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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | You under estimate the amount of work needed for cold approach to work | Fundamentals | STD-Tyler | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day? | Outer Game | STD-Tyler | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 10:18 AM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]I have no problems with cold approach or night game. I have this issue with online dating. But my city is in lockdown until November. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They don't change bone structure. Maybe HGH, it will need months and years. I ordered it anyways. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take so much investment to sleep with a girl, and ways to get around it?If you don't want to talk before sex, go to a Brothel.. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I wait for her to text me to hangout?She said "definitely", so suggest a plan after couple of days. That's your role. It is not like you asked her when she is free and she hasn't responded. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 01:26 AM |
| 4 | I just made my self look desperateTo fix being desperate stop being desperate over one girl and move on. Should be a good start but more work ahead. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | When they say be confident they are rightLet's be real here, you ended it because she wasn't attractive enough. Maybe improve your tinder pics... | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | She's not coming is she?Yeah she had good emotions during the interaction and few hours after that, then she returned to normal life and all these feelings dissipated with time. The logic says that if you meet again these feelings will return, but women are not logical. Good thing to do is to keep vibing with her on chat with fun text to re-ignite these feelings again and build a rapport with her before asking her out. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | She's not coming is she?That's the nature of daygame bro. Collect 10 numbers of cute girls until something hits.. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:24 AM |
| 22 | Women who want attentionBro it is a bar, go talk to other 10 women. Why focus on one woman? It is not a Tinder date bro. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | You under estimate the amount of work needed for cold approach to workWhat if a girl gives me signals but I have no experience in talking to strangers and I blew it and creep her out? Who cares if it is weak as fuck as long as I get laid from it? You can keep fucking whales from Tinder, that's pure strength bro, right? | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Should I approach women and work on myself at the same time?People who say they will work at themselves first, then approach, are actually too afraid to approach. It is just an excuse. Also no matter how much money you make, 6 pack you have, there will always be something missing and something you are insecure about. So just start approaching right now. Worst case scenario you acquire social skills while waiting to improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 08:38 AM |
| 11 | Life is so unfairI saw it thousands of times average guys out playing good looking guys by being more fun and care free and eventually get hot girls. Tons of sad stifled good looking guys go home alone... Yeah looks play a role but it is not a limiting factor to what you want to achieve. The problem is your mindset and attitude.. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 07:40 AM |
| 4 | Approaching a girl who is with friend(s)Especially if they are fat | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 07:53 AM |
| 84 | I was a bit creepy but it works outSo if she gives you a fake number, what's the point of correcting her? She will suddenly fall in love with you and gives you the correct number? | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 0 | It's been hard getting dates during short term stays. Most girls aren't down.Lie...they are not angels either. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Is picking up a girl at a dance club more about physical than verbal? How do I escalate with a girl on the dancefloor?High five --> Twirl her--> Dance like an idiot and pray for the best | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Is picking up a girl at a dance club more about physical than verbal? How do I escalate with a girl on the dancefloor?Yes it is how you carry yourself, eye contact, smile..etc, She can barely hear you anyways, so you can't have a convo about career and family there... | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Wanted me on the flight - Now not responding?Bro seek other women. She is probably disgusted by your chasing behaviour... | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 14 | The WORST ADVICE that I have EVER HEARD (and that you are told everyday)This advice is very common here. "Work on yourself and women will come". They will fall from the sky on your couch. Or maybe they will approach you in the mall. Usually an advice by angry incels who hate women because of their failure to take correct action. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I've lost the ability to have genuine connectionsHow do you have the ability to hook up with girls but can't sleep because of one girl? Doesn't make sense to me as there are millions of beautiful girls out there, that you don't need to be heart broken over just one. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 10:36 PM |
| 4 | How to make sex memorable for the girleye opening book | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 08:22 AM |
| 15 | How to make sex memorable for the girlDon't cum early, lots of oral sex | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 03:09 AM |
| -17 | Update ( date with girl from gym)Good connection means at least kissing bro. Are you guys 15? Not hating but next dates learn to seal the deal or they won't consider you a man... | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?And that's the mindset of people who criticize me. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?Machine | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?So how do you know you have connection with a certain girl unless you talk to many? Are you a psychic?? And what if you have a good connection but she is bad in bed or no sexual connection. Or this never happens? | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?So what's the exact number that makes me not desperate? Is it 3? 5? 12? Give me a number, because you sound too cool and get laid once every 5 approaches... | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?So the chances of having LTR or sex with 5 approaches, is better than 100 approaches. Doesn't make any logical or statistical sense.That means that 1 approach is better than 5 then? According to your predictions... And what's something else you talk about? Playing video games? Or join a salsa class and get obsessed over 1 girl, then cry here that she is not replying my text? | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?What if I approach 100 girls I am interested in.Why is it better in your opinion to approach only 5 girls I am interested in? And we all know you sleep with 1 hot girl every 5 approaches, right? | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?Pimpin ain't easy brother | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?Of course, approaching 5 girls is better than approaching 20. That's how you improve faster, makes sense. You are a genius. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?What's more stimulating than dating hot girls? Rock climbing? | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to do 100 approaches in 1 day?You are probably the kind of guy "Focus on yourself and girls will come". They always do, right? | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | When/how to call out flakey behavior to maximize chance of positive outcome?Yup, she is not Elon Musk | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 06:59 AM |
| 7 | When/how to call out flakey behavior to maximize chance of positive outcome?She is not "very busy". She is not interested. Your problem is she is your only option and you are not seeking other women. Girls who like you will make it wayyyyy easy for you to meet. Even if you flake on them they will keep asking... | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 03:14 AM |
| 0 | The “Call back” escapeBuild a good Instagram and exchange it. It is 2021 bro. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 8 | Met girl at a bar. Gave signs of attraction. But playing very hard to get over texts.It is not "hard to get". She is not interested. Because if she is, she will make it very easy for you. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you want to hear about a real life miracle?Pornhub is full of miracles | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | I try so hard and never get lucky no matter what I doThey don't care about women's approval because they already love themselves, unlike a people pleaser and approval seeker like you. Why are you mad tho? "You can tell a size of a man by the size of the thing that makes him mad". Which tells everything about you, which was obvious anyways... | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?22% of ENGAGED couples meet from online dating,let alone the % who haven't got engaged yet! These are scientific stats bro. 22% is a HUGE number and expected to grow. If you have other published facts, other than your friends stories, I am all open mind https://www.theknot.com/content/dating-apps-marriage#:~:text=According%20to%20The%20Knot%202019,out%20the%20top%20three%20websites. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?Yes, your personal anecdote is a principle. Since your girl friends don't have Tinder, then all girls you like in the mall don't have as well. That's how facts are made, brilliant. You are similar to the guy who says club girls are "drunk sluts", as if they don't go to malls and supermarkets. No they sleep in the club and have no life or hobbies.. | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?How do you know the girl you approach in the mall doesn't have Tinder account? Or it's brother app "Instagram"? And what the heck with a MILF teaching you game? They know shit... | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 10:25 PM |
| 0 | If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?Like everything in life, you fail then learn and become better. But putting it off altogether and just go talk to girls in the mall? Guess what, they will destroy you too. Then why not quit again? Since that is what you are used to. Nothing wrong with cold approach, but it is not the solution to your failure on Tinder. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 10:24 PM |
| 0 | I try so hard and never get lucky no matter what I doBecause the skinny kid doesn't care. He doesn't go with scripted conversation and try to impress her like you do. If this is not a troll post you sound like a low value guy with a clean car and undies. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 6 | The Single Most Attractive Trait in a Person"In a world where most are bound by rules and restrictions, there is nothing more attractive than a person who retains the ability to act freely with unapologetic authenticity." So some idiot who dances to his headset in the middle of the street is more attractive than a guy that looks like Brad Pitt and well dressed. Stupid logic/post. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I wanted to share a small victoryThat's the point of having a good instagram. No one will you "no" if you ask for it. | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 1 | What is appropriate?5 days is too long, I'd keep simle chat here and there so both of you don't forget each other's | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get hotter and more attractive women?Better self, better life, better game and more approaches. Work on everything. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How do people meet someone on a night out and take them home?If she is interested, start by holding her hands...easy. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youSocial fear or approach anxiety is not rational bro. You can't talk your brain out of it, like "It is just a girl bro" or "Attractive girl is just human she will not kill you". You can't tell someone with fear of height "You will not fall bro", he already knows that. Of course we know we will not get physically harmed, but the fear is not logically explained. The only way out of it, is consistent exposure (approaching women consistently). Your logic says 3-4 approaches per week are better than 5… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youPeople who say "I go out do my things, talk to the cute one when I spot her"..etc Actually do zero approaches per month. They have no idea of what they are talking about. It is very hard to get through approach anxiety to approach an attractive woman. Let alone hold a proper conversation. A guy who sees an attractive girl in the supermarket, approaches her in a fun and confident manner must have 1000s of approaches under his belt. It is not something that comes naturally, unless she is way below… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 10:05 AM |
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