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There's no reason for women to date a less than stellar-looking, mild-mannered, cooperative man anymore. Every guy has to be a bodybuilder minimum and be a sociopath of one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:08 AM
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There's not the constant small talk or chatting or need to compete with each other and one-up each other, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:16 PM
2

Women lack a lot of intersexual communication ability so they demand that men speak to them like women do, which naturally leads to the only men who are able to speak to them that way being feminine, and thus unattractive, or manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:48 PM
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It's good advice for a man too but it needs a caveat: If you're trying too hard in the pursuit, then it's already failed. What you should be trying hard it is becoming high value. IF you're high value, then the women come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:48 PM
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There's always a new problem that's men's fault. We can start talking about porn use in men when we can start talking about casual sex in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:07 AM
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I mean the implication and your tone is literally "no one should ever choose solitary or male-dominated hobbies."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:18 AM
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I wanna throw out a crackpot theory but I think that culturally we have gotten to extreme versions of neglecting male emotional needs so a lot of guys are just growing up with fucking nothing anymore in terms of self-confidence and healthy mental models. I've been hanging around with some different kinds of guys and while they aren't the best looking they do pull but it's mostly just a numbers game to them, and using clout and status to pull and keep girls. Subconcoiusly everyone involved knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:03 AM
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The premium people put on straight, perfect teeth is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:56 PM
1

I think the stigma against male plastic surgery is ridiculous, personally. It feels like we're not even allowed to improve, culturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:55 PM
2

So do women, but apparently nobody needs anybody anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:43 AM
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It's also just that women are capable of mass-group organization and men are not. For every 10 guys who are willing to put their foot down on feminism, there's 1 good-looking guy willing to say the platitudes to get into several young ladies' pants. And then everyone becomes jealous of that guy. And moves to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:56 PM
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If women don't owe men anything in a relationship, why should men get into relationships? It seems like the best RoI for men is to just get incredibly shredded and pursue casual sex then. And plus, you don't need us either, so it's a win-win!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:55 AM
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So it was fine when we dealt with the reality by keeping women in their place, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:51 AM
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For the most part feminism only succeeded because it had an elite push behind it. Women are better consumers after all and now we have a whole industry of selling beauty products to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:37 AM
1

IT's in real life too and if you can't see that you're too neurotypical. Go into a group with guys and girls and there are always dudes trying to mog other guys one way or the other, either by personality or being the most outrageous or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:27 PM
2

The idea that men can soft-power their way into changing a woman's behavior is laughable. Even my Chad friends laugh at the whole redpill "if you're just ALPHA enough then a woman will submit to you," BS. The only thing that's ever changed a woman's behavior are real, practical reprecussions for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:25 PM
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The "don't just forget" is the big thing for me. So many people act like you're an asshole for not loving the game every second you play it and not wanting to be locked down to a mid chick who will be nice to you (but only because you're better than her, she would have treated you like trash before).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:11 PM
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My friend explained it to me like this, but the way sex work is to women, dating is to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:04 PM
2

PUA stuff is mostly for dealing with very hot women that are dancing around with other hot guys and dealing with that kind of upper-class manipulative lifestyle and culture. For mid girls they want their looksmatches to be betabux and their ONS to be 7+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:39 PM
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Social media, a double whammy culture of protective paternalism and unaccountable feminism, and the fact that many people in the US have been raised to be insecure narcissists since the 1920s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:08 PM
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This is some cucked bluepill advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:04 PM
4

I'm not sure this works for guys honestly, since every guy is going to be defensive and insular about his game with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:03 PM
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The main reason that dating is so hard for me right now is that men won't collectively raise their standards. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:39 AM
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Okay, I know there's a lot of women that love thinking like this but I don't see those women deciding to go outside the house without makeup any time soon. Secondly the kinds of guys that girls don't want to fuck are largely what makes up society and keeps it functional. If guys decide to drop out en masse then there is no society, at least not the way we envision it. We'd probably regress a ton in technology and go back to longhouse social dynamics, like we're not there already, lul.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:35 AM
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I don't really like people talking about how personality and stuff matters much. I have a great personality. I'm told very often. But either because I have no game where I "neg" girls and play their stupid social game or because I am unattractive, I can't get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:21 PM
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IMO the only time I like women is when I stay away from them. When I come to this sub and listen to the women talk here I think regular beatings might be necessary for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:48 PM
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They want a nice guy... when they want a nice guy. But he needs to be able to read her mind and switch from nice guy to negging her and being self-assured on a dime. Failure to guess right gives her "the Ick." But physical attractiveness trumps all. If it came down to fucking a hot, boring psychopath or a guy who's below average but ticks all the right personality boxes, they will pick the hot guy every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:11 AM
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I'm only acting in the way that women expect of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:48 AM
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Women either are ignorant or don't care, successful men are going to downplay the losers' grievances because they're currently in a pussy smorgasboard, the question can't possibly be answered neutrally. But as far as dating goes, it's so hard these days that the only way I've been able to have any success at all is by viewing women as the enemy, who have a resource that I want and must acquire with a quick in-and-out operation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:37 PM
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Fine, I'll be honest: yeah. There can be no equality between the sexes. Either men are henpecked or women are controlled. If it has to be one or the other, I'd rather it be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:32 PM
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I mean this is obvious to anyone who hasn't been privileged their whole life. I'm told I'm funny, handsome, whatever, I have a decent job (though nothing that most other people don't have) and I like kids or whatever. But, I'm fat. Not chubby, fat. So literally none of those things will ever compensate for that and I'm forced to accept single moms 3x my size with bad faces. Even if I could get sex, I will need a penile implant to compensate for my smaller penis. I can lose the weight and get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:48 AM
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My opinion on anyone that says crap like this is that it's also a social construction that no woman wants to date me because of my weight. So unless you're willing to admit that line then I'm not hearing it about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:32 AM
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Problem is most parents go only one way or the other. Sure, toughen your kid up for the world, but they should know that if they fall down you're gonna be there to put a band-aid on the scraped knee; even when they're an adult sometimes your kids just need a sympathetic ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:28 AM
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I have plenty of social circle friends. The problem is that they're all guys, who like the same loser hobbies I do. I can't expect a woman to enjoy the same things I do. I'm not a partier. What exactly am I supposed to do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:27 PM
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And due to my autism and weight, I'm only valuable to women as an ATM. Most people don't get to actually be loved the way they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:41 AM
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What could "turn a woman off" is the man blowing on his food because it's too hot. It's purely a result of women having so many choices that they start getting turned off by men for completely inane things that normal people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:11 PM
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Nobody wants to be with a square, but squares help uphold society. But if squares eventually realize that nobody wants to be around them they might just become burnouts, NEETs, or extremely hostile in their work. Thus why modern dating might not be societally healthy in the longrun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:57 PM
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The real question is: who cares? If women actually think like that, that's their problem. If a woman tries to pull that shit on you, leave. Who gives a shit what their reasoning is. Big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:52 PM
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All this "just become part of the top 20% bro" advice is so worthless to me. The top 20% is static, if every guy started lifting and juicing tomorrow that would just mean it's the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:50 PM
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Women aren't entitled to me not being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:32 PM
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I honestly feel like you're conflating two different ideas. Men would PREFER for the girl to be chaste if they're going to dedicate time and resources to her. Most women are NOT chaste and many view sex as something to get resources out of some men and something to be done quickly with attractive men. The preference and the reality do not align.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:17 AM
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I agree. Problem is it's different because men punish anti-social behavior (by not giving relationships) and women reward it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:48 AM
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I'd say like a 7 minimum. I really dislike the idea of approaching, it gives the woman too much power, but if you're just trying to get laid it's sometimes necessary. In reality I'm generally too nervous or too ambivalent to approach women, depending on how drunk I am. Also, as many have said, if a 7+ is willing to date a fat guy it's because she's more or less expecting you to be her sugar daddy, she's extremely mentally ill, or you just got really lucky. Fairly attractive on OLD but I don't us…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:09 AM
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I mean women talk about men not getting signals but if a guy curves you for a full week before hitting you up again with a "you up?" I feel like maybe women just get the signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:40 AM
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Based on the way you talk it's probably just that you're not good enough for anything but a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:02 PM
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Having a family does seem rewarding to be honest, but it's still important to have a family with a good woman. I would never want to have a family a PPD woman who can't be assed to pretend she likes me and wants to make it clear that she's only using me for my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:55 PM
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Often many of the same women who loudly and proudly exclaim that they see men as nothing more than objects to get what they want, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:54 PM
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Of course you appeal to a piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:14 PM
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Hot guys will willingly date and stay with a fat chick but the reverse will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:42 PM
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He phrased it poorly but yeah women generally don't know what it takes to be muscular. They would think someone like Zyzz was natty if it wasn't for him being open and honest about his steroid use. They're catching on a little bit now but it's funny how in the past you could be some roided up freakshow bodybuilder and when girls asked you how you got that muscular you just answered something like "oh yeah I just used to work on a farm lol" or "I used to play lacrosse" and they'd actually believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:06 PM
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The problem is women get boosted into middle-class salaries that they don't deserve from affirmative action where they take jobs whose main purpose is to make the company function less adequately and then demand men who have outlier-high tier salaries while not offering much themselves, in terms of non-career related stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:52 PM
1

There's always some other to take the blame off of average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:49 PM
1

Imagine defending FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:25 PM
1

I'm ultimately agreeing with you, but we're talking about fantasy vs. reality here. Fantasy is that women learn and accept the leagues that they're in and start withholding sex more and everyone goes back to strict assortative mating. Reality is that significant majority of women get railed out by guys that wouldn't stick around for even the entire first date if they were sure they weren't going to get laid then complain that those men lack commitment to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:46 PM
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Totally missing the point, not worth discussing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:07 PM
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So the options are either guys get their choice of women and women have no say or in a "free" society women get their choice of men and men have no say. If equality is fake, I'll take the option that benefits me the most, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:10 PM
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I'm not sure you quite get it, the whole point was that if she made him wait they'd all bounce and she would never get a guy out of her league. She would be forced to date 7s because if I was a 10/10 guy, and every girl made me wait equally, why would I ever bother spending money on a 7? The whole reason she gives up sex easy is that's all she offers a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:22 PM
1

Almost like we have other things to focus on, like jobs and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:59 PM
1

How many autistic relationships have you been in? You know there exists relationships with two autistic partners, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:42 AM
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"veryone just vibes bro, everyone's such a great non-verbal communicator only autists aren't privy to this magic aura everyone else has." And they proceed to hop in and out of failed relationships that usually fail because they refuse to fucking talk to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:25 AM
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I'd love to be in an LTR that also had an active sex life but it seems women only ever view me as either alphafux or betabux. Never something in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:14 AM
1

Someone who sees that the game has been rigged to be very far against their favor, and eats that shit with a smile, is just a natural slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:52 AM
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Women who believe in red pill aren't very different from ones who aren't, they just stop lying to themselves about what it is about. You see lots of red-pilled women in this forum more or less bragging that current social standards allow them to fuck guys way above their level and still get married at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:35 AM
3

Yeah of course it hurts the kids but most people are bad parents. Female-dominated households are just as toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:32 AM
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How many hot chicks with great personalities are there though? Even the non-hot chicks have pretty shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:30 AM
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Yeah this is a big part of it. It's not so much settling that's the issue, it's that the average woman isn't worth settling for. For most guys, their options as late bloomers are looking at women who are -Just not that attractive, in many ways at all, or fat, which wouldn't be so bad if those women weren't also: -Resentful of men in general from years of being pumped and dumped -Make the BB work for things that the AF got without even saying a word to her -Can't cook or clean -Will probably only…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:29 AM
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This is a pretty good way to solve the issue, and I think it should probably be implemented on that alone. The problem is that there's no reason for this to happen. OLD is largely in women's favor and society agrees that women get to make all the rules, have all the privileges, and if their decisions start to hurt them, it's actually men's fault. So what they're going to do is just raise the next generation of men to have zero self-esteem so that they have a generation of male pick-mes who will …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:18 AM
1

You just aren't as hot as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:55 PM
1

Sure tons of other people but women don't really. In fact most of the women I meet today I would say have social skills bordering on "autistic."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:47 PM
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Okay you're clearly not interested in having a conversation, and you're not the first woman to come up with stupid shit like this, so I'm done talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:11 PM
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It's not like there's no situation in which the standards don't change though. It just either requires a lot of people agreeing on something or a lot of time. I put my bets on time currently but yeah based on my predictions it won't happen during any time period where I can take advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:35 AM
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But being a normie man is no better. As someone said before, it's mostly just long periods of loneliness waiting for a girl who is less attractive than you and getting ready to hop off the cock carousel to take an interest in you, with the occassional ONS with ugly chicks and if you're lucky and committed, the one FWB/ons with a girl hotter than you than inevitably blows up because mixed attractiveness relationships don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:47 AM
1

You girls say shit like this then wonder why no one marries you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:31 AM
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You can hate it all you want, but I'd kill to experience the bliss that an attractive person has during their youth. You think girls actually like you just 'cause you're you, everyone just seems ready to fall on their hands and knees to help you. Does it suck like a bitch when you get old and the drugs and the alcohol finally take their toll? Yeah, but you're just coming back down to a reality that most of us are born and mired in. At the end of the day, you had something none of us can ever hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:28 AM
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I mean in a just world I would be recognized as being better than even 9/10 women because I'm actually able to carry a conversation, talk to and delegate with people I don't like, have basic social skills like planning events, can cook, have a job that I actually earned and pays well, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:25 AM
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I have to assume at this point you're being intentionally dismissive and aren't actually interested in anything men have to say about this. Guys get horny every single day. Having to save up to go to Thailand (or I hear Vietnam now is the place to be) to fuck hookers for a week on a yearly (or bi-yearly) basis isn't a very good solution, it's expensive and requires that your job doesn't mind you taking time off. It's what boomers do but old boomers that do that don't do it as a solution to deali…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:11 AM
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Because most men can't hookup and if they live in a state where prostitution is illegal and is Western/feminized then prostitution isn't a good deal either. Trust me, I've looked. I could get into more detail but nah. Most men still ultimately want a partner they can trust and while they may shit on the state of the world, it doesn't stop the desire. Most men cannot live like a Chad who does live the lifestyle you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:06 AM
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The 80/20 rule was first meant to describe economics and it means to say that in a sufficiently free market, that 20% of the providers of goods will offer something that everybody wants, thus 20% of people get all the money because everyone else can't compete with what they're offering. The same thing exists in the free market of dating, though a little skewed because unlike with buying goods there are less limiting factors in some ways and more limiting factors in others. ​ 80% of the women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:17 AM
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The majority of women are socially inept as well, and without autists with strange fascinations many things wouldn't have been invented. And only severe autism is correlated with negative intelligence because they literally cannot even do the test. Autism is usually not being a retard. Autism is more like being a normal person stuck in a body that doesn't seem to want to cooperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:39 PM
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Everyone who says shit like this is always doing it to excuse women being picky. Completely ignoring that women contribute genes too. Completely ignoring that most women are faking their attractiveness every day with makeup. Please look up what a Fisherian Runaway is before making a post like this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:36 PM
1

For girls, it takes the same amount of skill to make a man love you as it does to make an employee love you, and for the same reason. That's why so many of them find it so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:21 PM
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The thing is most women think that romance happens naturally because they make up a bunch of social rules in their heads and then say "this is how socialization works" and then don't tell men the rules because they assume if the men know, then they will game the system. The problem with this type of thinking is that it requires men to learn how to game the system anyways. Men meet women over and over and gradually learn the rules of the game and then when they get proficient enough they can make…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:10 PM
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