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SAHNM/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 01:34 PM
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SAHNM/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 06:45 PM
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I'm a member of childfree and i dont hate parents because they are parents. I hate parents because sometimes i run into just plain horrible parents that dont teach their children to act like civilized human beings. I also hate parents that try to tell me i'll "change my mind" and dismiss my reasons for choosing to be CF.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/15 03:07 AM
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Of course all babies are different in their sleeping habits, but you might as well get a taste of what it could be like. For all we know you could have a baby that sleeps 8+ hours a night their whole adolescent life, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 01:12 AM
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I've never wanted kids, and my SO was pretty ambivalent towards the whole topic. Definitely see if you and your SO can borrow a friends or family members baby/toddler for a weekend, see how it goes. Another good test is setting your alarm for every 2-4 hours and seeing how you both respond to living and working off barely any sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 12:58 AM
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Met in 2007, lost touch while he was deployed. Reconnected in 2013, dated for 4 months until I moved to Texas and in with him. On our 1 year anniversary we got engaged. We'll be doing a courthouse wedding June 2016. I am almost 29 I'm a housewife, and I've gotten flack mostly from redditors about it (surprise, surprise....). No one irl has said anything to me though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 12:53 AM
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I will gladly take them off your hands ;) lol. They are more addicted to glass than their husbands. To me that is so sad. On one of the posts i couldn't contain myself any longer and had to post that if it was a choice between my pyrex and my fiance, my fiance would always win. ALWAYS. It's just stuff! So depressing to know that most women now think of their husbands as expendable and replaceable.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 07:42 PM
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I'm at the point in my pyrex collection where I only will buy a piece if I know I'll use it (right now I'm looking for the glass top refrigerator storage dishes), and I only have 7 pieces that I consider my actual collection! Same with my cast iron, and those were more of a hobby because I found them second hand and cleaned them up. I only desire a cast iron muffin pan and then I'm good on CI. When I see huge collections I'm just awestruck; yes they're beautiful, but why are you still adding to …
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 07:05 PM
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This was shared on a pyrex group Im apart of on FB. when I read it I couldn't believe that I do basically everything on there, except the items related to children (because we don't have any), and all the other women were posting about how they'd kill themselves if this was the standard and that their husband or SO better have a good reason for being late. It's insane the posts I see in that group. Lots of whining when husband says no more pyrex and a lot of posts throwing the word divorce aroun…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 06:39 PM
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This really blew up and I'm sorry for such a late reply. That being said you do not have to drink to go out and be social. I don't know you so who is to say if youre getting drunk on these outings, however drinking at all is not required to be social. If you're stuck with people who only want to drink while begin social, you might want to look into making new connections or friends. You said you aren't in the best shape, so how about a hiking club or maybe rock climbing meetups? Join a gym, take…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 06:31 PM
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Sorry for such a late response! I think they'd probably really enjoy it :) good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 06:21 PM
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I was definitely a party girl (and still am to a degree) depending on what you mean by "and still am to a degree", you might want to not do whatever it is that makes you say that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 05:55 PM
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I'm pretty sure that was the post i was in as well :) Other than my vintage pyrex i have vintage cast iron i have stripped and reseasoned. Recently i refinished an old (1963) two-tier end table (similar to this) that i absolutely ADORE. I think we got it for 15 bucks and i used extra paint we had from painting our kitchen to give it new life! Oh i also have some vintage linen tablecloths from my Oma, as well as one from an antique mall. Other than those things not much else. After moving I wish …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/15 07:21 PM
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that place is dangerous for me! lol Shipping is what always kills me though :(
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 02:08 PM
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You bet! Some of the members have some AMAZING collections :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 03:09 AM
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That is insane, lol. I'd believe it though, goodwill does some crazy stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 03:09 AM
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Ugh I wish o could find some at my goodwills. North Texas is dry!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 02:47 AM
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Pyrex Passion is the name of the main one. The rest are for sale or trade ones. That one is by far the best though :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 02:46 AM
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When i see a ton of posts from women hating on their so (or facebooks posts), I come here from some eye bleach/sanity. Just recently I subscribed to a bunch of Pyrex collecting groups on facebook. There was a HUGE post from a woman complaining that her husband put his foot down and said "no more buying pyrex." Hundreds of women jumped to her defense saying things like "kick him out!" and "I'd divorce him!" It made me so sad, not only for these women, but also their SOs.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 11:48 PM
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This is how i got through a lot of high school. Do the work, keep your head down, and move on. This one college class doesn't mean you're going blue pill.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 08:30 PM
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Might be more common but I'd have to say my immersion blender. I make bullet proof coffee a lot in the morning and that thing is just amazing for it. A few others would be my kitchen scale, all of my pyrex (vintage and new--i collect as well), and my food saver!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 05:29 AM
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Chiming in on my RPW "throwaway". Although I regularly delete comments and posts on my main account, I still would never drop the words "red pill" in a thread on Reddit. I've mentioned I'm conservative and believe in traditional gender roles and it still gets a lot of negative comments, but none so bad as if I said those two magic words. If you want to keep having one username, start deleting your history after about a week or two.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 11:43 PM
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both my fiance and i are ISTJs, however i am a ISTJ-T and he is most likely a ISTJ-A.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 06:02 PM
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I feel exactly the same way, except that I also feel a little out of place here as well. I'm not skinny (am currently losing a significant amount of weight), I have tattoos, and my fiance and I are child free...on the flip side of that I am conservative, dress modestly, Christian, a housewife, and practice traditional gender roles. It's quite a place to be in, sometimes it's lonely. I've just started ignoring it unless every posts becomes something about the patriarchy, cis white male privilege,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 06:06 AM
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It's ok, I'm just glad to be among the living still ;) Edit: deleted what i had originally put because /u/pildorasamargas worded it much better.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 04:58 PM
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Ive been in 3 severe car accidents. One i could have lost my arm in and one i could have broken my neck and died. I know where my fear of car accidents come from, lol. Anyway I just tell my fiance he is scaring me with his driving, or that hes giving me anxiety. Ive been guilty of yelling at him and subsequently crying about it because i was actually frightened, but I am trying to change that and use my words to convey my feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 04:39 PM
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I rarely wear make up at home, mostly because I just sweat it off anyway! However when we go out I do foundation, mascara, and fill in my brows. Occasionally I'll do the inner eyeliner, but its rare. I've never been into makeup, even when I had to wear it while in cosmetology school. It helps to have nice skin though :) My fiance thinks a ton of make up is gross. His ex SIL used to pile it on and he always would comment to me in private that he loved the more natural look (like me).
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/15 02:03 AM
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My fiance had colors and seasons drilled into his head as a child (he was home schooled and his mother instilled in him the great knowledge of being a "winter", "summer", etc.) So when we decided to paint the interior of our first home a few weeks ago, I made sure to pick out colors i liked and thought looked good. Then I asked him what he thought. It also helps that I am really indecisive so after asking him it is easier for me to come to a solid conclusion. We ended up choosing a rich brown (h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/15 04:55 PM
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My husband and I met on an online game (World of Warcraft) where we were in the same guild and had a close friendship for many years before we admitted feelings for each other :) After that we met in person and had an LDR for a couple of months until I could move to his state. I could have written this! Only difference being that we lost touch for about 6 years (he was in the Navy at the time and we were at different stages in our lives). He found me on WoW again a couple years ago and we starte…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/15 03:17 AM
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If he likes it, how is it embarrassing? Unless he is mocking you after the fact, I don't see the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 02:54 AM
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Sorry, just now saw this! I'm so glad I could help! In fact, you just reminded me to make more ;)
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 05:11 PM
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oh yay! im not alone, lol. Once summer starts winding down into fall i start to get cold around 60 degrees. Its like my body forgets what is hot and cold between seasons, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 09:08 PM
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I agree! I'm used to bringing out the summer clothes in 50 weather, lol. I guess it doesnt help much that most of my clothes is black from having to wear black or white in beauty school. I never realized how weird it is to have mostly black clothes; thats just how it was back home in the dark damp state of Washington, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 07:15 PM
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Oh dear, I bet your hair is gorgeous! I'm always torn, I know with finer hair I can keep cooler but jeez if I had thicker hair.... I did pick up a few bandanas and some headbands yesterday and those helped tremendously. I also tried a side braid but my hair is just barely long enough; I have to use a bobby pin to keep a few strands in place that can't reach the actual braid, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:28 PM
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I really need to get a setting spray. I just picked up a face primer yesterday which I'll try today! Usually I only wear foundation and mascara with a little eye liner unless we go out :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:22 PM
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definitely going to go pick up some bandanas and headbands today!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:25 PM
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To cut down on spending i made my own! I used this recipe, but left out the cocoa powder as i have blonde hair: http://www.instructables.com/id/homemade-dry-shampoo/ If you want an aerosol i would suggest Big Sexy Hair Volumizing Dry Shampoo. For a powder i recommend Caviar Anti-Aging Dry Shampoo Obviously making your own saves a lot of money if you're like me and have to use it every other day or two :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:23 PM
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hair donut? I'm googling it now, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 02:31 PM
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As long as I dry shampoo I'm good for volume and body, it's just I get so sweaty with my hair down! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 02:18 AM
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Where in Alabama? If you dont mind me being nosey, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 01:24 AM
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Hahaha, yeah, mine is wavy if I just let it air dry. Just rock the curls for awhile! I like to wash my hair ever 2-3 days and dry shampoo helps a lot with the oils that build up between washes. You could try washing it the night before, letting it dry, then using dry shampoo after it dries so it won't be wet in the morning!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 01:23 AM
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Gosh that is so cute, however my pony is like 1/3 to 1/4 of hers so it looks a little silly :(
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 11:36 PM
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i do really love messy buns, i just look so silly because of how fine and low density my hair is. However, i know lots of ladies with thick/coarse hair wished they had my hair, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 10:49 PM
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ohhh headbands! yes! need to find some fabric ones! Also: The makeup...yeah figured that out the hard way ;) lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 10:47 PM
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Interesting, I may try this. My only worry is that my hair gets pretty greasy. I'll have to shop around for a fine hair leave-in. I may be able to offset it with some homemade dry shampoo though :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 09:47 PM
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yeah, this is almost always my go-to while I'm cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 07:46 PM
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braids have never been my strong suit (even in beauty school), but its definitely an option. time for youtube tutorials!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 07:43 PM
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Even though I don't comment here all that often, the red pill is not new to me. I was raised in it. I'd like to echo what /u/Ojisan1 said; I think you are focusing way too much on the top "unicorn" percentage of red pill men. I myself am engaged to one of the average men with alpha traits. I'd also like to say that different men prefer different things physically. Now i may get downvoted and some ladies here (and men) may disagree with me...but I think it needs to be said: I am fat and I have ta…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 02:59 AM
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I need to work on 3, 6, & 12. Any time i do do this I usually hold my hand over my mouth, and it is usually done right before i swallow so i am not talking with a completely full mouth with food flying everywhere. However it is still rude. I am fairly shy and socially awkward, so if i dont know you, I'll usually only say a few words (especially when i first meet someone) I have recently started baking for my fiance's coworkers, and I even brought apple crumble when we visited his parents for Chr…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 06:04 AM
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ISTJ EDIT: Fiance is also an ISTJ (former Navy, not surprised at all)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 03:48 PM
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I went to beauty school and it is a big no-no (aka you get sent home) if you do not wear some kind of hose or leggings under skirts and dresses. Small details can really make or break an outfit.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 08:15 PM
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oh my, this is quite amazing! thank you for the linkage :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 08:09 PM
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Then she shouldn't be working in a store that sells foot cream IMHO. I went to beauty school and was REQUIRED to do pedicures. If someone didn't want to do them, too bad. Put on your big girl panties and deal with it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 05:56 AM
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I felt like this for awhile. What helped me was to pick up a side income to use for entertainment or things we want (and it gave me a sort of hobby). This way we can save more for a house and have expendable income at the same time. Just remember that other people have their problems too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 02:53 AM
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I dont have any advice about the store situation, but I myself has some serious callused feet and the only thing that works for me is the pedegg and applying bag balm right after.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 11:10 PM
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I would definitly consider these longer tops ("tunics") especially the last one! Seriously, those are what pass for dresses? ಠ_ಠ I really like http://us.asos.com/. Tons of cute dresses and they wont break the bank :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 05:57 PM
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I do laundry every 6 days. I use dryer sheets from Costco (Kirkland brand) and arm & hammer detergent (I love the smell). My fiance is a messy eater and we like to eat/cook bacon so if grease stains happen I just let a little dawn dish soap sit on the stain and then rinse and wash as normal. Good as new :D.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 05:31 AM
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If I don't force myself to fold it all, it'd sit there forever, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 05:25 AM
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So FYI...don't use a GF blend with A LOT of rice flour for the first links recipe. It did not go over well >.> lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 11:56 PM
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Ooo the coconut flour banana bread looks intriguing!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 11:55 PM
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Noted and bookmarked! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 11:53 PM
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The app is lack luster. I only use it to search on my phone when I'm bored. Using it on the desktop is much easier. I never understood the favorites thing. I just Repin stuff to my boards if I really like it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 12:10 AM
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hahaha, yeah, its not the best for shopping. You might like Wanelo for that though. Its similar to pinterest but its strictly for shopping and its much easier to order things! I mostly use pinterest for recipes, crafts, cleaning tips, and RP stuff (like old "how to be a good wife" things from the 20s-50s) that gets all my blue pill friends in a huff ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 11:19 PM
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Interesting idea! I may try this if things go awry.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 09:47 PM
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I just came back from Walmart and happened to find a tall pyrex loaf dish! SO STOKED! If they had had the Lodge cast iron loaf dish I would have gotten that, but pyrex will do! :D
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 09:45 PM
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I don't :( I don't even have a stand mixer. I do everything by hand (or hand mixer) and crappy oven (old hotpoint from the 70s/80s). Maybe once we buy a house though! that's what is taking up most of our extra cash flow :). Plus I cant fit any more appliances in this apartments kitchen. The crock pot has a home on the "dining table" lol. As for recipes, I hang out on pinterest a LOT! (I didnt even know they made ones with a GF setting! lol)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 09:44 PM
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hahaha, my fiance would say the same. Vegans aren't welcome here in Texas (at least not outside of Austin, lol).
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 06:29 PM
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Thats the plan! I all my old pans were more wide than tall :/
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 06:28 PM
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Seriously, I feel like you need to go buy costco sized cartons of eggs for coconut flour, lol. Actually the last time I tried working with almond flour I ground it myself, but I just couldn't get it fine enough. I wonder if toasting them first might help...hmmm.... Ive never used arrowroot, but I have used cream of tartar for "oopsie bread". They were ok, kinda chewy. But I learnt recently that you have to let them rest over night to get the bun-like texture. Ive never used flaxseed meal, but it…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 03:06 PM
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Ooooo, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:19 PM
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Well, we're just coming off of keto (very low carb) and since we don't have a carb macro to focus on (and the fact that I've REALLY wanted to bake things all week) I figured I'd try something with potato starch/flour but it seems you have to add tapioca and rice flour in with it to get that fluffy texture. I have a lot of experience with coconut flour, but it always ends up SO dense. The only decent thing i have ever made with just coconut flour is pancakes. I have heard doing a 3:1 almond/cocon…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:19 PM
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Oh wow, these are all fantastic! Thank you! I was actually going to go out today and buy the Bobs red mill, but I was wary of the beans. Glad you said something! I think I'll be able to find some King Arthur's around here. Thankfully from doing VERY low carb in the past I have some xanthum gum in my cupboards already :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:13 PM
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To be honest, I wouldn't want to eat Vegan food either if I was a man...
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 01:28 PM
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Is he bulking or trying to gain muscle? Maybe check out /r/leangains for some more ideas :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 01:48 AM
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I hate you for this, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 07:49 PM
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A good rule to remember is if it doesn't state +1 then just assume it is only an invite for you. I made this mistake once too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:33 PM
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there, there, time heals all wounds :) lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 07:49 PM
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Since I don't work, 99.9% of the housework and cooking is my job. The only thing I ever expect is for him to take the trash out to the dumpster and rinse off his dishes if he takes them to the sink before I can grab them (we also live in an apartment so not really anything else he needs to do around here). I have always functioned this way though, even when I was working full-time and living with an SO. I much prefer being a housewife to working. Except laundry. I really hate folding laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 07:37 PM
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Similar thing has happened to me: my fiance has been the bread-winner since I moved in...I now no longer remember my own debit card pin number.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 07:32 PM
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I just don't understand the effort this guy is putting out (and in return he's not even getting tail, let alone anything else). I read a great quote somewhere that your comment reminded me of: "Don't marry a women expecting she won't change, don't marry a man expecting he will."
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 06:59 PM
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Even if you don't do it anymore, its still quite amazing that you DID. I can only imagine the clean up!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 01:26 PM
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You're very welcome! :) 5 courses....you're an inspiration for sure!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 02:58 AM
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If you hate how she acts and talks, what are you doing? Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 02:55 AM
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I really love your post.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 02:32 AM
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