SOSBTK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Indiana nurse loses job after saying sons of white women 'should be sacrificed' Think about it like this; would a story about a man not being able to use his gender to get away with being sexist or just a bad person apply to this sub? The thought process is the same in /r/racistpassdenied since, normally, white people can't use their own race as an excuse to say they aren't racist.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/11/17 03:57 PM
1	Oh silly me. I thought she had raped him. With him being 11 and all. http://www.cnn.com/2016/11/17/health/parental-rights-rapists-explainer/index.html http://www.cnn.com/2016/11/17/health/rape-parental-rights/index.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4009996/Rape-victim-impregnated-attack-14-forced-face-man-court-seven-years-later-wants-visitation-rights-child.html	/r/MensRights	29/06/17 08:12 AM
3	Oh silly me. I thought she had raped him. With him being 11 and all. I 100% agree with you, but I think you missed the point of me bringing it up. The person I was replying to said that if you switched the genders of the people involved in the article that there would be mass protests and that it would never happen. My point was to just say that they are mistaken and that it does happen to women, just as it happens to men. So I wan't trying to say 'but men do it too' as much as I was trying to correct someone who thought it was only an issue that would ever effec…	/r/MensRights	29/06/17 04:31 AM
–	Oh silly me. I thought she had raped him. With him being 11 and all. It does happen in the other direction though. There have been cases where a man rapes a woman and gets some form of custody of the resulting child.	/r/MensRights	28/06/17 10:41 PM
1	Jorge Pena, "8 ball jacket guy," who defended himself from female attacker with supersonic slap on train fully acquitted in court. I just saw this again and I'd like to say that this is the most well-written edited comment I have ever seen. Thank you for your service.	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/05/17 02:27 AM
3	Jorge Pena, "8 ball jacket guy," who defended himself from female attacker with supersonic slap on train fully acquitted in court. I agree with you on most of what you said, but I still feel like you haven't addressed my question. From the comment, it seems like you're saying that black culture currently is the same as thug culture but there are legitimate reasons for it. And one thing I would like to dispute is your 2nd paragraph referencing the historical discrimination against black americans. Now, I completely agree that it did happen (and still does in some places to some extent), but I feel like whenever this is broug…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/05/17 04:59 AM
–	Jorge Pena, "8 ball jacket guy," who defended himself from female attacker with supersonic slap on train fully acquitted in court. I'd actually like an honest reply. While I do not think that black people are all 'thugs' or that everything they do promotes such a culture, it does seem like things from exclusively 'black' culture tends to promote such actions. The only response I've gotten before was something about spiced food being more commonly promoted among minorities but that didn't really answer the question. I'm not trying to promote some bad and racist idea, I just can't really think of anything in the modern day th…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/05/17 04:08 AM
–	Jorge Pena, "8 ball jacket guy," who defended himself from female attacker with supersonic slap on train fully acquitted in court. One sang at her desk. When I asked her to stop an older black woman asked me point blank "do you like black people?" See, at my work we have mostly hispanic/mixed people with only a few black or white people (including myself). One of our newer people is a black girl who isn't too bad, but has so far shown to have little work ethic and has randomly brought up things to start a racial debate in a fashion where it's obvious that there's a right and wrong answer. However, one of the more experience…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/05/17 04:04 AM
2	Jorge Pena, "8 ball jacket guy," who defended himself from female attacker with supersonic slap on train fully acquitted in court. It shows a weird level of ignorance from her as I'm 6'4" and the only 'fight' I've ever been in was when I was 13 (and 6'2" at the time) and didn't even realize it was a fight until it was over. Friends and acquaintances literally told me that people were afraid to actually fight me because of my size and that I'd have gotten my ass kicked a lot more if I was small. That shows that this full-grown woman is dumber and less aware of her surroundings than a high-school boy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/05/17 03:55 AM
8	4 MRA Arguments That Actually Have a Point – And Where They Go Wrong \| The usual, hilariously wrong, dross that we've come to expect from Everyday Feminism In that case, the question should be whether insulting or criticizing an aspect of a religion or culture is the same as discrimination against it. Basically, I don't think it's antisemitism to show disdain for rabbis biting baby dicks because biting baby dicks is disgusting and horrible regardless of who's doing it.	/r/MensRights	19/03/17 09:56 PM
–	4 MRA Arguments That Actually Have a Point – And Where They Go Wrong \| The usual, hilariously wrong, dross that we've come to expect from Everyday Feminism criticism of male circumcision is often thinly veiled anti-Semitism. wow... They're really taking the 'everyone who disagrees with me is a Nazi' thing as far as they can aren't they.	/r/MensRights	19/03/17 05:01 PM
239	Too soon? You're right. That is a fault of his. I wonder if anyone could come up with a fault regarding Hillary...	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/11/16 07:23 AM
25	Woman tries to "withdraw her consent" later in the day, Lauren Southern denies her pussypass but do men take very drunken consent as legitimate consent? That's not rape. Someone being drunk or high does not bar them from consenting to sex. If they are intoxicated to the point that they are passed out or unresponsive then yes, it is rape. But being drunk does not make it rape.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/07/16 02:45 PM
1	Equality for our Children I remember watching a comedian that said when boys pretend to be vampire hunters, werewolves, ninja pirates or whatever that they aren't games; these are options. For vidja I'm stuck between the careers of Exo Warlock, Pirate Assassin, or Cyborg Marine.	/r/MensRights	17/03/15 01:15 PM
1	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. yes.	/r/MensRights	09/03/15 11:07 AM
-11	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. If I saw someone wearing a bracelet reading 'pedophile' I would not assume they are an actual pedophile. If they were wearing a swastika armband I wouldn't like it but I wouldn't purposfully avoid that place unless I had found an equal or better place not too far away. While I do not like Nazis, it is a political view and they have a right to believe it.	/r/MensRights	08/03/15 01:26 PM
–	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. So? They'd also make up facts to support their own agenda, should we be doing that as well? Don't complain about them using shitty tactics if you're just going to use them yourself.	/r/MensRights	08/03/15 08:19 AM
-27	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. I'm not saying I think what she did was right or that you don't have the right to cancel your purchase. It just feels like this is not the sort of thing we should be promoting.	/r/MensRights	08/03/15 08:17 AM
–	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. Could we not make this a thing? Yknow, reporting people and possibly getting them reprimanded or fired for having/doing something we don't like? If she was actually acting misandrist towards anyone then by all means, report. But we've complained just as much when hxc feminists report people for posting jokes/wearing clothes they see as sexist to try and get them fired. I don't think the right response is for us to become as tight-assed as they can be.	/r/MensRights	08/03/15 07:50 AM
1	It's not slut shaming to be honest about how you lose attraction to a woman upon knowing she's had a lot of sexual partners. I'd have the same wishes for a son as I would a daughter, though I admit I feel more strongly when it comes to a hypothetical daughter following said rules. I think it boils down to how sex works for humans. Males tend to peacock and pursue while females choose a suitable mate. So, going into this, I know this daughter is going to be pursued by males. Therefore the best thing to teach her is to be careful about her selections. Why fathers tend to be the most aggressive about this may be because …	/r/MensRights	06/03/15 06:11 PM
10	It's not slut shaming to be honest about how you lose attraction to a woman upon knowing she's had a lot of sexual partners. I'm not a father but I want kids someday and have thought a lot about this. I would not want my, hypothetical, daughter sleeping around or having a lot of partners because sex is something that is intimate that shouldn't be taken as lightly as it is portrayed by many people nowadays. I'm not saying I need her to be a virgin until marraige or anything, just that I'd want her to be in a relationship with the person before they have sex.	/r/MensRights	06/03/15 12:23 PM
2	Men jailed for rape of woman who admitted to being so drunk she did not know whether she had consented to sex I understand and I'm not saying it needs to be this cut and dry, but if someone is able to consent to sex but becomes unconscious of their own accord during the act I don't think it's rape the 'finish.' I can see how it's an issue since she is not able to control the situation anymore but I also think it can easily be compared to the idea that every change in position needs to be officially consented to.	/r/MensRights	14/02/15 02:16 PM
–	Men jailed for rape of woman who admitted to being so drunk she did not know whether she had consented to sex I think the question is if she consented before she was at that stage. Is it still rape if she says yes but passes/blacks out half-way through?	/r/MensRights	14/02/15 02:04 PM
1	Father Finds Surprising Video On His Son's iPad... What Would You Do? "If I behaved like that as a child I'd get a beating" or something along those lines. Yes, and look how well you turned out, you seem very balanced /s Could you explain what you mean here? I've seen posts of /r/childfree and don't know what mental unstability you're talking about. And you do know that when talking about punishment as children a 'beating' is a spanking in most cases right?	/r/MensRights	12/01/15 12:40 PM
0	Does men's rights = no gender roles? You are going to find people who agree and disagree with you on that here. One thing I will say for feminism is that it's a diverse movement and different branches believe different things when it comes to gender roles. The MRM is sort of the same in that matter. Personally, I am pro-gender roles. Well, I understand that there is such a thing as sexual dimorphism and gender roles go along with that. I understand that social pressures to follow those roles is another thing that comes with it and …	/r/MensRights	26/12/14 07:28 PM
1	If feminism includes men's rights, and subcategories of feminism are uncontrovertial, why not call yourselves "Men's Rights Feminists?" I don't want to be a feminist and I don't want feminism to fight for men's issues. Feminism can continue to fight for women's issues and that's great as long as they start acknowledging the extremist diaglouge taking place but I feel like they are trying to adopt every issue under the sun to make it impossible to have a debate. They adopted the lgbt movement and are trying to adopt racial predjudice along with men's rights now that it's becomming it's own thing. I disagree with a lot of fundamen…	/r/MensRights	10/12/14 03:33 AM
2	U.S. Will Spend $24.5M to Circumcise Men in Swaziland I will admit that there is some reducted risk, I just don't think it's worth 24.5 mil. And if there's no open cuts or sores on either partner, the risk of contracting HIV from a carrier during PiV sex is actually pretty low (as in less than 1% per act according to some studies). This is of course assuming no blood to blood contact.	/r/MensRights	01/11/14 07:51 PM
7	U.S. Will Spend $24.5M to Circumcise Men in Swaziland But here's the thing, it doesn't help that much. Most of the studies that show circumcision as reducing the risk of HIV compare uncircumcised men from Africa to cirumcised men from first world countires like Sweden. The studies are set up with a bias. If we only use America in a study, we would find that a high percentage of circumsised men are HIV positive than uncircumcised because it is so common here.	/r/MensRights	01/11/14 07:40 PM
1	r/offmychest thinks MRM is over there trying to convert feminists. Is that right? Also, the mods aren't very nice. offmychest is great in a lot of aspects but in practice it has a lot of flaws. I've seen a lot of posts where I disagree with the OP but I leave it alone because it's not supposed to be a debate, just a way to say what's been bothering you. But if you see something that goes against certain reddit views people come out in droves to talk shit. If it's something against feminism then you have all the commentors ranting almost instantly. A non-feminism example is one post where the OP was talking a…	/r/MensRights	06/10/14 12:15 AM
1	DAE men like rape??? Ok this is the one thing I disagree with the most on this sub. It seems like every case of statutory is treated like actual abuse or rape as long as it's a male who is underage. I am all for pointing out how female 'victims' of statutory are treated differently than male victims, but can we please stop talking about it like it wasn't a consenual activity that both parties wanted?	/r/MensRights	03/10/14 02:28 PM
2	"But it's rape." Salon calls a woman who refuses to say no a rape victim. Victim blaming now extends to wondering why a "rape survivor" gets into bed with her "rapist" and asks him to wear a condom. I I love how she tries to say that he should have read her facial expressions and body language instead of listening to what the girl was actually saying. Apparantly all girls who are nervous when they have sex are now rape victims then. Also this sort of hits close to home for me. My little brother has aspergers (now Autism Spectrum Disorder) and one of the symptoms is not being able to reconize facial and/or emotional expression well. He is better than he used to be but still struggles sometimes…	/r/MensRights	03/10/14 02:20 PM
0	Emma Watson called out in the New York Post While I do agree that she is just an actress and not some world wide expert on gender issues and we should not put so much focus on her it is true that she will capture the attention of the common person due to her fame and that may be the reason why she was able to speak in the first place.	/r/MensRights	30/09/14 12:49 AM
1	David Futrelle defends his 'right' to call a man a rapist even if he has been found innocent in court. I actually sort of agree. While it is wrong to brand someone like that before all of the evidence is out, not that Futrelle would care, I also understand that all people pre-emptively judge and can't really blame them for just making a comment as long as they don't continue to after the person is proven innocent. But holy fuck, using OJ and zimmerman as comparison is stupid. OJ was found innocent due to the jury not understanding how DNA evidence works leading to large miscommunication between t…	/r/MensRights	27/09/14 11:54 PM
0	Facts about male suicide. (xpost from /r/everymanshouldknow) It seems to be one of bigger things thrown around in anti-suicide. While it is important to mention I do think too much about trying to stop suicide boils down to guilt tripping them into not leaving their families behind rather then helping them.	/r/MensRights	11/09/14 08:54 AM
0	Facts about male suicide. (xpost from /r/everymanshouldknow) I feel like the '6 additional people are profoundly impacted' stat was unnessacary. It seems to be on the same level as if you were talking about the deaths of parents still in relationships and made a stat saying '100% of all children of a dead parent will live in a single-parent household.' Just sort of obvious that someone's suicide would affect those close to them.	/r/MensRights	11/09/14 08:41 AM
0	The safe spaces of nerdy men, feminist migration, and alienation I think that as something becomes more interesting and popular it's going to attract new crowds and as it does that there needs to be some sort of acclimation to the new audience. But that acclimation has to make sense. Focusing on the comic book scene; this was something that for decades was popluar only to either young boys or introverted adult males who, stereotypically, weren't so popular with their peers outside of comic book culture. Now, with superhero movies and the internet, they are ge…	/r/MensRights	21/08/14 04:28 PM
–	This is wrong She's childishly irrational so she probably isn't the best at understanding and making decisions and owning up to them while sober so drinking only exacerbates her problems. This is where you really lose me. You are assuming that the woman is childish and unable to make her own decisions for no reason other than that she's a woman. Also, of course it would take less alcohol for a woman to get drunk than a man who are larger than them. But at the same time it is a person's own responsibility to d…	/r/MensRights	10/08/14 06:07 PM
5	Kindergartener Pulls Down Pants, Forced to Sign 'Sexual Misconduct' Confession "I don't know Timmy, have you ever tried anal?" strech	/r/MensRights	28/06/14 02:48 AM
5	Kindergartener Pulls Down Pants, Forced to Sign 'Sexual Misconduct' Confession "Hey Becky I heard you got tattoos on your breasts." "No I fucking didn't!" zip	/r/MensRights	28/06/14 02:19 AM
7	Kindergartener Pulls Down Pants, Forced to Sign 'Sexual Misconduct' Confession God I pulled my pants down in pre-school once because the kid next to me said I wore diapers and I had to prove that fucker wrong. I got in trouble of course but I could not imagine someone claiming it was sexual misconduct.	/r/MensRights	27/06/14 09:46 PM
3	MRA derided yet again, this time by Vice. Do any of these sites and bloggers that do this actually look at /r/mensrights or do they just name drop it and quote /r/theredpill? The worst part is that if we deny association with them they just call 'no true scotsman' and leave it at that regardless of what is actually going on.	/r/MensRights	26/06/14 09:55 AM
2	Does the drinking age for men need changing? I recently went to orientation for my transfer school and at one point the head of campus police was talking to us and he said something along the lines of 'If you girls are ever walking and someone else is around you and you feel uncomfortable you should call us there because your gut is probably right.' While I do support people getting help if they are threatened this guy literally said to call the police even if nothing is actually going on. So now when I go to school in the fall I'm going t…	/r/MensRights	20/06/14 10:05 AM
4	called it I agree. If this had something to do with feminism legitimately going against men's rights in an academic or legal setting it would make sense to post it here but right now it just seems like a TiA post.	/r/MensRights	10/06/14 09:25 AM
1	5 Uncomfortable Truths Behind the Men's Rights Movement -Cracked.com I find at least once a week now there's an article that is blantantly SJW but I do love a lot of their other content so I will keep going for now.	/r/MensRights	04/06/14 12:01 AM
6	5 Uncomfortable Truths Behind the Men's Rights Movement -Cracked.com The worst part is that the article tries to justify that MRAs, TRP, and PUA are completely different due to in-fighting and compares it to competing white supremacist sects.	/r/MensRights	03/06/14 11:50 PM
1	Yes to men’s rights (provided it never actually happens) - "Gynocentrism runs so deep that even non-feminists, be they liberals or conservatives, balk at the idea of men’s rights." I just said that it seems like the far right can be just as damaging to The MRM as the radical left. I did not say that the left was better or that the right does more harm, just that the radical left isn't alone in causing issues for the MRM	/r/MensRights	22/05/14 11:15 AM
1	Yes to men’s rights (provided it never actually happens) - "Gynocentrism runs so deep that even non-feminists, be they liberals or conservatives, balk at the idea of men’s rights." I agree, but most of the progressive issues with marriage are with how big of a legal risk it has become for men and not due to religious reasons. What I notice the most is that there is a bigger push to allow men to be more emotional and not bottle up their feelings. For those who have felt pressured to hide their personalities this is great, but for those who do not feel the need to present as more emotional (or fall into a stereotypical 'Manly' persona) being pushed to act more emotional can …	/r/MensRights	21/05/14 12:39 PM
6	Yes to men’s rights (provided it never actually happens) - "Gynocentrism runs so deep that even non-feminists, be they liberals or conservatives, balk at the idea of men’s rights." I would normally agree with you, but in this case there wasn't a claim of a Matriarchy but of a closer focus on women's issues over mens.	/r/MensRights	21/05/14 05:06 AM
–	Yes to men’s rights (provided it never actually happens) - "Gynocentrism runs so deep that even non-feminists, be they liberals or conservatives, balk at the idea of men’s rights." I feel that the far right can be just as harmful against the MRM as the far left. The far left has the extremist feminist views while the far right has extremist traditionalist rules and the MRM goes against both of them.	/r/MensRights	21/05/14 04:52 AM
4	Cartoon: A lesson in Sexism I agree that this comic is over-stereotyping to the point that it's point is lost but there does appear to be a bigger acceptance of this sort of critisism on men than women. That is not to say that there is not any insulting stereotypes about women, far from it, but it is commonly accepted when someone goes 'all men are pigs' while if you were to say 'all girls are sluts' there would be more of a backlash in general.	/r/MensRights	20/05/14 06:23 AM
-1	The Onion - Judge Rules White Girl Will Be Tried As Black Adult I kind of agree with NiceIce. It may have been created to poke fun at teens being tried as adults though the idea that it's supposed to represent how pretty rich white girls tend to have an advantage is not off the table either.	/r/MensRights	18/05/14 02:23 AM
–	Kindergarten teacher caught on camera assaulting 6-year-old gets suspended for 10 days That doesn't make it a gendered issue it just makes it an assault issue. If the father would do it to another male he would also go to jail. If the mother did it to the teacher she would go to jail.	/r/MensRights	15/05/14 03:59 PM
-7	Kindergarten teacher caught on camera assaulting 6-year-old gets suspended for 10 days While I agree with everyone here about how this teacher should be fired I just have to say; what the hell does this have to do with Men's Rights? There's no evidence that the teacher did this to him because he was a boy or that she treated every female student better than her male students, she just attacked him. This is a case about teacher-child abuse and as much as we tend to make fun of extreme feminists for getting worked up over little things that are not gendered issues we seem to be doin…	/r/MensRights	15/05/14 11:29 AM
5	Kenya's New Polygamy Law Is a Win for Men's Rights Activists -- (Don't let the media define us. This is a chance to denounce this law) Why can't you? Why is polygamy (or any poly relationship) any worse than monogamy?	/r/MensRights	02/05/14 01:46 PM
10	Disgusting attack on MRAs because of brigaded demographic survey What made me tilt my head in anger and confusion besides the blatant misrepresentation of MRAs was how it just assumed that everyone knows that being a conservative is bad. As if the only correct political viewpoint is to be progressive/liberal.	/r/MensRights	16/04/14 11:22 AM
4	Why Women Don’t Make Less than Men Two, if housework is indeed valuable, why can't people deduct the amount of work they do or some percentage of the work they do as homemakers? This is actually what annoyed me about the infographic the most. Housework and parenting are jobs you make for yourself and do for yourself so there's no one else you're providing a good or service to. Parenting and housework are not 'unpaid labor,' they are simple chores you have to do. Also, I'm not sure where they're getting the estimate of 26.7 unpaid…	/r/MensRights	14/04/14 10:26 AM
6	I'm getting real tired of the tone in the MR subreddit. Um...this is a forum and link-based website. It is not an activist group or non-profit in and of itself. Complaining that this sub doesn't change anything is like complaining that math textbooks don't make up new mathematical theories on their own; it's not what they are supposed to do.	/r/MensRights	08/04/14 01:27 AM
2	TAA: False Rape Accusations Are Real I was a fan of her's for some time before I started running into that stuff. Maybe they are more prevelant now but before the worst it got was when she got a bit too sex positive and anti-fat shaming.	/r/MensRights	05/04/14 11:30 PM
2	TAA: False Rape Accusations Are Real To be fair, I actually think Laci isn't that bad. She can be very informative and realistic in many cases and even though I personally disagree with her in certain cases I can respect that difference. The problem comes when she tries to promote her SJW/feminist views.	/r/MensRights	05/04/14 05:49 PM
0	Psych book. Second sentence. Well guess who has two thumbs and is a psychology major? Not me because I guess I have to chop them off and sell them for tuition money.	/r/MensRights	03/04/14 10:48 AM
1	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou These are problems that affect both genders and I agree that they are problems. It's just something that's hard to regulate since a lot of the time (in the case of hiring practices) the decision boils down to the company and based on the averages women are more likely to take time off. That's why there are certain laws preventing them from asking about your personal life to try and sway the influence of that perception.	/r/MensRights	22/03/14 06:14 AM
3	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou You just said that you never had kids or took time off to have them	/r/MensRights	22/03/14 04:16 AM
8	Women are the real victims This reminds me of something a teacher said a few months ago that got on my nerves. We were talking about some Greek play where the men had to go to war and when they came home the women were going to refuse sex with them (it was a comedy) and my teacher started going on about how they men had it so much better since they got to go to war and the woman were oppressed because they had to stay at home with their kids.	/r/MensRights	22/03/14 03:07 AM
10	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou I don't think you will get downvoted for this, I agree completely. I think the downvotes came from the fact that you seemed (from my perspective at least) to be complaining about making less money personally when you never did.	/r/MensRights	21/03/14 03:10 PM
11	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou You aren't being punished. You aren't losing anything. If you didn't take time off to have kids and/or take care of them then your pay should be equal. I agree that both men and women should receive leaves of absence to bond with their children and raise them but based on what the work force is currently like it means that one parent has to make a sacrifice of income to do so. Basically, how are you being penalized if you never took time off?	/r/MensRights	21/03/14 03:01 PM
4	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou I guessing you are referring to pregnancy leave? I agree that it should be higher and that men should also be given some sort of benefit allowing them to stay home and help take care of a newborn but when someone is the stay-at-home parent or works less hours than the other they are going to make less money because of it. On average, women tend to do this more and that is a combination of social pressures and personal preference. We can never completely eliminate social pressures but in the end …	/r/MensRights	21/03/14 02:14 PM
14	The wage gap myth is being discussed in /r/TodayILearned and reddit appears to be accepting of the idea that women make less money than men because they choose to work different jobs and for fewer hou You aren't being penalized, the choice to stay at home to raise kids is yours as it is any other man's or woman's.	/r/MensRights	21/03/14 12:50 PM
1	Moderator at /r/offmychest calls someone a dick after banning them for calling someone a cunt. Also sexism doesnt exist against men evidently. I think it more boils down to the idea that male masculinity is bad but female masculinity is good. While not all promote this, the people who think the guy being called a dick is recieving less of an insult than being called a bitch because an insult that implies masculinity must be less insulting to males because anything masculine is good.	/r/MensRights	14/02/14 03:24 PM
5	Moderator at /r/offmychest calls someone a dick after banning them for calling someone a cunt. Also sexism doesnt exist against men evidently. Yea, the idea that dominant and submissive based insults are sexist is pretty messed up and it makes it sound like insulting people is only ok if the insult implies they are acting masculine.	/r/MensRights	14/02/14 02:56 PM
6	Moderator at /r/offmychest calls someone a dick after banning them for calling someone a cunt. Also sexism doesnt exist against men evidently. The part that gets me is that they don't really know how those insults are used. Yes, calling someone a pussy does refer to them being weak but calling them a cunt is something else entirely. Actually, in terms of insuts, dick is basically synomonous with cunt. And I don't think I've ever heard anyone use the word 'twat' before in real life. I didn't even know it had anything to do with vaginas. Also, any time I have heard it usually it's being said to a kid who is being annoying.	/r/MensRights	14/02/14 02:03 PM
1	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me No, they shouldn't be held accountable because there was no way for them to give consent or accept the advances of the rapist. If someone is intoxicated they still can say no or refuse the advances in other ways. Consciousness is very important, unless discussed beforehand by the couple, and I agree that if someone is unconsicous they have no means of giving consent. If someone passes out from drinking too much then that should be considered no different than if they pass out from exhaustion.	/r/MensRights	31/01/14 05:41 PM
2	Obama just repeated his 77 cent figure at the State of the Union Hell, when male birth control becomes good for public use it better be held to the same standard as female birth control and be covered by insurance policies.	/r/MensRights	29/01/14 12:38 PM
9	16 yo drunk boys blamed, arrested, charged for "letting" 17 yo drunk But the boys were also intoxicated. Why is their judgement more important that the girl's? They seemed to all be under the influence and none of them were likely capable of making an informed decision. Also, why is it their responsibility? Is it their job to stop every drunk driver they see? How should they do that? Should they physically overpower her to stop her? Should they have called the police and incriminated themselves in the process? Modlesky drank and drove and that is her fault, no on…	/r/MensRights	25/01/14 03:02 PM
1	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me I'd agree. I just don't think laws should reflect ethics or morality (which vary from person to person.)	/r/MensRights	05/01/14 02:12 AM
1	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me Yes it does. That has always been the biggest issue with rape cases hasn't it? A lot of cases boil down to a 'he said she said' situation.	/r/MensRights	31/12/13 04:15 AM
1	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me I agree with you I agree with you I agree but consider actions taken while 'black out' drunk to be just as accountable to the person so long as they have the aforementioned physical capabilities you mentioned. I agree with you. I disagree. If it is made up I have no sympathy for OP. Maybe pitty, but mostly loathing and disdain.	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 11:34 PM
3	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me I do consider it to be different when one is physically incapable of resisting or denying sexual advances. But if you still have the physical ability to say no or to resist and you don't then it's your decision or mistake since you were the one who got yourself intoxicated.	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 08:37 PM
2	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me If one is incapable of saying anything against it physically then at that point I do consider it to be rape. But if you can still speak and have control of your limbs I consider it to be on you. If OP never consented even while drunk that's a different story; that is rape. But if someone, who is physically capable of speaking, does not say no I think that's their own problem. Especially since they put themselves in that situation of being intoxicated.	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 08:35 PM
-2	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me That person is still in that position because of their choices and actions (ie getting drunk or high) and should be held accountable for their actions to a degree. If we can hold people accountable for their actions while intoxicated when they are the cause of a situation then they should be considered just as accountable when they are negatively affected. We don't give drunk drivers sympathy because they were too drunk to know what they were doing. If someone gets messed up and kills somebody w…	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 08:23 PM
1	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me I did not press charges for several reasons including that I had some responsibility for drinking myself stupid I think this is what /u/flyingwolf was referring to since the sentence seems to imply fault with OP because he got himself that drunk. And, to a degree, I agree. I don't think OP should just get over it or that he's exaggerating. It was an experience he found to be traumatizing and I hope him nothing but the best in terms of recovery. However, regardless of legal definitions, I don't c…	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 12:31 PM
2	how dare you say that working as a nuclear engineer or a genetice scientist is harder than being a mom or house wife? Anyone can be a mother or a house wife. By definition, if you're female and you have a kid you are a mother. That is not a hard job by any means since anyone biologically capable can get pregnant. Some mothers are good and some are bad of course, and we should be proud of the good mothers, but that should be at the same area of pride as we give people who aren't morbidly obese; you are just making sure you don't mess up what you are supposed to do. As for being a house-wife; not a job. I have no…	/r/MensRights	26/12/13 11:38 AM
6	Dress Codes for Girls? BLAME BOYS. No Dress Codes for Girls? BLAME BOYS. From what I remember there were plenty of dress codes for boys and dress codes that applied equally to each gender. The funniest one was that my school used to have a 'no facial piercings or gauges' rule but my friend joined the church of body modification and got it removed for religious reasons. And if someone does seem to think that the dress code are more strict of apply more to girls I think that might be because men's styles don't require the showing of a lot of skin and we don't have spec…	/r/MensRights	15/12/13 01:35 PM
4	After all it's not like men are shamed for being virgins... (FB: Screencap) Can't speak for Titsout's opinion, but I somewhat agree because slut-shaming seems like something they (feminists) push as a horrible thing without much comprehensive evidence. Personally my reasons against it as an argument are because women really overestimate what is 'slutty' and what is not. To guys, not being a virgin is not slutty, having an active sex life is not slutty, but having sex with almost any and every guy just to try and gain their approval = slutty. From what I've seen, girls j…	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 05:23 AM
6	14 year old boys expelled for sex with 14-year-old girl. No punishment for the girl. What annoys me the most about the article is the attempt to blame the situation on pornography and some imagined threat of kids/teens becoming more sexual because of the media. They're teenagers, they could have spent their entire lives without so much as a book and if you threw 14 year olds who were mutually attracted to each other in a room and said 'have at it' you wouldn't be able to come back without slipping on some sort of bodily fluid.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 03:02 AM
6	"Society Tells Men That Friendship Is Girly. Men Respond by Not Having Friends." One reply I hear more than 'shit sucks' is 'sucks to suck.' Which basically sums up all of your issues if there's not good advice to give.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 02:49 AM