STX415 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My gf is unsure of what she wants in bed She says she has never masturbated, nor wanted to. She does not like giving or receiving oral sex because "its disguising" Is afraid to branch to far out of the standard missionary or cowgirl positions. It is very hard to give a woman an orgasm if she hasn't given herself one. The fact that your girl doesn't touch herself means she isn't in tune with her own sexuality. Hell, doesn't like giving nor receiving head? She and her sexuality are in different dimensions! Yes, it is true that you want t…	/r/seduction	22/12/16 04:43 AM
11	How to tell a girl that finding a sexual connection is important to me before a relationship? "Having a sexual connection is important to me and I'd like to know if we're compatible in that sense before getting into a relationship."	/r/seduction	07/12/16 11:14 PM
15	I brought her to my room but I didn't know what to do next. Any tips? 1) Wait for pause in conversation. 2) Look her in the eyes. Then look at her lips. Then look back in her eyes. 3) Lean in and smooch the bitch. As soon as your brain thinks Hmm, I'd like to kiss her right now, just do it. It is your phallic duty.	/r/seduction	19/11/16 08:16 PM
2	Attractive girl I used to work with is very active on my social media posts, should I go for it? Slide in those DMs.	/r/seduction	19/11/16 08:12 PM
6	I have absolutely no idea why I don't talk to girls I'm interested in. Somewhere along the way, you've lost touch with your masculine sexuality. I feel I just come across as awkward because I hate being a sleazy guy There is nothing awkward or sleazy about being attracted to a woman and expressing that attraction through flirting (given you are doing it in a healthy and non-invasive way). I'll second the recommendation of reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, as it seems you are a typical case.	/r/seduction	18/11/16 08:25 PM
5	It gets thrown around so much, what is "status" in regards to helping guys do well with attractive women? First, do yourself a favor and steer clear of TRP. what is "status" in regards to helping a man do well with woman? This is an immensely complex question to answer. If you want to have a discussion about it (that doesn't require essays) you need to give us a context. Such as: 1) Your demographic (age, ethnicity, fitness level, etc.) 2) Your geographic location 3) Your socioeconomic status You don't have to actually tell us these things. I'm just giving you an idea of what factors come into play …	/r/seduction	18/11/16 07:40 PM
1	Going on a date with a model, but have very little experience That is not what I am advocating for. Perhaps personality was not the right word. I should have said his style of conversation during the date (which can be naturally derived from your personality). As long as OP feels good in his shoes his date will workout. I definitely disagree. Being confident in who you are as a person and what your interests are does not guarantee the girl will vibe with your personality/interests. Let me be concrete with my previous point: If OP goes on a date and rattles…	/r/seduction	08/11/16 11:24 PM
10	Going on a date with a model, but have very little experience Treat her how yo would treat your sister. ...be intimate. OP is in Toronto, not southern Georgia. Honestly, fuck normal. Normal means the same boring conversations. Normal means being like every other guy who is trying to not let her beauty phase them. Obviously OP should stay within the boundaries of social norms. But OP should be himself, saying or doing whatever he deems appropriate and fun. If the date does not work out, then that is experience he gains to be able to re-calibrate his persona…	/r/seduction	08/11/16 07:22 PM
6	Do girls ever text first? The answer is yes, there are girls who text first. But it is generally expected that guys will initiate the conversation. A lot of guys struggle with accepting their roles as initiators. They get hung up on questions like the one you've asked, and miss many opportunities simply because they haven't adopted the initiator mindset. I am the man. When I am interested, I will show it. When I want something, I will go after it. I have the ball(s), I will throw them in her court. Once you accept this r…	/r/seduction	05/11/16 04:42 PM
2	Advance Shit testing 101 First, I'll be a bit pedantic: A 101 class is numbered such because it is an "introduction" class to whatever subject is involved. "Advanced Shit Testing 101" is an oxymoron. Next, more pedantry: 1. and 2. are not shit tests. While 1 is similar to "We're not going to have sex tonight", you should definitely tread carefully when past sexual assault comes into play. I agree with your approach of leaving the offer on the table, but I wouldn't expect sex for most outcomes. 2 is her giving a valid ex…	/r/seduction	05/11/16 02:20 AM
2	This guy's take on value.. is he right? Two things: 1) Life is unfair. 2) It's only correct if you believe it to be. The above take gives two broad archetypes. You need to delve deeper into each in order to find your edge, no matter your circumstances. Also, do some research on "Inner Game" and see what resonates with you.	/r/seduction	29/10/16 08:29 PM
5	I have a Tinder date coming up. She texted me to ask if I wanted to have dinner with her friends before we go out. Should I or not? Your logic about plausible deniability doesn't make sense, given that she knows you are going on a date afterwards. The only difference is now her friends will actually see you two walking off to go on your date, rather than her friends just asking her about how the date went. Simply ask yourself: Do I want to go out to dinner with her and her friends? I know I fucking wouldn't. If you're goal is to go on a date and hook-up afterwards, you're shooting yourself in the foot by allowing her friends…	/r/seduction	25/10/16 07:12 AM
5	TED - How to talk to strangers. Fitting for seddit. Excellent post. I think the most useful exercise is Watch and Learn. There is so much insight to gain by simply observing people in public settings. And it definitely can help to learn for optimal moments to approach!	/r/seduction	14/09/16 07:58 PM
1	texting It is plain and ugly. Unoriginal. Boring. 1) Hook the conversation with a reference to your initial encounter. If you made no good inside jokes, nick names, or things like that, this may be hard. 2) (optional) Continue to banter. 3) Ask her out. Once you get enough experience, this flows very naturally. There should be no breaks in conversation leading up to the confirmation of the date.	/r/seduction	02/09/16 10:55 PM
1	FR: Unbelievable Luck or Solid Game? TL;DR: Yes. Move on. Reading that transcript made me cringe. Let me explain why: I hate small talk over text. I hate small talk in general, but wasting time talking about nothing over text is absurd to me. And in that rare cases I do, it's nearly impossible to convey the tonality, sarcasm, and emotion that I want. For me, texting serves two purposes: 1) Setting up logistics for a date 2) Fanning the flames of interest when I cannot do it in person, either through references to inside jokes made …	/r/seduction	31/08/16 11:27 PM
1	FR: Unbelievable Luck or Solid Game? Congratulations on your success. Your persistence paid off. As others have mentioned: texting first does not make you needy or desperate. It shows you still have interest and makes your intent clear towards the other person. The key lies in what you send. A text like "so where do we stand?" bleeds insecurity (and thus comes off as needy) so avoid asking her if she's reached a decision. Instead, I would assume attraction and plan a date as soon as possible. It's unfortunate that she's leaving soo…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 06:12 AM
1	How do you juggle dates with several different girls? Are you really in such a small environment that you could run into one girl you're dating while on a date with another girl? Unless you're at a very small college, I find that very improbable. You don't say you are a very busy man who is having trouble finding time scheduling dates with multiple girls (which is what most of us would like to assume). Instead, you are having anxiety about single date with one girl, simply because you think you may run into another girl you're also dating. That's b…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 12:09 AM
1	Texting a Girl - Is She Being Flaky or What? Building rapport through text is kind of a catch-22: You want to save the substantial conversation for the date, yet substantial conversation generally is the best way to build enough rapport to get the date in the first place. Every girl has different levels of comfort needed to be reached before agreeing to a date, and every girl responds differently to different types of comfort-building. One of my favorite ways to build rapport is through a teacher/student dynamic. I would pick a topic, like…	/r/seduction	16/08/16 05:34 AM
1	Texting a Girl - Is She Being Flaky or What? Anyways Who starts a post like this? As if your title was a complete digression. Be direct and demand your stage. Each time she texts back it would be at least 15+ lines and the quality of the text was good too (like asks about personal goals, values, life experiences, etc) Although it's too late now, save these topics for the actual date. In short, we don't know this girl. We don't know if she is texting you just for fun (it certainly doesn't seem like fun with your hiking example). You did a g…	/r/seduction	16/08/16 12:44 AM
1	What can I do about a small penis? Don't you dare stop approaching women because of this. You're in perhaps the most difficult battle for a man when it comes to sexual anxiety, ego, and self-confidence. Here are some weapons: First, head over to r/sex and do the appropriate searching. Things to research for growth: Bathmate, jelking and stretching. Never forget that there will always be women out there that you can satisfy. There are plenty of vaginas out there that are molded specifically for penis like yours. Good luck.	/r/seduction	01/07/16 03:05 AM
1	Did I get hit on? I think I got hit on. Why the fuck not? Just don't go in with the line you mentioned. It would be funny if you came back 10 minutes later, but going in the next day to say it is weird. Be more direct, assume attraction, and ask her out.	/r/seduction	15/06/16 04:50 AM
1	Cold approaching in a library Of course you can go with the sole purpose of practicing daygame. But to sit down next to girls (who are most likely there to study) and try to initiate conversation with them can easily come off as awkward and creepy. The library is a good place to indirectly meet girls. You go there to study and happen to sit next to a cute girl who you just have to meet. The fact that you are there to study (and not just pick up girls) greatly helps girls put their guard down, as I'm sure they are also open t…	/r/seduction	14/06/16 01:31 AM
1	Cold approaching in a library Here's my favorite way to approach interact with girls at the library. A couple assumptions first: one, I assume you are going to the library to study. Sure, there are cute girls and opportunities everywhere on campus, but your studies come first. Two, I assume your library has a main room where strangers have the opportunity to sit and study next to one another. I crossed out "approach" above because cold approaching girls at the library is difficult. It's definitely doable, but I like to use a…	/r/seduction	13/06/16 06:22 PM
1	Restarting a texting conversation with a hot and cold girl Seems like loss of interest, though it is hard to tell without more detail on your interactions. Since you asked for how to restart the conversation through text, why not just ask her out on a date? You can easily figure out where she stands by her reply (or lack thereof). If she continues to ghost you, just move on.	/r/seduction	04/05/16 10:44 PM
2	Need advice on next step "Hey _________ . I had a great time at the game last Friday. I'm going to _________ on _______ . Come with me, it'll be a lot of fun." Don't overthink these things. Just set up another date.	/r/seduction	21/04/16 05:37 PM
2	How do you handle a woman who wants slow down on having sex frequently due to feelings/commitment? This is one of those things you have to learn to accept. As long as you expressed to her that you do not want to be in a relationship, but still enjoy casual sex with her, then what else can you do? Hopefully you have not put all your eggs in one basket, and can go casually pursue and fuck other women while this woman figures herself out.	/r/seduction	21/04/16 05:34 PM
6	4 ways you can be better at sex right away... This guy fucks.	/r/seduction	03/04/16 09:31 PM
2	[FR] Bloopers reel, part 1 Great writing, I like your style. Now that you've reflected on the situation, do you remember what exactly her nonverbal cues were? I think it'll be helpful to point them out.	/r/seduction	30/03/16 06:21 AM
2	Lost a plate but kept frame. I think you incorrectly posted this here instead of your personal diary. Also, do yourself a favor and stop referring to women as "plates", and saying shit like "promote her". You sound like a red-pill imbecile.	/r/seduction	27/03/16 09:29 PM
3	Should I just straight up ask this girl for sex? Just another attention-seeking thot. I would figuratively (or literally) put my dick on her table (i.e make it clear to her you are down to have sex), and then move on to the next one.	/r/seduction	27/03/16 06:16 PM
5	Should I just straight up ask this girl for sex? In this day and age consent is a very big deal, especially in college. There are dire consequences for men who pursue sex without explicit consent. Though I agree with everyone in that OP missed quite an opportunity, it is foolish to say that he should not even explicitly ask for consent. To show sexual interest is a more risky technique, and usually requires more comfort with the woman and her intentions. OP met this chick only a week ago, and though she was very forward, he still could not kno…	/r/seduction	26/03/16 02:02 AM
3	[FR] Is this seat taken? I should have emphasized the smirk and wink. You're right in that the statement could be seen as blaming her, but I intended it to be said in a playful and lighthearted manner that would encourage her to come out of her shell more when talking with attractive strangers.	/r/seduction	25/03/16 03:37 AM
8	[FR] Is this seat taken? Thanks for sharing. One thing though: In my opinion, you didn't quite leave with as much "social grace" as you could have. The way you excused yourself was parallel to the way a computer program responds when you give it the wrong input. Sometimes that is fine; you are a busy man with no time for girls you are not compatible with. But I believe to truly leave with grace in this situation (that is, with a girl who is nervous/inexperienced), you would leave her with something to boost her confiden…	/r/seduction	24/03/16 05:44 PM
234	[FR] Zero kino to sex? Yeah, I was surprised too. I'm hard.	/r/seduction	23/03/16 06:44 AM
2	Do looks really matter? You are reaffirming an established pillar in seduction--that bettering your physical appearance will improve your game--but your reasoning is contradictory. In your first example, you say you went home with two women you met at a bar even though you looked like a scrub. It is as if you are trying to say here looks don't matter. More specifically, your shoes don't matter (we know nothing about your physical appearance, what kind of shape you're in, or your conversational skills). Your second exam…	/r/seduction	23/03/16 04:59 AM
2	I'm smoking with a female friend of mine tomorrow. How can I escalate things? Escalating with a friend is very different then escalating with girl you are on a date with or who you just met. You've been platonic for a while (with some light flirting, like you mentioned) but basically you've sucked out any room for strong sexual tension to linger. That's why it feels awkward to escalate now. In my opinion, your best bet is to be very direct with her. Don't be subtle. Find a nice break in conversation, look her directly in the eyes, and say "you know, I've always wondered w…	/r/seduction	17/03/16 05:07 AM
1	Is this oneitis or something different? I would constantly be trying to win over her affection when it still belonged to someone who doesn't exist in her life anymore With that clarification, I agree with your decision wholeheartedly. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, my man. Best of luck with everything.	/r/seduction	25/02/16 07:34 PM
3	Is this oneitis or something different? Why is it in these situations that we always leave it up to the girl to "come around"? Why not, if after some time has passed and you still feel strongly about her, would you not admit your feelings to yourself--and more importantly, admit your feelings to her? I know why. It feels weird. It feels socially awkward. So much time has passed, it would be weird to just hit her up and tell her I still feel strongly about her. She probably moved on and found someone else. Maybe she did, dude, maybe sh…	/r/seduction	25/02/16 06:49 PM
2	Girls assume I'm a player but... Well, let me clarify: A girl can call you a player with two different connotations 1) A playful, "you're such a player, huh?" said with a smirk and hint of flirtation. This is this case where it is a compliment. 2) An obvious "Ew you're a player, get away" that causes the interaction to die pretty quickly. Either way, your comment was about as useful as a poopy-flavored lollipop.	/r/seduction	13/02/16 06:25 AM
1	Girls assume I'm a player but... Why do you care what these old girls think of you?	/r/seduction	13/02/16 06:20 AM
6	Girls assume I'm a player but... Why are you sabotaging yourself? Girls assuming you are a player is, at its core, a compliment. It means you attractive, and initially show good conversation skills and create a fun vibe. You are demonstrating desirable qualities in a guy and girls assume you act on those qualities. So act on them. I had similar issues to you. I was essentially dealing with an inferiority complex. And more so, I was scared to really unleash the potential game I had because I was not confident enough in the bedro…	/r/seduction	11/02/16 10:22 PM
1	Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind? My pleasure. But I guess I was a little confused on your motives with this girl. You just want to have her as a friend? Like, a platonic friend? If that's so, then I'd say there is little chance of that happening. Sex and romantic acts have already entered the mix. If you found yourselves sexually compatible, then you are probably going to think about sex a lot of times when you are with her. The reason you can't get her off your mind is that the sex is good AND she is a cool person. That's a go…	/r/seduction	03/02/16 04:16 AM
1	Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind? Thanks for taking the time to write that out. In my opinion, you did nothing wrong in this situation. Firstly, why should you not agree to go to her place, if that is what you want to do? I would even say when the relationship is still at the hook-up stage, it is more customary for the man to come over (since a woman is more comfortable in her own space and the man takes care of transportation). Secondly, your brief lack of motivation is normal (given that it is only brief, and that you do not f…	/r/seduction	02/02/16 06:27 PM
1	Overwhelmed with dates, yet I can't get the first girl off my mind? Congratulations, you are experiencing emotional attraction. Not only are you physically attracted to her, but you like who she is as a person; your interests and values align and you simply enjoy being around her. It'd be nice to have some more details about what kind of relationship you had. And what was the reason you stopped seeing each other, if you know?	/r/seduction	02/02/16 06:35 AM
7	Went to a party last night, but had no idea how to approach 1 on 1. I feel you man. The party is crackin. Everyone is vibing. You and your boys hit the dance floor and you start getting down. You've spotted a group of girls, and in particular a girl you would love to get down with. If the girls and guys haven't really intermingled yet, i.e no one is grinding, then you've reached one of the most potentially challenging party situations (aside from playing me and my friend Gregg in beer pong). How do you go dance with Jenny when she is surrounded by all her friend…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 03:04 AM
2	[FR]First FR and first K close! Cute Jewish girl from tinder. Hindsight is 20/20, my man. You say you are inexperienced. Well, this is how you gain experience. Do not fret because you could have done better. When you are on the actual date, you should be doing everything naturally. You should be acting on what you feel and what you sense from the current situation. It seems like that is what you did, so good job. Now that the date is over, you may sit down and analyze what happened, where you could improve, and then let those thoughts mend into your nature…	/r/seduction	30/01/16 08:37 PM
2	[FR] Failure to Launch Who are we, as random internet people, to read OP's post and assume we know exactly what his problem was? Perhaps I should have worded it better in my post, but my goal was simply to offer one possible explanation to his problem based off of my own experience. Erectile problems are very complex because they are comprised of both physiological and emotional factors. You are right to point to the fact that there was no chemistry, but it is wrong to completely disregard the physiological aspect of …	/r/seduction	30/01/16 06:59 PM
2	[FR] Failure to Launch It happens to the best of us. It's okay to feel like shit, but realize that it is kind of irrational to do so. You may think the reason was due to lack of emotional connection, but from my experience, I don't think that was the cause. It was the fact that you had sex the night before. Imagine going to the gym and doing an intense bicep workout. Then the next day, when your muscles are sore, you attempt to do the same intense workout. This is similar to what you're doing to your dick. The tissue …	/r/seduction	30/01/16 04:10 AM
1	How do you balance hanging with multiple girls? Just make a rotation: one girl for each day of the week, with two rest days. But in all seriousness, it all comes down to two things: 1) What do you want? 2) Communication. If you are currently happy with your little harem, then you need to learn to balance them all and focus on point two - communication. By communication, I don't mean constantly texting them. I mean let them know your expectations of the relationship and make it clear you may be seeing other girls. Some girls are down for this,…	/r/seduction	18/01/16 12:34 AM
3	Met an amazing girl, went on date, had great sex, then she lost interest. Seeking Advice! The golden rule I tell every man I know is this: Women are fickle. Don't ever forget it. As for your situation: as long as you portrayed yourself the way you wanted to portray, said the things you wanted to say, and did the things you wanted to do, then you should not be sad. You and this woman wanted different things. It was not meant to be. Do not think that you have to be cold and aloof for the rest of your life. Never. This woman awakened an emotional fire in you and you simply flamed it, do…	/r/seduction	15/01/16 01:31 AM
2	Bed Bath & what do I do now? Go back. Buy some male grooming product. When she rings you up, tell her it's to get you ready for the date you two are going to go on. There's also nothing wrong with just going back and asking her out.	/r/seduction	14/01/16 06:45 AM
1	How do you escalate with a friend that you've had for many years? First of all, be weary that if you do attempt to escalate your relationship, you run the risk of losing your friendship. If you guys are close friends, then there should be no shortage of moments where it is just you two together. Studying, grabbing food, whatever. Pick a moment when you are hanging out together, and just tell her how you feel. Be direct. "Listen, I'm actually really attracted to you. I'd love to make our relationship something more." And gauge her response. Honestly, if she fee…	/r/seduction	29/12/15 05:47 AM
2	How to handle a rude 10? Didn't mean to come off as unfriendly. I even threw you an upvote after I submitted my comment! :] Your comment reminds me of my childhood days watching Hey Arnold!. Helga constantly berated Arnold for having a "football head", but secretly, she wanted that D.	/r/seduction	29/12/15 03:30 AM
3	How to handle a rude 10? Imagine you wear a bitchin' mustache, say like this. You've been growing out that bad boy for years and you love it like you would a little brother. Now, you're on a date with a beautiful woman. Initially she makes a comment on it. You know, playfully touching your thigh while asking you why you picked up some roadkill and put it on your upper lip. A little off-put, but no worries. You shrug it off. But throughout the entire date, she continues to throw jabs at your furry little bro. Like, you a…	/r/seduction	29/12/15 03:02 AM
6	Coffee "catch up" Well, what really matters here is how have you changed in those two in a half years? I think positive change is the most attractive thing when you are crossing paths again with someone from your past. Are you in better shape physically? Have you gotten a new, better looking hairstyle? Has your style become more fitting and fashionable? Are you improving in your career? Are you developing new hobbies or interests? Have you had some crazy life experiences you would love to share? If you have consi…	/r/seduction	29/12/15 12:07 AM
1	Can women be sexually interested in a guy they can also relate a lot to? (can I be a sexual partner when they see me as a "girlfriend" in a male body?) Ah, then I misinterpreted your question. The way you wrote it, I thought you wanted to build sexual compatibility before an emotional connection (which is a perfectly fine approach when looking for a long-term relationship with someone). Your question--which I am interpreting as "How can I get sex to lead to an emotional connection?"-- is a hard one to answer. I don't think I can answer it fully, but I'll give it my best shot: I like to think of a long-term relationship being built on a foundati…	/r/seduction	27/12/15 06:15 PM
3	She says "I never know what to say to you"? I've gotten things along those lines. Specifically, "Don't look at me like that. You make me nervous". In a playful, complimentary way like you describe. If you had a good time, then there are a lot of joyful emotions flowing around during pillow talk. You know, post-orgasm emotions. In my experience this lends to pillow talk that orbits around sex, relationships, past loves, or passions. If these girls you mention are just FWBs, then they are probably just timid about opening up, or asking abou…	/r/seduction	27/12/15 04:58 AM
0	Can women be sexually interested in a guy they can also relate a lot to? (can I be a sexual partner when they see me as a "girlfriend" in a male body?) Did you even read what I wrote? That's exactly what I am implying. Have sex for the sex. Engaging conversation + no sex = friendship Engaging conversation + bad sex = awkward friendship/ shitty relationship Engaging conversation + good sex = good potential relationship	/r/seduction	25/12/15 06:12 PM
1	Can women be sexually interested in a guy they can also relate a lot to? (can I be a sexual partner when they see me as a "girlfriend" in a male body?) I'm continuing this argument solely to show that most of you imbeciles like to give advice without fully reading the original post. Where? I saw this BUT at the same time I hardly ever get laid... And when I do, it seems these girls can't continue viewing me as a sexual partner and much rather have the mental/emotional connection instead... Seems like having more sex is part one of the dilemma. Again, where? The post ends with this: Can I continue having great conversations and relating to them,…	/r/seduction	25/12/15 06:08 PM
2	Can women be sexually interested in a guy they can also relate a lot to? (can I be a sexual partner when they see me as a "girlfriend" in a male body?) Disregarding the weird Pavlovian mindset you are offering, your advice is still poor for two reasons: Going for sex initially seems to be OP's issue at hand. To just say "go for the sex first" does not help, since that is exactly what he does not know how to do effectively. Why would you want a woman to have sex with you solely for the purpose of having a deep conversation afterwards? I don't know about you, but I like to have great sex with beautiful women for....great sex. Pillow talk is not t…	/r/seduction	25/12/15 04:19 AM
1	On texting Glad I could help. Honestly, the idea came to me right after I read his post. I've probably read every notable texting guide on Seddit. They essentially boil down to the two points I gave in my post above. Many just get into the advanced techniques. I'd recommend taking the time to go through those guides and digesting the techniques that really click with you. I'll leave the searching up to you, it's all part of being a student. Once you read the theory and really understand it, it becomes easy…	/r/seduction	21/12/15 06:55 PM
4	Alright seddit, what's the next step? First off, do yourself a favour and stop calling women "targets". Once you start playing the game with women as human beings and not walking sleeping bags for your dick, then you might start understanding their actions and reactions. As far as platinum blonde goes: You both just met each other. Spark of attraction. But that's it for now. There are some defences you must hurdle before she even considers hooking-up with you. Your best bet is to have some conversation over Facebook, prove to her yo…	/r/seduction	21/12/15 05:55 AM
3	On texting I like to think of texting as serving two main purposes for your game: 1) To set up in-person dates 2) To build sexual tension and fan the flame of interest through banter and sexual innuendo Now usually I would say to set up that date right off the bat. But I sense that you want to maintain some level of interest in your absence (and I would do the same if I were in your shoes). So here's what I would do: Instead of the quick and easy "Let's meet at X place on Y day", use the whole scenario to …	/r/seduction	21/12/15 05:34 AM
4	How to get what you want out of Tinder, Keeping the Conversation Going [2/3] It's not over thought. It's analytical. Maybe more analytical than you need, but there is some very good insight here that was clearly refined and well-presented in this post. It should only have grace and appreciation coming its way. Some people will read your advice and get stuck at point 1. Well, how exactly do I say something clever? How do I properly add banter? Not only did OP explain a very good point (that you need banter and substance) but he even provided examples. This is gold for guy…	/r/seduction	14/12/15 06:28 AM
7	Common Knowledge from a Different Perspective This is a great post, Ace. Thanks for the wisdom.	/r/seduction	14/12/15 05:46 AM
3	My game winning answer to the question of "What are we? What do you want out of this relationship?" There is no one best answer to that question. It all depends on what state of congruence you two are in. 1: You both are interested purely in sex. That question most likely won't even arise in this case 2: She wants more but you are unsure. This is where your lines come into play. You are basically beating around the bush in a seductive way. It's not the best thing to do, but if you are unsure where you want to be with a girl this is how you give yourself time. 3: You want more but she doesn't/i…	/r/seduction	10/12/15 08:13 PM
1	Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.? OP, this is the answer you're looking for.	/r/seduction	09/12/15 07:12 AM
13	I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls. A pat-on-the-back post like this is good and all, but why not go the extra mile and say something that all the short, Chinese guys out there can really grasp. All those boys and men who have delved into seduction deep enough should be aware of the disadvantages they face; They know they are playing in insane mode. A lot of them struggle when they read "Get your asses working!" and "Go slay that shit!". Not so much the external stuff: working out, working on fashion sense, working in career. They…	/r/seduction	08/12/15 06:29 PM
5	"I believe in a yolo lifestyle..." I can't tell if this post is a joke or not...	/r/seduction	07/12/15 01:15 AM
1	Shoud I go for it? Need you guys opinions Ah, this classic dilemma. I am currently in the aftermath of turning a platonic relationship into a sexual one, so I'll give you my two cents. Becoming sexual with a close friend pretty much goes one of two ways (given that you are sexually compatible): 1) You both develop feelings for each other, and decide to enter a relationship. Being friends and then being sexually compatible is a very naturally way for a good relationship to develop. 2) One of you develops feelings, while the other one doe…	/r/seduction	07/12/15 12:27 AM
24	"We should stop hanging out because you'll break my heart. Bye" What she is doing is a common defence mechanism for girls who've had issues with commitment, attachment, or just shitty relationships. Regardless, if you really like this girl, it's time to put your feelings out in the open. Make it clear that you have developed some feelings for her, and that she means more than she think she does. Don't be vague with statements like "let's work this out". You have to send a very strong, direct text (because you know she's at least going to read it). If after y…	/r/seduction	06/12/15 11:39 PM
1	Small talk at college tips? Don't engage in small talk at parties. You want to have fun talk. Interesting talk. Memorable talk. As a preface: this is a difficult thing to do for many guys. But having engaging, unconventional conversations is a fundamental aspect of Game. It's something you really need to think about and practice to get good. And that's why you're here. So why avoid small talk at parties? Well, it's a party. Even more so, a college party. Why do you go to parties? Perhaps you want to unwind, drink a bit wit…	/r/seduction	06/12/15 08:07 PM
2	Do you guys think this is a good reply for a late response from a girl? With that response, you yourself are confirming exactly what you want to avoid: bothering her. Take a step back and remember the role texting plays in seduction. It is a medium to set-up dates, with a little bit of flirtatious innuendo thrown in to keep it interesting. Long gaps between responses are harder to gauge then short and blunt replies. Most girls typically respond late because they are busy (in your case, she is probably busy with sports and school). She probably has multiple guys blow…	/r/seduction	27/11/15 05:28 AM
1	Meeting up with the EX again. Need advice This is a question for /r/relationships	/r/seduction	29/10/15 10:50 PM
1	Stop Worrying That Everyone's Having More Sex Than You I wholeheartedly agree. I just don't see how this article helps in destroying that self-limiting belief. If I am someone who doesn't believe in myself, how will reading that most people have a sex life like mine or that 1 out of 5 people don't get laid at all motivate me to improve? If I am average, then this article simply affirms that I am average. It even dangerously suggests that i should be okay with being average. Mark Manson has written a great article here that defends being average. It …	/r/seduction	12/08/15 11:08 PM
4	[FR] Too many FRs get posted WITHOUT the content that is the most important. Latin Night this past Sunday. Bravo. I actually learned from this. Could you elaborate on "know how to handle compliments"?	/r/seduction	11/08/15 10:57 PM
2	Stop Worrying That Everyone's Having More Sex Than You This discussion is missing the more important point. Yes, self-perception is skewed and most people are having less sex than you think. But the question is, do those people want to be having more sex? I would venture to say yes, yes they do. Having more sex is an integral part of this subredit, after all. Isn't it? For those of us who are actively trying to improve the quantity and quality of our sex lives, articles like this don't do much. It's like having a goal to get in better shape, and hav…	/r/seduction	11/08/15 10:34 PM
1	I approach 3 to 5 girls every day. Here is my secret. This.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 05:24 PM
1	Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives You A fucking diamond post in the rough that is contemporary Seddit.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 05:03 PM
1	Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no game I would say that Chemistry is like a soup made up of ingredients like Confidence and Comfort, all that flow through a broth of Similar Interests. I agree that confidence is key to build that attraction, but it's quite underlying. He still needs to have that topic of conversation (music) that will keep her interest, and his confidence will flow through that conversation. You need something to be confident about. In this case, I believe he came off as confident because he spoke of his taste of mus…	/r/seduction	26/07/15 09:54 PM
1	Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no game You are right; I was just putting a sprinkle of hyperbole to illustrate directness. At this point I always aim to be more direct than be too timid. Most girls still expect guys to initiate, and will think you are not interested if you show no intent.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 09:43 PM
67	Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no game Let's analyze this instance a bit. First, notice how the two were sitting: directly in front of each other, with plenty of opportunity to make good eye contact. Now I've had plenty of moments making eye contact with attractive girls on public transportation, but the way I was situated totally prevented me from initiating conversation (walking across the bus through a bunch of people and standing in front of a stranger to talk to them isn't exactly "smooth" ). So note how important the set up was…	/r/seduction	22/07/15 08:30 PM
15	My party experience consciously using Kino: what I learned that works and what I learned I need to work on. "Fuck I'm not dressed to theme. Might as well wear nothing." Haha great report!	/r/seduction	09/05/15 01:47 AM
39	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself It's a number's game if you are desperate. This really hit home for me. I was starting to think that it really was a numbers game, but you are totally right. Thank you for this amazing insight.	/r/seduction	09/04/15 08:45 PM
15	Can we make a checklist of things to keep in mind right before going out? Here's what I tell myself before I go out: Get out of your head. You're going out to have a good time. Talk to women; If you're attracted to them, show intention and escalate. Now go get drunk(optional) and have fun. Don't try to remind yourself of seduction theory before the door. Be natural. When you're talking to some girl, don't think "okay, I have been talking for 3.4 seconds, time to initiate early kino". Touch her because you want to feel her skin and show interest. To truly not give a fu…	/r/seduction	05/09/14 04:55 AM
2	Interesting Lifestyle, Boring Person I think you just don't understand your personality. You seem introverted, quiet, and introspective. This is what very loud and outgoing people label "boring", but is not. It is simply different. First, if you agree that your personality is such as I described, then you need to accept yourself. Understand that your strengths lie in deep mindfulness, preparation, and creativity. You are reliable, responsible, and insightful. Don't think you need to be that yelling drunk bro at the party to get the…	/r/seduction	02/09/14 05:44 AM