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S1eeper/r/seduction23/03/11 01:21 AM
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/r/BoneAppleTea/
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/26 02:22 AM
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Honestly they're both assholes. Myron can make his point without calling women physically inferior or getting all male supremacist on her. Just say that men are expendable because sperm is in infinite supply, and thus men evolved to do expendable things that societies need - fight off predators, hunt for food, fight wars, be pack animals before farm animals were domesticated, etc. Women are not expendable because eggs are finite and it takes roughly a year to create a baby. If a human society we…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/26 04:02 AM
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It’s only a pathetic lifestyle if your social circle is pathetic. But you do you.
/r/seduction22/09/23 06:34 AM
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Given the sex trafficking problem all over the world, including even in the US, it’s a totally legitimate concern for women. Men have to understand that and learn how to meet women through trusted social networks or contexts rather than randomly online.
/r/seduction20/09/23 01:29 AM
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Yeah leaving behind the good ones is hard, but good friends understand and tend to remain good friends even over time and distance.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 04:04 PM
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If it's true love, then leave all those people behind, cut them out of your life completely, and embark on your new life with her, just the two of you. Definitely get away from those toxic co-workers, and even toxic family. You don't need any of them, just each other. This is your life, you can do anything with it you want, you don't have any obligations to people who are trying to hurt you, even family. Make plans to move to a new city together, start a new life, with new non-toxic friends. Lif…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 03:31 PM
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Either videos and comments are heartbreaking, is easy read thing like "Since i stopped of relate with women, my life improved, i make alot of money etc", "Women can´t feel love", "women are unfaithful,selfish and only think in themselves", "Now i´m free because i dont feel neither sexual or romantic atracttion towards women, now i see them as what they are","women are useless at work", "women are lazy" etc etc i could go on putting all the garbage that these angry men put there. Keep in mind at …
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 05:45 PM
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It's not too complicated. Any man who goes around talking about or even thinking about alpha/beta/sigma/omega/etc is automatically a beta, even if he checks some boxes for alpha or whatever the top dog of the day is (it keeps changing). Real alphas are not so self-involved. They never even think about this stuff, rather they're instead consumed with working day and night on changing the world, inventing the future, and having a real impact beyond their own little lives. For example, do you think…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 08:42 AM
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or is exceptionally physically attractive. Women have to be physically attractive too to have this. Maybe not "exceptionally", but as far as privilege goes, not all women have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:59 PM
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Ah thanks, seeing the original helps. Though now I’m confused, in one video he says he’s leaving his key in a gift box, and in the video you linked he’s just sticking it through the mail slot in the front door. Oh well, not really worth spending brain cycles on.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 07:27 PM
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You can’t even say that b/c we don’t know for sure if he actually put his key in that box. He didn’t show himself putting the key in the box, or did he video the inside of the box with the key in it. He just said he put his key in it and we take it on faith that he did, but there’s actual proof of that.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 07:24 PM
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No it isn’t b/c he didn’t actually show the key in the box, he just said “here’s a box, I put my key in it.” There’s no proof he actually put his key in it.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 07:22 PM
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It wasn’t really proof. He could have had a spare key made first, or said he put his key in that box but didn’t really.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 03:47 PM
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Thats’ not how burden of proof works.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 03:21 PM
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To pick up where tofu left off ... That's a great way to get hurt and have your trust broken. Or at least that's what I have found in my short life. You are correct here, but the penultimate objective of both pickup and life is not to reach a point where you can anticipate being hurt and avoid it, but to become unable to be hurt. To paraphrase Neo and Morpheus, N: Are you telling me I can dodge bullets? M: No Neo. What I'm telling you is that when you're ready, you won't have to. Part of getting…
/r/seduction21/10/11 04:43 AM
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If you're looking for interesting things to talk about that can get you out of the smalltalk trap, read a lot of psychology. It's something everyone can relate to, everyone is interested in, everyone can learn something from (making you a value provider). Here are two good ones to start with, and don't forget /r/psychology and related subreddits. http://www.amazon.com/50-Psychology-Classics-Insight-Inspiration/dp/1857883861/ref=sr_1_1 http://www.amazon.com/Great-Myths-Popular-Psychology-Misconce…
/r/seduction22/08/11 03:52 PM
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This, this, this, and this. Just focus on rapport-building with everyone, male or female, young or old, even dogs and cats. Become a natural at building rapport and social intuition with random strangers, and you'll be 2/3rds of the way there.
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:52 AM
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Arden Leigh is what you'd be looking for: http://ardenleigh.typepad.com/blog/2009/07/a-girls-guide-to-seducing-johnny-depp.html She's working on a book, but unpublished as of yet: http://www.amazon.com/New-Rules-Attraction-Keep-Make/dp/1402266529
/r/seduction12/08/11 06:30 AM
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You're echoing what Tyler Durden and the RSD guys teach, albeit in different language. Eg, be natural, become 'a natural'. Strongly recommend people check them out, they're the top of the game.
/r/seduction12/08/11 12:18 AM
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To build up an Entourage List of girls I can call out to hang out with. Some of these girls I will have sex with. Maybe some of them will become FWBs. I thought the rule with entourage girls is not to sleep with them, to avoid drama in the entourage. Or did I misunderstand?
/r/seduction06/08/11 03:23 AM
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Yeah I caught that too, very interesting. But the way she used it would have thrown me for a loop, since doesn't she really mean 'negging' instead of 'qualifying' there? Either way, great response to just smirk and change the subject. I probably would have made the mistake of raising an eyebrow and questioning her on it, 'Qualifying?...'
/r/seduction06/08/11 03:21 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/user/LadyPUA
/r/seduction01/08/11 08:06 PM
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It was a shock when I realized it too, but then suddenly, it all made sense.
/r/seduction31/07/11 06:15 PM
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Lol, Matthew McConaughey at his smarmiest. He never quite shook it either, despite his subsequent success.
/r/seduction30/07/11 11:22 PM
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Interesting, which escalation techniques work best for girl-girl? Kino, or other stuff?
/r/seduction22/07/11 06:48 PM
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That's cool. Other girls have been able to use a lot of this stuff to pick up guys, but I've been wondering whether girls can use it to pick up other girls too. How's it working out so far?
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:17 PM
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Her: "I'm always right about everything" You: "I find people who claim that are usually very smart, but also inexperienced, unworldly, and insecure." Her: ... starts qualifying that's she's not inexperienced, unworldly and insecure (because she is almost certainly at least one of them). People who are very smart and also experienced, worldly, and secure never say that, even when it's true. So when someone brags about it, at least one of those is usually the case. Either... they haven't traveled …
/r/seduction20/07/11 05:23 PM
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What is this I don't even... rofl
/r/seduction20/07/11 04:51 PM
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Rofl, made my coffee come out of my nose.
/r/seduction13/07/11 06:36 PM
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If the startup doesn't work out, or if it does, you've got a good second act lined up.
/r/seduction09/07/11 01:28 AM
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Read some body language books, then come back and let us know if you still think that. Yes there are a few naturals, and women are naturally better at then men, but it's a huge and useful field.
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:03 PM
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Please do post the advanced stuff, just add your disclaimer to the top: "I've hesitated to post this advanced topic, as it's a bit too likely to come across as bullshit or might be taken in the wrong direction by people who have no concept of subtlety. Use at your own risk."
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:00 PM
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And my axe!
/r/seduction02/07/11 04:59 PM
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The beauty of subreddits is their specificity. We just need the Seddit admins to add a link to /r/bodylanguage on the sidebar under 'Similar reddit communities', then you can xpost a few of your bodylanguage posts to seddit, and people will discover it, start subscribing, and seeing it on their frontpage.
/r/seduction02/07/11 04:59 PM
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I'd rather have more granular subreddits than less granular, so you can better subscribe/unsubscribe from things you're not interested in. For example, I know social interaction pretty well so that's not as high a priority for me to cram into my limited reading time, but I'm still ramping up on body language and want those particular threads featured more prominently on my front page without getting pushed down by higher-rated more general social interaction stuff.
/r/seduction02/07/11 04:57 PM
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I strongly recommend you checkout The Blueprint Decoded. The fundamental mistake you made was putting her on a pedastal high above you that her looks tricked you into thinking she deserved. No one does, unless perhaps you're living in a lawless society and they have the power to kill you on a whim, which I'm pretty sure won't ever be the case for you. TBD will change your perspective and cure you of that forever.
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:34 PM
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You are not a special snowflake. You are the all knowing all seeing crap of the world. And no matter how hot she looks, so is she. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:42 PM
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Awesome writeup, great vid, thanks. For anyone who hasn't seen it, also check out TakeSomeCrime's dance tutorial.
/r/seduction03/06/11 10:16 PM
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Add The Rules of the Game to that list too, it's thoroughly step-by-step in the way OP is looking for.
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:01 PM
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Fischer & Ury, closet seduction coaches ftw. Good catch, having a BATNA in negotiations takes all the pressure off you to make a deal, and gives you a clear baseline worst case scenario. The psychological effect is destressing and liberating, which is a huge advantage in any situation.
/r/seduction11/05/11 02:28 PM
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Good post, /second the combination of Zen and eastern philosophy with seduction. Very good for inner game. Maybe you are not congruent with the PU-style proclaimed by somebody else. To me, many things I've read really seemed over the top when I read them and felt over the top when I tried them, and came across incongruently to people. Don't close your eyes to what you see because you're following somebodys 'proven, field-tested and fool-proof' theory. I've had the best success when I was just be…
/r/seduction11/05/11 02:10 PM
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All very true. Do all three well and you can almost skip explicit attraction building.
/r/seduction11/05/11 01:57 PM
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/second all this. The best way to learn anything new from a book is to read it at least twice, then practice it a bunch, then reread and practice till you've mastered it. And it's usually better to focus on one thing and master it before moving on, instead of lightly surveying a bunch of different areas, since the skills you master there are many times reapplicable elsewhere.
/r/seduction09/05/11 11:03 PM
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I love those Bargain Bin/Clearance Sales. I've found so many little gems there, from body language guide to a psychology survey.
/r/seduction09/05/11 10:51 PM
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OP. makes a very good point that it's not easy, but is learnable, if you can get him to just plow through the first few months of sucking.
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:43 AM
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I cannot upvote this enough. Also, for the leads (that's you, fellas), be aware that knowing how to connect and move someone's body weight is Fucking Magic. Even if your partner is a total non-dancer, they'll know instantly that you Know What You Are Doing the moment you connect. It's powerful. Preach it brother. Partner dancing improves all of the following: Attraction Building (gargantuan dhv) Comfort building (merging of personal space + kino with a primary purpose of controlling her body rat…
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:36 AM
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Good observations, and /second the definitive book of body language, I have that too.
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:01 AM
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Heh, just posted that too bf seeing your comment. /second.
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:31 PM
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I'm not one to waste time "building attraction". Instead, I look for women where the attraction is already there and they're looking for a man. Leil Lowndes' book Undercover Sex Signals is all about this and how to quickly spot it. Worth a read.
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:29 PM
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Call her on it: "Oh I see, you're just out scamming free drinks tonight. You're probably not even poor, but you're out dumpster diving anyway? How many have you gotten so far?" (treat her like she's some naive girl who just figured out she can get guys to buy her drinks, but hasn't yet realized it's an obvious ruse to the kind of guy she'd want to date/sleep with, and could ruin her chances with him) Her: five+ You: Whoa Nelly, time to cut you off and send you home, I bet you're so wasted you ca…
/r/seduction28/04/11 09:35 PM
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There are, but you have to be underage too. If you're 18+, there's a cult in Utah you might want to check out.
/r/seduction28/04/11 09:05 PM
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Dull, uninteresting personality
/r/seduction28/04/11 09:03 PM
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Interested observations. #1 could probably also be phrased in terms of outcome independence. Focusing too hard on SNL/ONS risks putting you into an outcome dependent mindset.
/r/seduction28/04/11 05:15 AM
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Koreans (and I think Japanese and Chinese) round their age up, not down like Westerners. So if they're 25 and 5 months, they say they're 26, whereas we say we're 25. Persians probably do the same, hence the discrepancy. Koreans even count the 9 months we're in the womb as part of their age, not sure about the others. Additionally, I've noticed from the few Persian women I've known that they are all very proud of being Persian women, as if it's a unique mark of timeless beauty or something. If sh…
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:21 AM
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It's a 3MB download. Just get it.
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:10 AM
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Anything direct, socially aware, and initially emotionally unreactive. Daniel Craig's Bond in Casino Royale, seducing the girl at The Ocean Club. Javier Bardem in Vicky Christina Barcelona at the restaurant in the beginning.
/r/seduction21/04/11 02:52 AM
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He was, he was the fan favorite too. The two guys who beat him were a model and an aspiring actor, Joe was by far the underdog.
/r/seduction12/04/11 06:04 PM
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Lol, that's Joe, the second runner up from the first season of "The Pickup Artist". Doctored and butchered a bit.
/r/seduction12/04/11 06:14 AM
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Congrats! But don't put all your eggs in one basket. If it doesn't work out, use this experience in getting more numbers from more girls since it worked well for you this time. This by far. Abundance mentality is much more important than figuring out exactly the right time to call her, or what to say, or what to do. Ingrain a sense of abundance in your mind and you can do no wrong.
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:22 PM
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"I have discovered that people like me for who I really am, and it's made all the difference in my life. My biggest concern now is that I'm going to let the fear of rejection and failure stifle my personality and make me miss out on opportunities to meet interesting people, experience new things, and learn fresh perspectives. Without new input, my life stagnates. Of course not everyone loves me, or even likes me. In fact, I can be a very highly polarizing person. That's where positivity comes in…
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:24 PM
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There was a really awesome comment posted in seddit recently about being a value-creator/giver instead of value-taker, that's the gist of it. I'll see if I can find and post it later when I'm back on my computer instead my phone. I think it was in a thread linking to a funny Youtube music video about creepers.
/r/seduction30/03/11 07:43 PM
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Don't hunt, fish. You don't always have to think in terms of approaching women. You can also make yourself into an irresistable lure, then just sit there in the water being positive, present, and not scanning the field looking for prey (creeping), and watch how women gravitate to you. They'll create the opportunity for you to seduce them. You do have to be patient and stop worrying and wondering whether it's working or not, though, otherwise it won't.
/r/seduction29/03/11 09:37 PM
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That's when you order an Aristotle of the most ping-pong tiddly in the nuclear sub and gob out a mouthful of the booze, covering the geezer. Flick a flaming match into his bird's nest and he's lit up like a leaking gas pipe. Then, unfazed, get back to your girl.
/r/seduction29/03/11 08:52 AM
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A taller black dude came up to us and asked point blank why a bunch of good looking girls was with a guy like me. I hope your answer was, "Wouldn't you like to know. And shouldn't you be on a horse?"
/r/seduction28/03/11 08:46 PM
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Very cool, thanks. I know the waltz at least, time to go search out Mireille and Gainsbourg.
/r/seduction28/03/11 02:55 AM
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As an aside, what 'famous French singer' were you listening to, and how do you dance to it? Blues, micro blues, etc? I'm always on the lookout for new good music, especially that's good for dancing.
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:55 PM
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Go reread everything in the seduction literature about building attraction, then just assume you're in the attraction phase the rest of your life. In the average marriage, the excitement and romance fade after roughly 18 months, but if the attraction fades too then the marriage is a goner. But the latter is far from inevitable, and even recoverable if it has already happened. If she feels for the rest of her life like she married an 'alpha' who is only becoming moreso as he advances in life and …
/r/seduction27/03/11 08:30 PM
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Yes, by not approaching, or by screwing up the approach. The book Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowndes elaborates well on this.
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:12 AM
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Even the stem of her wine glass counts, though she's probably hoping for something a little more substantial.
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:11 AM
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Just a shot in the dark, but it might be the height differential where a woman can wear high heels and still not be taller than her man. Since 1.09 adds just over 6 inches to a 5'10" woman, that sounds about right. It's also apparently the height at which a woman must tilt her head fully back, completely exposing her vulnerable neck, to kiss her man, high heels or no. A submissive, open, trusting pose. Much more than 1.09 and she has to stretch uncomfortably, much less and he doesn't feel domina…
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:08 AM
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Great stuff, thanks! A few things: Placing one leg over the other so that they're parallel signifies that she's ready to screw. I'm having trouble visualizing that. Aren't "parallel" and "one leg over the other" mutually exclusive? Keep your fingers crossed and below your chin, and avoid arm or feet crossing. Fingers crossed? Huh? People lean against things (or other people) to show ownership or a territorial claim. Not necessarily. Keep in mind one other thing about body language - individual s…
/r/seduction23/03/11 12:59 AM
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"1)Remember that scene in ocean's eleven (pretty sure it was eleven) where the dude (I'm thinking Matt Damon) wore the perfume with the hormones that makes him irresistible to seduce that chick? Obviously it's been a while since I've seen the movie but the scene stuck with me. My favorite frame is assuming I'm wearing that perfume. I swear I must subconsciously be telling myself to give off those hormones or some shit, because women REACT. With their backs turned to me before they've even seen m…
/r/seduction22/03/11 12:43 AM
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