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Ive known plenty of both and Aussies make up for it in personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:20 PM
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Then no, i have the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:00 PM
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Does this mean roids? I know some gals into bodybuilding and none of them look close to picrel, seems like roids are necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:54 PM
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Noooo babe pls don’t pin down my frail boyish frame
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:52 PM
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The result was too hot to put on the chart
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:47 PM
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Uzbekistan just jumped up on my travel list for no reason at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:37 PM
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That’s what men said, and her reaction to it is why we think that way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:29 PM
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Why didn’t they list what women said…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:27 PM
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Can I get some context
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:12 PM
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I personally thought that 08 album was better but yeah, she just can’t seem to pull a decent project together anymore The hood listens to xcx now, so this generation has moved on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:11 PM
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I’m good, idk if I even want children of my own atp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:05 PM
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Kinda sucks I got into djing at the same time as literally every other guy my age. The good news is the bar for talent is crazy low right now, all you need is a connection to get a gig.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:03 PM
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She could try making fun music again instead of pure shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:00 PM
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It’s supposed to be tongue in cheek satirical humor a la 4chan, but the nature of most inc*l spaces means they end up treating it as normal language and taking things very seriously due to no moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:17 PM
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Doesn’t seem to happen much. Usually they’re at least purple or pill-sympathetic. Most bluepillers are just as dogmatic as the redpillers they crusade against. Really the biggest defenders of woman-kind here are the blue/“no”-pilled dudes. Not women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:15 PM
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It’s an educated guess based on the culture I’ve witnessed. The type of woman to post on a subreddit like that is very likely to have a certain set of beliefs. Like I said, it’s not just the fact that they are women over 30. It’s the fact that they post there, out of all places. It’s not hard to find man hating comments on virtually every question there, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:03 PM
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It’s not because she’s a woman over 30. It’s because she found and participates in an online board specifically for women over 30. It’s like going to a sub for male mental health and not expecting rants about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:10 PM
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Ideal is around 5’6 but height is virtually never a dealbreaker for me between 4’11 and 6’ I’m right around 5’8 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:00 PM
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Fall weather has me missing college ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:58 PM
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She’s on a subreddit called askwomenover30, it’s a given LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:55 PM
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Just lose your card to someone visiting from another country, the information just disappears and then you don’t have to lie after
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:24 AM
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It doesn’t really feel special unless you care about the woman, it’s just that not being selected carries a harsher social penalty so men are focused on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:15 AM
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I think “taller than me” is a pretty accepted and uncontroversial standard. Most men, even across racial lines are taller than most women, so it’s far from unreasonable to expect. What do seem to be getting louder are the voices saying they want very large height differences, short and tall women fighting over the tallest men, calling average “short”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:09 AM
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I was referred to a PT by a walk in ortho, so I’ll probably have to start actually going soon. Drugs have had varying degrees of success, but I wouldn’t call my situation bad yet. I guess I’ve reached the point where just “winging it” with my health is not gonna cut it anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:04 AM
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I think it’s always been there, but social media really drove things crazy as of late. I’m 5’8, which is pretty middle of the road, but there have been plenty of times in dating (online and off) where I’ve been rejected over my height. It’s not nearly as catastrophic as some guys make it out to be and I still have success, but it’s not really something we can ignore, especially guys that are even shorter than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:01 AM
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How’d you deal with it? I tried to rest it off for a few weeks but it seemed to have made it worse compared to exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:54 AM
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It’s all over the place. Seems to be fairly common for the demographic (NYC, mostly Asian and white) to continue partying into their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:52 AM
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I find it hard to believe, but it could be a demographic difference. I’m 25 and I know many women that are loud and proud about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:42 AM
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I really felt my age (26) at a rave this weekend. Never thought I’d be in the “constant back pain” club so young but here I am I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:38 AM
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What flavor, I’ll outbid both of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:34 AM
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1 and 1/2 weeks into a “productivity break” and I’m ready to just relapse early. This being sober shit sucks. I’m ready to start reaching for booze lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:50 PM
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It’s online dating, you’re already in the wrong place if you don’t want superficial girls. Until I see evidence pointing to the contrary, no woman would reject a 5’9 guy in favor of 5’8. All upside, no downside, and it’s a small enough fib to deny culpability. I’m 5’8.5”, why would I ever put 5’8 when my drivers license says 5’9 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:40 PM
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This is the kinda shitposting ppd needs, less bait and more dogwhistles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:19 PM
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I really don’t see why you wouldn’t do that. It’s like putting 5’8 when 5’9 is right there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:16 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fantasy_(psychology)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:15 PM
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I actually tried deep sea fishing for the first time this year. I was absolutely terrified (I hate the ocean) but it was pretty fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:07 PM
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The teams I’m attached to bring me no joy. In fact at this point, it’s hard to even be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:06 PM
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My plans to move to the city completely fell through, I’m officially a 26 year old live-with-dad NEET 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:55 PM
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This is kinda dope though, what sneakers you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:54 PM
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They like to wait until I post so no one reads what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:03 PM
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How long until this “new generation” actually gets a say? The old heads aren’t interested in giving up their seats anytime soon. Us Americans didn’t even get to choose a candidate that wasn’t actively pro-Israel this time around. How long before we get that choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:02 PM
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Not that hard to believe, I’m in the “no one here is normal” camp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:00 PM
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Good one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:59 PM
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Definitely a redeeming trait for most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:11 AM
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I think she could pass for 38 ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:09 PM
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What have you tried? I’ve quit “cold turkey” a few times but I usually make it to the ~6 month mark before re upping on a nic device. I’m at around 3 now and I’m feeling better than usual about it this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:07 PM
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Making plans to counter the next offensive from the annual patriarch meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:54 PM
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Are you sure it wasn’t a man trying to make women look bad? R*dditors told me it’s a problem men make up in our heads after all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:53 PM
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There really aren’t “plenty of good jobs” out there though. It’s an absolute battle for people starting out in white collar careers now, and even the halfway decent paying trades are getting hammered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:51 PM
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Crazy how I became one of these at home NEET in the span of like 6 weeks. It’s such an uphill climb getting out of the pit, I don’t know why these outlets make it seem like it’s always a choice these men make out of spite or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:48 PM
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Honestly yeah, looks like pretty common “high income millennial” couple you’d find in a city
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:46 PM
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So this dude I was gonna sublet from wants to move deeper into the city for a larger apartment. It’d be like 40 minutes more to get into downtown proper. There would still be room for me, but now I’m much less interested. How do I convince him to stay in his current small apartment when it’s clear I want it more than him? Any advanced gaslighting techniques?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:45 PM
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I’m living something alright, things are actually kind of a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:07 PM
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Why the hell not? It’s a big confidence boost knowing she still thinks about me, especially after I ended things with my last girl. Sounds stupid since I was the one who broke it off, but reassurance that I’m still in this game is really hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:05 PM
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I messaged a fling from a year ago and actually got a response! Everyone spam W in chat 🙌 Maybe we can even link up when we’re on the same side of the world again. Might only be a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:50 PM
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Honestly that’s the thing that you should prioritize here. If you really are strapped for cash, the last thing you need is woman that you feel like you need to pay to keep around. Just go, be ready to pay, but pay close attention to how she reacts. If she genuinely offers to pay for drinks, or for something else, etc. At worst you’ll be out the price of a drink or two, but if you see red flags you can cut your losses there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:45 PM
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Me too, my industry is pretty brutal right now so I might take this chance to “try something new”. Fingers crossed 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:33 PM
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To be honest I still had time for slop like that when I was employed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:31 PM
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I mean, of course they don’t, but there are some patterns worth discussing. It’s just such a personal and emotionally charged topic that people struggle to discuss it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:30 PM
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I agree, most of the threads are pretty half baked. Most have a clear agenda too, “why do men like x more than y” or “women all like x”. Usually with very little actual discussion in the replies. r/ trm is good but it sort of inevitably attracted women that knew they would get higher ratings, so a lot of them look the same (those posts get the most upvotes too). Maybe I’m just salty because a lot of the women on there that are my taste get rated around 5 or 6. They also seem to rate certain race…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:07 PM
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Sunday scaries is what it’s called. As a guy on the other side (recently laid off), you’ll miss it. That anxiety is basically spread out across every second of every day when you’re unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:53 PM
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r/ trueratemediscussions is more of a battleground than PPD these days. Imagine if the looks thread was the point of the sub, the gender ratio was closer to 50:50, and everyone was under the age of 30. That’s what that sub is like right now. Because the ratio is so even I think it has a chance of surviving for a while too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:52 PM
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The fact that couples like this only exist among Gen Z is actually pretty damning when you think about it. Standards are not purely biological, nor are they unchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:49 PM
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They rate all of my celeb crushes low, it hurts my feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:45 PM
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I thought the point of these lists was that they were “ideals” and not baseline standards. I’ve been with very few girls who check off most of my list and still been very happy and attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:45 PM
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Lmk when you find her and if she has a sister
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:22 PM
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What’s the seasoning on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:21 PM
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They’re the ones who deserve it wym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:05 PM
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There’s plenty of overlap there tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:49 AM
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Why’d you cross off the most important one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:48 AM
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They used the “gender-blind” terminology that I did earlier, usually in relation to bisexuality which is “gender-focused”. I think it’s interesting to hear someone define it differently. Appreciate your insight tho, I grew up in a pretty LGBT friendly town so I’ve always tried to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:48 AM
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105lbs? Sounds a little low for you dude, even at 5’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:16 AM
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I got it, so for you feminine is the preferred subset of everyone (pan), but feminine =/= woman in the exact same way it does for a straight dude like me. Just trying to understand better. I’ve known pan people who defined it in vastly different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:10 AM
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This is very reasonable since “meme queen”, “alternative”, “high libido”, and “likes midwestern emo” are all basically redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:06 AM
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Men in smut novels:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:04 AM
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Fair enough, a man should know what he likes. I’m curious though, if you don’t mind, how does preferring femininity work out if you’re pansexual? I thought that was kind of a “gender-blind” sorta deal. Is it a behavior thing, or visual?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:02 AM
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Facts, she was so hot there 👀 Couple members of my family talk like that and I guess it rubbed off me cause I get it a little when I’m mad. Probably looks weird coming from a half-Asian dude from the burbs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:53 AM
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Human is pretty contentious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:44 AM
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He said switchy so he probably just likes getting pegged
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:43 AM
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There’s no worse feeling on a date than gently roasting a girl and she gets sad instead of doing it back. When a girl can tease me about something specific it shows me she’s paying close attention. It’s actually a huge turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:27 AM
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Better to have girly handwriting than my ugly scratch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:22 AM
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You were supposed to start with height like everyone else smh Smell is important too though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:20 AM
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It works for us too bro trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:18 AM
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It’s subjective, there are multiple thigh variations I enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:17 AM
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(Only by me) is crazy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:16 AM
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I thought someone else did but you can take the credit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:15 AM
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My turn, although I didn’t think too hard about it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:13 AM
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Weird, it jumped out at me cause I feel similarly, although I’d probably raise my kids as secular.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:10 AM
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Interesting, do you mean practicing Christian or just from that kind of background?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:58 AM
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It’s actually so easy to do around other Americans since you can blend different regional accents and no one can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:45 AM
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Mmmm got yourself a grill master, not bad. I’m okay with it but I’m heavy on the dry rubs so everything gets all crispy and burnt looking 🧯 I’m more of a dessert guy myself. I made tiramisu (mom’s recipe) and I swear that alone nearly got me laid once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:44 AM
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Surprised fluent in bash isn’t on there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:36 AM
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oi m8 i love u ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:35 AM
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No gumjobs for panda
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:19 AM
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I would drive you crazy bc I’m awful at cooking but I insist on doing it anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:09 AM
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No cooking??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:44 AM
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Game can be shown for a couple minutes at a time. Personality is who you are around people the rest of the time. Character is who you are when no one is paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:40 AM
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Acquiring, obviously game is going to be the best. Maintaining would be personality. Maintaining a good relationship with a respectable person takes character. It’s why I go on and on about integrity as an important trait I want in a relationship. It doesn’t benefit me to have integrity as part of my character unless my partner also has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:38 AM
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Tbh it’s those men’s choice to label themselves that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:28 AM
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Inc*l “hives” like .is are ironically the worst possible thing for inc*ls. Their complete inability to moderate and sanitize their largest hubs means that those types of content will be what everyone thinks of when they hear the term. I really don’t know if guys posting stuff like that care. It’s the dudes that are “in between” like on Reddit and Xitter that feel squeezed out. Even then, it’s their choice to use the inc*l label. Really their best hope is that the term inc*l becomes so overplayed…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:26 AM
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I find it has diminishing returns after one cups worth. Too much coffee just fucks with my stomach. Have you tried tea instead? It gives a similar boost without some of the drawbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:16 AM
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I can’t pinpoint one incident when it started but it was probably improper form on lower body exercises (leg press, squat) that did it. Today, I shit you not, I sneezed on the stairs and collapsed. Oops. Unfortunately, it’s been intermittent for around 2 months now since I also assumed it was just a small sprain. I think too much rest might have actually made it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:15 AM
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I know, this one has been bugging me for a while already. I’ll just have to see what the doctor says.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:53 AM
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There are people who comment some variation of “who cares” or “stop thinking about it” in response to virtually everything on this sub. It’s on you to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:41 AM
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Not sure why this became so trendy among women in my generation. I definitely had some snap judgements about it but after meeting a few women into it from different walks of life, I don’t see an issue. It’s honestly pretty cool and it looks hard as fuck to actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:35 AM
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Well I completely fucked up my back today (disc issue I think), I can’t really sit up or walk rn. I’m going to try and get to an orthopedist tomorrow and see what the issue is. Anyone else deal with this? And did it ever get better or should I prepare for a much quieter life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:32 AM
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Unfortunately there are 3-4 of these that don’t apply to me so I’m afraid you’re too picky and unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:30 AM
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Oh no I fumble all the time, I just don’t identify with *ncels. They wouldn’t appreciate having me around either due to my looks and past successes. Weirdly enough I have the opposite problem, I’m shit at initiating, even when I know a girl is definitely interested there’s only like a 50% chance I actually swing. Once I’m in I have solid game, although like I said sometimes I’ll drop the bag in the long run. I also have dogshit text-game, which is really essential these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:30 AM
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Exactly, most of the women here have the exact same type but at least they admit it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:22 AM
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They probably got it from the guys you post and talk about lmao Like the bmi guy immediately got called on his preferences too, it’s not just you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:21 AM
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I respect it, I just prefer weed on my own though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:19 AM
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I don’t qualify for the *cel suffix unfortunately. But yes, we are probably brothers 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:18 PM
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I use both on rainy days, I hate being wet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:15 PM
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You k hole on nights by yourself? I always saw it as a rave drug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:15 PM
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That’s like saying “I’m surprised at how much this sub cares about virginity”. That’s just the nature of the sub, certain topics get more airplay. It’s a charged topic with a big divide between how each gender sees it. Each thread brings in a new group of people that are shocked by the other gender’s response, so they make another thread and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:10 PM
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That’s on you bro, I love when women reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:08 PM
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I used to have a pair as house slippers but they were too hard on my flat feet and way too hot to wear Migrated to a pair of oofos slides and never looked back once
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:42 PM
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Ok but did Sisyphus try ❄️??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:40 PM
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They’re fine, they’re just associated with a certain demographic that wears them constantly like boat shoes or timbs. I think certain models look pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:32 PM
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God bless NYC 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:01 AM
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I literally shudder when people (usually full Asians) refer to me as “superior” or “the future”. It really isn’t the compliment they think it is. I’m so grateful that I’ve always had friends that accept me for my Asian and non-Asian side. I think with Asian culture becoming more popular things are much better for us Gen Z guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:00 AM
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There’s nothing inherently bad about having hapa kids. You being understanding enough to even consider or give a shit our problems already puts you ahead of the game when it comes to fathering mixed kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:57 AM
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That sounds dope actually, I’m not a manga guy but I hope you go through with it. Making shit and being creative is honestly the best feeling in the world, way better than that icky sex stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah I think she’s really cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:13 PM
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I didn’t say all that, I think she’s still above his level looks wise. Just that women tend to overestimate how attractive men find her since she appeals to woman-geared aesthetics. It’s the same thing with Cavill and Gosling for women. They star in nerdy stuff for dudes so guys love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:02 PM
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I’m inclined to say yes but I really question if the average person is all that empathetic either. It takes a lot of integrity and humility to be truly empathetic and those are not common traits. I think people here are just more likely to have prejudices coming in since it’s not usually a place you find by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:57 PM
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Lana is attractive to the female gaze, idk any men who find her exceptionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:48 PM
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There are feminists both for it and staunchly against it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:17 PM
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Interesting, I wonder if there’s a gap between millennial and gen z women on this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:16 PM
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I thought this was common practice. I’ve never seen a gay club or bar that didn’t have women inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:15 PM
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I just can’t imagine comparing my situation (being kinda picky) to someone who gets nothing at all. That’s such a slap in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:39 AM
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Yeah I never really understood the idea that short guys would have an easier time with tall women over short women. I think that’s just R*dditors talking out of their asses. I’ve been explicitly rejected for my height a couple times in person, and the majority of the time it was a woman around my height or taller. I’ve pulled women at my height but even then it’s much more rare compared to even a few inches shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:37 AM
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Drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:04 AM
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It is very popular in that community for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:02 AM
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I love wearing sweeter unisex fragrances. If you meet me in the club I’ll prolly be smelling like vanilla I wear what I damn please and no holy matriarchy can hold me down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:01 AM
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I’m pretty sure it’s a studied phenomenon that lower class women prefer more hypermasculine men compared to upper class women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:55 AM
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Tu eres estupido
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:53 AM
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I missed a Game of Thrones debate? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:10 PM
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Only if I get some of that sweet Alameda cash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:03 PM
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CEO of Alameda Research, pleaded guilty to a massive wire fraud case with Sam Bankman-Fried (founder of FTX) where they took over $10 billion worth of client funds from FTX before it went belly up. She just got sentenced to two years in prison. Tl;dr scammy rich people bs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:03 PM
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Ppl are gonna think I’m a practicing Christian now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:57 PM
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For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end Jeremiah 29:11
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:08 PM
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Seems to me like a lack of nutrition pulls your height down from your genetic limit. Protein-maxxing just ensures you hit that ceiling. Hence people ethnically from the countries in the bottom left not really growing past a certain point even if they grow up in protein rich countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:38 PM
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I’m saying to fill in the blanks of “if x could behave like y, they [probably] would”. If you are consistent with that then I can honestly respect it, even if I don’t agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:29 PM
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To be honest, I just don’t believe in god. In terms of teachings and ethics I take what I like from all kinds of places. I don’t want to be beholden to any one doctrine. I had a Catholic upbringing so that’s my moral foundation but I’ve read Hindu, Buddhist, and even [crazy] New Age stuff out of pure curiosity. I just read the stories as myth and parse deeper lessons and meaning from the text.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:27 PM
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It’s really dependent on the starting or ending point. Non-fit women already get attention but becoming fit will skyrocket her SMV. With men it could go either way. A tall dude with good bones going from fat to fit gets a whole new lease on life. A scrawny short dude getting built will see more marginal improvements. I’d say in most cases women have more to gain, but in extreme cases men can completely transform their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:23 PM
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I think the idea is that the man will feel less “cheated” if the woman pays her share and there’s no follow up date. It’s all cultural nonsense anyways. People like free shit and ego boosts. Women just have more leverage to demand it early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:16 PM
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Would you keep this energy for women and physical violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:15 PM
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I don’t think I could do it long term. It’s ok if she’s spiritual or believes in God, but if she’s a genuinely religious person I think eventually it would strain our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:14 PM
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Yeah Twitter ain’t like Reddit. They’re more privy to these kinds games over there lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:13 PM
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“Having a good partner is nice. Fall in love with someone you like” Enlightening 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:37 PM
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Two hot takes is overrun by twox disciples, it’s like AITA but even worse in terms of bias. Don’t bother with the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:35 PM
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There used to be more heavy hitters on both sides for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:49 PM
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Imperial propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:47 PM
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I can only dream
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:46 PM
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In my experience most are just forthcoming about it if they’re interested in you. I don’t really care unless the number is really high or really low, but it was the women who didn’t really see things working out that kept it under wraps. I’d say the “marked” thing is only if the sleeping around occurred in the same social circle, or if the partner in question is clearly sexually open. Otherwise yeah, no one would ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:46 PM
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Honestly yeah. In Gen Z, it would be virtually unheard of for a woman to ask to hang out 1 on 1 without romantic intent. It just doesn’t happen unless you’re already very close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:38 PM
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She really knows how to mastercraft inflammatory threads. Windmill could never
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:36 PM
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“Cowboy personality” is the slickest way to state a race preference I’ve ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:32 PM
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Have you seen the cost of alcohol and drugs lately? Or anything else really…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:06 AM
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Kinda tired of men on Reddit complaining about not getting compliments from random strangers. It’s great when it happens, but it’s not enough to actually boost your self image without anything else backing it up. Men (outside of places like this) really need to just come out and say they feel unattractive to their potential dating pool. The buzz from the Trader Joe’s cashier complimenting your shoes is only gonna last for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:02 AM
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I can confirm that it is. It’s honestly rare that I meet someone my age who doesn’t have a device or pouch on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:53 AM
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People trying to get lots of money quick is nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:52 AM
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That’s how I got 500 hours in Skyrim without ever beating it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:51 AM
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I regret reading this reply twice to understand it better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:48 AM
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I’m honestly fine if she doesn’t like me gaming, I don’t consider it one of my “hobbies” anyways. Just a way to unwind. Women who are extremely averse to it on principle are probably too close minded for me anyways. I like to do a try lots of different things, so if something as common as gaming turns her off I can’t imagine she’ll enjoy stepping out of her comfort zone for anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:44 AM
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I had a girl I was seeing who played overwatch with me but she was so ass it actually turned me off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:42 AM
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That’s actually kinda crazy. I have about 15 and it’s just from building houses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:40 AM
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True that. I’ve seen it happen culturally with this rise of k-pop within Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:52 PM
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I like women closer to me in height, so I’ll take your reply as a scientific fact 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:50 PM
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I’m half-Filipino. I used to not be that attracted to Asian women but something flipped around late high school/early college. I can’t lie, at least part of it is that Asian and White women are the most consistently attracted to me, although there’s some selection bias there since that’s who I’m around. There’s no ethnicity I outright wouldn’t date, but there are definitely clear patterns in what I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:36 PM
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Lighting fires in my brain with that comment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:17 PM
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5’3 isn’t bad at all, but I do like kissing women around my height. Just feels really comfortable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:15 PM
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I tend to date Asian women so women more than 2” taller than me aren’t really common in that demographic. There have been taller non-Asian women interested in me but I don’t think any of them broke the 6’ mark. When I was on online dating I think my range was set from 5’2-5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:13 PM
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Not Chad but good enough to where I can’t complain about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:09 PM
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I think by percentile it’d be around 5’3 or something since the average for women is 5’4 A woman’s height is rarely a dealbreaker for me anyways so yeah I was just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:08 PM
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4’10 is pretty short, IDK if I’d be comfortable with that I’m not lachowski but I am half-Filipino so it’s still life fuel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:05 PM
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Wife material
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:56 PM
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Unfortunately not, I’m still in the game. I’ve been rejected over my height before but there’s still been plenty of Ws from my face card.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:52 PM
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I broadly prefer women close to my height, so I’ve gone out with a fair amount of women around 5’5/5’6. Guess my personality is pretty hefty after all. Taller gals are harder for me to crack. Need to hit that personality gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:51 PM
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I have, rarely =/= never. Just explaining why I prefer not to travel somewhere alone with nobody I know there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:42 PM
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What’s my height-match as a 5’8.5” dude? I’m above average for my ethnicity but below average for the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:39 PM
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It’s not girlie it’s just depressing doing that shit alone sometimes For me personally, the fun from traveling comes from socializing with locals your age and that’s way harder to do when you’re alone. Usually I’ll already have someone I know online to link up with, but I rarely travel alone in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:26 PM
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IMO she peaked around the release of Dangerous Woman. I think she’s had work done recently which might be making her look “off”. She’s also trying to look more Asian since that’s trendy now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:24 PM
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Wouldn’t it be the other way around? Most young people in a city these days are going to have roommates, one person flats are extremely expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:19 PM
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Hm, I figure if you’re “noticeably tall” that should be enough for some of the shorter height queens. Hell, even at my height I tower over women at 5’ and below. I don’t know your actual facial situation though, so I can’t weigh that in
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:09 PM
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I’m pretty sure it’s only a 2-5 year difference. I’d gladly lop that off to break 6’. Caving thing makes sense but I’m not really a cave kinda guy, I prefer apartments and coffee shops I will say some of my tall friends really struggle to fit into seats in cars, on buses, etc. Sure it’s funny to see from my perspective but it’d probably get really fucking annoying over the course of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:06 PM
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Honestly true, but a good face won’t break you into the height queen club. The latter will sometimes overlook a bad face just for the height, but there’s no real equivalent for the short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:59 PM
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It is what it is. I used to say I’d be happy at my dad’s height, 5’10”, but honestly why wouldn’t you want to be at least 6’. Literally just to be able to say you’re 6’. I do fine at 5’8.5” cause of my face, but if I was that height I honestly doubt I would be here at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:58 PM
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Same, I see cute women in the city wearing those light blue straight cut jeans and it looks good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:55 PM
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“Don’t be a drain on my life” is a far cry from “make more money than me” Men here are complaining that the latter is still common among women, at least in the US. The truth is that monetary expectations in relationships are still very lopsided, even if “men don’t care about a woman’s job/finances” is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:53 PM
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Of course, quality weekends with the boys are one of life’s great treasures
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:48 PM
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The girls I end up with are usually nothing like me, so it’s hard to say how I’d react to that kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:46 PM
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She’s talking about character here tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:42 PM
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Ouch, I feel you with that first sentence. I fall into the opposite trap of taking responsibility for literally everything that goes wrong, which is not only unrealistic but also lowkey egotistical. On PPD we all know how the male “burden of performance” hurts men, but the inverse of “women aren’t active participants in their own lives” sounds absolutely horrific to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:41 PM
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I agree but I’m talking about other people (and myself in the past). I think it’s human nature, hope springs eternal or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:35 PM
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It’s actually sad how people don’t realize hypoagency is not a good thing and hurts women just as much as it helps them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:20 PM
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It’s so pathetic, instead of trying to elevate other talent they tear down the one person keeping the league relevant. It’s like they’re trying to fail, but I don’t know why they would want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:14 PM
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I’d say this is true 9/10 times, but that 1/10 chance is what keeps people hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:09 PM
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I bought a few t-shirts from everlane and each one of them fit in a uniquely horrible way with defects and patterning errors. I also tried on some of their pants and t shirts in a store and none of them really fit me right and the fabrics felt ass for the price. Maybe their mens collection just sucks and their women’s is better, but I’m cool with saving money and sticking with Uniqlo for basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:08 PM
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I actually like zip sweaters on women but that one has a weird shape. I like the black polo sweater but I’ve had bad experiences with everlane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:34 PM
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It totally depends on your phenotype and environment. I don’t believe beauty is subjective but I do believe it’s mostly arbitrary. There are many cultural and demographic factors that can determine how easy or difficult it is to find someone that (statistically) matches you. I’m not really married to the idea of “looksmatching” anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:16 PM
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👎👎👎 this is discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:50 AM
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Not to be morbid but dying in pain And the ocean lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:42 AM
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Whats the downside?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:41 AM
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B cups are not small
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:40 AM
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The wire and true detective s1 are on the same level to me. Haven’t watched Deadwood past the first episode, but I hear it’s one of those rare shows on the same tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:57 AM
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All of the above, “my gang” as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:24 AM
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Weird, the poppy country is usually what I like least. I like the older bluegrass style stuff more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:22 AM
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Some of the best TV ever, it was on another level. Was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:21 AM
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That’s not really how it works anymore tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:20 AM
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I’ve always had a thing for women slightly older than me but I’ve been ending up with younger women as of late. Now I know why, they’re the ones who are down for me at 25. I need an adjustment on my preferences 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:20 PM
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I only have a few more years before late 20s women are no longer “older women” to me. This is an emergency situation, I need guarantees here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:08 PM
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IME they’re more pleasant to approach and interact with than their American counterparts. Most young people there were hella friendly. So flirting with and approaching strangers was actually fun instead of painful and awkward like in US cities. They also seem to genuinely appreciate men that dress well and work on their game compared to American women. You still have to be good looking of course, just more opportunities for bonus points. So yeah, maybe not “easy” but it’s just a better time over…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:05 PM
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Dude should have stuck to weed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:55 PM
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I can’t lie, pretty every time that’s been true for me it’s been for the best. Just didn’t realize it until later
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:54 PM
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Shedding real organic tears at all these answers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:54 PM
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Idk those Montreal girls have me acting unwise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:51 PM
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Interesting wording
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:49 PM
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Haven’t been to a shrink in years but I remember one of them told me those chill conversations are just as important as the heavy stuff. Good to get the baseline. I also remember that guy telling me I was too “good looking” to be single at 17 so ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:44 PM
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Learned a new term today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:41 PM
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Just went through this myself. It genuinely sucks, sometimes even more than being rejected yourself. The worst part is, if you know she really likes you, then you definitely have to do it. What starts out as something you feel like you should do becomes the right thing to do, and it fucking hurts. My tip: if you can keep it over text, do that. If she wants to call you to talk, don’t do it until things have cooled off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:09 PM
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Honestly, compared to my friends in relationships I have so much more free time and disposable cash
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:05 PM
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Because older =/= wiser, unfortunately. Part of the fun of being young is figuring shit out on your own, even if it means fucking up all the time. I’m older gen Z, but I recognize that the younger people in my generation basically had a completely different experience growing up, so I only give advice when I know it’s warranted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:04 PM
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My dad had me play softball as a little kid and I was so uninterested lol Glad he tried, just wish my parents tried some other sports too instead of writing the whole thing off. Woulda enjoyed some tennis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 PM
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Rough month, a “when it rains it pours” kinda situation. Layoffs suck. Should I move to the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:01 PM
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Wait, “craft”? Do you make your own clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:53 PM
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Pls no, those YouTube videos on data structures quite literally saved my college education
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:52 PM
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Nic is weird like that, unless you have a super small dose anyone’s first time usually hits them If you feel sick just drink something sugary or eat honey to get the blood sugar up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:51 PM
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I’ll play it, smoke your ass, then you’ll take me out for dinner You can learn all this and more with just $49/mo at SigmaLifestyleCoach.com
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:47 PM
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Must be karma from sins in a previous life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:44 PM
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The buzz goes away pretty quickly, but the weight is gone forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:40 PM
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Tbh there’s nothing stopping men from wearing fun stuff too besides the threat of being seen as gay If you’re in a liberal area you can definitely get away with more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:37 PM
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It’s worth a shot, but don’t feel like you have to go with the first counselor you try. Quality of counseling is all over the place especially when it’s at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:01 PM
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The problem is like 1/10 conspiracies turn out to be downright true, which vindicates the existence of the rest of them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:58 PM
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Maybe someday
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:54 PM
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It’s really not that important IME I’ve always found very dark brown or green eyes attractive in women but in practice it’s probably the last thing I notice about someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:51 PM
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We know what you mean but I’m pretty sure there are studies showing brown is ideal for men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:50 PM
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This was pretty much the plot of the Black Mirror episode “Be Right Back”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:33 PM
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I’d laugh in her face tbh, that sounds hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:14 PM
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I thought of that, but I’m not sure. Actors are also in the public spotlight, and while overdoses happen it’s not nearly as often as the music industry. I would be interested in a statistical analysis/study done on it but I’m too lazy to do it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:15 PM
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I just mean the prevalence of drug addiction among creatives Sure it happens in every industry but not this often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:09 PM
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Damn, people saying it was drugs. So many artists gone from OD, it’s crazy when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 PM
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Self control is rare in general, so that really skews it Without knowing how attractive she is I’d say a 8/10 rare, as in I’d expect less than 20% of women to be like her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:58 PM
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I haven’t been on the apps for a while but isn’t it required on most of the big ones now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:56 PM
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So I’m the male equivalent of flat chested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:23 PM
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Nah as a dude also trying to cut back, constant weed definitely makes you foggy and tired It’s ok in moderation but every day is prolly too much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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That’s even worse, you’re telling me a 6’3 millionare can’t even find a sex worker? Something else is going on for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:05 PM
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Imagine not even being able to find a woman who wants to take your money, that’s freaking brutal 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:56 PM
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It does always seem like objective ratings are higher, which doesn’t make sense. You’d think they would be able to recognize someone as conventionally attractive but not their type. Straight (?) women rating women’s attractiveness with no input from men makes no sense anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 PM
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TRM is literally a reactionary sub to the original rateme that basically rated every woman a 10/10. The former deliberately rates women 1-2 points lower. Idk how they rate men but I assume most male posts are ignored Numbers are stupid anyways. There will never be a consensus, only traits commonly seen as attractive or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:46 PM
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The dad from bluey seems to be the most popular character though, so patriarchy wins yet again It seems like a decent show for kids but I can’t get over the art, it looks like a flash animation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:43 PM
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I’m avoidant and it doesn’t seem to work on me. That being said I think a lot of inexperienced guys assume being smothered by a clingy girl is an enjoyable alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:39 PM
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I searched for some of my celeb crushes on r/ vindictaratecelebs, the place with the most objective ratings on the internet. They rated Jihyo from TWICE a 7/10, and called Jennie Kim “average” and “washed out”. Natalie Dormer is also a 7. I got an 8 on photofeeler once, so in theory…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:37 PM
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I searched for some of my celeb crushes on r/ vindictaratecelebs and it really made me realize just how differently men and women see beauty. They rated Jihyo from TWICE a 7/10, and called Jennie Kim “average” and “washed out”. Natalie Dormer is also a 7. I got an 8 on photofeeler once so in theory…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:29 PM
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I had a close friend like this in college, eventually she got into a different shitty controlling relationship and blocked my phone number when he got jealous. Last I heard they were married. I haven’t had a girl best friend since.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:51 PM
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I’m a cat boy through and through
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:36 PM
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Nah for real, especially because I die at the end of most of my dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:46 AM
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Very few, I’d say there are one or two active users that are blue these days. “True bluepilled” is kind of a farce anyways. It’s supposed to be the opposite of redpilled but redpillers can’t even agree on what that means nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:08 PM
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All n count discussions are useless until a number is placed on “high n”. There are people here that think 4 is high, there are people that think 30 is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:02 PM
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I guess I only hang around 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:40 PM
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Never met an unattractive Jessica
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:31 PM
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Trust me you’re not alone. I have hard drives full of music that I never liked enough to finish. I find looking back at my old work and seeing how far I’ve come is a good motivator. I’ve also started showing my friends my stuff and seeing them get hyped is a huge confidence boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:31 PM
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Interesting, I thought there were a few numbers floating around. Wonder if that was a “convenience sample” as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:25 PM
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I just think the ones that come from DatePsych are usually hilariously transparent, and I was surprised I couldn’t figure this one out without checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:23 PM
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Hate that place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:05 PM
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Me on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:00 PM
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Plan A: New York Plan B: Canada Plan C: Korea Plan D: Philippines What other answers are there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:00 PM
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So it turns out that “attractive hobby” survey is actually from DatePsychology (an anti-redpill dating/psychology blog). The fact that “manosphere” was listed as a hobby should have tipped me off, I can’t believe I actually bought it as a legit PewResearch poll or something. There’s no way anyone would include that as a legit hobby unless they had an agenda against it. If you didn’t know, most of DatePsych’s studies are “convenience samples”, which means they survey people that already follow th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:56 PM
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Literally means Spanish for 90% of bilingual Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:56 PM
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I’m not really an anime guy either but when it’s good, it’s good. Sometimes the art and the story just hits. I broadly prefer anime movies over series since the quality is higher overall. Some of those 80s and 90s anime movies are dope as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:05 PM
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No, it will grow out longer where it’s thick enough. The issue is that it’s not equally thick in all the places you’d want a beard to be, like between my lower lip and chin. The result is patches of grown out stubble with bare skin in between. Hence, me saying it’s not “filled in”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:53 PM
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Yeah, although picrel is definitely on the short side. Most women won’t look that good with pixie cut [Karen] hair, but it’s still possible. Tons of k-pop idols have shoulder length hair or shorter and it looks great. Jihyo from TWICE is a good example, everyone loves her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:46 PM
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I don’t know man, at least in my bubble of liberal 20 year old college students/grads, most people I know have heard or talked about these things. Obviously most young people aren’t debating TRP sidebar philosophy but these topics aren’t far removed from mainstream discussion at all, at least in gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:39 PM
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Not everyone can just wait and eventually grow a full beard, age and genetics are factors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:25 PM
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I have a cat, minox is off the table I think I look better clean shaven anyways, that’s just a comment I get if I don’t shave for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:19 PM
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“You should grow out your stubble so it fills in instead of being so patchy” Wow great idea man, I’ve never thought of trying that before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:05 PM
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Not sure how this is supposed to make anyone feel better Everyone knows the 6’ standard is arbitrary, doesn’t mean women with that standard are going to lower it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:03 PM
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Nah don’t play w me like that I’d fold
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:02 PM
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Everyone knows warsmiths get all the baddies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:27 PM
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I’m dying laughing, no guy gets laid because he has a woodworking hobby It’s moreso that these are hobbies seen as traditionally masculine or acceptably “mature”, so they don’t actively turn women off like nerdy hobbies do. I’d also venture a guess that the women sampled were mostly over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:24 PM
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To be honest, I’ve accepted the fact that if I find a woman attractive then other men likely find her attractive as well. Especially since we live in a metro area, the chances of her having other options is virtually 100%. It’s her personal behavior and preferences that determine if I invest any more time into her. If she seems to genuinely appreciate me and my unique set of traits we’re golden. If she treats me like just another applicant then I’m already halfway out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:40 PM
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I agree for the young men growing up today, but there are dudes who have a lifetime of conditioning to unlearn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:36 PM
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W Korean dude The guys I know that run kpop game the best are usually pretty jacked and high earning too though, so they’re both masculine and feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:32 PM
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Wait is asking for an IG actually rude? Wtf how old are the people here, that’s extremely normal for gen z. It’s way lower stakes than asking for someone’s personal phone number, especially after you’ve already had a conversation with someone. Seriously, that’s a completely normal thing to ask someone even in a non-romantic or flirtatious context. I’ve had complete strangers come up to me and ask for my handle off rip, it’s not a big deal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:29 PM
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Man, asking people to open up about traumatic experiences and then shitting on them for sharing is a new level of awful, even for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:12 PM
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Truthfully it takes a lot more empathy than the average person has to see an upsetting post and still consider what the poster has been through to lead them to post that. Too many people assume that they are emotionally intelligent when they’ve never actually worked on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:54 PM
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Just respond with the DSM page number of the behavioral disorder we’re most likely to have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:30 PM
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I have so many unkind things to say about that comment section Who knows, maybe they do actually work and I’m the idiot after all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:07 PM
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The fun part is now even the men studying those things are struggling to find work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:04 PM
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<image> Schizo??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:51 PM
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Venting can be good, but I think you put too much stock into these responses you get from people. Most of these redditors that post angry responses to your rants are just as bitter as you are, if not more. Even if you’re just venting it’s on you to figure out who responds in good faith and either accept or discard their comments emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:50 PM
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The classic “bullet dodged” argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:31 PM
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This is the truth ^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:29 PM
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Tied for the worst “male advocacy” sub with MensLib. Lots of tradcucks and right wing recruiters there. Mostly just bitching about extremist feminism and edge legal cases without actually delving deep into the real cultural and social issues men face. Leftwingmaleadvocates is better but it is unfortunately named and probably not ready for a large influx of members
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:24 PM
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I’m loving this dude, I hope he posts more threads
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:16 PM
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The “nice guy” moral panic has really done a number on Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:40 PM
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It’s actually hilarious how consistent it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:29 PM
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Lame flex, some women just cry over everything. I just had a girl (21, not 18) who was the same way, she got emotional over everything but especially me. Shit got old, and it made me feel like crap so I let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:28 PM
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It is exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:25 PM
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Not that we don’t care but men are probably less likely to complain, which means money saved for the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:24 PM
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They’d probably find a man also waiting for marriage acceptable, with the stipulations that he is desirable physically and financially. Basically virginity in men is okay if he’s a trad man looking for trad women. It’s not okay if he’s not trad and/or just a virgin by circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:23 PM
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He won’t? I may have to take his “leg guy” card.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:00 PM
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I’ve been in this scenario and had many arguments with my friends about it. It’s not something I’ll drop them for but I will give them hell about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:39 PM
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Are you guys young and fit? If you prefer women that are also those two things that immediately knocks out like 80% of people in most workplaces. My office doesn’t even have women my age in it most days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:36 PM
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I’m reading “The Sociopath Next Door” by Martha Stout, PhD It’s a pop-psych look at sociopathy with a mixed reception. I want to give it a fair chance before dismissing it because the topic has interested me for a while now. Edit: I also have some 40k novels in progress lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:24 PM
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I enjoy the prose in that book a lot surprisingly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:20 PM
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Doesn’t that go for your original point too? Where does “worse treatment” come in then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:19 PM
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The og is still the hardest bars I’ve heard to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:18 PM
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I’m gonna go against the grain and say that it is going mainstream, just slowly and in a different form from what you’d see in a place like this. I’ve had “normie” friends my age mention alphas and betas, 80/20, 6/6/6, passport bros, racial dating statistics, all kinds of terms and topics you’d typically assume were only present in dark corners of the internet. It turns out when things affect a large number of people, especially young people with social media, they’ll speak up about it. I’d expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:28 PM
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That’s fair enough. I can imagine if that’s a mutual feeling with your partner and your lifestyles are compatible then that type of relationship works great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:22 PM
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I’m not dating women like that. None of those brazen women are ones I pursued further. Don’t assume my prescriptive statements are my personal choices. For what it’s worth, I don’t even think caring about a partners finances is inherently a bad thing. I wouldn’t expect a wealthy woman to be okay with dating a poor man. That’s a normal part of choosing a partner. The whole point of what I’m saying is that a man’s money matters beyond just “gold digger” and “trad” relationships, and ignoring that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:54 PM
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Fair enough. There’s plenty out there, and some of the stories would probably shock you. Best you get the stereotypical idea of a white male Trump voter out of your head now before your mind is blown again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:44 PM
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I don’t care about money and I don’t flash mine at all. I don’t even consider myself all that successful career wise at 25. I’ve still been heavily vet for “ambition”, my credit score, my job offers, etc. from women that were my age. This stuff matters. It’s not all women, and I have been with lovely women that were attracted to me without asking about my financial status. It would still be naive of me to say that money is not a very important component of attraction for men, and even moreso for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:43 PM
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No offense dude but that’s naive. There are plenty of immigrant groups in the US that are not only pro-Trump but actively anti-immigration. Whatever path they used to immigrate is the valid one, of course. Those other immigrants are the ones that ruin countries, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:36 PM
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The point is it doesn’t matter who you are, women are going to look at your money. They will view men with less of it negatively and men with more of it positively. What you choose to do with that information is completely up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:30 PM
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The “manosphere” encompasses men from the furthest reaches of the conservative right to liberal feminist men. The redpill perspective is that of information, that LMS (looks, money, status) are the main methods of generating sexual value as a man. It doesn’t necessarily say to lead with your wallet, it says to know that it is a consideration for women and plan accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:09 PM
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5/10 bait, why not use the already established healthy (19-21) bmi range?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:02 PM
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What changed your mind exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:59 PM
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I swear to god my mom thinks she’s gonna freaking marry Donald Trump or some shit. She went from a regular Christian immigrant woman to spewing baseless conspiracies and saying awful racist shit about my black friends. And she wonders why I don’t want to live with her LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:58 PM
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Kanye was the posterboy for boy rot up until recently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:25 PM
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Honestly as a fairly ethnically ambiguous dude I prefer when people just ask directly. Nothing wrong with being curious and wanting to know more about me, it’s actually pretty flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:39 PM
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Ah I see. Should have done the sex change first, would have saved yourself a lot of money and pain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:00 PM
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Women (on ppd) always say that it’s valid to find traits unattractive regardless of whether or not they’re controllable. Would you grant this leniency to balding men, since that trait is out of their control? Men with gyno? Rounded shoulders?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:40 PM
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I make it look half decent for when I come back but I don’t go crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:37 PM
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Sorry I prefer women with straight calves, yours are a bit bendy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:29 PM
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Within the 10-25 pound range it’s hard to even notice unless she’s really small already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:07 PM
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Yeah nerdy women are super in demand at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:25 PM
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Anyone with TikTok should read the comments on the third link. The woman in charge of the event clearly has contempt for men, and instead of trying to figure out how to reach out to men to get them to attend, she doubles down and insults them. That really says it all doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:07 PM
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I really would hate to cut it out completely since it helps inspire me creatively but when I smoke too many days in a row I really start to feel the downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:44 AM
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Idk if “sober” is really the goal but ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:01 AM
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I think you would be horrified at the breadth of male body dysmorphia and dissatisfaction among young men. The difference is that men are actually being rejected by potential dates and partners over immutable physical traits in real life. I would never deny that the media is extremely harsh on women’s bodies and appearances, but this is mostly a function of trying to get women to buy products and services. In dating, very few women are “shut out” from being desirable in the way men more often ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:16 AM
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It’s hard to kick, even if you don’t have withdrawal symptoms. I still get cravings here and there, but I remember how not satisfying it is after the first few days back on. If anything my weed usage has gotten worse, so a T break might be in order soon too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:06 AM
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The year is 2024. Men’s looks are absolutely judged quite harshly, some would say we face stricter standards than women. Young men are clearly frustrated at both standards for physical and economic desirability being out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:48 PM
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Almost forgot, I’m 3 months nicotine free today! Ok that’s not true I hit my friends device 2 weekends ago but apart from that I’m as clean as a subway station in China 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:44 PM
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According to women on ppd none of the above matters if the man is < 6’. He’s not statistically above average so he doesn’t deserve a non-fat woman (also statistically above average). That aside, this is really on men to solve. Women’s standards aren’t coming down of their own accord, it’s on men to value themselves enough not to settle for a woman who won’t put in effort into improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:41 PM
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It feels like an insult when men aren’t afforded the same leniency in our looks, that’s what the OPs admittedly unhinged rant rests on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:37 PM
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It’s their favorite pastime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:01 PM
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“Boys only want love if it’s torture”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:51 PM
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She’s probably joking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:51 PM
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This scenario is funny asf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:08 PM
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Idk, I’ve made out with a fair number of girls and they all do it differently so there’s definitely a learning curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:07 PM
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To be honest there is no comparison for an uncontrollable, common trait that’s universally disliked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:08 PM
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24F, 32M, small penis, dating advice sub You could plug those keywords into an algorithm and guess the comments based on them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:07 PM
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I choose to believe that she is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:17 PM
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Her aesthetic kinda weirds me out. Is she critiquing traditional American femininity or indulging in it? Nothing wrong with a bit of both but it’s kinda on her to draw the line as an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:15 PM
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I’d gladly pay $50+ if they make that shit look good, since so many people have fucked it up in the past. I discriminate heavily after multiple instances of barbers that had clearly never seen an Asian before in their lives ruining my head. I also have no barber loyalty whatsoever. If you fuck my shit up or if I find someone that does it better, you’re gone. It’s my damn hair and I take pride in it. If it takes an hour and $70 every 2 months so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:51 PM
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Tbf if you’re on ppd you probably are. I don’t mind people here calling me weird bc they’re right, and they’re probably weird too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:39 PM
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Pedophilia is a wild reach lol I don’t personally care about my non existent dating life in high school but I understand the fixation. You have far fewer responsibilities at that age and are judged less so on your financial and social status (beyond your immediate surroundings). Relationship and sexual inexperience are also rarely ever penalized at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:21 PM
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He’s the self-aggrandized figurehead of the current manosphere. A living representation of male regressivism (not a real word). Without him there would be no leadership for the opposition to attack since the actual manosphere is too fractured and diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:53 PM
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Passport pilgrims
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:50 PM
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That shit is actually still funny too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:50 PM
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I’m furious, why can’t I have a fetish that doubles as ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:57 PM
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It’s ok bro, I reported you for “woe is me” so I got ur back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:57 PM
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The guys here are horny and stupid for saying it’s not a big deal. That’s a gigantic red flag, and I think the chances of a dead bedroom would be insanely high. I would honestly rather have a girl who’d fucked around with guys. If she really, truly realized she was bi/straight and as lucky enough that her first man turned out to be her ideal husband, then I would proceed very slowly. That convo would push the marriage back by at least a few years. I put too much thought into a scenario that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:55 PM
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Sounds pretty good, a chick who makes sexual jokes on the first date is usually open to at least hearing jokes back from you. A good sign, I just wouldn’t personally get too hung up on who texts who first and I’d try to set up another date or meetup soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:51 PM
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I’m not a big anime guy but this is just straight up not true. I literally know attractive women into it, they’re dating just fine. Let people watch their Chinese cartoons in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:48 PM
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Why do people keep responding to that sperm donor fetishist Yall know he’s getting off to it right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:45 PM
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Google is free ya boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:44 PM
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Us men just don’t have as much of a consensus as to what’s attractive in a woman. For example there are enough men willing to date and chase fat women that guys who like in shape gals are getting priced out, since it’s so much less effort to just be fat and wait for a chubby chaser to come along. The women that do put in the effort to be fit know that they’re in a desirable position and can set their expectations higher than most men can meet. Sad for fit American guys far outside of major citie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:38 PM
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I just think it’s not worth the social penalty of not paying unless you truly can’t afford it. Even “progressive” women overwhelmingly support this gendered expectation, whether or not they admit it. Once we build more rapport I can establish more clear boundaries on not wanting to pay for everything. Usually that’s not even necessary and by the 2nd date, a girl that likes me will be itching to return the favor. It’s just that first date that you have to swallow your pride. But yeah, American da…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:30 PM
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Very true, I’m just saying not to put the cart before the horse. I see guys saying “I have no friends at all, how can I get a girlfriend and stop being so depressed” and it’s a bummer that they don’t realize having a solid group of guy friends would definitely improve their lives at least a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:21 PM
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Definitely, but even then millennials led the occupy Wall Street movement of the late 00s and the social justice charge that defined the mid 2010s. I think post pandemic every generation got a bit more cynical in their own way. Most millennials I know are treading water but aren’t as actively depressed and su*cidal like gen z. I know way too many people my age who are in bad shape mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:18 PM
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I just think it’s a problem of insufficient data at that age. Like that’s just not enough time as a fully fledged adult to know the direction your life is gonna take, unless it’s a really extreme case. If they spend their early 20s on self improvement and socializing but get shit results then I’m much more inclined to back them in giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:15 PM
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They’re the cynical, nihilist counterpart to gen z. Millennials are whiny but they seemingly have/had hope for the future. Gen x just sort of accept that things are the way they are, hence the “it is what it is, stop complaining” attitudes a lot of them have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:10 PM
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I think mass media just straight up melted the minds of people over 50, no one was ready for that kind of cultural shift
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:07 PM
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Makes sense, I picked up both guitar and bass pretty quickly despite only doing viola for 2-3 years. Even then I’d say to be truly good at something takes 5 years at least, which is why I think starting guitar younger is preferable. Orchestra is a great way for kids who are on the fence to give it a try since they can do it with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:05 PM
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“Gen Z/millenials are so whiny” Yeah one look at Facebook these days shows that we are definitely not the only ones bitching all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:50 PM
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Also jazz doesn’t suck wth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:46 PM
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I did viola in 5th grade and it was pretty cool, easier to carry around than a cello but less screechy and miserable to practice than a violin. Honestly I wish more public schools did guitar or piano lessons though. These orchestra instruments rarely ever stick around in these kids lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:46 PM
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Oh that’s actually kinda weird ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:44 PM
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So many of these meetups are filled with dudes In the same exact boat as them. Too often you’ll make friends that have no real connections with women, at worst they’ll be friendless and you’ll just have a group of loser dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:43 PM
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I mean if a dude has no male friends to socialize with then I think that’s a much bigger issue to address before trying to date or even befriend women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:39 PM
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True, but I do think too many guys assume that they’re hopeless way too soon. Like I see guys that are barely out of high school saying “it’s over”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah to be honest I get it because that often means they expect a certain reaction. I just had a girl who would constantly mention how “hot” I was offhand even if we weren’t talking about anything sexual or romantic, and it really made me wonder if she meant it. They just sort of felt meaningless after a while. Still better than the alternative of no compliments on my appearance, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:34 PM
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That sounds hilarious, I’m stealing that for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:31 PM
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It’s not that women don’t perceive leagues it’s just that some hot women are shockingly insecure. If anything I think women tend to overestimate how harshly men categorize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:31 PM
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There’s no way that incls and the manosphere are *that important to the intelligence agencies to warrant active surveillance. Like an isolated incident every few years is just not a concerning rate of violence compared to other pressing issues like active global terror groups and political extremist activity. I’m pretty sure that’s why there seems to be an insistence on linking in*cel terror with right wing extremism. On its own it’s not enough of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:26 PM
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Not sure what your point on western nuance is, the deepfake stuff in Korea is circulating because it’s pretty universally seen as horrifying. This whole deepfake thing is basically revenge porn on steroids, it’s up to the Korean government to actually enforce the rules on distributing pornographic material (technically all porn is illegal in Korea). It’s just a failure of the entire justice system really. They claim they can’t do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:56 PM
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You’re thinking of conservatives, Libertarians are very consistent on all of those things. Shit, the American libertarian party had gay marriage on their platform 40 years before the democrats did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:44 PM
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I’m not an expert on Korean issues but from what I’ve heard and seen their justice system is just fucking awful when it comes to investigating these kinds of things. Like worse than the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:48 PM
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Ew no. Neither sub is ideal but menslib at least seems to not actively hate the men that participate there. The dudes there do engage in a fair amount of self-whipping though. IE is hot garbage, a beating ground for inceltears, twox, and femcels to dunk on vulnerable dudes. FDS ideology seems to be plenty welcome there too. Leftwingmaleadvocates is pretty good but it’s too focused on feminism instead of male advocacy. It’s too close to mensrights which is a whiny and unproductive sub. Malemental…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:41 PM
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Yeah for me it’s white and Asian women that do it the most, but I wouldn’t say it happens all the time or anything. Mostly in bars/clubs when everyone is drunk. I don’t think I’ve ever been approached by a black woman since high school, and even then they were warm approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:33 PM
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Nothing wrong with stopping sweat in theory, it’s just the jury’s out on if aluminum is really harmful or not. I used to wear certain dri (turbo-antiperspirant) on occasions when I really don’t want to show sweat like interviews, dates, club nights, etc. Maybe it’ll kill me someday but I’m not interested in sweaty shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:22 PM
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Nope, sorry. I made up my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:08 PM
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Self identified “empaths” are the “alpha males” of women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:38 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:37 PM
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Mine’s more of a scale model
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:36 PM
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The hottest women I know are usually in LTRs at any given time, but that could be selection bias. Some do fuck around in between but I don’t know for sure unless someone tells me. I usually do assume they’re off the market if I don’t know them, but the thought stops there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:31 PM
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That’s pretty much what I said to her last night. It’s a lesson she’ll have to learn on her own unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:20 PM
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Hate how much this resonates with my experience. So many “progressives” don’t actually seem to live by their stated principles and are actually atavistic as shit in their personal lives. I’m broadly progressive but ideological integrity is so important to me too. I’d much rather spend time around conservatives who practice what they preach than liberals who are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:18 PM
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25 young enough? I’m technically gen z. My “bubble” is coastal, liberal, mostly white and Asian people in their 20s. There’s a gap, but it’s mostly in mentalities and values rather than actual political policy differences. Most people I know my age are openly liberal, although I’m friends with some conservative guys too. Very few conservative women. I’m sure a lot of guys are more conservative than they let on, but your best bet is to find a woman who won’t grill you on politics in the first pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:14 PM
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It went pretty badly with letting her go, I sent the text but I should have never picked her call up after. Learned a lot about what not to do next time. Either way it’s over, and I can breathe easier. That’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:10 PM
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Right and if you were shit on by tall guys you’d prefer shorter. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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Because there are a lot of us who either don’t care, prefer around our height or even taller women. Women’s preferences are statistically far more convergent and yet it’s like pulling teeth getting people to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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“He’ll be in Thailand in two years” One of the top comments 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:57 PM
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<image> Pretty surface level questions but I’d say my results check out for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:54 PM
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I agree with the title, the game has changed and it’s harder than ever for young men to find a foothold in dating and attracting women. Ignore all of the silly advice and anecdotes from 50 year olds about how their teen son is totally hooking up every weekend. But I can’t back up your observations, they are way too fatalistic to be true or useful. As a 25 year old who wasn’t in college that long ago, there were far more men in relationships than just the top tier chads. This included relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:22 PM
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I don’t see a long term thing between us working and I know that’s what she wants from me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:46 PM
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I think I’m gonna finally cut this girl off tonight. Any tips on an uneasy break? Things I shouldn’t say? I’ve never felt this tense about how a girl will react. It’s usually gone really smoothly in the past, but she’s a very emotional girl and i know this will hurt her a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:23 PM
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Honestly I don’t care in theory but in practice the girls that really like me cut off the other guys pretty much right after meeting me. Sounds unrealistic but it’s been pretty consistently true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:02 PM
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This would definitely work on me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:33 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:32 PM
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Hence the repeated inquiries
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:31 PM
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Me: “I’m a stoic, rational, and independent man” Also me: googles “does my cat actually love me” for the 3rd time this year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:03 PM
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@redpill-mind I have some unused passes if you need a bailout. They might not be board approved tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:01 PM
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Actually based, I’d feel embarrassed as shit if my wife cooked every single meal for me. My dad was the primary chef growing up though, so maybe that’s why I feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:59 PM
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Hate to pull this card but men are even worse with that shit. “Best Pussy Disorder” makes me want to vomit when I hear it. They fuck crazy women and then complain that they’re crazy. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:58 PM
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Anything that confers money or social status You can be the worlds best fingerstyle guitarist but until you perform in front of an audience it does fuck all in terms of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:36 PM
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I stalked your profile a bit ngl In my experience there is definitely a demand for nerdy, cutesy, black dudes. A lot of my close friends from high school were like that and found success with artsy girls and especially European girls. I’m not an expert on the ins and outs, but I do know the nerdy black archetype is far from dead. And trust me, those carhartt mullet guys dip into my pool too. It’s an epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:26 PM
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Many such cases I’m afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:16 PM
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Social sciences and psychology are apparently a methodological trainwreck, and the unfortunate consequence is that people take those areas of study less seriously. Studies and even polls can indicate areas that merit further attention, but they need to be done properly or the results are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:14 PM
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I would, and that goes for everyone, including myself. I personally enjoy examining why I like the things that I do. And “supremely bigoted” implies that preferences can be judged ethically after all. Leonardo DiCaprio has a pretty clear preference, should we judge his character by it? Many people already do, and I think that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:12 PM
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It’s probably a negative for the majority of straight women (unless you’re very hot). That being said if you want to try it I would just do it. Nails grow fast. I’ve said a few times (today, actually) that alt women are often not more flexible about masculinity. In my experience the quiet, nerdy types of girls are. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:57 PM
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I think someone’s preferences, as well as how they talk about them, can tell you a lot about what they actually value. If a person’s preferences don’t line up with who they claim to be, people will be rubbed the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:47 PM
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Hitting on her mother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:41 PM
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I’m lacking in certain phenotypes that Swifites seem to prefer. I’m okay without it. Nothing wrong with liking her music but I probably wouldn’t enjoy dating a self-identified “Swiftie”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:40 PM
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Visual art is omnipresent as well, does that have a negative impact? Art is a fundamental part of the human experience, as is music. It’s a form of emotional communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:30 PM
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I’m curious as to what music you find acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:28 PM
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That’s hard as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:28 PM
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If music is a drug I’d happily overdose on it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:27 PM
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Except half the women who say they’re “fine with being single” are in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:26 PM
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Nah datepsych is run by someone who’s basically the bluepill Tate. Basically running hard defense for women, saying that the dating market is fine and if it isn’t it’s on men, etc. They conduct “original research” that always happens to debunk specific redpill talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:25 PM
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I guess that’ll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:20 PM
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It’s actually interesting cause I see dudes from different subcultures wearing them nowadays. I mean A$AP Rocky is basically the reason they’re trending among dudes nowadays. But yeah, I don’t see the Patagonia guys on wall st picking this one up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:43 PM
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It most definitely happens, usually from some privileges they were born with. I went to a college full of kids that were rich. Like actually wealthy, not just suburban UMC. Most were hard workers but not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:39 PM
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Lmao I guess where I am gay dudes don’t bother being discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:36 PM
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I mentioned in another comment that it probably varies a lot depending on your demographic situation. If I was from the southern US I probably would never even consider it. But I’ve also noted that even alt/liberal women in the cities can have very strict standards of masculinity and expression, so YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:34 PM
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It’s a subculture gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:20 PM
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Noooo not the gheys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:13 PM
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Fair enough. I can’t deny the taboo made it more appealing to me but I’m a little gen Z edgelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:10 PM
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“Hey, I’ve been thinking about things and I don’t think we should continue to see each other.” Some variation of that. It sucks to do, especially if she’s your only lead at the moment but it’ll feel better in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:05 PM
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Q4W: Is pearls on men a yes or no? I tried it and was received pretty well by everyone but my dad, I assume the people who didn’t like it just kept to themselves though. Then the necklace broke cause it was a cheap piece of shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:48 PM
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0.5 bmi away from losing my twink status 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:20 PM
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I don’t mean to pry about it since that sounds like a mental/physical health issue, but as someone trying to bulk up a bit: how? That’s a pretty big jump for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:19 PM
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Kinda stupid because I’m talking with a girl rn who compliments me a lot, so yesterday If you mean a random woman on the street it’s been a while, I got one a few weeks ago on the sneakers I was wearing but before that it was probably almost a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:16 PM
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If you wanna ghost go for it but I prefer a clean break
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:06 PM
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Glad I logged on to PPD today lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:05 PM
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In my experience they don’t but I’m sure it varies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:24 PM
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I guess the women in the posts are more likely to be attention seekers, so maybe not. It’s still boring. What’s the point of a roast sub if you know exactly what the roasts will be every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:22 PM
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R/ roastme sucks nowadays. Every time a woman posts the top comments are always some variation of “ur a slut lol”. Literally doesn’t matter what the woman says or looks like. It’s not that it’s offensive, it’s just boring knowing exactly what’s gonna be in every single thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:38 PM
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“Bluepill” doesn’t mean anything on its own, there are just a number of male posters here who seemingly only ever criticize men and defend women. They get labeled “simps” even if that’s not the correct term They stand out since their female equivalents (pick me) are much rarer here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:34 PM
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I just call them on whatever I don’t agree with. Just because I agree with someone on one thing doesn’t make me “on their side” for everything else, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:12 PM
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Sounds like how suburban girls view NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:06 PM
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Fat to healthy weight can be a big jump, it can likely change someone’s entire appearance Skinny to muscular is definitely a smaller jump but in the US it’s probably worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:01 PM
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His voice is nice, I’ll give him that. I just never saw his appeal over the other rnb guys at the time I like how he’s helping out this afrobeats wave too, cool to hear it more in the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:56 PM
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I literally said I believe you and that women like you do exist. I’m just saying that the belief that most women want masculine men is one born from lived experience. As a man who is not completely masculine, this is something I have to deal with when I date. And I’m telling you that, in my experience, there is little to no demographic escape from the standards of enforced masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:24 PM
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I mean, choosing not to be a fan of someone isn’t much of a grudge, it’s not like I know the dude personally. It’s not like I see him as uniquely evil, domestic violence is unfortunately way too common. He just has the unfortunate (?) situation of having a famous picture and police report about the incident. That and the fact that apparently he (allegedly) has assaulted other people. Not a good look when it’s one of the things people know you for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:15 PM
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No, I don’t think you’re lying at all, I just think people tend to underestimate the power of conformity in these conversations. It has been my experience across different political and cultural groups that women overwhelmingly prefer men with conventionally masculine traits. Whether or not this is cultural or biological is up in the air. It’s not that women who don’t prefer these things are weird or extreme outliers, but it’s clear that the supply of non-conventionally masculine men outweighs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:35 PM
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Honestly a great point. Seems like fabric would be a similar issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:42 PM
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Real men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:40 PM
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I’m sorry but this has not been my experience at all. I’ve lived my entire life dating and spending time around liberal, non-traditional woman, and the vast majority still desire traditionally masculine traits and behaviors in men. This extends to bisexual women too in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:23 PM
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It’s either that or being alone for the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:19 PM
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Yes, I’ve got a 2 year old feral kitty. He doesn’t really hang out on my bed though, usually he’s under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:17 PM
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Yup, in fact there was actually no violence in the animal kingdom before men came along
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:16 PM
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…why? Dressing well is easy and I personally find it fun as a creative outlet. Everyone wears clothes, so I don’t think it’s a big stretch to care more about things you do every day anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:13 PM
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I was gonna say, women wax poetic about male grooming and style and then refuse to date the men who do that shit because they’re too short or the wrong color. Give me a fucking break. Half the men in NYC are dressed to the nines and it’s still the fratty finance bros cleaning up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:11 PM
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Is a leather headboard tacky? I feel like it would look cool in my bedroom but it might age poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:05 PM
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Can’t believe this mf still has fans after nearly killing Rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:26 PM
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To be honest I think America is a good example of why hyper-agency isn’t actually beneficial and doesn’t lead to more responsible people. All of those things can be attributed to bad parenting, but at some point in the child’s life we put the responsibility on them to make changes. The issue is, when no one takes responsibility for them before that point it’s unlikely they’ll change without going through genuine pain. We need to see a cultural shift in the way we treat young people if these issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:01 PM
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“Certain type of woman” Just say K-pop fan, we know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:48 PM
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You’re the former CEO of Bumble??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:47 PM
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It’s an “ick” thing. A man who hasn’t had a relationship has already been marked as undesirable in their eyes. A pariah,if you will. It’s like how Costco vodka and Grey Goose are virtually the same, but one is the tried and true “luxury” vodka so it’s more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:46 PM
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I pity fat children because I know it’s likely their parents who are responsible for their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:41 PM
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If this girl had an identical male twin women would be brutalizing his looks. There is no way anyone, man or woman, would defend a male 6/10 like this. She’s above average but not stunning, I don’t see why that’s so controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:30 PM
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I’m sure they’ve heard that enough times too 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:31 AM
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1000 (Misato Katsuragi cosplayers) : 1 (Me)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:38 PM
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You can’t tell me the idea is only held up by men though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:24 PM
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2 easily Geniuses are worth increasingly less these days anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:19 PM
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Me and who
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:18 PM
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My time as an Asian guy on hinge means I’ve heard that joke so many times it doesn’t register as one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:13 PM
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I believe u but I’m still convinced it’s the play I always feel horny after boba so it must have prosexual compounds or cocaine in it or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:28 PM
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So boba and backshots is the move after all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:14 PM
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I’m curious as to why magic tricks are so high up Unsurprisingly these are all non-social hobbies typically associated with autism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:22 PM
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What does treat them like shit actually mean to you though? Like insulting them, or just acting disinterested?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:19 PM
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It happens all the time. My mom treats me different from my half brother and to be honest I can’t really blame her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:06 PM
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Having a different mom is definitely the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:05 PM
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Am I a pretty woman at least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:00 PM
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I choose both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:59 PM
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Red flag I’m ghosting them ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:59 PM
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I still haven’t let this girl I’m seeing go, even though I don’t think it’s gonna work long term. I just know it’s gonna hurt her badly and blow up in my face if I do it in the wrong way so I’m putting it off. The perks of being the “first guy to treat her right”, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:14 PM
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Hmmm, I wonder why women want to be in software engineering so bad… ($$$) Real talk though, women do have to deal with that kinda thing when they’re outnumbered like that. Same as men in nursing or teaching. The difference is that A. Male dominated fields pay better B. Companies and fields with lots of… international workers don’t generally care about cultural differences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:09 PM
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“Oxford study” top comment 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:03 PM
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Lotta people here are experts in Asian households all of a sudden LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:59 PM
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I went to a catholic college, it’s hilarious how many kids would straight up change their entire life stories when their parents were around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:58 PM
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Jokes on you I like trying new shampoos as a dude. Conditioner and hair product too, like seeing what works with my perm. It really is a man’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:53 PM
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Just work in IT, women there are silent every day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:47 PM
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I’m actually not sure if this is still true in America, women have overwhelmingly moved left compared to men, especially in the younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:21 PM
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Deserve ain’t got nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:10 PM
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What counts as freakishly tall or huge tho? Like is liking Ds based but DDD caveman behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:52 PM
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Not you tho… right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:24 AM
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Yep, Jeep drivers really are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:15 AM
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In the end redpillers c*pe just as much as anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:14 AM
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I get u, I was saying that’s why he feels weird about it in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:47 AM
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Not weird at all, none of your hobbies are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:06 PM
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Video games are treated like a default among guys these days
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:05 PM
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I can believe that women who prefer shorter guys exist. I’ve met plenty that were open to them. But to say that your singular preference outweighs a metric ton of statistical and anecdotal evidence is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:58 PM
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The universality of it is what gets in men’s heads. It’s an unchangeable trait that effectively ranks men in terms of desirability. In an age where more people are struggling to date and sexual attraction is the driving force in starting relationships, of course height is going to come up a lot. I said I didn’t let what those girls said ruin my confidence, but it’d be stupid to pretend like it never happened at all. It does happen, the point of my OP is that denying this only makes men more incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:55 PM
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Why wouldn’t you feel at least a little insecure about it, especially if you’ve had experiences confirming it? I’ve had beautiful women that I respect tell me they’d date me if I was taller. Straight up. Of course I’m gonna think about that later, even if it doesn’t destroy my self confidence completely. It’s something I can never work on or change, and yet it will always hold me back. This is coming from someone who dates just fine at 5’8”. I’m just saying when men complain about their height, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:32 PM
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The truth is there’s a spectrum. There’s no good reason for men over 5’6” to resign themselves to a horrible lonely life for the rest of their lives over their height. But the guy who’s 5’4” is running a way different race from me, and I don’t understand the inclination towards telling him his experiences are invalid or not true when it’s a clearly observable phenomenon. As for “raw attraction”… I get it. It’s an insecurity I share because I’ve seen how the lack of it causes relationships to dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:25 PM
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Violating laws of witchcraft
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:22 PM
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Lowkey I had a friend in college like that who’d always complain to me about other dudes. I straight up told her if you’re gonna put me through your Chad adventures you better wingman for me. She was awful at it but at least she tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:20 PM
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That’ll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:19 PM
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“Men make themselves insecure about their height” I have been rejected multiple times, in person, to my face over my height. I’m 5’8”. Not a death sentence at all, but saying it’s all in men’s heads or on social media is straight up gaslighting, and I don’t use that term lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:14 PM
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I’m gonna say that I actually do specifically enjoy having friends that are women, although I can’t say I go out deliberately looking to make female or male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:10 PM
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The masculine option is hard drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:48 PM
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When did r /self turn into PPD 2.0?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:47 PM
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I can’t believe I have the same type as the bmi guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:43 PM
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The title doesn’t really match the body of the post. You list expectations placed on men and women but don’t explain how either is more “internal” or “external”. I never felt the need to hit the gym hard until I started dating. Never cared about my height or race until I started dating. I never felt the need to limit my emotional responses… until I started dating. I never felt pressure to make 6 figures… you get the idea. These things all come from external influences, they’re not things I decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:36 PM
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The proportion doesn’t matter, I’m not taking credit for either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:18 PM
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If I’m not taking the blame for what shitty men do then I’m not taking the credit for what great men do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:16 PM
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This is a wild comment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:03 PM
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I wanna hear some Nirvana on that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:37 AM
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Tears in heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:32 AM
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So you’ve never watched a movie on a weekday?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:55 PM
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Why is the piano the go-to “sad” instrument? I feel like the guitar lends itself way better to emotional performances because there’s more room for imperfections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:53 PM
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Yes, although in my experience the bi girls I’ve met tend to like hyper masculine guys, which I am not. So most of my dating history is straight gals. Every now and again a girl I’m seeing will ask if I’m bi, and every time I tell them I’m straight it’s met with relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:39 PM
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There is an entire world of men besides PPD dudes with red flairs Even single moms can still easily find dates while openly displaying their children (the correct choice imo) High n women and women with… male friends have absolutely no issue finding partners in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:36 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:59 PM
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The muscles aren’t “burning fat” themselves but having them changes your body’s regular metabolic activity even when those muscles are at rest. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:45 PM
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If ur talking about huge female body builders then I agree, that’s a niche that most non sub guys aren’t gonna be down for. But the gym girls who have nice bodies/abs are usually ones that lift since muscle helps burn fat. I personally find fit bodies very attractive visually and I find the dedication to becoming stronger attractive too. You also know these girls are going to stay fit looking for longer until life or health gets in the way. Issue is the kinda fit girls usually want very fit guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:26 PM
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Not all beta men 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:13 AM
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Yo same That’s why I was whining about my back earlier cause I’m actually starting to like the way my body looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:07 AM
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Lowkey regret logging on to ppd today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:53 PM
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Not true bc I treat it like a group chat too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:49 PM
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Bro what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:46 PM
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Is that not scary to you? That’s terrifying bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:52 PM
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They’re fking huge, if I was in the water and I saw a whale, even a smaller one, I’d prolly be scared shitless too Now imagine seeing a humpback or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:51 PM
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18 thousand dollars. What the ~fuck~
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:23 AM
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Oof, Dubai alone is a 🚩, but I also don’t want someone with dirty nails. Both are gross and unhygienic. I’d date Natasha for the two weeks it takes until she realizes I’m not paying for her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:42 PM
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Unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:34 PM
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It definitely is, I’m being facetious about it. But I do need to see a doctor just to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:44 PM
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Those standards are arbitrary. Both men and women will argue that their “matches” are more attractive than they are. In pretty much every country outside of the US men aren’t expected to be bodybuilders or roided up to attract non fat women, and I think that’s where the complaints from American men are coming from. Thin men in Europe or Asia date thin women all the time since being thin is the standard for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:43 PM
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Lowkey goes for guys too. I neglected cardio for too long and realized that it caps your lifting potential pretty badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:28 PM
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I hurt my back doing squats which means I likely won’t be able to turbo-bulk/gym max to the extent I want to this fall. My dating life is soon to be in shambles and I will likely never be happy again. What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:27 PM
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That shit is way too expensive. I can afford it but why would I? I’ve only gone during my deepest depressive episodes, and even then the benefits have been marginal. The biggest improvements to my mental health have been concrete changes to my lifestyle, not therapy. Therapy is nice but it cuts into the pool of cash I could be using to actually spend on things that make me feel good, or better yet, improve my circumstances. If good care was more affordable and accessible then I would be on board…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:19 PM
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It’s also ridiculous if you’re in shape yourself asking for someone who likely does less than you do for your body. If you’re a fat dude demanding a thin woman then that’s one thing, but if you’re in decent shape I don’t see why wanting your equal is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:15 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:13 PM
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Yup, even slim girls who don’t hit the gym are usually not interested in chubby dudes. Why would they be if they can pull a fit guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:13 PM
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Can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:11 PM
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I definitely feel motivated now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:09 PM
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It’s most likely a cultural thing since public health is taken pretty seriously in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:40 PM
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I’m all about baggy tees these days so I’m usually in those, but I’ll throw a tank top under a button up if it’s hot out I see people wearing loose sleeveless tees out in the city and it looks pretty cool, the tight ones I usually see on gay dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:36 PM
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Like father, like son
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:54 AM
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Me every day this week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:59 PM
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If you could work out your height the average gen z man would be 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:58 PM
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If Ana de Armas is “a dime a dozen” where you are, I want the exact coordinates right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:56 PM
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There’s a lot, but a big one is learning to get over my fear. When I was younger I was afraid of basically everything. By highschool I was better, but I was still a bit anxious socially despite having lots of friends. College and on I pretty much stopped being self conscious and inhibited, and I even realized I’m much more extroverted than I thought. Kinda crazy thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:07 AM
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Oh I meant since you had strong feelings meeting someone Didn’t mean to make you double down on the timeline with this dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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So ur playing Carter 2 around the kids? Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:49 PM
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I’m surprised they charged women at all. You’d figure it’s a better idea to let women in for free so more men come and pay. The club model.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:45 PM
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I might be sympathetic to bl*ckpill but are there really people here who believe you can’t change your personality? That just sounds so unrealistic to me, I feel like I’ve worked on my personality for most of my life and gone through huge changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:44 PM
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How long has it been? If you feel like you could never have those intense feelings again then I say it’s no big deal since they’ll come up later. If you feel like you could meet someone tomorrow who you fall head over heels for… there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:42 PM
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That’s actually what I’m leaning towards myself, since it’s been true in my personal experience. I’ve even seen cultural changes affect my dating life personally, being an Asian dude. I don’t think men are immune to cultural conditioning at all but the effect is way less severe in terms of dating preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:57 PM
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According to the fat women on Reddit plenty of chad tier guys love them and proposition them 💀 In all seriousness though, yes, I’ve seen (and known) conventionally attractive men who genuinely preferred overweight, alternative, minority, etc. women. All you have to do is ask the women in those groups to show what kind of guys they can pull, and they’ll show you themselves. OLD is like a force multiplier for the phenomenon. Obviously it’s not going to be the majority of cases, the limited supply …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:39 PM
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Is this too much to ask for? Nothing wrong with a little crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:31 PM
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He’s cheesy but his questions are way more engaging than most celebrity interviewers. You can see it in their reactions, they’re usually having a good time instead of being fucking bored like in those wired or w magazine interviews
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:29 PM
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It’s a different kind of great. Sopranos is more of a “traditional” tv show with longer character arcs and plotlines. The Wire has a giant ensemble cast and is hyper focused on realism. I’d definitely recommend both but The Wire can be really slow and confusing at first, especially if you’re not used to shows like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:27 PM
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I can agree with that, but even at its weakest I still enjoyed The Wire more than most television.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:22 PM
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The Wire really is the peak, I’ve never seen a show as consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:14 PM
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I’m actually going to say attractive men. The relative rarity of universally attractive men gives them leverage in most contexts, and they’re more likely to actually desire that type of attention compared to women. Neither is really a bad gig though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:12 PM
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As a group, men really don’t have standards since virtually every type of women can find interest from a variety of men. Individual men absolutely do have standards though, despite what some of the dudes here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:08 PM
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You’re better off being well socialized in general, but the skills you get from friends and family are not the same skills you need to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:51 PM
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“Women cannot desire the average man/majority of men” is like a core tenet of the blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:49 PM
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You’re lowkey one of the most blackpilled posters here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:29 PM
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Did you tell the gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:09 PM
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Personally I just slack off at work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:00 PM
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Playing God is their best song imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:18 PM
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To be honest that’s what we get for watching this shit right after game of thrones shat the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:18 PM
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Hard to say, in this one the OP is in the comments responding to stuff unlike the other thread. Still very possible that it’s a “response” thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:31 PM
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The one in the r/NSQ link: “Why do short guys think women aren’t interested in them?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:32 PM
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Like I said before I really wonder if that question was asked in good faith. Idk how anyone, even the most terminally online person could not understand why short dudes are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:21 PM
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3/4, no Starbucks this week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:08 PM
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I have like 15-20 voices all yelling for my attention at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:07 PM
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D8 is what brought me back to pot after putting it away for most of college. Nowadays I’m all D9 gummies and carts tho. Cool that you use it to paint, I write some of my best music on D9. It’s a nice bump for creative types like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:53 PM
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Maybe it’s a communication issue then. I think when men say “thin” they mean “not overweight”, but when women hear “thin” they think “90s heroin chic” or “fitness influencer”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:44 PM
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PPD is still a niche subreddit, even with some “pill talk” going mainstream. Everyone here is more likely to be an outlier, men included.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:39 PM
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Yeah ngl I’m sold
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:29 PM
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It’s not that they’re wrong, thin women are very desirable in the US for the simple fact that they are now more rare than ever. The problem is that they use it as an example of men’s standards being unreasonable when typically the man is asking for someone around the same level of fitness. In the case he happens to be below average height, or a rcial mnority, or not rich, his match is said to be someone without the self control to maintain a healthy weight. A disheartening idea, and one that fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:28 PM
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Cat cafe yoga sounds crazy, my bastard cat would probably push me over or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:19 PM
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PPD women aren’t a good representation of the women in your age cohort, or in real life for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:18 PM
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Yeah I tried to link it earlier and fucked up Another thread full of 6’ women and their 5’2 boyfriends/husbands, and yet I can’t seem to find any of these couples in real life The good thing is that the most upvoted comments are the ones acknowledging the truth, even if the initial question is really stupid and probably not in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:14 PM
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Feeling high is nice when I’m eating, gaming, or watching HBO original series Not so nice when I realize there’s shit I need to get done. For all the many things wrong with nic it does keep my focus better than 🥬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:12 PM
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Buying a disposable (THC) vape was an absolutely terrible idea, I don’t think I’ve gone one day without hitting it. It’s too convenient compared to Js and edibles and it doesn’t last too long. The good news is that I’ve steered clear of nicotine in about the same period, so that’s nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:40 PM
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She can’t even string together a coherent point, like wtf do “pale” and “vibrant” mean in this context. I can’t say I care about the opinion of someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:37 PM
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I haven’t seen someone say roflmao in like 12 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:35 PM
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Robert Baratheon was a nice guy simp who just happened to rebel against a dynasty on its last legs. He groveled over a woman that would have never loved him and held on to that anger through his reign and marriage to the point where he didn’t notice that he was being cucked by Jamie (the real Chad of the series). I hate targs but let’s not mince words. Bobby B was a lovable simp who lost his girl to a singing pretty boy prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:34 PM
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Brutal. I’m straight, but women have asked if I was bi before and in hindsight I know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:26 PM
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Date a dj, most I’ve met are pretty introverted so it’s like a 2 for 1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:37 PM
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Seriously, I was into her until I noticed the chin cleft. Could hardly hold on my lunch after seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:35 PM
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How many men on ppd are out and out conservatives? I thought most were liberals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:07 PM
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Summer 2019, not even close tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:05 PM
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Up at 7AM to meet this girl in the city… At least I got to pick the place we’re eating. Gonna fuck those noodles up later today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:34 AM
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As a man who takes his style and grooming pretty damn seriously I would happily accept this but the truth is the ROI on self improvement is totally fucked for most men. The differences in the quality and quantity of women I’ve been able to attract at different times in my life have been minimal, and mostly change due to environment. My natural features almost always take precedence for women that either do or don’t like me. Despite consistently working out and making an effort to always look goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:32 AM
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The reality is that the popularity is probably driving the price up as more men seek it out. Insurance usually doesn’t cover anything “cosmetic” so that’s out too. I’d assume it’s cheaper in countries like Turkey or Korea where cosmetic surgery is cheaper across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:52 PM
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Wonder if she has a type
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:50 PM
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That is what I was talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:40 PM
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Gyno? It’s just a super small scale lipo/excision. Idk if it technically falls under “plastic surgery” but it is usually a cosmetic procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:08 PM
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When did gyno surgery get so expensive holy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:54 PM
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I can’t say this lines up with my experience. I’m 5’8”, slim, and half Asian. I get a decent amount of attention, but not exactly Chad material in the states. In Korea (far from a poor country) I was getting hit on virtually every day and approached by women who, in the states, I’d consider out of my league. It was shocking how differently I was treated despite looking and acting the same as I did at home. Yes, it’s probably different for men who get zero attention at home, but the point is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:37 PM
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Huge agree, although getting into that platonic zone where women actually invite you to shit instead of just knowing you can be tricky. The best wingmen in my experience are the girlfriends of my close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:58 PM
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Had to ask on the off chance you were some jazz guitar specialist or something P or J?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:56 PM
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Bass or guitar? Feel like it’s worth it for the former but not the latter tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:30 PM
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Chad energy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:27 PM
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So, in your opinion(s) what constitutes leading someone on? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:26 PM
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No, but cardio might be affected because nic (& other stimulants) fucks with your cardiovascular system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:13 PM
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The main difference is the proliferation of social media and smartphones at a young age. I’m the oldest in the gen z bracket and by the time I was in middle school most people had smartphones and were glued to them. Adults and kids. Thats a really big shift, and psychologists still aren’t sure about the full impact of that on children. We also have to remember that for younger gen z, covid was pretty crazy and a big chunk of their lives. I lost around a year of college, but there are millions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:00 PM
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There are a shocking number of adults who, despite saying they know life isn’t fair, maintain the idea that all people get what they truly deserve in the end. It’s not true, and it’s never been true, but it’s convenient to treat people that way so the thought continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:10 PM
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By that token all computers are just “madlib” machines
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:33 PM
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There are users in this very thread who regularly shame “loser” men now suddenly denying that this phenomenon exists and has impact. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:46 PM
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I always enjoy the sauces from Popeyes more than CFA but the former leaves me feeling way worse afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:59 PM
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Where’s the “no pill” men agreeing with her tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:56 PM
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Not really sure what kind of status Jake would have there but my point is having cash/a job isn’t the same thing as having status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:54 PM
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I don’t know what your views actually are, so fair enough. I thought about it like combining the ruthless strategy of redpill with the women’s advocacy of feminism. Hence FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:48 PM
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People with inherited wealth, introverts born into “old money” families, highly paid STEM workers, wealthy foreigners, etc. I knew many examples of rich dudes with no “status” in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:38 PM
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Sounds like FDS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:19 PM
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money =/= status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:05 PM
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Rolling her eyes isn’t really contradictory. Flirting is basically indirect complimenting, so she’s playing humble by rolling her eyes at your comment. It’s a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:17 PM
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It’s better than bullshitting them, but I suspect more young men will just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:53 PM
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Bruh ads on tinder as profiles is foul, there’s already enough fake profiles as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:42 PM
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It’s not like I don’t feel bitter from time to time, I just try not to let it color what I put out there too much. Lots of people here (claim to) have nothing going for them in dating, others claim to have it all. Both are more than likely misrepresenting the truth for fear of making themselves or their arguments look weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:21 PM
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This is probably not the primary issue since dating in liberal US cities is still difficult relative to other large cities in the world. You could say instead that it’s the combination of religion and wealth that makes the US uniquely difficult but I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:15 PM
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You are correct for China and Korea having a smaller gap, Japan is different afaik. Southeast Asia is populous, has far fewer guns than the US, and yet most of the countries have a large gender gap (2x in Cambodia, Singapore, etc.) I’m not saying guns don’t matter in suicide, they obviously do, but taking away guns will likely not address the gap on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:11 PM
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I really don’t want to break this girls heart but I think I have to soon rather than lead her on, or worse jump into a relationship that’ll crash and burn. Sometimes I wish I had a players heart man, this shit sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:06 PM
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I never understood the numbers on that claim. Of course people who survive attempt more, someone “successful” can only attempt once. Unless they’re talking about population percentages? In which case the gap is even more striking, how are men that much more successful at it when a smaller percentage even tries?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:44 PM
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I can’t agree with this, most Asian countries have suicide gender gaps and no guns (except Korea which is closer than most places)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:41 PM
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I havent left the country that many times but I've done better with women in every place ive been outside of the US. I think the guys who say the US is the hardest place to date might have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:26 PM
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I can’t co-sign this. In fact most of the most successful men I know in dating don’t cold approach at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:14 PM
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I think glasses are a case by case kinda thing. The majority look better without, a handful look better with, and a lucky few look equally attractive both ways. I personally look better without, but my face shape apparently works with a lot of different frames so I wear glasses on occasion. If a chick likes me both ways, it means she’s dtf. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:08 PM
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This entire convo is insane ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:35 AM
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I’m a straight dude and I find women with deep voices really hot I also tend to like girls around my height (5’6”-5’10”, I’m 5’8”), but I’m not sure if that’s really that uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:23 PM
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It’s a stupid comparison in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:38 PM
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Tim is literally my ideal woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:37 PM
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I am unfortunate enough to have not only known a girl who [redacted] but filmed herself doing so. Scary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:50 PM
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“Actually I’m 5’6” and my wife is 6’1” -every redditor when a short dude posts some whiny thread Dawg, where, I can’t remember a single couple I’ve met where the man is more than like 2 inches shorter and that’s already rare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:46 PM
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Hot when drunk and sweaty, not hot when sober and at her grandmas house (open to debate)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:03 PM
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I can bench 3 plates just not all at once [uproarious laughter]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:02 PM
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Montreal put me on to poutine US East Coast put me off Idk why it’s so fucking hard to make gravy fries right but I guess it’s a québécois secret
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:01 PM
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That’s fair, it took a while for me to change my default settings to charismatic, and even now I can find it exhausting. It’s much easier when I’m around people I actually like or want to get to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:49 PM
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“Chunky but built” guys are pretty popular for American gals. Generally bigger = better, but that also means getting leaner can be better since you’ll look bigger. But then again if you’re short like me then getting too big will make you look smaller… ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:47 PM
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Don’t worry, I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:43 PM
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The secret is to be “suave” with everyone, once it becomes a habit it’s much easier to be calm around someone you’re actually interested in. But yeah, I definitely do tend towards that “fuck this dating shit” mentality a lot of the time. It’s actually fucked me over a few times when someone was flirting and I just wasn’t really in the game. So if you can deal with the 2AM “damn she was actually dtf” thoughts then it’s not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:42 PM
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At the risk of sounding like I’m bragging, a few of my friends see me as the guy who “never has to try” with women and express some jealousy over it. I always tell them that they only see my wins and not the dry spells in between. And that they overvalue my facial attractiveness compared to my height, rce, cck size etc, which all factor into dating success as well. I’m not a chad, just a bit above average, so I’m not as far from them as they think. Basically, yes, the grass is a bit greener but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:33 PM
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Given that power and leadership are seen as traditionally masculine qualities, I struggle to imagine a leadership position that would select for the opposite. It’s actually one of the reasons why I think we should be critical of gender roles in the first place. Things like assertiveness or initiative shouldn’t be tied to masculinity or femininity at all, but they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:22 PM
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I mean, I don’t personally have any attachment to masculinity and am willing to be “feminine” if it suits me. Even in these liberal cities I still see social and especially romantic penalties for stepping out of my masculine role. The “fuck it” crowd is a minority, but it’s a growing one. Obviously you’re less likely to see them espouse things in public. But I know I have some resentment towards my gender role personally, and I think the disconnect between social messaging and social results is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:09 PM
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Is it? Feminine women are still highly valued by both men and women, as are independent and masculine women. Hence “socially liberated”. We see femininity it as inferior in men because it almost universally leads to worse outcomes socially and romantically. If that was to change, and agreeable feminine men were more valued, then I could see men changing very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:55 PM
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Because despite the name, masculine and feminine gender roles aren’t roles to be filled like jobs at an office. A masculine woman usually doesn’t want a feminine man, she wants a man who’s even more dominant. More money, more initiative, more success, etc. The keyword here is more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:51 PM
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The problem isn’t women acting like men. (I’m not really convinced that they do en masse) The issue is socially liberating only half of the population from their gender role while holding the other half to theirs. Of course there’s going to be a lot of resentment, or a lot of dudes going “fuck this”. Even redpill is basically just a long-winded response to this phenomenon, it just doubles down on hypermasculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:37 PM
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I used to be skeptical about the “unfulfilling work but good pay” complaints but damn if I don’t feel it in IT right now. Literally nothing I’ve done in the last two years has really mattered, and everything I learn is quickly rendered pointless due to legacy tech and practices. I feel lucky to have a job after, let alone one that pays half decently and is relatively low stakes, but this shit is kinda wearing me down. I hang on cause it’s much better than the alternative though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:29 PM
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??? Those men are angels bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:59 PM
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Smokers are usually thin and non American. What’s the downside? Also I’m in the process of quitting nic myself so I’m in no position to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:48 PM
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I’m no stranger to brain-off entertainment but I think I dislike shows that jump the line between serious and stupid when it’s convenient. I especially don’t like shows that clearly want to be seen as edgy and transgressive but don’t actually want to upset or offend their audience. Then again, I’m a 40k fan and that setting often does those same things. Maybe I just have superhero fatigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:50 PM
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People are all down on the new season of The Boys but to be honest I’ve always found the show kinda obnoxious from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:07 PM
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My final vote is for basketball but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:04 PM
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I mean dance music and raves currently have an iron grip on young Asian people, but I get that there are some complications if you’re outside that community I switch it up a lot, but I admit that 9/10 times I’d rather party with my Asian friends than stand around some overcrowded sports bar listening to the Killers for the 5000th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:22 PM
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I honestly struggle to believe it isn’t intentional/malicious to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:15 PM
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Honestly god bless .is for being so horrible and unwelcoming. The blackpill has enough truth to it to draw in loads of guys, but it’s probably better off separated from the actual self identified inc*l nutcases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:13 PM
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How did you get banned from crystal cafe? I actually agree that the darker corners of the net are completely male dominated, I’m just not sure if that’s a benefit for us dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:11 PM
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I’m naturally cynical, so I have to be intentional with seeing positives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:09 PM
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To me it was the degree and severity of male beauty standards that shocked me. I’ve taken my appearance seriously from a pretty early age (early high school), but it’s taken me far longer to really hone in on the areas that women seem to care about most. Even longer to accept that some of those are completely outside of my control, since those tend to be the most taboo to discuss. These conversations on male beauty and attractiveness are still largely relegated to dingy corners of the internet. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:04 PM
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Sounds like what redpill claims to be. “We can’t actually change how women operate, so we’ll develop strategies around it to get what we want”. Basically an optimization of the male imperative. Not saying that’s how redpillers always act, but that’s the mission brief. Same with FDS. Both tend to devolve into shitting on the opposite sexes behavior. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:13 PM
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It’s the lack of critical thinking that’s far scarier. People are reading more than they speak nowadays, the real problem is that so many never think deeply about what they’re consuming since information is so worthless now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:10 PM
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I thought pinkpill was supposed to be the blackpill equivalent for women, that’s why they use a lot of the same language. FDS is probably closer to a redpill counterpart IMO. Redpillers would probably argue that women are “redpilled by default”, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:07 PM
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I have glasses like these and reactions from women have been mixed. The ones that say I look hot in them are usually dtf, the ones that say I look nerdy mysteriously disappear. Personally I think they make my nose look ugly so I don’t wear them much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:34 PM
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Came back from vacation with a sore throat and a tan. Miss being pale already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:32 PM
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God bless the K-pop wave hitting women in their 20s cause that’s my main market
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah, the consolation is that she treats me like a chad. For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:41 PM
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I don’t know if it’s that exactly but she is very insecure about being “fuckable but not cuffable”. She claims that she thought I was out of her league before, but it’s hard to believe a cute non-overweight filipina girl in a big city would have to settle too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:09 PM
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She wasn’t upset or angry, it was more infantilizing. I think that’s much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:50 PM
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It seemed like she was shitting on these other dudes to try and boost my ego, but it doesn’t work when I’m average height at best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:48 PM
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This girl I’m chatting with went on a tirade about guys her height and shorter. She said if she has to look down at a guy she’ll never see them as a grown man, more of a child or a teenager. Definitely a flag on the play there. Of course she went into damage control and said that me being only 3 inches taller than her is “perfect”, but damn girl, it was a 5’4 dude that introduced us to each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:48 PM
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Redditors like to see themselves as counter cultural, so if the public is trending towards pessimism they feign optimism and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:37 PM
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That’s literally why I picked purple lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:34 PM
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I kinda like how gaudy it is ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:20 PM
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You’d have to be extremely far up your own ass to feel “offended” by someone showing interest in you and think you’re attractive. I’ve been approached by women that I thought were unattractive and not appropriate matches for me, and they’re typically pretty nervous and self aware. I respect the courage it takes to shoot your shot and risk rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:18 PM
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That’s a solid perspective, I feel like I hear the tall version of that problem more from my male friends who can’t fit in the back of an Uber. But being too short to reach things or fit into seats is probably a huge hassle. I can bitch about being 5’8 all day but in the end, I can use and fit into more or less anything since most of it was made by people not too far off from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:51 PM
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I get that, but is 5’1-5’2 really that short for a woman? To the point where they’d seek out a place to talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:48 PM
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Idk what Imogen Heap has to do with anything, afaik she’s tall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:43 PM
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Mezcalitas sounds perfect, shit I could go for one right now…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:42 PM
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I think most normie guys who prefer sons are just assuming they can do more bro shit with their son than their daughter. They assume he’ll have the same interests as his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:17 PM
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Soup dumplings/dim sum are a go-to date for me. Has that nice cozy shareable vibe without being too much food. Some of the places have booze too 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:15 PM
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I’m not into graphic novels but I highly recommend the books, they tell a much more “complete” story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:12 PM
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Maybe some sangria or margs? Some kinda lightweight booze besides beer is always nice when it’s hot out. Or you could get a frat party vibe going with some jello shots
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:11 PM
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Why are there so many women on r/ short nowadays? I understand if they’re 5’ and below, but anything above 5’ is a perfectly normal height for a woman to be. I don’t really see how height can be a big deal for a 5’2 woman unless she lives in a Nordic country or Iceland.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah, I used to put Greek yogurt, berries, milk, oats, whole bunch of shit really to max out the calories. It worked but it was such a pain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:31 PM
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Good thing women don’t judge men on easily quantifiable and comparable traits. That’d be hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:30 PM
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Gaining muscle is lowkey just as hard as losing, there’s just far less info on it out there. The good news is that more carbs means more energy in the gym. Weed helped me pack on some pounds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:20 PM
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It was really expensive to buy all the ingredients for my protein smoothies ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:18 PM
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Could also be different between East/Southeast Asian. I’m half filipino with absolutely no hair on my torso, but thick hair on my legs. Shaving it keeps it nice and balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:15 PM
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Summary execution, on to the next son
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:08 PM
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I’ve noticed the nap thing with girls I was talking to. I guess I can’t admit to taking a nap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:00 PM
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It’s just distributed differently. My legs can get wolfish looking if I don’t trim them from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:59 PM
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Not in a relationship ATM, but I notice it even in the early stages of talking/dating. Even just walking around the city next to a girl leads to way more women checking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:19 PM
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It honestly seems that way sometimes. The girls I’m actively dating always seem to think I’m the hottest guy alive. Once it ends then all of a sudden they can see my flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:14 PM
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As someone who’s vaped on and off for the past few years I can’t say I recommend it. Yes it suppresses appetite but if you want to be fit it can’t be a crutch. You’d have to smoke in place of meals; cigarettes or vapes that’d be so much nicotine that you’d feel like complete shit the rest of the time, including the gym. Basically it only works if you’re going for that malnourished look. Not sufficient for men < 6’. Weed on the other hand has definitely helped me pack on some pounds. Not great fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:10 PM
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Mfs talking about being “Kenough” Bro I Ken’t take this shit no more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:22 PM
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Headrush musta been crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:12 PM
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Seems like the dudes on the left are still checking my girl Shirley out though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:44 PM
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Lean bulking is fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:43 PM
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Yeah, I’d say I deserved it around 60% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:39 PM
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Literally just read things that entertain you. I bought a bunch of books that I liked the thought of reading but never finished them (philosophy, financial advice, popular novels, psychology stuff etc). I was interested in them conceptually but spread out over entire books they couldn’t keep my attention, especially with other shit distracting me day to day. I recently said fuck it and bought the 40k Night Lords omnibus and I was hooked, since reading actually felt like fun and not work. And I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:35 PM
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Is this an obsession? I feel like people are acutely aware of the disadvantages of being autistic so they try to mask it. I can’t say I’ve seen any extroverts jumping to label themselves as autistic either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:38 PM
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I think he could pull it off before he retires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:36 PM
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I’m getting into jewelry now but it’s hard to find things I like. I’m only interested in silver, modern looking stuff since I wear a lot of black. I’m also not crazy about rings cause they seem like they get in the way, but I do think they look cool on the right guy. It’s a niche style outside of big cities though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:35 PM
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I’m inclined to agree, but I wonder if short men would benefit from a cultural shift the way Asian men have, especially because preferences for tall men seem to be cross-cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:30 PM
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Went from “gifted” in my childhood, to above average hs to lazy and dumb in college. Probably impacted my ability to get an internship in college which made landing my first real job hard as shit. I got my current job through my network anyways. TBD if I have any real success after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:15 PM
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It just adds further confusion. Are short men biologically unattractive, or are they socially unattractive? Inb4 “there’s no difference”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:06 PM
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Nice try but my gramma is world class
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:16 PM
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It just so happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:07 PM
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Don’t ever lump me in with R*dditors again or I’m sending the admins posts from the purge and saying they’re your alts I’m assuming you mean people with disabilities or underdeveloped social skills, and I’m interested to see if breaking down emotional interactions logically makes the ideas “stick”. But I can’t say I know if that works for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:13 PM
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Many such cases outside this sub. It’s an awfully convenient narrative for the beneficiaries of a system. Source: American
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:03 PM
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Meh, even as someone who’s never struggled socially it’s interesting to read it broken down since, like you said, it’s not often spelled out. Maybe it’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:01 PM
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Southeast Asia -> cocaine -> Remington I’m kidding I’ll just do what I was doing before, which includes only two of the aforementioned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:42 PM
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It sounds like he understands pretty well for someone just “finding out”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I thought I was the only one who thought that question was rhetorical when I first read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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At the time, yes. Didn’t last too long after I showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:35 PM
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You heard me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:58 AM
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Got bad news about “natural” for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:53 PM
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I don’t respect people who can’t read something and have a conversation at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:53 PM
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I’m late, but in addition tho what other people have said the #1 trait I judge people on is integrity. Are you willing to practice what you preach? Are you willing to sacrifice for what you believe is right? Are you willing to do things that may not be immediately beneficial to you for the sake of doing the right thing? Do you hold yourself to the standards of humanity that you hold others to? No one, I repeat, no one is perfect on these things, but when someone values personal integrity, it sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:51 PM
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Seems like an availability thing. Poorer women are much more likely to be overweight and have larger looking “assets”. I think men of all incomes like fit women with large breasts, but that’s a pretty small percentage of available women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:09 PM
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He’s honestly not bad looking for 43, I can see him being someone’s thing. Probably not a young gal though Needs to find some better frames for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:57 PM
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Third base, lots of making out but no sex yet. She’s very openly dtf but I think that’d be like crossing the rubicon where she’d feel totally devastated if it didn’t work out. Might honestly be like that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:05 PM
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Despite what guys here might say I think her being upfront about her anxiety and experiences was a massive green flag. Better to rip that bandaid off sooner before you get too invested, even if it scares a lot of guys off. I’m all about making informed choices, even if it blurs the romance a bit. Will definitely have a light chat about it later, cause like I said, I do actually give a shit about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:02 PM
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Do I really sound proud about it? 😑 When my life flashes before my eyes when I die, this is gonna stick out as a low point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:59 PM
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Unrealistic scenario, if there was a roach at my place my cat would have pulled it apart before I even saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:19 PM
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Yeah, I think death (in Minecraft) is a little extreme. I’d like to avoid that if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:18 PM
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I enjoy the validation, but I hate the idea of her being genuinely hurt. I’d much rather be on the same page because I care about her a lot. She was upfront about her attachment and there’s been multiple signs, I just figured my feelings would progress faster than they have. I’m gonna talk to her about it and lay things out on the table, but I’m worried she’ll say she’s fine to try and not scare me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:17 PM
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This is our third or fourth but we talk all the time on facetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:13 PM
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She won’t end it, she likes me too much. But yeah, it’s only been a little over a month. We facetime a lot, but have only seen each other ~5 times in person. I almost wonder if it was a fucked up test, but we were both a little buzzed so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:48 PM
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It’s not over at all, she’s kinda obsessed with me and it’s already been over a month of seeing each other. But I do agree it would be lame to leave her in the dark, so we had a quick a phone call today. I apologized for embarrassing her and told her that while we aren’t there yet, I won’t hold a buzzed mistake over her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:46 PM
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She said “I love you” after our last date and I fucking laughed at her (drunk). I went back and gave her a kiss on the cheek and told her not to be embarrassed cause it happens, but there’s no way she hasn’t been overthinking it since then. Someone sterilize me rn cause I can’t do this dating shit anymore, my brain doesn’t work so good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:21 PM
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Samples of Pegasus and Pegasus exclusif I don’t wear it every day so using samples instead of full bottles makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:23 PM
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5’2 mom, 5’11 dad. I’m 5’8. Curse the gods, old and new.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:41 PM
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Why? It’s not like she’s ugly in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:20 PM
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I agree, but unfortunately my phenotypes (and personal style tbf) don’t line up with a super traditionally masculine guy. I do my best to pay my dues to the altar of masculinity, but I’m more likely to stick with the ones that I enjoy personally like lifting weights and being a bit stoic. Everything else kinda is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:31 PM
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Any guys here wear rings (just for looks, not wedding/engagement bands)? I’ve always been kinda uninterested since I feel like they could get in the way of using my hands compared to something like a necklace or bracelet which are usually out of the way. I think they do look cool on certain guys, so I’m not totally closed off. I am mildly interested in some of those health tracker rings though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:29 PM
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I’m a (broadly) liberal man and in all honestly it’s kinda shit sometimes. You’re in the closest proximity to the people that talk the most shit about you, and you’re more likely to be stereotyped as unmanly. People will hold you to gender roles that you don’t hold them to. Not a big deal socially, but in dating it blows. I see why dudes are moving right, I just don’t agree with the positions. At least conservative guys have something to aspire to. Just can’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:01 PM
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Much easier if it’s a choice for you. And/or if you have other things going on like a large social circle, ability to get casual sex, life goals beyond a family, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:15 PM
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It’s honestly crazy how tattoos became a mark of conformism in the last ~20 years. I’m not against them at all though. Really doesn’t matter to me at all unless it’s genuinely an ugly or stupid one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:14 PM
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Cause they like them back Source: me existing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:29 PM
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“I’m 5’4” and my height has never impacted my dating life in any way” is just as ridiculous to hear as “it’s hopeless purely because I’m 5’9” Like it’s one thing to have anecdotal experience, but it’s another entirely to be straight up wrong about your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:36 PM
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I don’t see it as weird at all. It’s just more pictures to see. If it’s the only thing on the profile, then it’s a massive 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:34 PM
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Men have no idea about makeup. I’d posit that in a blind trial 90% of guys couldn’t tell if a woman had on foundation or not. That’s generally what guys mean when we say “natural look”. It’s not totally our fault when the majority of the time we see women in public, they have some amount of makeup on. The only reason I’m even privy to it is I started wearing bb cream myself, and know how under the radar it can go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:34 PM
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I agree, but I also try to acknowledge the reality of the situation. I’m 5’8, half Asian, and skinny, but I get a lot of leeway for having a relatively handsome face, and that’s a tangible advantage I have. It’s not fair for me to say that because I don’t have an issue with my height, race, etc. that nobody should. Individual preferences should not be a point of contention, but spread out over a large population it can lead to trends that create resentment. There are entire groups of people that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:51 PM
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5’7-5’9 really isn’t the death knell that blackpillers make it out to be, especially if you have other attractive traits. No one is dateless solely because they’re average height. I do think the height thing is getting worse among younger women due to social media. The inverse is true as well, guys can see the difference in how taller men are treated and the resentment builds. I’m 5’8 and it’s definitely been a mark against me before, but it’s kinda my fault since I tend to prefer women close to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:27 PM
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“Cheating is not as bad if my gender does it” Sorry, but verbal agreements are gender neutral. If you’re in a monogamous relationship, then you made a promise not to fuck other people. If you cheat, you broke that promise. It’s really that simple. Anything beyond that is just rationalizing your shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:53 PM
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Doesn’t really matter, I figure most people use them interchangeably. It’s really the context that determines if I get an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:50 PM
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Doesn’t mean it’s attractive. Men are likely to bald through no fault of their own. Should women “cut them some slack” on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:48 PM
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I can’t lie, looking at the romance novel subreddit was actually blackpilling as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:45 PM
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The truth is that very few people in general are consistent in their acknowledgment of social issues. People pick and choose, and are typically biased towards things that affect them personally. I assure you this is not limited to the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:44 PM
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Men don’t like the idea of unreciprocated effort, that’s really all there is to it. I pay for dates, and while I have a general amount of resentment for being held to a gender role I dislike, I don’t hold it against individual women unless they seem like they’re taking advantage of it. It’s just a part of the process of dating in America. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:35 PM
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14 hour days is foul
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:25 AM
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It’s so loud in my brain it’s practically static sometimes. I don’t think it’s ever been silent once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:24 AM
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Sounds like you’re putting food on their table
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 AM
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Nah I’m not getting paid for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:27 PM
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Depends on the man Feels like “normal” difficulty getting phased out 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:32 PM
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I get you man, I’m not in your position but I feel like that a lot. I’m decently attractive facially, but I’m also 5’8” and half Asian, so not exactly the spitting image of Chad in a big city. A good number of girls that I attract are like this and while the confidence boost is awesome at first, the whole thing eventually turns sour and I’m back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:23 PM
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Love orbital kinetic bombardment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:12 PM
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I have noticed more women interested since I started talking to her but I think that’s just the preselection aura buff I’m pretty good looking but I’m not that guy you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:03 PM
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This shit is scary bruh like what happens when she realizes I’m actually just a regular dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:01 PM
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Not a probiotic but dgl licorice root basically fixed my stomach for a time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:56 PM
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Idk I’m like a fungus or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:55 PM
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This girl is actually way too into me. She was crying because I’m going out this weekend and she’s convinced that crazy hot girls are going to throw themselves at me and take me away from her. Because, you know, that’s what happens to me all the time in the city, obviously. We’re literally 3 dates in, and not explicitly exclusive (neither of us are seeing other people). I like her a lot but the dysfunction is starting to show. I can’t date a girl who’s going to spiral and cry if she can’t FaceTi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:53 PM
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As a nerdy introvert who learned to be cool, I think the replaying interactions can be a good thing if you think about what you did right. Like if you made a group of people laugh or something. Then next time you’re in a similar situation you don’t have to worry about what works since you already know and you can go from there. I’m not saying to write stuff down but just giving yourself props when you deserve it is helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:04 PM
1

Unfortunately for me it does not matter nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:00 PM
1

Likely story
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:51 PM
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When someone has enough choices, preferences become inevitabilities. Why would they go for something they like less when something they like more is out there? Imagine a young woman in a big city who prefers tall men. Even if she’s “open to date shorter guys”, why would she when there are men who she can have that aren’t? With online dating, women’s circle of available men has increased dramatically. It’s like a job posting with 1 applicant vs 1000. The “nice to haves” become “must haves” by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:48 PM
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Proof misogyny here is honestly out of control
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:25 PM
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Emotional instability can be expressed in a hot way or a lame way, it’s still the same thing just delivered differently Also bc Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:18 PM
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It’s weird tho, I’ve been skinny most of life and had veins like that so it’s not just a muscle thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:49 PM
4

Ur better than this bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:48 PM
2

That gif is me after I order one glass of bourbon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:43 PM
3

Literally the same type as every other terminally online gal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:32 PM
1

So many ppl wear it that you probably already have smelled it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:55 PM
1

Pls no, the IRS is hard enough to criticize already
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:53 PM
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I don’t. I shut it down immediately. Do not smile at me, am I a joke to you???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:36 PM
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Tell me with a straight face that most men want anorexic women after spending 10 minutes in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:46 PM
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Honestly the 2nd girl sounds like the girl I’m talking to now. I personally find her attractive but she’s a homebody and not a “baddie” type. Safe to say rude Stacy ain’t cutting it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:15 PM
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Short but not that far out of normal range. Bad for dating but socially should not be a big hinderance on its own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:28 PM
2

Am I weak or am I just human? To err is human; to forgive, divine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:54 PM
2

It was the super seniors for me, they do the lords work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:34 PM
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I was under the impression that it’s a specific kind of turn off, one that elicits a disgust or pity reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:27 PM
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The video didn’t restore my faith in shit, but the comments definitely did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:12 PM
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Why does it have to be the “ick”? I wouldn’t want to date a vegan girl but it’s not “icky” it’s just incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:06 PM
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If she’s really into you there is no “ick” Women aren’t passing up models because they chased a ping pong ball lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:01 PM
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The problem I have is that “matching energy” is too often a race to the bottom to see who can do less. Someone has to be the one to put something on the line first, and when it’s been fruitless in the past people get bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:07 PM
1

If things don’t work out with my current gal I’m going back to the sigma grind I was on before I met her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:34 PM
2

Wouldn’t baggage be applicable for male privileges too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:32 PM
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True in my case. I just don’t care about N-Count so being slutty is not a dealbreaker. If they treat me like they would a desirable man, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:31 PM
2

In reality women are more than happy to spend money on the guys they like as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:28 PM
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Percentile, although other demographic categories besides height can be exactly the same. Basically if SKY_ACTIV3 was born a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:51 PM
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I believe you, and I think it might be the case for the girl in my OP too 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:06 PM
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Doesn’t work like that. My statistical equivalent likely wants nothing to do with me. I’ve swallowed that pill and started honing in on the girls that are more likely to be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:03 PM
1

IME men that only look good with glasses are rare. Usually it’s the other way around, they look good without them and the glasses don’t detract from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:56 PM
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Both absolutely matter, no matter what men or women here might say. It’s just that it’s a harder bar for men to clear, so we will be more focused on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:52 PM
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I strongly believe that it’s the foundation for every healthy relationship. It doesn’t mean that it will work, just that attraction comes first. Every other part of the relationship will be colored by it, particularly if it isn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:42 PM
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She passed the glasses test guys. 100% of women who thought I looked hot in glasses stuck around. 100% of women that laughed or called me a nerd didn’t. This is science fellas. Pure statistical prognosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:37 PM
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The “sex issue” is a big part of dating though, and it’s the hardest bar for most men to clear. I’m not even a high libido guy, the actual sex is not that important for me. Despite that, it’s very important that the girl I’m dating is sexually attracted to me, because in my experience it’s the number one predictor of how well things will go with her, short or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:35 PM
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Take it from a guy who’s also a skinny nerd. You need to clear the bar of “measurable success” before the trait becomes attractive. Being nerdy never got me girls, but being nerdy enough to get a good job did. Playing guitar never got me girls, but playing in front of an audience did. Going to the gym didn’t help me, getting results in the gym did. And so on. Of course being attractive is also a minimum bar to clear. Then I had girls appreciating my unique traits and quirks. The point is, it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:32 PM
1

The smell tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:14 PM
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Meh, I didn’t do any of that shit so I’m not taking credit for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:14 PM
1

Not a romcom but I like to get baked and just get lost watching Dazed and Confused. It’s even worse when I watch it with my dad cause he pretty much lived that shit in highschool. Gets my imagination racing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:03 PM
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Life in general is extremely unfair, it’s just very telling that these ideas remain taboo. If you truly believe what you say in the OP then you ought to start speaking up when other people deny it on this very subreddit, or at least accept being seen as dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:33 PM
2

O shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:59 PM
1

For real, people who shit on early BB Skyler are lowkey braindead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:56 PM
1

I’ve only been to 4 I think. I’m pretty picky about where I like to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:55 PM
2

Try drugs 💊💉⛷️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:42 PM
1

Going to some crazy raves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:41 PM
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This girl likes me so much but I think she’s traumatized from her past relationships. Like, some pretty bad stuff. I really don’t know what to think. It doesn’t really make me see her differently and I don’t have some principle about not dating women in that position, but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t make me feel hesitant to enter a relationship. Idk if I’m willing or even able to handle that kind of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:41 PM
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I wouldn’t exist if my grandma stayed single, but she also didn’t use the situation for insta clout In the end, if I’m fucking dead I won’t have much to say about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:01 PM
1

Why are you still talking to him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:58 PM
2

I can see them getting into an argument at some point tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:44 PM
1

I mean I just practiced. Took a long time but I feel like I can dial it up to make a good first impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:43 PM
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I’m pretty sure we’re assuming they exist already tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:55 PM
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There’s a big difference between quiet and nervous because she likes you and quiet and nervous because she doesn’t, do you know which one it is with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:50 PM
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If it’s your vibe go for it, I think it looks good Seems suited for Asian hair tho tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:42 PM
1

Daughter, wife, mom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:54 PM
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I spread terror, is this why my wireless bill is so high??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:53 PM
3

I don’t think my brain ever worked right tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:52 PM
3

I have a warhammer 40k pendant that I wear on nights out sometimes and people ask about it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:57 PM
1

Those are sick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:55 PM
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It’s actually not ok how hot they made tifa
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:55 PM
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If I was willing to date girls still in high school then yes it would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:37 PM
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Idk really know if there’s a trend of Asian guys with good jaws trying to get rid of them. Even most of the more popular male kpop idols have really sharp jawlines, just not as square looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:00 PM
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It was cooler when it was cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:04 PM
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I agree 90%, but the rise of k-pop in the west has done wonders for the dating lives of us gen z Asian dudes 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:03 PM
1

Me, a man (aka demon) wearing chunky sneakers just to still be 2 inches under 6’ and deny shorter women’s chances of having nba children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:01 PM
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Supposed to have a date night tonight but ofc my dickhead boss wants me to work late
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:29 PM
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Lot more dead cats too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:15 PM
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I get it. I’ve accepted the fact that most rappers are putting on a persona. Also huge agree on the beats, logic’s beat selection is honestly top tier. Under pressure still knocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:14 PM
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He’s aight I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:52 PM
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He’s a pretty good rapper but his music is basically the opposite of what most rap fans want to feel. “Cornball” rapper basically. Can’t say I’m a big fan or a hater personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:51 PM
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She actually has a point, I don’t see his style of comedy landing as well with a female comedian That being said it wouldn’t work for a lot of other male comedians either so ymmv I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:09 PM
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Tall rich big dick “funny” guy I also think dating Ari gave him a big status boost, even if she doesn’t really have crazy high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:38 PM
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I figured letting it sit for a second would be more genuine than going into damage control immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:42 AM
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It’s whatever, she didn’t even hold it against me. It was just a weird situation, people at the restaurant were looking at me like I was hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:16 AM
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So I called this girl a “stalker” as a joke on a date and she started crying. Not sobbing, but she shed tears. She blamed it on her period and said she was being oversensitive. I didn’t apologize right away, but I told her if I said anything that makes her upset to put her foot down and let me know so I don’t do it again. Did I handle this situation well? I feel conflicted about it but I also don’t think a big sappy public apology would have made things better either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:46 AM
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Tbh I think men should be able and willing to cook as well But yes a woman cooking for me is rare but it’s huge bonus points in her favor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:38 AM
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Idk what the numbers are but in the demo I date it’s probably not a realistic standard I see it as a bonus not a minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:55 PM
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I thought she was wh*te?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:50 PM
1

How big we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:43 PM
2

Moana irl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:59 AM
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I wish they’d stop looking at my wrists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:58 AM
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Height soldiers are busy holding the line against face generals While race brigades fortify their positions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:57 AM
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For sure. I actually remember being shocked at how small of a % gap between white and black men facing MPB is, since it’s usually communicated differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:54 PM
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Apparently Snapchat is having a second wind among younger Gen Z too I’d also consider Twitter normie but in a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:38 PM
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I’m not an authority on the subject but I’m of the impression that bald black men are cooler than their non-black bald counterparts. I think it’s because MPB is seen as an issue that mostly affects white guys, so for black guys it’s seen as an intentional choice even if the numbers don’t pan out like that. I also think that going slick bald would actually look better but I guess it depends on your head. I’d stick with finasteride either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:37 PM
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Ah okay. So the preferred style of my work colleagues in IT. Never saw the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:30 PM
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I think he means horseshoe bald like this man right here At least I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:22 PM
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What do you even say in court at that point? “Yeah, I was making copies in case someone tried to destroy the evidence”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:20 PM
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The real redpill is that it’s the bottom right saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:18 PM
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I can’t imagine the 14k right swipes were in that range either. Numbers in the US just don’t add up to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:17 PM
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Damn. Wonder what the 500 profiles he left swiped looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:57 PM
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Caught the nurse at the vet checking me out. Guess she just smelled pussy on me. [THUNDEROUS LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE]
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:49 PM
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The “green flag” camp is really just waffling, they see men curating pictures and profiles as vain. A big no-no for women who want masculine men. My “no instagram” years honestly set me back a bit in terms of dating and expanding my social circle at the time. Learning to use it correctly has been a real advantage on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:48 PM
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I’m living for these guys in this thread who went to high school in the freaking 80s telling current gen Z guys what the situation is. Leaving high school with little to no dating experience is pretty normal nowadays for boys and girls. It’s college where the weeding out really begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:52 PM
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Ed Sheeran is the emperor of NPC music
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:17 PM
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They didn’t even have me on the hook or anything though. Just radio silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:04 PM
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Of course as soon as I start talking to someone, other girls start paying attention to me again and trying to link up. Where were you all in the past year? SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:44 PM
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It’s a catch-22. Straight guys who groom themselves and dress well are stereotyped as feminine or gay. This is much less of a problem in larger, younger (typically liberal) cities. NYC is filled with well dressed straight dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:42 PM
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The food is phenomenal, though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:46 PM
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“Easily bag” makes it sound like Asian girls have lower standards. Idk how you meant it, but that’s how it reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:34 PM
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To be honest there are delusional guys who use it as a threat to hang over women’s heads that sour everyone on the idea, when it’s really not that deep. It’s a cøping mechanism for lonely guys. That’s it. The only people that lose are OF creators and ASMR channels. I think it’ll be a good thing for struggling men, but it likely won’t affect anyone else in a significant way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:14 PM
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Sounds kinda backhanded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:11 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks French tacos sound kinda good Korean tacos are straight 🔥 though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:58 PM
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I can’t say for certain, but I think I would be. Would I be interested in the majority? Probably not, but I’m sure that’d be a mutual feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:28 PM
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Not really. Statistically, I’m below average in some ways, above in others. But I’m definitely not what anyone is thinking of when they think of the average dude. I’m able to date women that are generally above average, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:14 PM
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This reads like “the wall” cope. These women are delusional about the number of high calibre men interested in committing to them, but average guys are still available. It might not be as easy to get the 6’5 ultra Chad’s attention at 40, but average dudes are still going after women at that age. That’s why so many people eventually settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:05 PM
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“I’m not like other girls, I like rich, tall, white guys” Incredible. Next you’ll tell me you like eating ice cream, or prefer walking on two legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:22 PM
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At the end of the day, it’s preselection. A lack of social capital. “Am I fighting for a spot no one’s ever wanted?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:44 PM
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Fuck it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:02 AM
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I wouldn’t discount the concurrent rise of social media & birth control availability as factors too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:58 AM
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All over, some Etsy, some nicer brands. Not a huge collection, mostly watches since jewelry is pretty new for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:35 AM
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Kinda weird advice, but look at Korean street style for some inspiration. They wear a lot of black, and don’t usually wear shorts in the summer. You could pull some ideas from them. I’m going through an emo phase too, lotta black clothes and silver jewelry this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:47 PM
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Word of caution: MUJI runs fucking enormous, especially in length. Try it on first for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:24 PM
1

I’m kidding, I actually sound like a v10 cold starting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:03 PM
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I sound like an anime protagonist jumping up a flight of stairs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:34 PM
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I can’t lie I’d never be caught dead doing #1, I’ve had girls pull something like that but I think they were forcing it a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:28 PM
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She kissed me on the cheek and I moaned like a starving dog I’m talking about a prolonged kissing/makeout sesh of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:08 PM
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Your shame is not appreciated here 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:06 PM
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Q4W: Is it hot is a guy moans when you kiss? Not like crazy hentai shit, just little vocalizing here and there. Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:58 PM
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???? That’s a wild comment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:56 PM
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That’s fine, I know there are women who don’t think this way, but it’s disingenuous to say it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:51 PM
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It comes down to attraction. If she’s down for you, you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:50 PM
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Women are in this very thread saying they use this strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:48 PM
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Date last night went great, but she way overestimates how much I pull. I’m cute, but I literally haven’t been on a date or hooked up with girl since last year. I’m not really complaining but damn, I don’t want to give her the wrong idea if we keep seeing each other. I actually like this chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:37 PM
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The problem isn’t that women want to be the most attractive version of themselves, the problem is that men have far fewer socially acceptable avenues to do the same. I think that’s where the frustration comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:34 PM
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SMV vs. PSL basically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:32 PM
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There’s plenty of overlap. Traits that we consider attractive are most often traits that garner sexual attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:17 PM
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Fuck, if I rain check with this girl today it’ll be at least another week before I see her again Even Mother Nature is beckoning me back to the sigma grind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:08 PM
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Fuck, if I rain check with this girl today it’ll be at least another week before I see her again Even Mother Nature is beckoning me back to the sigma grind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:07 PM
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The arbiter was probably my first digital alien bromance, but Garrus was pretty much the reason I finished ME2
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:06 PM
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Yup, even men can have pretty wild hormone cycles There’s a reason we’re always hornier in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:03 PM
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10/10 man crush material
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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Depending on the metrics I’d posit a lot of guys are statistically above average, just in ways that aren’t weighted as heavily for their area. 100k is great nationally, but in an HCOL area it’s not really all that. Same with being a healthy weight, the average is skewed by extreme obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:51 PM
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Apparently it spikes estradiol and t levels That’s just what I’ve heard ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:49 PM
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Well of course, men making Pinterest boards isn’t really a thing anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:27 PM
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Used to happen more often in the daily. I will say that there was some serious variety in the types of women posted, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:14 PM
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Honestly I see people shitting on the former too, “fishing for compliments”, etc. Attractive people know they’re good looking and have privileges others don’t, so it’ll always fuck with people when they talk about it negative or positive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:27 PM
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Doesn’t do shit anymore unless you have some amount of success playing in a band/live. Just being a hobbyist, even if you’re very good, is not going to be attractive on its own. This pretty much goes for any hobby tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:25 PM
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That’s actually fucking incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:44 PM
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Generally yes, although nowadays young men seem to be less interested in pursuing cold leads so it might take longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:11 PM
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I’ve heard this and even repeated it, but when I think back on the friends I’ve made as an adult it was mostly through just chatting and a shared outing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:03 PM
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<image> Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:01 PM
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I think they’re more likely to be from a place of genuine attraction (doesn’t necessarily mean their intentions are more or less valid), but the only way a woman would be able to sus that out is through her past experiences. I think that’s what I’m trying to get at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:49 PM
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Meh, I like watching sports but I get why some people find it boring. I find baseball pretty dull, but basketball has my full attention. It’s just taste
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:38 PM
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Her body language will give it away. If it sounds like she’s giving you shit but she’s smiling, laughing, touching, etc. then you’re in a better spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:37 PM
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It’s hard to judge when it’s a short interaction with a stranger vs. a girl I’ve known for some time or one that I’m involved with. In the moment I take the compliment for what it is and then put it into context later. As for where “desperation” comes in, I’d argue that that’s more of a characteristic of men as a group, and not so much individual men. Don’t know if OP makes that distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:35 PM
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You’d actually be shocked, a good number of guys I know actually like the no curves look more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:15 PM
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I would not call her a liar, I would thank her and move on with my day. I wouldn’t even think she’s being delusional or dishonest, she could be absolutely genuine as far as I know. The only reason I bring up the internalizing is because OPs premise seems to revolve around it, so I was trying to put it into that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:11 PM
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That’s a wild take 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:03 PM
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My point is it’s not about the woman being dishonest. I wouldn’t call her a liar, but I also wouldn’t internalize the comment much if the rest of my experiences don’t line up with it. I know damn well I’m not a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:57 PM
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I’m a man who gets complimented by other men a lot on my appearance. It doesn’t really mean much when that’s not reflected in my success with women (I do okay, but nowhere near as well as my peers assume). I think men should absolutely lift each other up, and it’s something I’m experiencing more. But in the end, we’re too results oriented for it to impact our overall confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:34 PM
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Some gal drunkenly called me a 10, that doesn’t mean I internalized it as true 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:31 PM
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As a group, men find more types of women attractive than vice versa. It doesn’t mean every individual man is attracted to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:30 PM
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Goals. I think close height couples are lowkey the cutest but that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:08 PM
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It could be, I hang around a lot of Asian Americans, mostly East Asian and Filipino. I think location skews it too. I’m around a lot of Koreans who tend to be taller than other Asians, both guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:57 PM
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Yeah around the same height is not that rare (god bless) but I’m talking about the people saying their wife is like 5” taller. I never see that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:48 PM
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I buy it. I wonder if it’s more common among the older generations, since I don’t think my grandparents were far off in height either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:14 PM
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Weirdly enough I’ve found the opposite to be true, where the Chinese and Korean couples are close in height. When I visited Seoul it was something I noticed. TBF I’m at the slightly taller end of the Filipino height range (5’8.5” lol) so maybe I don’t notice since the girls are usually a good amount shorter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:13 PM
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The test was based on some weird bullshit, most of it was just having random words in your vocabulary iirc. It’s true that I was always good at reading, but I just don’t think that translates to being some prodigy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:19 PM
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I’ve always said that Asian couples (as in, from or in Asia) are often closer in height. The guy will be within 2-3” of the girl. Ideal height difference in my mind, but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:15 PM
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I’m married to the game, and that’s 💯📠
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:11 PM
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I don’t agree with the people who say he’s just trolling, but I think he does play up the lunacy. Some of his takes are just plain hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:10 PM
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According to standardized tests I was reading at a “college level” by 6th grade. Doesn’t mean shit if you don’t actually take the time to read those materials, and it means even less if you’re a lazy kid who doesn’t study. I do think people overestimate natural differences in intelligence. Being truly smart takes work ethic, and the right learning environment. Most of the smartest people I knew in college studied hard, it’s not like they rolled up and aced every test without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:09 PM
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I can’t imagine that every guy on Reddit who says he has a taller wife is lying. I just want to know if there’s a demographic thing I’m missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:05 PM
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My favorite was the tweet where he said men shouldn’t enjoy eating food
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:04 PM
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Newjeans is honestly one of the only kpop acts I genuinely enjoy listening to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:00 PM
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I was called a “gifted kid” because I was really good at reading at an early age and did well on standardized tests. People have always overestimated my intelligence, up until college where my classmates were actually smart. I think the bar for education in America is so low that being even slightly smart as a child can have you labeled as gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:59 PM
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Where are all of these couples where the guy is shorter than the girl? I feel like I hear it all the time online but I struggle to think of an example in my personal life. I’ve seen it in person walking around the city but it’s still rare. Mostly foreign couples. Obviously I don’t expect them to be common, the numbers just don’t make sense that way, but I feel like I hear about it more than I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:56 PM
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In many cases these are just the same archetype of man but styled differently. The scholarly pretty boy is just the lumberjack shaven and with longer hair. The emo boy is the pretty boy but skinny and with jewelry. The core features are largely the same, at least in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:31 PM
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He only climbed to the 5’8” mark
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:00 PM
2

Someone take this man’s return key
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:55 PM
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No she’s toxic as hell but it’s not like she’s the only artist with problems. What makes her different is her fanbase is almost exclusively women. Even “male” focused acts like Kanye or Radiohead have tons of female fans, but male Taylor fans are pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:09 PM
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It’s just more rare. Women absolutely take initiative when they really like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:05 PM
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I’ve been on the internet long enough to know that all of the above and more are thrown around, for both genders. The internet is still a place full of strangers, no matter how we try to clean it up, people will say wild shit when there are no consequences. Hell, even if there were, some people still would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:28 PM
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Super interesting theory, and there’s lots of examples of this in my dreams/real life. Either that or I’ve got greensight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:49 PM
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I really truly wish I still believed this, but there is so much overlap that when you spread out preferences across a large population, there are clearly attractive and unattractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:48 PM
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French ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:22 PM
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Definitely not, I think men are more willing to go full mask off. I’m just saying don’t let the ladies blindside you cause it’ll be a big shock when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:10 PM
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Agree, the only thing that can be tricky is finding out what style and haircut: A. Looks good on you specifically B. Is attractive to women You need both, and a lot of the content about these things online is outdated shit or just completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:56 PM
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We met each other in person and hit it off so it’s a bit better, but I do agree that locking down a date is important. Pretty much the first thing I did after we got each others numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:44 PM
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Another state, she’s working for most of the weekend until Monday It’d make a bit more sense if I just doxxed both of our locations lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:15 PM
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Already done, we’re meeting up Monday
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:56 PM
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How can I keep things spicy and interesting over text with a girl who’s not really “like that”? I love to flirt but I’m not sure how to cross the line here. I’m chatting pretty much nonstop with this girl but I feel like she’s gonna get bored before our date if I don’t start flirting more overtly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:52 PM
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Idk maybe cause I’m neutral on tats I don’t see it Septum piercings turn me off but idk how I’d bring that up if I was giving advice to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:33 PM
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4-5 inches sounds about right. 2 is the dream tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:28 PM
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First two numbers are crazy and then the income one is like a year end bonus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:27 PM
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I was gonna say nothing wrong with getting feedback from a feedback sub but good lord they’re ripping into her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:17 PM
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I just smiled at her text before reading it It’s so over
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:48 PM
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Oh you would be shocked if there’s another purge, it ain’t just the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:47 PM
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The last line of the post is your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:26 PM
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Weird, I got more likes on Hinge than any other platform. Could be a demographics thing. The conversations were slower for sure, though. Tinder, people wanted to either meet up immediately or never. Hinge was more in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:22 PM
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I had to scroll through the swamp to find it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:20 PM
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It’s not that men care more, it’s just that there are far too many men who have looks as their only standard, so it’s all they ever vocalize
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:08 PM
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I definitely agree, but sometimes I find that a formal “set up” can make things feel sterile. Hard to really hit it off like that, just look at the rate of return on dating apps/speed dating. It works if you two are very mutually attracted right away, but anything less it’s probably DOA It’s worked on occasion for me, but it’s never led to anything long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:29 PM
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They can put you together but they can’t force you to hit it off if there’s no attraction one or both ways You’re much more likely to meet someone at a get together or party when mutuals show up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:47 PM
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I’ve actually seen a number of posts about it lately, it might be a trend in a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:57 PM
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My brother is somehow even less athletic than me, so I would just be shocked it went down like that. My dad would absolutely destroy me in basketball at my age though. Honestly he could still probably whoop me. My girlfriend would sign an nda and I would immediately block her on all open lines
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:26 PM
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Twitter honestly feels more like 4chan than 4chan does these days
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah I don’t see the problem. If it was girl you just started seeing then yeah that’s weird, but calling someone you spend literally all of your time with your best friend is probably just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:08 PM
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This girl I hit it off with last weekend is taking handcuffing lessons at work We’re meeting up next weekend, see you all in the next life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:04 PM
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It’s just weird, being 5’8 has never really impacted my life outside of dating. 5’6 and under is a whole different ballgame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:55 PM
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How tf is the average height sub more bläckpįlled than the short one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:30 PM
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Like most things in the manosphere it’s not well defined, so you’ll get a bunch of different answers. I think of it as a man who is attractive enough to get consistent sexual attention from women. Usually this means falling under all or most conventional beauty standards. So the 2nd is the closest, although face is a bit more subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:53 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say people want a relationship that disproportionately benefits them. Women want an attractive guy who has no expectations for your behavior but is also a breadwinner/provider, what a shocker. There is no way for a man to showcase he is egalitarian until later in the relationship. Anything prior to that is just words. So to hold all potential partners to traditional gender roles while holding yourself to none is just blatant self interest. Ironically, it sounds an awful …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:06 PM
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Figures I’d get half the blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:21 PM
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1 if you add them up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:22 PM
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I can’t imagine a girl bringing it up out of nowhere if she hasn’t thought about it seriously, the joking tone is probably a test to see if you are interested. If not she can back it out as a joke. Guys pull that trick all the time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:02 PM
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I think they are related. Acknowledging your agency means you inherently claim responsibility for your behavior. It sounds ridiculous but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:50 PM
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Actually based take. People who focus on the exact number instead of the attitude are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:47 PM
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I’d put a portal to Seoul in my apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:26 PM
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It’s really upsetting that some people find their own human agency to be a “negative”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:17 PM
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Yeah, my own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:53 PM
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Productivity is a definite no, but weed absolutely helps with creativity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:53 PM
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It can’t be overstated that these are opinions from “progressive” college students. Should have included a question on bi men 💀 The saddest part is I could have guessed most of these response stats
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:49 PM
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All day, every day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:24 PM
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Your friend’s girlfriend’s friends Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:10 PM
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The question is which party is being spanked? And why should it be me??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:13 AM
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I was joking, I wouldn’t do that. I say let them look. If they can’t accept that I’ve got attractive platonic friends, it probably wasn’t going to work anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:05 AM
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I respect that. For me personally, I value having a large and dynamic social circle, but I can already feel that drive waning as I age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:03 AM
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I used to be like that, but I felt socially handicapped so I caved. It really hasn’t been so bad, I post around once a year and rarely go on it any other time. If I do, it’s for the messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I never really thought about it. I thought it was normal to follow more girls than guys since girls are just more likely to be active If they’re too pretty I’m unfollowing them ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:53 PM
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I want to see men NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:51 PM
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She only has that one popular song where she dumps on the other gal. The rest are pretty standard mainstream girl friendly. She’s infinitely marketable to virtually any subset of young women. They either want to be like her or find her inoffensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:49 PM
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That’s a level of wealth that’s very difficult to attain, especially at a younger age. Low 6 figures ($100-250k) really isn’t gonna cut it for buxxing these days, at least not in the places where attractive women usually congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:46 PM
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Is following a lot of girls on ig really that bad? I just follow people I’ve met irl and we exchange handles, I don’t message 99% of them ever I’m pretty sure some of them have unfollowed me during my periods of inactivity. There goes my ratio oops
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:43 PM
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Sounds like he’s just vanilla. I’m not really interested in roleplay/bdsm stuff either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:39 PM
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There certainly is bad pizza, Philadelphia is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:08 PM
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That’s only if you’re really good looking. A quiet average or even above average dude is getting ignored for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:04 PM
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Some people just perpetually have a stick up their ass. It’s like a bitch/douchbag gene and there’s nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:29 PM
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Patagonia + Lululemon pants was the nyc white guy in finance meta for a while, might have changed recently though. I will give an update after I investigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:28 PM
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Damn 800 robux is only $10? Roblox economy is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:15 PM
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Eh, I’ve matched with girls from my highschool before, I think they swiped just for the novelty of it. You never know, though. I have a friend who’s dating a girl that grew up a block away from him, I guess they reconnected and really hit it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:36 PM
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That’s probably not a good thing since if you end up meeting them irl they’ll see you in glasses anyways. If you have to wear glasses I’d just put a picture of you in them on your profile. Rip that bandaid off early.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:10 PM
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I love how this is a trend as if it’s some unique set of standards. Every girl in nyc wants the same exact thing lmao It’s like a guy making a song about how he wants a fit cheerleader with big boobs. Groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah, hearing thrones characters talk about the targs is sick, makes them seem like a really mysterious and important part of history. Watching them in action is much more boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:49 PM
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So glad someone shares my disinterest in the Targaryens. Buncha cheaters and Mary Sues. I thought the first couple episodes of HoTD were pretty good, but eventually I just ended up wishing I was watching GoT again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:38 PM
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