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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they sayTBH no <3 So when I started dating my first (and only) BF after finding FDS...it was definitely in the back of my head. But I quickly realized that I was smart and capable enough to make it through anything. I was NOT going to invest in this guy until I KNEW that his intentions were good. So I kept my emotions back a little bit, reigned in any crush I would get on him, and just watched. After a few months of amazing dates I started to trust him. But I vetted him hard. Any guy that was just looki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.This is out of line. You are derailing the conversation. You are making inappropriate statements. I'm not going to engage in this. It's racism and it's not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.You do still have white privilege even if you are from a primarily white country. If you immigrate or visit another country, that privilege is highlighted. Maybe it feels uncomfortable for you to have this conversation. That's called white fragility. Just like OGJammies initial comment that a lot of this mainstream feminism is created by and geared towards the needs of men....it is perpetuated by white women. Just because the adopters may be other races doesn't mean that it's not an issue. Sex p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are."These same feminists will Promote sex work as an avenue of female empowerment but discourage women from expecting men to financially invest in relationships and it makes absolutely no sense." These same men and privileged white women who get to dabble in sex work and kink without any long term repercussions** FTFY Get it jammies!! This is fire. Amazing. I love it. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 15 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out.it's totally a nod to getting cheeky when someone suggests Nandos, right?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 9 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out."During the movie he kept texting on his phone, scrolling through social media, looking around, staring at his hands ect. Again, noted." THIS ALONE. It's all egregious but seriously... <3 Good job though! You did the uncomfortable but right thing. Also, please mail me some Nandos. I miss it dearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Can a objectively unattractive guy be ever considered high-value?physical attractiveness is important to everyone...but also is very subjective. The relationship between attractiveness in appearance and HVT is that if you are a slob, don't take care of your health, hygiene, etc then those are low value traits. | /r/askFDS | 30/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Its not that Men here don't have actual experience, its that the men who've seen the worst of women are drawn here the mostBut like...you're easy too...so why does that matter? Also, just because she is easy for one guy doesn't mean she will be easy for you. You'll sleep with anything that will let you. Whereas women in casual sex, I imagine, still have certain standards or goals. I guess the only thing I can think of...is that casual sex is probably not actually enjoyable for women...not like connected sex at least. So perhaps you think it's only women who are very blessed to get off on anything or women who are tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Its not that Men here don't have actual experience, its that the men who've seen the worst of women are drawn here the mostInteresting...why wouldn't you consider her long-term/for dating? I mean, I kind of get it...because I would never date or even be intimate with a guy that claims to have slept with an obscene amount of women. But at the same time, I have not slept with an obscene amount of men. I guess I don't get why it would factors into things for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Its not that Men here don't have actual experience, its that the men who've seen the worst of women are drawn here the mostI just found all this pill stuff. Literally, never looked at it before this post today. I have heard of RP often but had not heard of Blue or Purple. I'm genuinely curious what you would think of a woman that had slept with 120+ men? Or like a woman that employed the practice/art/whatever it is to accomplish this? What is your end goal? I'm super curious and I am completely assuming that because you are in this purple debate that you are open to respectful discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Its not that Men here don't have actual experience, its that the men who've seen the worst of women are drawn here the most" To completely invalidate someone's life experiences, statistical evidence, and to demean them for speaking the unfiltered truth makes you the asshole " Just came to say that it should be "THEIR unfiltered truth". Just because you feel, think, or experience something doesn't mean it is THE truth. It's your experience or your opinion. Even science does not claim to be THE truth but rather a hypothesis that was tested and accepted or rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Revisiting "How to let a man know a date he suggested is inappropriate": A Discussiongross!! I had a guy last week invite me back to his apartment lol uuuh no! WTF so you're just messing around with every first date? Guess what, bub? Women are not going to accept fuckboys anymore. We are going to hold you to some standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Revisiting "How to let a man know a date he suggested is inappropriate": A DiscussionThis drives me nuts. I talked to my male and female friends about it and the consensus was that the semantics was important to both for different reasons. If he's doing it to be low value then you will find out when it comes to what he suggests. I think if men are confident then they are not afraid of the word date; however, I do think it's negotiable. Perhaps they have had issues with the women that take things too seriously or clingy too fast and that's why he uses different language. It's lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it isIt's not our job to make them feel special. That is a lot of fucking pressure to put on the women around you. How about go be fulfilled on your own and then try to to connect with others instead of codependency?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:02 PM |
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