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| 16 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns. | Ryugi | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 08:27 AM | |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious. | Ryugi | /r/MensRights | 24/01/12 06:18 PM |
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| 0 | I never thought I'd post here. If it can happen to ME, it can happen to YOU. I'm LOSTShe's lucky I even went on a date with her. [...] my last GF was more attractive, this girl is a tad bit overweight, but whatever. [...] I've had numerous girlfriends (all way hotter). If something so fucking petty can happen to ME (they know my job and my hypothetical salary) Maybe try not being such a douchey person and you won't get treated like one? Protip: Drinking = do not sexually engage with someone. Signals are too easy to mix. What you saw as "just making out" she may have seen as sexu… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I have realised that I'm a slut. Now what?*You're | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Well, with people like 'im supporting Men's Rights, they won't get good PR either, at least. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/12 04:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Indeed... What the fuck is wrong with him? Doesn't he know that he's the reason why women don't want to support men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 29/01/12 05:22 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.So you can spout analogies but you can't understand them? You really are making men look good. Guys like you are the reason I'm a lesbian. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/12 08:41 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Cutting the trees down because they aren't on your property doesn't put trees on your property. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/12 06:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Having freedom is important. Which is why taking someone else's freedom away, which they could use to help you, isn't helpful. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/12 04:35 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.No, I'm saying if men want them they need to go forward and do their best to fight for it. I'm saying not taking away what we've already fought for. Socialism in practice is not equality, however, at it's core, it is. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 10:22 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I pity your ignorance. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 10:07 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.What do you mean people like me? Hard working college students who want nothing more than friendly conversation? Someone who thinks that men and women should have equal rights? | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.No, I never had bias. Whether or not you were a man or a woman fighting about your issue, you offend me on a primal level. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 09:57 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.The point isn't to hurt someone else Yes it is, if you take away someone else's rights. Then the point is to oppress and hurt them. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 06:48 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Legal quality should mean raising the standards, not taking away from another. What part of, "it won't help you to hurt someone else" can you not understand? Please go see a doctor, bring prints of our conversation. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/12 01:31 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I can think. I think you need to see a doctor. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 11:52 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.It's not a strawman. It is a legitimate issue. Look it up. Almost half of all pregnancies have a complication that could kill the mother. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 06:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I thought that it was to rise above previous stereotypes and make the law more fair towards men. Not to bring down another group. You're acting like this is the KKK but instead of blacks, you want to destroy women. So, no, I don't think this movement is FOR taking down anyone else. And if it was, I would be 100% against it. Because just better yourselves instead of asking others to stoop to your level. It's like the fucking SATs in highschool. We barely learn anything in school and the SATs are … | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 06:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I don't believe men are 2nd class citizens. You assume a lot of things. Again, though, it doesn't help you any to get someone else's rights changed. So how about instead you point out the differences and lobby to get men's rights upped to that level? Because that is how you will be effected. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 05:11 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.It shows a certain lack of maturity that you downvoted my question to you without even replying. My question was legitimate. It is something to consider. Why should a woman have to suffer and die because she was raped? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.This. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.The closest this fundy blowhard is going to get to the white house is a guided tour. Made me smile. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:46 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.This is true, but most real rape cases are disregarded anyways as false rape cases. Also, a lot of times, women are coerced to say they lied about the rape case. I'm not saying this about Roe v. Wade as I haven't read the details but I'm saying this out of experience. In my town, it took eight girls getting raped and reporting it was by the same guy at the same place (at a highschool) for the cop to even consider that he could have possibly molested his friend's little sister and that the witnes… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.One guy who's posts were just deleted for being trollish. He clearly had some kind of psychosis, judging by how he was posting. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I look forward to your reply. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I do have a brain. That's why it's not clear how you think that taking away someone else's rights would benefit you at all. No, I don't believe in Jesus. Most people I know who do have disowned me because I'm gay. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.You never thought that it wouldn't help you to get someone else's rights taken away? Wow. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Actually a lot of women become malnourished during pregnancy, even to the point of serious illness. thus, it damages the host. If it is not human it is simply a parasitic lump of cells. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I think that both parties should be consulted if a child is created, but if the woman wants the child and the man does not when they are not married, he shouldn't be entitled to pay child support. It's selfish what some people do. At the same time, if he didn't want kids, he should have used proper protection (instead of relying on her to have protection handled). Regardless I respect your opinion and I appreciate your honesty. I agree that Rick Santorum is wrong, but in many more colorful words… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 05:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Fetuses are parasitic entities. Humans are not parasitic entities. As such a baby before birth is not human. Thus, it is not a human life that is being taken. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 03:20 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.What about women who are mentally ill or physically unstable? It could kill them to have a child, yet do you still want them to have to find out their own breaking point just for some morals? What if a woman is raped, in that case? Does she have to die because of what someone else did to her? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 03:18 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I agree that the rights should be equal, but taking away something because another doesn't have it is spiteful and wrong. You should, perhaps, try to be a little more assertive. It won't help anyone to get rights taken away.... But it would help if you were to be more proactive about obtaining rights for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 03:16 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I'm not accusing anyone of anything. How about instead of trying to make others dislike me, you do something constructive with this conversation. How do you feel about the events I posted about? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I'm not accusing anyone of anything. How about instead of trying to make others dislike me, you do something constructive with this conversation. How do you feel about the events I posted about? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Well I think it's simply a good memory. Besides, there is plenty of life here on reddit. Almost all of us know more about current events then any of our relatives/friends-who-don't-reddit couldn't even dream. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/12 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I'm not sure what you mean. I just honestly want to discuss it and see how men, who are concerned about their own rights, feel about other men trying to destroy women's rights. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/12 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.I agree and understand what you mean about potential trolls or majority. I don't really care for majority but I do find a lot of the people on this subreddit are very fun conversationalists. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/12 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.You remember me? Aww... that's so sweet! Anyways, Sorry if my post seemed odd for this subforum. I know, however, that a lot of men here are very forward about their opinions and very honest (aside from a few...) and I respect that and enjoy that conversation. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/12 11:40 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about Rick Santorum's position on women who were raped and want an abortion? Just curious.Sorry about Hamakua. He's the only true troll here. Anyways, I thought that it was a matter that you guys would be interested in. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.It may have been necessary, but there was no consent. A general doctor performed the operation, not a specialist. It would have had less problems if it had been performed by a specialist. Both are wrong and sad. In both cases. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/12 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.And who are you to say what has happened to me in my life? You don't even know me. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/12 08:41 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.You are the ignorant one for believing things like that don't happen. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/12 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I envy your ignorance. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I have been beaten with fists and objects as well. But it wasn't as bad as being raped, even if I couldn't see out of one eye for a few weeks. I never said a man can't be raped, I was simply saying that I was raped, and it is one of the worst things that can happen to you, especially somewhere where you should be safe. I was expressing my displeasure to your statement by saying, "were you?" | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.If it makes you feel better, sex without lubricant is painful to me too. I don't lubricate well enough naturally, because my vagina is fake. I was born without external genitalia. I only had an anus and a urethra, everything else was smooth like a barbie doll. So a doctor decided to give me a surgery to open my vagina and basically give me a fake labia majora and minora. My mother wasn't even asked permission, or informed about it until afterwards. It took years of hormone therapy, antibiotics, … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.A woman could do heavy lifting if she trained herself properly, however, men have an advantage to it because of the difference in hormones, etc. I'm not offended by the article he presents, but the way he presents it. Instead of stating his opinion and linking to the article, like a normal, sane human being, he opted to ask me a question for "my opinion" and prove me wrong. He clearly has some kind of unresolved issues he was taking out on me. Opinions have no right or wrong. He fails to underst… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I understand. Every single human is contradictory. No big deal. I know that not all men are bad. But, for me, it's still hard to not let my anxiety get the better of me if I'm alone with a stranger (male or female, anywhere). | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I understand your reason. It makes sense that you are standing up for your father's sake. I don't know. I would like to hope so, but a lot of them are too crazy and neurotic.... | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I wish that applied/worked to the advantage of my area. It sucks here. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 09:49 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.it is hard to consider what women go through as equivalent I'm sorry but I have a problem with this. I was raped at school. And I was charged with indecent exposure when I reported it, because I said he pulled my underwear off. I don't think you were raped, were you? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 09:48 AM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?They were both A students, who studied together, overall GPA only .04 points different, and it was Vicky's that was higher. They were both hired, again, but he was given better wages. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I hope you do not think I was trying to insult you. It seems there are a lot of mis-communications lately. I hope that you use your knowledge for good and try to make a change, somehow. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 04:12 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I actually don't have a better answer. I'm sorry. I wish I did, though, but every single person who started to "stand out", right as I begun to respect them, did or said something completely ludicrous that made me want to rip out my ovaries and strangle each one of said leaders with them. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.That's horrible... I am sorry you had to witness and be a part of a household like that. I hope that you are a well-adjusted adult. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 03:23 AM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?The applications did include transcripts, resumes, and references. There was simply no meeting in person to make the decision. The two actually worked together on writing their resumes. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Now you are picking apart what I say to tell me how I'm wrong on every level. It's funny, because I'm not making it about me. You are. Simply by asking me questions, having me answer with my opinion, and then telling me how no matter what I say my opinion is wrong. If you hate me so much, stop talking to me. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 02:09 AM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?The only difference between their resumes and paperwork was that she is an African American woman and he is a Caucasian man. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 01:13 AM |
| 0 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Some women don't physically train or prepare themselves the way that would be needed. Perhaps those women didn't take it seriously, or thought it was good enough. I don't need to read all 8 pages to find the part about why they didn't individually pass. More importantly, I don't care to read the entire article, because the only reason you linked me to it was to insult me. And there you go, insulting me again. I'm done talking to you. I give up. Men are superior in every way to a woman. Women are… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I don't know, I'm not a part of any feminist group, so I couldn't tell you. Most people are pre-conditioned and basically brainwashed into believing that circumcision is important and necessary. I didn't know any better for a while, either. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 01:04 AM |
| 0 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I did read the article. The reason they didn't pass is because as individuals, they did not have qualities that were needed for the job. However, I do believe that women who could have passed exist. For example, female body builders. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 01:02 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Oh, I never heard of something like that. Though I do see how it would bother you. There is still Happy Hour, though, which applies to all patrons, at least? I know it's not the same as having a "Man's Night" or whatever you'd call it, however, I would like to think that Happy Hour is more common than "Ladies Nights". | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:56 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.So certainly, you asked me that question only to insult my opinion. On top of that, you site simple newspapers, which are highly biased and often contain inaccurate information. You are really making this subreddit look good /s. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:54 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Yes, I do think think women are capable of doing, on average, all the tasks that men are required to do in the role of firefighter. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:47 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I do know how reddit works, sir, and if you hadn't noticed, my original post if I had left it as it was would have made me look like some crazy feminist to the other people. Because the changing of his question made it so that way I sound like an asshole. He did this intentionally. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I'm only taking offense to you trying to edit your post to make me look like a bad guy. That's the only thing. I'm not purposefully ignorant. I'm not asking everyone to prove their points. If you took a few minutes to read, I only ask for proof when they provide something as a blanket statement, for example, "only men have to do x". I don't believe that which I do not understand. I am asking for personal experiences and such to try to determine whether or not I believe and understand. I'm not he… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I am glad you get pleasure, though I do appreciate and understand your desire to have had consent in what took place. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:14 AM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Whenever a person uses Ad hominem, they tend to have already proven themselves unable of fair communication. You are nothing but a troll, and your attempt to turn this subreddit against me by editing your question to make me sound like a bad guy is proof of that. Every single person has the capability for ultimate evil. Humans are born evil and the evil is trained out of them, in my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I robbed at gunpoint by a couple yesterdaySad, sad times... I hope the father takes good care of the kids while she is in prison. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/12 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Our police live where they work. There are no other stations to "trade officers" with. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Thank you for answering. Best wishes, friend. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.The media isn't a reliable source of information. You should know that. I'm not questioning validity - I am asking for reasonable proof of something that, for all I know, you could have made up just to prove your point. Judging by your general attitude, I really wouldn't put it past you. You are desperate to be right, so you might fib to make yourself right. Not everyone has the same education nor the same knowledge of history. I'm not giving your question an answer because you are only asking i… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:52 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.No, I don't believe that. There's a nice way and a rude way to ask things, and you need to learn the difference if you ever want anyone to take you seriously. If you had asked like this before hand, I wouldn't feel like you're such a rude person. It doesn't help that you are bothering me in multiple places, which always leads me to believe that you are an immature, attention-seeking, always-gotta-be-right kind of person. You should stop while you are ahead. I do believe that there are a number o… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I don't have any brothers, my father doesn't even come close to the description, and my last boyfriend emotionally and physically abused me, so I don't think talking about him would help your argument. Yes, my boyfriend attacked me in similar manners as my attacker attacked me. I don't think a professor would talk about attacking anyone as that would jeopardize their job. I don't really know what you mean about the other things? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:42 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Indeed, indeed. I understand your sentiments. I'm sorry that you were severely abused at school. I was too, so I understand. I wish those sorts of things didn't happen. It's sad. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:28 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Yes, I do. Only a complete idiot wouldn't. I know that you are intending to mock me for simply asking for citations on information, and I find that rather immature. Why is it so wrong to ask for sources on any given subject? Troll elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:26 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I know. It sucks. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Thank you for the links. Women make 28 of 11,400 firefighters [which is] less than 0.3 percent [of the task force] It seems that the numbers of male firefighters who sadly lost their lives are due to the lack of women firefighters in that area, and not due to simply "sending the men to the most dangerous places". As for police, it is amazing that she was such a brave soul. I'm glad she was honored. I do hope that the other police (male or female) who were hurt or killed were honored as well. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:14 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.So it's wrong to ask for citations when presented with statements presented as facts? I don't really know what's wrong with that. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I see what you mean, and I agree with you that it is a likely reason. It may be institutional sexism, but in my area there aren't any female police nor women of authority, excluding the school district. We don't have a lot of real control over the issue, as there isn't a mayor since we aren't a city. We are a new town, officially as of 2008. But, we don't have enough people to be a city. We don't even have our own emergency services, and the nearby cities have to lend their officers/equipment. I… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:09 PM |
| 4 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I'm sorry I didn't mean to insult you by the use of the word, "tales". If you felt insulted, I am sorry and I would like to assure you that I did not mean it like that. I believe that what you tell me is true. And like I said to that user, I don't really know the truth about suicide rates or whatnot, but I do agree that there is a certain lack of care given to men about their emotional problems that need to be changed/addressed. I hate the whole, "man up" thing. To me, it's immoral. If a man has… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I do wish that it was different from that. It's a pretty sad state of things. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:59 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.So you think that male police will take men's problems seriously? In my town, that is unfortunately how it happens, at least on the surface. There are also more women getting tickets than men in my area, which could be a verity of things - it could be sexism, but it could also be that women aren't driving as well as men. Maybe there are significantly more women drivers on the road, too. It's hard to speculate or pull-hairs on that. It's pretty messed up that people who are being paid to believe … | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:58 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I'm sorry she mistreated you that way. I have a dear friend who went through the same thing. Someday, I hope that you will find a girl who, even if she is enveloped by fantasies, isn't after your wallet. I myself was raised by Disney Fantasies, but because of that I know that money isn't important (but of coarse it is a nice thing to have to feel safe and secure and of coarse I love giving and getting big holiday gifts). I'm glad you had the strength to go out and get a degree, and that you had … | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I'm sorry that you had a lot of bullying - I did too. From boys and girls. I was the quiet girl who read books and got good grades, so I was always the target. A brother and sister pair tag-teamed me. The sister would do something horrible to me, wait for me to retaliate or push away, and the brother would scream that I pushed his sister. If I look back on my school reports from back then it enrages me to this day how no one ever thought that sometimes bullies have entourages who lie for them. I… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I haven't heard of a case where the prenup wasn't upheld in a case where the breakup is mutual, however, I would like to think that any properly notarized, legally signed document would hold up in court. I agree that it may be a bad idea to gamble, but in that case, you should hope to find a woman who doesn't want your material things or money. How does China do marriage? I'd love to learn the differences. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Do you have a source for that information? It sounds like a lot of conjecture - the same kind that feminists use in their arguments. I hope you understand why I don't believe it fully, but I do understand that you intended I use the concept, not the material. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:46 PM |
| 0 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Source? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.That is a very nice motto. I'll be honest with you - I'm not a strong enough person in some matters to agree with it. However I thank you for your well wishes and wish the same to you, as you are a better person than I if you are able to practice your motto in all things in life. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Thank you for sharing. I think that sounds silly... Basically, people aren't choosing certain jobs, so other people are saying that they are prevented from getting those certain jobs? That's what it sounds like, to me... I think it could effect men and women who are preconditioned towards or against certain occupations. I think that the only good feminist groups are the ones like what you've described. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:29 PM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?I asked Vicky by email - she confirmed that Jim was white. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:25 PM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?No, there was drama between the college and the business that everyone knew about. It had to do with a contract that went sour and stole money from the college. I see that you are trying to poke holes in the story simply because there are a couple details missing. I'm sorry that you feel self-conscious enough to do that, but it is the truth. The person who made the decision was most-likely a Hispanic male, because all of the decision-making parties at my college are Hispanic males. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:24 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I am sorry if somehow my post came off wrong - it was not my intention. I sometimes pick the wrong words when typing, and a lot of the time people say it sounds "condescending" when I was simply just trying to sound emotionally un-involved by avoiding buzzwords. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry those women were such assholes to you. If it makes you feel better, women like that do it to other women too. My friend "C" was accused of molesting her little 9-year-old sister by women just l… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?They had the same exact process, same training, same everything. I emailed her for more detail about the situation yesterday, and she replied and confirmed that Jim is white. She told me, additionally, that her and Jim were both raised by the same adoptive mother. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I robbed at gunpoint by a couple yesterdayI'm sorry you had to go through that. It must have been very scary. Clearly that woman and her husband/boyfriend/whatever needed tho both be arrested and prosecuted. Hopefully, the pain of being separated from their kids will teach them to not do those sorts of things in the future. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:11 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I don't really know the truth about suicide rates or whatnot, but I do agree that there is a certain lack of care given to men about their emotional problems that need to be changed/addressed. I hate the whole, "man up" thing. To me, it's immoral. If a man has stress and needs to cry or talk, he should feel comfortable expressing himself somehow without being called homosexual or being told he is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:09 PM |
| 6 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I think that the fact this thread holds downvotes shows a certain insecurity of the downvoters. They, like extreme feminists, aren't smart enough to hold a healthy discussion... Too busy thinking they are superior to women to chat, maybe? I would like to think that in a country where there is mandatory military service, they would take into account any physical/mental problems a person might have and release them from that forced service if they, in some way, were not well enough to perform thei… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I don't know what's wrong with Ladies Nights? I mean, if I were in a relationship with a man and I trusted him, I wouldn't mind if he had a night out with the guys. The problem is, I think, a lot of women are self-conscious about themselves and the project that on their men by thinking said man would cheat. I agree that circumcision is wrong and weird unless there is a medically necessary reason for it. Not sure what you mean by reproductive rights? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:02 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Thank you for explaining. Not enough women are CEOs because not enough women WANT to be CEOs, in my opinion. I don't want to be a CEO. If I were to be stuck working in some kind of corporate office, I'd rather be a CEO's personal assistant. I'd make good money with relatively less stress-per-hour that outweighs any benefits of being a CEO. Plus, if I'm good at it, maybe the CEO will have me schedule his vacation time at the corporate retreat... | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.If you make a prenup, she can't take your things and you can't take hers. I think a prenup is very fair. However, my mother got divorced recently and by all means he could have cleaned us out (my mother makes double what he makes, owns the house, two cars, etc). They didn't have a prenup but he didn't want any trouble since the breakup was his fault (caught red-handed cheating, refused to discuss issues, refused to apologize for cheating, blamed my mother for him cheating, even. He said that the… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Thank you for sharing your story. Have you tried to get a raise, bringing up her case as an example? I would like to hope that if you spoke with your boss calmly in a nice but forward manner, you would be rewarded. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.Thank you for the links. I watched the video and read the article. I don't really like your Glass Cellar article. The reason why is, "The Glass Cellar allows us to predict that virtually 100% of the firefighters and police officers who gave their lives at the World Trade Center would be men" Is that true? It says it is a "prediction" but I seriously find that to be a very blanket term, equally as dumb as a lot of feminist statements. It's a phrase that can incite fear and anger in people without… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:46 PM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Hi there. My original reply states my opinion. My opinion is: I do not know whether or not it is false, but this is what I have seen. I find your questions to be kind of probing, the way you ask them. It is like you are trying to sell something and I think it is a bit odd. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I think that women who call themselves leaders of the feminist movement are bullshit. Usually they are just idiots who sit around, fat and unshaved and unbathed, writing angry un-cited articles meant to cause a riot on the internet. When in public, they hate on women who upkeep themselves and/or are prettier than them for "doing what men want". I have met a crazy bitch like this. She was seriously smelling like a gym floor in summer, wearing hole-y clothes and didn't even brush her hair to go ou… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.So, you were circumcised as a baby? They didn't use anesthetics? It sounds very cruel to do to anyone! Do you mind me asking a couple questions? If you do mind, just ignore them, okay? Do you get pleasure from sexual encounters? Was the surgery "botched" in your opinion? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:31 PM |
| – | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I hadn't actually heard of any boys being sexually abused by girls. That sort of thing either doesn't happen or doesn't get reported around my town. We're kind of small and back-water, so our society is still following many 1950's values/norms, excluding fashion and history classes. I imagine if they had been reported, though, the reports would have been taken a lot more seriously. Due to the race and gender of the entire police force and local county offices, I believe that men's concerns were … | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:30 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I'll be honest here, that I don't really often pay attention to other people's problems. I tend to worry most about myself, as it is part of self-sustenance. I don't really believe a lot of hearsay about what happens to "other people" and as such I rather hear things from the horse's mouth. I don't plan on turning any part of your story against you; I just legitimately want to hear why you feel how you feel. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:27 PM |
| 3 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.That is true. I'm sorry that you aren't comfortable telling your tales but I do hope that things turn out for the better for you in the future. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:23 PM |
| -1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Vicki is also an African American, and I am not certain, but I think Jim was white. Their job issues are a big deal with the state right now. As I recall, they were both coerced into signing a nondisclosure statement shortly after hire, which said they weren't allowed to talk to any officials about their salaries or job experience until after their contracts were through. I feel bad for them, because they are both constantly at risk of losing their jobs because of someone else's mistake (the per… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:12 AM |
| 4 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.That is very sad. I hate hearing things like that. I always hope that somehow what is true and right comes forward somehow. I don't know what the "glass ceiling" is. Could you explain? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:08 AM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.I will be honest with you, that it is basic psychology that gives me a bias. If I had been assaulted by a black woman, I would have a bias about black women. The reason for this is because having contact (physical, visual, interactions, etc) with someone who reminds me of someone that wronged me makes me worried. "What if this person is alike to that person?" I know it is not fair, but it is something that happens in my head that is beyond my control. It makes me scared, remembering what happene… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:07 AM |
| 4 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.The cops in my town are horribly corrupt. I understand how it could look fabricated but I'm not really a fan of lying about such things of grave concern. Especially since it is a controversial subject. I hope you sleep well and best wishes on your class. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:03 AM |
| 1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Sorry, I thought it was funny that your own argument for why feminism is horrible could go-against your own argument for why feminism is horrible. I'm happy that you have your opinions and such. I appreciate also that you hate gay-bashers. I was trying to be funny, so please keep in mind that I took some nyquil an hour ago and the entire world is hilarious to me. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:01 AM |
| -1 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?They held the same internship position. If you held their resumes side by side and erased their names/contact info, you couldn't tell them apart. I suppose it could have happened to two males applying as well, however, because it happened to a female and not a male, it is a huge source of documented embarrassment for the college. If she wanted to, she could sue them for the difference, but then she knows they'd fire her. And that's a can of worms she isn't interested in. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 09:00 AM |
| 6 | I am a feminist, but not a butthurt feminist, AMA. Actually, I just wanted to cross the fence and chat about your concerns.No, I am not trying to challenge anything. I'm just curious what you guys have experienced that make you feel like you want to join a subreddit for the cause. I don't really hear a lot about how men get discriminated against. I was sexually assaulted at school in a storage room by a classmate who I was friends with at the time. I reported the attack and was told by the officer, "I don't believe you, you're just some stupid slut looking for attention." I was charged with indecent exposure because… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 08:55 AM |
| – | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?I accept your questions. Vicky's internship was rejected because the place she did her internship at was, at the time, disliked by the college. However, she and Jim applied at the same time, and they were both needed as there was more than one job opening for the same job, same posted pay, same benefits. They were not interviewed - their applications were submitted in multiple parts online. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 08:40 AM |
| – | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Generalizing a belief followed in many areas by many kinds of people is a little too.... well, wrong, in my opinion. I would appreciate it if you wouldn't assume incorrect things. It's like you're not objectively trying for the truth anymore - you are polarized against feminism. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 08:37 AM |
| -2 | "Women get 72 cents on the dollar for the same work as men". How many feminists know this is a lie?Well, I do know this: I have a professor (female) who is a friend of mine as well. Let's call her Vicky. She went to school with "Jim". They have the same experience level from the same university and the same internships. However, during the hiring process for the same college they both applied for, her internship experience was rejected, but his was accepted. The person who handled their paperwork was the same person, I do not know the gender. Currently, he makes more than her (I do not know t… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/12 08:14 AM |
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