SFWyup Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	The fact that men’s issues are largely (or entirely) ignored by the body positivity movement shows it’s mainly about overweight women wanting to be victims You obviously don't follow the houseplant hobbyist group on Facebook. Nudes EVERYWHERE this week. Male and female- celebrated equally. I guess it all depends on what forums you expose yourself to.	/r/MensRights	07/12/19 04:14 PM
-5	Crazy double standard imagine a news company taking about the tightness of a girl... I think it's more like talking about a woman's breasts, personally.	/r/MensRights	23/06/18 10:27 PM
1	"Why don't men want marrige anymore" I didn't read it like that. I read 'don't settle for a relationship that makes you unhappy.' And why should you? For whose benefit? I think the societal expectation of marriage, and even the concept of life-long monogamy, is ridiculous. We've got one life to live, why should we spend it with someone that makes us unhappy or unfulfilled? And why is this directed at women, when men cheat and "break their vows" as well? This is an honest question. This is legitimately not an issue I've heard voiced…	/r/MensRights	22/05/18 09:36 PM
1	"Why don't men want marrige anymore" Hm. Why should someone stay in a relationship that they are unhappy in? Shouldn't we all be on a search for happiness? This is a new argument that I have not been exposed to. Maybe modern marriage is an outdated social construct? Maybe society pressures us to get married before we're really ready to commit to someone?	/r/MensRights	22/05/18 04:07 PM
0	"Why don't men want marrige anymore" Sorry, can someone explain to me why this is so objectionable?	/r/MensRights	22/05/18 03:46 AM
1	Strawman arguments and dress code propganda - thoughts on this? Yeah, I don't think men generally mean to come across this way. Most men just haven't had to deal with that kind of attention, so they don't know what it can feel like.	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 04:01 PM
1	Strawman arguments and dress code propganda - thoughts on this? Lol No. I have edited my comment to better clarify. A specific example would be being catcalled from a car. It's not taken as a compliment; at the least it feels intrusive and at worst it makes you feel dirty, depending on what is said, when you're just trying to go about your day.	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 01:45 AM
2	Strawman arguments and dress code propganda - thoughts on this? Thank you for the empathy. I also empathize with the men who have been dismissed and treated poorly, which is why I subscribe to this subreddit. I want to gain perspective and challenge why I believe what I do (as a feminist- shh, don't tell the other guys here :p) I know all of these men have had legitimate experiences that have lead them to fight for what they see is right (and sometimes hostility), and the same can be said for women and feminists on the other side of these arguments. I don't …	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 01:34 AM
2	Strawman arguments and dress code propganda - thoughts on this? I've edited my post to better clarify what I meant. I do not think men are barbaric animals, and I don't think the men who generally exhibit these behaviors (catcalling, ogling, groping) are purposefully trying to hurt women or make them feel uncomfortable. Maybe they are with the groping? This is why I wanted to add my perspective to the conversation. I've never met a woman who enjoys this, and I would venture to say that most women have experienced it (as evidenced by the #metoo movement.) As …	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 12:28 AM
5	Strawman arguments and dress code propganda - thoughts on this? A female perspective here. Being sexualized feels objectifying, because the rest of my humanity feels stripped away. The man doesn't usually care about who I am, what I know, what I've accomplished; they only see me as an object that they could satisfy themself with. It doesn't feel good, and can oftentimes feel threatening and scary. On your second point, she is not considering her tank top and shorts as sexual clothing, they are just comfortable clothing to her. Edit- I was speaking about the …	/r/MensRights	20/05/18 08:17 PM
1	Men should work less to close gender paygap I don't think it has to be a zero sum game. Other countries guarantee paid leave for fathers, why shouldn't ours?	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 07:57 PM
2	Men should work less to close gender paygap Maybe the real argument shoud not be based on career, but on family. Daddies should be able to play a more equal role in childrearing, beyond just providing monetarily for them, which would require more time off. This would benefit society as a whole.	/r/MensRights	13/05/18 08:06 PM
3	Men should work less to close gender paygap I think the fix might be to shift our idea of what "success" looks like. Maybe we should value the role of fatherhood and family wellbeing more. On our deathbed, are we really going to be thinking of how far we got in our career or the regret of not spending more precious time with our loved ones?	/r/MensRights	13/05/18 07:53 PM
1	Men should work less to close gender paygap Female perspective here. I was able to work until I was full term during my healthy pregnancy, like most women I know. And the only time I took off was for regular doctors visits; my husband took off for most of those as well. I think this is a societal perspective issue. Why are we still assuming childrearing is only a woman's job? It should be a team effort. Of course the family has to be supported, but there could be programs put in place to allow for men and women to both take substantial ti…	/r/MensRights	13/05/18 07:40 PM