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ConversationSEJ1970/r/seduction19/09/22 10:08 PM
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LifestyleSEJ1970/r/seduction03/10/22 06:19 AM
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I met this girl online once who changed a meeting spot two times... It was a simple meet and greet at a coffee spot... She changed it to a diner then to a restaurant the same day... After she made the changed change, I remind her that it was a simple meet and greet and not a full date and we should just do the meet and greet first and we can do the dinner date later... She insisted we go to the restaurant or no deal, like she was doing me a favor... I called it off and never contacted her again.…
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:05 AM
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Women are the gateway to sex but men are the gateway to relationships and marriage... 😉
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:56 AM
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Pretty is normally reserved for girls... It's a more feminine description, kinda like a man being called beautiful... It not the the worst description out there but certainly not the best for a man... Maybe her vocabulary is limited and she's just used to calling every one she thinks are attractive, pretty!!!
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:34 PM
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I think he included foreplay into the two hours... Lol...🤣 Even porn stars don't go for 2 hours, they break and come back to finish the job... 🤣 Even a nymphomanic would want him gone... This girl excitement would turn to "let's me get this guy the fuck out of here..." Leave now"!!! 😂🤣😂
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:12 AM
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You are in a quandary, but you can't have your cake and eat it too... Normally I would tell my friends to look up the definition for "oxymoron" when they have a contradictory statement but let me say this, never regret doing something that is good for you mentally... Sometimes, a set of actions or behavior though popular for some doesn't mean it is the right thing for everyone... There is a time and place for everything and you made a decision that it wasn't your time to do something so be happy…
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:41 AM
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I understand... Although looking from another point of view, she may accept the fact that that's your thing but it doesn't mean she enjoys it... It would be nice if she cleared that part up... We all perform better when we have that support and cheerleader in our corner but sometimes it not to be... I know a girl who has a boyfriend who does boxing 🥊, she never attended his matches because she said she don't want to see him being hit and bleeding... The guy accepted that and never invited her to…
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:51 PM
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If you don't know if the girl is into that type of sport there is no need to invite her to the event... She may even say yes just to be polite and not disappoint you but will not enjoy watch people bleed... As a matter of fact what's to say that she may not look at you differently from then on wondering if you like that type of sport if you have underlying violent issues... My friend girlfriend left him a while back because he's deep into watching movies with maximum gun violence and she said he…
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:35 PM
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You will learn in time that some women just like to play games... Some will say one thing but mean something else... If this girl said she wanted a relationship but wanted to just hook-up then she may have just told you relationship so she doesn't come off as a slut to you... On the other hand she may not have think the sex was good enough and changed her mind and this is her way of pushing you away... If she still wants to hook up with you after all this then she clearly has no issues with the …
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:25 AM
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He said he's 27 years old...
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:15 AM
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You may like to hike, and that's good but if you were trying to flirt, you should have tried as kind her, "if she likes long romantic walks in the park"??? Come on man have you never watched a chick flick??? Lol...
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:15 AM
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She gave you her number, that means she's interested in talking to you... As to whether it's just a friendship or romantic involvement only time will tell... Just take it easy and stop over thinking things... Start with simple conversations like how are you etc, and then you can bring the conversation to anything you remember that she like... I don't know how long you worked together, but you may have picked up on something... Leave your co-workers out of it, with them around she may decide to k…
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:48 AM
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Well, yes your post is really long, and it would help if you had add your age, since you did mention that you snuck her in... Since you were at a bar, I'm going with over 21 but still at home... From what I'm going to guess is that this girl is a young girl that just wants to hook up and have some fun and not looking for a boyfriend to settle and you started getting clingy and asking about other guys, getting annoyed with her if certain time passes without her getting back to you and God knows w…
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:58 AM
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"Out of fear" of what???
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:47 PM
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From reading some of the comments here one thing is evident, there is a lot of misunderstanding as to the depth of the "friends first" situation and that is understandable because each of us thinks differently from the other... From experience we know most women will be the one implementing the friends first rule, and although there are some guys who do too, they are very rare and often wealthy hence they want to be sure it's not a ploy or a setup and the guys who are not wealthy is often ostrac…
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:34 PM
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So I ask earlier "are you going to argue with everyone who reject your point of view or understand that everyone is entitled to their opinions???" as you were saying things like they were only keyboard warriors and they were brain dead... You replied that you were breeding conversation and thoughts... Really??? I also realize that those comments you made have since disappeared; did you delete them after my comment or maybe the moderator??? I know some of the comments wasn't really nice and I kno…
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:16 PM
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Are you going to argue with everyone who reject your point of view or understand that everyone is entitled to their opinions??? 🤔
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:48 AM
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Sad but true!!! But it's our fault, we don't ask for much or expect much from women overall then over time it became the accepted norm...
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:29 PM
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Unless you had her information in your phone or through her friends there should have been no way for a friend's suggestion to pop-up on your phone... Anyway the best thing to do is get out of your head and speak to her and not stalk her on social media... 😏
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:07 PM
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Drugs and alcohol is never the answer... You said that after drinking you become a different person with no filter... That doesn't sound good at all... Being braver to have confidence is a good thing, but up in people's face with no filter brave, not good... You mentioned likable... Most people when they are drunk they don't remember what's happening around them, so it's good that you remember stuff that you do while intoxicated... Your goal is to replicate your behavior pattern when you are dru…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:08 PM
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Be very careful of the advice that you get here... What works for one will not work for all... People talking about looks when you didn't even posted a photo... 😩 As you only spoke about online, let's address that... Different women are looking for different things... As humans are visual creatures I would say make sure your photo are on point... Avoid photos with a bunch of people, kids, and animals in them and focus on you... Ask your friends especially female one to help choose the best ones …
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:27 PM
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It's so refreshing when people think we are omnipresent and can be everywhere and see every thing, thereby knowing all... 😉 🤔☺️
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:22 PM
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"Yobo" gave some good advice... You should read what he wrote👍 What I would add to that is; you mentioned that your childhood friends have girlfriends and married...👰💍 Stop putting pressure on yourself to compare to them, maybe someone played matchmaker and introduced them, maybe it's pure luck, maybe it's confidence who knows; what I do know is that you are just 20 years old and have plenty of time...😉 Don't worry, you will get there too...👍 You still have plenty of time to make mistakes, get l…
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:38 PM
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Think I read about two comments telling you that you should have had sex with the drunken girl... 😩 DON'T listen to them... A drunk person can't really give consent to have sex... Too many cases out there with guys ending up on a rape charge because the girl was drunk and didn't remember the encounter... 🤔
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:52 AM
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She's a talker... If you don't like oversharing be honest and let her know...
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:42 AM
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You also said, "instead of the usual chit chat boring coffee date" you want to use the game to, I guess make it exciting??? A coffee date is not a marathon!!! It's a short event... Are you trying to tell us that you don't think you can hold an interesting conversation for a coffee date??? Be more confident in your game... No pun intended... 🤣😂🤣
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:07 PM
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😂🤣😂 That shit is funny as hell, but why would a 40 year old be in a retirement home???
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:35 AM
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Lol...🤣 For a meal or something... What about she wants to use him for sex!!! 🤣 You never know, it could be possible... 😉 Seriously when he said, they were meeting Saturday after saying she was rich, I thought he was going to say he couldn't afford to take her to the Cafe she always go... 😉
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:10 PM
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That sounds very much like marriage!!! 😉 Anyway, there was a lot to read on your post... Have a serious conversation as to what the problem may be and go from there... One of the question should be, if she has fallen out of love and found someone else.
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:41 AM
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That sounds very much like marriage!!! 😉 Anyway, there was a lot to read on your post... Have a serious conversation as to what the problem may be and go from there... One of the question should be, if she has fallen out of love and found someone else.
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:41 AM
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Thank you... 😉 🙂
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:08 AM
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Women come to my house and I can't get them to leave, literally... My house is always clean and fresh smelling... I don't store trash in my room and if I know they are going to be there all day I cook for them and they get to watch all the chick flick they want and they are free to tell Google or Alexa what music to play... Women will always feel special it you cater to them for a while and inclined to return the favor, unless you're unlucky enough to meet one of those selfish ones who only care…
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:58 AM
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Now that shit is funny... Lol... 🤣😂🤣
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:42 AM
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When you meet a woman that hard to read or unsure about what she wants, leave her alone or get ready for police asking you questions one day... It's not worth it...
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:49 PM
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Am I missing something here??? This girl already told you she wasn't interested in you romantically and you are still trying to push it... Take this from another guy, NO means No... Just move on... There's plenty of women out there who is looking for a guy like you... Stop butting your head against the wall...
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:30 PM
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I don't know what in seperation means, you either separate or you are not... If you are separated then they are not living together (I don't buy the story about separate and living together), then by all means you are free to hook up but this post is not about a separated couple is it??? 🤔
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:01 PM
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Last warning...
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:14 PM
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"I've found BLACKS"... Insensitive racist comment... DO NOT MESSAGE ME AGAIN!!!
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:40 PM
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No country in the world is exempt from racism, as we have even recently seen in Ukraine where they blocked black students from boarding busses and trains when people were fleeing the Russian invasion... European and Asian countries on a whole are racist and not exempt from racism... Even some African countries are fighting their own internal self hating demons after been exposed to and conditioned to think that there are other races our there that are superior to us based on the color of their s…
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:54 PM
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Japan??? Are you serious Asian countries on a whole are racist and Japan is no different... Now while it's fair to say that there are good people out there who are not racist, are open minded and love black people do not be fooled that it goes across the population... As a matter of fact in the days of slavery white slave owners often sleep with their black slaves and even have kids with them... It doesn't mean they weren't racist...
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:35 PM
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Confidence is a mindset not a fashion statement...
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:31 AM
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First, 90% of the game is confidence... If you have no confidence then no matter how well dressed you are will not get the girl unless you are rich... No confidence means you can't have a meaningful conversation and a turnoff for women... It's the complete opposite for women... A lot of women can't have an interesting conversation either and may not be the best dresser but women are the gate keeper of sex and guys are always trying to get some so they are always in a stronger position when it co…
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:03 AM
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This a very good topic and there are no rules on it or a right or wrong answer...🤔🙂 In my younger years it wasn't something that was brought up until during the act or after sex, and the one question up to this present day that never came up was can she orgasm... 🤔 It's something I care about and desire in a partner but have never thought about asking her... I think that it kills the mood and if she can't then it seem selfish of me to want to have sex with her because there is no real enjoyment …
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:40 AM
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Try meeting another girl... Don't go there... Bad memory plus drunk girl, equal prison time...
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:09 AM
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I don't know what really happen but I do know people lie all the time... Sometimes people take advantage of drunk women and sometimes women make false allegations against men... Sometimes you have to be more aware of your surroundings and try to read the the person you are with... And if I was accused of rape, I would be more smarter than to use words like, "pull a girl from the club"... It sounds like you use force to get her from the club...
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:34 AM
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I never knew that was a thing...🤔 The things people do for acceptance... 😒😫
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:08 PM
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No one can know what a woman thinks unless she tells you...🤦 It's a waste of time to think otherwise... If a woman wasn't interested in you but changed her mind later, it doesn't mean she was shy when she was in public before... People do change their mind!!!🤷 The only thing that you can do is show your interest, if it's reciprocated then it prove she is interested!!! 😉
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:52 PM
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You have to develop your skills at some point... Giving one word answers will lead her to eventually think you are not interested... The best advice I see for you right now is to write her a note saying that you are interested in her and you are wondering how she feels about it and you... You can also try texting it as well... While texting will breaking the ice; as a guy you will have to find a way to project confidence because women tend to like confident men more...
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:58 PM
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That's a good thing... It means they are shy... Also some people on a whole whether men or women thinks it's threatening, challenging and intimidating to stare people in the eyes... I read somewhere that Japanese girls are raised not to stare men in the face... Don't know if that's was ancient traditions or not...
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:39 PM
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This could have backfired and she think you were a regular there with some other girl or multiple girls... Being honest is the best move so in the future when your actions comes to light, no one will think you are always a fake... Unless you are just looking a quick hookup so it doesn't matter what she think...
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:47 AM
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It happen to more people than you realize... Even women complain about the same thing... I think because the internet provides a lot of options, people tend to want to play the field, see how many matches they can make and pick from the group, they show some interest in all the matches and then weed out the ones that didn't make the cut... There are those that started off liking you but the more they know you the less they see themselves with you long-term so they back away... Don't forget those…
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:17 AM
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I understand that the guy feel disrespected, and maybe it's just me, but if the guy didn't do it in front of me I don't lose sleep over things I have no control over... He has to have some faith and trust in the girlfriend, and the fact that the girl told him about the incident indicate she did the right thing by being upfront with him and letting him know... As I said the girlfriend could have complained to management about the unwanted attention or they don't eat at that place again... Problem…
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:01 PM
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I could understand if he tried doing that in front of you but he did not, so let it go... Your girl will get hit on all the time if she is attractive enough... What happen when she is out by herself, or at work??? Some of us guys tend to have this jealous streak and oftentimes get ourselves in trouble arguing and fighting over someone... I'm sure she can take care of herself and if she wanted to, she could have complained to the management at the restaurant... Let it go!!!
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:25 AM
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