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| 33 | Getting Called ‘Beta’ as a New Dad—How Do I Stay Confident for My Daughter?Who are you hanging out with that's calling you names? Those people aren't worth keeping in your life. If it's work people, start hunting for a new job; if it's personal, correct them then cut them out if they don't respect the boundary; if it's internet people, why are you letting the idiots of the world hurt you? They're idiots. | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/10/24 01:05 AM |
| -3 | Relationship with Body Image and InfidelityI'm only here to downvote this post, and encourage your girlfriend to leave you. There are few reasons: 9 years?! Put a ring on her or GTFO You've been cheating for a while, and trust is gone in your relationship You need to address your discomfort with your self worth, and that can't be done while you're being supported You haven't been alone as an adult, and either need to experience it, and come to understand that it's either easy or not | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/09/24 02:28 PM |
| 8 | I'm the black sheep and my younger sister is golden child and my mother is a narcissist.. how can I survive 😭😭😭😭😭Cut them out, and start your life as an adult. You don't need to keep people that are a burden in your life. I stopped having a relationship with my mom at that age, and everything has been better and better since. | /r/MenSupportMen | 19/07/24 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Wife thinks I’m on drugsCame here to say the same thing. If she starts waking up at 5:20 (like OP) she'll be tired by 10, too. | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/06/24 11:36 PM |
| 2 | I’m in a slump need some suggestions for free time activities. What do you all do in your free time?I took bass guitar lessons, practiced ALL the time, then joined a band. Now I have a lot going on, and my other hobbies are fun again. | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Good men or nice guys?We're talking about groups of people; of course this is all stereotypes. How else to you talk about a group of people? | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/05/23 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Weekend check-inI've had a bad one. On Wednesday, I woke up with 1/2 my face paralyzed. I go to the ER, convinced I had a mini-stroke; I didn't. I have Bell's Palsy, most likely caused by getting COVID. I'm exhausted, sick, can't speak well, and have to isolate when I'm too busy to be isolating. | /r/MenSupportMen | 15/04/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Just got put in the friend zoneIt sounds like a great opportunity for you to make one. It will keep you busy, help you make new friends, and impress the women; as a bonus, it will help your community. | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/03/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Just got put in the friend zoneA quick Google find meetup.com having 3 book clubs, and several more clubs that weren't in a language I understood. | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/03/23 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Just got put in the friend zoneI might sound a little harsh here, but I have your best interest and hopes in mind. First, you didn't get put in the friend zone, you're friends with a woman; she just broke up with her boyfriend, so isn't in the place to be looking for another relationship anyway. But you're missing a key ingredient, women re friends with other women. If you can be friends with her, she might have friends that could turn into something for you. Second, congratulations on stopping drinking! That's a tough thing … | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/03/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | self improvement fucked me overYou're first paragraph is entirely false. Women do not expect you to be perfect. Women look for effort. It's everywhere in their culture and communication; they compliment each other's achievements and make-up (things that take effort); they compliment men's hair, and painted nails, and outfits; the men they like are in therapy, or hit the gym regularly, or eat right, or have climbed the job ladder. You're looking at the results of the effort and saying that's what matters, but it's not; it's th… | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from older and wiser menI was a slut, and here's how I did it: I asked every single girl that would even look at me if they wanted to make out. Tall, short, fat, skinny, pretty, ugly, kind, cruel... none of that mattered. What I learned is that rejection gets easier the less you care about the person rejecting you, and so did the sex. If you want to build a relationship with a woman, that takes time, trust, compassion and connection; befriend a girl that you'll never sleep with, be kind to everyone, and realize that th… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/01/23 01:46 PM |
| 6 | is sex really a sign of status?I come from the other side of that. I was an absolute man slut; I had a lot of damage from my childhood, and didn't know what being loved felt like. They are wrong, and not very good friends. Having sex is not something that can be judged by the act, it's quality and importance are on a per person basis. Also, as someone that's been inside a lot of people, if they are describing it as a singular experience, they don't have a lot of experience. Don't worry about them, live your best life, and con… | /r/MenSupportMen | 05/12/22 12:57 AM |
| 8 | Any guys out there?Firstly: great job reaching out, and trying to find someone. Being lonely is hard, especially in a new city. You don't need internet friends right now, you need people time. join a club a bowling league a bocce league, a cornhole team take group cooking lessons, join a church or local satanist temple or cult of crossfit actively try and make friends at your gym even check Craigslist in your area I know it can seem daunting, but it's really not as bad as your depression will make it out to be. Mo… | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/11/22 12:26 AM |
| 6 | updateYou did great taking this step. I'm proud of you. Next step is to talk to your parents, and do some healing. You've got this. | /r/MenSupportMen | 16/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 10 | My wife has schizophrenia and I'm exhaustedThis is going to be a brutal rundown of your next steps and options. I'm not going to spend energy on kindness or empathy, because getting the details matters more first. I am here to listen and empathize after the reality is laid out, and you have concerns. First: You have two big options, find a new job, or find a new family. Your wife isn't capable of taking care of your kids, and can't be relied on for doing so. No matter what the outcome of this is, you need to decide your priority between … | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 5 | A coworker I really liked rejected me last night. I feel like shit, and I’m too embarrassed to go to workAsking out someone at work, or even worse would be a relationship; if it ends (and statistically, every single relationship in a person's life ends except for one) it can cause stress and conflict in a place where professionalism needs to be maintained. If it causes great discomfort to think about going back because it didn't work out, it wasn't a good idea. | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 9 | A coworker I really liked rejected me last night. I feel like shit, and I’m too embarrassed to go to workThis is going to sound harsher than it is, but read until the end, and it will all come together. You're 17. Nothing good happens at 17, because everyone is in a holding pattern until real life starts. As someone that's turning 40 WAY sooner than I was ready for, I couldn't tell you more than a couple of details from that age; it's all drifted into irrelevancy. High School sucks, High Schoolers suck, and EVERYTHING will get better as you get older. You made an extremely common mistake, and are j… | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | This is more a vent than me asking for help but help would be niceI say this with as much gentle compassion as I can: You need to talk to a professional therapist about this. You're in a dark place, and it's going to take time, energy, and consistency to get to where you need to be. I believe in you, and want to see you be your amazing self for a very long time. | /r/MenSupportMen | 17/09/22 02:43 PM |
| 5 | I am not here for support. I just want to scream into the void: Know I'm heard by real people, but not judged, and not helped.This isn't advice, just letting you know that I felt the same way when I was your age. Now that I'm over double that age, I still believe that it was the hardest part of my life. I had to completely walk away from my family, and build my own out of fellow misfits. There is a lot of good living still out there, and at 16 you haven't gotten to live your own life yet. Highschoolers suck, even highschoolers know that. I believe in you, and am here if you need me. | /r/MenSupportMen | 06/09/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | M40] Confused with a girl’s reaction after trying to pick her up.You posted that you look at most 33, but skipped your age; let's guess you at 43, for sake of conversation. What do you have in common with a 25 year old? There is clearly a cultural misunderstanding, probably connected to age. She left you on read, that means no. She just didn't want to do a hard rejection because they can be dangerous. You then confronted her AT WORK about it. That's a big no-no. As a rule, don't ask out people at their place of employment. If you only know them because you ar… | /r/MenSupportMen | 15/06/22 01:01 PM |
| 5 | (TW) Misandry induced gender dysphoria, long rant (Please forgive me)Men can get free screenings at Planned Parenthood. That's where I get mine. | /r/MenSupportMen | 22/02/22 01:59 PM |
| 3 | (TW) Misandry induced gender dysphoria, long rant (Please forgive me)A doctor that deals with the male reproductive system is called a Urologist. | /r/MenSupportMen | 22/02/22 01:30 PM |
| 8 | Just passing through to offer support.To quote r/twoXXchromosomes, "Why is there no safe place for us!?" Thanks for looking out, I know it's not all women. | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I'm scared of sexAvoiding sex because of the fear of false accusations is like being afraid to swim in the ocean because of sharks. There is a very small chance of it every time, but the noise around it is a lot larger than the actual chance. I was an absolute slut in my younger days. I slept with eat too many women, and never once had a problem. Here's the trick: women that are into it, are into it; don't play around with the questionable cases. If she hesitates when the topic comes up, walk away. But here's th… | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Everyone's feelings are valid (unless you're a man who was just rejected by a woman) [vent]As a rule, server or bartenders should never ever date clients. That's their livelihood, and mixing those is a terrible decision. Whether y'all had a thing or not, rejecting you is the correct choice in that situation. It sucks, but that's how things are. It still hurts, and it's still valid to feel hurt. | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/08/21 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Mid-week check-inI've grown a mustache. I don't know how I feel about it. | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/08/21 03:37 AM |
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