SHartley1985 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Use Match-making service to meet women?		SHartley1985	/r/askTRP	19/07/19 08:41 PM

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6	Early bird is not looking for entertainment anymore Its a saying with Russian women/green card brides. Somehow or someway they all have a cousin named Boris that needs to move-in to escape their home country and live with them. I had a friend who worked with several people who had wives that got married for green cards. And they all had similar situations.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 03:18 PM
6	Early bird is not looking for entertainment anymore Theres always a sucker. Always. Then when you get married, her "cousin" moves in. Plus they are very "close" cousins. So while your working, shes at home banging Boris in your bed.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 03:12 PM
6	Where have all the gentlemen gone? Good men are hard to find... She does not like cheap skates who don't like spoiling her! How dare you. Shes a strong 36 year old woman thats also a nanny that wants the nice things in life. How much you wanna bet shes lost her share of jobs because she kept sleeping with the clients? Honestly I havent met many good women that complain about cheapskates. It always seems to be folks from lower socio-economic status's, that desire a better life, and get upset when someone wants to take them to a $15/m restaurant instead of flemings.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 02:43 PM
20	I have some advice for this individual, but I don’t think that he wants to hear it. It starts with, “Stop dating“ and it ends with, “whores“. He's a man that just needs a wake-up call. The fact hes seeking out female sex workers for options means that either the people in his life aren't telling him what he wants to hear, or he doesn't have someone that can wake him up. Honestly, this is probably the hottest women hes ever been with and hes terrified of losing her.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 02:41 PM
36	I have some advice for this individual, but I don’t think that he wants to hear it. It starts with, “Stop dating“ and it ends with, “whores“. Sex-work is not safe, not even legalized pornography is. Ever see those articles about how all adult filming in LA shuts down 1-2 times a year due to HIV break-outs? And those mofo's get tested weekly. I can only imagine how bad it is in this line of work/ Im betting most people are praising his SO for being a strong and independent woman. And how dare this guy not like this. He sounds like a beta that needs a swift kick in the ball sack to wake the f up. Like what happens when a client deve…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 02:40 PM
5	Early bird is not looking for entertainment anymore I dunno amigo. I got a feeling from the wording this is less about post-wall, and more about getting a green card? The "relationship" she wants is marriage and citizenship.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 02:35 PM
7	Her last relationship probably ended because that she wanted to focus on her career and become a partner in her lawfirm. Now she is 43 and wants to settle down. You ever notice that with "teachers" who turn out to be para-legals. Or "nurses" that are Med Assistants making $11/hr? Ive always wondered why lie, its going to become obvious they make $25k a year versus the $80k+ the job really makes.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 02:33 PM
39	Her last relationship probably ended because that she wanted to focus on her career and become a partner in her lawfirm. Now she is 43 and wants to settle down. 43 is too late to have kids. Even if she found someone, it would be 44-45 before she had kids, which would mean a very high chance of complications. Im guessing shes one of the people who thinks theres a huge pile of young white babies to adopt to start a family. Ive met a lot of people like this, because of how movies/tv portray the adoption world. For those that dont understand, if you want a young baby/toddler, not only do you have to be fairly well off, you also need to have a long-term rela…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 01:51 PM
13	Her last relationship probably ended because that she wanted to focus on her career and become a partner in her lawfirm. Now she is 43 and wants to settle down. Nah Lorum is correct. I know exactly whats going on here. My dad used to have a GF that used to brag about how much she did in her "law office". What she was, was a legal assistant, but fully believed that she did all the work in the firm. To Land_of_the_losers, egotistical people with JD's do not "accidentally" select Bachelors. Hell if anyone even mentioned that was their highest level of ed they'd probably yank your head off.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 01:50 PM
11	36 Year old single mum now ready to ‘settle down’. It’s ok thought cause she’s ‘easily pleased’ by ‘nice cars, nice hotels, nice holidays and shopping’. "I like the good things in life", "Im not high maintenance". These two sentences do not go together. Im guessing shes saying shes expecting very expensive vacations, where you are paying, and her kid is tagging along. Hell, she may even allow you to stay in the hotel room and watch the kid while she goes out.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 01:48 PM
1	Poor girl. She has just enough self-awareness left to be cognizant of how she's completely destroyed herself beyond all recognition. Interesting, Ive never heard that phrase, but that definitely helps me understand it.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/07/19 01:42 PM
17	Poor girl. She has just enough self-awareness left to be cognizant of how she's completely destroyed herself beyond all recognition. I dont think thats the case. I think part of the issue is that women have been raised to not settle, to only marry prince charming. But they are 34, their prince is long gone. He was probably around in college, and probably the first few years of her career, but he wasn't good enough, or she wasn't ready. No one prepares women for the concept that as they get older, men won't desire them as much. Women do not age like fine wine. My sister is 33, divorced, and has one kid. And has insane standard…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/19 08:39 PM
18	Poor girl. She has just enough self-awareness left to be cognizant of how she's completely destroyed herself beyond all recognition. Tracergold, the problem is that is what shes used to. She probably used to get any guy she wanted for a long time by just batting her eyelashes. Shes probably discovered that most guys who date in this range do not have patience for single moms. Its not that kids are evil, but date nights turn into 2 hour segments, and staying overnight is non-existent. Expect anything in bed to be rushed because the kids are coming home soon. Its funny when I complained about dating a single mom once, I got cha…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/19 08:37 PM
5	Despite all those snapchat filters she hides beneath. The pain in her eyes are still clearly visible. What say you, do you see yourself waking up and having to restrain a man at 3 am? Alright men, whose ready, someones gotta take one for the team here. This wildebeest can't go unsatisfied for long. Also, if shes a "full time mama", she aint workin a job, or really doing much around the house. So youll also be footing the bill. In cases like this, she probably gets assistance, so once she gets married to someone thatll float away, and your money is now her money.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/19 08:34 PM
6	Poor girl. She has just enough self-awareness left to be cognizant of how she's completely destroyed herself beyond all recognition. Shes an attractive woman, theres probably plenty of decent guys that would even deal with the kids. But shes "picky". She probably spent most of her life dating any guy she wanted, and now shes 34 and its not so easy. Her dating market is mid 30's to 40's men. The guys she wants are either married, or are just playing the field with zero interest in getting married. And she's stuck. Ive also noticed something that most of the others in this sub kind of miss. They do want a kid with whomever th…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/19 08:31 PM
3	PSA: We are not here to shame beta men. I think most people dont realize that most people dont even think of themselves as BB's, or even what it is, its not a common concept or idea. And the truth is we all need to go through it. The concept of a woman using you for your money is not just something you learn from a friend or from an online reddit. You learn by being the sucker. Everyone thinks that this just happens to naive millionaires like in the movies. Heck just making 70-80k these days is enough. It took me close to 3 relation…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/07/19 01:53 PM
4	Husband finds out that wife is a sex worker and that he comes after her "job" Its funny how most people will white-knight this woman and defend her. But if a guy did something similar, there would be freaken pitchforks. Lets have an equal standard or none-at-all. Im sure wherever this is from there are plenty of people praising her for being a strong-independent woman.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	24/07/19 01:57 PM
1	[19F] "just lookin for someone that won't break my heart, i am preggo but planning on putting the child up for adoption" ... Bitch, I'll treat you right, but you can keep the shit-pie, I ain't waiting around to find out if you could possibly be that callous to send off your superior progeny Im really at a loss for words here. Maybe, just maybe, her dating life style is the problem. Wait never mind, in this day and age its the man's fault. Always the man. Even though women need to be strong.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	24/07/19 01:32 PM
2	Looking for Mr Right to raise her 3 bastards.. she’s already tried Mr Wrong, Mr Cheat, Mr Narcissist, Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde (5 Chads) "I have 3 kids" and "Im morbidly obese", where is my prince charming???? Im getting kind of curious why every woman thinks she deserves prince charming. I dont know any guys that expect to date a model or celebrity. So why the difference?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	24/07/19 01:29 PM
2	‘Done with the party lifestyle’ - ‘My son is number 1’ - ‘don’t be a dick’ "My son is number one", except for when Im netflix and chilling with some random dudes a room away.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/07/19 07:41 PM
31	5 kids, 2 on the way and shopping is her hobby. Her babies come first, so you better be ready to make her first, them second, and yourself last. Ahem sir. She is a strong woman, dont you question her life choices. She's strong and independent and has made no mistakes in life. How dare you not consider her for marriage and the accompanying 20+ years of financial support when she tricks you into being around long enough to count as the father.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/07/19 07:41 PM
18	5 kids, 2 on the way and shopping is her hobby. Her babies come first, so you better be ready to make her first, them second, and yourself last. FIVE? Five Kids? Two babies on the way? What kind of guy is going to step into this? I truely dont get this crap. I get why they say the "kids come first", but what kind of man wants to deal with that?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/07/19 07:40 PM
3	[26F] "I'm a single mom to a 20 month old daughter. Looking for my Mr. Right who must be good-looking, a family man, good with money, good manners, and promotes moral excellence." Where are all these requirements coming from? Why do they think theyll find a man with each of these? Why does every woman think that each man needs to step-up and be a step-father and take care of her and her family? Because, btw, its HER family. I blame this "hopeless" romantic crap more than anything. I keep meeting women on the search for Prince Charming, while never asking themselves, why does the Prince want me?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/07/19 07:38 PM
10	It's the weekend and mods are asleep. Time to post memes FTW. I dated a single mom for the first and last-time this year. It lasted 2 months. Within those 2 months, she asked when we were getting married, and when we were moving in together. I really thought yall were just bitter about women looking for a bail-out, but holy sh*t. Its a real thing.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	19/07/19 08:54 PM