STCLS Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Is it better to play the long game or be honest with a girl when it comes to looking for something casual Well if you play the long game for a hook up, you have very low self esteem, and 0 respect for the girls. Don’t play games, you’re not 12 anymore, be a man and own what you want.	/r/seduction	20/09/24 01:14 AM
19	Should I take her on a date if she did not save my number? It’s that kind of reflection that’ll show her you’re insecure and have very little going on in your life. She said yes, build from there, don’t bring the past, girls in general like guys that are confident and have plans for the future, they certainly don’t like dudes that overthink over stuff like that.	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:48 AM
2	I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking Contradiction Your view on what a masculine man is, is so flawed, it makes me think you’ve amplified everything you believe is the opposite and made that your entire personality. Listen, don’t judge or assume stereotypes, there’s a large scale in between a “super macho masculine” man and a “super effeminate” one, there’s nothing special about your personality, you’re in that scale like every dude in the world. Just be yourself, you seem to be proud of who you are and that’s great, don’t shove your personality…	/r/seduction	09/09/24 10:22 PM
2	Does being seen with unattractive girls hurt your game? Purely pragmatically, yes. Now if you have game, it doesn’t really matter now does it. Imagine Brad pit if he wasn’t known, do you think women would care whether he is hanging out with good or bad looking girls? Rely on yourself, otherwise it’s not just a ”game” as you guys like to call it.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 10:07 PM
2	Flirting at work. ADVICE She knows you like her, the ball is in her court. You play it casual like you did at that party and hope she actually likes you and not just the attention you’re giving her.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 07:05 PM
2	Should I try or bail? Don’t, you’re not a second choice, you deserve to be someone’s first choice.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 08:59 AM
2	Attracted physically, but no real connection beyond that? Just be honest with yourself, that’s all. Is physic that important to you? That’s fine, no shame in that. It took a while for me to accept it but eventually I did. It’s superficial, I know, but I have stars in my eyes each time I look at my girl and it is essential for me to feel like I’m with the most beautiful girl in the world. Own what you like on a women, we’re all different, and no one owns the truth.	/r/seduction	18/08/24 09:58 PM
1	How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question? I was wondering if maybe you try too hard to be seen as funny but given your comment, I get that it’s your nature so all good. I’d say, prioritize your life before dates, when you’re on a journey that’s planed and thought through, girls will tag along naturally because they want to feel like even though you’re busy making a life for yourself, you’re still making time for them. When you’re just available, they’ll assume you’re desperate. Hope this makes sense, good luck brother	/r/seduction	14/08/24 12:12 AM
1	Need help There’s nothing to rekindle, if she was into you, you’d know. Take the loss and move on	/r/seduction	13/08/24 11:23 PM
1	How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question? Do you come across as too available/needy? Girls like a man that has a life, and will make time for them. You’re giving very little information but your post yells « I’m available everyday, I response within 5 minutes and will overthink everything so that I show off as someone funny. »	/r/seduction	13/08/24 11:18 PM
1	Has the long game ever worked for anyone? Sorry to break it down to you brother but she’s not into you. That LTR excuse is juste that, an excuse, so she doesn’t have to tell you she’s not interested. Someone that wants you will let you know, you won’t have to wonder. Take the loss and move on, good luck ❤️	/r/seduction	13/08/24 10:49 PM
5	Is this a matter of confidence Fake it til you make it. That’s all you need to know.	/r/seduction	04/08/24 04:26 PM
0	Am I ready for a relationship You need to have a life that doesn’t revolve around someone else, that’s all. If you were busy doing your thing that day, you wouldn’t have had the time to overthink, and you wouldn’t have comme across as clingy to that girl. Do your thing, people will tag along naturally.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 11:31 PM
9	How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce? Jesus Christ dude, what kind of useless, empty question that is	/r/seduction	20/02/24 03:31 PM
1	Why do girls only call me `cute’ and `handsome’ and rarely `sexy’. Yeah, I wasn’t talking about those, cause at least, they are trying… I’m talking about the silent majority that just gave up ☹️	/r/seduction	12/08/23 02:07 PM
3	Why do girls only call me `cute’ and `handsome’ and rarely `sexy’. Well sure, but I had girlfriends before so 😁	/r/seduction	12/08/23 11:31 AM
5	Why do girls only call me `cute’ and `handsome’ and rarely `sexy’. Well I’ve been called sexy quite a few times, but never have I been called handsome, so, there you go. TBH, my new GF says I’m the most handsome man in the world, but she’s the only one to ever tell me that, and I’m 40, so, I have no idea my brother. Regardless, cute and handsome is quite the resume, don’t read too much into it, IMO, some dudes don’t get adjectives, AT ALL, so learn to appreciate the positive ones I guess :)	/r/seduction	12/08/23 10:56 AM
2	Was i played? Listen, I know the feeling. It sucks, you like someone and you want more than he is willing to give. And as a women, you feel like sex might be the way to get him to come around, and with enough time, see the great person that you are so that the hookup relationship type that you are willing to endure for a while becomes a love story. I’ll save you the trouble, he won’t come around. You’re lovely and have your heart in the right place, that’s for sure, but he doesn’t like you that way. And I’m n…	/r/seduction	03/08/23 11:46 PM
3	Was i played? Then be direct and tell him just that. Guys appreciate a woman that is direct, but will smell bullshit 10 miles away and will lose interest in a second.	/r/seduction	03/08/23 12:38 PM
4	Was i played? Question: why are you so affected by a dude that barely knows you but sill has the audacity to critic your work? As a man, if a girl lashes at me face to face for saying something negative about her work, then says she appreciates the feedback and would like to hear more a few days later, I’m gone. It gives « I’ll do anything to have a man, and I’ll gladly allow him to shit on my job skills as long as I can have a date with him » vibes and it’s off putting. So k don’t know if you’ve been played,…	/r/seduction	03/08/23 11:56 AM
1	How to know if she definitely isn't into you? Dude, she’s keeping you around to boost herself up and has no intentions on having a relationship with you. Keep it casual if you can manage but from your last 2 paragraphs, she’s just playing cause she knows you like her and enjoy the attention. But that’s all there is my dude. Don’t beat yourself up and move on.	/r/seduction	18/12/19 09:30 PM