them. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 211 | [deleted by user]That's a fun story thanks for sharing. Also make new post or do a reply in here if she actually texted/called you back. :D | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys who use the word ‘hun’Fuunny thing is a female friend I had called me both hun and buddy (I'm male) I cringed all the time when she said hun but buddy felt quite comforting for me. I know this thread wasn't for me but it was funny since the roles were reversed. XD | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Step by step guide : Get a SexFriend in less than a monthYeah that's how everything works when it comes to new stuff. I do however wonder where to do it since I don't have anyone to hangout with so can't do it with the help of other contacts. Guess I could found some new hobbies which I do have some plans on so I can start from there. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Step by step guide : Get a SexFriend in less than a monthThat is true tho I don't know where to meet any and in what context it should be in. Have no friends that i can go with so can't do it that way. Sure I can go to the bar but that's a no go for me atm. I will probably come up with something sooner or later. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Step by step guide : Get a SexFriend in less than a monthI work as a mechanic atm so I think I'm gonna stay there. Sadly enough this doesn't involve talking to customers. But yeah I can still talk to the co-workers that I have tho no girls there. I do however have some plans on DJ:ing on clubs quite soon and lets see what I can do from there when that happens. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Step by step guide : Get a SexFriend in less than a monthAs ImAMonster98 says. I have mad social anxiety, agoraphobia and bad self esteem which is why I have such a hard time talking with people so its not girls only. I do love myself but what I don't love is my inability to talk to people due to mentioned conditions which is also why I am working on it. But when it comes to girls I haven't had it that hard actually but it's because I've hooked up with gals from different websites (no dating sites or anything like it.) and I have always done it on the… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Would it be boring to a girl if I told her “Hey if I’m not enough for you then tell me. You deserve to be happy too”That sounds like something I would say and I'm NOT proud of it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:34 AM |
| 29 | Step by step guide : Get a SexFriend in less than a monthI know right, like how do one even talk to girls randomly like that or people at all for that matter? | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:00 AM |
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