SJUchris Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What the fuck? +1 on the talking to people, if you have that relationship with any friends/family. If this is new to some you don’t just wanna come out of the woodwork with it, start slowly. One way to better yourself is to better the relationships you have with others. You’re already making progress here too! Reddit really helped me.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/26 04:57 AM
5	What the fuck? Tough to read but easy to envision. Echoing another comment on here about the grey rock method. Start slowly putting it into practice because it sounds like she will notice. Just kinda be a dick, but don’t let your kids notice, they’ll start noticing that you do everything and that you’re the cool emotionally available parent as they get older. Perfect title choice too because I bet you’ve said that to yourself so many times.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/26 04:40 AM
5	Midlife Crisis or Midlife Clarity? Anyone Else Initiate Divorce? I can definitely relate to this. She was never curious of my feelings, she would just tell me or assume how I'm feeling. No cheating that I know of, we were together for a while and there were certainly times I was suspicious. I did catch her in somewhat of an emotional situation with a coworker, this was one of the many times I look back on and wish I had ended it there. We fought and disagreed on things but I always thought we were good at resolving them. I think she was good with ending an ar…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 09:28 PM