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It’s not because she’s a woman over 30. It’s because she found and participates in an online board specifically for women over 30. It’s like going to a sub for male mental health and not expecting rants about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:10 PM
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Ideal is around 5’6 but height is virtually never a dealbreaker for me between 4’11 and 6’ I’m right around 5’8 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:00 PM
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Fall weather has me missing college ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:58 PM
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She’s on a subreddit called askwomenover30, it’s a given LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:55 PM
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I think “taller than me” is a pretty accepted and uncontroversial standard. Most men, even across racial lines are taller than most women, so it’s far from unreasonable to expect. What do seem to be getting louder are the voices saying they want very large height differences, short and tall women fighting over the tallest men, calling average “short”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:09 AM
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I think it’s always been there, but social media really drove things crazy as of late. I’m 5’8, which is pretty middle of the road, but there have been plenty of times in dating (online and off) where I’ve been rejected over my height. It’s not nearly as catastrophic as some guys make it out to be and I still have success, but it’s not really something we can ignore, especially guys that are even shorter than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:01 AM
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I find it hard to believe, but it could be a demographic difference. I’m 25 and I know many women that are loud and proud about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:42 AM
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I actually tried deep sea fishing for the first time this year. I was absolutely terrified (I hate the ocean) but it was pretty fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:07 PM
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The teams I’m attached to bring me no joy. In fact at this point, it’s hard to even be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:06 PM
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My plans to move to the city completely fell through, I’m officially a 26 year old live-with-dad NEET 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:55 PM
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This is kinda dope though, what sneakers you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:54 PM
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How long until this “new generation” actually gets a say? The old heads aren’t interested in giving up their seats anytime soon. Us Americans didn’t even get to choose a candidate that wasn’t actively pro-Israel this time around. How long before we get that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:02 PM
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Not that hard to believe, I’m in the “no one here is normal” camp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:00 PM
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Good one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:59 PM
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Lmk when you find her and if she has a sister
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:22 PM
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What’s the seasoning on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:21 PM
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They’re the ones who deserve it wym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:05 PM
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I just can’t imagine comparing my situation (being kinda picky) to someone who gets nothing at all. That’s such a slap in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:39 AM
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Yeah I never really understood the idea that short guys would have an easier time with tall women over short women. I think that’s just R*dditors talking out of their asses. I’ve been explicitly rejected for my height a couple times in person, and the majority of the time it was a woman around my height or taller. I’ve pulled women at my height but even then it’s much more rare compared to even a few inches shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:37 AM
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Drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:04 AM
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I’m pretty sure it’s a studied phenomenon that lower class women prefer more hypermasculine men compared to upper class women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:55 AM
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Tu eres estupido
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:53 AM
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It’s actually sad how people don’t realize hypoagency is not a good thing and hurts women just as much as it helps them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:20 PM
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It’s so pathetic, instead of trying to elevate other talent they tear down the one person keeping the league relevant. It’s like they’re trying to fail, but I don’t know why they would want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:14 PM
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I’d say this is true 9/10 times, but that 1/10 chance is what keeps people hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:09 PM
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I bought a few t-shirts from everlane and each one of them fit in a uniquely horrible way with defects and patterning errors. I also tried on some of their pants and t shirts in a store and none of them really fit me right and the fabrics felt ass for the price. Maybe their mens collection just sucks and their women’s is better, but I’m cool with saving money and sticking with Uniqlo for basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:08 PM
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I actually like zip sweaters on women but that one has a weird shape. I like the black polo sweater but I’ve had bad experiences with everlane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:34 PM
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It totally depends on your phenotype and environment. I don’t believe beauty is subjective but I do believe it’s mostly arbitrary. There are many cultural and demographic factors that can determine how easy or difficult it is to find someone that (statistically) matches you. I’m not really married to the idea of “looksmatching” anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:16 PM
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👎👎👎 this is discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:50 AM
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Not to be morbid but dying in pain And the ocean lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:42 AM
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Whats the downside?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:41 AM
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B cups are not small
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:40 AM
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The wire and true detective s1 are on the same level to me. Haven’t watched Deadwood past the first episode, but I hear it’s one of those rare shows on the same tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:57 AM
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Weird, the poppy country is usually what I like least. I like the older bluegrass style stuff more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:22 AM
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Some of the best TV ever, it was on another level. Was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:21 AM
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That’s not really how it works anymore tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:20 AM
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Haven’t been to a shrink in years but I remember one of them told me those chill conversations are just as important as the heavy stuff. Good to get the baseline. I also remember that guy telling me I was too “good looking” to be single at 17 so ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:44 PM
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Learned a new term today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:41 PM
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Just went through this myself. It genuinely sucks, sometimes even more than being rejected yourself. The worst part is, if you know she really likes you, then you definitely have to do it. What starts out as something you feel like you should do becomes the right thing to do, and it fucking hurts. My tip: if you can keep it over text, do that. If she wants to call you to talk, don’t do it until things have cooled off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:09 PM
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Honestly, compared to my friends in relationships I have so much more free time and disposable cash
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:05 PM
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Because older =/= wiser, unfortunately. Part of the fun of being young is figuring shit out on your own, even if it means fucking up all the time. I’m older gen Z, but I recognize that the younger people in my generation basically had a completely different experience growing up, so I only give advice when I know it’s warranted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:04 PM
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My dad had me play softball as a little kid and I was so uninterested lol Glad he tried, just wish my parents tried some other sports too instead of writing the whole thing off. Woulda enjoyed some tennis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 PM
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Rough month, a “when it rains it pours” kinda situation. Layoffs suck. Should I move to the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:01 PM
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It’s worth a shot, but don’t feel like you have to go with the first counselor you try. Quality of counseling is all over the place especially when it’s at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:01 PM
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I just mean the prevalence of drug addiction among creatives Sure it happens in every industry but not this often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:09 PM
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Damn, people saying it was drugs. So many artists gone from OD, it’s crazy when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 PM
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Self control is rare in general, so that really skews it Without knowing how attractive she is I’d say a 8/10 rare, as in I’d expect less than 20% of women to be like her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:58 PM
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I haven’t been on the apps for a while but isn’t it required on most of the big ones now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:56 PM
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So I’m the male equivalent of flat chested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:23 PM
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Nah as a dude also trying to cut back, constant weed definitely makes you foggy and tired It’s ok in moderation but every day is prolly too much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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That’s even worse, you’re telling me a 6’3 millionare can’t even find a sex worker? Something else is going on for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:05 PM
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Imagine not even being able to find a woman who wants to take your money, that’s freaking brutal 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:56 PM
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It does always seem like objective ratings are higher, which doesn’t make sense. You’d think they would be able to recognize someone as conventionally attractive but not their type. Straight (?) women rating women’s attractiveness with no input from men makes no sense anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 PM
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TRM is literally a reactionary sub to the original rateme that basically rated every woman a 10/10. The former deliberately rates women 1-2 points lower. Idk how they rate men but I assume most male posts are ignored Numbers are stupid anyways. There will never be a consensus, only traits commonly seen as attractive or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:46 PM
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I searched for some of my celeb crushes on r/ vindictaratecelebs, the place with the most objective ratings on the internet. They rated Jihyo from TWICE a 7/10, and called Jennie Kim “average” and “washed out”. Natalie Dormer is also a 7. I got an 8 on photofeeler once, so in theory…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:37 PM
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Literally means Spanish for 90% of bilingual Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:56 PM
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I’m not really an anime guy either but when it’s good, it’s good. Sometimes the art and the story just hits. I broadly prefer anime movies over series since the quality is higher overall. Some of those 80s and 90s anime movies are dope as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:05 PM
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No, it will grow out longer where it’s thick enough. The issue is that it’s not equally thick in all the places you’d want a beard to be, like between my lower lip and chin. The result is patches of grown out stubble with bare skin in between. Hence, me saying it’s not “filled in”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:53 PM
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Yeah, although picrel is definitely on the short side. Most women won’t look that good with pixie cut [Karen] hair, but it’s still possible. Tons of k-pop idols have shoulder length hair or shorter and it looks great. Jihyo from TWICE is a good example, everyone loves her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:46 PM
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I don’t know man, at least in my bubble of liberal 20 year old college students/grads, most people I know have heard or talked about these things. Obviously most young people aren’t debating TRP sidebar philosophy but these topics aren’t far removed from mainstream discussion at all, at least in gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:39 PM
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Not everyone can just wait and eventually grow a full beard, age and genetics are factors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:25 PM
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I have a cat, minox is off the table I think I look better clean shaven anyways, that’s just a comment I get if I don’t shave for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:19 PM
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“You should grow out your stubble so it fills in instead of being so patchy” Wow great idea man, I’ve never thought of trying that before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:05 PM
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Not sure how this is supposed to make anyone feel better Everyone knows the 6’ standard is arbitrary, doesn’t mean women with that standard are going to lower it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:03 PM
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Nah don’t play w me like that I’d fold
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:02 PM
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Man, asking people to open up about traumatic experiences and then shitting on them for sharing is a new level of awful, even for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:12 PM
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Truthfully it takes a lot more empathy than the average person has to see an upsetting post and still consider what the poster has been through to lead them to post that. Too many people assume that they are emotionally intelligent when they’ve never actually worked on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:54 PM
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Just respond with the DSM page number of the behavioral disorder we’re most likely to have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:30 PM
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I have so many unkind things to say about that comment section Who knows, maybe they do actually work and I’m the idiot after all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:07 PM
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The fun part is now even the men studying those things are struggling to find work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:04 PM
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Venting can be good, but I think you put too much stock into these responses you get from people. Most of these redditors that post angry responses to your rants are just as bitter as you are, if not more. Even if you’re just venting it’s on you to figure out who responds in good faith and either accept or discard their comments emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:50 PM
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I’m loving this dude, I hope he posts more threads
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:16 PM
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I’m gonna go against the grain and say that it is going mainstream, just slowly and in a different form from what you’d see in a place like this. I’ve had “normie” friends my age mention alphas and betas, 80/20, 6/6/6, passport bros, racial dating statistics, all kinds of terms and topics you’d typically assume were only present in dark corners of the internet. It turns out when things affect a large number of people, especially young people with social media, they’ll speak up about it. I’d expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:28 PM
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Fair enough. There’s plenty out there, and some of the stories would probably shock you. Best you get the stereotypical idea of a white male Trump voter out of your head now before your mind is blown again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:44 PM
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I don’t care about money and I don’t flash mine at all. I don’t even consider myself all that successful career wise at 25. I’ve still been heavily vet for “ambition”, my credit score, my job offers, etc. from women that were my age. This stuff matters. It’s not all women, and I have been with lovely women that were attracted to me without asking about my financial status. It would still be naive of me to say that money is not a very important component of attraction for men, and even moreso for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:43 PM
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No offense dude but that’s naive. There are plenty of immigrant groups in the US that are not only pro-Trump but actively anti-immigration. Whatever path they used to immigrate is the valid one, of course. Those other immigrants are the ones that ruin countries, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:36 PM
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The point is it doesn’t matter who you are, women are going to look at your money. They will view men with less of it negatively and men with more of it positively. What you choose to do with that information is completely up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:30 PM
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The “manosphere” encompasses men from the furthest reaches of the conservative right to liberal feminist men. The redpill perspective is that of information, that LMS (looks, money, status) are the main methods of generating sexual value as a man. It doesn’t necessarily say to lead with your wallet, it says to know that it is a consideration for women and plan accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:09 PM
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5/10 bait, why not use the already established healthy (19-21) bmi range?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:02 PM
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What changed your mind exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:59 PM
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I swear to god my mom thinks she’s gonna freaking marry Donald Trump or some shit. She went from a regular Christian immigrant woman to spewing baseless conspiracies and saying awful racist shit about my black friends. And she wonders why I don’t want to live with her LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:58 PM
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Kanye was the posterboy for boy rot up until recently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:25 PM
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Honestly as a fairly ethnically ambiguous dude I prefer when people just ask directly. Nothing wrong with being curious and wanting to know more about me, it’s actually pretty flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:39 PM
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Anyone with TikTok should read the comments on the third link. The woman in charge of the event clearly has contempt for men, and instead of trying to figure out how to reach out to men to get them to attend, she doubles down and insults them. That really says it all doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:07 PM
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This scenario is funny asf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:08 PM
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Idk, I’ve made out with a fair number of girls and they all do it differently so there’s definitely a learning curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:07 PM
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To be honest there is no comparison for an uncontrollable, common trait that’s universally disliked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:08 PM
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24F, 32M, small penis, dating advice sub You could plug those keywords into an algorithm and guess the comments based on them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:07 PM
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He’s the self-aggrandized figurehead of the current manosphere. A living representation of male regressivism (not a real word). Without him there would be no leadership for the opposition to attack since the actual manosphere is too fractured and diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:53 PM
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Passport pilgrims
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:50 PM
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That shit is actually still funny too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:50 PM
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Self identified “empaths” are the “alpha males” of women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:38 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:37 PM
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Mine’s more of a scale model
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:36 PM
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The hottest women I know are usually in LTRs at any given time, but that could be selection bias. Some do fuck around in between but I don’t know for sure unless someone tells me. I usually do assume they’re off the market if I don’t know them, but the thought stops there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:31 PM
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That’s pretty much what I said to her last night. It’s a lesson she’ll have to learn on her own unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:20 PM
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Hate how much this resonates with my experience. So many “progressives” don’t actually seem to live by their stated principles and are actually atavistic as shit in their personal lives. I’m broadly progressive but ideological integrity is so important to me too. I’d much rather spend time around conservatives who practice what they preach than liberals who are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:18 PM
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25 young enough? I’m technically gen z. My “bubble” is coastal, liberal, mostly white and Asian people in their 20s. There’s a gap, but it’s mostly in mentalities and values rather than actual political policy differences. Most people I know my age are openly liberal, although I’m friends with some conservative guys too. Very few conservative women. I’m sure a lot of guys are more conservative than they let on, but your best bet is to find a woman who won’t grill you on politics in the first pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:14 PM
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It went pretty badly with letting her go, I sent the text but I should have never picked her call up after. Learned a lot about what not to do next time. Either way it’s over, and I can breathe easier. That’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:10 PM
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Right and if you were shit on by tall guys you’d prefer shorter. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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Because there are a lot of us who either don’t care, prefer around our height or even taller women. Women’s preferences are statistically far more convergent and yet it’s like pulling teeth getting people to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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“He’ll be in Thailand in two years” One of the top comments 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:57 PM
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<image> Pretty surface level questions but I’d say my results check out for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:54 PM
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I agree with the title, the game has changed and it’s harder than ever for young men to find a foothold in dating and attracting women. Ignore all of the silly advice and anecdotes from 50 year olds about how their teen son is totally hooking up every weekend. But I can’t back up your observations, they are way too fatalistic to be true or useful. As a 25 year old who wasn’t in college that long ago, there were far more men in relationships than just the top tier chads. This included relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:22 PM
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This would definitely work on me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:33 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:32 PM
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Hence the repeated inquiries
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:31 PM
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Me: “I’m a stoic, rational, and independent man” Also me: googles “does my cat actually love me” for the 3rd time this year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:03 PM
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@redpill-mind I have some unused passes if you need a bailout. They might not be board approved tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:01 PM
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Actually based, I’d feel embarrassed as shit if my wife cooked every single meal for me. My dad was the primary chef growing up though, so maybe that’s why I feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:59 PM
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Hate to pull this card but men are even worse with that shit. “Best Pussy Disorder” makes me want to vomit when I hear it. They fuck crazy women and then complain that they’re crazy. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:58 PM
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Anything that confers money or social status You can be the worlds best fingerstyle guitarist but until you perform in front of an audience it does fuck all in terms of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:36 PM
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I stalked your profile a bit ngl In my experience there is definitely a demand for nerdy, cutesy, black dudes. A lot of my close friends from high school were like that and found success with artsy girls and especially European girls. I’m not an expert on the ins and outs, but I do know the nerdy black archetype is far from dead. And trust me, those carhartt mullet guys dip into my pool too. It’s an epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:26 PM
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Many such cases I’m afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:16 PM
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I would, and that goes for everyone, including myself. I personally enjoy examining why I like the things that I do. And “supremely bigoted” implies that preferences can be judged ethically after all. Leonardo DiCaprio has a pretty clear preference, should we judge his character by it? Many people already do, and I think that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:12 PM
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It’s probably a negative for the majority of straight women (unless you’re very hot). That being said if you want to try it I would just do it. Nails grow fast. I’ve said a few times (today, actually) that alt women are often not more flexible about masculinity. In my experience the quiet, nerdy types of girls are. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:57 PM
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I think someone’s preferences, as well as how they talk about them, can tell you a lot about what they actually value. If a person’s preferences don’t line up with who they claim to be, people will be rubbed the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:47 PM
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Hitting on her mother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:41 PM
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I’m lacking in certain phenotypes that Swifites seem to prefer. I’m okay without it. Nothing wrong with liking her music but I probably wouldn’t enjoy dating a self-identified “Swiftie”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:40 PM
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In my experience they don’t but I’m sure it varies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:24 PM
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I guess the women in the posts are more likely to be attention seekers, so maybe not. It’s still boring. What’s the point of a roast sub if you know exactly what the roasts will be every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:22 PM
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R/ roastme sucks nowadays. Every time a woman posts the top comments are always some variation of “ur a slut lol”. Literally doesn’t matter what the woman says or looks like. It’s not that it’s offensive, it’s just boring knowing exactly what’s gonna be in every single thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:38 PM
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“Bluepill” doesn’t mean anything on its own, there are just a number of male posters here who seemingly only ever criticize men and defend women. They get labeled “simps” even if that’s not the correct term They stand out since their female equivalents (pick me) are much rarer here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:34 PM
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I just call them on whatever I don’t agree with. Just because I agree with someone on one thing doesn’t make me “on their side” for everything else, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:12 PM
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Sounds like how suburban girls view NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:06 PM
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Fat to healthy weight can be a big jump, it can likely change someone’s entire appearance Skinny to muscular is definitely a smaller jump but in the US it’s probably worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:01 PM
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I literally said I believe you and that women like you do exist. I’m just saying that the belief that most women want masculine men is one born from lived experience. As a man who is not completely masculine, this is something I have to deal with when I date. And I’m telling you that, in my experience, there is little to no demographic escape from the standards of enforced masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:24 PM
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No, I don’t think you’re lying at all, I just think people tend to underestimate the power of conformity in these conversations. It has been my experience across different political and cultural groups that women overwhelmingly prefer men with conventionally masculine traits. Whether or not this is cultural or biological is up in the air. It’s not that women who don’t prefer these things are weird or extreme outliers, but it’s clear that the supply of non-conventionally masculine men outweighs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:35 PM
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Honestly a great point. Seems like fabric would be a similar issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:42 PM
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Real men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:40 PM
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I’m sorry but this has not been my experience at all. I’ve lived my entire life dating and spending time around liberal, non-traditional woman, and the vast majority still desire traditionally masculine traits and behaviors in men. This extends to bisexual women too in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:23 PM
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It’s either that or being alone for the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:19 PM
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Yes, I’ve got a 2 year old feral kitty. He doesn’t really hang out on my bed though, usually he’s under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:17 PM
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Is a leather headboard tacky? I feel like it would look cool in my bedroom but it might age poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:05 PM
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1000 (Misato Katsuragi cosplayers) : 1 (Me)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:38 PM
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You can’t tell me the idea is only held up by men though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:24 PM
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“Oxford study” top comment 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:03 PM
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Lotta people here are experts in Asian households all of a sudden LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:59 PM
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I went to a catholic college, it’s hilarious how many kids would straight up change their entire life stories when their parents were around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:58 PM
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Jokes on you I like trying new shampoos as a dude. Conditioner and hair product too, like seeing what works with my perm. It really is a man’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:53 PM
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Just work in IT, women there are silent every day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:47 PM
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The masculine option is hard drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:48 PM
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When did r /self turn into PPD 2.0?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:47 PM
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The title doesn’t really match the body of the post. You list expectations placed on men and women but don’t explain how either is more “internal” or “external”. I never felt the need to hit the gym hard until I started dating. Never cared about my height or race until I started dating. I never felt the need to limit my emotional responses… until I started dating. I never felt pressure to make 6 figures… you get the idea. These things all come from external influences, they’re not things I decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:36 PM
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This is a wild comment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:03 PM
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Yes, although in my experience the bi girls I’ve met tend to like hyper masculine guys, which I am not. So most of my dating history is straight gals. Every now and again a girl I’m seeing will ask if I’m bi, and every time I tell them I’m straight it’s met with relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:39 PM
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There is an entire world of men besides PPD dudes with red flairs Even single moms can still easily find dates while openly displaying their children (the correct choice imo) High n women and women with… male friends have absolutely no issue finding partners in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:36 PM
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Unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:34 PM
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It definitely is, I’m being facetious about it. But I do need to see a doctor just to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:44 PM
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Those standards are arbitrary. Both men and women will argue that their “matches” are more attractive than they are. In pretty much every country outside of the US men aren’t expected to be bodybuilders or roided up to attract non fat women, and I think that’s where the complaints from American men are coming from. Thin men in Europe or Asia date thin women all the time since being thin is the standard for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:43 PM
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Lowkey goes for guys too. I neglected cardio for too long and realized that it caps your lifting potential pretty badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:28 PM
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I hurt my back doing squats which means I likely won’t be able to turbo-bulk/gym max to the extent I want to this fall. My dating life is soon to be in shambles and I will likely never be happy again. What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:27 PM
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That shit is way too expensive. I can afford it but why would I? I’ve only gone during my deepest depressive episodes, and even then the benefits have been marginal. The biggest improvements to my mental health have been concrete changes to my lifestyle, not therapy. Therapy is nice but it cuts into the pool of cash I could be using to actually spend on things that make me feel good, or better yet, improve my circumstances. If good care was more affordable and accessible then I would be on board…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:19 PM
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It’s also ridiculous if you’re in shape yourself asking for someone who likely does less than you do for your body. If you’re a fat dude demanding a thin woman then that’s one thing, but if you’re in decent shape I don’t see why wanting your equal is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:15 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:13 PM
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Yup, even slim girls who don’t hit the gym are usually not interested in chubby dudes. Why would they be if they can pull a fit guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:13 PM
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Can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:11 PM
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I definitely feel motivated now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:09 PM
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I’m all about baggy tees these days so I’m usually in those, but I’ll throw a tank top under a button up if it’s hot out I see people wearing loose sleeveless tees out in the city and it looks pretty cool, the tight ones I usually see on gay dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:36 PM
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Like father, like son
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:54 AM
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If you could work out your height the average gen z man would be 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:58 PM
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If Ana de Armas is “a dime a dozen” where you are, I want the exact coordinates right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:56 PM
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Is this too much to ask for? Nothing wrong with a little crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:31 PM
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He’s cheesy but his questions are way more engaging than most celebrity interviewers. You can see it in their reactions, they’re usually having a good time instead of being fucking bored like in those wired or w magazine interviews
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:29 PM
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It’s a different kind of great. Sopranos is more of a “traditional” tv show with longer character arcs and plotlines. The Wire has a giant ensemble cast and is hyper focused on realism. I’d definitely recommend both but The Wire can be really slow and confusing at first, especially if you’re not used to shows like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:27 PM
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I can agree with that, but even at its weakest I still enjoyed The Wire more than most television.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:22 PM
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The Wire really is the peak, I’ve never seen a show as consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:14 PM
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I’m actually going to say attractive men. The relative rarity of universally attractive men gives them leverage in most contexts, and they’re more likely to actually desire that type of attention compared to women. Neither is really a bad gig though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:12 PM
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As a group, men really don’t have standards since virtually every type of women can find interest from a variety of men. Individual men absolutely do have standards though, despite what some of the dudes here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:08 PM
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You’re better off being well socialized in general, but the skills you get from friends and family are not the same skills you need to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:51 PM
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Did you tell the gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:09 PM
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Personally I just slack off at work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:00 PM
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Playing God is their best song imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:18 PM
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To be honest that’s what we get for watching this shit right after game of thrones shat the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:18 PM
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Date a dj, most I’ve met are pretty introverted so it’s like a 2 for 1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:37 PM
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Seriously, I was into her until I noticed the chin cleft. Could hardly hold on my lunch after seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:35 PM
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As a man who takes his style and grooming pretty damn seriously I would happily accept this but the truth is the ROI on self improvement is totally fucked for most men. The differences in the quality and quantity of women I’ve been able to attract at different times in my life have been minimal, and mostly change due to environment. My natural features almost always take precedence for women that either do or don’t like me. Despite consistently working out and making an effort to always look goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:32 AM
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The reality is that the popularity is probably driving the price up as more men seek it out. Insurance usually doesn’t cover anything “cosmetic” so that’s out too. I’d assume it’s cheaper in countries like Turkey or Korea where cosmetic surgery is cheaper across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:52 PM
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Wonder if she has a type
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:50 PM
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That is what I was talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:40 PM
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Gyno? It’s just a super small scale lipo/excision. Idk if it technically falls under “plastic surgery” but it is usually a cosmetic procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:08 PM
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When did gyno surgery get so expensive holy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:54 PM
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I can’t say this lines up with my experience. I’m 5’8”, slim, and half Asian. I get a decent amount of attention, but not exactly Chad material in the states. In Korea (far from a poor country) I was getting hit on virtually every day and approached by women who, in the states, I’d consider out of my league. It was shocking how differently I was treated despite looking and acting the same as I did at home. Yes, it’s probably different for men who get zero attention at home, but the point is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:37 PM
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There are a shocking number of adults who, despite saying they know life isn’t fair, maintain the idea that all people get what they truly deserve in the end. It’s not true, and it’s never been true, but it’s convenient to treat people that way so the thought continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:10 PM
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By that token all computers are just “madlib” machines
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:33 PM
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There are users in this very thread who regularly shame “loser” men now suddenly denying that this phenomenon exists and has impact. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:46 PM
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I always enjoy the sauces from Popeyes more than CFA but the former leaves me feeling way worse afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:59 PM
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Where’s the “no pill” men agreeing with her tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:56 PM
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Not really sure what kind of status Jake would have there but my point is having cash/a job isn’t the same thing as having status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:54 PM
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I don’t know what your views actually are, so fair enough. I thought about it like combining the ruthless strategy of redpill with the women’s advocacy of feminism. Hence FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:48 PM
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People with inherited wealth, introverts born into “old money” families, highly paid STEM workers, wealthy foreigners, etc. I knew many examples of rich dudes with no “status” in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:38 PM
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Sounds like FDS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:19 PM
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money =/= status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:05 PM
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I’m a straight dude and I find women with deep voices really hot I also tend to like girls around my height (5’6”-5’10”, I’m 5’8”), but I’m not sure if that’s really that uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:23 PM
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Hot when drunk and sweaty, not hot when sober and at her grandmas house (open to debate)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:03 PM
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I can bench 3 plates just not all at once [uproarious laughter]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:02 PM
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Montreal put me on to poutine US East Coast put me off Idk why it’s so fucking hard to make gravy fries right but I guess it’s a québécois secret
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:01 PM
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That’s fair, it took a while for me to change my default settings to charismatic, and even now I can find it exhausting. It’s much easier when I’m around people I actually like or want to get to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:49 PM
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“Chunky but built” guys are pretty popular for American gals. Generally bigger = better, but that also means getting leaner can be better since you’ll look bigger. But then again if you’re short like me then getting too big will make you look smaller… ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:47 PM
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Don’t worry, I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:43 PM
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The secret is to be “suave” with everyone, once it becomes a habit it’s much easier to be calm around someone you’re actually interested in. But yeah, I definitely do tend towards that “fuck this dating shit” mentality a lot of the time. It’s actually fucked me over a few times when someone was flirting and I just wasn’t really in the game. So if you can deal with the 2AM “damn she was actually dtf” thoughts then it’s not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:42 PM
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At the risk of sounding like I’m bragging, a few of my friends see me as the guy who “never has to try” with women and express some jealousy over it. I always tell them that they only see my wins and not the dry spells in between. And that they overvalue my facial attractiveness compared to my height, rce, cck size etc, which all factor into dating success as well. I’m not a chad, just a bit above average, so I’m not as far from them as they think. Basically, yes, the grass is a bit greener but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:33 PM
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Given that power and leadership are seen as traditionally masculine qualities, I struggle to imagine a leadership position that would select for the opposite. It’s actually one of the reasons why I think we should be critical of gender roles in the first place. Things like assertiveness or initiative shouldn’t be tied to masculinity or femininity at all, but they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:22 PM
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I mean, I don’t personally have any attachment to masculinity and am willing to be “feminine” if it suits me. Even in these liberal cities I still see social and especially romantic penalties for stepping out of my masculine role. The “fuck it” crowd is a minority, but it’s a growing one. Obviously you’re less likely to see them espouse things in public. But I know I have some resentment towards my gender role personally, and I think the disconnect between social messaging and social results is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:09 PM
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Is it? Feminine women are still highly valued by both men and women, as are independent and masculine women. Hence “socially liberated”. We see femininity it as inferior in men because it almost universally leads to worse outcomes socially and romantically. If that was to change, and agreeable feminine men were more valued, then I could see men changing very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:55 PM
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The problem isn’t women acting like men. (I’m not really convinced that they do en masse) The issue is socially liberating only half of the population from their gender role while holding the other half to theirs. Of course there’s going to be a lot of resentment, or a lot of dudes going “fuck this”. Even redpill is basically just a long-winded response to this phenomenon, it just doubles down on hypermasculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:37 PM
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??? Those men are angels bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:59 PM
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Smokers are usually thin and non American. What’s the downside? Also I’m in the process of quitting nic myself so I’m in no position to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:48 PM
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I mean dance music and raves currently have an iron grip on young Asian people, but I get that there are some complications if you’re outside that community I switch it up a lot, but I admit that 9/10 times I’d rather party with my Asian friends than stand around some overcrowded sports bar listening to the Killers for the 5000th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:22 PM
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I honestly struggle to believe it isn’t intentional/malicious to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:15 PM
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How did you get banned from crystal cafe? I actually agree that the darker corners of the net are completely male dominated, I’m just not sure if that’s a benefit for us dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:11 PM
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I’m naturally cynical, so I have to be intentional with seeing positives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:09 PM
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To me it was the degree and severity of male beauty standards that shocked me. I’ve taken my appearance seriously from a pretty early age (early high school), but it’s taken me far longer to really hone in on the areas that women seem to care about most. Even longer to accept that some of those are completely outside of my control, since those tend to be the most taboo to discuss. These conversations on male beauty and attractiveness are still largely relegated to dingy corners of the internet. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:04 PM
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It’s the lack of critical thinking that’s far scarier. People are reading more than they speak nowadays, the real problem is that so many never think deeply about what they’re consuming since information is so worthless now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:10 PM
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You’d have to be extremely far up your own ass to feel “offended” by someone showing interest in you and think you’re attractive. I’ve been approached by women that I thought were unattractive and not appropriate matches for me, and they’re typically pretty nervous and self aware. I respect the courage it takes to shoot your shot and risk rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:18 PM
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That’s a solid perspective, I feel like I hear the tall version of that problem more from my male friends who can’t fit in the back of an Uber. But being too short to reach things or fit into seats is probably a huge hassle. I can bitch about being 5’8 all day but in the end, I can use and fit into more or less anything since most of it was made by people not too far off from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:51 PM
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I get that, but is 5’1-5’2 really that short for a woman? To the point where they’d seek out a place to talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:48 PM
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Idk what Imogen Heap has to do with anything, afaik she’s tall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:43 PM
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Mezcalitas sounds perfect, shit I could go for one right now…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:42 PM
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I think most normie guys who prefer sons are just assuming they can do more bro shit with their son than their daughter. They assume he’ll have the same interests as his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:17 PM
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Soup dumplings/dim sum are a go-to date for me. Has that nice cozy shareable vibe without being too much food. Some of the places have booze too 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:15 PM
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I’m not into graphic novels but I highly recommend the books, they tell a much more “complete” story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:12 PM
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Maybe some sangria or margs? Some kinda lightweight booze besides beer is always nice when it’s hot out. Or you could get a frat party vibe going with some jello shots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:11 PM
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Why are there so many women on r/ short nowadays? I understand if they’re 5’ and below, but anything above 5’ is a perfectly normal height for a woman to be. I don’t really see how height can be a big deal for a 5’2 woman unless she lives in a Nordic country or Iceland.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:08 PM
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Good thing women don’t judge men on easily quantifiable and comparable traits. That’d be hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:30 PM
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Mfs talking about being “Kenough” Bro I Ken’t take this shit no more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:22 PM
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Headrush musta been crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:12 PM
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I’m inclined to agree, but I wonder if short men would benefit from a cultural shift the way Asian men have, especially because preferences for tall men seem to be cross-cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:30 PM
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Went from “gifted” in my childhood, to above average hs to lazy and dumb in college. Probably impacted my ability to get an internship in college which made landing my first real job hard as shit. I got my current job through my network anyways. TBD if I have any real success after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:15 PM
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It just adds further confusion. Are short men biologically unattractive, or are they socially unattractive? Inb4 “there’s no difference”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:06 PM
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Nice try but my gramma is world class
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:16 PM
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Many such cases outside this sub. It’s an awfully convenient narrative for the beneficiaries of a system. Source: American
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:03 PM
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Meh, even as someone who’s never struggled socially it’s interesting to read it broken down since, like you said, it’s not often spelled out. Maybe it’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:01 PM
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Southeast Asia -> cocaine -> Remington I’m kidding I’ll just do what I was doing before, which includes only two of the aforementioned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:42 PM
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It sounds like he understands pretty well for someone just “finding out”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I thought I was the only one who thought that question was rhetorical when I first read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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At the time, yes. Didn’t last too long after I showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:35 PM
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I’m late, but in addition tho what other people have said the #1 trait I judge people on is integrity. Are you willing to practice what you preach? Are you willing to sacrifice for what you believe is right? Are you willing to do things that may not be immediately beneficial to you for the sake of doing the right thing? Do you hold yourself to the standards of humanity that you hold others to? No one, I repeat, no one is perfect on these things, but when someone values personal integrity, it sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:51 PM
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Samples of Pegasus and Pegasus exclusif I don’t wear it every day so using samples instead of full bottles makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:23 PM
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I agree, but unfortunately my phenotypes (and personal style tbf) don’t line up with a super traditionally masculine guy. I do my best to pay my dues to the altar of masculinity, but I’m more likely to stick with the ones that I enjoy personally like lifting weights and being a bit stoic. Everything else kinda is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:31 PM
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Any guys here wear rings (just for looks, not wedding/engagement bands)? I’ve always been kinda uninterested since I feel like they could get in the way of using my hands compared to something like a necklace or bracelet which are usually out of the way. I think they do look cool on certain guys, so I’m not totally closed off. I am mildly interested in some of those health tracker rings though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:29 PM
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I’m a (broadly) liberal man and in all honestly it’s kinda shit sometimes. You’re in the closest proximity to the people that talk the most shit about you, and you’re more likely to be stereotyped as unmanly. People will hold you to gender roles that you don’t hold them to. Not a big deal socially, but in dating it blows. I see why dudes are moving right, I just don’t agree with the positions. At least conservative guys have something to aspire to. Just can’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:01 PM
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I don’t see it as weird at all. It’s just more pictures to see. If it’s the only thing on the profile, then it’s a massive 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:34 PM
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Men have no idea about makeup. I’d posit that in a blind trial 90% of guys couldn’t tell if a woman had on foundation or not. That’s generally what guys mean when we say “natural look”. It’s not totally our fault when the majority of the time we see women in public, they have some amount of makeup on. The only reason I’m even privy to it is I started wearing bb cream myself, and know how under the radar it can go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:34 PM
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I agree, but I also try to acknowledge the reality of the situation. I’m 5’8, half Asian, and skinny, but I get a lot of leeway for having a relatively handsome face, and that’s a tangible advantage I have. It’s not fair for me to say that because I don’t have an issue with my height, race, etc. that nobody should. Individual preferences should not be a point of contention, but spread out over a large population it can lead to trends that create resentment. There are entire groups of people that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:51 PM
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5’7-5’9 really isn’t the death knell that blackpillers make it out to be, especially if you have other attractive traits. No one is dateless solely because they’re average height. I do think the height thing is getting worse among younger women due to social media. The inverse is true as well, guys can see the difference in how taller men are treated and the resentment builds. I’m 5’8 and it’s definitely been a mark against me before, but it’s kinda my fault since I tend to prefer women close to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:27 PM
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“Cheating is not as bad if my gender does it” Sorry, but verbal agreements are gender neutral. If you’re in a monogamous relationship, then you made a promise not to fuck other people. If you cheat, you broke that promise. It’s really that simple. Anything beyond that is just rationalizing your shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:53 PM
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Doesn’t really matter, I figure most people use them interchangeably. It’s really the context that determines if I get an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:50 PM
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Men don’t like the idea of unreciprocated effort, that’s really all there is to it. I pay for dates, and while I have a general amount of resentment for being held to a gender role I dislike, I don’t hold it against individual women unless they seem like they’re taking advantage of it. It’s just a part of the process of dating in America. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:35 PM
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14 hour days is foul
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:25 AM
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It’s so loud in my brain it’s practically static sometimes. I don’t think it’s ever been silent once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you’re putting food on their table
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 AM
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When someone has enough choices, preferences become inevitabilities. Why would they go for something they like less when something they like more is out there? Imagine a young woman in a big city who prefers tall men. Even if she’s “open to date shorter guys”, why would she when there are men who she can have that aren’t? With online dating, women’s circle of available men has increased dramatically. It’s like a job posting with 1 applicant vs 1000. The “nice to haves” become “must haves” by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:48 PM
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Take it from a guy who’s also a skinny nerd. You need to clear the bar of “measurable success” before the trait becomes attractive. Being nerdy never got me girls, but being nerdy enough to get a good job did. Playing guitar never got me girls, but playing in front of an audience did. Going to the gym didn’t help me, getting results in the gym did. And so on. Of course being attractive is also a minimum bar to clear. Then I had girls appreciating my unique traits and quirks. The point is, it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:32 PM
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Life in general is extremely unfair, it’s just very telling that these ideas remain taboo. If you truly believe what you say in the OP then you ought to start speaking up when other people deny it on this very subreddit, or at least accept being seen as dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:33 PM
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Me, a man (aka demon) wearing chunky sneakers just to still be 2 inches under 6’ and deny shorter women’s chances of having nba children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:01 PM
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Lot more dead cats too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:15 PM
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I get it. I’ve accepted the fact that most rappers are putting on a persona. Also huge agree on the beats, logic’s beat selection is honestly top tier. Under pressure still knocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:14 PM
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He’s aight I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:52 PM
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He’s a pretty good rapper but his music is basically the opposite of what most rap fans want to feel. “Cornball” rapper basically. Can’t say I’m a big fan or a hater personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:51 PM
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I’m living for these guys in this thread who went to high school in the freaking 80s telling current gen Z guys what the situation is. Leaving high school with little to no dating experience is pretty normal nowadays for boys and girls. It’s college where the weeding out really begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:52 PM
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The food is phenomenal, though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:46 PM
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“Easily bag” makes it sound like Asian girls have lower standards. Idk how you meant it, but that’s how it reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:34 PM
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To be honest there are delusional guys who use it as a threat to hang over women’s heads that sour everyone on the idea, when it’s really not that deep. It’s a cøping mechanism for lonely guys. That’s it. The only people that lose are OF creators and ASMR channels. I think it’ll be a good thing for struggling men, but it likely won’t affect anyone else in a significant way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:14 PM
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Sounds kinda backhanded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:11 PM
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At the end of the day, it’s preselection. A lack of social capital. “Am I fighting for a spot no one’s ever wanted?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:44 PM
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Fuck it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:02 AM
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I wouldn’t discount the concurrent rise of social media & birth control availability as factors too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:58 AM
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All over, some Etsy, some nicer brands. Not a huge collection, mostly watches since jewelry is pretty new for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:35 AM
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Kinda weird advice, but look at Korean street style for some inspiration. They wear a lot of black, and don’t usually wear shorts in the summer. You could pull some ideas from them. I’m going through an emo phase too, lotta black clothes and silver jewelry this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:47 PM
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Word of caution: MUJI runs fucking enormous, especially in length. Try it on first for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:24 PM
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It comes down to attraction. If she’s down for you, you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:50 PM
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Women are in this very thread saying they use this strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:48 PM
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The problem isn’t that women want to be the most attractive version of themselves, the problem is that men have far fewer socially acceptable avenues to do the same. I think that’s where the frustration comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:34 PM
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Well of course, men making Pinterest boards isn’t really a thing anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:27 PM
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Used to happen more often in the daily. I will say that there was some serious variety in the types of women posted, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:14 PM
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Doesn’t do shit anymore unless you have some amount of success playing in a band/live. Just being a hobbyist, even if you’re very good, is not going to be attractive on its own. This pretty much goes for any hobby tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:25 PM
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Generally yes, although nowadays young men seem to be less interested in pursuing cold leads so it might take longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:11 PM
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I’ve heard this and even repeated it, but when I think back on the friends I’ve made as an adult it was mostly through just chatting and a shared outing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:03 PM
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<image> Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:01 PM
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Meh, I like watching sports but I get why some people find it boring. I find baseball pretty dull, but basketball has my full attention. It’s just taste
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:38 PM
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Her body language will give it away. If it sounds like she’s giving you shit but she’s smiling, laughing, touching, etc. then you’re in a better spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:37 PM
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You’d actually be shocked, a good number of guys I know actually like the no curves look more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:15 PM
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I would not call her a liar, I would thank her and move on with my day. I wouldn’t even think she’s being delusional or dishonest, she could be absolutely genuine as far as I know. The only reason I bring up the internalizing is because OPs premise seems to revolve around it, so I was trying to put it into that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:11 PM
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That’s a wild take 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:03 PM
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My point is it’s not about the woman being dishonest. I wouldn’t call her a liar, but I also wouldn’t internalize the comment much if the rest of my experiences don’t line up with it. I know damn well I’m not a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:57 PM
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I’m a man who gets complimented by other men a lot on my appearance. It doesn’t really mean much when that’s not reflected in my success with women (I do okay, but nowhere near as well as my peers assume). I think men should absolutely lift each other up, and it’s something I’m experiencing more. But in the end, we’re too results oriented for it to impact our overall confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:34 PM
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Some gal drunkenly called me a 10, that doesn’t mean I internalized it as true 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:31 PM
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As a group, men find more types of women attractive than vice versa. It doesn’t mean every individual man is attracted to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:30 PM
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In many cases these are just the same archetype of man but styled differently. The scholarly pretty boy is just the lumberjack shaven and with longer hair. The emo boy is the pretty boy but skinny and with jewelry. The core features are largely the same, at least in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:31 PM
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No she’s toxic as hell but it’s not like she’s the only artist with problems. What makes her different is her fanbase is almost exclusively women. Even “male” focused acts like Kanye or Radiohead have tons of female fans, but male Taylor fans are pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:09 PM
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It’s just more rare. Women absolutely take initiative when they really like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:05 PM
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I’ve been on the internet long enough to know that all of the above and more are thrown around, for both genders. The internet is still a place full of strangers, no matter how we try to clean it up, people will say wild shit when there are no consequences. Hell, even if there were, some people still would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:28 PM
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Super interesting theory, and there’s lots of examples of this in my dreams/real life. Either that or I’ve got greensight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:49 PM
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I really truly wish I still believed this, but there is so much overlap that when you spread out preferences across a large population, there are clearly attractive and unattractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:48 PM
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Definitely not, I think men are more willing to go full mask off. I’m just saying don’t let the ladies blindside you cause it’ll be a big shock when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:10 PM
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Agree, the only thing that can be tricky is finding out what style and haircut: A. Looks good on you specifically B. Is attractive to women You need both, and a lot of the content about these things online is outdated shit or just completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:56 PM
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I just smiled at her text before reading it It’s so over
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:48 PM
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Oh you would be shocked if there’s another purge, it ain’t just the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:47 PM
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It’s not that men care more, it’s just that there are far too many men who have looks as their only standard, so it’s all they ever vocalize
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:08 PM
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I’ve actually seen a number of posts about it lately, it might be a trend in a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:57 PM
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My brother is somehow even less athletic than me, so I would just be shocked it went down like that. My dad would absolutely destroy me in basketball at my age though. Honestly he could still probably whoop me. My girlfriend would sign an nda and I would immediately block her on all open lines
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:26 PM
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Twitter honestly feels more like 4chan than 4chan does these days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah I don’t see the problem. If it was girl you just started seeing then yeah that’s weird, but calling someone you spend literally all of your time with your best friend is probably just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:08 PM
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This girl I hit it off with last weekend is taking handcuffing lessons at work We’re meeting up next weekend, see you all in the next life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:04 PM
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Like most things in the manosphere it’s not well defined, so you’ll get a bunch of different answers. I think of it as a man who is attractive enough to get consistent sexual attention from women. Usually this means falling under all or most conventional beauty standards. So the 2nd is the closest, although face is a bit more subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:53 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say people want a relationship that disproportionately benefits them. Women want an attractive guy who has no expectations for your behavior but is also a breadwinner/provider, what a shocker. There is no way for a man to showcase he is egalitarian until later in the relationship. Anything prior to that is just words. So to hold all potential partners to traditional gender roles while holding yourself to none is just blatant self interest. Ironically, it sounds an awful …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:06 PM
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Figures I’d get half the blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:21 PM
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1 if you add them up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:22 PM
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I can’t imagine a girl bringing it up out of nowhere if she hasn’t thought about it seriously, the joking tone is probably a test to see if you are interested. If not she can back it out as a joke. Guys pull that trick all the time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:02 PM
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I think they are related. Acknowledging your agency means you inherently claim responsibility for your behavior. It sounds ridiculous but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:50 PM
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Actually based take. People who focus on the exact number instead of the attitude are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:47 PM
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I’d put a portal to Seoul in my apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:26 PM
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It’s really upsetting that some people find their own human agency to be a “negative”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:17 PM
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Yeah, my own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:53 PM
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Productivity is a definite no, but weed absolutely helps with creativity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:53 PM
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It can’t be overstated that these are opinions from “progressive” college students. Should have included a question on bi men 💀 The saddest part is I could have guessed most of these response stats
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:49 PM
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All day, every day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:24 PM
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The question is which party is being spanked? And why should it be me??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:13 AM
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I was joking, I wouldn’t do that. I say let them look. If they can’t accept that I’ve got attractive platonic friends, it probably wasn’t going to work anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:05 AM
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I respect that. For me personally, I value having a large and dynamic social circle, but I can already feel that drive waning as I age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:03 AM
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I used to be like that, but I felt socially handicapped so I caved. It really hasn’t been so bad, I post around once a year and rarely go on it any other time. If I do, it’s for the messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I never really thought about it. I thought it was normal to follow more girls than guys since girls are just more likely to be active If they’re too pretty I’m unfollowing them ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:53 PM
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I want to see men NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:51 PM
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She only has that one popular song where she dumps on the other gal. The rest are pretty standard mainstream girl friendly. She’s infinitely marketable to virtually any subset of young women. They either want to be like her or find her inoffensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:49 PM
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That’s a level of wealth that’s very difficult to attain, especially at a younger age. Low 6 figures ($100-250k) really isn’t gonna cut it for buxxing these days, at least not in the places where attractive women usually congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:46 PM
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Is following a lot of girls on ig really that bad? I just follow people I’ve met irl and we exchange handles, I don’t message 99% of them ever I’m pretty sure some of them have unfollowed me during my periods of inactivity. There goes my ratio oops
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:43 PM
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Sounds like he’s just vanilla. I’m not really interested in roleplay/bdsm stuff either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:39 PM
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There certainly is bad pizza, Philadelphia is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:08 PM
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That’s only if you’re really good looking. A quiet average or even above average dude is getting ignored for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:04 PM
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Some people just perpetually have a stick up their ass. It’s like a bitch/douchbag gene and there’s nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:29 PM
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Patagonia + Lululemon pants was the nyc white guy in finance meta for a while, might have changed recently though. I will give an update after I investigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:28 PM
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Damn 800 robux is only $10? Roblox economy is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:15 PM
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Eh, I’ve matched with girls from my highschool before, I think they swiped just for the novelty of it. You never know, though. I have a friend who’s dating a girl that grew up a block away from him, I guess they reconnected and really hit it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:36 PM
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That’s probably not a good thing since if you end up meeting them irl they’ll see you in glasses anyways. If you have to wear glasses I’d just put a picture of you in them on your profile. Rip that bandaid off early.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:10 PM
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I love how this is a trend as if it’s some unique set of standards. Every girl in nyc wants the same exact thing lmao It’s like a guy making a song about how he wants a fit cheerleader with big boobs. Groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:08 PM
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Idk about his new stuff but Logic has always picked good beats. I don’t really vibe with that style of hip hop these days but Under Pressure still knocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:09 AM
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Currently on my 5th Game of Thrones rewatch. I always say I’ll stop at season 4, but I never have. Maybe this time I’ll have the strength to do it, I don’t think I can deal with the emptiness all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:06 AM
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Fuck, I didn’t even think of that. Really insightful actually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:21 PM
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I love hanging out with dogs in short bursts, but I’m a cat guy through and through. Never understood why people have to hate on one to love the other though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:39 PM
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Even in that case I’d looksmax like your life depends on it. You still need to be on their radar as an option. There’s also a window of time to act when it comes to your social circle. If you wait too long, you end up in the purely platonic category. Don’t do that with a girl you know you’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:36 PM
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It’s a direct plug into the matrix. She has to be both perceptive and honest, which are rare traits in general, but I’ve had friends like that who honestly did help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:27 PM
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You wouldn’t want to do “all the things” with someone you aren’t attracted to. Nor would you if you didn’t enjoy their company. You need both for the “spark”. Of course men feel it too, it’s the basis of us wanting a relationship with someone. Men are just less likely to use the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:26 PM
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If anything I’d say it’s the default these days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:24 PM
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Yep, some women dgaf and will just throw themselves at a guy they like. Especially true in the nightlife scene when people are drunk and horny feeling. I usually need a few drinks in me before I’m chatting up random girls, so no shame there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:23 PM
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It’s split. Some gals have claimed to be subtle but in hindsight it was really obvious. Some will literally never tell you, ever. It is what it is. I tend to wait for very clear signals, but I’m not interested in the chase. I don’t find it as fun as flirting with someone you know is attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:09 PM
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The “spark” is just a fancy word for physical attraction mixed with compatible personalities. It’s not magic. Personally, I wouldn’t feel very secure in a relationship where the girl had to wait for her feelings to develop, but I get that’s not super realistic for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:07 PM
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I almost wish there was pop-psych around communication styles instead of attachment. Feel like it would benefit far more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:05 PM
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There are hundreds, if not thousands of ASMR channels on YouTube that tap into the same market, so it can’t be that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:33 PM
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Seems like they’re just clawing at the wall before they totally fall. I can see a buyout happening soon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:30 PM
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That’s a reach, she just noticed the ad 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:30 PM
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High highs and low lows. A shitty meatball sub will make you regret everything but a good one will have you seeing god
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:40 PM
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It’s actually a godsend for stuff you’d normally have to pay a ton of import cost on. If the reviews are all in Hangul it’s usually a good sign 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:40 PM
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Sorry to hear it. How’s the face card?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:37 PM
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I mean, I don’t know any woman that pays for Hinge but it doesn’t stop them from filtering for height anyways, like the post in question shows. I will say it is probably nice for non-wh*te guys who don’t get their ELO tanked by people who would never like them. It’s also not perfect for mixed guys like me who put both though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:36 PM
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Hinge does double down on height/racial filters though. If you have the wrong combo it can be worse than Tinder, which pretty much just lists your name and age. I do like Hinge more personally but ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:58 PM
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Twitter was a mistake example 173527263
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:16 PM
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The imperial system and it’s consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:50 PM
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Idk dating drunk is definitely more fun if you’re the right kind of tipsy Don’t go sloshed though, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:33 PM
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Is it a hot dom thing or is she actually ribbing me? If she’s given me shit for being too short in the past then I’d probably feel worse about it. If not then idc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:01 PM
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That value can be as much as just being fun to be around for platonic friendships. As far as “providing value” that’s pretty attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:56 PM
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TIL It definitely seems like a trend that skews younger, and being close to a liberal costal city probably skews my view even more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:49 PM
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I’m pretty neutral on them overall, although I probably won’t ever get one myself. I’ve seen a couple that looked kinda cool actually, but it’s not a big turn on/off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:48 PM
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No tattoos already knocks out like 70% ime
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:25 PM
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Dude looks like he only works out his arms/shoulders. Real tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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I was supposed to meet up with some girls in the city this weekend but my lovely tech job has me on 24-hour support until next week. God I love this job so much <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:31 PM
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Well that’s you. I’m borderline schizo and I still get a rush when a stranger compliments me. I’ve heard many men express the same. The true benefits of being attractive are usually more invisible in day to day life, so you’re right on that. But unprompted compliments are a good sign that you are, so it makes sense why people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:28 PM
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Depends on the compliment. I get called “handsome” a fair amount by women older than me; it still feels nice but it’s not the same as someone my age complimenting a specific feature. That shit leaves a lasting high every time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:17 PM
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Feel like it’s more common among Gen Z and later for women to be inexperienced. I’m early Gen Z and I know a good amount of people like that. Mostly guys but a handful of girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:14 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:11 PM
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I suspect that eating a lot while high makes it harder to eat sober, but as with anything weed related who the fuck knows. All I know is that edibles have definitely pushed me closer to my target weight. When it’s cutting time… that’s gonna suck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:39 PM
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Stimulants suppress your appetite. Nicotine is practically famous for it. I find that weed balances it out, but if you don’t wanna go that route just drink your calories with shakes/smoothies between meals. Kinda pricey but a good short term fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:34 PM
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Gorgeous watch, I’m not that deep into watches but I think Omega has a consistently good looking range
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:29 PM
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I feel so awkward, I don’t know how to pose and I’m awful at fake smiling My friends like to loudly hype me up when I’m taking outfit pics which doesn’t help either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:58 PM
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I’d rather have a poor paying 9-5, a boring life in a crappy city, and no romantic prospects (I’d pick 1)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:57 PM
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Men stop growing at like 20-22, so that person would still have the rest of their adolescence being tall
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:32 PM
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It’s skewed by middle America. Any costal upper middle class city will be much less overweight on average than the country as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:18 PM
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My therapist in hs basically told me to go get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:03 PM
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Aquacels bfto yet again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:01 PM
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I mean, I know the ratio isn’t in women’s favor but there are plenty of tall white finance guys in nyc. Whatever type of girl you are there’s a good chance you can pull at least one. I’m not saying women move there just for the guys, but the city naturally filters for high income, high status men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:00 PM
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“Vibe” is just a combination of how you look and act in that immediate moment. Believe me, I’ve gotten so many different “reads” on the type of guy I am from girls I meet, and they are never even close to accurate. Occasionally it works in my favor. Occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:56 PM
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If there was ever a place to have crazy standards for men it’d be NYC…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:24 PM
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Supposedly the severity of punishment is less impactful than the certainty of punishment on crime rates, which makes sense tbh If we figured out a way to make crime "disappear", I figure someone would have tried it by now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:36 PM
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Women don't work that way. Can't say I agree with this, everyone cares about looks. Like I said in my OP, there's a reason guys keep asking this question. Everything about motivation is still very important. Even if a man had no chance getting a date, I'd still recommend he stay fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:31 PM
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I was talking strictly about physical attractiveness, there are TONS of benefits to hitting the gym in general which is why I recommend it and plan on keeping at it myself. Even for a well socialized guy the results will probably be less than he’d hoped. It’s important to set these expectations so he finds motivation elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:17 PM
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Every time this is asked the responses are the same. Women imagine Mr. Olympia, men imagine Brad Pitt and everyone talks past each other. The truth is that 90% of men will never be “too muscular” without gear. It can take up to a year to get visible results in the gym, so “too big” should not be a concern for most guys that aren’t gym rats. Us guys like the idea that we can work their way into being more attractive. If you’re fat or very skinny then you can see a big change, but an average dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:59 PM
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Oof, those tend to get you pretty drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:38 AM
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What’s the daily thread been like lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:52 PM
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Dunno, I’ve never experienced it before but now I get back to back sightings I guess they started spawning when I turned 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:35 PM
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I think he’d want me to test it like a crash test dummy Scientific method and all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:05 PM
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An edible and some fish fillets
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:04 PM
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I was at a music festival last weekend and I was hit on by not one, but TWO 30+ white moms CHAD OUTT 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:04 PM
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It’s more of a label than a movement right now. Ask 100 women that self identify as feminist what the goals of feminism are and you’ll get 100 different answers. It’s like if a guy said he was a “men’s advocate”. Doesn’t really mean anything on its own. It’s why I don’t think dismissing people that identify as feminists wholesale is smart. Some of them are perfectly fine, they’ve just taken on a broad label to describe themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:53 PM
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Wait, I don’t follow. What do younger girls have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:45 PM
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I mean, girls that don’t do that definitely do exist, you’re just less likely to meet them in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:41 PM
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Yeah, the courses I took on it pretty much said as much, that even though it’s supposed to be “approximate”, you still need reliable input. Which kinda defeats the purpose for some applications. It’s a developing field that’s super interesting and definitely related to the digital art thing I brought up at the start, except in this case the output isn’t quite as qualitative. “Pragmatic misunderstanding” is such a cool name for the phenomenon though. It’s such a better term for something in betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:30 PM
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I didn’t say it was new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:20 PM
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My comment on the brain “using references” was a rebuttal to the argument that AI art is inherently plagiaristic due to its use of references in the learning process and that human art/ideas are built off of experiences and memories too. I definitely should have made that more clear. Obviously, the way those references are actually processed in the brain vs in an algorithm is way different. I guess there’s a better counter-argument there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:08 PM
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AI does a terrible job with anything that involves “maybes” and “kindas”. Which is to say: most of the human experience. Hence the concept of “fuzzy logic”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:02 PM
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It all collapses down to math, pretty much, yeah. All systems have degrees of connection between them. In this case, it’s psychology (or neurobiology) and machine learning that are related enough for people to even debate the merits of artificial output. Otherwise there’d be no debate at all. It’s an emerging discussion that I hope more people embrace with [cautious] open-mindedness, not obstinance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:58 PM
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Auto-tune is a beautiful invention. It’s saved thousands of innocent ears 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:45 PM
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I’m definitely not a neurobiologist, but I do have a basic understanding of machine learning concepts (unfortunately not enough for a job at AMD) From what we know, the human mind is far more complicated than any existing artificial one, which makes sense since we made them. The concept of “fuzzy logic” is basically an attempt to mathematically bridge the gap between based on binary true/false (Boolean) logic and non-numerical (human) logic. Basically, it lets machine decision making more closel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:09 PM
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What I mean is that I disagree with people that seemingly place such a high premium on the human mind that they refuse to be cognizant about how it works. Basically putting the metaphysical cart before the biological horse. “The human mind doesn’t use references like AI, it can create out of thin air!” I’m neutral about it, not cynical. I’m still amazed by the human brain, but only because we don’t understand it fully. I can still admit it’s a system like any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:37 PM
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I’ll pay u 💵
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:31 PM
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I am living for this “AI art is theft/not real art” debate People finally realizing that human brain isn’t actually all that “magical” or “special” after all and we largely just respond to stimuli 🤣 The singularity is one tiny step closer, get hyped
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:23 PM
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Not true, China loves sharks, albeit for a very different reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:11 AM
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^^^ this is the key right here The exact number is worthless when it comes to figuring out who she actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:04 AM
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Damn, no French girls for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:57 AM
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I don’t smoke cigs unless offered, which is very rare in the states That being said I’m not totally naive about my vaping habit, I know there’s not as much research but the idea that it’s 100% healthy and fine for sure ain’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:54 AM
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I’m on a month long vaping “cleanse” right now. I switched from disposables to a pod system earlier in the year because I thought it would make me smoke less… lol As a result I’ve felt more hungry, which for me is actually a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:51 AM
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In the states? It absolutely still is. Now if we’re counting vapes, it is absolutely not exclusive. I can honestly say that at least 40% of people my age are hooked on vaping. 70% if we’re only counting Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:57 PM
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Ok I know all I do is bitch about the US but one thing I really miss from Asia is smoking rooms in bars/clubs. They were seriously the best way to meet people and chat up girls during a night out. Sharing a cigarette with a cute stranger is truly one of the finest things in life 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:46 PM
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Hell no, what if she tries to jab me 💉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:58 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:34 AM
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I haven’t been to cali since I was a kid, so I guess I can’t speak for it. I just know guys that have moved from east coast -> cali say it’s way harder there. Maybe it’d be different for me, who knows. I’m definitely being facetious when I say that leaving the US is the “true answer” but I’d be lying if I said that my experiences didn’t back that up. I seem to do really well every time I leave. Could just be a me thing. I’ll also say that I’ve pretty much never had success with mixed girls (in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:33 AM
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Depends on your standards of “fat” I’ve seen tons of pudgy girls that I thought were super cute, although they may not be everyone’s definition of chubby I’m too scrawny for em anyways, so it’s all good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:24 AM
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Where’s the contradiction tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:22 AM
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I mean obv I’m biased but being mixed ain’t really what it’s cracked up to be. As a dude, you really have to have the right number of “white” features, and even then you’ll still struggle in the wrong environment. You might get a leg up over full Asian dudes among girls who have racial hangups, but even then you’re in second place behind full white guys. C’est la vie. I think where I am (east coast/nyc) is the best place for an Asian dude in the states. It’s still annoying sometimes, but it seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:20 AM
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I’m half-asian half-white. Vast majority of girls I hook up with/date are Asian. Every now and again a white/non-Asian girl comes along. Part of it is because I spend a good amount of time in Asian social circles, but even when I venture out with my non-Asian friends to “white” bars the amount of attention I get falters significantly. It’s still possible, just less likely. And like I said it all changes when I leave the US lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:07 AM
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I’ve been told that I’m punching below my weight class before. My male friends don’t usually comment, but every now and again they hit me with the “if I looked like you I’d be pulling hotter girls” shtick. With female friends it’s 50/50, sometimes they say something but they admit that in the current dating market that’s how it goes. “Looksmatch” is a stupid concept, especially when you’re 5’8 and half asian. As far as my standards go, they do go out the window when I’m drunk, so I don’t give a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:25 PM
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I think my mum is still trying to have me whacked after all these years so fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:28 PM
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Not often, I’m just in one 24 year nihilistic phase rn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:24 PM
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Obviously I’m biased towards men cause I’m a guy, but even then I’ve never been on board with “Men’s Rights” for that very reason. There’s just no discernible direction to any of it. Even freaking redpill has done a better job of making an impact on mainstream culture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:18 PM
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I’m not sure there’s anything people can “do for” MGTOW, I think that was meant to be the point. It should have focused on men reprogramming themselves to stop chasing after male symbols of validation and standards of masculinity. Men supporting each other while making choices that went against the current social expectations (dating, careers, family, etc). That’s it. Men supporting men in ways that society at large/women generally won’t. Instead it did the opposite. It was men yearning for masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:05 PM
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See a true MGTOW Chad wouldn’t care about being called a bum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:46 PM
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Sounds more like redpill tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:31 PM
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Men/the manosphere actually fucked up huge by abandoning MGTOW instead of rebranding it to something with more mainstream appeal. That shit is the true “Mens Liberation”, just walk away from it all and stop giving a shit about anything. Like just drop all the crap about feminism already, surely not every single men’s “movement” has to be completely obsessed with it. Not exactly “walking away” if all you do is bitch about it. Maybe Buddhism is the real answer 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:28 PM
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I think that’s cringy too, let’s not get it twisted Just don’t act like men are liars and men need to shut up isn’t a thing here, because then I have good reason to think that you think that too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:08 PM
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It’s a funny reply to a dumb joke on twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:49 PM
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They’re both common refrains here Yes, you’ve never said guys were lying but in that same thread you linked you stuck your nose up at guys talking about mentioning their girlfriend or hookups I’m not saying it’s all your fault, you can say whatever you want, but surely you can see the bind for men who want to back their views up with personal experience here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:48 PM
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I mean, that’s possibly the most rational fear there is. What’s irrational is risking it actually happening by not checking in here and there. I see your point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:43 PM
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In the US it’s anywhere from ~8-10% depending on the studies you look at Averages aren’t really great though since it varies by population a lot (and these studies are old, the numbers are probably different nowadays). In white communities height skews up, immigrant communities it skews down. Anecdotally, I’ve had women that were 5’3-5’6 give me grief about my height. It’s usually worse the closer they are to 5’8. Far from a death knell, but a notable disadvantage. Such is life. I have heeled bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:41 PM
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After a certain age, you can’t I have no clue why this is a hill men choose to literally die on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:55 PM
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They’re probably just attractive women who’ve had bad experiences with men. You’ve started to associate one with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:54 PM
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PPD guy talks about struggling to get dates/sex: “Guys who don’t get play shouldn’t talk about dating” PPD guy mentions getting dates/sex: “Guys who talk about getting play are lying” C’mon now, you just call out dudes that you don’t like. Let’s not beat around things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:52 PM
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Okay I know I just shat on Twitter but this reply is a work of art “Empty woman” hits so hard I dare not repeat it verbally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:46 PM
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I’ve only ever heard guys say “speak your truth” IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:36 PM
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It’s boring as shit knowing that most girls that like me are gonna be 5’2” or shorter (I’m 5’8”). Wheres the variety at? I’ve only ever made out with one girl taller than me but it was 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:09 PM
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Can we agree that regardless of who owns it, Twitter is a net negative impact on humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:17 AM
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Guys she called me a “fuckboi” 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:29 PM
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It’s bullshit when they say that, and it’s bullshit when guys say that getting [unwillingly] used like a fleshhlight is a privilege. The women who are willingly having sex with attractive men, knowing that they don’t intend to commit are the winners. The women who are outright lied to aren’t. And I’m saying this as a guy who thinks being “made to wait” is a slap in the face. Getting manipulated or lied to for sex is also a shitty feeling. There are genuinely good examples of female dating/social…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:15 PM
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My kinda gal (Minus the piercing, I think they’re kinda goofy looking lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:06 PM
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Lol who cares I’ve never had a non-American freak out at me saying soccer before. They know what I’m talking about because they’re not stupid. Hell, they usually say it to me too it cause they know “football” means something different to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:05 PM
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I think compared to the number of actual, reasonably informed casual sex encounters, the number of “pump n dump” scenarios is exaggerated. Women aren’t stupid, they can usually tell when a guy is just there for sex. But that doesn’t mean getting lied to is a privilege when it does happen. It has nothing to do with her “male equivalent” at that point, she got duped and that probably makes her feel like shit. That’s like saying it’s a privilege to get led on for 5 expensive dates before getting sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:03 PM
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What can I say, I’m especially special
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:42 AM
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Fuck that I take pride in knowing that as fucked as everything is, I still turned out worse than any woman could possibly be responsible for 🤟
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:25 AM
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It’d poke a hole in the “everyone here is lying” argument, no reason to lie on an anonymous poll Making a straw poll and posting it in the daily is allowed afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:25 AM
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We’re in agreement, don’t be a jerk after being rejected. But giving guys the wrong idea about how handling rejection well is attractive will lead to more crappy, awkward situations down the line, not less. Handle rejection well because it’s the appropriate thing to do, not in the hopes that it’ll make her like you. That’s the distinction I want to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:22 AM
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Men tend to want to be needed while women want to be wanted Aren’t there tons of guys here and elsewhere online saying that’s the exact opposite of what they want? That’s the whole crux of “AFBB” in my eyes. I can only speak for myself, but the idea of a woman who’s with me because she needs me is a giant turn-off. I want to be wanted as well. Lifting heavy shit isn’t a boost to my ego. It’s like helping an old person across the street, I do it because it’s the right thing to do. A woman appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:57 AM
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I mean, does it matter at that point how you react? She already rejected you, trying to save face isn’t gonna do much. It’s all about acting like you don’t care when you ask. Ofc don’t be some nice guy incel prick about it if she says no, cause then she has a good reason to shit talk you after the fact. But let’s not act like “taking rejection in stride” is some attractive quality. Being rejected is just unsexy in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:53 AM
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Still better than your ncaam basketball team becoming absolute dogshit overnight…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:16 PM
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I’m 5’8 and only 140 lbs right now You’ll do alright, just try your best b
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:14 PM
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Swing for the chest please “Took my breath away” ain’t just a figure of speech
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:08 PM
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Jack Daniels, Jim Beam, Captain Morgan, José Cuervo Oh and Jinro, can’t forget him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:07 PM
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Put that whip away and use your fists like a real woman 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:05 PM
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Wait, do people not believe this shit actually happens? Like at all? How do the people here denying that (some) women throw themselves at certain men think club hookups happen? With roses and poems? I’m not a stereotypical Chad at all but it’s happened to even me in the right context. They walk up to you, maybe introduce themselves or ask to touch you, and from there it’s just game on. Fuck, sometimes they don’t even say a damn thing. For all the whining about the “young men who never see the su…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:03 PM
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Sure, if you’re a 0xFFFFFF guy or a non-0xFFFFFF guy only going for 0xFFFFFF girls. Then sure. If not, you need to recalibrate your strategy, cause that probably ain’t your main issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:45 PM
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I’ve heard of them being used for some senior/legacy positions but in general a highly desirable tech worker won’t be starving for opportunities and can pretty much reach out to an open position and get an interview Now a less desirable tech worker such as myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:40 PM
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I [would] only do drugs with women I am [invested in] having relations with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:38 PM
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I mean, how much better could it get? Some of the fights still hold up fine today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:20 PM
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Hence the “orobouros” aspect It’s a cycle that men just need to learn to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:19 PM
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Too many, pretty much every random make out sesh with a girl at a party/club has started with her rubbing up on or just outright touching me somehow Kinda awkward bc now I have an actual cat who does the same thing 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:35 PM
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Sure works on my drunken ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:32 PM
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“‘Fragile masculinity’ has turned into an ouroboros” Best tweet I’ve ever laid eyes on, and I hate Twitter lol Don’t even remember the context, but the reply just went hard asf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:31 PM
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You’d be amazed how many women basically use this strategy 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:27 PM
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Isn’t “the ick” just girls realizing that they were never attracted to a dude in the first place? No one is madly in love with a dude and then grossed out when he chases a ping pong ball
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:02 AM
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Mmmm I love me a homicidal woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:58 AM
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I mean the raw truth is that you need both. They’re not totally unrelated. High bf % means your face will look softer, which is universally bad for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:57 AM
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That’s fucked up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:54 AM
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I wish you could filter by conviction. Even at a glance some of these ladies are set to be in prison for a long time. The fuck did they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:33 AM
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Which is absolutely 100% possible, but I don’t know how they’d know that until they’ve tried almost everything else Like I have my blackpill leanings, but I don’t understand why someone wouldn’t be at least willing to try shit like losing weight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:31 AM
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It’s a shame that in the rare male looksmaxxing communities there are, the focus seems to be mostly on surgery instead of stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:21 AM
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I’d say it’s fine as in he can definitely hold his own in terms of conversation and not being a shut-in although most dudes still need to learn how to flirt, approach, text, etc. Just having platonic guy friends isn’t necessarily enough. Plus there’s the social calibration aspect of even being in situations around single women in the first place. Generally you’ve gotta be meeting new people on a semi-consistent basis. Online dating has thrown a fork in this but you’ve still gotta come across as …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:17 AM
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For sure. A $25 dollar haircut with a half decent barber can help. And working out at a $20 gym. It’s all at least worth a shot before blowing tens of thousands on some plastic surgeon. If you can afford surgery you can definitely afford everything else first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:07 AM
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There’s this weird insinuation that A. The way you act has nothing to do with how you look (aka how you’re treated) and B. You can’t or shouldn’t both develop social skills and improve your looks at the same time, see point A But yeah, being funny is not gonna get an ugly dude dates, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:05 AM
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I do agree that surgery should be a last resort though Fitness, hair, skincare, etc all come first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:00 AM
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It’s double edged for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:56 AM
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me my looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:17 PM
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Very based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:15 PM
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Relax bro, it’s shit talking in the daily I didn’t want people to think I’m a dishonest man-ho. I’m very honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:15 PM
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Ngl it is kinda weird, they weren’t even talking she was just checking him out Like if I saw a really hot girl on the street and some average chick got off on me not fucking her I’d think she was weird as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:40 PM
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I probably wouldn’t give a fuck about anything if I was a billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:38 PM
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I was chatting with some friends this weekend and I realized that I haven’t had any sort of romantic or sexual relationship (beyond just texting) with an American-born woman in nearly 3 years. Including just making out/hooking up. I haven’t had a girlfriend in that time either. What’s wrong with me y’all, I swear it’s not even intentional 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:38 PM
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In pretty much any other case, I’d agree that the husband was out of line, or at least that the wife had good reason to set financial boundaries. A dying 14 year old girl is an exception. We can talk finances after my daughter’s last birthday on Earth, jfc Assuming this is even true. That sub is a dumpster fire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:33 PM
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They were both clean as hell not gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:55 PM
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About to head to a bar for an informal HS “reunion”, wish me luck. Some of these people I haven’t seen in 6-7 years, so it’ll be fun pretending like we were best friends the whole time 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:51 PM
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When I was around 10 I really liked power metal (kamelot, sonata arctica, dragonforce, avantasia, etc) I still think it’s kinda dope tbh, but looking back it’s kinda strange I was into it like that when no one else I knew liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:31 AM
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Ugh, all these girls just want daddy McBangbucks 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:17 AM
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Not really, but it’s complicated. I try to lead by example by being open about taking SSRIs, although even I shy away from out and out admitting I’m depressed most of the time. When mental health does come up, it’s usually generalized (as in, not personal), and there’s often an air of humor about the whole thing. I get the feeling that no one wants to ruin the mood when we’re hanging out. Nothing to do with us worried about losing respect for one another or anything. My friends were there for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:15 AM
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I don’t even like the smell of my own sweat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:09 AM
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Ugh, you’re right, but I’d want a new, well paying job to move to Montreal. There’s also a mild language barrier since my French is merdé. Same goes for those wealthy Asian countries I like so much too. I’m definitely not broke, but idk if I’m desperate enough to give up that kind of financial security. At least the East Coast has immigrant girls that’ll show up for me, they’re just harder to find lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:39 AM
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I’m hypergamous. I vape nic, but I want a woman who smokes proper cigarettes like a big girl 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:00 AM
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My first small cute little peck was around 5/6, but I didn’t properly make out with a girl until I was 18
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:58 AM
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Why are the girls who like me in Montreal so much prettier than the girls who do in America? Are Canadian girls just more down for Asian-looking dudes in general? It’s honestly a little depressing coming back to the states after a trip, it’s like the enthusiasm from women towards me just gets slashed 💀 The only problem is that some French Canadian girls smell like cigarettes and sweat, which isn’t as hot as it sounds. Usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:52 AM
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I don’t care about a lot of these, but #1 is actually pretty important. The girls who really like me often take a serious interest in the things I do, no matter what they are or how much I care about them. My career is a big one. I’m not that passionate about tech, but if I mention it to a girl in a different field (who likes me), she’s instantly interested in everything about it. Like straight up asking questions about freaking coding on a date. The girls who didn’t do that, didn’t stick around…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:33 AM
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Dump her broseidon, king of the brocean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:35 AM
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Not really the flex for men that you might think. 1/5 is far too many for the “logical gender”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:33 AM
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I knew it this whole time Just couldn’t admit it since I’m a Scorpio ♏️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:32 AM
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I mean I guess you could say the same for guys, until a bunch of dudes online turned it into an acronym and blew it for all of us💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:30 AM
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The fact that there are women here who are around my height and still want to be taller… for a woman Guess we’re swallowing blackpills on a Thursday night 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:37 PM
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Are we doing WGTOW now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:35 PM
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Need an answer on this, I’ve never been able to rate myself properly without knowing the answer Shit has wild implications
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:15 PM
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I wear bb cream sometimes and no one really cares. It evens out and brightens my skin tone a bit but I mostly wear it to cover up my 5 o’clock shadow. Basically I’m saying that I’ve never had a problem wearing makeup as a dude, and I’m generally lucky that people I hang around with don’t care. That being said, I doubt the girls that like me really notice or care though. As in I’d still be attractive to them without it. I wore eyeliner for my Halloween outfit and I was chided by a bi chick for “c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:05 PM
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I only think smoking is hot because I’m hooked on vapes and I don’t wanna feel like a hypocrite Don’t smoke pls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:02 AM
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Lmao I saw someone on TikTok read an excerpt from Tate’s autobiography where he bragged about not crying after being delivered. I didn’t cry either, but no one thought “damn, what a badass”, they thought, “damn, I think he’s dead”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:36 PM
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Lowkey true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:23 AM
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I mean yeah, I go to dance. I just wanna hear something different every now again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:46 AM
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Oh trust me, I know the score. I’m just saying it’s boring hearing the same shit over and over And it’s all too loud anyways. One of these weekends the ringing just ain’t gonna stop for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:08 AM
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People who only dance to stuff they know are boring 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:53 AM
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I hate it when you can tell a dj is really skilled technically with mixing but they play the most boring NPC shit imaginable Like I get that you need to throw in some recognizable tracks for the ladies but if every song is a top 100 throwback then it gets boring after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:33 AM
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Because they still get matches/fit guys. Why change if they’re getting guys anyways? Of course, this is mostly an American thing. In other countries being fat seems to be more of a hinderance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:17 PM
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Volkswagen? Lexus? Audi? Porsche Cayenne if you like ‘em older (and married) 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:25 PM
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Yup. Guys with existing businesses don’t bother calling themselves “entrepreneurs”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:03 PM
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When she says “goofy with a big nose” she means Robert Pattinson. Some dude in the replies asked her what the last 3 dudes she slept with looked like. Radio silence. In general, if someone posts an opinion on twitter, there’s about a 5% chance it reflects their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:00 PM
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Should have been a Q4RP, these responses are boring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:41 PM
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Very based. People underestimate how much impact this shit has on the kids. It’s never just between the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:47 PM
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All the girls humble bragging in the comments have me rolling 🤣 “OMG yes! Everyone always turns to look at me everywhere I go and it’s so hard 😢” Notice how no one ever says they wish they were uglier though, or stop taking care of their appearance. Men and women alike know being attractive is a privilege with few downsides, and not ones that outweigh the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:43 PM
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Meeting my dad’s new girlfriend was cool. Even brought me some Indonesian snacks But I think I accidentally brought too much attention towards being half-Asian myself. I’m sure she doesn’t need my dad’s “pattern” laid out for her like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:22 PM
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If Chad likes fat girls, then you know what to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:48 PM
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Yeah, it’s actually pretty common lingo among dudes my age. Usually it’s a descriptor of an action though, “what a Chad move” or something like that “Alpha” and “beta” get used too, although usually with the same air of irony
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:47 PM
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Be pretty shocking for the people around me if I just up and completely changed like that in seconds, but if that’s not a thing, I’d definitely consider it But I think I’ll settle for my 9.99/10 near-perfect self 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:46 PM
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I love drinking, but after a few dizzy trips to the club bathroom I understand why other people don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:36 AM
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Reading my logs is just not the same as a quick bro-to-bro chest squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:58 PM
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No feeling up gains huh How else are you meant to check each others progress?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:54 PM
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Damn, I don’t wanna agree in case the CIA has a file on me already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:50 PM
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if u think about it not letting straight guys touch you is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:49 PM
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Q4M How touchy are you with your male friends? Or with male strangers, I guess. No judgement here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:42 PM
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I figured you would know by now that ppd users don’t read flairs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:34 PM
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I thought it was more tongue in cheek at first, but then around season 3 I realized it was taking itself seriously and it got less fun. Ending was hot trash, which doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:33 PM
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I wouldn’t say I dislike travel, but I tend to be picky about the places I want to go. I also don’t usually travel alone, so how often I go depends on when my friends can go and if they’re interested too. All in all I’d say I travel maybe 1-2 times a year. Nothing super crazy. Might do some solo traveling in Asia next year though if I can’t take off work. Would be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:32 PM
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All very 30-year-old-southern-white-woman but I guess it’s not such a bad thing. Wouldn’t look out of place anywhere really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:09 PM
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Always nice to see some dnb love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:39 PM
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They’ll say it’s a pro but IME it never is. You should have some kind of online presence for them to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:37 PM
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Pretty much the only good reason to have one tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:36 PM
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He’s deadly handsome, it’s all anyone ever says when they meet him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:29 AM
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That was April, so he’s going on ~6 months here he is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:23 AM
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Agh, so cute. I’d never had a cat before, so when my friend scooped up a month-old stray and offered him to me it was like a blessing from the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:16 AM
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Ofc, I lucked out with a stray that likes to give it back so I’m forever convinced
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:01 AM
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I was being facetious, I don’t need the macho bonus to show my kitty some love 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:59 PM
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So does that mean my scrawny ass holding my cat is hyper-masculine and alpha? By like the commutative property or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:49 PM
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And here I was thinking it was your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:46 PM
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No arguments here I think you’re right, but I’d put more emphasis on the type of socializing that leads to dates. I know it’s a common refrain that unsuccessful dudes have no friends whatsoever, but in my experience there are plenty of dudes out there with friends of both genders that still don’t really know how to flirt or escalate. Or more commonly, just don’t approach enough. And another note, I’ve gotta say that pretty much everyone in my generation has some level of social malfunction. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:33 PM
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Would you consider yourself picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:15 PM
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Anyone seen Burning (the Korean movie)? !i can’t believe there are people that are 100% convinced that Ben is a killer, the film wasn’t subtle about Jong-soo being a bit nutty too, and we see things from his perspective. it’s supposed to be ambiguous, even leaning towards no!< Feels like Midsommar all over again, where people just see what they wanna see and assume that’s what the movie’s all about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:00 PM
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Here come the tradcons masquerading as “rp”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:25 PM
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Another weekend, another half-Filipina saying I “remind her of her brother” K I L L M E 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:14 PM
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Managed to fall ill this weekend, so probably not much beyond staying in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:44 PM
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I got j&j and it turned me into a newt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:31 PM
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Great, figures I get a cough and sore throat just days before the horniest weekend of the year 🤧 Won’t stop me from drinking at home though, hopefully my friends Jameson and Bushmills can come in clutch for my sore throat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:05 PM
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Very very b*sed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:45 PM
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Nah it doesn’t bother me, people generally like how I dress Just thought it was strange given my location
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:56 PM
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I reckon it’s cause I started wearing more black shoes/boots instead of the usual white kicks Sorry yo, I need them extra 1-2” to put me at 5’10” 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:55 PM
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Maybe it’s the sudden change, I used to balance it out with stuff like grey and white more often but now it’s pretty much all black
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:54 PM
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Bruh I wish my obnoxiousness only came from my height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:52 PM
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Is wearing all black really that weird? I’ve gotten so many “emo/Batman/johnny cash” comments on it since I starting wearing more black. Thought it’d be more normal in my area tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:49 PM
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Tanner white men, let’s call it like it is. For a minority/non white passing dude, generally being lighter skinned will help with that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:52 AM
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There’s probably some credit to the idea that women like guys that seem “familiar”, be it through their upbringing, social media, whatever. Mixed dudes like us are still statistically rare, so we get less exposure and are less “familiar”. Guys tend to like variety and uniqueness in women more, so being mixed can actually be a boost for them. Hence why mixed guys tend to like mixed girls more than vice-versa. This is coming from my experience as half Asian dude though, things could be completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:51 AM
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IIRC, Kojic acid just stops you from getting darker than your skin tone when it’s at it’s naturally palest. Stops melanin production or something. I’ve been using it for like a month and it seems to have worked, but it’s not like I look like a different person or anything. Just me at my brightest skin tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:46 AM
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This is exactly the scenario I’m in. I always thought that people would appreciate how different I looked being half-Asian, but I realized that people generally like things that they’ve seen before. Even still, I know I’ll never look white or East Asian or whatever. I just think being paler helps me out a bit. btw it doesn’t make your skin lighter than it naturally gets, it just stops you from getting any darker than your palest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:42 AM
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Oof, so my Filipino buddy from college didn’t like it when I told him that I use Kojic Acid soap to lighten my skin tone a bit. Said it promotes an “unhealthy mentality”. It’s hard because I know where he’s coming from, but at the end of the day, I gotta work with what I’ve got. I think I look better when my skin is lighter, so that’s what I’m gonna do. And if the day comes that I start actively looking for girls again, then I wanna be in the best position to do so. If not, then fuck it, at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:33 AM
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I feel like I’m even worse with my “ideal girl” because I’m more worried about screwing it up. I just don’t convey emotions well over text, I much prefer talking face to face. If it bothers you though, he should probably make some attempt at a compromise. A real attempt, although I gotta give his craftiness credit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:13 AM
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Can’t believe the new mod hadn’t considered this simple fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:05 AM
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Me, if I was successful that is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:04 AM
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I laughed really hard at this ngl Yeah it’s a little slimy, but it’d be a goofy thing to actually argue about IMO I’m a bad texter so I’m biased… might have to try this strategy myself at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:03 AM
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Damn, didn’t even think of that cause there’s no party city near me but I’ll look on Amazon jic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:18 PM
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I put off thinking about Halloween costumes… again I’m trying to go as Pattinson’s emo-ass Batman but idk what I need to put on my eyes. Is it eyeshadow, eyeliner, what? Gotta know what to ask my mom to borrow. Pls help PPD women, I’ll be the first ever dude here to take some advice 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:08 PM
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The future is 2d, I love my waifus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:52 PM
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Nice, I always go heavy on the garlic tho and sometimes my Italian family members complain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:51 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:43 PM
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I’ll never forget that as long as I live lmao If there’s one thing I can’t fault Philly for, it’s the… passion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:11 PM
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A lot of people here are on the older side, I can’t really fault them for not knowing what people in their 20s are actually doing nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:08 PM
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u/Lift_and_Lurk did they grease the poles in Center City this weekend? I left the city before the end of the playoffs on Sunday, but I can imagine the city was pretty hyped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:59 PM
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I’m not saying you specifically, I’m just using tinder as an offhand for past hookups, compared to social media feeds. I can totally understand why a girl who looks nothing like the skinny East Asians on my TikTok feed would feel insecure if she saw me looking at them. Likewise, I’d feel pretty weird if her tinder convos/hookups were all tall white dudes who looked nothing like me. I wouldn’t drop her, but there’s a flag on the field. Just saying that it goes both ways and I agree with the compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:56 PM
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You did say you didn’t wanna be “compared” to random girls on tiktok. Guys don’t wanna be compared to randos off tinder… I honestly don’t think either are a big deal. Idgaf if a girl finds/found other dudes attractive, as long as she treats me like I’m one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:50 PM
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“Progressive” women shitting on Indian/Asian men is a modern day pastime. Maybe the next generation will get their shit together, but I’m not holding my breath. there’s a reason I started using skin brightening soap, I’m not south Asian but I’m taking no chances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:41 PM
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Because everyone gets downvoted and it’s an unenforceable rule anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:33 PM
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Dude I said sorry don’t be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:28 PM
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Unreasonable because I have all the women in that category already Sorry bud
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:20 PM
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Starbucks baristas near a big city financial district are ruthlessly attractive. Pretty sure they hire em with that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:19 PM
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True, social media wasn’t too nuts when I was in grade school, but the younger kids now have it brutal I’m among the oldest in Gen Z, so I saw a little bit of that transition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:17 PM
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“That’s a rather civilly uncordial take there” My new go to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:15 PM
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As a member of “the youth”, I have to say that it’s tricky getting past it. I avoided instagram for years, and all it did was make my social life more difficult. I’ve since caved, but at least now I’m in the same boat as everyone else and can relate to when they talk about it. Not having it made me feel more isolated, not more free. I don’t know what the answer is, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:05 PM
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That’s very r-worded of the admins
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:03 PM
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Especially nowadays since everyone is so online. We see things like how many matches we get, or how many likes/followers someone has, etc and we say it doesn’t matter to us, but that’s kinda naive. Not sure if mental illness is worse in my generation, but things certainly feel more dour for people my age and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:01 PM
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Do people here overuse “autistic” because they’re worried the r-word will get them banned? Cause it’s almost always used as if it means “person who says things in a way I don’t like”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:52 PM
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IRL or online? IRL I’d say it’s pretty equal among young people right now, online it’s men by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:47 PM
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I don’t lie, I think humankind is obsolete and I bring it up whenever things get steamy with a woman 🥵 Gets them going every time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:46 PM
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And just like that every guy you meet gets an instant preselection debuff damn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:27 AM
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Staying to my word, no more, but never less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:26 AM
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Huge agree, pride kills everything it touched
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:25 AM
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Old wrinkly grandmas are probably the least threatening cat calls… I was catcalled by a prostitute in Seoul, now that’s danger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:24 AM
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Smart move. It helps that I’m half-southeast Asian though. Your mileage might vary depending on who you are and what you’re comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:17 PM
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it’s no skid row, but I’m sure it’ll do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:11 PM
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You and me both, except I ain’t waiting for this place to go first. I want my head start. It’s $$$ though, so that’s the primary goal. Then I’ll make my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:08 PM
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Do people here, men and women, realize that Southeast Asian countries aren’t just third world slums through and through? Like, they’re not all hanging out in mud huts eating raw meat and shit. There are cities and industries, some of which are at least as good as ones in the west. Like, is Kuala Lumpur really shittier than L.A.? Maybe I’m a bit biased, but damn, the way y’all talk about them sometimes just screams the fact that you don’t know anyone actually from there 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:01 PM
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Unless someone’s been leaking this shit 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:50 PM
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What’s your area, approximately? It’s very possible that my area is more open with that kinda thing Age range could factor in too. I find that guys in my generation are much more open than the generations older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:47 PM
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She might have features that I like personally, but maybe aren’t “statistically” hot Like I’m pretty sure girls with oblong/oval shaped faces are seen as more conventionally attractive, but I like girls with rounder faces too All depends on how you rate people, if it’s personal or “objective”. I don’t think too hard about it honestly, it’s just “cute” or “not cute”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:46 PM
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Nope to what lmao It’s just my experience. I’m sure there are dudes out there that do care or don’t like it, I just hang around guys that don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:40 PM
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A 5 or 6 can be really hot to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:35 PM
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I’m between sets rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:34 PM
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I literally love taller women My preference is for a woman around my height, but I’ll go up to like 4” taller than me, I don’t give a shit unless it bothers her too I’m 5’8” and Asian though, so most women that are openly interested in me are on the shorter side. I’m much more likely to make a move on them in aggregate. But I love the tall girls too As for other dudes IRL, it’s the guys that were 6’+ that expressed disinterest in taller women to me. Guys my height have never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:34 PM
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Holy shit that sound good Spicy stuff + ranch is 🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:20 AM
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Hear me out…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 AM
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CMV ranch is better than blue cheese in most cases and I’m tired of being called trashy for liking it w/ pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:40 AM
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I think being a nerd is honestly fine these days as long as you don’t lead with interests that are usually seen as “lame” So being into anime or video games or whatever is fine, as long as you already have rapport with someone, but don’t let it be the first or only thing you talk about Some people think it’s lame but usually if you act like it’s not a big deal they’ll back down or get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:25 AM
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Intentionally toxic = desperate and lame Unintentionally toxic = hawt and sexy Jk I just like messing w/ people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:58 AM
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Some girl explained to me the “push and pull” method this weekend and I played dumb the whole time LOL Sorry babe, my game is just naturally good 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:29 AM
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I am running off of pure spite rn ngl Most of my long term goals are negatively motivated tbh, it’s in the short term where I can be more optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:20 PM
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Alea iacta est
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:35 PM
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I want a sugar mom that’s 2-6 years older than me and bilingual Not willing to compromise, I know my worth 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:58 PM
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I would die at the concert out of euphoria
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:53 PM
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This weekend?? Way too early for costumes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:52 PM
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You all heard u/FjbhBoy, time to pack it up and go home
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:51 PM
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You’re on a gender/debate subreddit. People with the strongest opinions are over-represented here, and people usually find it through their own echo chamber There’s a lot of overlap between twoX and twoX “lite” subs like nothowgirlswork There was overlap with manosphere subs before they all went and got themselves banned. Idk where they come from now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:49 PM
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I’m getting left behind, need a tall girl to get my bloodline back on track 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:20 PM
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For real, at least the Temple chicks admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:19 PM
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This is me except with colleges If she went to Georgetown, Notre Dame, or St. Joe’s, she’s definitely not off on the right foot with me 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:53 PM
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Would you rather have no legs, or no legs and no eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:47 PM
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Makes sense, I’m pretty sure my school was the same since it was really white
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:46 PM
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Septum piercings are one of my few “hard” turn offs, idk why I just find it really odd looking Everything else I’m cool with in moderation. Less is more I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:45 PM
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I dropped it back in 2010 when I was a wee-little boy, but picked it up a few years ago when I realized it had Rawls from the wire in it Totally worth it, I got hooked and beat it in like 4 days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:40 PM
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That’s what I thought until I finally tried New Vegas, that shit is dope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:34 PM
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No denial here, but I doubt anything crazy will happen besides a bit of awkwardness And getting trashed, but that’s the fun part I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:27 PM
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Driving ~2 hours to pregame and do [absolutely legal stimulants] with a chick that’s still a bit obsessed over me but has a man now What could go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:19 PM
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If she’s 2d then I’m all about it Unfortunately I’m in a steady relationship with my 90s anime waifu already
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:15 PM
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B*sed, especially the part about having cock sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:13 PM
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I’ve been critiqued for not grabbing ass when making out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:11 PM
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Are we on the femboy wave now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:10 PM
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Never heard of parents caring about that. Is it a cost thing? Just say you need it for sports or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:09 PM
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You just gotta watch out for if it fucks with your sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:04 AM
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I really have no plans to be any more than like 150lbs. I’m fine with being slim, just want to put on a bit of muscle. Physical and mental illness got the best of me, around a year ago. Weight fell quick when my diet went to shit, lost about 2 years worth of gains
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:02 AM
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Yup, although I think the nicotine kinda evens it out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:50 PM
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I’m 5’8, but 140 is definitely not the “end” of my bulk, if anything it’s indefinite I was around 155 before I dropped down to genuinely underweight (~17 bmi), that’s why I’m lowkey proud rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:48 PM
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I went to my university homecoming last year and someone asked if I wanted a tour Listen, I’m shocked I got my diploma too, let’s just leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:12 PM
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Not fair, there are Latino and Asian people too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:09 PM
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Also it’ll probably be after we drink a little and I don’t want to taste like alcohol That’s the best part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:08 PM
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Finally bulked past 140lbs again, and it’s more muscle this time around And to think my mum said THC wasn’t good for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:07 PM
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Yooo my brain is kinda collapsing so imma try cutting off any outlets for what I assume is the main problem of indulging on comprehension 🫠 Idk if it’ll even work, but ya boy is out for now. SKY_ACTIV3 lowkey actually fucking crazy and not even in the fun way peace ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:04 PM
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I heard someone say that if a girl tries to fuck you and she wants a relationship, it’s because she’s desperate and she’ll take anyone. I don’t know any relationships that didn’t start with sex before commitment. According to the above logic, the people in them must be desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:02 AM
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tldr read my comments bitchazz
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:42 AM
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Can’t change your view if you’re right. “Only desperate people fuck while dating” is just… incredible. If that’s true, then nearly all of the people I know in relationships are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:42 AM
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In this case, she definitely was. I felt awful for her, so I didn’t keep her around once I accepted that she really did want more. I would have respected it a lot if she just walked away, and god knows I gave her plenty of chances. To my knowledge she’s never been hung up on someone like she was with me. She’s got a new guy and things are okay when we run into each other, but I still hear whispers that things are kinda there. Hey, there’s been at least one time where I’ve stuck around when I pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:33 AM
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I can think of some girls that things could’ve been like that with. I can think of girls where it definitely wasn’t. I’d like to think I could tell from their dating history, how they interact with me, what they tell their friends, etc. I’m not saying this is all I’m looking for in a girl. But even if I have no other evidence, I’d still rather be in that situation than a girl who actually wants something else. It’s not about being “special” or “perfect” or “Mr. Right”. I don’t care about that. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:18 AM
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Enough are that I can’t think of a single counterexample among my friends. Every relationship I know that’s lasted > 2 years started out with sex, or at least had sex heavily involved during the dating stage. The only exceptions would be more traditionally minded people. Keyword: would be. I don’t know any that are in a relationship, and I went to a freakin catholic school. I can’t think of a single time where a girl intentionally “made him wait” and then actually ended up wanting him in the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:49 AM
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This is my experience, although I’m not as strict about having to be fuckbuddies first. I’ve been in situations where girls have dropped fuckbuddies after meeting me or going on a date. The common line is that they were still dtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:36 AM
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It’s very much possible that I’m reversing causality. Maybe the women didn’t want a relationship with me when they first decided to initiate physically, but decided they did later. But I have never been in a situation where there was explicitly one without the other, unless a girl was only looking for one in general. Basically, there’s a “deeper reason” for my feeling too: I’ve never met a woman who wanted to commit to me, but sleep with other people instead. I’ll end it with this: if a woman I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:33 AM
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It’s not that extreme that I feel like I have to time it. If we don’t end up having sex until like a couple weeks or a month in, who cares, especially if she’s shown signs of wanting to be physical already. But yeah, in those situations, I really didn’t think it was important. It was a mercy that they decided to take initiative and drop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:21 AM
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It’s very much possible, and it’s nothing to feel ashamed about. Just make sure that either way you’re wearing what you really enjoy, and not what you feel like you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:57 PM
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Nuclear red pill a girl I know dropped on me this past weekend when we were drunk chatting. I told her about a time where a girl claimed that she was on the same page about being casual with me, but told her friends she wanted more: “She liked you so much that she was willing to settle for only part of you than lose all of you.” I told the girl (the one I was chatting with) that I’d rather just be on the same page, and she was just probably especially anxious about losing me. With other girls it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:55 PM
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She doesn’t have to know right away, and that’s the point of not being so strict. But I would wonder why it was so easy to know these other guys weren’t right (so sex with them is on the table), but for me there’s so much uncertainty. I think it’s just my experience that makes me cautious. The girls that really wanted to date me long term, also always wanted to be physical with me. The girls that didn’t want to be physical were almost always less invested in me, and usually ended up fizzling out…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:43 PM
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If me and some generic average dude approached 1000 women, I’d probably bang 20 and he’d bang 5. Which is like woahhhh, crazy, 20 girls! But in the actual process it’s 980 rejections for me and 995 for him–that feels almost the same I think I’ll save my full feelings for another time, but in the case of race, which is what we were originally talking about, the experience of dating is not the same, even if you pull the same amount. I know that sounds kinda complicated and weird, but like I said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:30 PM
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Good question. I wanna just take the chance to point out that I’m not Korean, so my take on their style is just through what I see. I’m also only half white, and I’m talking about what I see on the east coast. The south is probably way different. “White” outfits is a bit of an oversimplification. Some white guys dress more preppy, some more streetwear. But in general, the fits tend to be more colorful, form fitting, and casual in a “going out” scenario. So at my college sports bar, I’d probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:26 PM
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I mean insecurities can be based in reality. That’s the problem with the conversation, when people assume that something is not true or important if someone admits they’re insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:16 PM
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That’s basically the core of what I’m saying. Women can say they don’t want to approach because they don’t want to be seen as fucking material by guys that don’t really like them, but the truth is that they don’t want to risk being seen as fucking material by guys that don’t really like them. So they decide not to take that risk if they don’t feel like they have to in order to find a partner. That’s all I was saying. Don’t make a false comparison between men and women not wanting to initiate, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:14 PM
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So, peacocking? Doesn’t work IMO. What does matter is looking “congruent” with the type of person people assume you are, and if that type of person is attractive to them. I used to have “white” outfits that I would tend to wear to white bars and parties, and “Asian/Korean” outfits that I’d wear more often around Asians. There was plenty of overlap, but I was conscious about it. Eventually I stopped caring, since people were just gonna see me as what they wanted to anyways, regardless of how I dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:23 PM
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I mean, by virtue of men being evolving to be taller than women, it’s been important for mating as long as humans have been a thing. IIRC, most species on earth have larger females than males, mammals and birds are just some of the common exceptions. What is (relatively) new is the desire of extremely statistically rare heights. I assume it’s been a trend for a few centuries, but the internet/OLD just sealed the deal for this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:16 PM
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The obvious answer is blade runner and especially its sequel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:05 PM
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Even weight isn’t everything honestly. Mayweather is 5’8 and 155 lbs. Big, but not bodybuilder big. I still don’t think anyone would doubt he could fuck up someone taller and heavier. He did for Oscar de La Hoya who was just barely in the same weight class at 5’11. And that Logan Paul exhib sure as shit doesn’t count, lol that was a bullshit money grab Being big and tall definitely gives you the edge. But knowing how to fight can also swing things in the short dudes favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:04 PM
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It is what it is. At the very least I can still be happy with what I get since “below me” still isn’t necessarily “unattractive”. A 6 is still cute to me, and I’ll take her over an icy 7 any day if she treats me right. Just be careful if I’m still on the lookout tho, since apparently there are some real baddies that think I’m up there on their level too. And there’s been times I’ve swerved both to chase after my “looksmatch”, who ended up thinking I wasn’t shit. It’s hard to tell if I’m just Sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:51 PM
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I’m inclined to believe those men don’t really just want “chances”, they want results. “Chances” are a nonstarter if they never lead to anything else. Technically a woman who wants a relationship has the “chance” to impress the guy and leave the fuckzone. I wouldn’t expect her to want to repeatedly be in that position. I’ve had women beg me for “chances”, and it’s always felt like they just didn’t feel qualified to be first priority, so they felt like the fuckzone is the only chance she’d get at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:41 PM
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Idk, I think your conclusion is pretty reasonable. You’ll have to forgive me, because my knowledge of psychology is… dogshit honestly. I know that there are fields like behavioral and cognitive psychology that focus on how a persons responds to stimuli or internal processes, but the extent which a person can influence their overall personality doesn’t seem to be agreed upon. I think Maslow and even Freud agreed that human beings could intentionally affect the way their minds respond to stimuli, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:26 PM
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Sure, but I’m sure you have heard “he’s not my type, but I’ll give him a chance” or “I’ll let him take me out and maybe he’ll impress me”. Idk, about you, but I’ve heard women say shit like that and I find it just as disrespectful as when guys talk about “hot enough to fuck but not enough to date”. I’m saying it cuts both ways. Once you put your interest out there, you can get used.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:10 PM
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Maybe y’all can revoke my blackpill/“pro-male” card for this, but honestly idgaf if the girl I’m dating is technically “below” me in terms of looks. If I find her cute, then she’s cute enough for me to be happy with that. That being said, girls who I think are “in my league” tend to give me the most shit. Girls that I assume are “above” me can actually end up treating me like I’m just as good looking as them, and girls that are “below” me treat me like hot shit. But smth bout these 7s makes them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:05 PM
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Yup, “I think they seem a bit young in this photo” is one of my most common notes. And that’s from women within my age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:51 PM
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There’s been a multi-decade movement based around holding men accountable for misogyny and hate against women, and even that hasn’t snuffed it out. There hasn’t been an equivalent social movement for men at all, so of course people are gonna be less conscious about any prejudices they have against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:49 PM
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I believe it, I’m just saying he could pass for much younger. I look pretty young for my age too, I sometimes get people asking if I’m a senior in high school. I’m not complaining, but I see why that might throw some people for a loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:45 PM
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Damn yo, I like see pretty-boys get repped here but he looks like he’s 16 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:41 PM
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Eh, I’m always down to talk about how peoples personalities are developed (if they’re genetic, cultural, familial, whatever) but the idea that personality can’t be changed is much more contentious than the idea that looks can’t change. Someone claiming that they’re upset about their personality hurting their chances but unwilling to change it is different from someone upset that their height holds them back and they’re unable to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I don’t doubt that has a huge effect. I talk to 1st Gen immigrants all the time (I’m 2nd Gen), and if they moved at an important developmental stage then it really had serious impacts on their lives and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:35 PM
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Hey, if that’s what you care about giving or receiving, then that’s that. I can’t tell you you’re wrong. I’m saying that both men and women are both justified in not wanting to approach. Can’t act like one is irrational about it but the other isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:34 PM
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Oh yes, gimmie that sweet sweet mod validation Tell me I’m a good boy again 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah, that’s kind of the rub. What I’m saying is that when that happens, people notice, and non-whites are penalized even further through a lack of assumed desirability. Like a chicken-or-the egg paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:27 PM
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Whether or not you qualify as a realist/anti-realist is mostly philosophical semantics. I think you sound a bit constructivist right now, but you could possibly be a fictionalist/error-theorist too. Excess altruism could very well be the problem. Our instinct is to impose our personal lie on how the world should be on other people, when we could just be aware of how both are equally irrational and make a decision based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:23 PM
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The way I see it is this: if life has no inherent meaning, then any human belief is inherently false and any human action is equally irrational. That means that acting as if life does have value is just as irrational as acting like it does not. Choosing to live according to “fictional” values and terms is just as irrational as deciding that those values shouldn’t exist at all. Your “answer” to ambiguity is just as absurd as the alternative. In the end, we agree that anything can be argued for or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:35 PM
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Idk I got dates when I was unemployed. But I do think being broke gets exponentially worse as you get older. Are they looksmatched in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:24 PM
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Women will take attention, time, money, and even commitment from a guy they don’t desire. When you approach, your are immediately putting the ball in the other person’s court. They can always abuse that leverage. That’s the rub with initiating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:21 PM
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🐈?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:06 PM
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Lowkey lame, I woulda given him shit about it. Why tf can’t you just date someone you actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:55 PM
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Everyone approaches at their own risk tbh, but I understand why women wouldn’t want to if they don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:54 PM
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Some good talk about nihilism and existentialism today, but I wanna make the distinction that while I pull from nihilism and nihilist lines of though in terms of my ideas, I don’t consider myself a “true nihilist”. I fall somewhere under the moral-skepticism/error-theorist umbrella, likely fictionalist, since a lot of my current ideas come from The Myth of Morality by Richard Joyce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:54 PM
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Bingo, I addressed that in another response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:49 PM
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Nothing required you to be born. But nothing’s requiring you to die or stop living either. Both actions are beyond reason. Believing that non existence is inherently preferable to existence is pessimism. Not nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:48 PM
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I can’t speak for all nihilists (or anti-realists if you wanna get specific), but the way I rationalize it is that the human brain doesn’t have to act logically 100% of the time. If nothing matters, why should I try to always behave rationally? In theory, yeah. I don’t have to care about my family, friends, and partners. But if nothing matters, why would caring about them anyways be a bad thing, even if it’s “irrational”? Why should I retreat from the world and just die? If there’s no right answ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:39 PM
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I’m lazy as shit, which is probably why I’m still so bad at it. But I don’t take pride in that. I’ll also acknowledge that cooking for fun and cooking as a chore are very different. But if anything, splitting that responsibility with someone let’s us both enjoy it more. Idk why that wouldn’t be the ideal scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:34 PM
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Okay, hopefully a mod can come in and shut me down if I’m wrong, but the sub rules are really just a deterrent for attracting people that’ll ruin the sub or get it banned by admins. It doesn’t mean you can’t talk about those things, it just means you have to do it productively and carefully. Can you imagine how this place would be if it was always like the purge? I might as well just go back to fucking 4chan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:31 PM
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I can’t relate to guys who expect their wife to do all of the cooking. I’ve always wanted to be a good cook because most of the men in my life growing up took pride in the craft and genuinely enjoyed doing it. Even a lot of my friends around my age are the same way. I still suck at it lmao, but I always enjoy the feeling of making something for myself. Plus it’s a cool way to learn about other cultures. I can’t imagine taking pride in not being interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:29 PM
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I absolutely love it, especially in the context of the show. I know it gets a rep for being artsy and weird (and it definitely is lol) but I genuinely believe it is extremely authentic and beautiful. It’s the one movie I can’t watch without getting emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:26 PM
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People find happiness in things that don’t matter all the time. Can you not enjoy a book or movie because it ends, or because it’s fictional? Caring about things and seeking pleasure is human nature, regardless of what you believe. Nihilism allows you the opportunity to make the decision for yourself what parts of life you want to choose to care about. But you also run the risk of not allowing yourself to enjoy anything. Hence the balancing act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:24 PM
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I agree with this, losing my faith was the first step in me falling towards nihilism. But I disagree that that’s the only way forwards. If anything, knowing that none of my choices matter in the grand scheme of things is actually an extremely comforting thought. I traded the security of faith for the freedom of ambiguity. I just have to figure out what to do with that freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:20 PM
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I mean, obviously giving up is the quickest way to guarantee zero results. Can’t win if you don’t play. I don’t see that as an excuse to be uninformed or willfully ignorant. That’s exactly why I think these discussions should be more common in mainstream spaces. It allows people to make informed choices instead of having the conversation limited to toxic and self-limiting communities. Bottom line, I acknowledge my privileges while keeping things in perspective. The bar is not on the ground, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:16 PM
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I’ve never been a big anime guy but End of Evangelion might deadass be my favorite movie of all time. If a girl asks though, I’m saying Blade Runner 2049. Even that might still be too weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:05 PM
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Basically, I’m having this same problem with nihilism. I’ve been trying to find a healthier balance, but I feel like I could never go back to caring about life in the way that I used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:55 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:54 PM
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I disagree, I personally think that ignoring it is one of the worst things you can do. You need to learn where you’re appreciated, and the types of people that will like you off the bat. You could go from losing by default to winning by default, just by choosing your battles better. If I had just ignored reality, I’d probably be slamming my head against the wall trying to date people that would never see me as an option, or at least a better option initially. Why would I do that to myself when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:53 PM
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See flair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:45 PM
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I know, I felt like such a loser being with a pretty girl with an amazing personality because she was old 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:40 PM
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It depends on the location, but this is absolutely true. The rub is that it’s self-perpetuating. Tons of girls don’t want to be the one who had to “settle” for an Asian dude. But the reason it’s seen as settling in the first place is because those dudes are rarely seen getting as much play. Preselection is a bitch, and it happens on a societal level too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:38 PM
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Just means it’s an uphill battle. Not impossible. I would disagree that having those traits means you “win” though. You could be the sexiest, smoothest talking Asian dude on the planet, but if the girl you’re talking to doesn’t want an Asian dude, then that’s that. And when you’re Asian, that’s much more likely to happen to you in this country. I think you have a good perspective, but it is frustrating seeing complaints or observations ignored or shut down by people when the topic comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:35 PM
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Depends on where you live and what pool you’re pulling from, but yeah, I agree. I’d never ignore the advantage that being half white often gives me. I’ve always been straight up about it. Doesn’t mean I’m top dog, but I do think in some cases it gives me the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:31 PM
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“I’d rather be a dick than a swallower” -ancient proverb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:28 PM
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I usually go the other way lol I curved an 18 yr old to go hang with a chick that was 23 (I was 20 tho) Both cute, but I’ve always liked dating up a little more than dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:28 PM
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I’ve thought about getting rhino but I might be a bit dysmorphic about my nose tbh. Just not really worth it if I’m still this unsure, I don’t think other people really notice my nose like I do. Maybe if I move to Asia. Height increasing surgery is still kinda eh for me too, even if it was much easier and cheaper. I would love to be taller, don’t get me wrong, but I’m just not sure if the payoff is worth it. I’ll stick with wearing boots for now. Some girl told me this weekend she wished her eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:23 AM
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This, but unironically. Maybe bricking your mind with drugs until you barely even care at all could be a potentially useful outcome 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:44 AM
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I must be the most respectful man on earth then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:23 AM
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It’s time for mobile Reddit apps to start showing flair colors, cuz I thought that was the point of having different shades of red, blue, or purple. It’s also time for you to flair up rivet 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:22 AM
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It’s not the only thing that matters if you clear the bar. But I firmly believe that you’re not “filling in” or compensating for a lack of attraction by making up for it in other areas. You’re building a fundamentally different kind of relationship. If you’re cool with that, then I won’t stop you. But I personally would just rather be with someone who likes me for how I look and how I act, not just one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:20 AM
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If you mean that she wants to have sex after a week then that’s honestly whatever. Unless she’s actively fucking other dudes she met even sooner, I probably wouldn’t even think about it. Even then I wouldn’t dump her over it, just start taking notice. It’s not about me counting days or timing her, it’s about her showing me clear signs of interest before I start considering a relationship. But I’ve also never heard from a woman that she doesn’t wanna fuck me because she likes me so much. I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:17 AM
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That just sounds like people talking past each other though. If wifey treatment is based on being husband material, and being husband material is contingent on being attractive, then it’s not the behavior that matters there. A less attractive dude acting like a husband still won’t qualify for wife treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:57 PM
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No, I don’t care about n count or anything like that. As long as she’s attracted to me, respectful, and loyal in a relationship I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:53 PM
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So the fabled “alpha buxx”. Second only to “Stacy McBangmaid”. The point kinda stands, he needs to be attractive and high value first. Then his potential desire for commitment is what matters. If you’re on the same page as him about commitment, ie. not still fucking around then I don’t see that as unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:41 PM
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lol I just realized I was being stupid with the acronym. Of course it wouldn’t be just a ONS, I just meant starting as something casual then going on dates, then a relationship. That’s my ideal course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:27 PM
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I’d value being a ons that turned into a partner honestly. That seems like an ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:19 PM
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This is facts, but only in the case you’re actually fucking her. If not ur getting ur ass played.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:17 PM
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A lot of the time you’ll never really know for sure. I’d consider the way you guys met as step one. If you met on OLD, or in a club, then it’s a fair assumption that she either has or is open to seeing other guys. If you have mutual friends, then of course that’s a good source of info too. Basically, if the woman you’re seeing isn’t traditionally minded and she’s not fucking you, you’re in the danger zone. Look for cues of sexual attraction, physical touch, kissing, the usual stuff. See if she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:15 PM
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I’ve been there. Can’t imagine the level of disrespect I would’ve actually gotten in those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:57 PM
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I don’t fw guys screwing around and then complaining that women aren’t modest. But I don’t fw it the other way around either, lmao I’d wanna know specifics about what makes a dude “husband material”, especially from a woman who fucks around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:55 PM
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A: Thanks Like just take the compliment wtf. I’ve never once considered a woman calling me beautiful, gorgeous, cute, or even pretty as an insult. If it was, then it was a shit attempt at one since I took it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:50 PM
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It only goes that way if you don’t have shit going on your end. If you’re talking to/fucking other girls, then it becomes an exclusivity talk. It might even kick in preselection, just don’t be too douchey or obvious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:47 PM
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Idk about him but it’s only a disrespect if you’re the chump she wouldn’t want unless you were committed. “Would you swipe right if you saw your current partner on tinder” type of stuff. Basically, it’s much “safer” to go from a hookup to a relationship than to jump into a relationship with someone you don’t know is sexually attracted to you. This doesn’t apply for people who don’t hook up. But sometimes there’s no way to know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:45 PM
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If you’re young, it’s likely. It’s almost a mercy that a lot of these dudes get dropped before even getting to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:40 PM
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Isn’t this what RP guys are complaining about though? That when they do act like husband material they come up short? I’m not rp but I can see where they’re coming from. Playing the husband or even boyfriend game can hurt your chances, not make them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:39 PM
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Disagree, status can totally trigger sexual attraction, or at least spur actions or reactions that lead to sex. Not all status is equal, though. Preselection is a great example of status that can really bump things in your favor. Unfortunately it also requires sexual desirability in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:35 PM
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I’d still rather be in my position now than not getting anything. I hate texting, especially people I don’t really know. But having to put up with that is way better than having no one to message at all. So when guys complain about apps I listen. Just cause I’m a bit farther ahead doesn’t mean I’m playing a totally different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:32 PM
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No, I totally agree that NYC is it’s own thing, but I guess the rub is that most places in this country aren’t that much different. Like I’m pretty sure any complaints I have about the NYC scene are just straight up dwarfed by the issues in say, San Francisco, or Miami. The burbs aren’t much different either in my experience, it’s just that the pool is smaller. Its not exactly a “blackpill” if you can just walk away and the problems up and vanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:20 PM
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I’m sorry for being so vague but a lot of it is race-related in a way that I don’t think will be received well. Basically conversations I had with women combined with observations that I can easily make being around so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:21 PM
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C.R.E.A.M.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:08 PM
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It’s just rough out here. I pay close attention to the couples I see, the people I talk to, what I see at clubs/bars/restaurants. Some of the shit I hear from guys and girls would get me so much shit if I repeated it here. I recognize that my experience is limited, but there are such clear patterns. And the crazy part is that in real life people admit to them, but for some reason online people are still in denial. It’s nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:31 PM
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I’m 23. Some of these guys I have known since I was like 5 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:24 PM
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Man, I am like 3-4 more trips to Manhattan away from turning full on red/blackpilled. This shit is actually so brutal 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:23 PM
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I can honestly say that if I didn’t have amazing friends I would probably be dead. At the risk of sounding arrogant, I am extremely lucky to have multiple large groups of friends that I genuinely consider “ride or die”. Some from high school, some from college. These guys would literally help me with anything in the world I was going through, and they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:09 PM
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All the better reason to drink a bit more 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:53 PM
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NYC lol Yeah, I’m not really worried, just gonna be interesting to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:53 PM
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I agree, you’re right. Just made a generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:16 PM
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Man, I picked a fucking great weekend to go into the city huh Wish me luck ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:51 PM
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True, I’m making the assumption that married couples already know their stance on children and using contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:48 PM
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True, it’s more contraceptive than actual abortion. 11 weeks is just the absolute max for what’s considered safe or acceptable for a medicinal treatment. Ideally this would actually incentivize people to test for pregnancy more actively, but yes, edge cases would have about a months worth of time. The biggest issue would be with uninformed cases, but those would still be a much smaller portion of situations. Maybe a legal precedent for the father to attempt to inform himself to be eligible for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:47 PM
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Great take. 11 weeks is the most fair since it gives them enough time to test for pregnancy but also safely access medication abortion. Plan B is only five days, so not enough time to notice a change in period cycle. And the father waives all legal rights towards the child until the child becomes an adult and can make their own decision about if they want to see them. Everyone involved gets to make informed decisions about their future. I don’t understand why this is so controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:03 PM
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You can’t have one without the other It’s a carrot on a stick and not a carrot or a stick for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:53 PM
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Moral of the story is that this country is actually kinda dogshit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:52 PM
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The line between state and federal jurisdiction is nowhere near as opaque as people make it out to be. Federal law does not prevent states from governing their citizens outside of their borders. But yes, if you have the means to move to another state, you are then considered a citizen of that state and are under their jurisdiction. Just like if you got a citizenship in another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:38 PM
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They shouldn’t care if they don’t want to, just don’t be surprised when those guys retreat into toxic male spaces after telling them you don’t wanna hear them. Pretty much how these things grow instead of fizzling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:26 PM
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Hotter take: the isolation from the pandemic turned fake mental illnesses into real ones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:23 PM
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Bingo. Especially if they don’t have the means or resources to travel OOS for an abortion. But of course, “conservatives” will support things like this and then in the same breath complain about crime and widespread poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:22 PM
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I’m all for calling bluffs, if someone pulls something outta their ass then by all means call em on it. But you can’t refuse to read a source and then still claim it’s wrong, that makes no goddamn sense. How can you say something is wrong if you didn’t even read it LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:20 PM
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Just don’t bother asking for a source then 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:15 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vjj6h1/_/idkn7ng/?context=1 I don’t know if they can prosecute you, but they can restrict you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:13 PM
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Not even really a stereotype, theres just virtually no women getting those degrees I guess you could say the same about finance, but at least business is associated with high levels of social skills (in theory, not in reality lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:11 PM
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I can’t even read myself, I just have Siri read out all the text on my screen at once
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:09 PM
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I love it when someone asks for evidence or a source and then says they won’t read any of it LOL 💀 Edit: like, if you believe I’m wrong, just read the fucking source so you can argue with that at least geez
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:05 PM
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These days I think electrical or mechanical engineering might be worse. Everyone and their mom codes nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:04 PM
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You can have it shipped to an authorized FFL dealer within your state. But the in person sale is illegal, according to the ATF: “Generally, a firearm may not lawfully be sold by a licensee to a nonlicensee who resides in a State other than the State in which the seller’s licensed premises is located. However, the sale may be made if the firearm is shipped to a licensee whose business is in the purchaser’s State of residence and the purchaser takes delivery of the firearm from the licensee in his…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:00 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:46 PM
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I’m not saying that abortion should be allowed strictly to reduce crime, I’m just saying there’s a clear pattern in safe and developed nations when it comes to allowing abortions. You could likely find a similar map for healthcare coverage, affordable housing, etc. I’m down with the irl purge tho, although I thought they said in one movie that it didn’t even work 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:46 PM
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They technically do in some cases. I cannot legally purchase a long gun in a state where they are legal if the sale wouldn’t be valid in my state of residence. Also, these are the two proposals I found
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:43 PM
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lmaoo I actually thought about waiting until then but I had to strike while the iron was hot Unless you’re calling me racist, or that crime map posts are a little alt-righty. I’m hoping y’all know me better though 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:38 PM
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Yeah, totally true. But I am saying that it doesn’t make sense to talk about ending pregnancy without considering preventing it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:35 PM
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Sure, that’s pretty much what wealthy women do now Poor women can go fuck themselves tho I guess. I’m sure that’ll have no discernible impact on crime. Of course, Missouri has proposed legislation to make outta state abortions illegal too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:34 PM
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I have some bad news, unless you’re married and/or celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:29 PM
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In light of todays news: Map A Map B One is a map of abortion laws by legality, and other shows countries by intentional homicide rates. Without cheating, can you tell which is which? !Okay, it’s pretty obvious which is which, but is there not a pattern? Which countries would you actually want to live in?!< here’s some bonus stats too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:29 PM
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If you’re a woman living in a trigger state, what difference does it make?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:28 PM
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I mean they’re not totally unrelated. If you want less abortions, then widespread birth control is the way to do it. People aren’t gonna stop fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:26 PM
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Oh I thought we were memeing gender roles my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:34 AM
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Woman up and take responsibility for your shitposts. Men are human beings, women are human doings 😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:30 AM
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I mean I’m natty and I could snap a pic of my bench, but it doesn’t mean I’m anywhere close to yoked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:24 AM
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Gives me r/whereareallthegoodmen vibes. Just cherry picking stuff and then dogpiling one gender. The real antidote to this sub would be a shitposting sub where men could only post anti-male memes and women would post anti-female memes. The shit people pick would have to be actually funny, and then everyone could laugh about it in the comments. obv no one would join tho, its so much easier to just dump on the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:22 AM
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I agree with absolutely every single thing in this comment, especially when it goes to going there with the girl, success rate on that is insane. I’ve learned is ALWAYS STICK NEXT TO THEM until you’ve gotten the number, kissed, danced, or even taken them home if they are into you. But I’m not sure if I totally agree with this. She should be trying to stick next to you if she really likes you. IME, the girls who left me hanging after chatting were just not all that down in the first place. The gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:43 AM
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No cuz ur a straight up Chad 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:36 AM
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I’m pretty much carried by my face ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:30 AM
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I don’t understand, I have to be picky to be a true titty guy? That’s not fair. Fine, I guess I’m a leg guy. I’m a bit stricter on that, at least I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:27 AM
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It’s just usually a better match in terms of life experience and social class. I find I struggle to really relate to girls that didn’t go to uni. It’s not a dealbreaker, but I really can’t think of the last time I’ve even met a girl my age who didn’t go. It’s just that divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:24 AM
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Bullshit. As a certified titty appreciator I appreciate all shapes and sizes, no minimums here. If hinge added a titty filter while I was on it, that shit would see zero use. Any man who is turned off by a pair of tits is no countryman of mine 🫡 actually boobs are like third behind face and legs for me but i digress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:01 AM
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Ugh, I hate asking girls for pics, but I guess you could send one to me if you wanted to. Or not it’s whatever I don’t care 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:33 AM
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Huge agree. N count is so overblown. The two girls I’ve met that were the most dedicated and loyal to me had n counts of 0 and… honestly I don’t even know, but I think it was a lot lol All that really matters is that she wants you and treats you with respect. N-count doesn’t tell you shit about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:39 PM
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Maybe I’m just a cautious man, but I always, always check the odds first. If I’m gonna play a losing game, it’s because I chose to, not because I didn’t know there was anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:33 PM
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That is true, but I don’t consider preselection weird. The vast majority of women I knew cared to some degree. I’ve just kind of accepted it. It means when I hit a good stride with girls, I can totally run with it, but it also makes dry spells longer and harder to get out of. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:16 PM
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Of course it’s possible. Family, friends, whatever. Most women will not intentionally disrespect men that they aren’t interested in. Maybe it’ll slip here or there, but if they’re good friends that know and trust one another it’s much less likely. I’m not one of those guys who say men and women can’t have strong friendships, that is bullshit. But respect in the context of a relationship? Not really. Unless she’s genuinely asexual or something, there will always be something missing there. And I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:12 PM
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Roulette is fun if you’re blasted enough, but if I’m just buzzed, I’m headed to the baccarat table and betting on the Banker. I can have fun chatting up the dealer and actually walk away with some winnings. Sounds good to me. I actually don’t really gamble, but I think the comparison still works. I’d prob wanna play craps irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:03 PM
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I won’t lie to you, but in my experience it’s far from just Stacy that cares. In fact, it’s been the average girls that shit tested me about it the most. Female friends too. The cutest girls never bothered trying to figure it out. I feel like they just made a call, and decided if they cared or not after that. Of course, the girls that really liked me just assumed it was true, so whatever. I’ll take them over any girl who’d assume the opposite, Stacy or not. Can’t really run from preselection I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:53 PM
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They don’t suck for just having a preference, they suck if they lie about it or downplay it’s importance. I also think they suck if they refuse to be at least somewhat self-critical about their priorities and behavior, but that goes for literally everyone. Apparently I’m also in the minority here about that so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:41 PM
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I won’t speak for OP, but it ain’t the internet that makes me hesitate before making a move, it’s my real experiences. Like, if I see a girl I like at a party, but she’s eyeing up my polar opposites, of course imma be at least a little hesitant. Losing out to a guy kinda like you is one thing, losing to a guy who is “better” than you in every way is a sign that you probably weren’t even in the running. I won’t pretend that shit doesn’t sting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:35 PM
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It was worth it for the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:31 PM
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We’re through
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:25 PM
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If I’m interested in the girl, then yeah imma probably at least think about what her type might be. If it’s a total stranger it doesn’t really matter if I get rejected so whatever. If it’s someone who has mutual friends with me, or is in my circle, then it’s more important. Rejection holds a bit more weight there, and I’m not gonna risk that crap over a girl who won’t date my entire race 🤷‍♂️ That being said sometimes I like guessing what a girls type/bf looks like when I see them on my tiktok o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:25 PM
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Sky? Just look up bro I’m p sure it’s usually there Anyways, am I in the titty club yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:18 PM
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The last thing you should ever do is brag about how desirable you are, cause then it’s probably not true. If they’re a stranger, it usually comes up around the “are you seeing other people” talk. If you say no to her, you better have a damn good reason why. If you have mutual friends or are in the same social circle, then there’s a good chance she’s heard about you. Women always do their research. Also getting hit on by a woman on a date is god-tier preselection. Just don’t actually entertain he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:18 PM
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Stop rejecting my applications
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:08 PM
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BDE without the E is just “big dick” which I was implying I did not have. Was happy to see she wanted “big dick energy” and not just a “big dick” Maybe it was too confusing or self deprecating, but I thought it was pretty funny at the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:07 PM
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One time a girl’s hinge prompt said “I’ll brag about you to my friends if you have BDE” and I responded “never been this happy to see an E before” We did not match
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:03 PM
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“Repulsive” is a super exaggerated way of saying not a sexual option to that women. In truth, there’s three levels: attractive, invisible, and repulsive. “Attractive but not my type” falls into category 2. Guys who doesn’t repulse you, but he doesn’t meet the threshold or have the traits to make him sexually desirable to the woman. Few people actually fall into the last category, but they can be forgiven for getting confused since plenty of people treat invisible and repulsive men similarly. Eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:00 PM
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The friend zone is a farce. Women are justified in feeling upset about losing a close friend, that shit really stings. They are not justified in spreading baseless claims about the guy (who, remember, was supposedly their friend) and his character if he walks away. Boys, there ain’t no “friend zone”. Either she wants you or she doesn’t. Friends or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:46 PM
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That’s the way it is. Not the way it has to be. Surely enslaving African children to mine for the most common natural gemstone and sell it at exorbitant prices to spineless men because they signed a freaking government contract wasn’t a genetic inevitability. Or maybe it was, but that’s another topic 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:32 PM
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I thought that only applied to real life. I guess I was wrong 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:21 PM
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I mean I know I personally tend to like faces that have a blend of features that are considered “cute” and features that are “sexy”. Usually leaning towards cute. I think features like that tend to be more polarizing. My personal “10s” are probably closer to a 6-8 if you were mathematical about it, but most people would still acknowledge them as very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:39 PM
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Nah, I’m not singling out women on materialism and spending. I’m pretty sure men are actually worse in terms of impulse buying, they spend more but do it less often. Cars, sports, gambling, even alcohol all market themselves predominantly to men. And it works. The difference is when you expect other people to support your materialistic wants. Nothing wrong with wanting nice things, but if you’re upset that the thing you got for free wasn’t nice enough, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:56 PM
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No, don’t you understand, everything we do is biological and completely uninfluenced by social conditioning and convention! More expensive = more validation. That’s all there is to it. I’m not gonna act like men aren’t materialistic too. Is a Porsche 911 Turbo S really worth spending 14x the price of my current car if I’d drive it the exact same way? Probably not, but I sure as shit would want one. See flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:50 PM
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Like if you ask a woman what male privilege is and she describes the experience of the top percentage of men I’m all for swapping anecdotes and making conclusions. We’d never get anywhere if that wasn’t the case. But don’t avoid the conversation because you assume it’s more lopsided than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:46 PM
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Redpillers? Secretive? Wym, I feel like I see rp rhetoric all the time, and while it might not be coming directly from the community, you’d figure they’d want to switch up their lingo to hide better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:40 PM
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They sure as shit fooled themselves, and that’s scary enough to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:31 PM
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I consider looking for certain traits or in certain locations a form of strategy. It doesn’t have to mean counting the number of blinks on a date or fucking after a certain number of hours. For guys especially, we have to be conscious of our audience. In the wrong environment, I don’t get shit. In the right one, I barely have to try. If that makes me a “lost cause” cause I have to think about it, then maybe you’re just more blackpilled than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:24 PM
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CMV: You guys suck!1!! I’m a guy who actually has sex, and I’m sick of these other guys whining about not having sex like I do. Go outside bro, and you’ll see why I have sex and you don’t! -u/sexhaverthrowaway69
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:20 PM
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But it’s amoral, sweetie. Nature just conveniently happens to favor men in the exact way that benefits me and gets me what I want. If redpill just up and admitted that they hated women and just wanted to manipulate and fuck them without trying to justify it, then they’d probably have been banned way sooner, but I could at least respect the integrity behind the community. All the evopsych and “ethical” commentary is just so dishonest. Obligatory FDS comparison ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:16 PM
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I’m glad they banned mentioning PPD, maybe we’ll see less “OMG this place is so horrible touch grass!!” posts. Fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:09 PM
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That’s closer to common inc*l rhetoric than any actual blackpill claim You’re free to make that association with yourself if you want. I think everyone strategizes, whether they realize it or not. But not everyone bases that strategy on some dogmatic bullshit they saw online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:06 PM
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Baby I was always a blackpilled woman 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:01 PM
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What a fascinating conclusion, dirty sanchez must be a common move among married couples I buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:00 PM
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I’m pretty good looking in the face, but the key is that found the right locations and groups to hang around. Most of these were from college, and even after graduating I don’t make 6 figs. I would never, ever deny that being attractive is a big factor in receiving this treatment. Having universal “Chad” traits (6 foot, white, fit, etc) will just mean that you have the advantage more often and in more environments. Even I still lose out to guys like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:59 PM
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Good take, I think the latter is actually more likely than we think. Like lots of inc*ls genuinely believe the stuff they say, or they’re at least echoing things they aren’t really sure if they believe. I don’t see why some women wouldn’t get caught up in the same trap. Now for the regulars here, they have no excuse. You can’t shout out red/blackpill arguments verbatim and then claim to not agree with them when they say the same thing. It’s like if me and a conservative dude both said America sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:53 PM
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Has there been an influx of blackpill women here? Like not quite FDS, but women who genuinely believe that they are only capable of being attracted to top men. Some of the conversations are hilarious: “Women are biologically attracted to the top 20% of men, that’s why average guys like me are completely hopeless.” “Uh, women can’t help who they’re attracted to. If that’s only the best men, so be it. Stop being a whiny blackpiller.” Like, y’all just said the same exact thing, what’s the argument …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:18 PM
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Yeah, it is a bit suspect that that always seems to be the straw that breaks the camels back. I’m worried about this place sometimes. I miss r/drama being a real thing. That was probably the most fun place on Reddit. No ideologies or agendas or bullshit rules, unless they were funny. Everyone was there with the common purpose of shitposting and dramahounding. I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:14 PM
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For a young girl with an active social life, especially in a community of nerdy/less experienced men, she probably has had at least a few potential orbiters. It doesn’t mean she actually keeps them around or entertains them though, although sometimes these guys do it anyways. It’s not a well defined term. It’s like “simp”, it doesn’t really mean anything beyond someone who thinks they have a chance with you but doesn’t. But not every girl sees these guys as orbiters, or leads them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:11 PM
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If you’re looking at the whole country, it’s absolutely is. But if you go to a wealthy college, or live in a liberal city, chances are most of the people in your dating pool aren’t fat. Being fat there would make you below average. It’s still fucking unacceptable in this country though. People are apparently okay with the fact that we’re far fatter than every other developed nation. People are literally dying but it’s nbd I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:05 PM
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I’m glad I got over my “anti-SJW” phase but it is kinda sad to see it go. r/Stupidpol is an okay replacement, but they’re a buncha fuckin commies so I still don’t like it there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:58 PM
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Why do you want an orbiter then, lol Orbiters are supposed to be backup options, not potential partners. That’s why they orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:56 PM
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You don’t. If you’re trying to fill in one area with something completely different, it’ll never work. Let’s say I had a hard height cutoff (like > 5’0 or something), and I genuinely believe I could be attracted to a woman who was 4’10. She could try and compensate for that with her actions or by emphasizing her other traits. If I choose to start trying to appreciate her height, then that’s on me. If it works, then she’s not compensating for it anymore. If I don’t, then she’s not making up for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:55 PM
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I can’t agree with this more. I have my blackpill views, but I really think people get too caught up in the “Chad always wins” mindset. A good looking dude can do well enough on average to be considered “winning”, but it doesn’t mean literally every woman ever will treat him the exact same or never flake. Some people are flakes. Some people even care about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:42 PM
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Like I said, the lack of external validation is just a symptom of a bigger problem. Blaming women as a whole for choosing not to give compliments or validation is idiotic and very unfair. I can blame women who, prompted or not, are dishonest about why the situation is like it is. If a guy said “I don’t feel handsome because I don’t receive external validation”, the answers he often sees are “external validation isn’t important”, “being handsome has nothing to do with it”, “women don’t even initi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:39 PM
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That’s the paradox though. Plenty of women agree with you, so they only compliment guys they’re cool with getting hit on by them. At the end of the day the insecurity lies in these guys feeling undesirable, not them feeling starved for compliments from strangers. These guys aren’t ever getting affirmations that they’re desirable, flirting or not, so of course they’re gonna be shit at recognizing it when it does or doesn’t happen. I think guys who are very desired are also kinda in the same spot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:31 PM
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Eh, I get highs off compliments still. It’s always cool when a stranger goes out of their way to make me feel attractive or cool. Even non-attractiveness comments from men I still get a buzz, I’ll never forget when this dude with a GT3 said my Mazda showed I had “good taste”. That was awesome. That being said, having bros is essential. Being around dudes that lift you up and are ride or die can literally save your life. Bros ain’t no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:23 PM
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I think the “compliments” argument from men is misleading. When guys say that, they really just mean they want to be seen as desirable more often, not get random compliments that mean nothing. Of course, that’s the bind. There is a relationship between real desirability and compliments, because many women don’t want to risk “leading on” a guy they don’t actually like. I’ve had girls tell me that they were shocked that I never made a move on them after they complimented me. I never made a move ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:17 PM
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Never said anything about forcing. My comment was about how I found it personally beneficial to reconsider my requirements. It was my choice. And part of my comment was about how some of my physical standards did change. Did you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:15 AM
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Maybe I’m a “Chad” to these particular women, but not to all of society. I have a pretty good face, but I’m also 5’8, skinny, and half southeast Asian. Not exactly the penultimate American Chad. In the wrong environment, I might be worse off than the average dude, but in these cases I was in the right place for me. I get that there’s a steep drop off when it comes to male attractiveness, but it is still somewhat relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:10 AM
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I’m saying if you can’t be happy with a guy that’s 6’ because he’s not 6’3, then you’re not reasonable. Your priorities suck. If you genuinely can’t be satisfied with your girl because her waist:hip ratio isn’t perfect enough, you’re an idiot. You’re not “settling”, you have hang ups about arbitrary shit. Average joe doesn’t know how to look for women who don’t think like this. That’s his issue, he buys into bullshit lies that women never have this mentality. He’s not better off rolling over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:05 AM
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Honestly, if everything else is in order I wouldn’t trip unless she said or did something disrespectful. I’d definitely feel a little insecure because of my experience with the beauty standards here, but it’s not impossible that she finds me just as attractive. I guess this is where her history of guys she’s liked comes in. But even then, I’ve been a girl’s “exception” before. If she treats me just as well as her usual type, or even better, then it’s no skin off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:44 AM
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No one, which is why the context and details matter a lot here. Did she dote on me like that and talk about me with her friends when we met? Is our relationship/sex life good? Does he look completely different than me? Does she have a history of going after guys like him, or like me? Or neither? It sounds overly paranoid when you lay it out like that, but they’re just things I’d keep in the back of my mind if I was in that scenario. Bottom line, if my girl is respectful to me and clearly very at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:22 AM
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I posted too much today jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:59 AM
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A crush isn’t the same thing as just finding someone attractive. idc if my girl acknowledges other guys as good looking. I’d assume that she had some kind of opinion of me when we met. Some of my friend’s girlfriends have told them they thought I was good looking, and it was never weird because we all knew that we were all friends and nothing would happen bc they liked him just as much. Ok sometimes it was weird if they said they’d date/fuck me if they were single, but that was usually a sign of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:58 AM
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For me, it’s about priorities. Should I be physically attracted to my girlfriend? Yes. But does she have to be a D cup for me to build a relationship with her? Does she have to be a certain height? A certain ethnicity? It’s not “settling” if I date a girl outside of some frivolous boundaries I set. Are the combinations of those things that I tend to like? You bet. Are there things that matter to me that I don’t think are worth compromising? Fuck yes. But I see no good reason to draw arbitrary li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:37 AM
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They sure as hell want them bad enough to openly support something they claim to hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:09 AM
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Disclaimer: This is not a bragging post, I am objectively not a Chad. But some of my personal experiences include: Girl buying me two expensive handles of liquor and then being totally fine with me never drinking any of it. Still took me back to her place after. Girl got me [not pepsi] from her current mans and gave it to me for free months after I dropped her during a talking stage. Man said she talks about me still. Girl wrote a hand written note for our second date. She’d drunk call me every …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:08 AM
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The responses this statement gets usually show that no, women don’t understand that culture can impact biological function. Or at least they are in denial about it. Make a post asking redpill men why they have to date women under a specific age. You’ll see the same thing from that crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:33 AM
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Society is just biology on a mass scale. They’re two parts of the same thing, not separate concepts that never interact. Your actions have impacts on society and society impacts your actions. If that wasn’t the case than all humans would do is do the absolute bare minimum to survive. But we developed cultures that compel us to do different things and have different desires. Why do you communicate in English? Why do you think in English? Why do English words affect your emotions? You weren’t born…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:17 AM
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Male elephant seals also live about 13 years and have no natural predators, to my knowledge. There’s a reason that we evolved differently into a cooperative species that builds societies. Our survival “win” conditions were different. Relax. No one is gonna force you to sleep with ugly short dudes. But if we’re gonna have a conversation about dating, we should at least admit that the behaviors and feelings of a social species are at least somewhat affected by the group as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:06 AM
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I can’t understand why people, redpill, bluepill, blackpill, women, men, whoever, are so resistant to admitting this. If attraction is purely biological, why are people around the world attracted to different things? These people honestly tell themselves that someone born in Wisconsin would have the same physical standards if they were born in fucking Uzbekistan. If it’s hard coded in the dna, it should be the same, right? The truth is they just find the self reflection too inconvenient or uncom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:57 AM
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Interesting, what chemicals in human dna are responsible for assessing height down to the inch, or even centimeter in some countries? Where in nature is the 6 foot rule stated? Women desiring men taller than them is likely a biological norm. 5’0 girls rejecting 5’10 guys for not being 6’ is cultural conditioning. I’ve been told to my face by women that even if I looked and acted exactly the same, if I told them I was 100% asian instead of 50%, they wouldn’t find me attractive anymore. You cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:50 AM
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Half baked, but I think I’m close to something tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:49 PM
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Why didn’t anyone warn me bout this new drake album, this shit is atrocious Even CLB had a couple hits, this shit is straight basura
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:48 PM
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I have a theory that they’ve actually bored the “white guy on top” narrative so deep into their own heads that they’ve internalized it. It gives white dudes this social status bump that they’re attracted to, at least in their heads. Girls that parrots surface level social justice talking points are usually obsessed with social status and hierarchy. So it factors into their mate choices too, even if it seems to go against what they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:46 PM
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Oh fair enough lol Clearly I got some appreciation for classic ye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:34 PM
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Because I’m young or because I’m… nvm Shit slaps, I still play out the OG all the time. Like a little too often honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:23 PM
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Spitting facts Idk tho, I’d take the cute face for a hookup too, as long as her body wasn’t so out of shape it was actively turning me off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:19 PM
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U take that shit back rn me and ye have our disagreements but it’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:12 PM
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Long term as in girlfriend or as in wife? Cuz I’m pretty sure your face can age faster than the rest of you if you aren’t careful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:01 PM
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It depends on how long it takes. I was really nauseous and fatigued when I first started Lexapro, but after a week or two it went away. I’m glad I stuck it out. This is just a concerta trial run for me. If I can’t deal with it after a week or so, then I’ll be out for sure. Now nicotine on the other hand, I agree. As soon as you “get used” to that shit it’s got you in it’s grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:59 PM
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Keep the body propaganda coming, more pretty faces for me 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:56 PM
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pepegaclap ggwp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:50 PM
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Pardon What does my loony postmodern rant have to do with my slight disinterest in procreating or flirting I can flirt boo, I just need booze instead of ADHD pills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:49 PM
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Maybe if they actually gave us a full season we could have seen that shit play out On second thought, I’m glad it ended as quick as it did
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:46 PM
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I guess that’s kind of my issue, I can’t tell which “side” of redpill is which, and I don’t know if most redpillers can exactly point to them either. It just leads to a community that seems more bitter and lost than an actually helpful philosophy or strategy for men. I’ll admit I don’t know much about the specific users of MRP, it’s possible that most of them are like you described. But I still don’t understand, if redpill is against marriage, why not give legal and financial advice for divorce?…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:45 PM
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Mrs degree is muh queen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:37 PM
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I’m good bro, just skinny and getting used to these stimulants. I’ll be back to normal levels of annoying soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:36 PM
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True, I should start taking drugs for that too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:31 PM
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Don’t care + didn’t ask + ratio + you fell off + you’re white + quote tweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:31 PM
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Shaking my damn head bro, don’t you know they showed it a whole one time in 8 seasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:29 PM
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Also Cersei didn’t have a plan. She didn’t want to believe in the walkers and she didn’t want to ally with Daenerys. The only thing she cared about was herself and her children. This lack of trust and refusal to ally with anyone else literally got every single one of them killed, including herself. Maybe not tragedy of the commons, but a similar form of cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:29 PM
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I won’t deny that these are just flash examples. Take it with a grain of salt. One of my biggest problems with TRP is all the moralizing, despite supposedly being amoral. The idea that things used to be great, but now things are irreversibly collapsing. If TRP is really amoral, why do they base their ideology and strategies around the moral systems of the past? The exact ones that led to the current situation? Maybe I’m unfairly conflating tradcons with true redpillers, but I wish the community …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:26 PM
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Bro I literally put the GOT example there just for you and you ignored it you horny bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:15 PM
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“Fine, if men are going to judge women for their bodies I’m going to ruthlessly shame and judge them too! That’ll show those short bald freaks that body shaming is wrong!” “I fucking hate how slutty and commitment-unfriendly Western women are, so I’m going to treat them like shit and pump and dump them. SMH, they never learn how to act.” “I hate how people of my ethnicity look down on me, I’m going to completely distance myself from them and constantly shit talk them. The rest of society will to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:00 PM
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If you scroll down they make the comparison for you 🤷‍♂️ Feminists infuriate me, not because I disagree with them about things, but because some of them are so close to understanding the things that plague us, but instead of looking inwards for the answer they refuse and dig in where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:40 PM
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Love is a human construction. IIRC no direct translation for the term “love” existed in Ancient Japan. You could say you like or appreciate someone, or that you wanted them. But not love? Does that mean that they didn’t enter intimate relationships or build strong connections with each other? Obviously not. But it does beg the question of how much of our understanding of “love” is really just a combination of shared biological urges. Ergo, I can’t tell you what kind of “love” you should be looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:31 PM
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Allow me to introduce my contrarian ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:20 PM
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Tons of people here are openly sexist. We all have biases, but damn, some of y’all are really unapologetic about it. It does give me some comfort to know that at least there are competing kinds of sexism here. If you measure sexism as a sliding scale, then we might honestly not be as far off one end as some other subs. But if you measure sexism as the amount of people who hold sexist beliefs in total, then I’d say we’re batting pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:19 PM
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I think we can acknowledge the fact that 18 is an arbitrary number for “maturity” while still agreeing to keep it there. That at least gives people the proper expectations so that shit doesn’t go haywire nearly as often. I hold myself accountable for the shit I did or could have done at 18, but that doesn’t give me free license to assume everyone else feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:14 PM
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Have you seen the way some older people act though? Age is important, but it’s relationship with maturity sure as hell ain’t 1:1. If anything, kids get a pass for being dumb cause their brains aren’t developed yet. Older people should know better. It’s embarrassing when I’m the more mature person between me and someone twice my age. I’m a lazy alcoholic idiot, how did you screw up even worse for even longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:11 PM
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Consider my heart broken. I’m cancelling my flight to Tennessee (or wherever you’re from I forgot lol) 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:06 PM
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NYU is the one college I toured but didn’t apply to. I spent my whole life growing up around that exact type of rich alt/hipster chick, I didn’t think I could bare it for four more years. Looking back on it I prolly could have gotten laid a whole lot easier going to a school like that, but it’s water under the bridge I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:04 PM
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I don’t think I’m capable of not resenting my partner for not doing the one thing I absolutely required of her. But if it means a better life for my kids (if I wanted them 😎) then I hope I’d be mature enough to bare it out as long as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:01 PM
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You can just say NYU, we all know that’s what you’re talking bout lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:19 PM
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Maybe I just don’t respect it if people are overly fussy about the kind of affection. I don’t really like receiving gifts, but I’ve been with girls who were all about it. I could still appreciate the fact that they were being thoughtful in their own way. Sure, if your partner goes overkill on one but neglects the others, then I see why that’s a problem. Or if you have genuine constraints about which ones you can reliably enjoy (not a lot of free time, physically or mentally impaired, etc) then I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:17 PM
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I feel more juiced up actually. I’m getting hyper focused on certain things, which is bad when it’s not what I’m supposed to be doing. Like posting on PPD when I’m supposed to be working 💀 I can’t tell if I like it or not. Like I said, feels like someone shifted me into third gear and put me on cruise control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:46 PM
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I think I got words of affirmation as #1 when some hinge chick made me take it. But yeah, it’s pretty stupid that each question has a clear answer that corresponds to one of the love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:43 PM
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Yup. It’s funny because I’m the same, I personally prefer giving gifts to receiving them. But if someone told me it was an expectation, that they would turn me off from, ironically, wanting to give them gifts. I’m assuming it’s like when guys say they want to schedule or voice a declared bar for sex in a relationship. Don’t you want a partner who just… wants to have sex with you? Appealing from some source of authority on the subject ain’t gonna do shit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:42 PM
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I think most well adjusted people are happy giving and receiving all of them in a relationship. Hell, I’d say most healthy long term relationships require them all in some capacity. It’s the people with issues who feel the need to boil it down to just one. Which unfortunately is a lot of people, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:32 PM
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23M: 5’8.5” and 132 lbs soaking wet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:25 PM
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It’s why I always say that if we’re gonna buy into love languages, they should be framed around giving, not receiving. How do you express your affection for your partner? Of course, that shit doesn’t sell the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:24 PM
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Agree, that shit is whack if your partner is totally out of the picture. But it might be even worse to raise them in a splintered household filled with resentment. Like maybe you both can hold that shit together, but it always comes out eventually IME. There’s no one right answer, both situations are fucking trash. But at least in scenario A where your partner cheats and you leave, he is 100% morally responsible. If you cheat back and stick around or whatever, then you’re sharing some of that bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:20 PM
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Holy shit man, I’m pretty sure the first dose of concerta has me bugging out today. My comments are even longer and more incoherent. Brain is on autopilot, I’m doing shit without even thinking. I’m in a long text convo w/ one of my boys about AsAm self hate and even he’s like “bro, what’s with you today 💀💀”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:16 PM
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I do agree with you there. Kids make things even messier. It’s really one of the reasons why I think the moral outrage over cheating is justified. Literally the one universal thing you’re not supposed to do in a monogamous LTR is fuck other people unless agreed upon by the two people involved. Anything else is outside of the definition and personal preference. But that’s the one vow. If your LTR can’t even keep that promise, you’ll be fucking miserable with him no matter what. And your kids are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:04 PM
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“But muh sex drive” Take some SSRIs, you’ll be fine. It’s the loneliness that you gotta worry about. That being said, I still don’t think vetting for n-count is all that useful for men. Also, don’t tell a girl exactly what you don’t like about her unless she asks, it gives her a reason to paint you as disrespectful. And not in the cool way that’ll get you laid. Just say you’re not feeling it and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:56 PM
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I don’t see why you can’t just lock down another Chad unless you aged out. “Alpha widowing” isn’t the same thing as oneitis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:47 PM
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Just makes y’all both shitty. Why not just break up and move on? It can’t be worth staying in a relationship with a partner who thinks disrespecting you is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:17 PM
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It’s a lack of critical thinking and self-scrutiny at the core of both. Liberal hubris vs conservative ignorance, if you wanted to really oversimplify it. I just singled out liberals because they (we?) have a particularly insidious way of making sure we don’t hold ourselves truly accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:47 PM
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It definitely didn’t make things better. It just made people think they’re smarter than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:57 PM
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Damn, why is Gen Z so racist? Like, racist without even realizing it? We genuinely believe we’re progressive while also harboring and saying the most rancid shit. I’m not sensitive to this shit at all, I’m actually extremely edgy all things considered. I still go on 4chan for fucks sake. But there’s a difference between tongue in cheek stereotypes/jokes and genuine prejudice, especially when in the latter case the person somehow believes their prejudice is justified, or worse, progressive. You k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:33 PM
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In theory, socialized healthcare prevents itself from monopolizing the market and so prices would actually go down. Coverage would be mandated by law, so you wouldn’t have to worry about your insurance not covering certain conditions. The problem is that A: government healthcare institutions tend to… suck, and B: Singapore’s UHC system seems to really work for them. Basically, a blend of public/private healthcare that’s extremely regulated. There are mandatory savings schemes that people pay int…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:20 PM
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Bruh idt I could front squat 1 plate atm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:03 PM
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That’s protein bro, don’t you know that protein = growth? Ofc it works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:03 PM
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My case is a bit interesting I think. My parents made similar money for the first decade or so of their marriage/my life (mom earned more), but my mom lost her job and was out of work… while they got divorced. You can imagine how messy that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:43 AM
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Sorry, I meant patent lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:19 AM
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I’m not saying it can’t work, and in a perfect world it doesn’t matter at all. But we don’t live in a perfect world. It’s much a much smoother ride to have someone that’s at least somewhat close to you money wise. Much less room for resentment or jealousy. Maybe I’m naive about the options up there, it’s probably pretty limiting to only try and date people just like you. That’s probably why we see extremely rich and famous people doing it. But for most people I’d say it’s not unreasonable to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:15 AM
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True, I’m not saying 100k isn’t good money. But the same class as 1M? Idk, the lifestyle is just so different. Either the 1M partner is deliberately living way below their means, or they’re financing the lions share of the relationship. Just sounds like a recipe for disaster, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:50 AM
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Maybe this is unpopular, but it doesn’t scuff me to see women wanting men that are at least roughly in the same social class as them. Someone making $1,000,000 a year probably should look for someone at least pretty well off, otherwise the imbalance could cause some serious issues. Men should do the exact same thing. A lawyer making 300k probably shouldn’t date a waitress making minimum wage, it’s just not the smart thing to do. What does scuff me is the idea that the man has to make more, or ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:38 AM
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No way, that’s a sick pose and anyone who’s Chad enough to pull it off deserves nothing but respect 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:30 AM
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I have absolutely no problems with adults making informed decisions. If you want to blow your money on a Maserati that costs twice your yearly pay but will be worth a quarter of that in 8 months, go for it. It’s your life. But the keyword is informed. Don’t lie to yourself, and don’t lie to other people about your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:29 AM
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I feel like the male equivalent is the ✌️ sign, which I am very much guilty of in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:27 AM
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Fuck it man, if some dude is cool with it then I won’t shit in his cereal But damn man, that sub has levels of c*pe that places like r/short or r/AsianMasculinity can only dream of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:22 AM
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I just scared my cat laughing so hard at this comment I know I shouldn’t lurk subs that are clearly not meant for me but holy shit do you find gold sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:58 AM
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Ask them if they’d date a freelance artist pulling in 10k less than them a year after tax. Then ask them again about how professions shouldn’t be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:35 AM
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I could make a joke, but psychosis/schizophrenia terrifies me a bit. Glad Mr. Paisley found something that works though 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:25 AM
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It’s interesting because to my knowledge Lexapro is typically used to treat anxiety, which I never had an issue with. Strictly MDD. Tbf, I did have a very bad reaction to Wellbutrin years ago, so I think my psychiatrist shied away from giving it another go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:13 AM
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With depression? Seems like it worked pretty well for me personally. Just a bit of nausea the first week, but it stopped when I started taking it before bed. I also had luck with Prozac back in high school. I never had a real problem with anxiety tho, so ymmv depending on what you’re trying to treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:07 AM
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If that was the case you’d be long gone friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:38 PM
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There is no 100% truly unbiased source, I don’t think it’s possible. I don’t follow the news too closely but I use Reuters primarily because they at least try to report things in the most honest way possible, since A. I think they’re a finance-based news outlet, which are usually pretty apolitical and B. They sell stories to other publications that put their own editorial spin on it. PBS and AP are also good. Just be critical about what you read online and you’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:38 PM
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I vape and already am in a state of perpetual nic cravings, so I guess that’s a non-starter. I’m also on Lexapro which has definitely impacted my libido and ability to orgasm. Looks like no cumming for SKY_ACTIV3 at the moment, although I don’t think anyone was worried 😶 Damn, I’m real drugged up looking at it like this huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:27 PM
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For untreated adult adhd. Though I probably should get other things like my T levels/thyroid checked too just to be sure. But likely adhd, multiple psychiatrists have told me they think I have a pretty clear case, but I always denied meds. Willing to give it a try now, I don’t think it could really hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah I’m over 5 I’m 23 years old bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:27 PM
1

Anyone here have experience with Concerta/Methylphenidate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:27 PM
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You just gotta recognize the audience. A lotta guys here rate similar to the truerateme scale, which is usually like 1-2 points lower than what the average guy would actually think. For women idk, they seem to think every guy is “cute but not my type” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:05 PM
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Nah. My mom left Asia to live in America. I wanna do the opposite at the moment 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:03 PM
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Well I just learned there was a PPD alternate sub Revoke my long-time lurking cred
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:02 PM
2

https://youtu.be/CEIvJ4EJSX8 my go to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:58 PM
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That’s fucking brutal lmao 💀 Edit: Actually the gap isn’t that big, but it’s also combined earnings. We don’t know how much each partner makes individually. The real pill is the age gap graph lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:53 PM
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Imma just buy one of those machines and use it while I wfh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:51 PM
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Anecdotally, I can reject this stereotype, source: am skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:45 PM
1

Damn, spitting absolute facts today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:04 PM
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My current living situation Kind of a cop out answer since there’s a lot that goes into that, but there’s been a stark difference in my level of success since I graduated college
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:03 PM
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It doesn’t help that with the way hierarchies are set up in this culture, highly successful people often are some level of sociopathic When it comes to looks though, the assumption is more baseless. It’s more the fact that people think he could get away with being an asshole, but there’s usually no proof that he actually acts that way. That’s a common assumption people make all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:00 PM
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Yeah, but at least they didn’t do it after you asked them, or worse, after setting up a date. I just internalize that ghosting is a possibility at literally any stage in time. It sucks, but what can you do. Shit, I’ve done it without even thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:58 PM
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Trashy behavior. Even the bro-iest most womanizing guys I know don’t talk about unattractive women like that. They’ll say they don’t like a girl and just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:18 AM
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It’s very possible I am eating below “maintenance”, or at least the level that I need to break past my current weight. Time to start counting again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:47 AM
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Good, I need my future girl to be nice and healthy when we meet 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:44 AM
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That’s all great, and those things definitely help. But depression, at least in my experience, just doesn’t go away on its own, even if you totally ignore it. I was doing all of those things and I even had a really active social life and the black dog still caught up with me. I’d just weigh your options and see what’s available. Doesn’t mean you have to drop stacks on a shrink or hop on pills right away, but if things seem to be getting worse you’ll have something at the ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:39 AM
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I think it definitely depends on if I can stimulate muscle growth with my diet too. That’s the hard part ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:22 AM
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That was basically me around the time I started this account. Now I’m recovering and avoiding responsibilities 😬 I get that you might be joking but if you think you’re kinda depressed I’d at least look into talking to a professional. If you’re wrong, you’re out a bit of cash and time. If you’re right, then you potentially stopped it from getting much worse, and believe me you don’t wanna go down that road 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:20 AM
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The tough part is the diet, gaining back the mass I had. The strength and muscle comes with time, but for me it was eating enough calories that took way more effort. Still gonna try.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:03 AM
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Absolutely fucking not, I won’t allow it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:02 AM
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Holy shit, I finally got my home gym set up and tried hitting the bench. I couldn’t even come close to the numbers from just 8 months ago. Feels like I’m starting up for the very first time, maybe even worse off than then. I did lose like 25 pounds of mostly muscle in that time frame, but jeez. It’s gonna be a grind. Don’t get depressed y’all 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:56 AM
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Oh believe me, I know. I’m just saying that those two are much more similar to each other than, say, an Asian girl from Miami NYC definitely breeds (or attracts) a certain type of person, even if that person differs depending on their subgroup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:53 AM
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Like I said, there is a connective tissue, at least between girls of the same social class. Asian chicks from Brooklyn aren’t like Asian chicks from SF, white chicks from LES aren’t like white chicks from Chicago, you get the idea. But in terms of diversity it’s one of the most multicultural in the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:33 AM
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True, maybe that was a little sheltered of me. I don’t deal with Bronx girls all that often. Seems like it’s always Manhattan or Brooklyn, and even then it’s always the prissy UMC types If I do start up on hinge in my new location and set the radius big enough, I might see some Bronx chicks on there though 💀 I’ll get back to you bout it if I need some help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:31 AM
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You calling me forgettable or something cause I’m flaired? Ur right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:09 AM
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He’s literally making fun of the fact that some women date guys who apparently don’t brush their teeth, idk who’s “telling on themself” here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:08 AM
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Ur better than that yuk, don’t let these city gals intimidate you 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:06 AM
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“NYC women” are at least like 20 distinct groups of people. Not all of NYC is Brooklyn, and not all of NYC is Manhattan. Don’t get me wrong, there are traits specific to women from the city. I’m just saying broaden the lens a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:06 AM
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Nah, my dad was the one who grew up out in the sticks, and even then he sure as shit doesn’t look like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:44 PM
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Stfu ur mad funny when u wanna be
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:43 PM
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I’ll do it for you boo, if you flair up that is 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:20 PM
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Yes, I think I actually prefer more independent and unisex-acting women. I say I think because I could really go either way. But I’m not a perfectly masculine guy, at least not in most of the superficial ways. So that usually self-selects for women that are at least somewhat feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:19 PM
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An average or below average guy can be reasonably worried about being seen as creepy or awkward when hitting on girls. But accused of sexual harassment and losing their job? Or arrested? Or beaten to death? Yeah, delusional. I’m not saying that stuff literally never happens, but cmon, if you’re smart enough to think about it, you know how to avoid those kind of situations. Don’t be an idiot and you’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:49 PM
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Is option 2 low libido in general or just around me? Likewise is option 1 high libido because she’s really into me or because she’s just horny all the time? I have a pretty low sex drive for a man, but it’s still important for me to have a partner that’s openly sexually attracted to me. If that means having a partner with a higher libido than me, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:09 PM
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They do, but guys that attractive are so rare that the approaches are rare as well (for people watching from the outside, not for the attractive guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:03 PM
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I usually check profiles before typing out a comment longer than a sentence or two, if I don’t recognize the username. For jokes or whatever I don’t care, but I’m not gonna waste my time talking to someone who isn’t capable of critical thinking, seeing nuance, or even putting together a coherent thought. Unless I’m feeling in a scrappy mood. Then I might just dive in and feed a troll or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:53 PM
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I’m not even talking about posting jokes. I just mean that I hold some opinions that fit into different boxes and people tend to get twisted up when they can’t put me into one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:50 PM
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It’s strange, we always hear about how women are more conscious of their self image online yet it’s the male profiles here that are usually more one note. Both end up contradicting themselves if they don’t actually believe in what they say. I don’t really appreciate it either way. Say what you mean, not what you think people want to hear from you or what makes you look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:06 PM
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The music video is phenomenal, but it does bring a different meaning to the song. Most of the discussion I see is purely about the song’s lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:49 PM
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I sometimes wonder if the people who upvote some of my comments go through my profile and realize that I probably have said shit they don’t like an hour earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:48 PM
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I’m assuming it’s “pump and dump loose/unattractive women” then “settle down with a cute young submissive virgin”. Of course, when it comes to finding the latter, they seem to be out of ideas lol I think deep down rp knows it’s delusional, but they give themselves this false hope bc otherwise they’d lose motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:31 PM
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It’s just lame when it makes excuses for men to do it but not women. It comes across as weak and reactionary, instead of framing it as men taking control of their situation. You can either acknowledge that both are wrong, or that both are okay. Or that morality is a myth in general. But you can’t bemoan cultural changes and then endorse making them worse. You have to pick one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:28 PM
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For both of our sake, I’ll assume this is a “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:25 PM
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The only people I follow are people I’ve met IRL. So sometimes 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:24 PM
2

Don’t forget charge they phone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:23 PM
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Really great game though. I’m not huge on single player games anymore, but the atmosphere was so fucking good in that game that I remember it really vividly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:22 PM
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Sounds like she’s dug in and won’t talk about it beyond the fact that he was an “asshole”. I wouldn’t really want to hear about it, especially if she had already communicated to me what she wants from me before. If this was a 5 year engagement kinda deal, then sure, it’s worth a chat first. This shit was only 8 months in. Imagine how much resentment they’ll have for each other in just another year. No thanks, there are other women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:06 PM
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If the girls friends are far out of his social circle then it’s nbd. But if not, he becomes the leper who was “so bad in bed/such a small dick he ran away” He shouldn’t have come clean. Just broken it off and gotten out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:54 PM
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It took me a minute to read through some of those responses, but holy shit. Shit like this makes my flair feel more magenta than violet, if you catch my drift. “Stop patting yourself on the back for doing the bare minimum and paying attention to her/making her cum” The point is that the ex didn’t, and apparently sex with him was still better. Life is too short to spend your time with a woman who disrespects you like that. His mistake was broadcasting his decision to her friends. He should have q…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:52 PM
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There aren’t enough attractive men in this world for every woman to date one There aren’t, so they stay single. Women don’t have to get into LTRs. one attractive guy ‘dates’ 50 ugly women in a year I doubt they’d all be unattractive. There are probably women of varying levels of attractiveness spread in there unless he has a really specific type. Seems at odds with the female imperative to have a LTR I don’t really believe in the whole “inherent imperative” thing towards LTRs, since they’re a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:26 PM
1

EDM always goes harder with the lyric videos than the actual music vids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:21 PM
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The reactions to the new Joji song are wild. I guess outside of rap music male artists don’t really open up about stuff like that so it must be pretty shocking for some younger people to hear. Anyways here’s an edm song that’s even more brutal about the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:08 PM
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That’s all there is to it really. Dunno why getting people to admit it here is like pulling teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:06 PM
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Isn’t the point that this woman is unattractive tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:58 PM
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Really disappointing seeing a former “decent” president stopping to the level of attention-whoring on Twitter. Really tone-deaf comment, even for his audience, but I think he knew that and tweeted it anyways to get his name back in the public eye. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:54 PM
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I thank the universe every fucking day that my mom isn’t like that, would’ve made me even more fucked in the head growing up like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:51 PM
3

The real Chad was inside us all along 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:50 PM
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Holy fuck I get this kinda thing so often “Our mixed kids would be so cute” Bruh, they’d be like a quarter white, they’d look Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:36 PM
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Lol I don’t even know if it’s that much. Just puts me over 5’9 with shoes, but I still say I’m 5’8 if anyone asks. 5’9 on hinge. Boots + inserts is where the real magic is. 5’10 is such a good feeling when I’m all drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:31 PM
1

She looks so cute 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:24 PM
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Your better off looking for it in the Wild West of tiktok. Ppl be filming and posting anything on there and it never gets removed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:23 PM
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Nah, I don’t even think she meant it as a jab, she’s usually hella respectful to me. Was just funny since I totally see why she’d think they were lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:22 PM
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Just depends on your level of comfort I guess. There’s a reasonable worry that it’ll come up in the bedroom. If you care about that/are turned off by it, then it could be enough to make you say no to even a short term thing. If you don’t, then it’s nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:21 PM
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She’s Korean, we all already know she does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:19 PM
1

The most ruthlessly redpilled advice I’ve ever gotten has been from female friends of mine. Stuff about never apologizing to women, playing multiple women to make them jealous, converting relationships to purely sexual ones, etc. I’ll never forget when my Aussie friend looked me in the eyes and said “Mate, sometimes you’re gonna have to be an asshole to girls. Let’s go hire a cab” Or something like that, it was probably way more vulgar tbh 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:19 PM
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Being “fetishized” is basically being reduced to one singular trait that the other person is sexually interested in. Race, nationality, some unique physical trait, etc. For a short term thing or ONS, it’s not a big deal, but in a long term relationship it would be really clear that the person doing the “fetishizing” isn’t interested in the other aspects of the person. It’s usually not something you really have to be paranoid about since it’s pretty obvious when it’s happening. And many people ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:13 PM
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My sis-in-law (brother’s wife) apparently tried to out me to my dad for wearing “lifts” the last time we visited. They’re orthotics, but I definitely do appreciate the extra 0.5”. Maybe I can stack them and hit 5’10” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:09 PM
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Hmm, it depends on if you really want to move. I think minimizing expenses is just as important as increasing pay, but the HCOL is usually the better option career wise if you can manage the housing costs. If you’re in a good place financially none of those options are really “wrong”. I’m just personally a bit wary of moving since the economy/housing/inflation is so trash at the moment. Rather just start putting some money away and waiting for things to get better before making a big jump, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:39 PM
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Idk, I went a pretty religious college and even then I can only name like 1 or two cases of people getting married after graduating. Time will tell about the couples still together, but the vast majority of people I knew were not ready to settle down just yet, even if they were LTR minded. Us older gen Zs are all prioritizing our careers, even if we’re dating. It’s just the smart move at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:55 AM
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I think I’m with the ladies on this one. How many men these days want to get married at 23? I sure as shit don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:38 AM
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Even better, let’s make a compass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:36 AM
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I mean the improvement stuff isn’t really the selfish part, it’s the open endorsement of using other people for personal gain You can’t really critique one for being selfish without the other, especially since it’s pretty clear that the FDS community seems somewhat modeled after Redpill (the community/lingo, not the actual ideology)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:35 AM
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You can discount the behavior though. Would a father teaching his sons misogynistic schlock be justified if he was abused by his mother? I think you’re fair enough to see that it cuts both ways, and it’s still wrong. Trauma needs to be dealt with, not passed along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:16 AM
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Idk, I’m skinny asf and every now and again a chubby girl will make a pass at me. I think most could go either way but prefer bigger dudes cause of the potential contrast
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:18 AM
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There could very well be multiple people in those 80 swipes who seriously want you for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:17 AM
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I couldn’t beat that big shrimp thing in last light. I played on Ranger Hardcore my first time like an idiot and ran outta ammo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:27 AM
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I try to replace my anger with pity. Who knows what kind of awful situations someone that dumb get themselves into.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:26 AM
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It is shitty, this kind of thing can fuck up those girls for life if they can’t build a relationship with their own father. Being traumatized is not an excuse to treat your children poorly. That’s how generational trauma and abuse strengthens. There’s a massive gap between telling your daughters not to walk alone at night and not letting your kids go shopping with their own dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:05 AM
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Damn, like out of a car? That’s a rare one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:01 AM
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Like genderflipped or just a straight up clone Cause same bro, same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:58 PM
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Lmao some of them really seem to want everyone to know There’s a r*cial parallel too, just wait until the purge hits to see that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah, I see that shit all over Twitter LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:55 PM
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Have you ever posted a woman’s face lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:56 PM
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No wonder women tend to like cats more than men. Every time my kitten jumps on my lap my man bits are at serious risk. Can’t afford to lose even half an inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:42 PM
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If someone said “I’ve hit the gym for 3 years and climbed the corporate ladder but I’m still coming up short” and all you respond with is “try harder”, of course they’re going to assume you’re talking about what they just brought up. They’re not going to jump to the conclusion that you meant something different. It’s on you to clarify that you mean something else. If you can’t do that, then I doubt the response is in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:36 PM
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Hey, if that gets you going I’m not gonna stand in your way. That’s what I meant by different environments having different standards. It’s definitely different in places I’ve lived for the most part. The priority is taking care of your body the best you can. A girl who puts some amount of effort into dieting and working out will have a body that’s good enough. Never met a girl who was held back by not being curvy enough or having a certain frame, provided that she was at least somewhat fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:27 PM
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True, but it needs to be clarified. “Try harder” reads as “do the same thing more intensely”. Try smarter, not harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:20 PM
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The frustration is because common inherent traits in men (short, bald, ethnic) are considered on par with controllable traits in women (fat, lazy). For a guy who has his shit together, of course he’s gonna be upset that the things holding him back from dating similar women are things he can’t change, and as standards get tighter, more and more men are shifting downwards on the ladder. The incel “Chad or literally nothing” mentality is demonstrably false, but there is a paradigm shift that we sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:10 PM
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C’mon, a fairly cute hapa chick living on the east coast? I think sis would be ok. Still would prolly have some identity issues tho. My heart goes out to girl SKY.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:26 PM
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That’s definitely a problem, but I really don’t think it can’t be fixed without a bit of self reflection. Depends on the type I guess, since attraction isn’t transitive. For men at least, it seems like a couple successes or good experiences will require you. But if you still struggle with that new group it might never “click”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:09 PM
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Well I could care less about the rest of Reddit, but it’s just sad to see people here taking trollbait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:04 PM
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I’ve said it a million times but I feel like I always get the same response: “he’s just not trying hard enough” or “he’s fucked no matter what” Do I lose ppd cred for saying that beauty standards are heavily culturally influenced? Somehow that line of thinking seems contentious for bluepill and blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:02 PM
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They’re throwaway accounts, usually only a handful of days old I think the recent privating of FDS caused a couple refugees to spread out. Same exact thing as the inc*l subs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:58 PM
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Isn’t that usually the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:55 PM
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