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| 28 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!I’m into analog photography. The amount of photography that passes as ‘art’ on instragram is really just gratuitous and vulgar (of women, generally in bed, if not very provocatively dressed) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 17 | Food for thought today!Yes! I really love to urban sketch and I go on photo-walks every so often. Both area pretty time-intensive hobbies and things that I absolutely love to do. Unfortunately, I rarely have time in my private life to do this sort of thing but I always find a way to do it. A sign that my relationship was going to shit was that I had stopped drawing and going on photo-walks bc my bf didn't want to chill around for so long while I concentrated on other things. I'm very happy your boyfriend is so quietly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Pickmeishas are never good friendsA 'friend' of mine likes to devalue me when we're at a party chatting to some old school-friends. There's always that random comment 'Oh right you went shopping the other day and got that new blouse' or 'you could have cut a little less of your hair'. like what does that accomplish? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 11 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”honestly, Saying that she's immature and you're the same age is implying that you are mature at the same age. Classic negging - tricking you into thinking 'you're special'. If a compliment comes at the expense of an ex girlfriend of his, chances are that man's not a keeper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 82 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨My ex texted me a happy birthday a week ago. Ignored both that and the Christmas message... I felt a little rude for a second then I saw this post haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 30 | Don’t text firstYeah and I have a busy life. And even if I’m not doing anything ‘tomorrow’ I’m still declining that invitation. No way I’m doing something that lazily planned ahead tbh. If a guy is the equivalent of Netflix, then I don’t need to make room for him — uni and work is the priority. It’ll be there when I choose to watch something. Maybe that’s arrogant, but it’s working I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 68 | Don’t text firstHaha the moment I stopped texting first, I began receiving a lot of guy-interest. Curious how ignoring someone makes them want you all the more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 29 | Scrotes be like: Don’t come back when you hit the wall 😏🤪 Asian Grannies: bitch where is the wall?Doesn’t fleabag also make a point to say that the menopause phase is shit but everything after is like a rebirth in life ? I liked the sentiment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:16 PM |
| 12 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?I’m an architect and i always found this confusing. A higher percentage of architecture students are female, depending on the nature of the university of course (technical vs normal) and women have no less good perception of space. I know that this post is kind of alluding to porn, but I’ve also heard it said about women that we can’t Perceive space as a 3D form because we can’t think in abstraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 5 | I think I found a redpiller in the wildSame here. I get asked a lot about politics too. Like I know this person a few hours and he’s already asking me personal questions?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.I asked this of a guy a while back and he answered in two parts: 1. I was honest (which I am) and 2. I had helped him get over some emotional shit (which I didn’t actively do). Both I realised were serving him. Honest because his ex had cheated on him and by being very honest with him, I realised I had lost some ambiguity. Broke up with him that same night (err, I had already planned to do so, but that answer sealed the deal) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 106 | Do they really like women?Oh well get ready for this. Boys from noble or wealthy families would get a ‘tutor’ who’d educate them in politics, the arts, poetry etc., and sex. They’d practice paedophilic relationships to ‘teach boys about their bodies’. Learned that in Ancient Greek class years ago and I’ve forgotten most of the grammar but that tidbit of knowledge is forever seared into my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingThis is amazing ! Doing this as soon as I get my job interviews out of the way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...My ex was a LVM (in hindsight) although during the relationship he did everything right. Up until the last month of the relationship when I finally noped out. In any case, he was romantic. In the 50’s romcom kinda way. But that was while he still thought he could get something out of me, and while we were still in the ‘honeymoon’ phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Qualities I look for in a manMy dog barks at policemen and anyone else in uniform. You might see why this often puts me in uncomfortable situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 7 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Oh this! I’ve never been the kind to wear dresses or skirts. This summer has been really humid so I decided to invest in a few really cute sundresses that I thought had the perfect blend of elegance and style. Instantly I got my family (with whom I’m quarantining — why didn’t I stay at uni?!) giving me coy looks and saying things like ‘where’s the secret boyfriend’. Edit: in any case, I realised wearing slightly fancier clothes that I finally felt 100% confident being whoever the hell i wanted t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:43 AM |
| 9 | iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLsI did! Came second in the tournament actually ! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:50 AM |
| 15 | iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLsChess is dominated by men. I happen to love chess. In high school I ended up in a student organised chess tournament at my school. One of the most satisfying moments of my high school experience was sitting down with this guy to play and he takes out his phone and begins scrolling through Instagram. He’s really good, even while scrolling through social media. Then, about five minutes in, he puts the phone down and bemusedly looks down at the board, he’s showing the game his full attention now. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Oh wow I’ve never thought of this. But true. Even a movie I relatively like like ‘the invention of lying’ has a literal liar manage to get the girl of his dreams by lying though his dates. And he’s a below average kinda guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?When I was about 10 girls in school began shaving their legs. Me, having Spanish genetics, was quite dark-haired. An obese boy in my class during sports stared down at my legs and said ‘you’re hairy’ (his mother was actually a famous supermodel, go figure). I probably shouldn’t have said ‘you’re fat’ but instead of being a depressing encounter it actually never fails to bring a smile to my face whenever I remember it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 11 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperHmm interesting. I dated a German guy for about a year and we always split. Dated an Italian guy for about seven months and he always always insisted on paying. Turned out he wasn’t a hvm, just generally that was his mentality and education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Whoa that’s really short. I’m the sort of person who absolutely hates texting (Also really bad at it) and was upfront about this with the guys I was dating. We never texted except for agreeing when to meet up or to define when a phone call was taking place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:38 PM |
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