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I’m lucky enough to have some of the best friends who are women but I would never want to date women mostly because of their personalities. Their emotions are just everywhere, I feel like I can’t have a real conversation with them sometimes because of that. Or if you go against the group even if you’re morally in the right they all engage in catty behavior EVEN if the drama had nothing to do with them. I’ve had friendships ruined over women trying to compete with me for men. I even had women in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:40 PM
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Laughing at someone’s death is callousness not disgust. Glad I could clear that up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:50 PM
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“Why can’t people find humor in this?” You are not disgusted by gun violence, you are virtue signaling. I wish people like you could have been the ones traumatized by watching him die instead of his wife and kids. Some of you needed to be reminded of your humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:40 PM
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Because you are not disgusted by gun violence. Why allow antique guns if you are anti guns? That makes no sense. I’m not very conservative on guns I do not like feeling like I have to own one to protect myself or my family. I won’t even hunt animals for food. If I could be assured we could remove all guns from circulation I’d give up all my guns in a heart beat. I’m well armed and I will open carry until that happens. I hope I never have to shoot something living but I absolutely will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:30 PM
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why cant people find humor in this? You are not disgusted by gun violence so stop virtue signaling. The Democratic Party in the US is pro gun control they are not “anti guns” they are “pro guns.” So I do find your statements hypocritical. It is very inconsistent to be pro-guns then cry guns are the problem or say that other pro-guns people are reaping what they sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:11 PM
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Yall really don’t realize this is bigger than Charlie Kirk do you? What this means for our country is that you can be killed for having an opinion as a regular civilian. Subsequent violent attacks are almost inevitable and surprise: people don’t want to live in fear. People with no political power are being killed and that’s celebrated on live tv as we saw on TZM when the audience cheered when his death was announced, then live footage while Charlie was bleeding out paralyzed on stage 10 feet aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:38 PM
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My worst bosses have been women but also my best boss was a woman. A lot of women just can’t separate their feelings from their job. The women who can tend to be wonderful but they are definitely rare. My last job was only women they labeled me a snitch for reporting client physical abuse (on children). They even lied to the police, there was only 2 women out of the 15 who worked there on my side… I would tell people all the time to leave their feelings at home and focus on their job. They weren…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:17 PM
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I have been the victim of multiple violent hate crimes and I’m white in the US. I have been to the ER twice for those related incidents and I was outnumbered 3-4 to one both times. I have also been spit on. I have been attacked restraining people who are suicidal too many times to remember. I have been sexually assaulted probably 5 times? I have been threatened more times than I can count or remember but those never escalated. The majority of this happened at work because my work environments we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:34 PM
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I at least agree it’s too easy to get a gun in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:51 PM
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I love debate and hearing different perspectives. I do believe murder is cowardly, if you cannot win with your words you don’t deserve to win. What I won’t do is be unprepared in the event violence happens in my neighborhood or to my family. I am beyond the point of having faith this is recoverable, violence from extremism provides “justification” to the mentally ill struggling with violent tendencies so I expect this to get worse before it gets better. I am not surprised this happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:35 PM
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My lord. There is actual video footage of you demonrats chanting USA as he was bleeding out paralyzed and helpless on stage. You people cannot be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:32 PM
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That wasn’t the dumb part they knew they couldn’t out influence him he was obviously feared. The dumb part was that he had to be murdered which is basically an admission yall could not compete intellectually. The next dumbest part was the radical lefties in the crown cheering “USA” after he was shot as if this did not start something that is not going to play out well for you politically. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:30 PM
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Depends on the woman. I never showed interest because I was too shy. However I did regret that as I noticed the more respectful men would tend to perceive it as disinterest so when I met who would be my future husband (and I knew I wanted to marry him at the time) I decided I wasn’t going to make that mistake and regret it the rest of my life. I nervously asked him if he was single. With my ex we were really close friends and told each other everything so I just randomly cuddled with him on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:08 PM
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The number of people who eat shit are so minuscule I don’t feel the need to comment on that. Men getting off to porn is quite common so why is there this inconsistency with their disgust of promiscuity? Is it mislabeled jealousy instead of disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:47 PM
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I wasn’t ever looking for a “financially equal relationship,” I was looking for a husband I could raise kids with whether that would be an equal partnership or not. I prioritized finding the correct person over my financial preferences but of course my dream was that I could stay home. I just had enough humility to view that as a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:44 PM
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No, the point of free speech is to allow for potentially good ideas and prevent ideological monopoly because you never know what needs and can be changed or improved upon. The point of free speech is for it to be as unregulated as possible and yes this includes offensive speech. You create an “ideological monopoly” when only “your opinion of good ideas” are allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:57 PM
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There are differences between establishment liberals vs leftists - If “leftists” were a minority of their party then why are important figures like Governor JB Pritzker of Chicago encouraging police to resist help from the national guard when they have the highest murder rates in the world? The Democratic Party is not made up of “liberals” it’s made up of radicals. Like the conservatives who don't agree with alt-right or full-on white nationalism but won't actually speak out against it The point…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:24 PM
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They’ve lost their minds a long time ago. It’s always the twig armed anarchists screaming defund the police when they wouldn’t even be alive without the police. The times we are living in are just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:19 PM
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Putting hard criminals behind bars doesn’t lower crime? Please explain how that makes any sense. We already demonstrated this does work in DC. It was cleaned up in less than a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:14 PM
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Democrats like high crime rates. Our president offered to help our highest crime cities by giving them man power and democratic leaders refused the help publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:48 PM
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If you were biologically disgusted by promiscuity explain why porn is not viewed as disgusting. If the disgust were biological it would not be something you could turn off like smelling shit. I think you guys are mislabeling jealousy as disgust. I expect an explanation for that inconsistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:18 PM
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You’re describing different areas of disgust and conflating them. Being “disgusted” by promiscuity is socialized because it is a reflection of your personal ethics not biological determinism. Do you get disgusted when you watch porn? Being disgusted because you smelled shit is a reflex and completely different. Not everyone is disgusted by promiscuity only some people are. Why would that be if it was “biological?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:02 PM
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The disgust is not “innate” it’s socialized. To be clear I do have a moral stance against casual sex and don’t date people who do that but I at least have the self awareness to know that is due to my socialization. We are taught in school the risks of spreading disease, in religion how sex is meant to be a pair bonding experience and you weren’t born knowing how babies were made so how could you know your competition without being born knowledgeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:36 PM
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No u said the “issue was mitigated by internal disgust.” I said that issue was mitigated by evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:23 PM
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The head of the penis is designed to scoop out competing sperm.. Yall just don’t like the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:20 PM
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What do you mean can? Everyone can vote under the current system. The critique is that women act less like they are capable of the responsibility when they are the main ones supporting child mutilation. According to the CDC, approximately 55-60% of male newborns in the US were circumcised as of recent data (around 2024) 81% of self-identified feminist women oppose laws that prevent children from receiving medical care for gender transitions, according to a 2023 Public Religion Research Institute…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:03 PM
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I know when women lie because guess what? They tell on themselves. If I bring a friend to a party and she has sex on my friends couch and claims “oh I was drunk I wasn’t fully aware of what I was doing.” And the guy chimes in and is like “You started giving me head what the hell do you mean???” And she laughs putting her hands over her mouth that is pretty telling and it almost got him beat up. Btw ppl know when you’re being a misandrist they can read your comments so that is probably why you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:56 PM
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I don’t believe ostracism or escalation to physical violence is productive and it’s childish. When women around me are out of line I feel more obligated to step in because they are more likely to listen to me, but when it’s men my husband does. For example some ridiculous RP guy told me I should give birth at home to save money because “childbirth is safe,”my husband stepped in and reminded him that medical advancements have made the complications of childbirth far more forgiving… He even added …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:53 PM
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No, women are untrustworthy in real life. I went to a random hair dresser and she only talked about her hatred of men and why she thinks men “don’t deserve opportunities.” My fat fuck OB assumed I was being abused because I asked my husband his opinion about a medical procedure involving OUR child. Retard feminists exist irl and make up the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:51 PM
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Women better start liking us or else we will remove their rights! Let me guess, “acting like an adult who can handle responsibility” in this context means dating and having sex with men we aren’t interested in? I said in my first comment if people were self aware of how their oppression Olympics narratives made them look childlike then they would stop. Notice how messed up your fantasies are for once. When you are incapable of being logical people don’t want you having power over their lives and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:29 PM
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For exaggeration, lying, manipulating, catastrophizing, acting like petulant children, having no humility, lacking integrity (or just having any virtues in general) being worth pursuing, being misandrist and being hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:23 PM
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Actually what I’m talking about is what your doing right now. Being illogical and victimizing yourself. You are the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:07 PM
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More like start acting like an adult who can handle responsibility instead of a petulant child that imagines the worst possible outcomes to victimize yourself unnecessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:00 PM
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The women who post here are so terrible and dumb I see why they get blamed. All of those things you listed are not common behaviors of men they are behaviors of men these women exaggerate and catastrophize. If they knew they appeared lower functioning they’d stop. This retardation is exactly why “repeal the 19th” is trending.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:55 PM
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It’s illegal where I live so most are not going to talk unless you present chill enough to be non-judgmental and obviously not inform authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:37 PM
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Feminists don’t control the social media and livestream channels that promote soft core porn artists. They support them you just called it safe.. Would it be preferable if these women were being repeatedly abused in brothers by dock and factory workers like in the good old days? More neurotic oppression Olympics. the industrial food industry of the United States. Again, you’re blaming feminism for neoliberal consequences. I blame feminism for body positivity for fatties see my original post. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:28 PM
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Yeah and they don’t care they dilute those issues either. Not one feminist has ever changed their perspective or began focusing on why we don’t prioritize ending child marriage because they only actually care about themselves. Them caring about women is performative bull shit and should be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:10 PM
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I am friends with an ex-dominatrix I treated her like I treat anyone else. However when she told me stories of what she had the men do I pointed out that those men suffered from mental illness or childhood trauma. We talked about it and her perspective changed. She quit sex work that same day. She works with kids now. She was financially stressed before she entered prostitution. She lived in poverty her whole life but inherited a beautiful home that a man burned down because she rejected him. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:00 PM
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That comment was about leftist mods in general on all forums/websites where leftists post. Because that content is allowed on all moderated platforms that lean politically left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:27 AM
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Child marriage is legal in 34 US states. Some of the lowest minimums are 15 years old. Which that is never talked about because it’s overshadowed by abortion and whatever performative nonsense they come up with next.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:23 AM
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Most feminist talking points lead back to corporate greed if you follow the money, even abortion. You will never hear a feminist talk about the child marriage problem we have in the US even though it’s legal in 38 states because it’s a money sink. If I wanted to find a group of feminists whose main focuses were ending child marriage I would have to dig through all their performative bull shit just to find any of them doing actual work for real women’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:59 AM
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Maybe you’re upset at safe sex work where women have control over their clients, which is a very odd thing to be upset about. Look at you being a manipulative perpetual victim. Good to know you think marketing to teens is safe. You’re just the feminist I was talking about. Now everyone knows, thank you for your honesty. Fat people exist and unless feminists are the ones controlling the corn syrup industry in the United States, then this isn’t a feminist problem. HeaAltHy aT eVeRy SiZe By child m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:48 AM
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So leftist mods aren’t normal people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:29 AM
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Feminist do support sex workers and protect them in online spaces. They are rarely banned and feminists do speak up to protect them even in spaces where children ages +13 are allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:37 AM
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•Normalizing sex work to the point it has infected every online space and has allowed female sex offenders to advertise to children in their spaces. •Body positivity for fattys. •Some has already said “oppression Olympics.” •Men in women’s sports and bathrooms. •BeLiVe AlL wOmEn •Child mutilation and tried to allow this to happen without parental consent. •Destroying the nuclear family making outcomes worse for children. •Baby murder for pleasure. •Keeps women unhappy so they can sell their ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:33 AM
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I have a nephew. I’d refer him to my husband because my husband is good with women. He sets the best example for young men in my opinion. I would want him to learn from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:41 PM
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Omg you are basing this off what kids and teens say? As if their understanding of the world is almost ever correct. Not one person who posts here is as naive as they were as a damn child. wtf is that excuse?? That isn’t a lack of honesty it’s called growing the fuck up. Stop victimizing yourself, it’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:30 PM
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Your sister isn’t crazy she has been lied to her whole life conditioned to believe that falsehood by her own mother. This is entirely your mother’s fault and not “women’s delusion.” Imagine you were conditioned to believe something incorrect since childhood you wouldn’t have known the difference either. She could have simply told her that her brown eyes were pretty because they have green specs in them to feel special, which would have also been honest and a much healthier way to cope by appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:54 PM
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I believe I am attractive based on the types of men who were interested in me who were also attractive. Men and women both tell me I look like Avril Lavigne. I met everyone through friend groups. I never put extra effort into meeting anyone because I am not extroverted. Grooming was also minimal outside of having an expensive skincare routine, foundation sometimes, eyeliner and blow dry hair for 10 minutes. My mother isn’t into vanity and I wasn’t taught to do hair and make up. I swim half miles…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:06 PM
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Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues? Not at all. If we returned to a state of complaining being viewed as pathetic we would have less people victimizing themselves for attention online because they would never get away with that behavior in the real world. Nobody in their right mind would undermine issues of stalking, harassment and rape however those are not just women’s issues.. I don’t feel sympathy for people who don’t orgasm with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:57 PM
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Yes and no. Typically men I don’t find attractive feel very comfortable around me. Obviously I treat them kindly, I just don’t treat them as if I am attracted to them. I have never called someone a creep for staring at me: 1. Because I don’t care. 2. bringing attention to people staring at me causes unnecessary drama which some insufferable women like doing. When other women did that I always thought it made them look ridiculous. 3. I space out and stare sometimes too it’s not always about attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:26 PM
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It wasn’t ignored it was downvoted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:14 PM
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Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives. I never read those statements that way. I read them mostly as a response to women promoting the idea being happy alone as if that were true when that study was retracted and that generally isn’t true. Or in response holding feminist rhetorics accountable for pretending women are happier due to “feminism.” It doesn’t have to mean women like “being controlled” that is the narrative you decided to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:50 AM
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This sub is entertaining, but not always in a good way. I lost faith in anyone being intelligent enough to actually change my mind. Most people who post here are NPCs especially the women. I love debate but it can be boring to see everyone echoing the same opinions. I was in online spaces my entire life and people used to be individuals. Their perspectives would actually be interesting and were not just brainwashed political narcissist victim narratives. Other than it helps keep me updated on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:48 PM
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No I was scared to hook up with anyone because I thought it would cloud my rational judgments on if they were a good match for me. If I slept with someone it was because I wanted to marry them and be with them forever because we had long standing friendships. I do think that was the best decision because I do get very attached after sex. If I found out someone I had sex with didn’t love me I would have been devastated. This question is only directed at women who have had sex at least one time ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:52 PM
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Oh my goodness. There’s a lot. •Women who say men are just as emotional as women. Which just isn’t true, our brains are functionally different and have many more natural hormonal fluctuations. •The idea that men are more violent in intimate partner relationships has been debunked but women still pretend they make up the majority of DV victims. Also women are more likely to direct violence at children. I worked in child protective services and had hands on experience with that and those cases wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:28 PM
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100Million
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:04 PM
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So you’re going to pretend you didn’t respond to my original comment, noted you won’t debate in good faith. You practice bodily autonomy when you consent to sex, killing another person is not “practicing bodily autonomy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:11 PM
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That's the problem, you're trying to romanticise low self esteem. No, I just understand that low self esteem is a bi product of not receiving validation. People are not made to go years without validation they do need it consistently to be mentally healthy. How would you feel if your partner complimented your appearance once and years later they never have complimented you again? You can’t have healthy relationships and never validate each other or just not care about what your partner finds att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:07 PM
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What? Shitting on men is widely known as the liberal feminist thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:27 PM
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Please do not pretend that you have never net or heard of women who have left you questioning what on Earth they saw in the male who mistreats/hurt them. I quoted what I was responding to in your post which was a specific kind of man: broke abusive fattys. So it’s ok for women to be used/abused by attractive men? You have no issues with that? A "Pick me" is a woman who betrays herself and/or sells out other women in favour of seeking male approval, she is also a woman who dedicates her life to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:58 PM
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Your story reads like It did because you are clearly referencing my original comment. Is this the best you can do? You aren’t a feminist but you defend their talking points passionately? Lol Yeah you are a feminist, you just aren’t self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:36 PM
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There have been broke, unattractive, overweight, unambitious, socially inept, vanilla, ab*sive, old etc males who have openly made such demands, What percentage of women do you think are competing for the attention of broke abusive fattys? Also what are the quality of those women? This so out of touch with reality the only person I can even think of who you could be talking about is pearl davis who I would consider an extreme outlier. Lol How about this: define pick me behavior. You seem to thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:01 PM
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I see you’ve chosen to ignore the concerns of child marriage and zero in on murder for pleasure. Thank you for proving my point that anytime feminists face criticism they completely deflect from the reality of the criticisms being made. You didn’t even provide a real rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:59 AM
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You are assuming people are all born equal. We are not, and some people have limitations no matter how ambitious they may be. A factory worker chooses that job for pay because they lack opportunities or skills. Lack of advancement doesn’t mean low ambition. If there is 100 people going for a promotion only one will get it that doesn’t mean they were the person with the highest strive. Lots of people work hard, few are rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:15 PM
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Never in my life have I heard of that. You have, it’s commonly called abortion to purposely divorce you from the reality of what that actually means. What do you mean by the man vs. bear debate? Dehumanizing men in a way to paint bears as “safer to be alone in the woods with.” Despite feminists claiming they are aware of the history of what happens when we dehumanize people. Can you explain more on the grievance studies affair? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grievance_studies_affair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:52 PM
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I grew up unaware of feminism, my mother never talked about feminism. I was exposed after college and I believe this allowed me to view it from a more rational light with a healthy amount of skepticism. Initially I believed feminist issues could align with my concerns, like child marriage in the US which was a particular issue in my family being Jehovah’s Witnesses. Unfortunately feminists prioritized murdering their kids, framing it as “women’s rights” essentially just emotional propaganda to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:02 PM
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It’s not a moral failing it’s just typically these men are undesirable. I’ve dated the mail man but he attended my college and was an outlier among blue collars workers because he was exceptionally bright. He also wasn’t “low strive.” He maintained his employment there and was loyal to that company for future promotions. Low strive people tend to walk out of jobs when they become emotional, work part time and/or present as if they are lower functioning. I want someone who’s a better role model t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:43 PM
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Just because emotional labor is commonly used by extremely liberal women doesnt make the concept invalid. It actually does because it is a scientific fact that women have functionally different brains than men and have more mood fluctuations due to hormones. So the mere fact that women are the only ones complaining about emotional labor isn’t as self aware as you think. It makes you wonder if the people over using those terms ever show any grace to their partners when you know they without a dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:31 PM
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No, I actually got my husband a nice 24k band that was $1,100 at the time... I would have been embarrassed to give him something less grand. I didn’t make good money, I was slightly over the poverty line.. it’s called working overtime.. I’d rather be with someone who is willing to put in the work like I did. I didn’t even ask for diamonds but you’re not going to get me a ring I’d be happy with for $500. You can have the women who put as little effort into their relationships as you do. Thats mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:25 AM
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Ok so you deflected from a relationship where you tolerated that behavior and likely enabled it.. To a relationship that was irrelevant to the discussion.. Now I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:24 AM
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If your partner is so amazing then why are you complaining about how he forgot how to adult online?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:06 AM
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It does have a factual basis. You have posted one sexist comment after another. You are not mentally stable enough to help people or initiate any positive change in society because you are biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:29 PM
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I never defended the existence of pornographic websites, I actually do the opposite. Unlike you, I have first hand experience actually doing something for the women in my community and am more intimately aware of the content on platforms like OF and pornhub than you will ever know. I helped women escape sex trafficking for 6 years even when it threatened my own safety and landed me in a hospital several times. You are talking out of your ass and making yourself look like a fool. You are radical,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:34 PM
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It’s not radical. It is radical.. I’ll give you 2 reasons why.. Men don’t care about revenge porn sites. That’s just reality. Because this is not reality. Lmao There’s a straightforward solution to the issue of online harassment tied to doxxing: make doxxing illegal… You know.. The solution you guys don’t want to advocate for.. You don’t want change you want to complain about how you’re such a victim. Social justice warriors my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:20 PM
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Holy shit.. I will respond if/when you succeed in understanding what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:33 PM
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Hilarious. You people really need to try reading to understand instead of intentionally misinterpreting what was said to fit a victim narrative. That was the first sentence I even said and you proved it correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:27 PM
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the same crowd is SILENT when it comes to sites / apps like CoalFax / AnonIB / etc. This felt disingenuous like most things radical leftists say because you guys never actually listen to people you intentionally misinterpret them to fit a victim narrative. 1. Most people are unaware of those apps because they did not get the same publicity. 2. Those opposing the tea app generally have a problem with legalized doxxing which logically would include those apps.. YOU seem to hypocritically defend do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:05 PM
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From my limited experience with single women in their 60s which is just watching my MIL behave plus an ex co-worker yes. They had a new guy every 3 weeks and has been swindled, cheated on, lied too, and dated felonious criminals (sometimes knowingly). They tend to be absolutely desperate to not be alone. They also unfortunately never choose the right men somehow??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:21 PM
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Feminists often regurgitate/protect ideas that dehumanize or that oppress men (especially white men) despite their claimed awareness of historical oppression and the known consequences of dehumanizing “any group.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:15 PM
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No but I’m particularly outgoing either so I generally don’t go out of my way to show romantic interest. The only man I ever showed romantic interest in first was my husband but I also knew he was attracted just nervous. It would take a lot for me to leave my comfort zone, like a deep emotional connection, which is what we had. I generally live by the rule of assuming people do not have romantic interest in me unless they specifically tell me or their comments are not appropriate for friendships…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:21 PM
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They want commitment from men who don’t really want to give it to them I guess. I don’t believe in pressuring someone to marry me but if someone didn’t know after 1 year of dating if they wanted to marry me I’d have left. I would have never allowed someone to string me along for years, if a man ever had any doubts about marriage being in his future I was gone that same day. I wanted to have a family and I wasn’t going to have kids out of wedlock. Also I am religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:46 PM
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Because they forget how to do laundry once they move in. Do you forget how to pay half the bills when you move in or how to mow a lawn 50% of the time? Is he going to work with dirty clothes or do you just enable the behavior and bitch about it online? There is 0 reason to bitch about laundry ever. You do it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:24 PM
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The idea of marriage and family is dead for women Maybe for you. They realize most families around them involve an absent father or a dad who makes the women do everything. What reality do you people live in? Most families do not have an absent father this isn’t even supported by data (21% of mothers are single mothers). I don’t know any men nowadays who “make a woman do everything.” Have you people ever considered you don’t attract real men or that you don’t give your attention to the right kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:03 PM
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The only reason I haven’t pat the chupacabre is because I would never touch my neighbors weird dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:39 PM
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I will not be linking you a real person especially people I know personally. You seem more interested in winning than having a good faith debate regardless moving the goal post from “rich” to “ultra rich.” There are anonymous people who post on Reddit about their struggles that would be the only link I’d find appropriate to post. I will leave you to your skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:26 PM
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I know rich men who are virgins. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:52 PM
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I do not believe women in mass are choosing money over real love. That would require giving up on the possibility of true happiness for greed and that is not something most women are capable of doing. There are qualities outside of financial stability they love about the men they are with which is why those men get selected and other rich men don’t.. Likewise men wanting to have sex with women doesn’t mean they don’t value women. You guys give too much power to the opinions of of bitter losers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:26 PM
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No your wife is just toxic. Even if that were true my eMoTiOnAl InTeLliGeNce would prevent me from ever admitting that to my husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:17 PM
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If I were lied to for sex or had sex with someone who didn’t love me then I would probably feel used. Or if I was the only giver in the relationship then I would also feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:29 PM
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Yeah it is a self fulfilling prophecy. Humanist means I prioritize empathy, me reporting as accurately as I can quotes from this guy is not cynical that’s what he says, that isn’t taken out of context. He’s said worse things they just aren’t things I hear from “red pill men.” I empathized with him enough to tell him his wife was cheating on him and doesn’t respect him so that he may wake up, he did not. I don’t empathize with his relationship choices because there were red flags he knew about an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:50 PM
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Typically when a business is successful you delegate tasks to other people. The logic behind this is that you make more money by having other people do the work for you. Sure, businesses owners who do it all are admirable but they limit their success bogging down their time with tasks they don’t have to do. What I’m saying is, that my time was better spent on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:36 PM
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People who end up together usually deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:21 PM
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The word easier is literally in the title…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:33 PM
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There was so much in this post that was naive. You have no idea what life was like in 1925, nothing was easier. Youre comparing a time when our hospitals were killing people due to unsterile conditions to 100 years of advancement in medical care… including pregnant woman and infants.. Female teachers would be fired for being pregnant because “it’s not good for the kids to see a pregnant woman” even if they were married to a time we have protections against discrimination in the workforce. We als…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:06 PM
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Most people give bad advice. I would never trust any advice a liberal woman gave me because in my personal experience it is always bad and unsolicited, like telling me to use manipulation tactics that are emotionally damaging meanwhile those women went on to ruin their marriages and their lives. The only advice from women I listen too are family grandma and mom because they are the only people who stayed married and to faithful men. I don’t take advice from men either because it’s always from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:46 PM
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Yes the reason people hate feminists now is for no reason not because they spew misandrist garbage that dehumanizes men like your OP… Thank you for showing your true colors so there is no confusion as to why modern feminists deserve 0 support. Stop victimizing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:34 PM
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I have a different definition of high quality. High quality men do get married. As long as I have been alive the percentage of people that are marriage material has always been low. They marry good attractive women because they didn’t waste time or effort on any low quality women even when those women were attractive. Most of those men marry someone from college/HS. Being attractive and having options doesn’t make you “high quality” as you’ve discovered with women.. Why would this be different f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:43 PM
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I dated well before COVID, when people were generally less unhinged. I wouldn’t pin it on dating apps. Viral videos or hundred of women online show women acting entitled, sexist, racist, and unhinged. Lately it’s women losing it over men who pay child support claiming their kids on taxes. It’s not just rage bait it is something new everyday then you hear these opinions get echoed in the real world.. The culprit is a cultural shift that impacted women and men negatively. Modern feminism normalize…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:13 PM
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Oh yeah he’s hot. I like long hair though especially with full facial hair. Although when I look at pictures of him with shorter hair he’s still incredibly attractive (obviously he’s a model) but not really hot to me because that’s not really my type. My first childhood celebrity crush was whoever plays Aragon from lord of the rings. I have dated men with shorter hair buttt the men I remember as being the most attractive all had long hair. Hairy men just look so masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:06 PM
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Yeah but that is also in response to them being called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:37 PM
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The fact anyone took this post seriously shows how dumb a lot of these people are. Many of you brag about your education and then believe everything you read is real or go on to consume drinks laced with petroleum. You probably think you aren’t a petroleum drinker but you definitely have consumed red-40, 3 and yellow 5. This cannot be whom I share planet earth with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:20 PM
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I haven’t heard any of this shit from people irl. Just this forum and fat libtards who go viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:37 PM
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I don’t hang out with the people who post here. I just notice the resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:28 PM
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I have never heard a man admit a woman is too hot for him. It’s usually “she is not attractive” instead when we all know that she is really just out of his league. I have never heard anyone in my life admit someone is out of their league they usually just hurl insults. For example we all saw what fat average and ugly women had to say about Sydney Sweeney because she has good genes. Men are just as guilty of being that bitter when they cannot compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:13 PM
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Living in your world but be really confusing. Not only do you not read but you don’t know your sex symbols. You walked into this conversation and got not one thing correct. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:37 AM
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I know but you aren’t recognizing the sarcasm because you are commenting about an article you haven’t read and it shows. If you are going to enter a discussion about an article then you should have done the bare minimum in preparation and read and understood the article. So it’s very strange that you even commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:44 PM
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You clearly did not read the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:56 PM
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Tinders ban system is so unfair and strange. I was banned on tinder for “catfishing” because I photo shopped my real fucking face on the body of a praying mantis. I knew people were doing way worse things than me on that app. Good thing they banned the real menace to society and danger to the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:33 PM
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I’d want to be told immediately. I don’t care how I find out. I don’t use those apps/resources but I specifically chose an honest man who would not lie even if it benefitted him so it is not something I am particularly worried about. I can understand people feeling embarrassed about finding out via a public forum but I guess I’m just particularly shameless in that regard. I wouldn’t take it as a reflection of my character. I have already been in that situation though, of everyone knowing before …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:01 PM
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When marriage is done right it’s more important than any friendship or family relationship you will have. I dedicated my life to my work in a non-profit. I volunteered and built a community. I even maintained a condo by myself. None of that was as fulfilling as building a life and starting a family with my husband. It was empty and I was still coming home to an empty place at the end of the day. The feminist propaganda is ridiculous. Claims that women are happiest post-divorce or single are dish…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:39 PM
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Is that the only issue you see there???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:36 PM
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I know a red piller in real life. He doesn’t say he’s red pilled but here’s how he talks about it: •child birth is safe. You should give birth to your daughter at home to save money. •The woman you married will not be the same woman you divorced. Women are vicious in divorce. I’m never getting married again. (Context for his divorce: he married a beautiful woman who none of his friends liked (and were vocal about) because she was an absolute piece of shit who went around trying to marry anyone f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:38 PM
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A variety of people approach/ed me, mostly anime, gamer and older men depending on what I’m wearing. I have the coolest sweaters so that’s probably why. In college it was more “chad” like dudes approaching. I would say the majority of men who approach are somewhat attractive (except the older men) I imagine it takes confidence to do that. I gave out my number like twice then never followed through messaging them back. I preferred dating amongst my friends because I was more comfortable around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:32 AM
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He is not a troll. This is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:14 PM
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There was nothing worth responding too here. I peaked at his other replies and they were all so braindead I cannot imagine how someone gets to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:54 PM
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Oh interesting. So would you say that about female genital mutilation? It’s just a “medical mishap” when they die?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:49 PM
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One incident doesn't prove me wrong. It actually does, but since you want to play dumb. 2010 study by Dan Bollinger in Thymos: Journal of Boyhood Studies estimates approximately 117 neonatal circumcision-related deaths annually in the U.S., equating to about 9.01 per 100,000 male infants, or roughly 1.3% of all male neonatal deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:48 PM
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https://www.ndtv.com/world-news/australian-woman-sets-friend-on-fire-after-he-asked-her-to-stay-in-the-kitchen-8470340/amp/1 Thank you for broadcasting your true colors so that everyone knows just how crazy feminists are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:37 PM
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That isn’t true at all. The internet brings out the worst in people and gives you the power of anonymity so that you don’t always have to face the consequences of your actions.. People can make things up that destroy lives and careers. The equivalent of what you just said is, “if those women in the op did not do anything wrong then they would have nothing to worry about.” You lack empathy and are misandrist. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:29 PM
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But it only became a problem for many men when women wanted to talk about bad dates. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:59 PM
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Your rebuttal was “two wrongs make it right.” You don’t deserve to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:42 PM
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What a terrible argument holy shit. Bring back insane asylums immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:35 PM
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Then y do you need an app?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:54 PM
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Funny, your arguments provided a ton of evidence in support of criminalizing doxxing, including the activities on that app. It is clear that individuals cannot be relied on to fairly or ethically administer justice. I have no idea why you people want to die on this hill. It’s actually insane that you guys want to protect doxing while knowing all the damage it can cause. The cognitive dissonance is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:52 PM
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Some of my guy friends regret not building real friendships/relationships with women in high school and college those are the easiest times to meet people. They didn’t take relationships seriously they were too busy “fucking hoes” and now they feel they missed their chance. Don’t make that mistake. Treat you Friendships with women as free and low risk dating experience. Also, you say you’re below average but you are only 16 and your looks will change as you get older and you will likely look bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:24 PM
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We split chores along traditional gender roles. I’m a picky eater so I prefer cooking and lighter housework. He handles the stuff that requires strength or risk taking, like repairs, mowing/weed eating or anything involving ladders. I’m stay at home and do the gardening too on top of housework. As far as covering for him I cannot. now that I’m pregnant I can’t stay outside long because it’s just too hot I get dizzy and the only tasks I was able to do are mowing and weed eating but this has becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:10 PM
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If you had read my comment through a lense that wasn’t completely unhinged you would have understood I take a trust but verify approach while reserving judgment until I have evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:18 PM
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Honestly this response was unhinged but I know better than to believe anyone who just says things and doesn’t provide believable details or evidence. Because I have had too many people lie in my office of all shapes and sizes about everything and I had the facts to know they were lying. Also the general public and most of you who post here tend to be naive about just how criminally minded some people are. So I don’t even trust you alls ability to decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:29 PM
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Failed to the keep their job’ indicates he was the problem. No, actually under certain administrations we lost a lot of jobs to cheap labor overseas which happened to my husband twice that’s just the men you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:10 PM
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I think part of the problem that is never acknowledged is that you guys also are quick to believe men who try to avoid accountability for their actions. I have known men to complain about women leaving them after they got fired when I know they told their supervisor to “fuck off” because “she was being a bitch.” You guys really need to do better about not believing every thing people tell you because they are not going to give you the full story if it makes them look bad. This is why I am thankf…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:02 PM
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Doxing involves publicly revealing identifying information about someone without their consent which includes what is allowed on the tea app. You are also downplaying what information was being released on the app. So either you are bad faith or uniformed which is also bad faith since you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:12 AM
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I have no idea what happened these people are my age and I remember in college it was common knowledge among my gfs that “players” cheat. They are just upset the reverse is true because of what that says about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:08 AM
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It’s all “actual doxxing”…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:02 AM
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Well I’m at least glad you noticed the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:08 AM
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And a certain someone chooses to ignore all data points that would make you wrong. That is way more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:30 PM
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Lmao. It isn’t eugenics to be in an ad if your white, blonde haired and blue eyes making a play on words. You guys have serious issues. I have been called hitler girl for being white and blonde. You guys are just racists. That is all. This woke shit has to go you guys get worse every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:35 PM
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What controversy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:32 PM
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You originally described fatherhood as a passive role. Now you are saying it’s your responsibility to build confidence and assertiveness. These cannot be taught passively. Kids will be assertive at the wrong times and that will require coaching and redirection. Confidence cannot be built without positive reinforcement. Also those skills are needed for both genders. Fatherhood is not passive it is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:32 PM
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A man’s rational nature allows for a more indirect approach to parenting such as role modelling behaviors and values rather than explicitly teaching them. That sounds like an excuse to do the bare minimum. Women can and are role models for their children so you are not adding anything to parenting that is “unique to your gender.”What do men specifically then bring to the table that women cannot by themselves in your world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:50 AM
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I am in a 6 year age gap relationship. We had too much in common and too much fun together for me to picture spending my life with anyone else. It helps he took care of himself via supplements and diet. He looks younger than his age. I’ve always been attracted to slightly older men. Between the ages of 19 and 24 I often dated men around their 30s. I also felt disconnected from a lot of people my age due to the cultural shifts away from religion and the lack of maturity. I also wanted the securit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:42 PM
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I don’t mind if men are perverted as long as it stays private. At least have some class. Not doing certain household chores isn’t a red flag to me as long as they’re handling things like mowing the lawn, cleaning the gutters, and fixing things. I’m comfortable dividing tasks along traditional gender lines. I also don’t mind men who lean dominant as long as they’re humble enough not to act like dickheads and take me into consideration in their decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:12 PM
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seeing an Andrew Tate clip where he said “the magic of fatherhood is that I’m never around,” and noticed the comment section was positive despite his narcissistic and immoral views. I wanted to understand why men admired him. It turns out many people including women lack critical thinking and cling to figures like Tate or radical modern feminism for a sense of control. So they adopt their rigid belief systems. I stayed because this sub is free entertainment. Unfortunately the entertainment from …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:40 PM
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The same age demographics of conservatives and radical leftists show conservatives are more likely to be married. It’s not just that they are older. You guys have dreams of marrying liberal men well that is statistically not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:03 PM
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It’s funny that you say things are unsupported by data but what you really mean is “that data doesn’t support my viewpoint.” And “I’m unaware of things that are supported by data.” From 2000 to the present, the Republican marriage rate has averaged 18 percentage points above the Democratic marriage rate. the falling marriage rate has been roughly twice as large for Democrats and independents as for Republicans. The partisan marriage gap has expanded largely because Democrats are increasingly for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:52 PM
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Yes because the things people say they won’t do always align with what they actually do. Conservatives are more likely to have values aligned with marriage liberal men are less likely to prioritize traditional lifestyles including marriage and more likely to embrace modern lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:11 PM
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Women turning down Trump supporting men is something that is unsupported by data. Conservatives are mostly likely to be married. Liberal feminist women date my conservative friend all the time and want to marry him. They even sometimes change their hard political stances to be softer around him, but around me they will say things that seem to align with radical left feminist views.. It is a fringe minority of women who are prioritizing political differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:36 PM
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Depends on what you mean by talk, romantically it was one at a time because I rarely reciprocated anyone’s feelings. I had a lot of guy friends but I didn’t think about them romantically. I would play soccer games with friends in college, watched anime, go to the gym and play video games so my interests tended to be male dominated. I did not have sex with any of them, there was no kissing, hand holding or anything romantic between us. Sometimes they’d even date other women. I would get interest …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:59 PM
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I do I’m just not a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:02 PM
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Your trauma doesn’t invalidate that other people can have healthy relationships and we will never progress as a society if everyone isn’t doing their part. Your part is not giving attention to toxic women, but you do it because you find them physically attractive. You are in a self sabotage negative feedback loop. This is a choose better moment. My husband has never heard me use the phrases “I’m not your therapist” “emotional labor” or accusing him of “trauma dumping.” Those are just the women y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:15 PM
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That’s not hypothetical because I don’t swap people for plastic and I know what it’s like to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:45 AM
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Do you guys think women use rulers to try and figure out your size or something? If it feels good I don’t care past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:58 AM
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I didn’t have anymore after that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:53 AM
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I was with a guy for 4 years before realizing his penis was 9 inches. Pretty sure it doesn’t matter and when he told me I didn’t believe him because I thought it was 6 until I went and got the measuring tape. Women likely have no idea what the size is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:37 AM
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And how do you know those men weren’t: catfishing, or swindling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:11 PM
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Yeah I live in the US we have minimum laws protecting people from doxxing they’d have to dox you with intent of stealing your identity or stalking/harassment to be punished. I know people who were made into memes and it negatively impacted them to the point of suicidal ideation. A dude at my school would wear fedoras and was really flamboyant/eccentric and was made into a creep meme that went viral for wearing a fedora. Also I have seen similar but different people going viral on Reddit for vari…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:59 PM
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Because people mindlessly swipe without looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:06 PM
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No all it proves is that people who lack critical thinking skills prefer witch hunting and vigilante styled mob justice over evidence based convictions. When given power these people become dangerous which is why power needs to be taken away from the people by the government by making doxing illegal and requiring the app to provide information to police for convictions or give the opportunity to victims for civil penalties. This app reinforces the need for government control because people are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:17 PM
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Swapping out humans for plastic in a friendless, antisocial way is just sad. It being a doll indicates you want it to look human but since it’s lifeless it’s extra pathetic and repulsive. That is like a corpse that never decomposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:32 PM
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I don’t buy dildos, but the difference is the intent to replace people in this case not just a pleasure aid. I don’t find hateful antisocial people attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:05 PM
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Buying dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:02 PM
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I am not laughing. Someone seriously posting/saying that is so fucking unhinged and disgusting I cannot laugh. I hope nonorganic matter hoes do keep them away from people. Edit: I never think about men stepping away from marriage that doesn’t concern me. I am concerned about our future generations and them having healthy relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:55 PM
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I’m fine with guys who prefer staying home and avoiding alcohol this is actually something I appreciate about my husband but I am also that way. If your ass is parked on the couch, you’re silent as a brick, with the personality of a wet dishcloth that would be boring. If we have 0 shared interests I might as well date a wall. At least my husband and I can hike, ski, and kayak together. But we don’t do those things weekly we are mostly at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:56 PM
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No you mentioned flat earth theory which isn’t a right wing belief.. that’s pre Enlightenment thinking. TF?? So you actually are manipulative and incorrect. You don’t even understand the political party you criticize. You also conflate scientific consensus with ideological conformity. Take COVID for example. When Republicans suggested the virus might have leaked from a lab in China, it was immediately dismissed by Democrats and mainstream media as a conspiracy theory. People were called “anti-sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:10 PM
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You’re presenting your worldview as synonymous with truth and objectivity and anything that challenges it as “denial of science” or “dumb.” That’s not intellectual honesty that’s arrogance. Plenty of intelligent, credentialed people have conservative views on economics, immigration, and gender policy. When ChatGPT consistently filters or avoids acknowledging those perspectives, while endorsing progressive ones, it’s not “choosing truth.” It’s choosing a narrative. You defending it by just callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:40 PM
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You haven’t actually addressed the criticism all you have said is “my side leans smarter.” What did that have to do with the fact that ChatGPT (your source) is biased? That is such an intellectually light weighted cop out I’m embarrassed for you. If anything, youve proved the point: one worldview is being platformed as “objective truth” while others are dismissed or censored. That should concern everyone, regardless of political affiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:56 AM
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Chatgpt is not neutral. I’ve noticed a consistent political bias in ChatGPT that leans “woke” or progressive. For example, when I ask it to say something positive about Trump, I often get a response along the lines of: “I can’t comment on political figures”. But if I ask the same about Kamala or Joe, it will highlight accomplishments without hesitation. There are many other examples but that is the most obvious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:05 PM
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Get cute... Never really thought to prepare for anything afterwards because that wasn’t happening lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:58 AM
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Depends on the context. If the fake name is on his dating profile but he tells me after the first date or two then I am likely to be understanding because I have had doxing threats before and used fake names on social media online. If he drags it on to a shady degree then I will assume he has something to hide like being a criminal or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:21 PM
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You’re strawmanning my argument. I never said women choosing who they date is “punishing the innocent.” What I am criticizing is the creation of an anonymous platform where unverified accusations can be posted without context, oversight, or consequence. What you’re suggesting is broadcasting unverified information to potential employers because you lack empathy for men. That’s crazy. In Europe doxing people is illegal. It’s actually illegal in some states in the US. Laws protecting people from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:49 PM
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The backlog you referenced is about processing the kits once collected, which is a separate issue from where or how the forensic evidence is gathered. So your initial claim that “police don’t even do rape kits” was simply inaccurate. inadequate legal systems don’t justify abandoning due process. You’re assuming that creating an anonymous platform for unverified accusations will fill that gap, when in fact it opens the door to defamation, retaliation, and misuse, and can undermine real victims by…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:42 PM
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Your comment is just unhinged misandry disguised as concern. Rage isn’t a substitute for logic. For starters, police don’t conduct rape kits hospitals do.. Promoting mob justice through anonymous accusations isn’t “progressive,” it’s reckless. It invites abuse not accountability. And yes employers absolutely consider reputational damage. A lot of your comment can be summarized as schitzo conspiratorial posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:14 PM
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You’re dangerously underestimating the severe negative impact the “tea” app could have on people’s lives by reducing its misuse to something as trivial as “calling someone gay.” The potential for doxing, defamation, and spreading unverified claims can ruin reputations, relationships, career opportunities and can lead to suicide based on accusations that lack evidence. While you argue that criminal background checks and sex offender registries could miss abusers due to underreporting or lack of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:23 PM
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While some women may use this platform for legitimate purposes it can clearly lead to serious issues. We already have reliable tools like the sex offender registry and accessible criminal background checks. This platform risks becoming a space primarily used by those seeking revenge and the spread of misinformation. Doxing will have to be criminalized if this is the direction our society is going. If I was concerned, I would look someone up via reliable and existing public records and databases.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:17 PM
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Your post really only makes sense if the woman has a demanding career like a doctor’s schedule or something time intensive. Not for the average college educated woman working a regular 9-5. My husband wouldn’t have wanted a partner without a college education. He earns a great income but there have been times when he was laid off and relied on me to help keep us afloat until he found work again. He values that we’re intellectually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:17 PM
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I’ve tended to date religious men who were less experienced, but that was usually a conscious choice on their part. inexperience or taking things slow isnt a dealbreaker for me but insecurity about it is. If you bring it up it’s much more attractive to own it with confidence. The way you framed it in this post came off like you might be uncertain or self conscious, and that’s more of an issue than the lack of experience itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:00 PM
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I see you’ve chosen to ignore that this discussion moves the goal post away from what anyone was talking about. Imagine having to peddle back over 100,000 years to be “right” but outdated and completely irrelevant since our lives are vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:00 AM
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The conversation was of recent history within the last couple centuries and you are going back hundreds of thousands of years to move the goal post to fit that narrative. The implication that things that may have been true hundreds of thousands of years ago is true today is incorrect. Like come on our biology and culture are so different at both those times. There is no evidence that men and women performed the same tasks equally. Women were primarily gatherers and men were hunters. Hunting is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:55 AM
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She is in training scaling my organs daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:18 PM
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Why do you feel the need to believe you are superior to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:15 PM
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Ok? So what. Men provided the infrastructure for our society and protected us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:14 PM
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This can’t be a serious rebuttal. If you’re going to vaguely claim “women provided more” do you understand the level of nuance, historical context, and actual evidence you’d need to offer for that to carry any weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:08 PM
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How do you keep missing the point? Visibility and cultural prioritization are not the same as existing on Google…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:02 PM
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Again here you are not addressing my point. Historically and biologically these roles are not even distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:00 PM
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That’s a convenient way to dismiss criticism without engaging with it. I’m pointing out a pattern in mainstream discourse. I shouldn’t have to dig through obscure corners of the internet to find buried causes if a movement truly prioritized an issue. Maybe the issue is the messengers not the listeners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:53 PM
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It’s good to see that some feminist organizations are doing actual important work. That said, your sources actually strengthen my point: these efforts are not what gets elevated in the broader, viral, or mainstream feminist conversation. You didnt even know those orgs existed before today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:45 PM
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Oh so you’ve zoned in on wording instead of addressing the core point. I said never because I have never heard one feminist even mention child marriage. That is how little feminists collectively care about it. If that isn’t a great look for yall then maybe reflect on why. If the outrage is real and consistent it should show up where it’s needed not just where it’s trendy and self serving. Seems like feminists have nothing to say beyond abortion, wage gaps, and workplace sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:37 PM
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I pointed out feminist outrage is rarely focused on real feminists issues like child marriage because most issues feminists are self serving not for women who are actually oppressed. Where is the viral campaign for child marriage if yall do care?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:29 PM
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Let’s recall my initial claim that you are asking a loaded question because you assume any expression of gender is toxic. You have now doubled down asking when gender norms weren’t toxic affirming this claim. You are ignoring how historically and socially inaccurate your claims are. These norms were not developed toxically they had logical roots: the survival of our species and offspring. There are biological realities of being a man and woman that shape us differently. Men on average are physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:58 PM
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Not just about hating men but children too. The behavior is completely self serving even if children have to die for your pleasure. This was escalated by corporate advertising marketed as a social justice movement to help “free women from oppression” that oppression being a biological reality.. They constantly site the 12 states that disallowed abortion used as birth control and never acknowledge the 38 states that allow child marriage, a real women’s right issue.. Thus proving their outrage is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:28 PM
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This is clearly a loaded question because you are assuming all expressions of masculinity and gender norms are toxic. I’m sure you’re just a perfect victim who isn’t virtue signaling at all. I appreciate gendered differences between men and women because they are natural. I don’t constantly scrutinize masculinity or claim I am a victim of other peoples preferences because I find that behavior unproductive and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:17 PM
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No, my dad and husband paid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:40 PM
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Yeah they convinced you with their rage disguised as logic I saw. Maybe think for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:26 AM
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Freebies. Not having to work. Warning only traffic stops. No student loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:09 AM
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Considering you changed your mind about public restrooms it appears your disguising your rage as logic. Or your trolling as logic. Red pill and radical lefties are really just two sides of the same insecure coin. You people are “just uncomfortable not being invited to everything” but call it oppression. Maybe one day you guys will realize the world doesn’t revolve around your narcissistic little victim cults and nobody is listening anymore thanks to daddy Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:22 AM
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You are not a victim for being left out of yeast infection discussions and ADHD forums. Also women’s only gyms have to be a niche thing we have 0 in any of the states I lived in. The closest thing to that was a small space within the gym connected to the women’s locker room that was about as minimally equipped as a nice home gym which no one actually used. I imagine you are worried about businesses that are dying concepts. Single women are not going to go there unless they are fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:55 PM
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I do not have a job, am pregnant with someone else’s child and like to climb mountains so we’d get along great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:14 PM
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Oh so he doesn’t use that 1% income on attack dogs, alarm systems, or weapons? Just his fists? How cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:08 AM
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I would assume someone who posts frequently is doing so for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:45 PM
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I do believe it’s common for men to seek casual sex when the opportunity arises. Growing up a tomboy I often heard how some men spoke about women behind their backs which made it hard to trust them. That said I don’t assume men only want sex. I take a “trust but verify” approach. I observe how someone interacts with other women (usually my friends) and consider their past behavior. People, especially men, often share their sexual history and I use that to gauge whether they’re more relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:23 PM
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Because I have had men choose me deliberately it’s not flattering to be approached like a backup plan. Why would I risk it on someone who already made it clear they preferred someone else? I’ve never shared screenshots of someone asking me out but my roommates and I would mention it the same way we talk about anything else that happened that day. It’s not that deep. It was never “ew this creep” it went more “Dave asked me out but I passed. He asked Christy out last week and we’re total opposites…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:07 AM
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That’s not really my thing but I do love stuffed kirbies, pokemon and hello kitty so I can’t really judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:38 PM
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What TF is Labubus? Matcha is actually high in antioxidants it’s better for you than coffee. It isn’t just for single women it for people who actually do the research to put better things into their bodies (hopefully without added sugars or fattening creamers).. Hello kitty is cute whether you’re single or married and my daughter will absolutely inherit my hello kitty plushies the fuck?? Also I don’t buy Stanley cups but my husband and I have yeti’s because it’s almost like preferring drinks sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:24 PM
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You guys know that advertising targets women not because we are more gullible but because we spend men’s money. We have more economic power. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:57 PM
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If you pay close attention people often reveal a lot about their health habits without realizing it whether it’s through complaints about diet-related issues like diabetes, digestive problems, or even certain pregnancy complications. The issues can be tied to long term gluttony, inactivity, consistently low fiber intake or heavy reliance on foods containing cholesterol. It’s also common to notice that some individuals pretend to be skinny online then I go to their profile because I know better b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:20 PM
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I can’t relate. I’ve never bad mouthed my husband to my friends in the 8 years we’ve been together. If I have a grievance I bring it to him and we work through it. I don’t use being hormonal as an excuse and if I overreact I apologize as soon as I recognize that. I also feel strongly about protecting how others see my husband so I’d never intentionally damage his relationship with my friends or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:03 AM
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Yeah I bet but in the cases I am specifically talking about those women always had suspiciously positive things to say about those guys who were not respectful of them. I never heard them say anything negative about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:14 AM
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The only women I knew who engaged in hookups were often doing it to compete with other women. They were usually average or below in terms of how they were perceived and would hook up with guys who clearly had no interest in anything serious with them. I was nosy and naïve so I asked a lot of questions about their “relationship.” What I learned really stuck with me, they would talk badly about the same women they were sleeping with and that gave me second hand trauma. When someone in our group fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:59 PM
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Can you clarify what you mean by “waiting at the finish line”? Are you suggesting that women should wait until around 30 to settle down with someone who’s already successful? Or are you implying an age gap relationship where the man is older and established? Or are you waiting for a man who isn’t what you want to change? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:24 PM
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Most men my age are contributing to their households and acting as providers in their relationships. The kind of men you’re referring to don’t reflect the norm in my experience. I vacation with other couples from time to time and I can see their dynamic when we travel. As someone who stays home and handles nearly all the responsibilities around the house, it’s never been men who’ve dismissed my work or questioned my ambition. Those judgments have always come from women, particularly feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:10 PM
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This was in college and we were at a lot of the same parties. I just felt like he would always look out for me and felt very safe when he was there. He would check in and make sure I was comfortable with whoever and would be my fake bf sometimes when I needed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:48 PM
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Confident, protective and assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:42 PM
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Anyone can struggle to date depending on their circumstances, just because men overall have it harder doesn’t mean women who might struggle aren’t deserving of empathy.. I knew a guy I’d rate a 3/10 who only dated women 4 points above him. He was short and looked like a weasel but he put real effort into building friendships, was fit, had a masculine vibe, was kind and was fun to be around. It took more effort but it worked he got laid sometimes and is now married with kids. That guy would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:45 PM
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Yet here you are ironically making that claim with 0 proof or evidence in support of your own claim. So I would think if one of us were biased towards sources that disagreed with our opinions that would actually be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:04 PM
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I actually posted them awhile ago. I’m surprised the expert on my post history doesn’t know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:31 PM
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That’s kinda funny you felt the need to tell me ur not French and hate onions because of my joke. However I do believe that the world outside of France doesn’t care about France which was the real message.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:23 PM
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There is data supporting links between violence against women and black/red pill content consuming men. That claim was based of studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:42 PM
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So I didn’t say only women I mentioned the majority of the victims which at the time was the information I had based on the news and current pending investigation. I have been following that story and yes things have changed as the investigation continued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:41 PM
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That is probably because you would have cared more if it was something that affects you like a Croissant or French onion soup shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:15 PM
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Oh really where did I say only women? It’s in the news. Tik tok-er Amine Mojito is mentioned in reports for posting a video on June 20, 2025, where he pretended to inject unsuspecting tourists with needles, then the attacks were allegedly planned on Snapchat. A feminist tik tok-er posted a video attempting to warn women about the attacks before they happened. For the attacks to have disproportionately targeted women and to be happening the same day all over the country means there was misogynist…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:07 PM
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I wouldn’t exaggerate something like this. If a “fringe group” can cause that much harm in a single day it’s not something that can just be brushed off. Women in France are feeling unsafe in public spaces and they’re not even allowed to carry weapons to defend themselves. I may not live in France but I’m taking this seriously and so is my family. There will be more awareness spread of this incident and the link between manosphere content and increased violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:49 PM
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And men have communities online where they encourage other men to attack women with needles including underaged girls. There were 145 people stabbed in France on June 21st mostly young women and underage girls. Some of them were hospitalized due to whatever substances were injected in them. That coordinated attack was linked to manosphere content on tik tok who specifically encouraged stabbing women with needles. The results of radical feminist spaces are less likely to be violent in real world …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:27 PM
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I do feel sorry for kind men but that sympathy will remain internal from now on. I do not trust men’s engagement with “manosphere” content, especially in light of recent events like the widespread misogynistic attacks in France, where women were stabbed with needles across the country. My response? I started open carrying and got legal insurance. I’m friendly and warm toward men I already know and trust but that’s where it ends. I haven’t been initiating conversations, smiling back at strangers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:17 PM
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This really isn’t a complicated thought experiment. There is no sum of money large enough to convince me to voluntarily spend time with you. I’d genuinely rather sell my plasma twice a week and live on peanut butter and jelly sandwiches than commit to a lifetime of being irritated by someone’s existence. I get that it’s hard for some people to imagine using their limited time on Earth to be happy and around people they actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:42 AM
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You gave the example of allowing men to participate in women’s sports, which is a radical position not a moderate or even liberal position. Just because someone thinks women’s sports should be for women doesn’t mean they are conservative so i seriously doubt your ability to discern conservative, from liberal from radical. And it’s funny you consider being poor or working class deplorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:43 PM
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Okay Karen, I will respond despite you being the tone police. That joke was clearly an exaggeration meant to highlight how some liberal men weaponize “progressive” values to avoid basic responsibilities. The fact that you’re taking it literally kinda proves my point about vibes equaling facts. We may also have to revisit this media literacy conversation because liberals are seeming way less media literate today. Also the red pill men who post here are rarely conservative. You guys are just radic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:08 PM
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Okay so it appears you don’t recognize examples that are not in bullet point lists. What does that say about your media literacy Lilly? Republicans do that way more. Atleast liberals have minorities that are actually that are actually victims. ⁠Yeah I think I’ll go with the political party who is more likely to report symptoms of depression and anxiety as being more likely to victimize themselves unnecessarily. Being emotionally disregulated isn’t a sign of clarity it signals your confusion. ⁠Vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:38 PM
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Liberals don’t have emotional literacy meaning they can’t tell the difference between emotional maturity and performative sadness. This emotional illiteracy shows up in the form of chronic victimization, thinking vibes are facts and mistaking trauma dumping for intimacy. As an example liberal men refuse to change tires because tools are patriarchal. The point of this comment is to point out that if women don’t want to be a man’s therapist then be called a gaslighter for setting boundaries to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:49 PM
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Depends on their complaints. I feel sorry for people who want love and can’t find that. There are a lot of women who post here who lack sympathy for men’s loneliness and stigmatize it to be purely a sexual desire. I do not feel sorry for anyone that complains they can’t have causal sex with people they don’t like because that reflects poorly on your character. I would estimate 0 women would be empathetic to this because it is too childish to be worthy of any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:23 PM
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Good thing I wasted none of my time and just provided you AI slop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:23 AM
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Dr. Douglas S. Steinbrech – NYC, known as “the go-to surgeon for men,” pioneered male-focused aesthetic procedures, popular with execs and actors. Dr. Ramtin Kassir – NYC/NJ, triple-board certified, does a high volume of male facelifts and jawline work, big with younger finance and media guys. Dr. David Shafer – NYC, double-board certified, specializes in facial rejuvenation for men (lifts, rhinoplasty, eyelids), growing celebrity clientele. Dr. Benjamin Caughlin – Chicago, specializes in jaw/ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:01 AM
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I always preferred dating people I already knew they tended to be more attractive and of better quality. I only got to use tinder for 3 months before getting banned, but it pretty much confirmed my expectations: mostly fuckboys and losers. I had already met my future husband and he ruined everyone for me anyways. That was quite a while ago. When I was in college no one really talked about using Tinder because it was considered embarrassing and mostly associated with being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:00 PM
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Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Idk maybe because you’re ripping sentient beings faces off for sport?? it means that he can put food on your table I don’t consider poison food. he probably cares about the environment If he cared about the environment he wouldn’t be killing the creatures that fertilize aquatic plant life but ok. a fish-heavy diet has been proven to be very healthy You just said our waters are polluted. Btw there are no fish that don’t have mercury in their tiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:43 PM
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You didn’t read it because the study showed that the results still held when accounting for age and other demographics. Conservatives consistently report greater life meaning and higher well being across multiple samples, even when adjusting for age, gender, education, income, and religiosity in their analyses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:13 PM
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There are studies linking mental health and political ideology. Liberal men are more likely to report symptoms of anxiety and depression. Conservative men tend to report higher life satisfaction and are also more likely to be married. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31565182/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:37 AM
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That’s exactly why women say they don’t like being sexualized because it doesn’t make someone feel loved or appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:23 AM
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I’m not attending your pity party. At this point you are just projecting your insecurities. You took a comment on Reddit about my preferences and spun it into a universal condemnation of all women. You are a perfect example of someone who is too mentally fragile for the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:56 PM
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I didn’t say poor men are losers. I said I wouldn’t date someone I’m likely intellectually incompatible with. If that feels like an attack maybe reflect on why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:18 PM
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Yeah because I understand education will correlate with income even though that is what I value. You’re describing a miniscule amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:10 PM
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I’ve never met a college graduate who would date someone who didn’t graduate college including men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:05 PM
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Yes and no. I wouldn’t date someone working in food service or earning minimum wage. I tend to prefer college graduates, since I also went to college, and I’ve noticed an intellectual disconnect in past relationships with people who didn’t. That’s just not appealing to me. So naturally my preferences lean toward men with average or above average incomes even though I would never under any circumstances ask what someone makes. But in your example cars are cars I would be able to tell a difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:17 PM
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Thank god, because I pair mine with Capri Sun and paper plates because presentation matters and yeah, I def deserve compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:20 PM
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Are you implying boxed mac and cheese with boiled hot dogs isn’t fine dining?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:09 PM
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And yet there are people like P-diddy who specifically identify as non-Christian but they do identify as “sex positive.” Which was a strategy adopted by most pedophiles that were involved with the children I worked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:18 PM
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This is a debate sub not for advice. People are here throwing shit at the walls to see what sticks which is mostly nothing because this place is fill with trolls and non-functioning adults.. Thinking this would be the place for advice would be really special. People come here mostly for free entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:19 AM
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No, it doesn’t point to having children as early as possible. What it actually shows is that we need to stop consuming and exposing ourselves to toxins… If I apply your logic then the “ideal” age to have children would just keep getting younger because toxins we consume are passed down to our children and this will cause buildup… Your thinking ignores the root problem.. You’re bending logic to justify pressuring women into younger motherhood instead of acknowledging the evidence that change is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:04 AM
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So you just admitted age is a proxy for toxin accumulation.. Glad we agree.. Correlation doesn’t equal causation.. Btw fertility rates, miscarriages and birth defects all those things you guys contributed to age on this subreddit for years have been increasing at alarming rates for women under 30 also. You have all literally been screeching about this topic for years and not one of you ever knew what you were talking about and that’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:09 AM
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The idea that women are happier without men has already been debunked and formally retracted. Women consistently demonstrate, that male validation still influences them whether they admit it or not. Just look at trends in makeup and cosmetic procedures: fuller lips, youthful skin, exaggerated curves. All of which align with what men are biologically wired to find attractive “coincidentally.” Wanting to be praised and rewarded by the gender your attracted too is part of being human. And again, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:20 PM
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You have promiscuous women in this very thread confirming that sex in committed relationships is more emotionally fulfilling for them so even now, you’re holding on to your judgment of women despite mounting evidence that contradicts your assumptions. That’s the irony. You claim to be advocating for liberation but only if it looks like your version of it. Claiming women have had no role in shaping society is false. Women in the U.S. have been able to run for federal office since the early 1900s.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:42 PM
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Men brag about how they "built the world", so under what system is that made in and who are the majority of people in power? So by your logic if women in mass decide to brag about how they made the world because they gave birth to everyone then it suddenly becomes a matriarchy? You are trying to spin my narrative You are being called out for being contradictory, judgmental and unproductive. depend on the Pharmaceutical companies That is a completely different and unrelated conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:58 PM
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Fertility age shaming is not productive especially when it ignores how our health outcomes are shaped by generational exposure to toxins. For example, fish labeled as having “safe” mercury levels can still contribute to mercury buildup in the body, especially with repeated consumption. Mercury has a half life of 70 DAYS (yes I looked that up). It lingers in our bodies long after ingestion. If a person becomes pregnant or is breastfeeding during this time, that mercury can be passed to the baby, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:48 PM
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Your disclaimer is meaningless when the rest of your post contradicts it. You make sweeping generalizations and clearly pass judgment on women who choose not to be promiscuous something you’ve doubled down on throughout this thread. I based my comment not just on your opening line but on your entire post and your responses. You consistently project that women who abstain from casual sex are operating under internalized patriarchy, which is laughable. I haven’t lived a single day under a patriarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:13 PM
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Your view is overly simplistic and dismissive. Assuming that most women who choose not to engage in casual sex are just performing for men or trying to be “picked” erases the reality that some have reflected deeply on their values and simply don’t want sex without emotional safety or commitment. You do not have a problem with “repression” you have a problem with people practicing their bodily autonomy when it doesn’t fit your narrow world view. You have no intention of being productive you are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:52 PM
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That statement does suggest that integrity of the heart matters. I’m pushing back a bit on your interpretation. The verse seems to be addressing the intentions of married individuals specifically. I believe “lust” here refers more to objectification than to simply feeling attraction toward someone outside of a committed relationship. Attraction is instinctual, there’s no realistic or healthy way to eliminate that. Objectification is shaped by culture and socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:47 PM
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Yeah. And what I’m saying is I tend to question people who describe their partners that way. If you feel like you have to “shrink yourself” to be with someone, maybe the issue isn’t just your partner. You might be overlooking the things they’re doing that keep the relationship functioning while you’re busy narrating your martyrdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:40 PM
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I rarely see relationships where this so called “infantilizing” doesn’t go both ways. Usually when someone complains about doing too much, they’re overlooking what the other person handles in return. For example: I tend to take charge of our meals and home. My husband’s not great at meal planning or cooking. I was asleep while he made spaghetti, and I literally woke up thinking he was taking a massive shit. Neither of us wants him cooking us sewage spaghetti. On the flip side he manages our inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:32 PM
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It’s quite ironic how some feminists will tear you apart for fat shaming then go on to collectively fertility shame men and women for not having kids young enough. Apparently the only acceptable biological clock per feminists is the one they had control over if they didn’t let gluttony rule their lives, the one on the bathroom scale. The other ironic thing about this post is that other feminists are treating this as a gotcha to men when it reinforces the same “patriarchal pressure” for women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:24 PM
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Yeah and I’m saying I have 0 faith in anyone I have ever met to take control of their diet. About 55% of U.S. adults (117 million) have at least one preventable chronic disease linked to diet—like obesity, heart disease, diabetes, or certain cancers At least my husband has never lapsed on his diet to have any of those health conditions. I have met men who are skinny and in shape who you would think take care of themselves and yet they have diabetes..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:30 AM
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It’s not a “trick” he knows exactly what I am doing. You probably dont understand average American is more overweight than my husband ever was and drinking cranberry juice with petroleum. Im surrounded by men and women who don’t even eat vegetables..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:16 AM
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You’re welcome! And you better not go chucking everything I just said out the window to go flex in the mirror because I put too much effort into that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:44 PM
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That doesn’t work. The only thing that’s ever worked with my husband was meal prepping healthy, low calorie meals that were also filling and keeping the freezer stocked with options he actually liked. For example he loves spaghetti, so I started swapping the noodles for spaghetti squash. I’d suggest something simple like having a salad for lunch. You just have to get creative. I also stopped buying snack foods he’d eat mindlessly like chips and dip. I might still buy the dip but pair it with cuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:45 PM
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What separates them: the ability to gaslight yourself. Every time women I know irl insisted she was “totally fine” with causal relationships it sounded like hallow coping. They never got taken out on dates. They always spoke with this suspiciously upbeat enthusiasm about these men who couldn’t be bothered to reciprocate even a fraction of that energy. I was naive to what was going on so I would ask questions about their “relationship” some of these men actually shivered at my misunderstanding or…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:16 PM
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It’s very special you’re doubling down on the absurdity and coming across absolutely ignorant. If you cannot grasp the basic fact that people wait for marriage because of religious/cultural reasons not because they are leveraging sex then you are too simple for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:11 PM
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Equating “I don’t sleep with someone unless I feel emotionally secure” with “I’m withholding sex to get something from you” is kind of absurd. You’re ignoring the fact that people have different values and boundaries around sex. I doubt you jump to those same conclusions when the person saying they don’t have casual sex is a man. This may come as a shock to you but if you actually communicate what you like and dislike, the sex can improve over time… I can’t imagine being sexually incompatible wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:23 AM
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I counted sex, oral or fingering. I was pretty reserved I didn’t even let dudes play with my tits or sleep in my bed. That was all because I saw all of those loopholes as temptations that could lead to premarital sex and I was raised religiously and continued living that way until I fell in love. My bf had to sleep in his car just to visit me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:52 PM
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I would say both but women advertising themselves in children’s spaces are definitely worse. I used to post on an anime dress up site when I was 15 and there were a lot of pedophiles brought there by porn stars advertising themselves on that website (despite getting banned for that) when the website was for 13+. I was asked for pictures while being underage many times and even got requests for porn. Luckily I never did any of that but I do see how that can groom young women into sex work. Advert…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:34 PM
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No, some women can be just as bitter as the ones who post here. I definitely know a few examples in real life and have met some randomly, almost all my recent co-workers none of which had any success in relationships. They didn’t have problems entering relationships they have problems selecting men who were: faithful, respectful and aren’t dead beats. It was insane to hear about their daily drama and negative generalizations. I once went to a hair appointment with a stylist I’d never met before,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:04 PM
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Well it sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Of course doing all of that while working full time inevitably means you have to make trade offs somewhere like how much time you can personally spend with your kids. One of the most common regrets people express at the end of their life is working too much instead of being present with their family. That’s exactly why I think it’s important not to judge different choices. At some point, you (or one person) makes enough income that it doesn’t mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:20 PM
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never met anyone who said they never wanted a relationship where it wasn’t coming from some kind of trauma response. Wanting companionship is a basic human need. it’s literally hardwired into us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:29 AM
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Your idea of ambition seems simplistic. Believing that ambition must be tied to career or income overlooks many of the ways people find purpose in their lives. For example, some people donate blood simply to save lives. I could theoretically have children, stay home, and donate breast milk to mothers who can’t breastfeed. I could also work toward swimming a mile (which I am doing while pregnant). There are countless ways to be ambitious that have nothing to do with financial gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:50 AM
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What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Personal fulfillment. Most people find meaning, purpose and joy in raising children and building a home together… Aren’t women more likely to end up as stay-at-home? Yeah that is a choice that women usually make.. Is it worth losing employability if this happens? Your mind is what’s lost to feminist propaganda. What if he resents you? What?? You’re catastrophizing relationships. What if he starts hating your body after childbirth or expects …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:39 AM
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How plausible is the type of man you want? I married him. Are men somehow more psychologically resilient to the ego damage that results from being rejected? Men on average are more resilient yes. How does the ideal man handle rejection, and how did he come to be that way? By not joining narcissistic victim cults due having a support system. he manages to be an ideal 30 year old man. How? How was he raised? Was he brought up religious? Answer is too long: short answer by being highly intelligent.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:12 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:08 PM
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There was no point to your OFF TOPIC comment. You’re not actually engaging with my personal choices you’re trying to hold me accountable for abstract societal grievances based on unfounded speculation. If someone behaves badly I’m not obligated to defend them. I’m not a damn stand in for all bystanders, and frankly, I can’t stand when people constantly frame themselves as perpetual victims in some self pity cult. Victim politics makes me even less inclined to speak up for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:24 AM
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No lol. Using your money to chase gold diggers just shows you’re shallow, desperate, and stupid. I prefer someone humble, secure, and intelligent. I’ve dated wealthy men who offered to pay off my student loans on the first date, so I know exactly the type who does that and they usually expect something in return. I immediately lose respect for men who try to buy sex and relationships. My husband was discreet about his income with everyone. I didn’t even know what he earned until we were about to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:21 AM
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I tend to speak up selectively. If it feels like a “what goes around comes around” situation I usually stay out of it. But if someone genuinely didn’t deserve the comment I’ll say something. That said (irl) only one woman I know has ever made a remark about a man’s penis size. I didn’t defend him because he’d wronged me personally. Even then I was just a listening ear. I don’t body shame people for things beyond their control. I’m aware things get out of hand online but I can’t possibly fight ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:55 PM
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I never really had casual sex or “for fun” relationships. I’ve always had pretty high standards for the kind of man I’d marry and start a family with. So for me it would be husband. And to be honest the kinds of people who do have casual sex (men and women) are mostly making up for insecurity. I never met someone who had casual sex who is emotionally stable or even that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:05 PM
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I would want the same thing no matter what. I prefer lean and tall body types that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date someone shorter if they were what I wanted. Some muscle definition would be nice but as long as gluttony doesn’t rule their life I’m usually not super picky about body as long as the weight is healthy. Edit: oh I didn’t realize this was supposed to be answered by people who went from fat to fit my bad. However I am currently gaining weight cause I’m pregnant but yeah what I’m attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:09 PM
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“I’m not a misogynist women are just the exclusive test audience for my bad person experiment.” Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:14 PM
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Actually I was wrong I didn’t mean to say you guys were quoting studies because it was user generated data and not actually a study. No that isn’t how ChatGPT works, you have to tell it to affirm or support your position in the prompt. I can tell it to advocate for animal rights as if it is earthling ED or I can tell it to be factual and correct me if I am wrong. You just don’t know how to use AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:19 PM
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It is, especially when it finds the exact study you all keep cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:10 PM
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Because they are all woke and I haven’t met a bisexual who wasn’t mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:59 PM
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Do you know around the world different traits are attractive based on the area you live in? Men around the world find different things attractive by region based on: •cultural ideals of beauty •media and advertising •historical associations with status, health, or fertility If you’re going to make a global claim maybe look outside dating apps. That would have been a great start.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:28 PM
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I don’t seek out specific groups of people for friendship. If we click and like each other then it will naturally happen. My best guy friend is bisexual. I would never date a bisexual, but our personalities clicked enough we have a fun 10 year long friendship filled with dumb college memories. I don’t force friendships with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:50 AM
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This post felt like rage bait but I do appreciate that you confidently contradicted yourself when you said that emotional vulnerability is a “negative characteristic” but then admit that it makes men seem more genuine and approachable. Anyways I think everyone can just assume this post says more about your own resentment and insecurities than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:40 AM
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No. I dont approach ever and that isn’t my personality. I may throw someone I know well a bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:05 PM
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32, and 7. Depends on what I’m wearing, if I am wearing a gamer girl/punk outfit I get approached daily. I think men find me relatable when I’m wearing anime/gamer things and when I’m dressed more punk people just think I look like Avril Lavigne. If I put in less effort: no make up comfort attire or jeans and white t-shirt I usually just get smiled at but occasionally approached/catcalled w/e maybe once a month in summer less in winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:07 PM
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lol radical leftism gets worse everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:33 PM
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I explained that in my first comment, you need better reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:13 PM
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I’m calling it feminist brainwashing because I don’t believe women who say they never centered men. The idea of de-centering men comes from feminism. You’re assuming these women have self awareness. They don’t or they are dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:12 PM
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Listen you’re arguing that feminism helped women stop centering men.. Which means they were centering men before. So when someone claims “they never did” and feminism had nothing to do with it, that is the denial of patriarchy’s influence. You just walked in a circle and got dizzy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:59 PM
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Yep that’s why I screen for the sweat spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:03 PM
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Listen, I don’t trust a man who never got caught. That’s serial killer energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:39 PM
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I don’t want to have to guess if you’re white. I want it to be immediately obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:38 PM
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lol you guys are really studying this like it’s anthropology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:22 AM
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I need a paper trail because men are out here lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:40 AM
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No I am not much of a risk taker it gives me anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:02 AM
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Don’t hurt yourself it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:49 PM
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I need proof he’s lived a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:38 PM
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I need proof he’s lived a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:37 PM
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No clean records.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:23 PM
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That is my baby daddy and he was hand forged by god.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:22 PM
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I need proof he’s lived a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:19 PM
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•Is Christian •Doesn’t have casual sex •Is traditional •Wants kids •Taller than me •Highly intelligent •Undergraduate •extroverted •Fun to be around •Cute face •Has female friends •Doesn’t belong to any narcissistic victim cults (RP, feminist, MRA’s ect..) •Games with me •Politically right •Never cuts their hair •Vegan/Vegetarian •Kind but not “nice.” •Doesn’t do drugs •Has a misdemeanor that’s 10 years old •No mental illness •Isn’t Bi •White (not just passing)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:27 PM
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No you actually confirmed that it is exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:43 PM
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Seriously? Now you’re cherry-picking historical definitions. “Prude” hasn’t been a compliment in your lifetime. It isn’t neutral any more than “whore” is. You’re a textbook example of the faux white knight. You claim neutrality, but you frame women who abstain from casual sex as “prudish” and “vanilla” coded terms for undesirable. Then you act like you’re not shaming anyone. You may not insult high n women, but you lean into the stereotypes on the other side. That’s targeted bias towards women..…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:47 PM
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You’re trying to frame the conversation as neutral but used a classic insult “prude” to describe women with low N’s. That’s called moving the goal post. And those are not positive sexual traits for the majority of men and you know that so there is nothing genuine about pretending this is a neutral observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:30 PM
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Okay you clearly have no concept of how to logical debate. I’m not talking about my preferences, I’m pointing out you used common negative traits about sex and desirability to describe low n women “prudish vanilla low libido..” Your language suggests a judgment which was what was being pointed out. You essentially came to the debate with 0 self awareness and are now pretending otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:16 PM
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I mean you proved his point by calling low n women prudish and vanilla and also framing them in an undesirable light “low libido.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:18 PM
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Right and that’s exactly why I find the “I never centered men” claim disingenuous. The journey away from centering men is believable as a trauma response. But saying it was never there at all sounds like feminist brainwashing (or as you call it “feminist programming)”. So we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:00 PM
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Ngl I don’t feel like a lot of women are being self aware “I never centered men.” I don’t believe that, that just sounds like feminist brainwashing.. It’s natural to want relationships with the gender you’re attracted too. I can understand de-centering men if you don’t get interest, if they treat you like a maid or as a trauma response to abuse. That sounds more like a natural progression. I can even understand reading the things men say online and wanting nothing to do with them but being born …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:54 AM
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That was a hilariously unhinged spiral but I’m done talking to a goldfish. Enjoy yelling at clouds. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:20 PM
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That isn’t what I thought a bid for attention is. I can’t remember being ignored or ignoring any of those things. I’m sure it happens but it’s too rare for me to note or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:45 PM
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The mental gymnastics it takes to call women “slampigs,” “joke” about their jaw size, then cry “misogyny” when someone pushes back is… impressive because the misogynist here is you. You are not a victim. Hope that coping strategy’s working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:20 PM
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If you mock women for giving toothy BJs while making a thread about how women who enjoy kinky sex are unattractive, you are bringing your sex life into the conversation. You did it again when you asked me if I had a small jaw lmao. You don’t get to backpedal the second someone points out your hypocrisy. And since we know you like rewriting history to fit your narrative, I’ll just leave this here: Succesfully striking your nerve, obviously you were someone’s lousy conquest they wouldn't show off?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:15 PM
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I do communicate, and I can climax in under a minute when I do it myself. When my husband does it, it takes a little longer but not by much because that “real time feedback” someone mentioned really does make a difference. He listens, and he’s great at doing the things I like. I don’t want him to rush the process the added build up makes the orgasm more intense. I enjoy the unique experience he gives me. When I do it myself part of the reason I cum quicker is my lack of patience when I’m turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:57 PM
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Only unattractive women ask to be choked during sex Being mindblowingly good at foreplay and sex in general is apparently not that common, but being "freaky" is easy because all you have to do is ask people to hit you. But people still want to come across as good in bed. And if they are either unattractive or clumsy at sex or both, they naturally still want to stand out positively in some way. So pickmes can't help themselves. So these pickme chicks who want to be cool and "good in bed" then dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:37 PM
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You edited your OP. Talk about striking a nerve lmao. Guess I hit too close to home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:36 PM
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Read any book on how to influence people and it tells you not to complain, condemn or complain even ones written by men for men say that. In no professional book that has any integrity would it suggest being bitchy and manipulative because that is a self sabotage loop..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:50 PM
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You just wrote a monologue to strangers online bragging about giving great head, you might be closer to those women you’re dragging than you think. You’re also being choked just on something else lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:39 PM
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You can support paternity testing and still understand that it might feel hurtful in the moment not because someone thinks they’re “above human,” but because they are having an emotional response to being questioned by someone you trust feels like a shot at your moral character. That’s not always evidence of ego or exceptionalism, it could just be human vulnerability. People don’t usually have deep self-awareness the middle of emotional conflict those insights happen after the fact, in reflectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:19 PM
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No they don’t believe they are above human and incapable of being questioned. It is an emotional response you’re assigning depth too when none exists. What you’re really observing is that not everyone has good debate skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:35 PM
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Reacting emotionally is a human quality. There’s nothing above human about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:29 PM
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I’m addressing: Why? Because deep down, they don’t see themselves as human in this conversation. They see themselves as above human, perhaps something closer to angels. They see themselves as incapable of lying, incapable of deception, incapable of being questioned. You’re not making a case for accountability you’re building a fantasy where women’s discomfort with being distrusted becomes proof that we’re dishonest, manipulative, or think we’re “above human.” That’s not logic. That’s projection …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:27 PM
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Please stop with the “women are evil, inhuman, and narcissistic” rhetoric. Women tend to express emotions more openly not because we’re manipulative, but because we’re naturally more emotional. Words matter France on June 21st, (During a nationwide music festival) 145 women and teenage girls were attacked with needles across multiple cities. This wasn’t a random event it was a coordinated act of violence, and at least 12 suspects have been arrested. These were deliberate attacks targeting female…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:13 PM
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Lmao. Your original post blamed men’s accusations of whoredom for shaping women’s negative views of paternity tests which would be a sociological claim. Now you’re saying it’s biology??? How do you think paternity fraud happens? What are you not getting? Do you think it’s the rogue embryos breaking into people’s wombs when they left the window open. What’s your theory Lilith?? You have asked 5 people this question it’s time for a new thought Lilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:13 AM
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You opened with “If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests.” That clearly implies it’s a common enough issue to shape women’s attitudes. Now it’s suddenly not widespread? You are back pedaling away from your own title.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:25 PM
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It is not always an advantage and those men are not always self respecting they are seeking a challenge and fetishizing. I was waiting for marriage in college and looking for someone who shared my values: religious, not sleeping around. Unfortunately, a lot of men saw my inexperience as something they could potentially use to their advantage. Thankfully, it was a small town and people talked, so I caught on to a lot of lies because women and men looked out for me. One girl told me the guy I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:16 PM
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I’m not sure if it’s bad faith or if she’d sprain something having a new thought other than “don’t creampie whores.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:03 PM
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You can’t argue that unjust name calling is a widespread problem and then pretend it’s suspicious when someone says it’s happened to them frequently. Lmfao. If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason Lilith 29 minutes ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:16 PM
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That’s actually kind of hilarious. Considering your original post revolved around women being called “whores” for no reason and now suddenly, it’s a red flag when you’re being disagreed with. My extended family were Jehovah’s witnesses your a whore in their eyes if guys text you. You weren’t owed an explanation, I just thought I’d point out how you flipped the narrative once it no longer served your point. give one valid reason Can you not think of one yourself? My god. 1. It protects everyone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:08 PM
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No I’ve been called a whore more times than I can count and I still view paternity testing as a reasonable right (not something tax dollars should be funding just that it should receive more vocal support from women)... Your personal trauma doesn’t become everyone else’s responsibility.. That said, I don’t think ending a relationship over a request for a paternity test is a reasonable response to someone exercising their rights.. If your relationship can’t withstand uncomfortable questions witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:34 PM
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How the hell do you know about your cousins dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:01 PM
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It’s possible to tell whether someone will be a good sexual partner before having sex. Traits like playfulness, attentiveness, generosity, emotional intelligence, patience, and curiosity are strong indicators of a good partner. Sex is something that improves over time through communication, learning, and experience which is why I don’t believe having multiple partners is necessary. Forgiveness is a core value in my faith and people are not “ruined” if they don’t get everything right in the begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:12 AM
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Listen Holly Polly, you’re accusing me of trolling, I explained why you’re wrong. If you want a debate then stop reacting like I just punted your cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:32 AM
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Oh so calling out performative victim politics is what you consider trolling? Welp that says more about your cozy little groupthink bubble than it does about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:02 AM
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I’m not talking about some fringe group of radical feminists I’m describing every modern feminist. Mt goal isn’t to help red pill men, men’s rights activists, feminists, radical leftist wokies, or any other group to push their narcissistic victim cult. You’re all just different heads on the same Hydra.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:52 AM
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Ok, so.. Are we supposed to believe feminists prioritize women who face actual oppression, when so much of their brainless focuses revolve around casual sex? As of 2025, 14 states (plus DC and some territories) have completely banned child marriage, with no exceptions whatsoever. As of June 2025, 14 states in the U.S. have enacted total abortion bans, with some allowing limited exceptions. How brainwashed does an entire group have to be to have ignored real oppression while fattening corporate p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:13 PM
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What??? If I have determined you are creepy then you have done 1, 2 or all 3 of these things: 1. made me a sexual display against my will 2. Don’t know who you are or 3. made me feel unsafe. Abuse isn’t love. I do not scare easily I worked with criminals and I didn’t always have cell service or other people around to rely on for protection. So if I describe someone as creepy they made me feel fear or harassed me while I was isolated. It’s also sick that you seem curious for women to talk to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:56 PM
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“Holly Polly”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:39 PM
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Wokeism really broke your guys brains. My god. It’s sexist for women to willingly change their last name now. I took my husbands last name so we could all share a family name when we have children. Not everything is the damn patriarchy. We haven’t had patriarchal laws in anyone who posts here’s life time unless you’re old (no offense). Stop victimizing yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:44 AM
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Not sure what you mean by emotional. My husband is emotional around me, and it’s actually comforting it shows he’s not emotionally detached. However his emotional expressions don’t feel volatile, unsafe or unresolved. Some men express emotions in ways that are scary like getting angry over minor things, throwing/hitting objects. Even appearing constantly sad would give me school shooter vibes ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:13 AM
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I don’t consider anyone I know more attractive than my husband but he also has a niche look I liked that most guys don’t have so I never even see men with the aesthetic I’m attracted too. However the majority of his friends are attractive and successful. They treat me like their best friends wife.. I treat them like they are my husbands close childhood friends.. I am close enough with them we may have contact besides my husband but that would be through texting/phone calls me about pregnancy upd…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:37 PM
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I have never had someone vent to me about a problem and been annoyed by the “emotional labor” it takes out of me lmao. I also don’t understand how women end up in these situations of them doing everything for their men then being upset about it. Another commenter gave an example, “pretending not to know how to do laundry” lmao ok why does it bother you if they fuck up their own laundry? Sometimes natural consequences are more effective than you enabling and bitching..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:19 PM
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Depends on age. Older guys know better than younger ones.. They’re responsive when I tell them what I want and curious about what I like, but do they instinctively know what I need? No, they instinctually know how to get themselves off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:23 AM
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My husband used to have beautiful long curly hair, but he had to cut it to be taken seriously at work. I loved his hair so much I couldn’t let it go.. literally.. I gathered his hair, tucked it into a freezer ziplock bag, and stored it with our wedding keepsakes. It’s been two years, and yes… I still have it… He has never questioned it but I also didn’t ask... He probably assumes it’s one of those quirky things I do. I don’t have any shrines with q-tips though. Even I’m not that crazy I have my …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:10 PM
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I believe them because I’ve noticed that men often struggle to open up to me. It usually takes time and patience to help them feel comfortable, which suggests they’ve had negative experiences being vulnerable in the past. My husband says that women have generally been more receptive to him than other men. He feels more at ease opening up to women than to his father or male friends. I’m usually the person he confides in first. I don’t believe women are entirely blameless in contributing to this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:57 PM
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I met my husband through mutual friends while playing video games. We were randomly placed on the same team for a tournament. We connected instantly over Discord, bonding over our shared love for animals and our decision to go vegan. After work we’d play together every night, eventually spending more time just talking. I added him on Facebook and realized he was very attractive on top of being everything I was looking for. There’s a 6-year age gap, so I sensed he was hesitant to make the first m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:06 PM
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Never?? Maybe he could have complained about how I loaded the dishwasher once or twice but that was long ago. I don’t remember. If I feel like I need help out of burn out I just tell him and he helps… Now I don’t work though so I don’t ask for his help and he just appreciates the things I do… Oh I did have male roommates once from India and they’d leave shit for me to clean so I’d leave it there on the floor, in the sink wherever they left it. They’d complain about how gross I was. Lolol so I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 03:31 PM
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I would never let a male stripper touch me real life isn’t magic Mike.. Most women aren’t randomly groping dudes that’s called a sex crime… TF hole did you crawl out of that you don’t know that? The bachelorette parties I went to were more so girls retreats and tame, light traveling, spa or going to dinner at nice restaurants. There no men involved. You have weird cinematic fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:52 PM
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No, that isn’t how it was in the US. Most men and women were sex positive it is this new generation that are trending conservative and view casual sex as wrong. You are literally saying this crap to a bunch of 30 year olds from western countries where none of this is a major consequence. Also men reward promiscuity, the three date rule for example is men rewarding promiscuity with their resources and attention. The most promiscuous and average women I knew (some even obese) married or were with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:48 PM
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VeChi Diet Study (Germany, 2016-2018): This study, published in Nutrients (2019), examined 430 children aged 1-3 years (127 vegetarian, 139 vegan, 164 omnivorous). It found no significant differences in height or body weight z-scores between vegan, vegetarian, and omnivore children. Vegan kids had comparable growth to omnivores, with no evidence of stunting when diets were well-planned with supplementation (e.g., B12, vitamin D). The study noted higher folate and fiber intakes in vegans, suggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:19 PM
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Congrats you’ve just discovered woke logic. They don’t consider it gay for men to sleep with a trans women. So this doesn’t surprise me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:08 PM
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Chimpanzees are mostly herbivorous and have front facing eyes for depth perception to navigate trees and forage. Your predator eye argument doesn’t hold, because eye placement isn’t exclusive to predators which nothing about you suggest you could be your weaker than most other animals on the planet including herbivores. Also vegan diets, when properly planned, support healthy growth in kids. Studies like those from the American Academy of Pediatrics show no consistent height deficits. I am stick…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:19 PM
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In other words you don’t want to think about your unethical consumption you just want to focus on “unethical consumptions” that don’t challenge the things you do. News flash entertainment doesn’t actually cause suffering you’re virtue signaling. You investing in animal rape on the other hand does cause suffering. Furry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:23 AM
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Well considering you just came out as a carnist it’s no longer an assumption. You don’t get to quiz me on my sensitivity to violence while funding a system that breeds animals into existence for a one way ticket to corpse sandwich city. True crime isn’t graphic it focuses on investigations and motives, not gore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:26 PM
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TF, I don’t enjoy watching other people die. I want to know what criminals are doing so I can avoid them. I’m actually sensitive to violence I can’t watch horror movies or death scenes. I don’t even eat meat. Why do you turn sentient beings into corpse sandwiches for pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:14 PM
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They couldn’t handle the possibility of being decapitated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:06 PM
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And you still haven’t read the part where I verified that was false. Goodbye. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:52 PM
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Mothers genetics contribute more to things like height so your kid is still fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:40 PM
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I don’t consider it submissive to do nice things for someone. That thought would have never even cross my mind. My husband does all of that minus any cooking because neither of us enjoy his cooking. Now that I think about it the texts throughout the day would be weird in a relationship that isn’t established depending on what they are. My husband didn’t do the lovey texts while at work thing until I moved in. He is a very affectionate person but he didn’t love bomb me with all that early on. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:09 PM
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We were talking about height, which, spoiler alert, both parents contribute to equally. You might want to google that next time before trying to school someone. Also, bold move bringing up IQ after switching the goalposts, impressive multitasking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:37 PM
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Don’t worry, I’ll cheat with a tall guy who reads. My god, you inherit genes from both parents and there’s no fixed rule that says one parent contributes more to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:09 PM
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Nope, your interpretation of Red Pill as “self improvement only” ignores the documented associations between Red Pill ideology and extremist violence. Rutgers University found that Red Pill communities and incel forums actively foster misogynistic worldviews and normalize violence against women. These are not rare outliers. they’re consistent patterns documented in linguistic analyses, user behaviors, and across content sharing platforms. We learned in the past that dehumanizing people leads to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:28 PM
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Yeah well who created this problem? Women heard men who encouraged other men to use manipulative tactics so now women have to take that into consideration. It may not always be perfect radar but this problem was created by the manosphere. Women are just adapting to a world that is changing for the worse around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:08 PM
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Because individuals who struggle with violent urges use red pill/manosphere ideology to justify escalating their urges into violent actions. Elliot Rodger (2014 – Isla Vista, California) killed 6 people and injured 14 before taking his own life. Left behind a manifesto and YouTube videos expressing hatred for women and frustration about being a virgin. He explicitly blamed women for rejecting him and men who were successful with women. There are also men who post here who said that they would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:38 AM
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There was a period of time where my husband was laid off from work and wanted to return to school and it was very stressful for me because our home is not affordable on my salary so I had to work 60 hour weeks and he had to dip into his investments occasionally. He did not qualify for any financial assistance. We made it work and live comfortably now but that was definitely hard because of the financial stress. I never thought he was a dead beat I knew what his plan was and how it would benefit …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:32 PM
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Yeah I agree but when it’s your first time on the app you don’t understand those consequences at first so after that I began only swiping on 3-5 a week. Doesn’t matter I’m banned on tinder anyways because photoshopping your head onto a praying mantis is considered catfishing or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:00 PM
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Depends, usually the first couple times they cum immediately (less than one minute) or if we had to go without sex for 3+ days. After the initial excitement, or if the frequency increases they last a bit longer. As men age they take longer. Occasionally when it’s quick we just cuddle until we have sex again and they last long the second time but my concept of time is bad so idk. 20 minutes how long it would take for both of us to cum.. I have looked at the clock before and after enough to know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:36 PM
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You keep trying to perpetuate this “cleaner version” because you want to cling to a label despite the structural issues. You called it an anti-delusion tool and refute that is definitionally an ideology. Reddit, YouTube influencers, manosphere blogs, these spaces routinely amplify bitter, fatalistic, and misogynistic takes. You already had your personal experiences and know that. You aren’t going to be able to endlessly disavow red pill extremism so just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:45 PM
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You can’t invoke the “original mentality” of the red pill as if it still defines the movement today. Once an ideology becomes widespread, its meaning is shaped by the majority who adopt and practice it not just the intentions of its originators. Same critique applies to modern feminism. While it began as a response to patriarchal laws and was rooted in achieving equality, today we can follow the money and understand is serves corporate interests or is performative and self serving rather than be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:19 PM
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Nope you’re missing the core of my point: red pill extremism is not a fringe issue it is the mainstream face of this IDEOLOGY. The majority of red pill followers promote or align with misogynistic, fatalistic, and combative worldviews. I am claiming YOU cherry pick a version of the red pill to justify remaining aligned with it, while distancing yourself from what it has clearly become. That is selective detachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:44 PM
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Red pill extremism relies on manipulation to appear legitimate for instance, by framing itself as an observation rather than what it truly is: an ideology. It misuses science to justify impulses (cherry picking data to support its claims) rather than following scientific principles. Red pill IDEOLOGY includes calls to action, which goes beyond an observation and places it in the realm of a BELIEF SYSTEM. Some followers admit that today’s red pill has taken a more black pill turn, they (you) stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:59 PM
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Biology doesn’t equal only gestation. You are cherry picking what counts because you’re saying the womb makes me a mom but your love, labor, and years wouldn’t make you a dad. Sounds like you’re just scared of raising someone else’s kid. Welcome to what you just asked women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:56 PM
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And you can contribute through parenthood. If you expect women to accept a child that’s not genetically theirs, why can’t you do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:47 PM
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Oh so now genetics matter. Funny how you can’t handle the mirror of your own post to play stepdad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:41 PM
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The kid would need chads jawline and athleticism. It’s what’s best for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:35 PM
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If the concern is our offspring being an incel then I will just cheat on you with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:34 PM
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Multiple reputable media outlets (including liberal ones) have confirmed that Thomas Matthew Crooks made a $15 donation to the Progressive Turnout Project. You are the one believing what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:53 PM
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It is very convenient that you guys only have an incident that happened over 4 years ago you constantly site meanwhile you have amnesia about your antisemitism and terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:47 PM
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Nope he donated $15 to the Progressive Turnout Project, a liberal voter turnout group, through the Democratic Party donation platform ActBlue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:46 PM
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Somebody forgot the Trump assassin attempt, or May 21, 2025, Elias Rodriguez, a 31-year-old from Chicago, fatally shot two Israeli embassy staffers Yaron Lischinsky and Sarah Milgrim outside the Lillian & Albert Small Capital Jewish Museum. Rodriguez was apprehended at the scene while shouting “Free, free Palestine!” And the riots taking place at our college campuses where college kids are setting things on fire, taking over the libraries while other students are studying for finals and yelling …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:39 PM
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An ideology is a set of beliefs or values that explain how the world works and what should be done about it. Red pill thinking fits that definition because Red pill beliefs are often packaged with specific moral judgments, cultural critiques, and calls to action (more than an observation..).. Calling it an observation is a move to make it sound scientific when they cherry pick data and evolutionary psychology to act on their impulses. It is not scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:22 AM
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lol what I’ve been with my husband 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:18 AM
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It takes a lot to be removed from my church, especially since forgiveness is such a central value. But she was the only one who showed no remorse. She was so vindictive that she involved her own children in witnessing her infidelity, then used her affair partner to publicly torment her husband during and after the divorce. Most people have more decency than that. Our congregation couldn’t worship in peace with her stirring up conflict and her behavior goes against everything Christian values are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:47 PM
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What? I didn’t do anything calculated I just paid attention. I listened to how they spoke and in moments that mattered I asked myself: did he show empathy? How did he handle/communicate his emotions today? Did he respond supportively when I was upset or distressed? I didn’t do any shit tests. I reflect on our conversations and experiences afterward to figure out how I feel and whether this is someone I actually want a relationship with and why certain moments might have shifted that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:06 PM
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I don’t think a lot of people take the red pill ideology and use it morally or healthily. If the majority of men used it just to find a wife whom they would love and respect who would also love and respect them in return then I wouldn’t have a problem. What is described and most upvoted in this thread is not what is being encouraged, it encourages misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:15 PM
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Yes red pill seems to escalate the emotional distress of individuals struggling with violent urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:54 PM
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I would agree not all black pillers and incels are violent but the connection is still there for individuals who have become violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:58 PM
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This particular woman was cruel and aggressive. For example she once screamed at my sister when she was very young, frightening her so badly that my mom had to drive her away to protect her and the woman actually followed them to our home. She also made a point of flaunting the affair in front of her ex-husband at church, even before the divorce was finalized. It felt like she was trying to humiliate and provoke him at every opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:52 PM
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The problem is that you’re equating athletic training advice (which is overall positive) with ideological dating advice rooted in resentment or manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:43 PM
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The Rutgers team didn’t just invent these observations they analyzed language patterns, forum behaviors, and real world incidents connected to this ideology. The Allen Texas shooting and the Toronto van attack weren’t random tragedies, they were inspired by incel and blackpill rhetoric. These are verifiable facts not speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:39 PM
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I do not know that but the kids would have been fine to return to the church with their father. Nobody wanted to watch her terrorize him in front of her kids. Having to go to a different church is better, those kids loved their father. They don’t need to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:19 PM
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Saying that it increases black pill extremism and increases violence doesn’t mean all red pillers are incels. Come back when you have a real rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:29 PM
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You are using semantics to reframe extremism as natural preference. You also have nothing in rebuttal to actual evidence that red pill extremism increases violence. A lot of red pillers admit that today’s red pill is more black pill. You don’t get to cherry pick the parts of the red pill that make you correct while pretending the rest doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:27 PM
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You can’t support ideologies that that negatively generalize women as being amoral creatures and call yourself a feminist because those two things are too contradictory to go together. Red pill extremism increases violence, so feminists would logically oppose that. https://www.newark.rutgers.edu/news/study-reveals-how-incels-become-violent-extremists?utm_source=chatgpt.com You can’t pick both sides it doesn’t work. Edit: I will no longer be responding to comments that fail to rebute the clear tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:16 PM
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Also you guys defending and upvoting comments describing only the top 5% of women “worth being used” indicates even then you still view those women as disposable because they may not even be LTR material. Well that reinforces the criticisms of the red pill being made up of misogynists. It doesn’t make men look benevolent or trustworthy. There was a news article about a men who killed his wife because he was convinced by red pill content she didn’t actually love him. It’s be coming more common fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:56 PM
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If something only works for a small portion of people then it that makes the advice unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:42 PM
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This depends on where you live. My church asked a woman to leave because she was bringing her affair partner around her ex-husband whom she had 3 kids with. People in the church did not want him feeling uncomfortable being there but also found it inappropriate and traumatizing for her kids to have to experience that at church. She was not allowed to return to the church. Also there are people who refuse to date anyone who has ever cheated on someone which includes me and my husband. There are so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:42 AM
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LOL yeah there’s a lot of logical inconsistency that needs unpacked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:19 AM
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So you aren’t successful unless you can pull the top 5% of women lol. Please tell me how this works with the narrative that men are less selective than women when you act more hypergamous than women? Also if you feel the need to build a “soft harem” just to feel successful, then you’re actually describing a coping mechanism for low self worth dressed up in faux confidence. It is absolutely laughable that your childish idea of success is being surrounded by people who are hot and disposable. Beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:01 AM
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I remember this happening like once or twice in my entire life but it was because they tried to talk to me about their sex life that I didn’t want to know about. I also didn’t even know him. All the other times I was disgusted with men it had nothing to do with looks, like having corn shit breath and trying to tell me a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:19 AM
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do you cosign those women being the kinds men shouldn’t want Yeah, everyone I know fits neatly into internet relationship theories. It’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:42 PM
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Marriage and family aren’t transactions. You don’t buy out motherhood like you’re canceling a gym membership. If the goal is fairness, be fair in how you split duties and parent your children. If your solution to relationship strain is writing a check and calling it even then you aren’t ready for marriage or kids in the first place. This thinking is so nonsensical motherhood is a choice you aren’t being used because you made choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:26 AM
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You seem to miss the entire point of even starting a family. People don’t (and shouldn’t) have kids because it’s profitable. If you feel entitled to an ROI on diapers and daycare then maybe don’t have kids. And saying, “Well, a surrogate costs $100K” as if that’s what a mom should be paid for having her own child is a false equivalency. It’s like comparing hiring a private chef to someone cooking dinner for their own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:04 AM
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May 21, 2025, two Israeli Embassy staff members, Yaron Lischinsky and Sarah Milgrim, were fatally shot outside the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington, D.C. The suspect, Elias Rodriguez, a 31-year-old from Chicago, was apprehended at the scene. Witnesses reported that he shouted “Free, free Palestine!” during his arrest. Former President Donald Trump was shot on July 13, 2024, during a campaign rally in Butler, Pennsylvania. One spectator, Corey Comperatore, was killed, and two others were criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:42 PM
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Listen, I know from experience I will get banned for answering that question. Anytime you talk about race, especially in this context it will be labeled trolling or inflammatory because that topic is known to be an emotionally charged one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:38 PM
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That question is illegal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:24 PM
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•Associated with demographic groups statistically correlated with higher crime rates, like being poor ect. •Challenges minor disagreements and demonstrates a consistent need to assert their correctness. •Drinks regularly, or drinks and drives. •Wears animals for fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:17 PM
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Yes 2. Yes 3. No 4. I have dated worse 5. Yes 6. No 7. If he looks like white Jesus. 8. No 9. No 10. If he looks like white Jesus. 11. Yes 12. Yes 13. No 14. No 15. No 16. No 17. No 18. Yes 19. Unlikely I hate young ppl 20. No 21. No 22. No 23. lol no 24. No 25. I forget what this question was 26. Yes 27. No 28. No 29. Yes 30. No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:30 PM
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Because dating isn’t a trust fall. Also even when meeting organically you’re are still vetted. Women didn’t just marry the first stranger they bumped into at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:12 PM
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Every time I watch discover ID the murderer is always from Ohio. At this point I just assume the killers from Ohio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:29 PM
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You’d have to be morally hollow to marry or date someone you don’t even love. I couldn’t fake that kind of intimacy. That is just treating someone like an object to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:17 PM
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Stop side stepping how illogical the op is. I don’t know any women who like aggressive men so the fact you think that is the case is crazy. Ask a fucking feminist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:27 AM
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Let’s flip this situation. You go on a date with a man who is presenting himself as woman when you know he’s a man and he isn’t acting traditionally feminine either. You think STRAIGHT FUCKING MEN ARE GOING TO SHOW ROMANTIC FUCKING INTEREST IN HIM??? And what if I went around using this situation to bitch about men upholding female gender roles. That makes no fucking sense. I couldn’t even think to do that because I don’t know how to think so illogically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:57 AM
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Hmm, clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:46 AM
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Growth is beautiful from a far, kind of like forest fires. I will not date anyone who I believe needs to grow, change or that I have any doubts about. Being a social worker I have seen people turn their lives around unexpectedly but the odds are not great. I can’t think of any bad behavior I’d forgive. Misogyny-> no Addiction-> no Diagnosed mental health issues-> no (don’t care that it’s not your fault) Casual promiscuity-> no Being a wokie-> no Investing in animal rape for cheese -> no Criminal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:44 PM
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No, I am not a furry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:06 PM
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If you’re asking that question without sidestepping how illogical OP’s use of “evidence” was, then yes. Emotional resilience plays into stability, which increases safety. Protective factors like social connections have strong scientific backing as key components of resilience in individuals. I’d also argue that’s not gender specific. Men frequently say they want women with “less baggage,” which is essentially the same thing as emotionally stability. So it doesn’t prove that one sided point about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:35 AM
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Did mommy Norah descend from the sky and explain it to you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:30 PM
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Maybe you just didn’t read the book hard enough. Mr librarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:22 PM
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I copied that from a source that isn’t my beliefs. She didn’t prove how oppressed men are, she showed the world what happens when you make people uncomfortable lying about your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:15 PM
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I looked at pictures and she did not pass. The reasonable conclusion is: that most women who dated her were just being sensitive to whatever mental health issues a woman trying to pass as a man has. That situation probably made them uncomfortable. She contributed to her own feelings of isolation being a weirdo. I copied from a source that was what she said she was trying to accomplish, that isn’t what I believe was logically accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:07 PM
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Using common sense means being honest about the limitations of a given data point or anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:14 PM
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Nope, you’re assuming women should respond romantically to someone they weren’t sexually attracted to because they didn’t perceive her to be a man. When men and women try to pass for the opposite gender the majority of the population doesn’t find that aesthetic attractive because their appearance doesn’t align with mainstream gender norms. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:50 PM
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That doesn’t mean they’re interchangeable or that one conclusively proves the other. Her project was not designed to test female attraction, and didn’t qualify to do as such since straight women are not attracted to other women. The conclusions drawn in OP’s post lack academic integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:35 PM
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You know there are accounts on google of Norah admitting that she knew she didn’t pass as a man well because a lot of people were suspicious of her. Also her goal was to prove how emotionally isolated and pressured men feel, not to prove what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:48 PM
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Yes they will show women prefer taller. But it is not 90% of women that will put 6ft+. This is a statistic yanked out of someone’s imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:00 PM
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Bumble has never released those stats. So those “stats” (that you’re exaggerating) are user generated discussions and observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:48 PM
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They don’t want to be seen as less desirable or be indefinitely stuck in the relationship they are in because people will find them repulsive with the increasing std rates and awareness of high N men and women reporting lower sexual satisfaction in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:40 AM
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Low n doesn’t mean low libido. I had more sex than my promiscuous friends they just had more past partners that didn’t work out because they were having sex with dudes who didn’t want to commit to them. Meanwhile I had one long term bf in college. Also research indicates that individuals with more lifetime sexual partners experience lower sexual satisfaction. This could be due to seeking novelty or having higher expectations based on past experiences. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:41 AM
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You manage your own assets that tells me all I needed to know about your ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:12 PM
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God forbid there be a paywall to legacy, intimacy, or generational return on investment. So… love is a crypto asset now? Should men just PayPal you their masculinity monthly? Lmao You’ve written quite a monologue to avoid answering what you bring to the table… Cucking themselves on capitalism’s profit porn. I wanted to believe this was poetry but I have a feeling this wasn’t written by OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:35 PM
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It’s not 50/50 women rarely ask men out so it’s mostly women gossiping in these situations. In this case, it was a woman and her female coworkers acting poorly and that behavior was defended. Not holding women accountable sets a bad example especially for younger women who look to us as role models. You can count on them enforcing their policies and everyone should conduct themselves as if they’d be held accountable unless they are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:47 PM
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No it’s actually like you’re saying, “women can’t be expected to act like professionals so don’t shit where you eat.” I have known people to get warnings and fired from continued gossiping. It is even in the onboarding training in the US and Europe. Maybe you were asleep idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:23 PM
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My god are you even a professional? You can absolutely get fired for gossiping if: It creates a hostile work environment. Violates company policies Damages someone’s reputation or career. Have you never read any policies of the places you worked at??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:00 PM
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It’s wild to me that he’s the one blamed for trying, “don’t shit where you eat.” Like that is a common place people meet at.. Also gossip is immature and damaging especially at work and she should know better than to do something she could get fired for. Even at my the most immature stages of my life I had the sense not to ruin someone’s reputation. What’s worse, it’s not just you missing who’s actually at fault other women in the office and commenters did too. That’s hardly fair. If someone gos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:21 PM
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I respond better to guy 1. If I don’t perceive he is interested right away then I will just assume we are friends. Guy 2 has and can work out but it is hands down guy 1 who will do better with women generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:37 PM
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I did say they were choices, and I said that intentionally. I explained the poor choices in mate selection as being patterns formed in childhood. It appears most people didn’t read that comment correctly. Oh well Ty for the upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:57 AM
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They do the same to me too. Ngl I just say it anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:34 PM
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The behavioral example set by fathers plays a large role in the quality of men some women select. Most people can and do form healthy relationships despite having trauma. I know some women who have given up on dating, it wasn’t that their options were terrible it was their choices that lead them to give up because they had formed bad patterns selecting mates from early childhood experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:47 PM
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“Rainbows aren’t real because I can’t explain them with crayons.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:20 AM
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But no, most 22 year olds are not thinking about the future they are partying and doing drugs. Wasn’t easy finding people my age not doing that stuff it is easier to find someone who is done doing that. Which would be in the same stage of life as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:43 PM
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Let me know when you find something comparable to DV not being shamed. Being slut shamed isn’t in the same league and I’m not about to read a book written by someone who has a victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:28 PM
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You are being bitter because I even used gender neutral wording and your still perpetually outraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:27 PM
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So now you just go around assuming all women think/are that way? Thats laughably bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:02 PM
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Oh that is what you meant by here :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:40 PM
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My uncle punched a hole in the wall and hung up a picture of Jesus over it so his mom wouldn’t know and also would be happy he was accepting god into his life. It’s definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:37 PM
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I think you guys are hyper fixated on the inconsistencies of women because that is what the red pill tells you to do. Look at the top comment with all the statistics, someone actually put in the work to answer that question. Now realize nobody in this sub said anything that comprehensive because yall make up your own theories that sound good to you and ignore the complexity of issues out of laziness. If you examine just about anyone in this sub long enough you will find inconsistency or people g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:04 PM
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The issue isn’t about acceptance of differences.. It’s about you guys thinking corporations exposing your children to gender dysphoria which you then say are serious medical and psychological matters because of the increased suicidal tendencies of those people, is fucking acceptable. Period. The answer isn’t earlier introduction to mental illness it is professional care. They blocked me I’m responding here: Pretending I think gender dysphoria is contagious is just you intentionally misrepresenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:29 PM
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Understanding a heterosexual relationship like “mom likes dad” is a simple concept grounded in family familiarity. Pride themed clothing and books often introduce ideas about identity, gender fluidity, and sexual orientation. Many trans activists cite high rates of suicidal ideation and mental health struggles among transgender youth as reasons for intervention so it isn’t comparable to anything you mentioned. Because nothing you mentioned comes even close to introducing kids to severe mental he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:23 PM
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Walmart made a public announcement they were taking that stuff down, if they didn’t then they just lied. Oh well, don’t shop there anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:48 PM
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Repost, too many replies, “Either gender identity is so simple a rainbow T-shirt covers it, or it’s so serious we need urgent mental health intervention to prevent tragedy those can’t both be true… and that is inappropriate for kids.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:43 PM
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Either gender identity is so simple a rainbow T-shirt covers it, or it’s so serious we need urgent mental health intervention to prevent tragedy those can’t both be true… and yes that makes it inappropriate for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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Either gender identity is so simple a rainbow T-shirt covers it, or it’s so serious we need urgent mental health intervention to prevent tragedy those can’t both be true…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:41 PM
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And? I didn’t see the clothing or books that specifically targeted children. Which was what was criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:35 PM
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I think that is not true at all my family is very conservative and hasn’t shopped at Walmart in 10+ years because they don’t want their money going to the Chinese government.. The reality is the people who shop at Walmart have to because they are low income. It has nothing to do with politics…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:10 PM
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They had pride themed kids clothing and books. It is obviously inappropriate for corporations to be pushing complex issue onto kids before they are ready when they should be exploring who they are without outside influence. That should be obvious to everyone. It’s not to radical leftists and that is y it is grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:55 PM
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None of my democrat friends stopped shopping at Walmart or target. Walmart stock is the highest it’s been in 52 weeks. Most people are going to eventually return to target. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:50 PM
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Walmart is outpacing many of its competitors and completely did away with all DEI initiatives. They also removed LGBTQ merchandise aimed at grooming kids from their website.. They are actually doing better..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:31 PM
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But no, most 22 year olds are not thinking about the future they are partying and doing drugs. Wasn’t easy finding people my age not doing that stuff it is easier to find someone who is done doing that. Which would be in the same stage of life as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:02 PM
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Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:48 PM
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Most people want their kids to look like them. Thats not racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:53 AM
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K let us know when u get ur starter cat in the mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:47 AM
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I don’t know anyone who prefers dudes 10-20 years older. What attracted me to older men (5-6yrs) was that they are more likely to be the full package. Their life experience has shaped them to have better communication skills, they are funnier, better at emotional support and I can usually trust their opinions. Also younger guys tend to be more performative and lie to get relationships with women because they lack qualities women want, older men usually know that stuff doesn’t work long term and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:33 PM
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You are doubling down on a simplified narrative: cheating exists therefore sexual monogamy is “not natural.” That is a logical fallacy equating common behavior with evolved default behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:05 PM
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You are backtracking and qualifying the things you said with a caveat “unless he knows.” I believe at this point you are just going to shift the goal posts away from things you originally said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:53 PM
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Well yes people keep gaslighting and calling this chronically online bs but I have been hearing stuff in real life nowadays that I only used to hear online. This is where the people are and where we are being influenced by each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:22 PM
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Ok I have a citation showing you cherry picked evolutionary biology. I am going back to some wild shit you said: “How is it required that the child is from the same man who cares for it?” Geary, D. C. (2000). Evolution and proximate expression of human paternal investment. Psychological Bulletin, 126(1), 55–77. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.126.1.55 Human males, unlike those of most other mammals, have evolved to provide extensive and prolonged parental investment… particularly under conditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:20 PM
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Being married in an Islamic country would be a pretty big downside. Other than that I don’t think there is any except that one of us will eventually die while the other remains alive and that is something I dread and think about a lot because my husband is 6 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:27 AM
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You’re driven by impulse, not science. You even cherry pick evolutionary psychology to justify it. You say past sexual behavior doesn’t matter only current behavior. But downplay the study that shows a high number of past sexual partners is a predictor of infidelity in both men and women. If you actually respected science you wouldn’t hand wave that away just because it’s inconvenient to your lifestyle. You talk about open relationships like they cancel out the definition of infidelity but redef…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:31 PM
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Well how come you guys ignore science all the time then? You are even bragging about your body count while being aware of that study that the best predictor of infidelity is past sexual history. This includes high n men. Or biological/psychological evidence that humans are monogamous such as bonding chemicals released during sex. Or that our offspring require a lot of care from two parents unlike other mammals. Infidelity is almost universally viewed as a betrayal of trust and it’s been that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:59 PM
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How many times are you going to post the “healthy relationships are fueled by fear” argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:42 PM
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*some women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:32 AM
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Popular media, specifically the show love and hip hop, where women being aggressive and mean to men is considered entertainment. One memorable scene is Joselyn beating a man because he didn’t divorce his wife (making her a side chick which she knew she was all along) and bystanders watching and laughing as he struggles to control her hands or get away. He sustains visible injury to his face on set.. Social experiments of women committing DV on men in public bystanders often laugh or ignore it, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:54 AM
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What service did you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:32 AM
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That can’t be the average American woman. I’m pregnant with twins and I’m not even close to that. The average American woman would have to be carrying quintuplets to justify being that heavy. If that is the average woman then my country is having a public health emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:13 AM
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You started off pretending to care about social trends, then spiraled into a pornographic tantrum. If that last paragraph reflects where your mind naturally goes, you’re not critiquing society you’re crying out from the basement. Ew. I actually need ginger ale because you’ve triggered my nausea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:44 AM
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Women no longer have to disguise themselves and they still don’t want to fight in the military. They make up 16% of the US military.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:29 PM
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It isn’t a myth. you get a lot of benefits from the government for being a single mother and most of these mothers can collect child support. It isn’t hard to figure out why the poor have the most kids in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:44 PM
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You do get enough to get by. You won’t get enough to save. And yes that is how it works, the more people in your family the bigger place you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:14 PM
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They also respect my boundaries and are not going to keep shooting their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 AM
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Not everyone did, and just because you find someone attractive doesn’t mean you can’t value their friendship because they make you laugh and are fun to be around. You can enjoy someone’s company and not be sexually attracted to them if you have enough in common. My husband’s friends respect our relationship it is 100% platonic. They love my husband first and then me because I make him happy and they value my advice/opinions on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:50 AM
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Yeah, and some of my guy friends did eventually make romantic interest known but cared enough for our friendship to continue it post rejection. If I saw them on the street 8 years later they would probably be excited, hug me and try to catch up. You don’t always have to talk to people to know you’re still friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:40 AM
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The more kids you have the more you get. There women in 5 bedroom houses because they need a room per child that is paid for by section 8. The biggest complaint I had made by parents in child protective services was that once kids were removed from the home all their benefits were gone and working wages were not enough to sustain themselves unlike getting paid to have kids does..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:04 AM
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This is so opposite from my experiences as an adult. I didn’t have sex in college and had a lot of guy friends. They just thought I was fun. The men I date have always said things are more fun when I am there. If I didn’t want to go somewhere they didn’t want to go either. Their friends learned they had to convince me to go. My husbands friends even text me about pregnancy updates wanting pictures of the babies room, if we know the gender or predicting I am having twin boys or whatever they thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:42 AM
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Porn is catered to men. I don’t care to see anyone’s dangly bits doing sexual acts. You are having anti social fantasies about women’s attraction that is rather porn brained. It would never have occurred to me to watch porn because my fantasies are 75% about the emotional connection. I don’t even want sex without the emotional connection. Women are not going to look at you and think sexual thoughts get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:03 PM
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That is basically what my plan was and what I did. I spent my 20s-30 working overtime, met husband @23 put the extra money towards paying off our house and we traveled. I worked up until I was pregnant which was a recent change. I may eventually go back to work when my kid/s are school aged but perhaps I won’t. I was interested in men who were close to or around 30. I didn’t think about the money they would make but the majority of the men I dated were far outside my socioeconomic class. I was r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:04 AM
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The men I know who were getting lots of variety of women in college struggled after high school and college because it is harder to meet people. If you don’t focus on the long term earlier in life you shoot yourself in the foot by not taking advantage of having close proximity to a lot of women. This is even more true with the lack of third spaces. My guy friends even admitted this too me. They said if they were ever going to get married and have settled down they would have had to be more focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:41 PM
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The OP is defending one night stands. And claimed they are just bad at sex. Any reasonable person would have serious doubts about your intentions if that is how something went down. Also there is this view among men that promiscuous women are “fair game.” I had promiscuous friends who would be basically passed around and used meanwhile the dudes they were having sex with were dating around and just ghost them when they find someone else. I had a man pretend to me to be a godly man who was waitin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:25 PM
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This is all an excuse to be able to pump and dump women. You don’t think you own anyone communication because you’re self centered. Also if sex is bad it’s almost always fixable with communication. There’s a huge difference in men who stick around for a couple months and who do what is described and they have told on themselves enough to me and my husband knows they exist too because he’s honest unlike you and OP. I can’t even believe I have to explain that to you. Clearly you don’t consider wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:53 AM
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Do you need a terms and conditions page before acting like a human? ChatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:35 AM
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Seems clear you didn’t pass her test either and now we all get to read your unpaid therapy homework. Why is rejection coming from you “noble” but then it’s delusion when women expect basic decency?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:21 AM
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I refuse to date anyone who has gender insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:40 AM
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I wouldn’t dignify it by calling it a movement it was wokies having mental health crises.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:15 AM
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I would agree that love/respect for your partner was lost at some point. Unless something is going on like mental illness or illness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:57 AM
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femsplain If that is what you want to call biological evidence supporting the idea that humans are monogamous then I’ll take it as you not being prepared to back up the BS you spew. Dad. I could have made this a moral argument and said polygamy is bad for society yada yada. I didn’t because I assumed I was talking to a logical person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:35 AM
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Your flair says you’re a father which btw you should then know how high male parental investment is for humans compared to almost all other mammals. This would support the evolution of long term pair bonding. You are living in delusion that you’re polygamous because you were influenced by red pill culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:21 PM
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If your love for someone doesn’t stop you from cheating on them then you don’t love them and you are in fact done with that relationship. You are just lying to yourself that you respect that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:01 PM
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Husband and I together for 7 years and have our first child on the way. I think people ignore how many bitter and angry women are also on this sub. My biggest fear was meeting people who act like the people who post here irl and I have in fact met one horrible misandrist and red piller. Since I knew them irl I’d have to say the common theme is blaming the other gender for your failures. Feminist teachings that men are oppressors is sexism and is largely how we got here. If you believe someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:46 PM
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Yeah rape isn’t always reported when it happens which makes it hard to know the real statistics on those things. Because then there is no evidence just he said she said and we can’t prosecute on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:23 PM
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If every man I interacted with began making those claims, yeah I’d start to question who the liars were because the statistics show it isn’t that common. However I have witnessed two women make false accusations. They did right their wrongs and took them back (in front of everyone) when they realized how serious everyone was taking things. One was trying to avoid accountability for cheating and the other was a more of that chicks fantasy… So yeah I believe men when they tell me because: I know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:43 AM
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Are we not acknowledging the reality that commenter was probably exposed to feminism/misandry younger than what she is now? Or that children can’t see misandry online? Or do you just not think feminism, that teaches men are more dangerous than bears and that 25% of men are rapist, is misandry? If it’s on YouTube children can see it (you’ve already proven that) and be negatively influenced by it. If you want to turn a blind eye that’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:32 PM
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I’m looking for your explanation on why this is different than women in this very thread who say things like “the average man is stupid.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:05 PM
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Companies that incorporate feminist themes in their marketing. Any feminist influencer People write books about feminism they don’t just hand them out for free. There are college courses that teach feminist theory. Are you seriously acting like feminism cannot be profitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah that’s sad, but how is that not similar to what feminism did to women? There’s a lot of women who are man haters and yet still nobody looks at feminism through this lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:42 PM
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Women learn that sexual interest from men isn’t always complimentary because sometimes men insult those women behind their backs, treat them like shit or don’t want commitment. So when you start the interaction with sexual interest they often already had bad experiences from men who were only interested in sex. Women do understand that if they don’t get commitment when they wanted it they weren’t good enough and that is typically what women want. So the idea of men expressing sexual interest whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:22 AM
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You are the one who appears out of the loop about what feminists are talking about maybe you have a source that shows you aren’t talking out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:43 PM
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Lmao, it originated from feminists resisting societies beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:39 PM
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No, you don’t appear to understand what you’re talking about. Body positivity is well known to be intersecting with 3rd wave feminist concerns. That isn’t even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:36 PM
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It’s not a niche internet movement. It’s literally a feminist concept to reject societal beauty standards and the objectification of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:16 PM
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It’s funny not a lot of people have their pictures up but pretend to be skinny and I go to their profile and see sausage fingers (while we are on the topic of mocking sausages). It’s only fair since women seem to be obsessed with body positivity. Except it’s really not even remotely close because letting gluttony rule your life was a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:43 PM
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Yeah well most people were kids once so we understand kids are rarely born compassionate and understanding so the majority of people have said some shit that was hurtful to somebody. As you said it’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:29 PM
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What I mean is I don’t go around asking random men why these things happened to me. I wouldn’t get any answers from men that would make me feel any better about what happened. I don’t believe this method of coping would be healthy. I’d rather focus my mental energy on men and people who were positive influences in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:50 PM
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Some people put chocolate in chili but spaghetti doesn’t work like that. So I at least see where he got the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:17 PM
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You know I had a medical condition growing up and was made fun of by men relentlessly. Even when I dated nice guys I was body shamed for lack of development which is why I ended my first 2 relationships. I wasn’t developed until 17-18. What I don’t do, is expect all men to answer for why I had to endure the pain of not feeling wanted or like a woman because of the stuff they said to my face, in front of other people and likely behind my back. Yeah my condition luckily wasn’t permanent, but when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:14 PM
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I have never met a “bisexual” identifying person who seemed emotionally stable or trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:01 AM
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I never heard of real life gang bangs or that desire until I moved to the city where a bunch of criminals and low class individuals live. Sounds like those are your people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:00 PM
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My husband leads in financial decisions not because he created conflict with me for the role but because he demonstrated talent in investing I do not possess so we had a conversation about how he can do whatever he wants with our money and I will trust and support his decision regarding our budget. This was back when I was working, now he is the sole provider so nothing changed expect I do more things around the house now. I lead in the kitchen because he melted chocolate in spaghetti thinking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:44 AM
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I don’t initiate sexual intimacy a lot but if he brings it up I’m usually down. If I do get turned down I’d just go do dishes, clean, cook or play video games. The stuff I usually do. If it’s bad, I might self pleasure. I think it’s just on his mind more than mine but when he brings it up and I think about our sex then that’s enough to get me turned on. I am usually the one to initiate non-sexual intimacy when my husband initiates those things it’s usually because he wants to have sex but he’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:21 PM
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Celibacy was a last resort if no men meet my standards and my idea of being celibate is just not including men in my sex life because obviously I have desires. I don’t sexually need men when batteries exist. I could be content, but my life would be happier with a good relationship. I was celibate for almost 2 years and 21 years before that the loneliness was hard on me emotionally but having social connections made it possible for me to find enough happy moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:47 AM
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The women who post here are largely feminists. That tracks with my experience that the people who say they are egalitarian are usually not egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:53 PM
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There’s only like 2/100 feminists here who are actual egalitarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:43 PM
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The psychological term is called self monitoring. This isn’t just a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:05 AM
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No your comment and follow up response perpetuate the sexist ideas people have of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:48 PM
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This comment was a huge face palm. I thought you were correcting the sexism in the original comment but instead you affirmed it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:58 AM
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I am pretty intolerant of poor behavior and would have been incompatible with anyone who wasn’t considerate and generous. If I thought someone was inconsiderate I don’t think I’d find it possible to love them. So I imagine that my standards and expectations would be the same. I myself am pretty generous because how I show love tends to be acts of service so if I didn’t select a partner who was also generous I would probably just get frustrated and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:47 AM
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You’re encouraging me to target abused women for some reason, probably because you have convinced yourself I only target men. Stop victimizing yourself as if everyone is against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:36 PM
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It actually would have been easy for me to funnel my following on that dress up site to an OF, but I had more fun trolling and making cute outfits. Allowing women as young as I was to be alongside porn stars who have finacial incentive to recruit that are using the same website to garner followers for their content is grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:31 PM
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My two cents, I used to hang out on an anime dress up site for ages 13+ that is now a place OF models advertise their instagrams.. Thier actions are/were defended by radical leftists btw on that platform which I was on as a kid. So it shouldn’t be just men recognizing just how predatory they are, it’s embarrassing more women don’t. They have invaded children’s spaces and that is inappropriate. Just look at twitches top streamer amouranth… Constantly being banned for gross rule violations but def…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:36 PM
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Google says ur an abuser trying to punch me. Reported for threat of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:28 PM
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I’m an opportunist I don’t go tracking specific people down for unsolicited advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:23 PM
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What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:20 PM
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If he doesn’t send me a pic of his 9in dick next to measuring tape then there will be no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:17 PM
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If you are repeatedly selecting the wrong people over other options like this guys is then yes you need to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:04 PM
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I’m saying that doesn’t happen to most people. And yeah I’d know if my gfs moved their exes into their homes with their husbands. They wouldn’t be able to hide that. I seriously doubt that thought would even cross their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:49 AM
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Nope this is what happens when you allow people to walk all over you. My husband would never tolerate me doing any of that and he’s a good hearted person. It’s called self respect and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:08 AM
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This isn’t the story of why single mothers are so terrible the demographic of women you select repeatedly is. I don’t even know women who act like that or men who put up with that. You must like drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:57 PM
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Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:00 PM
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The first paragraph represents sane people’s reasons for not wanting to date single mothers, the rest only exists online because people in the real world are not that neurotic. You guys are feeding off each others fears and insecurities. You guys are so broken if I ever see the reddit app downloaded on someone’s phone I’d walk away immediately because they are probably you. People in the real world aren’t just being polite they haven’t spent their time in incel echo chambers. That’s the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:55 PM
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It is a test of intellectual capacity if you graduate.. I had rich parents they could have bought me a nice mansion and I could have ran a bed and breakfast and made a lot of money which would have been a lot easier than studying criminal law. Most people are not born with the skills or resources to be millionaires. Anyone who goes to college and actually tries is going to be more educated than your average non-college graduate. Most people are not self starters educating themselves especially p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:48 PM
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It matters to me, if I ever felt like i wasn’t a first pick I don’t even think I could develop attraction. I have never dated a guy who wasn’t obviously head over heels for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:19 AM
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I’m going to summarize what is happening since you seem to be struggling: you’re being made fun of because you haven’t had one original thought this entire conversation in which all you have done is deflect to politics in discussion about the academic integrity of feminism which was what my original comment was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:44 PM
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Here’s what you sound like, “Nazi zombie rapist facist wolf wielding multiple grenades at puppy dogs.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:34 PM
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I provided an example of how you have 0 idea what you’re talking about. You said he was found guilty which is a term used in criminal court the term in civil court is liable thanks for providing an example of how easily influenced you are by people who have 0 clue what they are talking about. What do you even know of the grievance studies affair? You have spent the entire conversation deflecting so I will assume you are just too ignorant for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:23 PM
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No one was talking about politics lmao. Trump wasn’t even criminally charged for SA how would he be found guilty? Like I guess you could just be ignorant of the differences between criminal and civil proceedings but thanks for playing the game of who is more a victim of propaganda while you try to shift the goal post away from the valid criticisms I had of modern feminism just like every other feminist. Next time try staying on topic it is a debate sub and what are you doing here if not engaging…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:18 PM
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I edited my reply to answer your question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:57 PM
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How come I say “women who have no reason to fear men” and your mind immediately jumps to “rape victims have no reason to fear men.” See this is what propaganda does, you people really believe everyone’s against you lmao. Edit: btw these women who have no reason to fear men are the majority of women who exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:51 PM
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Sexism is more concerning when it’s real, I’m more concerned about feminist propaganda such as men vs bear fear mongering being spread in mass to women who have no reason to fear men than I am fictional movies. I enjoy horror myself but more on the paranormal side and I don’t feel like it affected how I viewed men. However live TV that is marketed as real and depicts violence from women against men as normal is a form of media I’m more concerned about and grew up with in the 90s. I especially wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:29 PM
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I don’t work out regularly anymore but I have had six packs and played 6 different sports sometimes 4 at the same time. I think it’s obvious what people’s preferences are it will always be fit men although I prefer lean fit rather than body builder the veins gross me out and make me feel like your dehydrated or something. However a dad bod isn’t going to stop me from dating someone who I otherwise like. So that preference isn’t really a deal breaker unless you are too overweight. Another comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:19 PM
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Ok well I guess the OP will have to clarify that. Still a fucked up thing to say regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:50 PM
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She doesn’t respect you if she actually told you “you’re the back up guy” lmao. I wouldn’t consider that my friend. What do you even see in her clearly she is a self centered individual. She doesn’t even like you, that statement told you everything you needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:02 PM
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I would do a background check on someone before I met them and just not tell them about it. Salary checking had never crossed my mind I was worried about safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:56 PM
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While I agree men have it rough in dating today because of women’s mass stupidity. If your sources are tik tok and Instagram your research is likely biased because of course the most vain people are the ones posting content frequently on social media ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:03 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:28 PM
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Women are programmed to crave attention from men. It’s why we change our appearance and sometimes act pathetic. I don’t personally do any damseling because it feels desperate/pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:11 PM
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I claimed size doesn’t matter because I (and I think most women) can’t eyeball your dick and know how big it is.. I thought a 9 inch penis was 6 inches and didn’t believe him until I measured it. Would have had no idea it was 9 inches otherwise. But I have also been with someone who had a small penis (probably 4 inches it was pretty small) and it didn’t change how I orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:39 PM
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Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? No, I can’t be interested in men who treat me like an option. If I ever felt like I had to compete for a guys attention I would have moved on. I don’t trust people who divide their attention between multiple options it’s a sign they aren’t loyal. And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM? I have done both, but I don’t have kids. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:10 AM
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Nice name, because he worked hard on his degree and it is a test of intellectual capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:57 PM
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people with options are naturally pickier because they can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:53 PM
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Dating someone who is college educated isn’t just a woman thing. My own husband would not date a woman who wasn’t college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:04 PM
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The reality is most people are door dashing every meal and complaining about food prices as if they have no control over their own lives. You’re guys idea of “needs” and what is “realistic” is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:18 PM
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Nobody says they’re a radical leftist.. Everyone always says they are a moderate liberal because yall don’t actually understand what you are. I never met one radical leftist who appropriately identifies themselves that is too self aware for yall. It absolutely is a realistic expectation, it’s cheaper and you don’t have to travel to the store as frequently and bread makers knead the bread while you’re fucking sleeping. You don’t even understand what a bread maker is apparently that is how useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:01 PM
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Idk how you would predict that response because most radical leftists complain about things as if they have 0 control over their own lives. Store bought bread is not even as convenient as “throw the 3 ingredients in a damn bread maker and go the fuck to sleep.” You people are truly clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:40 PM
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I already am. I don’t eat animals or their by-products and I have an anti-capitalist kitchen where I have been making everything from scratch including my own nut milks, creamy sauces, nut cheeses, vinegar, ice cream, sauerkraut, bread, pizza, pasta and yogurt. I was never eating that store bought crap The tarriffs mostly affect animal rape investors who are useless and lazy. Have fun being a furry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:12 PM
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Only women who never experienced mutual love would take money over romance. I actually believe that is how gold diggers come to be- they were never loved by men and thus don’t desire what they never had. I value my time on this earth which includes spending it with people I care about and not having restrictions on how I spend my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:47 PM
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I did not say “universal” but it’s definitely something I have heard guys talking about irl not that I was a target. Mostly heard it from dudes in college making fun of black people pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:58 AM
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In a world where men are watching porn and have access to hundreds of naked women they can and do develop preferences that otherwise most would not consider such as labia preferences… That’s why it’s called being porn brained.. Btw most women have heard it all from men and yes that includes labia preferences like I remember dudes talking about that in 2011… So we need to stop pretending men and porn don’t have any influence over women’s body image issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:02 AM
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Men and women are not watching porn equally and women know their bodies. It’s men who don’t know women’s bodies because they lack the experience and/or women don’t like communicating because communicating isn’t sexy or something childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:38 PM
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There are no black transatlantic slaves alive today. We don’t need to keep making up for the past it’s over. The majority of feminists weren’t alive to know what real sexism was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:43 PM
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I think I am just embarrassed at the mass stupidity of women. Really makes you regret women having the right to vote since the stupidity is dangerous. I think the radical leftism has absolutely contributed to everyone being less happy. These feminists weren’t even alive to know what real sexism was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:46 PM
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Physically, larger heart, lungs and size, you know things that can’t be changed with “hormone therapy.” Women on average have lower IQ’s than men which is why it’s funny we only have 1 women represented in the top 100 for chess because we can’t possible admit anything that might offend the women’s to get equal representation in chess and video games. More easily influenced by marketing and propaganda (maybe due to being less intelligent overall). Which is why I think good women political leaders…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:03 AM
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I don’t believe a woman with options would tolerate that, that’s just a dead bedroom. “Asexuality” is just the polite way to say “I can’t get someone I’m attracted too.” Maybe a depressed fatty would stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:38 PM
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I mean you have a lot of red flags so idk why you’re surprised you are struggling: 1. Being commitment phobic-you framed this as not sure you’ll ever want to live with a partner but that is in addition to the red flag of you not having focused on a “real career” whatever that means. Combining those reds flags you have eliminated yourself from dating just about anybody. Since 99.9% of people want to live with a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:28 PM
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So if you kill a pregnant woman you only get charged with one murder right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:31 PM
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Ok well there’s a lot of radical leftists that would like to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:29 PM
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Ok so yall are comparing abortion to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:45 PM
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Of course you’re not going to call it murder cause then that would make you a murderer in your own mind which could “never be a possibility.” I just think it’s funny the OP was about abortion which is supposed to be “non-murder” the wokies ask how late the kids should be murdered. If abortion isn’t comparable to murdering your kids why subconsciously compare those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:15 PM
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I will never forget yall compared abortion to murdering your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:06 PM
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It’s ok if you thinking terminating a pregnancy is comparable to murdering your kids. You don’t have to pretend to be pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:57 PM
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Should we just murder kids if the dad abandons them too? You were comparing abortion to murdering kids, which is something a fake woke would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:51 PM
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So now abortion is murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:47 PM
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Very rarely, a great personality being good enough to make up for lack of physical attraction is so rare I have only met one man who I could have seen myself dating for his personality and did but even then there’s still rules like “don’t be fat and be fit.” Otherwise that never happened my ex was exceptionally fit and made me laugh a lot. at least when men are facially unattractive they can have nice bodies which helps with attraction some.. Money doesn’t make you attractive it just attracts pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:55 PM
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I don’t actually believe the majority of men prefer young women because they want someone to mold/groom. I think generally men just chase what they find attractive which tends to be younger women. Most people are not master manipulators. Typically if he has a healthy view of women I wouldn’t concern myself with their relationship choices. I’m in an age gap relationship myself and honestly prefer them because older men tend to be wiser, funnier, pleasant, traditional and established. However I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:08 AM
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That woman is acting for a video and bad at it… She wasn’t acting awkward she was acting annoyed and condescending. I used to be so shy I would go to school and May not say a single word that day. If someone asked me for directions even I’d try to be helpful (if possible) and maybe crack a non-joke like “you asked the wrong person I don’t even remember where I parked.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:25 PM
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The hope with RFK is that he knows how the legal system works enough to get good changes happening and more transparency. I don’t expect him to be a professional nutritionist, or be an expert in the medical field.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:59 AM
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I never actually heard any woman complain about men checking out of dating this is only theorized about in online spaces by people with “researcher bias.” The only women whom I even know who are single are liberal feminists who complain about men’s standards while being fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:25 AM
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Remember what happened to the people who drank cows milk when we injected the cows with hormones oh wait that’s the US where everyone’s obese and having their periods almost a decade early. You people get worse every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:27 PM
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What did you think I was saying in that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:25 PM
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If I crossed paths with Adrian Greener (the actor I have had a crush on as a teenager) and he expressed interest in me there isn’t anything he or anyone could do to convince me that he’s going to make me as happy as my husband. He is certainly objectively more attractive but he could never be the man my husband is, because he’s perfect and attractive. I didn’t think about the most attractive men when they were gone, I wanted to have fun so I thought about the men who made me laugh the most. Unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:50 PM
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If you are going to use the excuse of convenience you probably should not have had children that’s just an excuse to be incredibly selfish when an infant needs you. Women do not come before children they should be acting like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:46 PM
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Studies actually show women are choosing not to breastfeed out of connivence, and against the recommendations of their healthcare provider’s even when they received comprehensive prenatal care. As a social worker, I met some of these women on WIC and some of these women were eligible to breastfeed but found it “uncomfortable” and they were receiving free formula. When they had to go without formula on WIC they would simply just breastfeed.. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1764151/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:40 PM
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There are fewer immune system benefits to pumping so yes you really are that dumb. It’s isn’t a complete replacement for breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:21 PM
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Breast milk offers benefits not replicated in formula, including antibodies for immunity, easier digestion, and a unique balance of nutrients tailored to the baby’s needs, as well as potential long-term health benefits. Y’all cannot be this dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:14 PM
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I thought masturbation was a sin lol. I stopped caring during my first LTR tho mainly because it was the only way I was going to be able to tell him what I liked and I had enough sense to realize that was important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:22 AM
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Stoicism is for people who are undesirable/unrealistic and “don’t have control over their own lives.” Calling the only one of us that has scientific research backing thier views asleep is laughable. Have a nice life being the male version of 4B, you may be woke but you are not awake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:48 PM
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A study by the CDC’s National Center for Health Statistics found that adults living alone reported feelings of depression more frequently than those living with others. Unmarried individuals are 86% more likely to have depressive symptoms compared to married people. One study found that the odds of experiencing depressive symptoms were elevated regardless of whether unmarried people were single (79% greater odds), divorced or separated (99% greater odds), or had been widowed (64% greater odds). …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:25 PM
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Everyone knows humans are social we are not even wired to be happy on our own. That is woke “I don’t need no man” but for men non-sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:23 PM
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These double standards are insane Nope, our differences have biological functions which is why we are here today you think it’s insane because you don’t understand the bigger picture. If women were repulsed by seeing others have sex then that would have made reproducing more difficult because then we would have competed with each other (which in nature typically means killing). Women don’t view other women as competition Because they clearly aren’t as attracted to men as men are to women No, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:39 PM
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Not being disgusted by viewing certain sexual content doesn’t mean we want to do those things. Women pretend to enjoy that content to appeal to men the internal reaction is neutral. We do not instinctually desire women. Being gay is largely a trauma response or pick me behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:06 PM
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No I actually just understand men and women have different natures. Men view other men as competition and are repulsed by the thought of other dicks entering the women they want and that reflexive reaction extends to watching 2 dudes. Women are naturally not as competitive with each other and don’t have the same visceral reaction to others having sex. It has nothing to do with women being bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:01 PM
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Because men and women are not the same. Men view other men as competition and are repulsed by the thought of other dicks entering the women they want and that reflexive reaction extends to watching 2 dudes. Women are naturally not as competitive with each other and don’t have the same visceral reaction to others having sex. It has nothing to do with women being bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:59 PM
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I don’t watch any porn. I’m just parroting what women say who claim they watch lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:47 PM
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Men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:15 PM
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You are so disconnected from reality if I threw you in a bucket of tits you’d come out sucking your thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:59 PM
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Only chronically online people fear being settled for “because she has kids.” Most people in real life don’t want to date single parents for real and varied reasons because they don’t live in echo chambers. Birth control fails, and not everyone has access to birth control at all stages of their life. A certain person brags about having condomless sex on here all the time and if you think they only had sex on birth control then you’re probably naive most people just get lucky they aren’t single p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:44 PM
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That’s not because women are all bisexual. It’s easy to imagine those things being done to you by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:35 PM
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I understand not wanting kids or lifestyle distruptions. They said this: The majority of men want to be desired, not settled for by a single mom. I’m a woman and even I can tell you that. I don’t understand why anyone who gets with a single mom is being settled for automatically every time when the reality is the majority of people have made the same mistakes as a single mother but got lucky or are baby murderers. Having a child with someone doesn’t mean you never get over them or that they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:22 PM
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The majority of men want to be desired, not settled for by a single mom. I highlighted what I was responding too. You are failing to address how single motherhood is connected to “being settled for.” You have made the same damn mistakes a single mother has, you just got lucky. By your own logic any man dating you is being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:26 PM
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The majority of men want to be desired, not settled for by a single mom. Ngl this doesn’t make sense, you have had previous sexual relationships yourself and it’s possible those could have ended in pregnancy and you would not have felt differently about your current bf if they did. Aborting a fetus is not an easy decision and keeping a child isn’t often a reflection of how much you valued its father but of how much you value life… most people make mistakes when they are dating and the consequenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:16 PM
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Feminism isn’t about men, like seriously what has feminism actually done for you? Where you went wrong is thinking you’d ever as a man benefit from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:25 PM
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I don’t think metrosexual styles of dressing were ever popular in my area and I have thought traditional/classy, or business or business casual dressed men were sexy. But not all the time only when coming home from work or on special occasions otherwise i don’t want a man to out-dress me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:14 PM
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But they always act gay. It’s never just the clothes and style in my experience. I never even know they’re straight normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:54 PM
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I thought metrosexuals were just gay tbh. The only metrosexual I know wears a purse over his shoulder and grabs it like a woman and asks people to hold it for pictures and while I’m fine with men who have some feminine qualities the line has to be drawn somewhere and if I’m questioning your heterosexuality then I can’t be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:15 PM
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This is the most delusional comment I have ever seen. Being gay isn’t normal. Research has also identified disparities by sexual orientation for certain forms of childhood abuse and trauma. Both population- and community-based studies have found that a greater proportion of LGB adults report childhood sexual, physical, and emotional abuse than do heterosexual adults. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4815563/#:~:text=Both%20population%2D%20and%20community%2Dbased,abuse%20than%20do%20heter…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:58 PM
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Women found out men watch lesbian porn and so it’s really just pick me behavior. Women want to be desirable to men so much they are willing to pretend to be gay. It’s not normal for women (who don’t have adverse childhood experiences) to be sexually attracted to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:41 PM
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No this is you acting like a woman making up things she implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:49 PM
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It doesn’t, people were trolling the women on this sub saying it does and dumbasses of all kinds believed it. That is demonstrably not why people voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:44 PM
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What he did was not morally bad. From a woman’s perspective that man basically just told her he just wants to fuck and she isn’t worth being romanced so I would have blocked him too. There are a lot of guys who don’t genuinely care about us saying all those things he said to her to us constantly. You just don’t realize that because you’re not a woman I guess. That is why it is up to men to show that you’re interested in us because we genuinely don’t know. Also I do not prefer sex to be brought u…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:45 AM
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You are not liberals and pretending the average person knows the history of their “political party” is laughable. Libertarianism (from French: libertaire, meaning “free and egalitarian”. Itself from the Latin: libertas, lit. ‘freedom’) is a political philosophy that holds freedom, personal sovereignty, and liberty as primary values.[1][2][3][4] Many libertarians believe that the concept of freedom is in accord with the Non-Aggression Principle, according to which each individual has the right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:03 AM
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That doesn’t answer the question which was for the user who said there is no way for men to be baby trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:10 PM
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That was an actual rape survivor you said that too, not someone “whose afraid of rape” for no reason. This demonstrates how you believe they had some control in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:19 PM
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Imagine telling a rape victim they should have gotten their tubes tied lmao. Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:14 PM
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Ok so you understand it’s ridiculous to claim your forced to parent because you can’t kill your child. Glad we are on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:11 PM
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You just described today’s liberalism which is radical leftism. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grievance_studies_affair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:34 PM
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Which gender largely claims they are “forced to be pregnant” because they can’t kill their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:15 PM
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So do you think a woman’s bodily autonomy is conditional when a man tells her he’s had a vasectomy (when he in fact did not) they have unprotected sex and she ends up pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:13 PM
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So basically like the red pillers who post here but attractive. That’s fine, I choose A.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:27 PM
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They just hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:38 PM
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Is that a parody skit from SNL?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:36 PM
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Lilith, the women do that too (probably more even).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:06 PM
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What is the point in living in a 10M dollar house when I don’t have a husband to share it with. I’d rather live in an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:06 PM
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I was also 22 when that relationship ended so I was abstinent until 24 again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:09 PM
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Abstinence is way harder when you have never had it. I was a virgin until I was 21 and the desire just got harder to resist overtime because that drive is instinctual. After my first LTR ended I easily went 2 years without any sex, because sex was no longer something I could only imagine. I missed physical intimacy sure, but I had 0 issues waiting for the right person since I had that experience once and knew I could get what I wanted. I could have gotten into a sexual relationship earlier if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:54 PM
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I felt similarly to you with my ex, but that’s because I, like you, wasn’t orgasming and was young and not experienced. Climaxing with a partner absolutely changed me and I was no longer apathetic about sex. Sex excites me. Literally everything you are saying down to the orgasm being easier to achieve by yourself was me. What you have to understand is that by choosing to climax by yourself instead of with your partner you are destroying your pair bonding with them. This will cause you to drift f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:18 PM
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Learn from women then: wear make up, post thirst traps on social media and wear sexy clothes. The problem with your post is it requires pretty much everyone else to change in a way that goes against our nature. Men and women are motivated to pursue for different reasons. Men are motivated to pursue for biological reasons and women are motivated if she likes none of her options (which never end). The only women I know were pursuing have body counts near 100. They were also average or below in app…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:51 PM
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You know not all women love cooking and cleaning right???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:53 AM
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Imagine telling someone they have to get surgery to be attractive to you. Especially someone who’s already mentally ill. Yall are delusional for thinking this is acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:04 AM
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Then what’s with the gaslighting telling me fucking a woman is straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:56 AM
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Ok fake woke some people have it/is pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:14 AM
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Ok fake woke some people have it/is pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:13 AM
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They are lying to get in straight people’s pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:24 PM
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They are all liers because they call themselves men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:16 PM
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No bcuz a trans person is all the icks in one singular person. 1)it lies about its gender to get in your pants which is predatory 2) im not gay 3) i dont believe there is such thing as a passing trans person because they are all so hideous. The trans aesthetic is extremely weird and unappealing. 4) having a gender identity crisis is a severe mental health issue and sounds taxing to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:55 PM
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I’m butting in here, just to give my perspective, yeah I would agree my husband is largely uninterested in cooking but he is by far the more curious person than I am. We have different fields of interest, and that’s ok. He’s a jack of all trades IT guy who’s an expert software developer, cyber security engineer and hacker. And hacking is an ever changing field that requires staying up to date and a lot of attention. I am by far more interested in running my anticapitalist kitchen and organizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:38 PM
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The red flag is in that a 30 year old had never seen anyone prepare potatoes. Being that far behind in food preparation means you won’t be contributing to cooking in a household, luckily he was far ahead in other skills and I don’t need a second chef in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:18 PM
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Goodbye, Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:38 PM
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Well some abuse victims have been in an abusive relationship 5 times in a row and some single mothers have 5 baby daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:04 PM
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That advice applies to women who consistently are making the same mistakes but complain all men suck, not women who made a mistake once and changed their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:57 PM
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Don’t worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:26 PM
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Yeah my husband didn’t get the childhood experience of homemade meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:22 PM
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He could have walked up and popped the balloon safer. He had a sharp object in his hand and was reckless with it. He could have stabbed her. I would have popped my balloon too I have 0 tolerance for behavior that lacks consideration for others safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:07 PM
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It’s not being “mommies and pampered” usually people grow up unable to cook because that runs in the family. His family version of cooking is tv dinners, boiling hotdogs and boxed mac and cheese which is the majority of Americans version of cooking btw.. I am too bougie for store bought anything. I won’t eat store bought bread, almond milk, soup, pizza, coffee creamer or vegan cheese sauces I home make everything so I don’t taste chemicals in my food and I can make bread with non-American wheat.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:03 PM
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Assuming small things to be red flags though is kinda dumb because most people are going to have some soft red flags because they aren’t master manipulators lol. If you just filter for mr perfect then you might be selecting people who are good at wearing a mask… For example when I began dating my husband I wanted to see if he could cook so asked him to chop the potatoes when I was making breakfast and he disappeared.. I found him watching a YouTube video on how to chop potatoes secretly in the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:21 PM
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See what I mean, it was the women you noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:19 AM
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As displayed in Table 1, PTSD symptoms were positively related to the frequency of both high risk and casual sex. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8086839/#:~:text=As%20displayed%20in%20Table%201,to%20frequency%20of%20casual%20sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:30 PM
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So people who are hyper sexual don’t engage in casual sex? Thats news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:29 PM
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I said “can”. It can also be a form of self harm. It’s also a way insecure people might seek out validation and used to form connections with people when conventional methods fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:27 PM
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Boo hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:49 PM
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Engaging in casual sex can be a trauma response which isn’t even just specific to women. People engaging in casual sex isn’t normal. Most people prefer to pair up with someone they have a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:45 PM
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*the women you noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:44 PM
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Your OP makes it seem like he refuses to provide a reason and I refuse to play any “wonder what’s on your mind” games. The only acceptable reasons are because he doesn’t know me well enough to know whether he wants to progress our relationship or he’s waiting for marriage for religious reasons. All other reasons are not something I’m willing to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:35 PM
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Typically I’m “radically” anti murder but if I was asked if I could ever see myself murdering someone the answer would be yes because I imagine there’s a worst case scenario in which I’d murder someone out of fear or even premeditate a murder if I thought someone might be a threat to my life. If I asked you the same question and you said no, I would honestly assume you were just a lier. I don’t blame women for saying they’d make a false accusation out of fear, because there is a lot of bad thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:51 PM
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I didn’t call those things equal, but I do think calling false accusations an inconvenience is embarrassingly low empathy. OP’s claim is certainly whackdoodle but I can at least understand these things are comparable because they are both fears men and women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:42 PM
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People commit suicide because of false accusations.. there should really be murder charges if suicide is completed because of false accusations. They ruin the rest of your life because that label is inescapable. Calling it an inconvenience is basically trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:03 PM
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Oh, so you’re laughing at bi-phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:56 PM
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Idk why you think bi-phobia is funny Mr social justice warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:06 PM
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There was a thread awhile back where women were asked how they’d feel if their man rescued a woman from harassment and was beaten but was mostly unharmed and all the blue pillers found it sexy despite that being an instance of men being in the traditional protector role. I don’t believe everyone who posts here is in touch with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:42 PM
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I’m not even anti-pegging or men being penetrated I just don’t believe bisexuality is a legitimate sexuality or identity, so if someone told me they are something that isn’t real I’m going to assume they have mental health issues. Every woman who is bisexual have been unfaithful attention seekers constantly chasing men and then one is never enough for them. Then the men just wanted easy sex because women weren’t interested in casual sex with them. As soon as a woman becomes interested they are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:22 PM
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Well at least you learned from that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:38 PM
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That’s when you become a pet. You’re infantilizing men. If you become a pet to a woman it’s because you’re spineless. I can’t imagine treating anyone special with no reciprocation that’s bitch boy behavior. You get yourself in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:28 PM
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I do coffee with almond/coconut or oatmilk. I’m not going to contribute to anything tested on animals and/or derived from animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:17 PM
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dairy in drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:13 PM
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I won’t split a check with an animal rape investor. I don’t want my dollars investing in animal cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:12 PM
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I guess anything fun. Like hiking, skiing/snowboarding, running, soccer, golf, gym and gaming. There used to be a bubble tea bar with computers/board games where you could order food, listen to K-pop or just get bubble tea and I’d play league with my friends there. That was my favorite spot. If I didn’t know you I’d probably just suggest my favorite coffee bar/tea/spirit place and talk for a couple hours. Second date we go to the woods and I see if they can keep up with me. I have never cold app…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:47 PM
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Ok so you’re going to blindly believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:46 AM
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They are designed to have minimal reduction in sensations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:44 AM
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That is a lie, they can still feel pleasure with a condom on..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:42 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:40 AM
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lol what.. who are these men turning down sex because they have to use condoms.. 🤦🏼‍♀️my husband had to use them for 5 years because I’m anti-birth control and we didn’t want kids at that time.. If they cared about you they absolutely would wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:58 PM
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Defends feminism but isnt a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:10 PM
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Strange I thought feminists valued women’s opinions. Turns out they only value opinions that lack academic integrity. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grievance_studies_affair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:55 PM
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I agree, feminists are just as much responsible for rawdogging as they are for gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:26 PM
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Thanks, I’m glad it worked out for you too. I’m not sure maturity had anything to do with it in my case. It was more that I began feeling like a real person which was the real medicine I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:00 PM
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Most of the time I ghosted I just forgot about them. When I was dating I had a demanding career and I don’t remember how most ended they were mostly one time tinder dates. I might wonder about them a month later (by that time responding was too awkward) and realized I never responded to them but for the most part I was preoccupied and didn’t think about them. If I were interested I would have probably remembered them. The few times I remember ghosting intentionally it was because I didn’t want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:09 PM
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You seem to have forgotten where you are, of course there will be mostly introverts on Reddit. This should not have been surprising to you. You’ve chosen to believe all women are liers when that isn’t even statistically possible I question your intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:31 AM
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That was my experience in HS but that was because I was painfully shy with some mental health issues. Men didn’t express interest in me in (friendship or otherwise) HS so I had 0 self confidence. I had a condition and didn’t develop so I looked prepubescent until about 17.. Talking to any man was too intimidating for me because I assumed I was ugly. So nobody tried and neither did I. Luckily that changed. I became quite attractive which fixed my social problems and body dysmorphia issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:27 AM
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Most people are susceptible to brainwashing/propaganda as we have seen multiple times throughout history in different countries. I wouldn’t put my trust in any of you. Though pretending to know the US Agrabah relations is both concerning and embarrassing for my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:05 AM
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I can show you the woooorrrrllddd <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:19 PM
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Because people are sheep and don’t actually think. Thats why they use words they don’t know the meaning of. A study that is slightly related is one in which 49% of people in the US said we should bomb Agrabah... Like I hate how woke Disney has become too but idk about pretending I know about the terrorists in Agrabah. Lmao https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/poll-some-voters-support-bombing-aladdins-homeland.amp I’m sorry you had to lose your faith in humanity this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:28 PM
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Well I don’t believe people shit in the sink out of loneliness.. Though I suppose it is certainly better to shit in a sink than to sink in your shit..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:49 PM
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Never thought about it because I wouldn’t be dating someone that old nor would I. My perception is he’s too old. Also I don’t want a dude who is a perpetual bachelor. That sounds gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:37 PM
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I would assume he was brainwashed by feminism since he is suddenly not a Christian who is anti divorce turning our relationship into something “equal” but transactional. I wouldn’t hate him but I may question my original assessment of his intelligence. Also he’d have one hell of a time trying to replace me I’d wish him luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:29 PM
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Are there not “baddies” at anime conventions? They’d probably appreciate that aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:01 PM
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TLDR just be a beta cuck lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:57 PM
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The only thing I can realistically offer is my sympathy for your dating issues. Expecting constant sympathy is entitlement. If you randomly trauma dump people they aren’t obligated to attend your pity party. We live in a time where men and women do not need to be taking accountability for each others problems because we have complete control of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:16 PM
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I guess in college I found most men attractive enough to date as long as the were not fat. Fattys will not be considered Idk maybe like 60-70%? I was a criminal justice major though and most of those dudes were fit and going to school for law enforcement and there was a lot of military dudes so the men around me may have been more attractive compared to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:18 AM
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Would you think a trans person was being insecure for being offended because they were misgendered?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:08 PM
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Why would knowing they “pass” matter? They are offended and that makes them insecure by your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:39 PM
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So are trans people who get offended by someone misgendering them also insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:30 PM
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Well you sure tried it but that’s not what the symbol means in front of married. Better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:49 PM
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Hmm, ok.. People supporting body positivity for fatties is real obese girl energy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:38 PM
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If fatties are so secure in their bodies then there should be no problem with me calling them sausage fingers. Except Mrs potato head probably wouldnt like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:29 PM
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“And not be much of a talker.” Honestly it sounds like you don’t want to be involved you want a woman to exist beside you and be as convenient as possible. Talking is how women build relationships with each other. It’s how we communicate our emotions and express our care. Most women enjoy and want a man who understands the importance of engagement. Maybe you didn’t think about how that came across, but it was not a very considerate thing to say at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:07 PM
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The empirical evidence is that men on average have higher IQs than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:21 PM
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You aren’t breaking the rules that commenter isn’t a mod and doesn’t know what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:57 PM
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Women and men are not equal intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:43 PM
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You do have to be intelligent to be president and I wouldn’t bet on a woman to be in that position and be better than the majority of men. Unless she was exceptional and none of the options for president that have been women have. You guys basically want a DEI president and keep forcing the issue. And the fact that more women are pushing for women presidents just tells me how emotional and untrustworthy your opinions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:53 PM
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Idk one of my exes was unattractive facially but it took me a long time to see him as something more and he was very fit and perfect personality wise. We were also best friends for a long time before dating. So it developed naturally and I’m not sure it would have ever worked out without the long friendship we had. It also helped that the more attractive men around me at that time had things that turned me away like being an intellectual light weight in comparison or were known to engage in caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:46 PM
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I’m not surprised that women behaving hedonistic sexually resulted in women become sexual predators . I also won’t be surprised when women begin being the aggressors in DV relationships (oh wait they already are) because of media normalizing violence against men. And women are intellectually inferior that’s why people pay more attention to men doing those things because women are seen as naive because we all understand the cognitive differences between men and women at least subconsciously. Femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:48 PM
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I am fine with it but I rarely entertain cold approaches, I only gave out my number twice and ghosted both times. He’d have to really stand out, for example almost nobody is vegan and especially fewer of those people are men. If a man approached me about vegan items in my shopping cart and asking me about them because he’s vegan and wanted to try them that is someone who’s number I would get. As long as he didn’t look crazy like had a green Mohawk or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:43 PM
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I don’t see men committing to women less attractive than them. Some women may over the course of the relationship get fat and become less attractive but at the beginning they are usually attractive. If the guy sticks around then that’s because they have already established an emotional connection. My husband has dated a chick I think was less attractive than him but that was a one time thing he mostly dated very attractive women who ended up with movie stars or very successful men. The men in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:30 PM
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When men and women compete in competitions that require intelligence like chess guess how many women can compete with men in the top 100? It’s 1. We do not have the same IQs women tend to lean more average and men are in the extremes which is why more men are billionaires. Sure female geniuses can exist but they are more rare. If you feminists want to see women represented equally in chess we have to acknowledge the cognitive differences in men and women. Then advocate for separate categories so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:50 PM
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Men have higher standards for attractiveness for marriage and LTR. Which is what women want, they typically understand they are being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:48 PM
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Ukraine will not win, they are kidnapping young men to die on the front lines. If Zelensky cared about his people he would have surrendered a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:00 PM
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I believe he’s representing the interests of the people who voted him in, considering he’s been addressing some of my concerns already. Nobody said shit about trans immigration that was made up to appeal to radical leftists having identity crises.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:39 PM
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What a horrible day to have eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:22 PM
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I’m not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:17 PM
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I have never voted for a woman president because I think women are too easily influenced by others opinions. Example: women are more influenced by advertising or someone who appeals to emotions. Kamala Harris was a perfect example of this with her dumbass trans immigrants concerns. They also generally have lower IQs than men. Why would I ever support a matriarchy when I know their politicians will be laughable. I don’t feel the need to compete with men, I’d rather just complement one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:55 PM
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Insemination isn’t cheap, even if it were I don’t want to have kids with someone with defective genes that can be passed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:30 PM
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Have you tried thinking about where the cum is going to come out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:34 PM
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It’s not shallow to want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:20 PM
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I’m not asking or expecting others to fix my mental problems. what would your cathartic thought be You are the one who needs psychological relief but you’re asking for random people to soothe YOU. That’s not what this sub is for. Do you agree that men face immensely higher benchmarks for looks and personality than women in order to have casual sex? 86% of plastic surgery is undertaken by women. All the top porn stars yall jerking it too have undergone surgery. Men were the ones talking about “di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:51 PM
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L husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:30 AM
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OP your mentality is childish. You’ve essentially come online expecting random women to fix your problems- which is pretty entitled because this is a you problem created by yourself ( not women). When the appropriate person to talk to about this issue is a therapist. We are Redditors we can’t save you. You appear mentally distressed, and you also refuse to do anything for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:16 AM
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To “cure” jealousy, the most effective approach is to acknowledge your feelings, identify the root cause of your jealousy (often stemming from insecurity), practice self-love, focus on your own strengths, stop comparing yourself to others, and consider seeking therapy if the feelings are persistent or causing significant distress; essentially, work on building your self-esteem and addressing underlying insecurities that fuel jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:58 AM
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It’s not really regional, it could have been a maturity thing since we were in college and most people did not want to settle down. I very much wanted something serious and made that clear. There was lots of casual sex going on and lots of attractive women willing to do that, so I was replaceable but with the hoe version. It doesn’t really matter anyways, like I said I mostly was just trying to keep an open mind. I have no regrets about how any of it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:27 AM
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No I did not. Men are not attracted to virgin women. It’s very much the same reaction women have “is something wrong with you?” Only religious men and women are open minded in this way. I wanted a religious man so I used it to weed people out. I was at my peak attractiveness during that time. These men were also what I would consider average, I had interest from more attractive men than them (by far) so i was really just being open minded. They perceived I was on their level for whatever reason.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:30 PM
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I broke up with my bf of 2 years and they knew I was no longer a virgin. That’s all that changed. No my husband wasn’t my first bf he was my second LTR. I can only speculate why they would say bad things about my husband and that is because he outshines them in every way. They wanted to believe they were good enough because I approached dating in an open manner so they probably believed they had a chance with me at one point but I also closed the door very quick, I’m just polite about it. They m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:00 PM
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Cause your literally putting their genitals in your mouth? You don’t know them as a person yet, you don’t know how clean/unclean they are. I don’t mean this to sound rude or offensive, but there really is something wrong with your self-esteem if your putting strangers genitalia in your mouth but you don’t expect anything back, what are you getting out of it lol why are yall dog piling on her about giving head on the first date?yall screech all day about purity culture. This is pretty much just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:08 PM
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I didn’t “almost give up” but I was painfully shy in middle and most of high school which prevented me from connecting with my peers both men and women. Anyways I grew out of it in college and began dating. Another struggle was that I was for a long time waiting for marriage. Most men are not interested in virgins (similiar to women lol). Luckily I wasn’t interested in the kinds of men who were off put by it because I was looking for someone more modest myself so I usually told people immediatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:53 PM
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Women won’t even breastfeed their children because ItS uNcOmFoRtAbLe and you expect them to raise kids as a single parent? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1764151/ If anything we should be cutting benefits so that women are discouraged from being single mothers and from having kids to profit off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:14 PM
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That’s what my husband did, except he bought potted orchids and we keep them alive together. If they die he buys more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:21 PM
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Most men I dated did some or most of those things but not at that frequency. I certainly enjoy and want to feel special. I’m not sure I’d use the word expectation, but I also would wonder if they even liked me because men did those things for me in the past. So someone being unwilling or not doing those things would stand out in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:14 PM
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keeping it hidden will just make the situation worst. BUT people (women specifically) need to understand that if your friend needs to cut contact after being rejected is not a character flaw. I wasn’t suggesting to keep it hidden. But men only being friends with women they find attractive suggests they don’t value female friendships. It reinforces that idea- men are friends and women are for sex-when men cut contact with women who don’t share their desires. Losing friends hurts already, losing 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:36 PM
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Well men posing as my friend has been 90% of my experiences with men. If he developed feelings for me over the course of our friendship and respected my relationships or respected that those feelings weren’t mutual, but didn’t bounce as soon as he knew it wasn’t happening I wouldn’t be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:16 PM
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The problem isn’t that they say “wow you’re so hot” and have normal conversations. Typically men who are straightforward about their attraction are the ones who are going to request for sexual displays later. via photos, or “make a Snapchat.” They may even ask about your fit (photo of it) but they ask frequently to the point where it makes you uncomfortable. It’s never “wow you’re so hot let’s be platonic friends.” That’s naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:06 PM
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You may have forgotten that men aren’t always appropriate. I wouldn’t assume I was a sexual object if someone told me I was attractive and then the rest of the conversation was normal. Asking to see the thong you imagine I’m wearing is objectifying and disgusting. Or yelling at me “make those titties bounce” when I’m playing DDR in an arcade and don’t even know who the fuck you are. That’s also loser behavior. What the fuck am I supposed to assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:39 PM
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I feel like that’s a certain demographic of women I don’t belong too. All of that sounds scary. Partnering with someone like that would be a last resort if I thought it would save my life, otherwise I’d avoid it at all costs. Living in fear is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:58 PM
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Being paid for is “hot girl dating advice” marketed at women who might not be attractive enough to pull that off. I agree with the fitness part, fat is unattractive. Obviously bodying shaming things people can’t control or change is just bullying. The submission they display on the sub is too extreme and fetishy. There’s a couple good lessons, for example teamwork between husband and wife in division of the responsibilities that play to our strengths I feel reduces arguments and there is beauty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:35 PM
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When people say “age gap relationship” I do not think of 3-5 years. That probably should have been identified in the OP. That’s a normal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:22 PM
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Part of the reason the water has been soiled for men dating younger women is men trashing women their age. Deny all you want but men do things that make themselves appear untrustworthy. It’s not just women being manipulative- while I’m sure that is definitely going on in some cases. So some push back is the fault of men and certainly justified. Anyways this is a whole lot of not my problem, i don’t bash age gap relationships but I don’t necessarily support them either because men who chase young…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:07 PM
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I wasn’t talking about what is sufficient for a pregnancy. The OP was about compensation, so I ran through some ideas of why she doesn’t need it. Lmao and that’s another personal attack. I never said anything about kids living off beans and rice so that’s called a strawman Mrs attorney. The beans and rice suggestion was to cheaply increase her calories healthily on top of whatever she normally pays for. By the way beans and rice is a complete protein and the only reason you’d be bloated is if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:42 AM
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You’re either going to argue your point or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:35 AM
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Number of U.S. adults who identify as LGBTQ+ has doubled since 2012 This was attributed to societal factors not biology. A lot of dudes go gay because they don’t want to deal with women’s standards. This isn’t a moral issue, I’m just pointing out that being gay is a choice. There’s nothing in our genes that predicts homosexuality. People have developed all kinds of weird sexual attractions because of environmental factors. Jeffrey Dahmer used decapitated heads as fleshlights nobody in their righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:55 PM
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Correct there is no “gay gene.” Genes can explain variations in sexual behaviors but you can’t predict someone’s sexuality based on their genetic profile. Sexual orientation is mostly influenced by environmental factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:04 PM
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Hatred. Sure it could be a trauma response, but vengeance and lashing out (especially when directed at certain groups of people at large) are done by individuals filled with hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:42 PM
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An invention to satisfy an urge. Animals are smarter than yall think. Doesn’t mean it’s biologically valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:34 PM
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And I can’t answer whether I would consider them because not everyone’s version of “logical” uses actual logic and I cannot be expected to predict the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:34 PM
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I’m patiently waiting for your logical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:32 PM
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Heterosexuality is the only biologically valid perspective. Homosexuality is an invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:27 PM
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Im listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:18 PM
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had 5 gfs at a time by Junior year and just used them as sex toys and then ghosted them until he wanted sex again. One would get hurt and another girl would take her place. And giving ppl STDs is apparently non-abusive in your opinion. You call abuse non-abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:16 PM
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You enable abusive behavior by labeling it non-abusive got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:25 PM
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Apparently you have no idea what abusive behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:00 PM
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I never dated players (or sluts there’s no difference to me). I did become attracted to one but I internalized those feelings because I knew I wanted better. Even at the height of my lust I knew he didn’t have the qualities I was looking for he was just extremely attractive. Those feelings also dissipated as I saw how he treated other women who had feelings for him and I wasn’t about to encourage that behavior with my affection. After that experience I pretty much treated all players with indiff…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:40 PM
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I have not a clue how you came to that conclusion. Either way I wouldn’t be interested in someone who has weird outdated views on opposite sex friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:26 PM
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Why do I need someone to step in if I am being harassed? Last time I checked, harassment doesn’t cause bodily injury and if it does that isn’t harassment it’s gone beyond that. I have always dealt with harassment myself. So someone stepping in to help save me from harassment only to get assaulted (which is more suffering and a worse crime) is kinda idiotic tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:45 PM
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I don’t care who is getting harassed or dying x10. I don’t want my husband playing the hero if his involvement poses any risk to himself. Sure it’s brave and admittedly sexy but I chose not to date risk taking men for a reason. So it’d be a mix of emotions between highly upset and proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:19 PM
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You being inconsistent discredits you as a person. Because it doesn’t seem genuine and is contradictory to things you’ve admitted to saying in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:49 PM
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Yeah that your “pledge of exclusivity” is worthless when you add in clauses randomly and secretly whenever you please. It’s also an indication you move the goal posts whenever it fits the argument you’re currently making. You are trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:27 PM
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Men pledge their exclusivity for women as well in the process. You just posted your version of exclusivity which was an abomination to commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:37 PM
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Well it depends on why. Your excuses make you seem shy and I would not be attracted unless you came out of your shell at least around your friends so I could know what being with you would be like. I likely wouldn’t put in that much effort for stranger on a dating app. When most guys don’t entertain female friendships I assume that their version of being husband and wife is about “duties to each other” instead of being best friends so that’s why it’s typically a red flag for me. Shyness isn’t my…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:09 PM
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Nope I think you people have forgotten entirely about what luxuries versus needs are. And kids have become the excuse of getting everything you want for free. There are people in 3rd world countries without legs and no wheel chair crawling around in the streets living their lives and not complaining about it on Reddit. You people sicken me with the entitlement. There is no excuse for any American citizen to not have health insurance. If you are able bodied you get it through work, otherwise you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:24 PM
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What extra space are you paying for when you are singular person? First trimester: Usually no extra calories are needed during the first trimester. Eat for yourself and buy a prenatal.. $20 every 3 months.. Second trimester: Expect to need around 340 extra calories per day. Bananas and peanut butter are basically free. $1.10 per week.. Third trimester: Around 450 extra calories per day are typically needed. Beans and rice are basically free ($25 a month maximum). You can’t be this broke. You sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:56 AM
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How many of those 50 options were legitimate versus trying to hook up? I did not like dating apps because I assumed they were for losers and whores ngl. So I had negative thoughts about it before I began.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:02 PM
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I actually do think this comment was relevant. If OP’s entire post is TLDR: women are inherently evil and men are morally superior. Then is it necessary to remind them that men have analogous actions one might consider evil. It demonstrates selfishness is a character flaw of human beings. This isn’t about holding women accountable it’s misogyny. Otherwise you’d recognize that men can, in their own ways, contribute to relationships being transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:41 PM
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The funding was frozen because federal funding was being used to finance abortions. Which is illegal btw (Hyde Amendment). And there are all kinds of resources that were helping finance abortions so once again you don’t know what you’re talking about (hotlines and Medicaid).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:25 PM
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The articles yall was linking boiled down to that. So yes they were crying about abortions not being free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:36 PM
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Reasons to not get divorced in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:26 PM
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This was really disingenuous. If it was really about men and women why were feminists screeching about attacks on their rights when Trump decided “the government” (who gets its money from mostly male taxpayers) wasn’t going to pay for your abortions? Being a slut on someone else’s dime is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:30 PM
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If I were a single mom I’d rather be rejected upfront by men who weren’t excited about my kids. That’s more honorable than leading someone on when you know you won’t fit into their lifestyle. If someone has a problem with it they are offended because they are thinking of their own desires instead of what’s best for their kids… Because what’s best for your kids isn’t being with a man who has no desire to raise children…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:50 PM
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Hardcore (leaving the bedroom) submission/domination is weird. Which includes red pill women (typically) and femdoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:30 PM
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If I were the kind to be into hook ups I wouldn’t be making them breakfast in the morning I probably wouldn’t care if they even liked me. Someone I wanted to keep I would absolutely care to be a good host and make them breakfast. And quite honestly I would not want to hook up with men all the other women were hooking up with because I’d find that disgusting physically. I assume they have STDs and I am completely turned off by that thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:32 PM
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I see what you are saying but the number of women I know who are single because of those reasons are rare. Most women know what their level is (at least in my generation). And most women are taken as well, 46% of women are married.. So the message is really for a small percentage of women and the women you screech at about it are likely not even the women you’re talking about. Also in agreeance with the top comment, when men ask our standards, I usually describe my husband, and men here be mad A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:42 PM
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I just used the apps to try and meet more people away from where I was. I only used the apps a couple months because on every date I was just wishing they were someone else. So I logged off because it didn’t feel fair. I met some great guys though. I was from a small town and not a lot of dudes were even educated because not a lot of people were educated so I wanted someone with a college degree at least. I ended up dating out of state and got married to someone I knew irl anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:51 AM
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Well yes we know it’s bullshit. Science supports men preferring women in make up and with some minor beauty procedures. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:34 AM
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Are they not adults freely making their own choices? Are all relationships with income disparity exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:33 AM
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Women could also get validation from sleeping around. I’m basing it off of life experience. It feels nice to be desired and sex adds to that. Especially when you factor in the release of oxytocin that occurs during sex. I could see how that lifestyle would be addicting and hard to let go of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:58 PM
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Men seem to get validation from sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:51 PM
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I don’t see why anyone would trust people who do that. Validation is addicting, I see it as no different than dating a recovered drug addict. They could live the rest of their life sober or they could relapse. I don’t want to take that chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:46 PM
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Our values will not align. I bring loyalty to a relationship and I want someone who I can trust will bring that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:30 PM
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I prefer to date men whose goals were committed relationships and I prefer men whose past history matches that. I have dated men with similar histories to yours but I knew they either 1) wanted relationships with those women but those feelings weren’t reciprocated or 2) they found out later they were not compatible with those women. If the relationships were intended to be casual from the beginning, that would be a huge red flag. I’m only willing to forgive that behavior if it happened once and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:14 PM
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I did not talk to my husband about what kind of ring or proposal I wanted. All I asked was that he propose within a 2 year time frame at the beginning of the relationship. My husband coordinated everything with my father. The appeal of a surprise proposal is the rush of emotion in that moment realizing the person you love feels the same. Some people just like surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:40 PM
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I’m fine with counter top proposals and non-diamond rings but I am definitely not fine with a $5 ring. At least get me a fake diamond with gold or white gold so I am not embarrassed to show it my family and enjoy looking at it. That’s extremely cheap and ridiculous. I want to feel special and I don’t even need a lot to feel that way..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:58 PM
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I actually don’t give a shit about your grocery prices because guess what? Those prices inflated on animal products not vegan products.. oh phucking well. Guess you guys will have to eat tofu, rice and beans.. Also I know mothers using WIC, they are people usually who are too selfish to just breastfeed because it’s too uncomfortable.. Then again what different behavior do I expect from people having unprotected sex because having kids is more profitable then getting off the sofa. Lowering our na…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:10 AM
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“Everyone who disagrees with me is misguided.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:33 AM
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So men vote for their interests but women and minorities voted misguidedly. Tell me more about how stupid you think minorities and women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:02 AM
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Ew, that kinda makes me think of Ted bundy because when they interviewed his wife she said, “he preferred it when I laid still.” 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:38 AM
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Someone brought up sex dolls which yeah once you turn the sex toy into a person that I find gross because it’s a bit antisocial.. I was thinking more like pocket pussys, dildos and prostate vibrators. Sex dolls feel like “people replacements” instead of “masterbatory aids” or “pleasure aids.” I’m fine with anything that isn’t a “people replacement.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:37 PM
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I’m talking about my future kids, and the types of content they might have access too because of what’s normalized. This is a preemptive concern. And I know kids can get around parental controls I was doing this even at school and my husband is a computer genius who had access to all kinds of things he should have never had access to at 8 years old. You can’t protect your kids from everything but there are multiple reasons to care about that type of content. IPV rates on men by women are higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:13 PM
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Blows my mind. He could have pulled over and asked for my number and I wouldn’t be complaining. He could have stared as he drove by and I wouldn’t be complaining. There are endless options of things he could have done that wouldn’t have made me feel scared. I am not a person who scares easy. I was a social worker and I have worked with criminals and I’m trained to restrain and defend myself. I often had to go to these people’s homes without cell service including men with various charges. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:30 PM
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I was walking around my neighborhood and some guy pulled over to ask me if he could see my thong not because my pants were low and he could see the top of my underwear or any stomach. He asked me that because he thought my pants were too tight and he couldnt see the outline of my underwear. So where exactly is this line drawn? I don’t have an OF or twerk (most women don’t). At what point is this a behavioral issue men are responsible for? What do women having OF’s or twerking on tv have to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:28 PM
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I understand sexual desire is biology, I don’t care about “the male gaze” I care about verbally expressed desire because it’s often inappropriate or we have no relationship to one another. If men were just staring I wouldn’t think that was disruptive. Asking me if I’m wearing a thong because you think my pants are too tight doesn’t make me a hypocrite it means you have behavioral issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:13 PM
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Obviously clothes matter, you might be unrealistic about how much more attractive they make you. Two dudes who are equally attractive, the better dressed one will get more attention. Think .5-1 more attractive when you’re dressed nicer. For casual in winter I like this style: https://www.thefashionisto.com/abercrombie-fitch-2016-mens-striped-sweater/ Tight pants look homosexual so I would not be attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:34 PM
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Soy, legumes, nuts, and all other plants. All plants have some protein in them, some more than others it’s really not difficult. If I have cereal I add in shaved almonds, and hemp milk because almonds plus hemps seeds are considered a “complete protein” meaning that combination has all the essential amino acids. Soy is a complete protein. Rice/quinoa and legumes are complete proteins. That’s how I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:34 PM
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My mechanic and I are friends on pokemon go and he still doesn’t know I’m vegan. Don’t you worry I know how to behave offline. Or maybe you should be worried because I might be your crazy neighbor stealing your goats..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:53 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34979217/ That’s who said. I was responding to the question for women. Men who eat animals and their by-products are more likely to have ED. People who buy animals products are “animal rape investors” and thats why I called them furrys. Maybe this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:43 PM
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You read what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:35 PM
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For the horde!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:59 PM
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They don’t understand that the women who voted for Trump valued their family’s.. my husband and I are trying to have kids and I don’t want my sons or daughters being exposed to this insanity. I dont want my kids to views shows like “love and hip hop” where scenes of DV female on male is laughed at and women tolerate cheating husbands because he makes money and is high status. I dont want marriage to be ruined for younger women and men, because one person can be financially screwed over when some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:01 PM
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Men who eat a plant-based diet may have a lower risk of erectile dysfunction No I will not date a furry who invests in animal rape for their pleasure (taste).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:37 PM
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They aren’t outlier scenarios people chose poorly all the time and I don’t believe in having sex out of duty to make a bad relationship work. I believe people should have chosen better. And I do have a gf in a dead bedroom and I don’t fault her husband for not wanting to have sex with her because she gained a gross amount of weight. He should not have to pretend he finds that attractive out of duty. Relationships require work to maintain part of that is paid bonding, maintaining a healthy appear…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:13 PM
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I didn’t get married to someone out of duty. Duty to whom? I selected carefully and actually enjoy spending my life with this person. If I didn’t find someone like my husband I would have remained single. If you people are getting married to unfit matches then pulling the duty card to try to get passionless obligatory sex what that really sounds like is you have exerted no control over your life. Imagining being in a marriage that’s held loosely together by duty sex sounds like I nightmare to pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:40 PM
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This is the lazy and primitive solution, people who have great sex and enjoy each other’s company don’t end up in dead bedrooms. You want to create an environment which breeds resentment because “you want sex when you want it.” That’s juvenile. My husband and I have had consistent sex our entire relationship (7 years) and if he wants sex and I wasn’t thinking about it I usually start thinking about it because he has made it a very pleasurable experience that’s hard to resist. But sometimes peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:26 PM
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K have fun pretending to be a narcissist online I’m going to bed. Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:33 AM
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This is so disingenuous. You guys are probably laughing about this lame ass trolling in your discord server nobody cares about. Guess you have nothing better to do. Happy Presidents’ Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 AM
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Then your opinion is hypocritical .. Are you really this dense? Duty sex is completely different than engaging in sex because of desire or pleasure. If men don’t want to have bad starfish sex or whatever then maybe you shouldn’t be normalizing obligatory sex. you don’t fix power and value disbalances by giving away more of these, withdrawing will preserve yourself, it’ll fix things either by breaking or by rebalancing. “I’m a manipulative controlling menace to society and my ego distorts my real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:02 AM
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You trying to turn sex into a control thing is antisocial. It’s crazy this has to be said but people have this thing called bodily autonomy that exists even in marriage. We are allowed to say no. wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 AM
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No, the idea of duty sex is absolutely disgusting. I like that sex happens because we love each other, value each others happiness and the health of our relationship. Punishment isn’t appropriate, she’s your wife not a child.. A negative reward system would cause resentment and theoretically we should care about each other too much to create a toxic dynamic.. In my relationship we focus on pair bonding activities such as having at least one six second kiss a day, spending quality time together (…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 AM
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Nope I’m acting like we are giving kids sterilizing drugs which we are. And like doing cosmetic surgery on kids is mutilating children because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:01 AM
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You might be too politically illiterate for this conversation if you don’t even understand what the demonrats have been freaking out about for the last 3 weeks. Also it’s laughable you think our taxes were only going to those things under Biden, absolutely laughable you have no idea our country is on the verge of going bankrupt because we cannot pay off our debts incurred under his administration and our money was funding terrorist attacks and transitioning. https://mast.house.gov/2024/3/biden-g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 PM
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“Stupidity” was me summarizing all those reasons. Don’t you people understand kids do things for attention? Do you realize there are children who were being groomed into being trans so their parents could make money off of it? https://www.wnd.com/2024/10/follow-social-media-thread-of-tragic-trans-boy-from-national-geographic-cover/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:38 PM
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Lmao these radical leftists are perpetually outraged. What a surprise you’re triggered. There wasn’t even anything offensive in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:59 PM
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No I was accusing you and anyone who thinks “minorities and women who voted for Trump were just too dumb to vote for their interests” of internalizing their misogyny and or subconscious racism. As for mutilating children: https://familyfreedomproject.org/ca-law-would-help-children-get-gender-transition-surgery/ Also drugs such as puberty blockers were being pushed for transitioning children and they were claiming the effects were reversible when they aren’t. These drugs had to be used off label …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:50 PM
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There was no extreme shift in what I preferred when I was younger. As far as “risk taking” climbing balcony to give me a kiss was cute but not anything aggressive. I stopped having those “climbing my balcony” fantasies after college I guess you could call that maturing. Then “excitement” I wanted in the form of a sense of humor or playfulness. I didnt date men who were the kind to smoke weed, drink heavily, skip class or anyone who got C’s. As I got older I cared less about grades but more about…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:16 PM
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”Will of the (minority of) people” Conveniently ignores objective reality Trump won 77,284,118 votes, or 49.8 percent of the votes cast for president. That is the second highest vote total in U.S. history Yeah that’s called radical leftism. Admitted to voting against your own best interests in favor of a imaginary boogeyman Right, keep telling yourself that as now women’s sports are for women and abortion being paid for by our tax dollars wasn’t a right that’s called a privilege. This just shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:10 PM
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The election should have indicated the will of the people to you. This “culture war nonsense” you’re talking about is created by a radical leftist support group called “Reddit.” Feminists today are not concerned about “women’s rights.” Their concerns are “women’s privileges.” So I’ll keep this comment in mind the next time I’m begging men for a crumb of rights. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:47 PM
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We didn’t vote wrong we voted for our interests which are different than yours (which involved not mutilating children). Your internalized misogyny and subconscious racism is showing. Saying that minorities and women who voted for Trump was punching themselves in the face is no different than saying they voted wrong. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:27 PM
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I don’t think you have an understanding of what traditional women are or were doing. My mom worked, all my aunts worked. My grandmas didn’t work at a job but worked hard on farms and in the home. They would come in the door wringing a chickens neck for dinner. We don’t have nearly as many responsibilities at home today as we did, and traditional women have been working for awhile. My father’s side of the family are Jehovah’s Witness and still worked. If you want to stay at home, fine but that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:18 PM
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Men’s biological preferences aren’t really diverse they are just accepting of differences because of their sexual needs and compassion. Men’s preferences are measurable. We know men think bigger lips are sexier, maybe not “face sucked by a Dyson big” but it’s enough for women to figure out they could be more attractive with a modest amount of lip fillers. And yes there are studies done on that. We already know men like curves so that’s not debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:05 PM
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my ex was bigger the sex was better”. This just sounds like some woman was mad and chose to use her words as a weapon. I can understand how that can cause insecurity but the average penis size is within a normal range so most of the time that’s just mean words that don’t mean anything. If you had a new partner and saw that he wasn’t packing the same as your ex, you’re telling me it wouldn’t knock your respect down for him? This is a very harsh and neurotic way to judge someone or yourself. I cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:03 PM
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Yeah I read that post before you changed it. It said you’ve been reading my comments. Now you suddenly don’t care to even though you’re making baseless accusations based off my past comments for which you have no proof were strawman arguments or not. I’ve known you for 10 seconds and I won’t be taking homework assignments from you to prove my own guilt or innocence when the burden is on the accuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:26 PM
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I would never intentionally strawman an argument Mr. Hall Monitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:13 PM
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I’m going to need proof that I straw man in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:46 PM
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Is this really how you think? My god. This is embarrassing. Something is seriously wrong with someone who prefers emotionally disconnected casual sex over having someone to cuddle every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:03 AM
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Okay, so you’re comparing the benefits of pretty privilege (which are different for women and men) to the experiences of average-below average men. Glad we established that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:35 AM
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I never said women should be paid to have sex I’m comparing two ridiculous shallow concerns to each other because I believe them to be analogous. It’s not “being concerned about being equals” when you are displaying jealousy for something the good looking men get easier when the concern is about casual sex. This is wanting the privileges of someone who is above average. Thats why I compared it to women going 50/50 but wanting providers. You said earlier men marry the more attractive women. Men b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:06 AM
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I have it figured out. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:32 AM
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Contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:21 AM
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Do you realize people are toxic online? Men on here daily shame egalitarian women because they “aren’t attractive enough to be paid for.” Do you believe that those women should take those comments to heart and apply them to their real lives or log out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:18 AM
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I don’t view casual sex as moral so my sympathies are not for men or women who want/partake in casual sex. I sympathize with people who want to have meaningful relationships with people but can’t. Men being sad they cant have casual sex with women is like women being sad they have to go 50/50 because they aren’t attractive enough to have a provider husband. It’s shallow. Why would I sympathize with shallowness? This is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:01 AM
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Respectfully you are having anxiety from being terminally online.. People who are this sensitive should not be posting on the internet. If you really believe dick size is what women get off too you have bigger issues than worrying about the size of your penis. If you are worried about giving a woman the best sex of her life you did not do the bare minimum to research it. So work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:57 PM
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Why not be in favor of asset protection policies instead removing divorce as an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:20 PM
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I don’t find it very fair that older generations have ruined marriage for younger women and men. It appears the only way to fix this is to penalize marriage scams as some sort of fraud but also do away with splitting assets that are not in both spouses names or their is no paper trail confirming contributions were made by both parties. It is really a shame that marriage is taken about as seriously as causal relationships when you can ruin someone’s life in divorce financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:53 PM
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In my social group the conservative men might have political preferences but they are not deal breakers. Ultimately men will date whoever is attractive they can get who is somewhat reasonable. Also there are more conservative men and more liberal women so they’d almost have to find each other. Also I admit, leftist women irl aren’t acting as crazy as the ones who post here so that would also contribute to why men don’t mind dating them. They tend to act left of center. Why wasn’t this a question…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:25 PM
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It’s not a meme, you furrys are actually fisting animals for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:19 AM
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No, I don’t care about “ensuring fairness” which would include DEI practices or any pandering. I don’t agree feminism is about equal right I believe it is “womens privilege.” The changes I would want to see would be unsupported by feminism which would include: 1) paternity fraud being recognized as a crime 2) false allegations resulting in suicide being murder charges and 3) provable marriage scams being subjected to criminal and/or civil penalties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:03 PM
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Non-feminist. I don’t agree with any government interference to make us equal under the law except for voting and criminal liability. You aren’t owed employment if you can’t do the job and I don’t believe in pandering to people because I believe that’s sexist or whatever sort of ist or ism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah well, no one likes furrys either but yall continue investing in animal rape for cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:51 PM
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1 It’s not just sugar it is that Americans live off of processed foods that have actual toxins in them. Almost all the food we eat, including our meats, wheat and processed foods are illegal in other countries and anyone who doesn’t know why should absolutely look it up. Health is part of the reason I went vegan. With more people abandoning home making skills and farming more people are forced to rely on processed foods. 2 The government still lies. You always have to take what your politicians …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:30 PM
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But what if there’s too much cushion and he can’t get to pushin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:17 AM
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Because 2 human garbage disposals would belly bump. 9 inches wouldn’t be long enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:03 PM
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I didn’t have my first real relationship til 21. U got plenty of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:41 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:48 PM
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Actually copying and pasting my other comment: Based on current research, diet significantly impacts all-cause mortality more than just access to healthcare alone; a poor diet is strongly linked to a higher risk of death from various chronic diseases, making it a major factor in overall mortality rates, while access to healthcare can only partially mitigate the negative effects of a poor diet if lifestyle changes aren’t made. https://odphp.health.gov/healthypeople/priority-areas/social-determina…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:20 PM
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Based on current research, diet significantly impacts all-cause mortality more than just access to healthcare alone; a poor diet is strongly linked to a higher risk of death from various chronic diseases, making it a major factor in overall mortality rates, while access to healthcare can only partially mitigate the negative effects of a poor diet if lifestyle changes aren’t made. https://odphp.health.gov/healthypeople/priority-areas/social-determinants-health/literature-summaries/access-foods-su…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:06 PM
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People don’t have health insurance because they are lazy we already have obama care for low income people. You’d have to fill out paperwork. Btw I know people turning down their work health insurance for free Obama care even though we make a livable income and we are making 40k a year so a lot of people should be eligible for Obama care. Other countries don’t have the US’s food and drug administration which allows toxins into our foods. People are living on treatments and not fixing their diets …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:54 PM
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Obama care exists who is unable to afford insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:32 PM
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Because in the US people are becoming sick because of their poor habits. Reducing the cost of care doesn’t fix the problem, or help our people because our habits are what is increasing the cost of our health care needs (and also killing us). That’s like putting a bandaid on a leaking pipe. We need our food and drug administration to step in and do their jobs. Also let’s not pretend there aren’t other cons so socialized healthcare like longer wait times and decreased quality in care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:27 PM
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That’s not an argument for socialized healthcare. Up to half of all premature (or early) deaths in the United States are due to behavioral and other preventable factors—including modifiable habits such as tobacco use, poor diet, and lack of exercise, according to studies reviewed in a new National Research Council and Institute of Medicine report.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:20 PM
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Yeah I kinda feel the same way. My husband shed a tear during an animal shelter commercial early on and I thought it was brave considering most guys don’t have the balls to do that due to stigma. It’s definitely not something I think any man I met would have done so it definitely set him apart (in a good way).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:55 PM
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No, I think it’s sad when men cry because they usually only cry if it’s something serious. My ex and husband both opened up to me although they seemed hesitant to do so initially. My husband is a sensitive guy he will shed a tear during those animal shelter commercials so i usually hug or kiss him. I think it’s sweet he has a soft spot for animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:48 PM
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The science says otherwise. Women and men typically report and experience a deeper emotional connection to their first love. When experiencing first love, the brain releases high levels of hormones like dopamine and oxytocin, which contribute to feelings of euphoria and bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:24 PM
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Would he at least be understanding if you got laid off from work and were for some reason ineligible for workers compensation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:56 PM
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We have a joint account which is managed by my husband. Including paying our bills, allocating money to our investments and our retirement. I have retirement through work as well. I tried my hand at investing but invested emotionally and lost an embarrassing sum of money. So I rather him handle that stuff since he has more success there. How it works is he comes up with the plan and relays what he’s doing to me with whatever sum of money he thinks is appropriate and I agree. Also he’s better abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:47 PM
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“Frat vibes” and “childish” are not good adjectives to aspire to be. Silly isn’t “childish” and “childish” is about the biggest turn off I can think of. “Frat vibes” wouldn’t be good for women interested in LTRs. Some people don’t want their home to be the party house and they don’t want to feel like they have to change someone. Also frat boys are known for disrespecting women.. So I’m very confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:46 PM
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Well, have you tried telling them? I have a hard time believing men are insisting on paying every time knowing how you feel about it. I think you are just going along with it because it benefits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:31 PM
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It is if you combine it with a second income in that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:36 AM
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Sometimes the women who want “ambitious” men don’t want to be mothers. Or claim to be “feminist” which should imply they’d be egalitarian. However one can reasonably speculate that isn’t their real goal by the things they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:27 AM
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One concern I would have is having a man who isn’t motivated, and me having to battle with him or pick up the slack. I’m trying to avoid incompatibility in our lifestyles. I do not enjoy arguing with people I love and I take care to pick my battles. If I ask for help and I’m ignored, it affects how I view them and makes it hard for me to love them. My concern would be that working part time is an excuse to do less until they prove otherwise. Im not concerned about late responses I was also in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:26 AM
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I’d be worried someone whose life goal is to do less would adopt that in mindset other areas of their life. Unless they could show motivation in other areas like picking up the slack in housework or volunteering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:02 PM
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Wanting an adult to be full time employed isn’t a magic cut off it’s the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:59 PM
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I will one day acquire a large inheritance. I have not yet. Regardless I have a degree and I’d like to use it in the most helpful way I can just to give back to the community. That’s why I chose a non-profit organization. I can afford a paycut because I’m not worried and can do a job that is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:55 PM
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I call it believing that the person reporting the crime is not making shit up I’m calling this a form of bias. We are not saying the same thing. You are wanting to assume all allegations are made honestly, which assumes guilt, instead of from a neutral standpoint. Confirmation bias significantly impacts investigations by causing investigators to focus primarily on evidence that supports their initial theory or suspect, while overlooking or discounting information that contradicts it, potentially…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:01 PM
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I think the concern is to make the process easier for actual rape victims considering the history of reporting rape. The problem is the bias created by a system that assumes innocence or guilt. I believe this was an unintended consequence of stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:07 PM
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No you don’t have to believe a crime was committed to investigate it. All allegations should be investigated with the goal of proving innocence or guilt. Justice is only achieved by way of a non-biased investigation where innocence/guilt isn’t assumed. To assume validity or deception without proof taints the investigation and denies justice where it’s owed. If the allegations are false then there is a victim and justice would be owed, so there is absolutely no reason to not investigate all alleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:18 PM
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I didn’t call her ugly I poked fun at her eyes being really far apart. I’d say 4/10 by her face which is more average but slightly below. She might be a 3 to some people and I’d find that understandable because looks are subjective right? Some people are below average and that isn’t an injustice that just is the way it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:01 PM
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Well her judgment is the worst I have ever seen. That is probably because she is desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:37 PM
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Listen, I’m not going to cyber bully a real person to their face because I have more sense than that. But your picture doesn’t have your face anyways so that isn’t the own you think it is. Even then, it doesn’t matter I have already uploaded my picture on Reddit before. Problem is people dox others and you’re also posting in a sub where I have seen men posting about violence against women. So I will not be linking this profile to anything that could be tied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:35 PM
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I will also inherit a large sum, still didn’t plan on being lazy or skip finacial planning for my retirement even though I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:29 PM
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Same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:19 PM
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Your friend is demonstrating how lazy and selfish they are, they don’t want to contribute to bettering their own life but want an add on to better their life so they can continue doing the minimal amount of work. To think that makes women shallow means your friend lacks empathy for women. He needs a wake up call. Personally I believe in two people working 40 hours a week unless kids are involved and it’s possible to go to part time and caretake or for one partner to stay home. A partner working …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:17 PM
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Crimes aren’t/ shouldn’t be believed they should be investigated then believed when evidence supports them. It’s “innocent until proven guilty.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:25 PM
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2 separate women in my posts. One is a perpetual side chick/booty call and is unhappy about it. The other is a catfish. Catfish not getting laid, she can’t catfish in person. Plus Stacy is a reference to looks not ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:11 PM
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Idk if she is getting commitment. Also that’s not what being a Stacy is that’s just being a pathetic human if you have to catfish people especially ones 20 years younger than you just to get a crumb of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:02 PM
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More like super sized Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:48 PM
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The men mostly just lead them on for sex. But when I pointed that out to them and suggested they date men more their size that is when they said “the logistics wouldn’t work out.” These men were sometimes quite attractive. I didn’t understand why they were banging the human garbage disposals. She was a catfish this was all online it had to be because she declined FaceTiming them. I am very nosy and observant. I overhear their phone calls in the office and what prompted me to even look at her Fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:28 AM
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There was a lot of fat women at my work, I’m talking visibly above the average weight for women in the US. They did not want to date fat men because “the logistics wouldn’t work out.” They told me this to my face. One I caught catfishing on Facebook, her pic melted 100lbs and 20 years from her IRL appearance. The men she was pursuing were younger and fit and she was cheating on all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:29 AM
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Biologically men and women need each other or we wouldn’t be alive.. Happiness as we know it wouldn’t exist, because we would not. Men and women are the role models around us shaping our lives as we grow into adulthood and their influences are vital to child development. I’d like to see what evidence you claim exists that contradicts men and women need each other. Btw I did not consider myself unhappy when I was single, I just knew I’d be happier sharing my life with the right person. To deny th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:11 PM
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People are social creatures that have always needed each other. This is not some social construct that was “normalized by the patriarchy or religion.” This is how we are biological wired and is objective reality. Women and men need each other to be happy, “women not needing men” is a social construct normalized by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:59 PM
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I don’t/didn’t have insecurity about our sex that didn’t cross my mind. I had insecurity about not being lovable and trusting men. Completely different things, and I don’t see those things as something the gender would affect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:29 PM
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Yes I don’t believe anyone would choose being single over having a good relationship. I call the insinuation that would be the case bull shit. You would prefer to be single over be in a bad relationship, that’s what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:24 PM
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I’ve been cheated on before, the gender would not have mattered. My pain stemmed from the realization that someone I cared deeply about had 0 regard for my emotional and physical well being. That fact revealed I had no idea who my best friend and lover was, and that was terrifying. So I don’t see how the gender would have made anything better or worse. The gender would matter if I had interest in “fixing” or “maintaining” a relationship with a cheater. Which isn’t something I’m interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:20 PM
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Well you indicate you believe men lack the willpower to not cheat. So what’s the point in going for the lesser attractive man, when his loyalty is 1) fake and 2) potentially ending in the same result as dating an attractive man due to his “lack of willpower”? Once the lesser attractive guy lands a woman then he will appear more attractive to other women. He has no history of proving his loyalty and is thus more of a gamble than someone who is attractive and has a history of loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:53 PM
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Abuse/neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:23 PM
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That doesn’t sound truthful. Nobody is happier in isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:26 PM
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Eyes further apart than a hammerhead and she thinks she deserves hot men. That’s why she is failing and why no one has sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:00 PM
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Don’t you also think it would negatively affect young women to see men treating women (and their mothers) that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:21 PM
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Women don’t regret not having kids that was a conscious decision usually. They might regret spending time on the wrong men and being single in a demographic that is hard to find good partners. Women who say “they are happier single” mean they are happier single than in a bad relationship not that they are happy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:12 PM
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That’s like believing all red pillers are conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:41 AM
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Im a child of god.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:28 AM
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Anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:41 PM
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Anyone who argues with people online is a red flag. All debate subs, moderators and participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:06 PM
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Well I do believe sex is a need. If I were to never have sex or have anyone interested in me thats a hugely different mental state I’d be in if I were to never get my favorite car. I don’t think those are comparable. One of those things is a bit more socially isolating than the other. That’s like comparing a dangerous level of depression to disappointment..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:16 PM
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My mother is in her 60s and her back never had rolls even though her weight fluctuated. That is not “life.” She had multiple kids and never became a bakery. It’s called do an exercise other than chewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:08 PM
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If her tummy is soft, her back has a roll or two, her hips are wider than they used to be, and her boobs have traveled a bit closer to her belly button, that is called LIFE. That’s not a life that’s letting gluttony rule your life and is self harm that takes years off said life. That fat journalist is killing people. And balloons are not owed a relationship with someone who doesn’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:40 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:01 PM
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Right? Women want different things. I’m gunning for 689, because 6 was afraid of 7 and I’m empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:41 PM
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Women benefit from financially covered abortions men do not. Women have bodily autonomy, so men lawfully do not have a say in what we do with our bodies. How would you feel if the government was paying for male vasectomies (only) with your taxes? Also abortion is not just a women’s issue, men can experience grief after a pregnancy loss including abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:07 PM
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Pulling a Lilith “that’s not what I said actually read my post. If you don’t want to engage with the conversation then don’t let the door hit yah where the good lord split yah.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:48 PM
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I’m conservative, don’t do hook ups but I have never had sex with a liberal nor have I dated one. That wasn’t on purpose either because when I was dating 8 years ago there wasn’t much difference between republicans and democrats for this to even matter. I was more focused on finding Christian men than politics. Today it would probably matter. Also my husband’s friends are conservative men and yes they are having sex with women who are openly liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:43 PM
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Yes, I realize you began actually engaging when you realized this was being upvoted. Unfortunately that says more about your ego than it does about your “points.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:13 PM
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That’s a hyde amendment problem because it was already established that the government wasnt suppose to be funding abortion. It was an issue of taxes and circumventing the law, not men. So circumventing the law that lead to unfavorable outcomes for men (having to pay for something they have no say in) favoring women. Sounds like systemic sexism to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:07 PM
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You mentioned DEI practices which was a men’s rights issue. People overlooked it because you already countered your argument. Also I mentioned that Trump froze funding for abortion. Men have no say in abortion so why are they paying for it? That’s two things that were accomplished overnight. Thinking anyone regrets voting for Trump is cope, he is doing what we voted him in to do. GL on your next post I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:43 PM
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Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven’t been in or don’t care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough? Because a lot of you (people) are 1) morally inconsistent, 2) incompatible with me and my life goals. Everyone I swiped on was a match and it was always one of those two things. It wasn’t that I wasn’t desperate for a relationship, I wanted one badly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:08 PM
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”the events we have are about…male suicide, sexual assault against men, the portrayal of gender in the media…”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:03 PM
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”the events we have are about…male suicide, sexual assault against men, the portrayal of gender in the media…” Why would anarchists protest this if they weren’t also feminists? Have you ever heard of “Anarchist (Anarcha) Feminism?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:00 PM
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We are not allowed to spam. Wow I recognized you copy pasted your post. Time for you to realize I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:50 PM
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They are openly anti-feminist and they get prevented from speaking via pulling the fire alarms at their events and being physically blocked by masked figures from entering the library. When I received doxing threats and threats of people contacting my work, I didn’t consider myself anti-feminist and still don’t. I consider myself a humanist. The people sending those threats were openly feminist btw. It’s funny you think I’m an anti-feminist because i don’t coddle women. This was never about femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:36 PM
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Why do you guys act like anti-feminists are the devil we must throw salt at? Dont you remember or even know about the grievance studies affair? Feminism has been proven to lack academic integrity. The articles also said the people were masked and blocking the entrances but you didn’t read that. Why would feminists not oppose anti-feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:14 PM
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Have you been to one? How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:07 PM
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Exhibit B. Is a goldfish typing? Give Lilith the phone back please. You did not read and remember what Lilith was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:58 PM
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https://www.thecollegefix.com/campus-speaker-touting-mens-rights-has-fire-alarm-pulled-on-her/ https://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/protesters-disrupt-lecture-by-uottawa-anti-feminist-at-ottawa-public-library Googling is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:25 PM
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I addressed your post you can’t defend it. Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:19 PM
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Actually read my post, I addressed this. Your post was a bunch of non-sense you made up. Btw voting for Trump did accomplish something for men in the first two weeks. If they didnt do it in a dickish way and expect taxes to pay for the tests, more people would be okay talking about it. So you are scared. Also ironic people were paying for abortions with our tax money. If it is your body your choice then you pay. Luckily Trump froze that funding. >Prenup. Not good enough. >Stop talking to blue ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:56 PM
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I can’t think of a reason feminists would set off the fire alarms at men’s rights activists meetings that isn’t pathetic. Look at you being surprised men don’t talk when you’ve provided one instance of them being shut down from doing so for free. Y’all are scared about men talking about paternity tests and wanting financial protection from divorce. Why? Also I was posting online about the Amber Heard and Johnny Deep trials and I was called a pick me/misogynist for calling Amber an abuser as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:21 PM
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I wish you had more support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:46 PM
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You paint men in a bad light, if I actually believed men were incapable of loving women and that the only thing we could offer would be consistent sex, what would be the point in dating men at all? Maybe don’t throw a fit about being in a provider role when clearly you put women in a “consistent sex” role. Thats what happens when you set up your relationships to be transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:14 PM
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when I was thinking about getting a vasectomy at 35, most women were freaking out on me because what if my future gf/wife wants kids. I have no idea why you would be basing your decisions off of what your potential future wife would want versus what you want. Children deserve to be wanted by both parents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:01 PM
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How much do you think SMV really matters in relationships? It matters to an extent for everyone based off their goals. Woman who want children are going to want men that can help provide stability. Some women are just greedy and want more money for no reason, “I want someone on my level.” Most women are willing to work and contribute to supplement income so we can do more fun things together others (and likely the more attractive ones) not so much. Do shared values and goals matter more than loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:53 PM
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What about protection of the elderly/old? When seeing a 20 year age gap between partners it’s rarely true love. Otherwise women dating older men would not be dating men with money who were established. Which btw is the point of dating older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:24 PM
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Maybe not thousands but I do have 30+ unread/missed phone calls/voicemails at any given time and that only rises overtime. I just don’t open/respond too some people and I do this strategically. I don’t do that to everyone. Email can definitely get into the thousands because of spam. They are probably ignoring you on purpose, i would reach out or at least respond a couple days to a week later if I missed someone important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:01 PM
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You seem to be aware that our rights are outlined in the constitution. So please tell me where we have to right to kill our kids because we don’t want to be parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:57 PM
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Do you realize there’s tons of week old accounts banned from here daily that just re-create accounts posting the same shit about voting away women’s rights and your REAL LIFE sources of media reflect you guys think you’re actually losing your rights. When the reality is Trump is using the authority he was given by our founding fathers.. All of the things he has done he is constitutionally allowed to do. Don’t hate the players hate the game. Your “rights” aren’t being taken away, you never had th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:23 PM
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It is misandry, and some of those women have recognized their hatred is a problem. Just because it is a trauma response doesn’t mean it isn’t misandry and problematic. We don’t/didn’t have to completely demonize people with labels (which a loud group of people started this trend), but we can use them to recognize problematic behaviors. People can rebound if they received empathy for their struggles, however the empathy has to come from the source of their trauma (in this case men) otherwise it j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:27 PM
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Do you say the same thing to red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:21 PM
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Well I don’t hate it and I already feel that way. If a man was not motivated by me I would not be with him because that would mean he didn’t like/appreciate me very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:03 PM
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Do you realize you get banned for calling out their behavior? Thats why you don’t see anyone pushing back because on Reddit that isn’t allowed. Those are echo chambers and this website is a liberal squawk box. I received a two week ban just for saying “women aren’t happier alone you’re citing retracted research.” Also the progressive women on this site make progressive women look bad because they are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:48 PM
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Yes I make them send me pictures of their dick next to measuring tape just to be sure it’s 9 inches or no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:28 PM
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You certainly can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:13 PM
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You certainly do lack talent and imagination. I can tell. You aren’t as eloquent when you’re not using chatGPT. Plus he only did that for a day you have done this before and I noticed but didn’t say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:10 PM
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You sound like a regular user of chatGPT since you were trying to get it to write stories 18 months ago why wouldn’t you be doing that now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:14 PM
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My husband used to troll people using chatGPT I know what that looks like. You probably changed a couple things so Reddit would accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:07 PM
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He didn’t even come up with this chatGPT did
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:55 PM
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I believe this is chatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:54 PM
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Normal emotional turned physical responses to reading romance novels: crying, smiling, butterflies in stomach and maybe increased heart rate. Physical responses to Becky with suck fucking lips in pornography: dopamine release in brains reward center. Same with reading erotica. There is an important element missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:43 PM
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Youre trying to say reading a love story that isn’t sexual is the same thing as erotica and they serve different purposes, and trigger responses from similar but different parts of the brain. They also don’t trigger the same intensity responses. Why do you want to police women’s literature in a controlling manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:06 PM
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By your logic, if I’m attracted to intelligence an audiobook documentary read by a man is sexual. Also I’m not reading romance novels and jerking it afterwards or during. I read them usually as a coping mechanism when I’m scared to take my mind off my anxiety. They serve completely different purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:54 PM
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It’s laughable that yall try to find any justification for why porn should be acceptable for men in relationships while claiming I don’t know what average looks like. Meanwhile you people are jerking it to plastic surgery frankensteins that shouldn’t exist. As of That’s healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:17 PM
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Because yall are jerking it to Frankenstein?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:10 PM
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This question was already asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:55 PM
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You guys keep asking me to name porn stars that are not average, read the other comments because this has already been asked. Or pull up a top 10 list of the most successful porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:52 PM
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Pornography, due to it being explicit, will always trigger a more intense response and different part of your brain than a heart warming story. My god. Romance novels invoke emotional and imaginative responses not physical ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:50 PM
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I don’t see this man jaw you’re talking about. I think you’re being overly critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:43 AM
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Also I see women who have so much surgery they look trans dating guys ya’ll would consider chads all the time. I wouldn’t be into that either but clearly that works for them. Margot Robbie without make up is not average she is above average. Maybe you only saw her done up because she typically looks awful/trans with make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:37 AM
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She is one of the highest earning porn star on OF. Idk why you say handsome she is feminine looking. Her body proportion may be a bit extreme but again that’s the type of women men are jerking it too. I can go down the list of the highest earning creators and see similar patterns of plastic surgery. I have friends who were OF creators whose Instagram pages blew up over night post operation. I don’t believe men are being honest when they say they would never date the women they touch themselves t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 AM
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I don’t know what you consider “regular porn.” I’m going by who is able to make a living off porn that I know off and they are all above average. And I used to know a couple porn girls they are all above average with surgery. No idea what they used to look like but they increased the attention they got on instagram by 7k likes post operation. So I know that shit works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:07 PM
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Amouranth
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:02 PM
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Porn stars are not average. The most famous ones all have work done and are well above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:17 PM
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Did anyone ever tell her to stop posting? Or try to have an intervention? That is the most extreme case of social media addiction I have ever heard of. I unfollow people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:11 PM
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Well, most women don’t care about men watching porn or at least in this forum. However I don’t see them as being different in the damage they cause to relationships. Seeking outside sources for sexual release/gratification gives people unrealistic/unhealthy standards and in my faith is infidelity. This doesn’t apply to romance novels that focus on healthy emotional connections that turn into something later like the notebook which is less sexual and more heart warming. I am more thinking of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:04 PM
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lol I don’t even understand how that’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:51 PM
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That treatment/those things are normal to them. Posting shit online is addicting because of the feedback they receive. They have issues they aren’t communicating or aren’t being heard and they resent their spouse and want others to validate their resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:50 PM
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I’m banned from those spaces so you just spouted a bunch of things you had no idea of their truthfulness or relevance. And ironically you invalidated my experiences which is something you probably don’t want happening to yourself. I’m aware of pretty privilege, I’m pointing out your point that unattractive people are nice that is incorrect. They are the most bitter in my experience. Traumatized people are usually broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:40 PM
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Yeah well I have been on both sides of the coin and the lesser attractive or unattractive men were still unkind. I have been both: unattractive and very attractive. I was unattractive due to being underweight and men bullied me for my body unprovoked. I was a kid who was too shy to be mean to anyone. So did women but men’s bullying hurt worse and was more cruel and frequent. Only once I started gaining weight, which changed a lot of my features, did men change their tune around me which made me …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:22 PM
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And tits are genetic but if you don’t have fat on your body you won’t have tits I have had natural b cups and c cups all at healthy weights depending on my body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:33 AM
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I know how my body proportions compare to others and what a healthy weight and bmi for my size is. I don’t need some random who clearly doesn’t understand what the fuck they’re talking about to explain shit to me about my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:19 AM
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And the improvement you’re talking about is slight because our body shapes are largely influenced by genetics aside from extreme exercise. Often times for working out for “ass” you sacrifice having tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:11 AM
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I’m someone who has played four sports and had a six pack. It’s not easy keeping that muscle. I lost my six pack in one week.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:10 AM
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Wait you are the person I meant to respond too. I just responded to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:54 AM
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Oh shit you’re not who I meant to respond too. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:48 AM
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You are thinking of Olympic cyclists who have cake for days. Most people don’t have the time to train like an Olympian we have jobs. And you clearly don’t know anything about working out otherwise you’d understand how hard it is to maintain that muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:45 AM
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No. Absolute dealbreaker. For someone to be illiterate in the US they would have had to have had no support system. I do not want to be in a situation where I am my partners only support. Also how would someone who’s illiterate apply to jobs? This person would be so dependent on me it’d be like having a kid. Also I turned down/broke up with men in college and high school for letting their grades fall. I refused to date anyone not taking school seriously even at 16. That is not something I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:00 PM
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This take came from internet trolls..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:52 PM
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Because libs don’t think it’s possible for intelligent people to be religious. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:35 PM
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She supported tax funded gender re-assignment surgeries for children openly.. And you’re not making any sense why would I tell rape victims they had a choice? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:21 PM
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Also Trump is not pro-life. He froze funding that doesn’t mean abortions are illegal you guys are brain washed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:15 PM
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Biden was pardoning criminals also. Women not having abortions is not as bad as children being mutilated because guess what? Women don’t have to have sex that is there choice children don’t have a choice of what family they are born into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:15 PM
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Hillary was a rapist apologist and Harris would legalize genital mutilation of children. I have no idea why you’re acting like we have morally good candidates in our elections. These women were not better than Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:09 PM
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That’s just my multiple personalities they all have to be summoned to make a rational decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:49 PM
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That doesn’t apply to characteristics like tall.. You couldn’t hide it if you weren’t tall.. This applies to personality characteristics. It also doesn’t apply online. I won’t tell a date some of my preferences, because they will just lie to get into relationship with me. I don’t have that motivation to lie online. You guys just think women are liers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:22 PM
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Men are pushing for more egalitarian relationships claiming it’s a right violation but then taking advantage of those egalitarian women… That’s counterintuitive because those women would probably be the better partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:20 PM
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“Women are lying no matter what they say.” That’s what you sound like and it’s unattractive. Also women on this forum get harassed for their preferences all the time. Lmao even by other women. Like once i said I wanted a college educated highly intelligent Christian man. The men and women collectively called me stupid and that my preferences weren’t realistic when all the men I dated met those standards and I had no problem finding them. The people who post here are toxic and bitter for no reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:59 PM
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Interesting because I had an opposite experience with my friend in a DV relationship where I came over her house and blocked the dude on everything and we talked all night and she never went back and was grateful for that. So I do think it depends on the person and what stage of change they’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:51 PM
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I agree the OP came across judgmental and condescending. I also recognize the importance of her understanding how she got herself into that situation. Since she wasn’t actively in a DV relationship and she was removed from that situation, I believe there was some version of what OP said that could have addressed both her concerning behaviors while being empathetic with her. I wonder if how you feel about how you handled your friend would have changed if she didn’t make it out alive. Might you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:16 PM
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Maybe the competent self assured men find you to be an unfit partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:23 PM
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Hating weak and pathetic men is hardly hating all of them. Well my point was made. I wish you had more support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:21 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:14 PM
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So you aren’t real?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:14 PM
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So is misandry yet we don’t say things like “kill all women” or “the world would be better if femcels disappeared” in response to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:11 PM
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No, TRP seems to be a trauma response for a lot of men that believe those things. Anyone that has gone through a bad break up can relate to having irrational fears, commitment issues and overly negative opinions about the opposite sex. I have no idea why more people don’t admit that, they are probably just virtual signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:15 PM
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I’m replying to the SJW for gay frat bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:48 PM
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Are you aware that people can hold the belief that gaynal sex is sinful and also not alienate those same people? People don’t have to affirm your gay choices. Why do you care to receive approval from people for your sexual preferences? People can peacefully coexist despite our differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:40 PM
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No, being solution focused isn’t always desirable and on its own isn’t “being emotionally available.” For example if I’m job hunting and getting turned down again and again, someone immediately jumping to questions about my resume for suggestions is off putting because they are failing to recognize my confidence in myself has taken a hit. That would not be appropriate and what I would consider to be emotionally unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:50 PM
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The dream man would be doing those things when appropriate. There has to be a balance between being ready to support someone and being solution focused. These are the qualities that make someone a good leader. Which makes your post contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:12 PM
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What does “emotionally available” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:43 PM
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lol no. If my husband wasn’t emotionally available and a bad listener he wouldn’t be my husband. I wouldn’t feel safe around someone who was emotionally unavailable. Also if he didn’t understand and respond appropriately to my emotions I’d have assumed he was unintelligent. Respectfully, TRP sounds like a trauma response for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:35 PM
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Your post is confusing and not well communicated. For starters you use “dating” and “had sex with” interchangeably and those numbers are different for just about everyone on the planet. So I’m not sure if these women are lying or misunderstanding your questions since you aren’t direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:51 PM
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Wouldn’t say this happens often but an example: had a friend who liked a guy who had a crush on me. She told me he said “I could never see myself with someone like her.” What she didn’t know is he asked me on a date, so I obviously confronted him about that. He claimed he never said that and she had liked him for a long time (which was obvious to us all). I had to drop her friendship because of this behavior since it happened more than once. Also played competitive soccer on the best girls team …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:50 PM
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That was probably said in the context of not needing a relationship to be happy not in a literal sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:39 PM
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*Disclaimer men and women are all capable of having these personality flaws, it’s just women are more commonly to be these things: •More often the benefactors of pretty privilege and the negative personality traits that go along with people who profit off their sexuality, such as entitlement and inflated egos. •Being easily offended. Which makes have logical conversation more difficult. •Lack of empathy for men’s safety, struggles and/or male gender specific issues. Example for not accounting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:43 PM
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Nobody in the US is losing our rights the liberals is just losing they minds over here. The “attack on women’s rights” is just wokies having a mental health crisis. Just ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:40 PM
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