SGrosch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Spanish woman wears beard to feel safe walking at night, even though about 2/3 of homicide victims in Spain are men El loco	/r/MensRights	08/06/23 01:43 PM
22	What was your moment of realization? High school 1994-1995 The feminist teacher was a stupid bitch and would break her own rules on assignments to give women better grades, and was angry/strict with men. Feminists never impressed me once with their wisdom, logic, or debate skills. They always got angry, and said bs that I knew in my soul was common sense. So I’ve always treated them exactly as they deserve. With mockery and laughter!	/r/MensRights	03/06/23 01:31 PM
12	I am a 'creepy and strange man'. - according to one woman Sounds like you met a BLM/ liberal/ crazy B. No good can come if it. You screwed yourself by putting up with any of her BS.	/r/MensRights	19/05/23 01:33 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? I’ve taught in London. Not really. Stop searching for excuses. Countless guys are hooking up with fit birds all around you!	/r/seduction	13/10/22 04:07 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? They don’t suck. You suck. Bars can be awesome. Went to them for years to practice and years to teach/run boot camps. Go to more chill bars/lounges. Opener= https://stephengrosch.com/?s=Opener	/r/seduction	13/10/22 04:01 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? You may not have just started out. But if you are just opening with HI. Then you are making moves like a newbie. An indirect opener. Something that gets the conversation going. So you can get more reps opening and talking to people. So you gain confidence and experience with small talk= first step I’d recommend. At least 20x a week. Not all in 1 night. Like trying to lose weight, you have so be healthy the majority of the week. So spread out over 4 days. So you have 2 rest days/back up days if y…	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:52 PM
2	What age is a man's sexual prime? Good job! That is more than most do. FYI. First homework assignment I give phone coaching students is 20 cold approaches in a week. That is the baseline. A handful isn’t enough when starting out. 2nd. How did you open those 5?	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:41 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? How many did you do. Anywhere. In last 30 days?	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:37 PM
0	What age is a man's sexual prime? Good. But now what have you done to actually level up? How many cold approaches did you do in the last 30 days? -these are questions I ask all my Students.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:36 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? What measurable steps have you made to “try”. Reading and throwing shit against the wall hoping something sticks- doesn’t count.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:33 PM
1	What age is a man's sexual prime? Don’t even waste time thinking about this. Go out and approach and try and lose it!	/r/seduction	13/10/22 03:31 PM
2	What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t? You aren’t leveling up for the woman who isn’t into you. You level up to meet more women, and to be a better man for yourself, and the woman who will be into you!	/r/seduction	06/09/22 03:28 AM
10	I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed. Glue extra foam on the bottom of your flip flops, so they look like KISS platform boots.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 01:22 PM
3	Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to Choose They do have a choice, not to get prego. But once they do, then there is another human life in the mix, and I will NOT support murdering an innocent baby as a for of birth control. I support the babies right to life	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 03:02 AM
1	How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent? More than 1 drink an hour. Avoid. Too easy to ruin your life for a F. I’ve had multiple students have lives ruined over.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 02:06 PM
13	Tinder makes me depressed! Most guys profiles are horrible, you got to realize it’s basically an advertisement trying to sell you. What story does each pic convey? How does each pic make you look awesome? If you don’t have all that stuff dialed in thenyour profiles gonna suck.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 03:08 PM
0	My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on Schedule Just text like normal, like you would if you are friends/dating/etc. Something that happened. Something you talked about. Or what I would do, parking instructions/tips for the place we are meeting at. Think about what that sub communicates. And then if they respond and if positive you obviously know it’s on.	/r/seduction	28/05/22 02:07 PM
–	Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on Date I would have wished her well with her new friend and left. 0% fucks given is the man move	/r/seduction	14/05/22 06:51 PM
2	How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date? Demonstrate. Higher. Value. A.k.a. = awesome	/r/seduction	09/05/22 04:51 PM
–	How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date? I like to do a call back to something I brought up in our convo. The girl working the retail said of the Harley Davidson shop it was a whiskey tasting and open mic comedy show. Girl at the mall who loves beer, a cool beer garden. Bartender at a cool bar who made me an awesome old fashioned. Talked about this Sigur Ros movie that was playing at a small theater down the road. Vegetarian chick. The one restaurant on kitchen nightmares that Gordon said the food was great. Etc… Things that I bring up…	/r/seduction	09/05/22 02:15 PM
0	Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE? Triangular Theory of Love Google it Passion Intimacy Commitment Those are the 3 keys to an awesome relationship. Nice guy/AFC isn’t on that list. It’s passion kryptonite.	/r/seduction	04/05/22 02:04 PM
1	Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again. It’s an attraction test. To see if you built any.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 12:50 AM
2	Best tinder opener that’s not cringey It depends on her response. Always respond positively and just roll with. -see me here next time. Cool. Have a good night. -social media Connect and maybe message 1-2 times and like a pic or 2. Not a bad thing to have attractive women following you. Good for SP -number Get number then do a call back to a DHV date spot I brought up earlier in convo. Like Shabu Shabu. Ramen. Sushi with conveyor belts and robots. Cool whiskey bar. Etc	/r/seduction	24/04/22 02:27 PM
–	Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again. Only happens with party girls, who move on to the next shiny object Or With women you don’t build a REAL connection with. This is why I came up with the Bravo Number Close. “Hey I got to get back to my buddies, but you are really cool and we have to figure out a way to keep this going, do you have any ideas on how we can make that happen”? -I don’t recommend this as a SOLID number close. My fav is just getting their number by asking/telling them to give it. This is an attraction test. If she say…	/r/seduction	24/04/22 01:43 PM
–	Best tinder opener that’s not cringey Mine, which I’ve taught online game for years and tested everything. I like you. It works because it is so simple, direct, and easy for her to respond too. But it’s also a test. If it doesn’t work. It means your page sucks. When you page is dialed in, it works very well.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 01:33 PM
8	I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck. It’s hard work to level up, become a high value man, and be successful. As it should be. Lazy losers don’t do it, and get what they deserve. It doesn’t happen overnight. Years of being an AFC takes time to re-write. But as a guy who got into all this stuff, have been teaching for years, have the coolest gal I’ve ever met and a family. The juice is worth the squeeze!	/r/seduction	09/04/22 07:06 PM
-1	Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recover Horrible. “She didn’t seem particularly drunk” In some places even having sex with your drunk wife is “rape”. Never. Ever hook up with someone who is drunk or high. I kicked a girl out of bed, as she was laying their naked, and I was taking my pants off because she said “I wish I didn’t do that last line before I left the club”. I also turned on my camera and started recording audio after. Telling her I couldn’t have sex with her now, and we could on a later date (lie) but no way I could tonight…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:43 PM
2	Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recover I’ve met countless guys, even other coaches like this. Nothing important in their lives, and chasing P is how they seek validation. Always pathetic.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:42 PM
9	Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recover Horrible. “She didn’t seem particularly drunk” In some places even having sex with your drunk wife is “rape”. Never. Ever hook up with someone who is drunk or high. I kicked a girl out of bed, as she was laying their naked, and I was taking my pants off because she said “I wish I didn’t do that last line before I left the club”. I also kicked on my camera and started recording audio after. Me telling her I couldn’t have sex with her now, and we could on a later date (lie) but no way I could toni…	/r/seduction	08/04/22 01:38 PM
13	Social proof without much effort just clever prep 100% Amazing	/r/seduction	23/03/22 02:41 PM
–	How would you describe non neediness ? Think how a starving kid in Africa looks at a bowl of rice vs how you would look at the same bowl, after eating 30 nugs at chick fila.	/r/seduction	04/02/22 04:51 PM
2	[deleted by user] Be the exception, don’t like or comment. And if she’s a IG thot. Next her.	/r/seduction	02/02/22 08:46 PM
1	How introverts flirt? Online dating. Or walking up to someone you find attractive and telling them “I like you”= has worked well for me. -source. I’m an introverted ISTJ and a mens dating coaching for 15 years.	/r/seduction	29/01/22 11:56 PM
1	My little bro has had more sexual experience than me… “Having spent four years building a really good physique taking care of my appearance buying nice clothes” That is stuff that helps in the long run, later in life. But when young, esp HS. It’s more about energy and emotion. He’s flipping those attraction switches in women. That you aren’t.	/r/seduction	23/12/21 03:24 PM
2	How to explain to a feminist that 'kill all men' is disgusting You did explain. But your question should be, “how to get them to understand”. You can’t. They won’t. They are crazy. That’s why they are an angry feminist. I’m not friends with racists. And I’m not friends with feminists. That’s the solution.	/r/MensRights	12/11/21 03:46 PM
3	[deleted by user] This is why you “don’t shit where you eat”! You practice elsewhere, and you crush close by.	/r/seduction	04/09/21 01:29 PM
3	I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that? Women don’t want boys. They want MEN. Women also aren’t attracted to lazy boys who don’t put in effort to evolve/be better. Grow up Level up Work hard Train martial arts Be a man	/r/seduction	02/08/21 03:21 PM
5	The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus Strength Good points. Need to work on your image though. You don’t look like a guy who is walking the walk on this yet.	/r/seduction	13/01/21 04:03 PM
1	She abuses them, nobody gives a fk. She slaps one of the guy, he hit her back and Everyone goes mad. Fortunately, this guy sued the show and reached settlement and is now a successful actor in entertainment industry. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_India	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/12/20 06:35 PM
1	Lockdown is fucking me over, does anybody have any good date ideas? Something I wrote up and shared with my guys a bit ago= this was on Reddit’s AmITheAsshole and asked why it a horrible first date. Here is the original post- "K I’m a 20 year old college guy and I met this cute asian girl at a party over the weekend. So we were texting and we agreed to go out for lunch, well I took her to a Chinese buffet, I’ve been there before and think it’s good. Well she was really annoyed about it, she thought it was a “shitty” and “racist” move for me to take her there. I …	/r/seduction	01/12/20 09:15 PM
3	Recovering nice guys: Small acts of self respect It’s about him being #1 in his life. Not giving way to others, to strangers, to people who don’t have the “right of way”. If you don’t put yourself first sometimes, no one will.	/r/seduction	28/10/20 07:17 AM
3	Read the book Yes Man So as soon as someone writes anything down, you can take it? So coding, poems, movie scripts, songs= etc are all open source as soon as pen hits paper? Why do they need to be written down to be free? You sound like a commie	/r/seduction	17/10/20 09:33 PM
–	Read the book Yes Man However you feel like justifying it...go for it. I’ve been teaching this stuff for 14+ years. You guys might not think it’s an issue, but it is. This is one of those “death by 1000 cuts” line of thinking. Thinking you are entitled to something, that it isn’t a big deal to steal, it’s fine/however you mentally justify. Is an example of the way of thinking that has you here in the first place. There are simple/legal/free ways to read stuff if you want it. Not doing the work and finding on your own…	/r/seduction	17/10/20 04:06 PM
-15	Read the book Yes Man “Hope isn’t a good plan” You ignore reality, and his own words about his future actions, and instead imagine things and then assume he will do THAT. = that’s crazy. If he is too poor to buy the book, then he has other things he needs to work on first. But again, we don’t know. You imagine things to excuse shitty behavior. Lastly, don’t tell others how to feel or think. I call out BA behavior when I see it. This mindset of theft being OK, is connected to people’s other issues in life. Not having …	/r/seduction	17/10/20 03:26 PM
–	Read the book Yes Man Buy the book you cheap ass. Starting something, a positive change journey, that begins with theft= you are already starting off of the wrong foot.	/r/seduction	17/10/20 02:40 PM
–	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Depends I am not drawn to that energy so avoid it But If I want to I acknowledge it or joke about it. “Wow I bet that scares away most guys. Usually the ones with the attitudes are actually the sweetest, once you get thru the walls”. “Wow, I have a feeling you are single... you probably have bigger balls than most guys. Good thing I eat girls like you for lunch. ;)” Those kinds vibes But. You have to own and believe it.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 05:27 PM
0	Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list) I would add Gates of Fire & Starship Troopers To the list. Being a MAN and GREAT mindset stuff. We read those in my book club recently. Some good ones here I’ll add to our list.	/r/seduction	03/08/20 12:14 AM
2	Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list) The follow up RULES OF THE GAME had “lessons”in it. Which was really like the first 30 days of coaching assignments from The Stylelife Academy. But there are lessons in The Game. Just had to pay attention.	/r/seduction	03/08/20 12:12 AM
-3	Nothing hotter! Yes	/r/seduction	15/07/20 07:00 PM
-4	Nothing hotter! What!!?? Those are the ones you marry!	/r/seduction	15/07/20 06:37 PM
–	Treat women with respect, treat them like a human being, talk to them, don't pressure them - and it often plays out in your favor. “If a woman respects what you do, what you represent, how you speak, how you carry yourself. You don't have to be overly macho. You don't have to be overly complimentary. Gain her respect. Treating her as an equal. Don't bullshit her. Treat her as a human being. Treat her as you would treat yourself. As soon as you have that respect from her, she'll treat you with the same respect that you show. Then, you fuck the shit out of her.” -John Holmes	/r/seduction	17/06/20 01:48 PM
–	Cold Approached with immediate regret. No you didn’t. You went in too AFC and scared. Confidence is one of the biggest, if not THE biggest turn ons for women. You displayed very little Which is why many guys are told. “Fake it till you make it”	/r/seduction	02/03/20 04:13 PM
–	Cold Approached with immediate regret. You tried. Good But your attempt was horrible and doomed you from the start.	/r/seduction	02/03/20 04:04 PM
7	Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls? Yes So my mindset, when I am single is= “currently accepting GF applications” So of course I need to see if each new date is GF potential, as in depth as possible. Then when I finally find one that is so amazing that I would rather spend time with her, doing basically anything, than a crazy sex night with some new woman, I then seriously consider dating them. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don’t. Which is why I never settle and only have amazing GFs. Like I do right now. That check marks all the bo…	/r/seduction	11/11/19 07:00 PM