SWIM270 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with her No shit. I only read the title.	/r/seduction	30/10/25 02:24 AM
-4	Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s) Do you realize that the probability that she has an STI/STD increases with age? I mean, you’re just begging for it. Have you thought about how a promiscuous 45 year old woman who was objectively ugly, even 20 years ago, had more wild crazy freaky kinky sexual experiences than you will ever see in your entire life? Don’t touch me, old lady.	/r/seduction	20/09/25 03:23 AM
1	from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman? Its either 1 or 10. You didn’t define the ends of the spectrum.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 02:06 AM
1	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy I hade a 20 yo FWB when I was 34. I was not absolutely jacked/shredded. I wasn’t out of shape either. I did live only a few miles away from her so it was convenient. She was just DTF and I’m good at being a friend who can F. And I have a hitachi wand. TL/DR she was horny, I was convenient and not unattractive.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 11:59 PM
3	How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex. It’s funny how they try to define masculinity.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 03:37 PM
8	Wake up call. Your wife can cheat on you, even if she is not a cheater. Women want chaos and drama.	/r/seduction	11/06/25 02:42 PM
5	What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use? If you had that one REALLY punchy line that grabs her attention, alludes to everything she wants, and teases her mind in five words or less, you wouldn’t just blast that out there on the internet would you, Champ?	/r/seduction	21/05/25 05:36 AM
12	What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use? Online dating IRL!	/r/seduction	21/05/25 05:28 AM
1	Do you guys consider talking to girls in sports club gatherings or activity club settings social circle or cold approach? How are human beings asking this	/r/seduction	11/05/25 01:40 AM
1	How do you get the ACTUAL 10s? The girls are very good at taking photos.	/r/seduction	11/05/25 01:36 AM
1	Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting? Yes	/r/seduction	11/05/25 01:29 AM
2	4 small grooming tips that helped my dating game Then just forget the eye drops	/r/seduction	06/05/25 04:05 AM
1	The Game or The Models? Woops	/r/seduction	02/05/25 03:46 AM
-1	Any young guys sometimes attracted to older women? Probability of having an STD increases with age. Look at the stats.	/r/seduction	02/05/25 12:57 AM
1	Went out to try a cold approach Walking down the sidewalk is a social event	/r/seduction	26/04/25 02:07 PM
1	How do you guys keep going? Doesn’t sound like you’re okay with being alone. That’s something to explore. Again, your relationship with yourself is the most important in the whole world. It’s a matter of self acceptance, brother.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 06:47 PM
2	How do you guys keep going? Your relationship with yourself is more important than with anyone else in the world. It is a matter of self acceptance. You shouldn’t try to control the situation to get the result that you want. Focus on self-expression for no other reason than because you owe that to yourself! You have to welcome rejection. The only way to have relationships with the right people, friendly or romantic, is to get rejected by the wrong ones or to reject them. So stop putting a negative label on rejection!!! It’…	/r/seduction	15/11/24 06:05 PM
28	How do you guys keep going? DO NOT attach your self worth to the results.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 03:40 PM
1	Quick story Yes. Not joking.	/r/seduction	03/11/24 09:50 PM
2	Quick story She’s probably a lot more attracted to you now	/r/seduction	03/11/24 09:26 PM
5	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? What’s your height and weight? Tia	/r/seduction	02/11/24 05:33 AM
15	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? Reddit is where you go to diagnose a problem with your car. Nothing else.	/r/seduction	02/11/24 05:30 AM
3	6 Dates In: A Humbling Experience SELF AMUSEMENT AND AUTHENTICITY: YOU NEED TO BE LAUGHING. A LOT. On dates You need to express yourself, brother. When you get this, dating starts to get really fun. Anxiety transforms into excitement. You start getting rejected by the right people. You even welcome rejection. Imagine that, my friend!	/r/seduction	26/10/24 11:04 AM
1	How to follow up after getting girls insta on a nightout? If you’re willing to let her go, then she will reach for youuu but you can’t fake it. I repeat: you can’t fake it.	/r/seduction	29/07/24 05:27 AM
16	Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere? You need to close sooner. Tell her when and where. Ya gotta be da boss	/r/seduction	29/07/24 05:05 AM
1	Saw this cute girl and talked to her. Why wouldn’t ANYONE be worth talking to?	/r/seduction	13/07/24 08:25 AM
2	there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyone Do you feel that your self-worth is linked to your success with women?	/r/seduction	12/06/24 03:46 PM
1	Horny in periods? My ex gf used to turn into a fucking animal on her period it was crazy I swear.	/r/seduction	10/06/24 01:16 AM
1	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? If he comes on too strong too fast, that says something. You trust him a lot! I’d bet he’s a catch. 🎣	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:39 AM
6	Best cold approach openers This is the most Reddity sack of garbage I’ve ever seen.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 01:42 AM
8	How many guys here actually approach? I approached a giant bachelorette party one time. There was at least two dozen girls. They were all sitting in a circle around a campfire in beach chairs. I got all of their attention for a few seconds, but I couldn’t hold it. And it was so much pressure that I had to dip out. As I was walking away I heard them laughing behind me and one girl shouted “AT LEAST HE HAD THE BALLS HAHA” I felt really great after approaching them, actually. And then I met one of my buddies at a very popular beach bar…	/r/seduction	07/05/24 07:30 AM
1	Help! How to move the frame to where she wants to impress me? Listen carefully: You have to be ready to walk away.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 05:09 AM
6	Is this common among guys? I made this happen a few times last year but I live on the beach. I don’t have a perfect physique but I’m fairly toned.. most would probably call me skinny. I had one girl fly from Chicago (1,000 miles), two drove to me from Georgia. All of this was on their dime. And my ex girlfriend who I haven’t seen in three years drove 6 hours. Those were four AWESOME weekends. Long range dating works. You just have to put the time into building the attraction and rapport. It helps to live in a place that g…	/r/seduction	07/04/24 08:44 PM
1	How do some people naturally know how to game? Respectfully, I do not concur. 1) What prevents an expert Minecraft player from smashing hot babes on the daily? 2). What does the term “ick” mean to you?	/r/seduction	07/03/24 02:46 AM
1	How do some people naturally know how to game? Natural’s don’t hide who they are. Everyone is capable of this. You should try!	/r/seduction	06/03/24 10:14 PM
-1	How exactly can you maneuver dating in the workplace? When you say “a lot of people”, how many is that?	/r/seduction	05/03/24 07:32 AM
34	3 dates in - how to move forward? “The ball is in your court” This is butthurt verbal vomit that doesn’t accomplish anything	/r/seduction	05/03/24 06:42 AM
2	How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well? There has to be sexual chemistry. I don’t need to know her grandmother’s cat’s name to feel a real, romantic connection with her. IYKYK	/r/seduction	03/03/24 11:57 PM
7	Read models It is a great book. Really.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 08:38 PM
3	How to work on your 'vibe' and make it better? You need to understand that is possible to change this instantly. You need to understand that you communicate what you think and believe without speaking. This will probably sound like mysterious “woo woo” hocus pocus garbage to you. It is not. Change your view of the world and then your vibe will change. Our state of mind transfers to other people.	/r/seduction	01/03/24 02:44 AM
17	My advice on how to seduce a women after receiving a bunch of messages asking. Cringe	/r/seduction	27/02/24 05:25 PM
24	I am pretty sure I just fumbled an easy lay Authenticity = openness to rejection	/r/seduction	06/02/24 05:47 AM
16	Do you want to go back to my place? It’s not bad, but quite gamey.. It’s good because it addresses the most common and instinctual objection from girls… which is…. Drumroll….. “You’re not going to murder me are you?” You’re literally handling that objection before it arises.. I like to apply the same idea with something a bit more simple like: “Look you can come over but you have to behave yourself okay? No monkey business” “Okay” You can double down and say: “Please don’t rob me. I’m trusting you” All of this comes from a playful…	/r/seduction	30/01/24 04:18 PM