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Most people aren’t that desperate for sex No, regular means less than a year between partners
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:14 PM
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If sex is more important than relationships, we’re probably not going to be compatible Most unmarried men I know had a regular series of partners, so I am confident that most men do not prioritize sex over relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:34 PM
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Sure. The priority is still age and looks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:05 PM
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If you have to use reality tv to tell us what reality is..:…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:04 PM
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https://nationalpost.com/opinion/dataclysm-the-data-guru-for-a-popular-dating-site-explains-what-men-and-women-want-from-a-mate Porn is not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:51 PM
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It’s not talk, it’s the past Being celibate for years ain’t no thang if you have a meaningful or busy life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:35 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:29 PM
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Regularly unsexed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:21 PM
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Yes, they’re hot, rich and famous, or hoodlums You and the vast majority of men are not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:14 PM
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Not a man who can’t be regularly unsexed, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:56 PM
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Are you hot, rich or famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:55 PM
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I don’t make enough, and probably never will Alas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:33 PM
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Most men aren’t virgins nor incels Porn exists Therefore, regular use of escorts tells me that your priority is sex, and we are thus incompatible Edit: if you’re going to whine about sexlessness in public, I’m going to tell you to pay or shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:33 PM
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So? If something got men automatic pussy, they’d do it Because I’m told men would rather not put any effort into anything if they didn’t get a pussy reward
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:31 PM
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No, plenty of men claim they have interests other than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:30 PM
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Hmm, so such opinions are extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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Most of us don’t like dating cheaters Or having to be a grudging choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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That’s not proof I can link a video saying that my town mayor eats babies, and that’s not proof that they eat babies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:37 PM
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Not if it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:34 PM
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So none then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:34 PM
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Your assertion is false, so there’s no game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 PM
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87% Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:14 PM
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“But assholes and drug dealers get laid, and serial killers get fangirls, Dark Triad, blah blah blah”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:08 PM
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Men know this, because they don’t abuse and hate women they’re attracted to in public If they truly believed this, they would, because pussy, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:06 PM
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I’m glad a man admits it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:04 PM
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Women don’t say that, especially feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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We’re told that men have no options so they have to take what gross, stale crumbs they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:50 PM
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Not the normal guys I date, as a normal woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:20 PM
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That’s not what the data says
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:16 PM
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That’s fine It’s not like some 20 year old is going to want his old ass either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:15 PM
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No, because men will fuck anything, and women will not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:10 PM
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Most of us don’t want a man who’s undecided on whether he wants us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 AM
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Most women like to be thought of as more than pussies And it’s not like men don’t also enjoy laws, housing, roads, medicine, education and protection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:06 AM
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Of course men know They’re always blaming their dicks and thirst for their behaviors and decisions How else would women know about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:24 AM
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We only hate them if we’re fighting over a man Which is a dumb thing to do in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:58 PM
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Give me my dream job please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:56 PM
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“Men have needs” “Boys will be boys” “Such a promising young man” “But you’ll ruin his life”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:31 PM
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Because it’s normal for us to not be as thirsty as men As you’re well aware Why don’t you whine to Mother Nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:27 PM
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No, no; people want to get scammed ! They seek them out !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:21 PM
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They all wouldn’t have fucked him if they thought that This is also why “are we dating the same guy” exists If women didn’t care, those sites wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:20 PM
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Because when people tell you who they are, you should believe them the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:14 PM
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Sometimes degree matters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:13 PM
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Next post by OP Women are a hive mind Or Women aren’t really scared of men, they’re just picky Or Makeup is unfair Or Ugly chicks cockblock men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:10 PM
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This again? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/6EgxZCG55b https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/2qfq4twcNA https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/pbhe6Bmtuh And it’s because men are hornier, as you’re well aware https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Oot0PglaBP https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/orIU1vVWrk https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/adTAtsxiqX https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/pACFA1zVKh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:01 PM
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Oh, please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:37 PM
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You think west elm Caleb told the 20 women that he was fucking all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:36 PM
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No, men say that stuff Women aren’t that crude and reductive about male desires. They try to make them seem romantic and meaningful Just like women are always wondering what men are thinking, and men keep saying “we’re not thinking about anything, sheesh! Also, we don’t talk to our bros about our lives, we just play video games” I appreciate male honesty, and women often refuse to heed them. It’s frankly annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:33 PM
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You think the jacked actors kicking ass in these massive global CGI superhero/Star Wars franchises are normal looking ? Broooooooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:54 PM
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Women don’t say belly full and balls empty as what they want out of a partner Men do Don’t you believe men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:49 PM
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The decade they are concerned with was a quarter century ago. Does he think male movie stars haven’t been attractive since 2000? “Are Hollywood actors disproportionately attractive?” Like, seriously?!?! Do they think these people are paid millions for their writing skills or upper management potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:33 PM
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It shouldn’t Because we already know why Women’s main value to men are as are things and servants that provide sex and service — “belly full and balls empty”, as men like to say Strong people don’t like to serve and be used, at least not without adequate compensation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:12 PM
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I am boring; so the former
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:11 PM
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Why the decade 1990-2000 only?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:11 PM
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Again; way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:10 PM
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Because men here always like to claim they made civilization for noble, selfless reasons, like it was some present they gave to women at great cost to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:09 PM
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Because his alts are banned. They don’t show up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:08 PM
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Dead giveaway is Vilar That, and all the woo woo conspiracy/anti vax stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:58 AM
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They want a protector, apparently If you’re poor and live in a shitty area, it’s not such a dumb reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:13 PM
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Civilization is the triumph of man over nature And yet man is a prisoner of himself Sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:11 PM
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Way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:09 PM
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They are compared to men Which is why men get married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:23 PM
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Gynocentrism is based in biology, not conservatism. It’s not conservatism that makes children vulnerable and men lustful And, luckily, we do not prioritize biology in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:20 PM
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“Well, the men don’t want to hear it. Even when women collectively say they don’t want to be approached, men still insist on approaching.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:38 PM
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I don’t believe they’re children I believe they’re immature adults
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:23 PM
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How can he be passive if he’s inviting snd talking to women? Your definition of passive is kinda incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:20 PM
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“The Jews are weak and inferior but at the same time enslave every one of us!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:15 PM
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Just because they want more than just sex doesn’t mean they don’t want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:14 PM
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A libido is not manipulation It’s inherent Even I don’t think men are lying about how horny they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:07 PM
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You should always check post history if someone confuses you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:07 PM
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You just said men won’t change Which is it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:05 PM
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Please do tell men they don’t have to pursue pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:04 PM
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If they want sex they do. So they do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:59 PM
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What’s bad about being gay, homophobe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:58 PM
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They do have to approach Because they want sex more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:55 PM
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It’s strange that men can build civilization but not dick control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:54 PM
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Oh well then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:53 PM
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Nope. Degree and amount count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:46 PM
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lol, there’s countless male traditional, red pill, conservative, porn, gamer, etc, content producers operating on every social media platform that exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:45 PM
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Women don’t want and aren’t encouraged to want sex as much as men No woman will say that sex is their motivation to work, socialize, educate themselves, contribute to society, live, etc, but plenty of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:35 PM
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Love is caring and fulfilling needs And caring and fulfilling needs looks like sex to men, and resources to women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:23 PM
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When men do it first, why shouldn’t we also ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:22 PM
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People who truly believe that magic works, or that humans are actually lizards, or that aliens built things for humans exist. Should we care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:17 PM
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Yup. That’s what the gender wage gap and wealth gap is Thank you for drawing attention to it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:13 PM
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No, we actually don’t have to care about an individual person who has no legal authority over anything saying anything if it isn’t encouraging illegal behavior. It’s better, in fact, if you don’t draw further attention to dumb people saying dumb things. It’s almost like you don’t understand how attention seeking and social media works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:05 PM
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Very good I am glad that you understand that most people regard sex/relationships differently from health care and basic necessities, and why we act as though people are not entitled to those things Even if you personally disagree with that philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:03 PM
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Yes, they are transactional Doesn’t mean they are transactionally coerced/obligatory/mandatory instead of transactionally voluntary The voluntary part is very important, otherwise it’s illegal, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:35 PM
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So? You’re still less attractive than attractive men so you have to have something different to compete with them This is like me complaining that I don’t have as many men thirsting over me as a 19 year old sponsored influencer. I should be treated the same as a model; it isn’t fair wah wah wah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:18 PM
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Hey Jax, understanding how choice works will make things clearer and less confusing to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:14 PM
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We don’t care if health care wants to provide itself We do care if your sex partners actually wants to fuck you It is telling that you don’t understand how sex and love work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:12 PM
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Thinking that women want a tiny minority of men kinda ruins more things than the red pill. Even they aren’t so crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:00 AM
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Because relationships, like sex, are voluntary, not mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:58 AM
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I know what the negatives are. I just don’t think they would bother me as much as they would bother most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:57 AM
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Correct; fear and respect are two different things, but they are similar, not contradictory No, I don’t care if men do whatever, as long as they don’t bother me And neither does society, which is why we pay people specifically to serve, protect, etc I know men have complaints about life, many valid. But they wouldn’t be such a big deal for me, personally, because I am willing to hire sex workers and interact platonically with women, have no nerdy interests, have no interest in kids, am not emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:42 AM
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If men will fuck anything, we don’t want to be “anything”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:40 AM
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That basically means “what if you could be anyone you wanted?” Oh, I’d like to be the hottest, richest, most talented, luckiest, most powerful and awesome person possible! What use is this question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:39 AM
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Pff, I’d love it if people feared and respected me more Most normal men I know are just that — productive, competent, and self sufficient. They don’t win awards, they don’t get trophies. And I’m good at that too. I don’t complain in real life, tell people how I feel, expect interest in my life and feelings, because I don’t like talking about that stuff Nobody cares, bro, unless you complain and bother other people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:34 AM
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Yes. Basing a comparison on things that don’t even exist is also rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:14 AM
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You said “relationships” Since nothing is legally required to dissolve a relationship (unlike a marriage), it seems unnecessarily legalized
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:05 AM
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“Contract” is a bit more weighty and obligatory than expectations, no? Why use that term in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:52 PM
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No, so why is it objectionable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:43 PM
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You use them as equivalent to justify your reasoning when they’re not So that is poor and illogical reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:43 PM
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Yes. And your comparison is rubbish Because robots are not beings That part is important
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:37 PM
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No, adults are responsible for their own behaviors Especially when a child is involved The mom is a cheater at best, a lying exploiter at worst. That’s enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:47 PM
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What happened to calling them “expectations”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:45 PM
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I would not, because people wouldn’t be telling me I need a person to financially support and protect me, and to have kids or else I’m selfish I’m productive and self sufficient, and I don’t have many emotions to express so I’m already good at being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:06 PM
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Women still do and sacrifice more to raise kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:05 PM
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Using a sex robot is not sex either then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:46 PM
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That does not equal biology or sentience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:44 PM
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Robots don’t have to have living tissue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:43 PM
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A sheep is alive A robot is not Thus, your comparison is rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:41 PM
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Those things are hard to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:39 PM
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It’s a human using an object to get off Which is exactly what a sex robot is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:38 PM
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Pigs are alive Robots are not Why are you equating living things with non living things to support your argument ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:37 PM
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I am not in favor of sexual socialism, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:31 PM
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But how can we assert that all women are bad if we can’t use women who have a rare fetish as representative of women?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:30 PM
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Yes, so why do you tell us to ban robots to support the humanity of women ? Since they are totally unrelated? Please explain the motivation/reasoning that you keep asserting, repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:29 PM
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You say fucking objects is unsupportive of female humanity, so you are equating them on some level
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:14 PM
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A good chunk of women are broken, just like men And we still do way more of the childcare and home management
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:32 AM
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If men are fucking robots, I fail to see how it’s inhumane to women and girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:30 AM
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Men wank to inanimate media more than they have sex with a living being. I don’t see how this is much different from fucking an object, in spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:10 AM
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I am not convinced that is at stake Because, you know, robots, not humans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:08 AM
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No, they need to just settle if they’re that desperate Beggars need to suplicate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:08 AM
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Not always
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:05 AM
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Culture is putting up a pretty good fight Especially because women still do most of the childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:04 AM
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Robots are not human
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:03 AM
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Sorry, I’m not a Luddite
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:36 AM
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We’re supposed to support men. Because men are providers/leaders/people of importance And also have babies Or were selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:36 AM
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Uh, maybe we should develop something before we ban it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:40 AM
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Because women are always told to suck it up and think of society/the men /the children And we’re not gonna anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:39 AM
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First wave feminism was concerned with laws and rights. Like voting Second wave discrimination and reproduction Third wave was about sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:36 PM
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The data says that liberal men don’t vote conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:33 PM
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That’s not what the data says
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:26 PM
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U got pubes on da brain Seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:18 PM
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It’s not. Where did I imply that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:17 PM
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This is all common sense but you’re gonna get people going “but — it didn’t work for me/lol ur Chad/Chad doesn’t have to”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:36 PM
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Now try doing it to an elderly stranger over the phone. Like tech support
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:29 PM
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So his scenario/strategy is totally unrealistic and he’s a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:28 PM
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Sure there is. Laws are not hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:51 PM
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You obviously have no interest in learning the truth, because teachers say that the thing that makes their job the hardest is shitty parents and shitty authorities that have no interest in defending teachers against shitty parents
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:47 PM
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Most of us do. Words have meanings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:42 PM
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Whining about people not liking you is annoying no matter who does it. Yes, even hot people You’re complaining to people about people; why wouldn’t they be taken aback ? I used to do it, and shouldn’t have. Then again, I was 19 and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:38 PM
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None, cuz we COmuNiCaTe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:35 PM
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Creepy or weird doesn’t equal immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:33 PM
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Yup. If you can type a Reddit comment, you can do a google search
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:32 PM
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Make sure to let everyone know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:50 PM
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If you wanted to, you would. But you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:49 PM
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Google exists I’ll even spoonfeed you, little helpless baby https://hechingerreport.org/an-unnoticed-result-of-the-decline-of-men-in-college-its-harder-for-women-to-get-in/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:39 PM
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Studying is icky and has girl cooties on it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:37 PM
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And those grapes are super sour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:37 PM
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And yet they still pass them on to the next grade, because public education
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:36 PM
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Everyone knows that obeying and studying is weak and for girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:36 PM
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It’s not at all. I’m not white and also female, and was told I would have to work twice as hard to get half as much. All through childhood Much like many minorities are And I did
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:33 PM
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Have you had a gander at his post history?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:31 PM
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It’s sad that you think school is only about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:31 PM
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If you need to be “entertained”, you should go to professionals. I don’t expect it of either myself or my partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:28 PM
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We’re not the ones saying the DoE should be disbanded, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:25 PM
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I don’t follow; why would we call them liberal when they vote conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:18 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html College is for motivated people. There’s no way around that one. We can’t force people to give a shit when they don’t It is not surprising that when we can no longer beat or abuse kids, more of them will choose to do….nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:14 PM
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That’s about tech, not wimmin. You do know that men did the majority of designing and creating the machines that replace them, yah? AI might make women obsolete too,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:06 PM
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That’s why colleges are now admitting more men to balance There will also be a shift to community colleges and other alternative paths None of this is new, btw. If you want to”hands on learning” or alternative paths, which is what lots of advocates of boys want, you go into trades, private tech and on job training. If you want to learn how to get along with and motivate people, write and defend arguments, or develop highly systematic/theoretical/collaborative skills, you go to institutions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:04 PM
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The majority of men vote conservative, so no https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2023/07/12/voting-patterns-in-the-2022-elections/pp_2023-07-12_validated-voters_2-01-png/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:03 PM
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No, I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:42 PM
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I’m not past it, I’ve just already tried most things in “normal” porn. Fucking for around 20 years tends to do that Basic sex is great all on its own; I don’t need to try and entertain myself or others while doing it, which is what porn is — entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:40 PM
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Yes, actually https://financesonline.com/gym-membership-statistics And gym membership only comprises about 20% of urban residents, so we’re talking a significant minority already https://www.statista.com/statistics/1360445/gym-penetration-rate-metro-areas/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:39 PM
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I’m over 35; I’ve done enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:23 PM
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Yeah, we do, and the minutes and money back us up on that Women go to the gym too, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:10 PM
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and people don’t want to use those middle grounds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:09 PM
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It’s pretty simple: the sex I see in porn does not translate into fun times for me if I extrapolate my experience onto it, which I why I don’t watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:02 PM
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Yes, so? Doesn’t mean women aren’t doing more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:59 PM
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Casual/less makeup is a style. Doesn’t mean less effort is spent. Social media has also put way more emphasis on knowledge, curation and presentation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:41 PM
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Entire industries worth billions of dollars say differently As do men whining about being “lied to”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:02 PM
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Lots of people don’t have to put in a great deal of effort to be nice. It’s really not that difficult to enjoy people’s company, be interested in their lives and like them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:00 PM
0

Blue pill Disdain for women, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:59 PM
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Yeah, and you don’t know beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:59 PM
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I do I don’t think most men are animals who have no control over their libido or desires I also don’t believe they’re mental incompetents who have no idea how to wash a dish, interact with others, talk about their feelings, take care of a child or be decent human beings Men can be raped and victimized Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:57 PM
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I provide normalcy and pushback against misogyny. It’s very easy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:11 PM
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lol, people are allergic to showing investment and caring. Playing it cool is very common
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:37 PM
1

I’m afraid that most men get laid, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:36 PM
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We don’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:47 PM
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I like boring guys. Because I myself am boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:45 PM
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Not enough to stop us from having a past
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:44 PM
-1

Pumping n dumping begs to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:43 PM
0

Not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:42 PM
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Yes Single comments Them cherries can be picked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:11 AM
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It is. Your post focusing on individual comments also doesn’t prove bias against men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:03 AM
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Male femininity has always had a large following. From dandies to glam to kpop
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:48 PM
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That assumption is the basis of the red pill, not the blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:46 PM
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That’s why I said “highly treatable”, not “curable” or “treatable” Compared to autism or schizophrenia or narcissism or or CPTSD or bipolar or BPD, there are way better results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:45 PM
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No, because there is supposed to be a link between the title and the post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:54 PM
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Going after multiple women in a social group, especially following rejection, is pretty indiscriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:54 PM
2

Why should we expect people with social pathologies to have the same success as normies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:16 PM
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OP says it does Plenty of men have successfully hit on women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:14 PM
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You just said you couldn’t “get your rocks off” And I pointed out that no, you can. For a price
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:14 PM
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No, we are saying that hitting indiscriminately on every unattached woman in your social circle is not a good idea. Because you’re supposed to be there for the socializing, not the pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:13 PM
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Does 30x more likely than the gen pop sound about right ? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10732311/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:11 PM
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Nope! Everything is a binary ! All or nothing Every woman or no woman Promiscuity or celibacy Chad or incel Alpha or beta Winner or loser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:08 PM
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So? You didn’t disagree and say, oh no, I want love/a relationship, not just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:03 PM
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It is Plenty of mental illnesses do not have any treatments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:03 PM
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Getting one’s rocks off is a crude way of saying orgasm. We don’t consider crude, anonymous, depersonalized orgasms to be romantic, do we? If you do, please be sure to tell your partners that you’re “getting your rocks off” with them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:35 PM
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If your title is bullshit, your post is bullshit If I title my post “Men love to kill women” and then say “psych!” in the post, my post is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:30 PM
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If you say “get your rocks off”, we’re not going to interpret it as romance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:29 PM
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It is irresponsible to diagnose depression, a highly treatable pathology, if you are not a mental health professional who has personally examined an individual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:25 PM
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That is easily resolved using money What is $300 against your life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:23 PM
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Plenty of men deny there is a loneliness epidemic, but not a sexlessness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:22 PM
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I don’t I just listen to men who say that platonic affection is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:19 PM
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No one cares about your sexual desire either way, until you make it their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:18 PM
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It is if the other person doesn’t want it You should go to prison to see how delightful unwanted sexual desire is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:03 PM
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If that were so, platonic relationships would be totally fine for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:02 PM
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So romantic/sexual relationships are…sexless ? News to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:01 PM
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That’s the point. They’re the same thing, in the end, and that’s why women aren’t eager to engage in it Because we don’t wanna fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:00 PM
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I listen to what men say, what a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:59 PM
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That’s being a cocktease, I hear. Very cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:13 PM
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It’s not. It annoys me that men pretend being touchstarved is not about sex It is, which is why women aren’t interested
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:12 PM
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But sex is still involved and wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:05 PM
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It’s very important and significant I don’t let just anyone inside my body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:04 PM
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You can have all of that and still whine about sexlessness Many men do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:03 PM
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We all know that means sex. You’re not satisfied with hugs or massages
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:01 PM
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You can’t have those things without sex, so it’s sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:01 PM
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Approaching someone you like personally is fine Treating a group like a dating service is not. That’s not what it’s for Very few men have trouble understanding this; why do you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:12 PM
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I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:10 PM
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Men in my social circle have approached me and been both rejected and accepted No calamity followed in either outcome You only get a rep if you try to fuck every woman in a group, treating it as a means to a singular end
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:03 PM
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You think it’s a bad idea My experience says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:52 PM
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It’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:50 PM
2

I’ve dated men from work, school, activity and friend groups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:42 PM
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I don’t consider it misandric to oppose misogyny, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:41 PM
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That’s your opinion Some might say that letting people do what they want with their bodies is a broader view
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:20 PM
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To me it’s the only reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:18 PM
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No, it’s because demand drives abuse and trafficking As a transaction I have nothing against prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:15 PM
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It’s not “should” It’s “have to” As long as “men will fuck anything”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:08 PM
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Blue pill is mainstream So of course a mainstream sub will be blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:08 PM
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Besides being immoral, it’s also inefficient at getting a functional relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:07 PM
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And it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:05 PM
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Then why does it work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:05 PM
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Hatred of women is very straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:04 PM
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No you didn’t. Dating isn’t the entirety of human interaction Unless by “lonely” you really meant “sexless”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:05 PM
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I dunno, that’s why I’m asking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:44 PM
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It’s not. Red pill is amoral and selfish. The consequences of one’s actions are not important, only results And, of course, there’s no penalty or accountability for being wrong or unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:42 PM
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Why do you complain about being lonely if you do nothing to address it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:39 PM
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I don’t hang out with or work for people who aren’t nice This is like having to explain to sociopaths why being altruistic is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:29 PM
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She’s edgy, sis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:28 PM
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And if you don’t have those things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:27 PM
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So are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:26 PM
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Nope. It’s just pointing out whining. Very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:25 PM
2

Men say they have to be 10/10 in all aspects of life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:22 PM
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You can. We’ll just judge you for not wanting to pay or do anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:17 PM
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It’s not The complaining is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:17 PM
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That wasn’t the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:23 PM
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Sure. Again, a minority desire
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:08 PM
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Nice is normal. And the truth will out eventually Most people are not like you; they do not find basic respect painful, and actually want to like their sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:04 PM
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I do. And I don’t know any women who respond to men who are indifferent, sullen, cruel, mocking, condescending or hostile to them. I know they’re out there, but I don’t imagine them to be people I’d like to associate with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:53 PM
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Lol, have you been around gen A lately? They’re the tater tots who never want to put a label on it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:50 PM
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It is. Second shift means managing, nagging and doing more unpaid labor, and having less free time and prioritizing of oneself. Ditto for double burden In any case, men like yourself will continue to avoid contributing, and women will continue to dump them when they do. Hopefully in greater and greater numbers, since having more free time is what lots of divorced women like about divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:43 PM
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That also works, yes But for a different market
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:02 PM
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So women like femininity? News to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:01 PM
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And yet sub 9/10 men date and fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:00 PM
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Do you complain about being lonely ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:58 PM
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That wasn’t the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:58 PM
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I do like pushing back on misogyny, yes. It’s also pretty easy to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:54 PM
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In one part of one study Others say differently https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ https://www.forbes.com/sites/evaepker/2023/10/31/women-handle-75-of-all-unpaid-labor-their-health-pays-the-price/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:49 PM
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I think you can figure out the pros and cons yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:42 PM
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Either way, men have money and women have looks Those will overcome many objections
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:41 PM
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I don’t see much specificity in “the default view of men by the women of entire countries”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:28 PM
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If they fuck and serve you, what’s the difference? “Belly full and balls empty”, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:27 PM
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Nope. It’s just easy and warranted to push back against misogyny, wherever I find it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:26 PM
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That used to be almost all marriages, which were also the only accepted form of relationship, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:26 PM
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So what is the title of his post about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:25 PM
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Some have to fake it; most don’t have to. I propose that people like OP who find pretending to like people unpleasant to….not. Because it makes them angry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:25 PM
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So? You still get nookie and service. And if you ask most men, that’s what they want — a partner that serves them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:23 PM
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Oh, so he’s fine with American and Canadian women being “horrible and bigoted”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:37 PM
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Yes you can With money, status, skill or charm. Women will fuck you to get and keep it for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:34 PM
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I’ve heard the opposite rationalization, that lacking a dad makes men hate themselves and venerate women, causing nice guys and simps Smells like armchair psychology BS either way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:32 PM
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When you’re interacting with people and want something from them, no It’s embarrassing that I have to clarify this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:28 PM
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My relationships before and after this realization say differently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:10 PM
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Nice is the default, and assholishness only stands out because of that fact But please, go ahead and be a selfish, offensive prick if that’s the real “you”. You’ll probably be happier for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:09 PM
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It’s amazing what a not-shitty attitude can do for you I had to learn this myself…..at 19, which was embarrassingly late
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:24 PM
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Cherry picking figures from the studies is not a study conclusion And right in your op we see numbers (for paid vs unpaid work diff) that say the opposite of what you claim Anyone who understands how numbers work can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:15 PM
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Nope. I’m not into shame
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:12 PM
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OP: stop generalizing men! Also OP: generalizes women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:12 PM
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Why do you think there is a single reason ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:08 PM
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lol, that’s not what the data says Nice try. Men will keep slacking and women will keep dumping and divorcing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:06 PM
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Mentally ill, traumatized, poor/in debt, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:04 PM
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We have decided that children do not have consent. That’s why parents can parent and discipline them, why they can’t be fully responsible for their actions, and why all sex with them is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:09 AM
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Yeah, that happens to a lot of people. Including me. So? Not all of us get jaded and blamey. Especially when I recognize that I too like pretty things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:08 AM
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That they’re trashy rich famous people, trying to get more rich and famous? So?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:30 AM
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Yeah, so you’re now above average and you’ve changed, shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:30 AM
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Your OP says that kids aren’t a dealbreaker if he has money. And they aren’t for women if she’s young, slutty or hot Same as for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:02 PM
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Most boring, average people date other boring, average people You just aren’t attracted to them so you don’t notice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:06 PM
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Plenty of men raise stepkids. It’s not a horror to mature adults It’s not parenting that is the deciding factor, it’s the person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:03 PM
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It is. It’s not much different Kids are not an advantage for either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:40 PM
0

To be lied to? What’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:44 PM
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You’re also generalizing Not good strategies when it comes to accuracy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:44 PM
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Great! Then there’s no point in talking to, consuming content or having anything to do with people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:23 PM
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If you do a search for “why single” on askreddit, tens of thousands of people are perfectly willing to tell you that they are the problem Mostly because they are antisocial, unfortunate or fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:21 PM
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It’s lacking in evidence gathering and processing, and is hampered by corruption Which could be solved by more cameras and money And possibly better incarceration philosophies, and a better economic model
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:15 PM
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Their dumping patterns say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:09 PM
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We create a functional system of laws and enforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:08 PM
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I think anything dealing with attraction should not be expressed in pie charts and percentages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:08 PM
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Most people care if they put in effort And caring isn’t always constant over time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:06 PM
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Sure you can. We used to be aliens/property/subhumans and now we aren’t Just like black people, Jews, Chinese people, gays, the disabled and native Americans used to be property/heathens/savages/subhuman and now aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:03 PM
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And what’s the point of doing that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:03 PM
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I assure you that women aren’t any more desirous of being a babysitter than men are of being child support
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:40 PM
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Men themselves tell us all the time that sex is what they truly, deeply, madly want It’s a neeeeeeeeeeeeed. They’ll do anything and everything for it Don’t you believe men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:37 PM
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Oh look, it’s that topic you posted on months ago https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/nPI8r3X9r6 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/3NVlFU8jIY https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/mgk1iowiOO https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sOCuwyMmva And last year https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0TPu389EfS https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DFLphZT7CS https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/UoeYMn3pg2 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/8ngDAmY6Ln http…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:36 PM
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We will when men stop defending men who are obviously wrong Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:28 PM
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So women should be ok with bad sex in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:27 PM
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If men suck in bed, why should we bother having sex OR relationships with them ? If we shouldn’t, why are men complaining about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:56 PM
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That would be a problem if women were complaining about not getting laid enough more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:31 PM
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With regard to dating and relationships, it is in the developed world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:23 PM
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Yes, I agree Although it doesn’t make men very appealing as sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:21 PM
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Because no one’s forcing nobody to do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:08 PM
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Because we don’t I don’t consider not being liked or respected “good”, nor is having to inconvenience and protect myself And I also don’t consider the freedom to do what I want “good”; it’s the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:03 PM
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Nope. And I don’t believe they would have done the same for me That’s not why I and most people fuck If I need a bodyguard, I’ll pay them in money, not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:18 PM
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And yet lots of women will put up with it, so what’s the incentive to do better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:16 PM
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It’s the stereotype, yes Because women don’t have to be in a relationship to get sex easily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:16 PM
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No. I’m just living my life and not many people care about that. And not everyone is out to get me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:09 PM
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Why do I have to think about it like a game, especially when I don’t have to play? That’s red pill thinking; ewwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:19 AM
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No, they just use dating apps and watch porn instead of approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:21 AM
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My proof is called touching grass and looking at the people around you. Even if they repulse you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:18 AM
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“A” girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:55 PM
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Lots of men care That’s why they don’t like doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:39 PM
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Because you’re going to get a lot of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:32 PM
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“But I want to be loved for who I am!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:31 PM
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Whoops, didn’t read the first sentence My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:30 PM
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We really don’t Most of us just say “take rejection gracefully” and “don’t be a sex pest”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:29 PM
1

Casual was eh, because sex isn’t all that. There’s only so many ways to skin a cat, so to speak. Also, I didn’t have much of it LTRs were better overall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:26 PM
0

It’s consistent with all other data saying that people are fucking less and later
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 PM
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Plenty of them do. There’s been media about how few friends men have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:08 PM
3

We….don’t ? Men are the ones complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:07 PM
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They don’t have to because apps and social media and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:40 PM
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Most normal men do It’s the awkward minority that have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:38 PM
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Nope. Normies fuck normies; you’re just not attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:37 PM
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Men used to be shamed even more when the culture was more religious, lol Porn and lust is freely expressed and used as blatant motivation, not shamed and hidden
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:35 PM
1

Yes, and they get trained and paid to do that, as do women. Nobody’s doing it for free
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:42 AM
2

I want to be around them I want them to want to be around me I want do terrible things to them I want them to want to do terrible things to me Any combination of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:40 AM
2

No, I’m just not expecting or trying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:36 AM
7

By that logic, strict communism or theocracy should be promoted everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:07 PM
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Norms against fornication have never been promoted nor enforced in an egalitarian manner, exacerbating the gender disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:59 PM
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Plausible deniability is a feature, not a bug
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:13 PM
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No, we’re perfectly aware that men will fuck anything Because everyone tells us so, especially men And it’s not privilege, it’s just having a lower libido
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:12 PM
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If I’m fucking, I’m not getting to know him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:12 PM
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Sexuality is only part of dating. People learn non-sexual behavior from those around them irl, not porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:11 PM
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Since there’s no evidence, no And even if there was, so what; oxytocin and dopamine are two different things. It’s overly simplistic to say that they don’t affect each other, or that they are the sole determinant of sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:35 AM
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Yes, chemical receptors are specific to their chemical. So ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:58 AM
2

Metaphorical “ceilings” to leadership positions, power and authority in a free society are the result of bigotry, of which sexism is the most significant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:13 PM
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Sadly, a large minority of women don’t seem to realize this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:06 PM
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Men are free to nag and bully us all they want And we are free to dump their asses
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:54 PM
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You can be homeless and pay no taxes and reap minimal benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:52 PM
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Men like those things too, which is why they pay taxes and the whole shebang exists
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:40 PM
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I know. You’re one of the ones who says so quite insistently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:33 PM
1

Citations pending
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:31 PM
-1

I’m pretty sure men use utilities, emergency services, medical services, roads, gas, education, industry protections and financial instruments as much, if not more, than women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:31 PM
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When you’re cohabiting it’s a shared space
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:01 PM
1

No, most people actually aren’t rich. You’re lucky you’re more privileged than most
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:54 PM
1

No, that’s second and third marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:46 PM
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Why’d you delete your comment, hmmm? Rather disingenuous of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:44 PM
1

You rationalize relationships right in your title and OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:43 PM
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You said core desires — so all men want sex and all women don’t ? That means all sex is rape, just like the radfems claim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:22 PM
1

And it says less than half of first marriages end in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:20 PM
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Good if you want it. Bad if you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:19 PM
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So? Western isn’t a race, it’s a world view Marriage is normalized, traditional, prevalent, prescribed and incentivized If marriage isn’t appealing even with all those advantages, it’s a sucky institution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:14 PM
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Why do you only care about white women? Of course we encourage marriage. Marriage is presented as the default life script
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:07 PM
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I’m not in favor of forcing people to do things they don’t want. There’s plenty of places you can go if you want that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:39 PM
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I’m not in favor of coercion. If you hate people and it’s torture to interact, don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:22 PM
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Society is taxes for services, conveniences and protections
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:13 PM
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You can just use your own man brain and imagination to answer your question Humans aren’t that difficult to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:10 PM
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Nope. Men just don’t care about our jobs, experiences, education, opinions, skills or achievements Only what we can do for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:09 PM
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So? Why should we be the only ones being good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:06 PM
2

Why shouldn’t we when you do too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:46 PM
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Yup. Can’t force men to care about things that they don’t wanna
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:45 PM
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Males should do what they want, just like females should do what they want I’m no hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:55 PM
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There are women who are want to be only takers and not givers Unfortunately, those women are usually the hottest ones
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:21 PM
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They also want service in return for provision, but at the same time want to be loved for “who they are”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:08 PM
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A pussy, of course Men tell me it’s the reason men do anything and everything So I bring quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:26 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:35 PM
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No, paternity tests are about the baby. Because of course not all cheating results in conception
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:33 PM
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No. Both things can be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:17 PM
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It’s not about infidelity, it’s about money, time and emotional investment Which I find totally understandable as a major concern It’s still an accusation of infidelity, but also deception, malice, exploitation and immorality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:12 PM
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Apparently more than half, by most accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:20 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:58 PM
1

Oooo, let’s hear about these opposite core desires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:58 PM
2

Seeing that the vast majority of people marry, no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:52 PM
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This is the case for anything, not just mental illness Because men are thirstier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:30 PM
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Location matters. Populations and opportunities matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:00 PM
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People still date more formally; it’s mostly young people who are allergic to it Mostly because they’re poor, ignorant, and not as serious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:58 PM
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It’s an accusation of very serious moral transgressions — cheating, exploitation, malice, selfishness and lying. Why wouldn’t I break up with someone who openly did that and expected me to be okay with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:53 PM
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“Not real” means it doesn’t exist And yet you base your rationale for relationships on it, so who’s being foolish ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:52 PM
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Nope. More than half of first marriages don’t end, and a large minority of second and third marriages don’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:51 PM
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That’s most peoples reasons You must be a rich dude who’s never had to care, typical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:51 PM
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I don’t know, and I don’t care to know. They could have, for all I know. A few of them cheated on me with hotter women, so I dumped them The difference is that hot men are sluts, and hot women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:48 PM
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No, but they’re meant to be more boneriffic than me. So are all hot women who men fap to No, men can also get casual sex for being charming, funny, rich, successful or skilled without being hot There’s no injustice And it’s also not my fault that men are sluttier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:47 PM
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Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:33 AM
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If love is fake then weddings and rings are the only reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:33 AM
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The data disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:31 AM
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OP also says that love isn’t real, it’s just chemicals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:28 AM
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We don’t According to my equally valid anecdotal experience Also, congrats on writing something new
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:20 AM
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Who said broke ? Expensive is expensive And two bedrooms cost less than 3 or 4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:19 AM
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Great, then nothings wrong with marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:19 AM
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That depends. Kids aren’t disadvantaged, nor are the vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:19 AM
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That would be telling But I do know the paperwork you need to file to do the same thing that married people do, if you’re even able to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:17 AM
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Could be. Or they really do make relationships out of hookups I don’t, that’s all I can tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:45 PM
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Or, people aren’t always logical
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:31 PM
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It seems like it was news to you As it does to many men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:20 PM
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When you are just looking to fuck, personality and character means less, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:19 PM
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It can be, they’re not lying. I was totally panting over an ugly artist, because his soulful manner and deep thoughts were so gosh darn hnnnnnnnngggg. Once I got laid a few times I was horrified, both by his appearance and his total self absorption/obliviousness I do have sympathy, because they do the same thing to me, as I am not a porn star/actress/model And people do admit this — that’s why “hall passes” exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:14 PM
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Why didn’t it make sense before ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:08 PM
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Or, you could just marry. Easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:07 PM
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The document is the thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:06 PM
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The document is the thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:06 PM
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Why should we care about things that are not real ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:03 PM
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Nope. Normal people know that attractive is attractive, to both genders, I promise. That’s why the most common normie advice is “be attractive; don’t be unattractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:56 PM
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I don’t know, because I didn’t ask or tell. But since they are normal, reasonable people I would guess that they already know, in theory. Just as I already know that they women they fap to in porn, media and such are probably hotter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:52 PM
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Yes. Because I didn’t care about hookup personalities or character, obviously I don’t know why dudes keep professing incomprehension of this very basic logic. They do the same thing, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:49 PM
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It says that Sam could probably hire 50 high class escorts every day if he wanted but publicly chooses a normie companion for reasons known only to himself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:25 PM
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“You’re husband material” Or something negative related to the penis compared to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:23 PM
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They can. You just can’t tell anyone and give it as the reason for breaking up And culturally it doesn’t matter so much to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:30 PM
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Extra bedroom (s) = more expensive house, did you know? In my city that’s quite a hefty hunk of change And I ain’t rich
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:29 PM
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Some people are fine raising kids that aren’t genetically theirs but don’t want others to know, obviously If you suspect women, you should doubt and test
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:17 PM
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No, the parental relationship is also an issue, which is the point If you suspect, test, with your own risk and disclosure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:35 PM
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Then that gets into medical privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:24 PM
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Still invalidates your OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:24 PM
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Kinda contradicts your OP tho, don’t it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:20 PM
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Its extra effort, where in marriage it’s assumed. And many benefits are marriage only
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:17 PM
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Disadvantages aren’t automatically negativity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:43 PM
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What am I, made of money ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:40 PM
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You don’t even have to inform them, lol. Anymore than you have to inform them that you’re checking up on whether they were actually at work or a party
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:37 PM
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I don’t need proof of things that haven’t yet occurred We use the data that’s available. If you have better data, cite it “My feels” is not data Impossible scenarios are not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:42 PM
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No, there’s no need to make an accusation of infidelity normal. You can just test in secret
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:39 PM
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You don’t think that deadly weapons are a dark topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:00 AM
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Oh, then you do need a ring and a paper
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:43 AM
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Oh, so the legal doc is the important part, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:42 AM
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Then it’s not important, a ring is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:41 AM
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You’d better also be “beautiful” and have a “friendly aura”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:39 AM
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It does, because it’s all about consolidating assets and benefits, and passing them to the next generation On the other hand, you seem to think being homeless is ideal….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:10 AM
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Explain what is wrong with the ones cited and produce better ones then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:41 AM
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Which quotes actual studies and data like any mass media producer, as you well know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:13 AM
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That’s quite different from “completely stoic”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:13 AM
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That’s oxymoronic so no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:39 PM
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I’m afraid you have to use the marriages that do exist, not the ones that may or may not exist in the future We also do not have a sex police that provides non-reported sex stats Not a relevant question, especially since the majority of men will never go sexless or childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:05 PM
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I wish you luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:54 PM
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Idk because idk you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:52 PM
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I mean, what else is there to do but try or not try?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:50 PM
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Probably hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:19 PM
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Taxes, estates, power of attorney, insurance, inheritance, housing, medical and retirement benefits, custody, etc You know, extremely boring but extremely basic stuff, usually involving money and lawyers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:18 PM
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Of course it is Options are unwanted all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:55 PM
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Only stats from the future are legit? lol, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:53 PM
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You were the one who equated women with companies and landlords that should have some sort of obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:44 PM
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GSS: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/suxt2k/diving_into_the_2021_gss_data_on_the_amount_of/ Pew Research/US census on single people https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Pew research/us census on marriage over lifetime https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/09/24/chapter-2-trends-in-the-share-of-never-married-americans-and-a-look-forward/ CDC on lifelong virginity https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf Summarized mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:36 PM
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I’m talking legal benefits, which are the only real reason to get married If marriage was just a ring, a promise and a party, I wouldn’t do it. But it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:23 PM
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Maybe not you, but if they love their children they do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:00 PM
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The data begs to differ https://theguardian.com/science/2023/oct/22/the-perils-of-putting-off-fatherhood-why-it-poses-risks-to-childrens-physical-and-mental-health
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:07 PM
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I dunno. I personally would only get upset if he’d been complaining about being single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:07 PM
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The vast majority of men fuck, date and marry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:05 PM
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You can, in small doses, if you have a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 AM
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I shouldn’t need to risk incarceration I already do enough to protect myself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:27 AM
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Keep trying and socializing or give up And pay for it, if he’s horny And masturbate. There’s no reason not to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:26 AM
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When your ideal is fueled by the male libido and desire for sexual variety, of course it’s going to be rough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:39 PM
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Yes they do. Mean and median incomes are both higher for men Most women don’t require 6 feet It is easy to find a man who is taller, makes more and is physically stronger, less emotional, and has stereotypical male interests and behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:38 PM
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I understand that it’s harder to fuck women than men Everyone knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:29 PM
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The high birth rates are due to the religious Jews, where women don’t get educated, freedom or choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:19 PM
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It is, because it’s the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:13 PM
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That’s what the data indicates Anytime women get education, freedom and money, the birth rate goes down The UN and all international orgs know this, as do national governments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:11 PM
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Most men earn more than most women, are stronger and taller than women, and are more masculine than women It’s not unusual or impossible at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:10 PM
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No If he wanted to he could, but I’m not going to make him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:40 PM
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Not really. Men have all their old freedoms but still don’t do most of the child care, caregiving or domestic management. Meanwhile, women now work, educate themselves and can have their own money and property. Hence, the decrease in marriage and child bearing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:37 PM
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It always is if you’re in a monogamous relationship and have had a child without medical intervention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:17 PM
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Because women have changed, men haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:16 PM
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The GSS data that the article cites is constantly cited here — when it supports incel opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:15 PM
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The problem is women having choice, because they used to not have choice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:43 PM
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It’s not absurd to advise people to do the easier thing than the harder thing Particularly if they’re having trouble doing the easier thing already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:42 PM
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You can get outraged at paid content attention whores Or you can observe the boring, unsexy normies around you, in their boring and unsexy relationships I wonder which you will choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:38 PM
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Yup https://datepsychology.com/how-many-sexual-partners-did-men-and-women-have-in-2022/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:35 PM
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Of course it’s hard Because women aren’t sluts like men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:34 PM
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Apparently way more than 5% of men get laid The majority, in fact So it doesn’t sound to rough to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:50 PM
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And yet more than 5% of men get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:58 AM
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We don’t need to do anything except judge and shame based on personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:02 AM
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Because we don’t want to And you can’t force us to and most men don’t want to force us to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:52 AM
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Im afraid national gdp and other country based indicators beg to differ The Middle East and other sexist societies do worse than non-sexist ones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:47 AM
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Because wealth and prosperity benefits everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:44 AM
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Doing what we want is not a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:53 AM
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We don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:51 AM
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Women can want what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:49 AM
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It’s not a mutual desire. Dating is about mutual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:46 AM
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Dating is not about equality, it’s about desire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:44 AM
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Why should we ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:42 AM
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Because it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:42 AM
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That’s still not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:41 AM
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That’s not a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:26 AM
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Most of us aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:15 AM
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Sorry, kids and life are expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:00 AM
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Yes, humans are different. That’s why formulas are irrelevant. Because formulas are always supposed to work That’s why we have dating advice, algorithms and strategies, not dating formulas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:45 PM
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Hot Felon begs to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:54 PM
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Selling farts is not dating Just like prostitution is not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:06 PM
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I believe it’s the other way around What I see most often is “you have to approach” and “you have to be social”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:05 PM
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Malice requires prior intent, not a post hoc judgement based on results So women are consciously trying to hurt men by finding some of them unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:58 PM
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Preferences are not malicious Unless you want to argue that male preferences too are malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:07 PM
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Yes. Do not date them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:06 PM
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So? Who cares ? I’m sure they’d prefer it to not working
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:06 PM
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Society didn’t change drastically until women could vote, control their finances, work and educate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:03 PM
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So? Law making it illegal to discriminate/deny are what made society change more than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:02 PM
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Not a problem, since men earn more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:00 PM
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And most do, so it’s not oppression nor a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:51 PM
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And they still are, and these innovators are rewarded more handsomely than they’ve ever been So oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:51 PM
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Words have meanings Especially if they’re right in your title
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:41 PM
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Men create their own issues by being thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:41 PM
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Right in the title and first paragraph, lol “Equality doesn’t benefit men! It is a WEAPON against men!” “Abolition didn’t benefit white people!” “Gay marriage didn’t benefit straights!” “Social programs don’t benefit the wealthy!” “ADA didn’t benefit the able bodied!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:33 PM
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Sure you did “What’s the upside for most men?” “Equalizing pay doesn’t seem to benefit most men” Why should it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:29 PM
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If men like you can complain, so can women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:27 PM
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Which is not deliberate malice, which is what “weapon” implies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:26 PM
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So the correct state is gender, race, sexuality, etc based discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:15 PM
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Almost half of couples earn either about the same or the woman earns more. Thus, men are not being oppressed or struggling to fulfill anything And you guys aren’t the priority anymore. Guess that equality feels like oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:13 PM
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You should tell that to OP. You’ll find just as many women saying that women are shitty to each other as you will women who say there is a sisterhood, and everything in between
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:17 AM
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It is. The point of a formula is that it doesn’t change, you can just have different formulas to reach the same result And as we all know, there is no formula that guarantees 100% success with every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:16 AM
-2

Sexual products and services are not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:54 AM
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That’s what men claim. Why don’t you believe men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:28 AM
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lol no. If you follow a formula to make or do something, you need the same inputs and should get the same result every time. Obviously, you have never worked in a lab or manufacturing plant If you don’t, your formula is faulty and should be thrown out before it hurts people That is why the adjective “formulaic” means “predictable”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:22 AM
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That’s not a formula, that’s cause and effect And formulas do actually express a single outcome, because their components do not change and contain no variables
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:13 AM
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In Islam you have to have witnesses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:13 AM
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Most people actually do not believe there is only one or two ways to do things. It’s kinda hard with human diversity and irrationality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:12 AM
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If you want “good”, you can go to a heavily monitored, support or positivity sub Im here for discussion. Because, y’know, it’s a discussion sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:09 AM
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Trends are more successful for more people It is perfectly logical to advise a safer majority strategy than a risky minority one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:07 PM
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The data is pretty clear on how it happens, despite all the whining https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:02 PM
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Yes, I don’t have to be nice here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:57 PM
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Late 20s, unless you were imprisoned, traumatized, religious, debilitated, poor, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:57 PM
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Not necessarily a whore; definitely a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:56 PM
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West. It’s just the culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:27 PM
1

Still not sexually determined or transmitted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:25 PM
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Men just aren’t willing to hold out until they get what they want. That’s all the issue boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:37 AM
1

Sure, Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:46 AM
1

So? We still need socialization
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:45 AM
1

It is, because it is relevant to “no consequences”, and war, particularly on the tribal level, used to be very, very common
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:03 PM
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I didn’t bring up the topic of rape And it’s very relevant, since rape is still common today, despite the large efforts against it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:50 PM
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Rape was considered a positive outcome and incentive for participation in war up until fairly recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:07 PM
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Morality isn’t sexually transmitted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:18 PM
2

Sure, and it’s very easily preventable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:15 PM
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Advice and criticism to improve is the opposite of passivity And most people disagree with those statements. You just choose to focus on the ones that advise passivity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:10 PM
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How odd that you are so unprepared
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:09 PM
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Then men can’t be bothered by being considered rapists, murderers, cheaters, liars, pedos, harassers, sinners, thugs, and thieves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:25 PM
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That applies to pretty much anything except death and taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:21 PM
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In your deleted comment, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:19 PM
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Immoral people can be average. Doesn’t mean they’re common
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:19 PM
2

That is a minority opinion, and not backed up by data
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:17 PM
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Please let every woman you know that, loudly and often
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:13 PM
0

Most people do not meet through OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:10 PM
2

What works is being attractive, not cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:07 PM
2

Most of them aren’t as obviously negative “You’re so mature for your age” “Age is just a number; love is timeless”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:03 PM
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No, it’s an intentional choice to lie Men constantly let us know they are want sex, a lot, and with as many different women as possible. “Muh biology” “Men have needs”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:59 PM
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This is the third post in a row where you justify cheating because women aren’t perfect Sounds like you just wanna cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:47 PM
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That’s not the point. They want sanction to call their partners and women in general liars and cheaters without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:45 PM
1

Where are people saying that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:40 AM
1

Why is male existence unethical ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:43 AM
1

Then why do men claim this is an issue and that it is damaging to them in large numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:42 AM
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Men claim to be distressed by being “forced to penetrate” Is that not worthy of legal consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:41 AM
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If you believe you wouldn’t cheat, why can’t women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:14 AM
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Receipts needed for paternity fraud being everyday and average
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:11 AM
1

Yes, so ? The female sex drive isn’t the male sex drive. Doesn’t mean it’s nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:22 AM
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We don’t. Women don’t demand acceptance of snooping or spying You can get a paternity test. What you can’t get is acceptance of accusing us of being exploitative cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:59 AM
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I’ve criticized them, yes, on the rare occasion it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:54 AM
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If you’re doing it in secret, or in defiance of societal approval and benefits, you’re doing it because you wanna Our sex drive is normal for us, we’re not men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:15 AM
1

What about being “forced to penetrate”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:49 PM
1

And which way is better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:49 PM
1

You didn’t mention religion, you equated desiring sex with existing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:47 PM
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You don’t have to have a ton of kids. Just kids that survive and reproduce Women have sex drives, and culture/traditions acknowledge this, usually by condemning them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:46 PM
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Sure they do. That’s what men here constantly complain about, that women put no effort, investment or money into dating and relationships, while men are expected to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:02 PM
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So do men so there’s nothing notable about this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:05 PM
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Escape funds are about money as much as trust
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:04 PM
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A paternity test is $60 and can be done in secret Wow, such hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:22 PM
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“Can be” but isn’t usually I’d say the ratio of casual to meaningful lust is very low, by men’s own admission
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:22 PM
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You said “without legal intervention or social shaming” Who wouldn’t take free labor if they had the choice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:23 PM
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It is a problem for social stability and economic inequality, which is why polygamy is illegal or else strictly controlled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:58 PM
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It’s all about money, man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:43 PM
8

Adam. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:37 PM
1

This would be an issue if most women were antiporn absolutists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:36 PM
1

Sure, if your main goal is getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:35 PM
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Porn, sex workers, harassment and reality are evidence to the contrary then. Most male lust doesn’t consist of commitment and respect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:34 PM
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Nope. I just think it’s funny that men like to portray their lust as virtuous and meaningful when it’s usually not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:33 PM
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That’s what polygamy entails, in many places. You don’t discard the old wife for a new young hottie, you keep her. See also: mistresses The catch is that it requires money and/or power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:31 PM
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So it’s all or nothing ? With that reasoning, women shouldn’t do anything sexual at all without gifts, dinner, a ring and a house
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:44 PM
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It’s confusing because you also seem to have “visceral attraction” to women you don’t love or respect at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:43 PM
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Many men here and in the manosphere claim that women rape men almost or as much as men rape women Not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:42 PM
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I’m happy a man admits that most sex was unwanted in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:40 PM
1

Sex = existence? Interesting reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:40 PM
1

It can also be laziness, spite, or resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:37 PM
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Without legal intervention/social shaming, men would choose multiple women, including an older one to raise their kids and manage their household
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:35 PM
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Theres plenty of men I’m “friends” with that I’d never date. I have higher standards for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:33 PM
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Physically, it’s not It varies socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:27 PM
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Most girls would rather drop out of school/be homeschooled/do online learning/transfer rather than be completely alone. I knew quite a few back in my day, and it seems to have gotten worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:27 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:34 PM
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I dated fellow outcasts. They were fine and when I couldn’t find any, I self improved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:11 PM
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This is heresy Women are the shallow ones who only care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:10 PM
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If you can’t attract, you’re not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:06 PM
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https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:05 PM
0

Receipts needed Most people become obese in middle age, or even before
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:24 AM
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Pathology, by definition, is abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:23 AM
-2

Yes. You’re just supposed to socialize normally, with normal people This is not news to people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:12 AM
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People know you’re supposed to be socializing with the opposite gender, lol That’s why the term “sausage fest” exists in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:03 AM
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Social factors do not change gender differences in where the body stores fat and hormones More women actually die of heart failure, just a decade later than men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:48 AM
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They’re also told to socialize, yes. Many, in fact, already know that they’re not being social enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:26 PM
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You said in your past posts that you’re a “pathological ghoster”, so you yourself recognize that your behavior/attitude is not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:21 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/leading-causes-of-death.htm https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/hus/topics/heart-disease-deaths.htm https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3018605/ The vast majority of deaths, for both genders, are from either cancer or heart disease, and both are deadlier for men. Yes, very boring Social factors are an issue, sure. But that requires men choosing different things, not women. And men still make and control a significant majority of wealth and money They have the power
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:18 PM
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That too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:50 PM
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His Reddit account is 10 years old and he posted in the red pill years ago He’s not some ignorant child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:08 PM
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If you’ve read about childless women in the media, they give the reasons why. You just ignored it You posted in red pill years ago and have been active on Reddit for a decade. You’re not a child who is ignorant of gender issues
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:07 PM
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The answers are pretty obvious and have been discussed ad nauseum To not know them is pretty much willful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:19 PM
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Heart disease is the single largest cause of mortality, and the disparity between the genders alone explains much of the mortality gap — men die significantly earlier and more often than women, despite heart disease screening and treatment being focused on men Prostate cancer is also inevitable in men That’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:18 PM
1

“Notable” doesn’t equal “valued”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:09 AM
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The only requisite was “lack of consequences”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:52 AM
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War indicates it’s probably 99%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:34 PM
3

Uh, that’s part of appearance. It’s visual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:54 PM
1

I have enough to do in my life; to add sex on top of that ?! No thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:53 PM
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Still more discriminating than men, and therefore less horny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:52 PM
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If they’re at all discriminating, it means they aren’t anywhere near as horny as men are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:41 PM
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I do not envy the male libido
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:40 PM
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Easy. It’s modern mainstream society, which is “gynocentric” and lies to advantage women at the expense of men, according to the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:56 PM
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Then why do incels, PUAs, dating advice, porn, and red pill exist, since men should be able to get sex easily due to women being thirstier? If women are hornier than men, men should be able to fuck casually even more easily and frequently than gay men. They should be able to hookup in parks and gas stations, public restrooms, clubs and bars, giant sex clubs and bathhouses, etc They should be able to get women to pay them for sex, make money working as strippers, masseuses and onlyfans content cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:46 PM
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If that were true, men wouldn’t be complaining about not getting laid enough. We’d fuck anything, just like men fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:37 PM
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We will when men learn to be happy being used for money and attention. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:20 PM
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No, sexlessness is sexlessness Half the posts in r/deadbedrooms are from women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:17 PM
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Men have bad sex lives because women aren’t as horny as men If women wanted to fuck and cheat all day every day, we could. We don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:15 PM
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Since not all men have been shitty to me, no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:14 PM
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All the knowledge in the world won’t help you if you’re financially dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:53 AM
0

Not unless we’re gay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:28 AM
1

Mortality rates beg to differ that institutions and modernity are bad for men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:12 PM
1

I think that’s normal mainstream thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:06 PM
1

Most people have families, friends, colleagues and neighbors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:05 PM
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I don’t have the time or energy to hate all men. Avoiding and defending against the bad ones is taking up enough of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:03 PM
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It’s not at all. Babies are about women. Fertility rates are about women. Ranting about single parenting is about women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:01 PM
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But sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:37 PM
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We don’t give stats about childless men, only women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:37 PM
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Men don’t have the baby bucket, and rape is a no-no, so it’s women’s fault for not spreading
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:16 PM
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Lots of people don’t care about others, just themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:39 PM
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Not at all Women get told to marry and have babies, and blamed for lack thereof
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:38 PM
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So? You think there was any privacy in hunter gatherer tribes? Your business was public when you live 4 feet from your neighbor; privacy and personal property/space are modern inventions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:04 PM
3

Poor people fuck and reproduce more than middle class or wealthy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:42 PM
5

Why is it unreasonable to think good relationship > no relationship > bad relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 PM
2

lol, it is possible to say all those things in a neutral, non-hatey way —- impressive, and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:40 PM
1

People have always lived in groups, not pairs, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:38 PM
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Then provide better data
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:36 PM
3

Anger is a logical response to denial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:34 PM
-1

But sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:31 PM
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No ones forcing men to get married, work or have babies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:27 PM
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There isn’t, otherwise men would become criminal abusers to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:05 AM
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And sometimes oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:32 PM
-3

Or lack of giving a shit Or lacks of consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:16 PM
-1

Worrying about an irrelevant thing is not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:16 PM
0

Men are perfectly aware of what unwanted sex is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:14 PM
0

The 1% are not significant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:10 PM
4

Yes. Homophobia indicates that men see penetration as unwanted and degrading. Why would you want that done to yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:58 PM
4

Making a million off onlyfans is top 1%. And it’s not a common profession
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:04 PM
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So? That’s not an average profession, nor an average pay to be making off that profession
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:44 PM
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That is not what is happening Average looks, skills or drive women don’t make that type of money because they have competition. You have to spend lots of time and effort
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:44 PM
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I’d sympathize It happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:43 PM
2

Negativity on the first date is a no no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:41 PM
4

I promise you that porn and sex work have always been around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:37 PM
1

My observations are based on your Reddit history, and your assertions are refuted by countless personal testimonies, logic and science, not just my personal experience You’re the one making these posts and comments like “women don’t enjoy sex” and “women don’t want sex”, so don’t act like a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:24 AM
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Sure. Just not as attractive as I find Oscar Isaac or young Colin Firth or old Pierce Brosnan There are numbers between 0 and 100, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:46 AM
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Dictionaries exist, and you used to masturbate so you are perfectly aware of what an orgasm is, and that it’s a motivation to have sex It’s pretty disingenuous and rude to make generalizations about a gender based on your messed up individual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:44 AM
1

What is an orgasm ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:04 AM
1

I don’t know you, so how can I make that judgement? Why is it important to believe women have no libido at all despite all the evidence to the contrary ? What are you getting out of it, other than a reason to never interact with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:08 PM
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Depends on if you can do something about it or not All social change is based on complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:06 PM
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Because you have an agenda And that is to claim women don’t want sex so you’re justified in not pursuing them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:46 PM
0

You know it’s not. Even really religious people do all sorts of weird things to get around chastity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:45 PM
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I see you have never watched porn, had sex, listened to a woman in good faith, or know what an orgasm is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:41 PM
2

Not wanting sex as much as men, or not wanting sex with as many men is not the same as wanting to be lifelong virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:40 PM
-4

I don’t see how either of those are advantages. They’re just priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:56 PM
-1

Nope. People are not the same. Attractive people can cruise, unattractive people have to work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:17 PM
1

I didn’t say it was a guarantee, I said it was the procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:03 PM
1

Why should I ? Men don’t approach every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:01 PM
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Do these men not have partners and families ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:59 PM
0

That’s not what people say. That’s what you interpret it as to support your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:57 PM
-1

You know they are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:53 PM
-1

Better options are better options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:49 PM
-1

What’s your social life look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:46 PM
-1

Either you want to or you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:44 PM
1

A relationship is considered “sexless” if you don’t fuck monthly So “sexless” doesn’t actually mean “sexless”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:24 PM
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You just said it Lost weight in face, put on muscle Those are significant changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:20 PM
4

Everyone’s different. Doesn’t change the fact that unattractive is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:19 PM
-2

Same shit, different day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:17 PM
1

As one would expect from dumb children trying to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:13 PM
1

To look around and see that most men fuck, date and marry They and their partners are just not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:12 PM
-1

Of course it does Way more men have offended me with their words, opinions, behavior and actions than their faces and bodies. It’s not even remotely close
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:05 PM
-2

The definition of feminism is pretty clear and hasn’t changed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:29 PM
10

There’s always going to be male thirst and female selectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:27 PM
1

I complain about my gender, job, city, age and ethicity all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:26 PM
0

Nope. Not into man-whores
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:25 PM
-4

With men I was attracted to? No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:54 AM
1

Reality doesn’t change, so fantasy doesn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:53 AM
1

Nope. It’s “become attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 AM
0

I would have an easier time as a man because I’m bad at being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 AM
2

This would be a problem if cold approaching was the most common way people meet But it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:50 AM
2

Sex is easy, commitment is hard For women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:49 AM
1

That’s just being ideally (aka generically) attractive, and news to absolutely no one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:47 AM
0

Gestures are meaningless if compelled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:46 AM
4

Have something women want (money, looks, power, talent, status) Dont be attached to any person Be selfish and self indulgent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:44 AM
0

Work, school, friend groups, activities. Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:41 AM
3

You can if you’re black or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:39 AM
3

If I haven’t done anything except exist, it’s weird. You could just replace me with any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:37 AM
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I never accept cold approaches, only warm And my way of accepting a warm approach is to accept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:35 AM
1

People who do dumb things in relationships are mocked too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:35 AM
1

Alone. I’ve seen what severe autism is like, and the toll just one kid with severe autism takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:33 AM
4

Yes, but on our terms. Which are unsatisfying and unappealing to many men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:32 AM
17

We can complain about whatever we want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:30 AM
-5

If that’s what it takes, that’s what it takes. I had to get hotter, more social and less sullen, so that’s what I did
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:30 AM
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If it did, we’d know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:24 AM
-1

Receipts needed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:01 AM
1

Such men aren’t fulfilled and scared of trying to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:19 AM
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I love reading fucked up fiction about toxic people, including erotica. Do I want to live such fiction? Hell no; I read it so I don’t have to live it, and to understand what people who do such irrational things might be thinking Plenty of fiction/erotica isn’t abusive or toxic Maybe you aren’t living your actual life the way you want, but I am, including sexually I recommend it, because we only get one life to live, and it’s not very long
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:15 AM
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According to my partners porn history, he doesn’t really want to be with me. Nor did any man I dated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:14 AM
1

That too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:13 AM
1

Not always. Lots of guys say “she friendzoned me” if it’s a simple rejection from a person an acquaintance as opposed to a complete stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:07 AM
2

Most people know when someone is interested in getting to know them and prefers their company. It’s usually because the person is around them when they don’t have to be, asks them questions and talks to them It’s embarrassing that I have to enumerate this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:05 AM
2

Getting laid is not a principle, it’s a purpose, which red pill shares with many other groups. The novel aspect of red pill is the assumption that society is maliciously lying to you about women to hinder this purpose, for the benefit of women That is why men take the red pill — to counteract society’s anti-male, pro-female lies, just as Neo takes the red pill in the eponymous movie to counteract the Matrix’s digital lies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:52 PM
4

Showing interest in their presence, experiences, background, interests, opinions, enjoyment, activities and actions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:52 PM
1

Not at all. The founding principle of red pill is that society is gynocentric, aka anti male. To this end, it “lies” to men about “female nature”, just as The Matrix “lies” to conceal human enslavement Thus, “amoral sexual strategy” is justified, especially since women are “the oldest teenager in the house” and unable to love men altruistically/AWALT As a red piller here put it “blue pill will lie… to enable womens freedoms at the expense of men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:21 PM
1

All of that stuff can be found in garden variety cycnical, non sexist pessimism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:11 PM
2

Of course. And we do it too. I’m not gonna tell my partner when I’m annoyed at him over a minor issue, or pissed at someone he doesn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:53 PM
-1

Worked for me, as the one giving signals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:53 PM
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Do your tastes in porn contradict what you say you want irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:49 PM
2

Many doesn’t mean all or even most I will never respond to a cold approach, but I don’t have a problem with normal ones, just awful ones. Much like anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:01 PM
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That would be true if only women benefit from friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:59 PM
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That’s what law and policy makers call it, so it is the correct term
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:58 PM
-1

They do hold often power and authority though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:54 PM
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“Women should not be blamed for the things that men choose to do to them“ would be the best advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:53 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s decriminalization, because selling sex is not mentioned as illegal, just buying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:51 PM
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Nope. “She friendzoned me!” is/was a common way to describe a simple rejection, especially if the woman says “let’s/I prefer to be friends”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:45 PM
1

Plenty of men use “friendzoned” to describe simple rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:43 PM
1

It’s used to describe both situations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:42 PM
2

I love how almost no one is answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:41 PM
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This is easily proved or disproved by an internet search
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:40 PM
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Decriminalizing, not legalizing, seems to create the least worst outcomes for women, so that’s what I’m in favor of Still far from clear tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:38 PM
2

Women should not be shamed for having lots of options because men, not women, are the ones giving them these options FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:37 PM
1

People to have a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:58 PM
0

Not at all. It is displayed in public and in the media every minute of every day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:58 PM
1

Yes, you could
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:55 PM
1

People in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:51 PM
-2

Nope. The novel thing about red pill is the adversarial aspect, otherwise it’s just self help with no background of male oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:50 PM
0

Nope, just stating legal procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:49 PM
3

I disagree Women get hit on all the time, mostly benignly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:43 PM
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You’re claim was “women don’t date bad men” and OPs is “women are to blame for bad men” And you are both wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:30 PM
1

He said she said always ends in dismissal unless there’s other evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:26 PM
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Men love clams and marry them for blue diamonds, so women are given child support Hence proved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:17 PM
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If your claim is that male sociopathy is solely women’s fault, you’re assuming male malfeasance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:16 PM
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People know what that means, lol. Only NDs who take everything literally have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:14 PM
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I’ve been hit on respectfully many times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:10 PM
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There’s definitely abusive and shitty men that get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:10 PM
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You asked why people do it, I answered and gave proof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:08 PM
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Right in the responses, no less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
2

Conviction of harassment, assault, etc, by a stranger requires proof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
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Yes, so it’s not an unreasonable expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:05 PM
2

Yup, it’s age that’s the decider in how much harassment you receive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:02 PM
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No, I’m afraid the law is not written by individual women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:59 PM
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I don’t have to be a man to read the opinions that they voluntarily write
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:59 PM
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So you have no proof. Well, I can make stuff up too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:58 PM
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It’s your contention that men will always be bad so it’s women’s fault for letting them, not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:57 PM
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Being attractive, masculine and confident is mainstream advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:55 PM
2

aka red pill without the adversarial worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:54 PM
2

Approaching. For around a quarter of people https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:48 PM
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Why should we assume men will always suck if given the opportunity ? That’s pretty misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:46 PM
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Attractive, confident, above average sexual experience Successful and/or socially skilled as a secondary bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 PM
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People are allowed to be awful and self destructive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:33 PM
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Yes, women who keep dating losers and abusers aren’t admired Shaming is actually not beneficial for kids or for women who want to leave bad relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:31 PM
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Harassment is not asking for a number or date. It’s continuing to talk to someone when they don’t want you to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:30 PM
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Please find a news article or statistic indicating the many incidences of men being arrested for asking a woman for her phone number or date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:29 PM
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You know that most people socialize, right ? It’s not some niche fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:19 PM
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They will complain but we can judge and criticize that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:18 PM
0

Because it works, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:17 PM
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Sex, obviously. The most important thing in the world to men, and their reason for doing anything and everything That’s definitely worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:15 PM
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There’s no excuse but we’re allowed to Just like men are allowed to date shitty women No, shaming and policing is expensive and unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:14 PM
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Great, you answered your own OP and can delete the post now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:11 PM
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Yes. But seeing as the main concern of men on this sub is how fast a woman sleeps with you compared to other guys, fucking is the goal and socializing an impediment to that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:57 PM
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Why would a goalpost keep moving, hmm? Why do people do such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:34 PM
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We’re talking about sex and attraction in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 PM
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That’s not enough to make up the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:24 PM
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No one cares that much about what you do, lol All OP is saying is why be afraid to casually approach if you feel motivated, why pass up a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:22 PM
3

Horny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:14 PM
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Being attractive is not an exclusive red pill strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:12 PM
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That’s because social interaction is not the point of dating and relationships for such people, sex is Also, being social is work, while looks are not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:11 PM
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If we really wanted to, we would And men would be eager to oblige us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:09 PM
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Doesn’t mean it’s true. If women were men, men could just wave their cocks around and women would fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:07 PM
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I did. It’s unspecified accountability, which I asked you to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 AM
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Receipts needed. The sex industry and sex crime rate says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:36 AM
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By 1%. A piddling amount
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:35 AM
1

Nobody gets everything they want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:35 AM
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It’s not. Women are on the apps for a reason, and will settle if they want Especially if they’re bombarded by inferior options. Seeing the market influences choices
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:01 AM
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Then why are so many men complaining about lonlieness, sexlessness, lack of options/interest and female pickiness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:58 AM
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Yes, but you’re not going to offer your number to hundreds of women a day Of course it’s not a void. Women are affected by the information, and make future judgements and decisions based on it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:49 AM
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They have it for way fewer people, which is much less compared to men, resulting in more unhappy men And if women were as horny as men, they’d have harems too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:45 AM
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Many people believe that people are or should be accountable for others behavior as well as their own For example, the belief that women are accountable for tempting, provoking, incentivizing and controlling men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:42 AM
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Being physically attracted to people is malicious behavior, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:40 AM
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You can rationalize all you want, but the fact remains that if women wanted to, they could, while men would, but can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:34 AM
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According to the men here, that is impossible unless you look like a model and make bank Meanwhile even obese hags can have sex 24/7 if they want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:27 AM
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“If” Therein lies the rub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:24 AM
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It’s not the void, it’s a human And you wouldn’t be able to contact anywhere near as many in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:23 AM
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Depends on what kind of “accountability” you mean It wasn’t specified
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:21 AM
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lol, it’s the opposite. Men get to spam and thirst like they can’t in real life, without wasting their time on women who aren’t single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:30 PM
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Mhm, sure you could order free pussies to your door whenever you wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:26 PM
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Because I too share a social/biological preference for hot people, despite not being hot myself, and such prejudice is not malicious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:25 PM
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No, because there are very few social restrictions currently. If I really wanted to fuck men all day, everyday, I could. And I don’t want to Tinder is not Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:24 PM
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Are we accountable for the things men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:21 PM
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Why would they care about that ? It changes nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:18 PM
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Still less, and the cause of all the complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:16 PM
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Yes, and she could call up equivalent dick at any time, any day, any place, with as many men as she wanted, for free Could you do the same ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:13 PM
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From a certain woman or any woman? I too could chafe my genitals raw anytime I wanted, as could pretty much any woman, for free — but I don’t want to, hence the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:07 PM
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If that were a general truth, men wouldn’t be complaining about picky women and not getting laid, and straight dating would look exactly like gay male dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:53 PM
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Because outliers exist and want to be acknowledged (check out the other responses to my comment), and people used to (and still today) deny that women had any sex drive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:53 PM
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Anything related to sex will be swamped with horny men and scammers who may or may not be actual human women You will have to make the platform inconvenient, expensive, tedious or exclusive to resolve the major complaints of OLD And ain’t nobody got the money or motivation to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:41 PM
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Does it matter ? The Op is about the number 1 cause
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:36 PM
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Of course I meant generally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:34 PM
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We’re not men, and never will be. We will never want to fuck as much as you do This reality is neither an injustice nor oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:34 PM
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Disagree. It’s people not wanting to socialize, particularly young people If you don’t leave the house, you won’t fuck; simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:32 PM
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I don’t believe we are in complete promiscuity. As everyone here has noted, sex is down, teen pregnancies are down, hooking up is down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:30 PM
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Gen Z chooses to believe that the internet is life, despite constantly being told by everyone else that it isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:29 PM
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No one like whores, liars and cheaters of any gender, and never have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:26 PM
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My sweet summer Gen Z child, dating has always sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:25 PM
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You can if you find a simp/pickme or similarly desperate/embittered/indiscriminate person But if you’re that whiny, I don’t think you’re really looking to be open to a relationship anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:21 PM
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They both can be, that’s the point — you don’t care what the person feels or thinks, because they are not a person to you, just something to desire Doing something that a person doesn’t like or want is pretty immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:09 PM
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Then prenup it. If he cares, it shouldn’t be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:06 PM
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Neither of those are mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:05 PM
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As a woman, nope. My presentation vastly affects the way people treat me, which is the whole reason I even bother; I certainly don’t do it for “me” What it doesn’t do is change culpability for behavior. Clothing (or cosmetics, or hairstyle) is not motive nor consent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:03 PM
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Fighting and cheating doesn’t sound very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:54 PM
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You don’t have to have a ceremony or guests or any of that. Hire an officiant, pay the fee, have a witness. You can do it in an office; the government doesn’t care Bing bang done
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:53 PM
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Unwanted is unwanted Unpleasant is unpleasant And I’m not going to apologize for feeling either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:27 PM
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Why do it then ? I don’t understand torturing oneself voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:25 PM
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People respect commitment, especially commitment to being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:21 PM
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No, I think it’s unfortunate, unless the parent contributed to it via genetics or choices I am a below average woman with an unattractive personality, and have never thought I should be treated like a hot chick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:05 PM
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Not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:21 PM
2

Men claim a woman cannot be an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:51 PM
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Men claim that such a woman does not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:39 PM
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Yes. He means unattractive, not sexless or neutered. We are very aware that thirsty men are thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:20 PM
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Creeps and pervs are seen as very sexual beings, but unattractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:55 PM
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I didn’t say you did, I am asking why you don’t practice what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:54 PM
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It’s cheaper than oppression Also, who’s got time and energy to be whoring around in this economy after age 25 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:48 PM
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Interesting. So why don’t you abuse women since all of them like it ? Your crush is will totally respond if you tell her you’ll bash her for being a slut, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:45 PM
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Nuance is useful, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:44 PM
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It’s easily answered if you know that women are more social than men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:44 PM
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Unattractive doesn’t equal sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:42 PM
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If we didn’t want better, we’d still be in caves and eating game and forage, and dying at 30 Is that what should be happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:38 PM
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Is it wrong or unjust that unattractive people are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:37 PM
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No, just pointing out the obvious because people act as if this is news
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:05 AM
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People can decide that for themselves, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:51 AM
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Not everyone agrees that sex is love, especially men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:47 AM
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If sex is the entire point of marriage, sure Otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:32 AM
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How would you make it “fair”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:31 AM
-1

You said fun, not love
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:31 AM
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It’s just as valid as telling women to fuck, date and marry men they’re not attracted to Or complaining that all women are bisexual or don’t enjoy sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:04 PM
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Ok. “Those women are internal misogynists” Better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:02 PM
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I’m told by men that men have no standards, because they have no options Not so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:01 PM
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It’s relevant, because hiring a sex worker is a male choice; I have no say over it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:59 PM
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Men tell us that there’s no validation or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:20 PM
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Then he needs to call a suicide hotline or cps Suicide, along with firearm possession, drugs/alcohol, public bigotry and sexual abuse, are the only things that society takes seriously for kids Physical and emotional abuse, sadly, don’t get traction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:17 PM
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Well, there is a discrepancy between people who have never fucked and who have never had a relationship. I assume sex workers make up a good part of the discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:01 PM
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So dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:58 PM
2

I have not noticed this, either in real life, fiction, or celebrity gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:48 PM
0

So? They’re still not laws, and thus easier to change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:45 PM
1

Policies, sentencing, scholarships and other decisions are not laws
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:36 PM
0

They never were legal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:31 PM
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There’s plenty of men around who don’t appear to have a partner. If they don’t make a big deal of it, no one cares —- except maybe their families, for selfish reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:19 PM
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It’s less than 1% https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201401/stats-forty-year-old-virgins Aren’t sex workers great?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:17 PM
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Sex isn’t love And no one is said to deserve love for existing, except children. And even they often don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:12 PM
1

And where are these casual/romantic options coming from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:12 PM
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lol, no — we have to be told and exposed to men before we resent them In contrast, it’s totally logical that men resent women. You want pussy, and we won’t give it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:09 PM
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That’s only after you complain about cold approaching and OLD. If you can’t do hard mode, you’re going to be advised to go easier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:07 PM
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There isn’t much room to discuss Men want to fuck more than women, and are mad and unhappy that women won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:33 AM
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Nah “Choose better” “You must have provoked him” “What did you expect?” “Not all men” “You’re going to ruin his life” “Men have needs” “Your standards are too high” Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:28 AM
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Nope. Practicality, maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:52 PM
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Of course I do Men’s much greater thirst, propensity/facilty at violence and lesser social motivation causes people of all genders to be less open to socializing with and trusting them. This is unfortunate but also logical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:15 PM
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Other social circles, jobs, activities, family, connections, obvs The alternative, doing nothing and being resentful and complaining, will logically be judged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:07 PM
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Yes, they’re called most mainstream media (movies, tv, books, comics, internet content, social media)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:02 PM
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Being bitter and angry that society and his friends didn’t get him a girlfriend or have a lot of sympathy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:41 PM
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Sounds like a lot of money to enable everyone to be lazy and irresponsible The only people I know who can employ all three professionals are at least upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:47 PM
3

The obesity rate is 20-40%, depending on age. That’s a minority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:40 AM
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Then go to 4chan or Tiktok or X or YouTube
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:57 AM
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You did in your post, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:54 AM
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Sure, but it wasn’t about me but others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:09 AM
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Most of it is personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:22 AM
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When you have what you’re complaining about, and resent people for not giving it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:21 AM
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Men are pretty up front about what they want from women And also what they don’t like about women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:20 AM
2

They’re whining about what happens to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:16 AM
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Whoever’s hearing it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:15 AM
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No, because I don’t whine, I give advice about what worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:15 AM
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If it’s unnecessarily negative, yes, and it doesn’t just apply to men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:53 PM
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No one likes bitter whiners Even I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:51 PM
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If that were so, I’d be poor, fat, unemployed and have a bunch of social diseases, physical diseases, addictions and children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:31 PM
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No, people are just annoyed at those who continue to whine and be resentful even after getting relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:28 PM
2

You ask them to hang out alone or go on a date, obviously. You don’t just approach strangers and offer your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:21 PM
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Either you want “the most” pussy or you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:19 PM
2

Who said anything about approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:06 PM
2

Social interaction is not outlier behavior in a social species, social isolation and avoidance is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:03 PM
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That’s where I and most people in my life meet partners. By getting to know them first, rumpy pumpy later. People actually talk to their classmates, coworkers, group members and neighbors, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:00 PM
2

I disagree that women are looking for dick as much as men are looking for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:57 PM
3

Then emulate them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:55 PM
2

The vast majority of men fuck (99.7%), date (79%) and marry (75%) https://health.howstuffworks.com/relationships/love/how-many-people-die-virgins-never-have-sex.htm# https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/06/28/a-record-high-share-of-40-year-olds-in-the-us-have-never-been-married/ https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:11 PM
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They can when they’re not desperate Your options are only rare when compared to your desires
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:00 PM
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Adaptability is definitely heritable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:56 PM
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Yes, and everyone knows that outlier exists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:55 PM
1

It works for most people, that or OLD. Cold approaching strangers is also an option
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:54 PM
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Nope. I suggested socializing, not dick slinging
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:52 PM
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Nope. I’m older, and the older you get, the more people are meeting at work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:15 PM
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Not at all. Friends + school + work + family added together is more than OLD or cold approaching in bars
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:09 PM
3

Then why are you looking for dating advice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:07 PM
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That was your choice to close off a major source of mixed gender socializing Now you’re stuck with friends, family, outside interests, cold approaching and online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:06 PM
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If you want to be labeled a desperate pest, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:04 PM
4

You new here? Just read the post titles for the last week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:03 PM
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You know they do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:03 PM
1

Not when the government enforces them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:02 PM
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Only if you make it our problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:02 PM
2

Go ahead and ask strange women to fuck. I’m sure you’ll be very successful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:01 PM
2

Ugly is a minority, not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:01 PM
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Nope https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:00 PM
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And that is why you fail Pursuing pussy and not people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:32 AM
1

Depends on what you want for compensation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:18 AM
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Conversation doesn’t have to be intellectual to be social or amiable, as you are well aware
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:18 AM
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The point is you don’t socialize with your dick, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:04 AM
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I assure you that non chads have approached me more than chads
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:00 AM
3

Nope. I suggest being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:52 AM
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“The vast majority of women spend their teen and 20’s living in the rotation of a minority of alpha men” That’s the male harem fantasy I see no evidence that the majority of men have had SA/SH allegations, had their reputations ruined, been the focus of social accusations and campaigns, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:51 AM
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It happens to most people I know, including myself For the last 5 weddings I’ve been to: Work OkCupid Work Friends Work subcontractor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:40 AM
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We don’t do that in solitary confinement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:37 AM
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I just told you Here’s where I met every partner I ever had School School Work Professional group Work Club sport
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:37 AM
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You meet lots of people and filter from there Cmon; I know you know how to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:34 AM
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No. We’re just not willing to put up with sub par treatment unless compensated I know a lot of secondary earning dads. They actually act like primary caretakers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:35 PM
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If you have social relationships, you don’t have to do that That’s the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:34 PM
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They should deliberately date people compatible with them in the course of creating and maintaining social relationships As opposed to spraying their dicks around desperately, recklessly and indiscriminately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:32 PM
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Work, school/continuing education/professional training, social circles Like most people do, statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:51 PM
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Of course it is. Sleeping with tons of people is a male, not female, fantasy Please elaborate how women wish death and suffering on the vast majority of men by their treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:27 PM
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That’s not what happens on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:25 PM
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No, of course not. It just makes it less likely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:43 PM
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Sure there is. Most people date and marry people similar to them. Even if you’re divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:42 PM
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That’s projection of male desires We’re not men, as men are well aware Not fucking you is not wishing suffering and death, no matter how many times you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:36 PM
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Depends on how she saw the relationship. Certainly not a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:00 PM
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Attractive for a relationship and attractive for sex are two different things I know you guys know this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:58 PM
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You get what you give, in many cases
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:57 PM
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No, I have learned very early, don’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:56 PM
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Uh, anyone who isn’t physically attractive? People get fame from other things, like talent, skill, luck, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:54 PM
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The reverse, usually. Many sexual fetishes have non sexual origins, like mommy fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:53 PM
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Not sure; the cut had to be lowered quite early on And now that I’m older it’s lower anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:51 PM
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For me, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:56 AM
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Hmmm, if a hypothesis doesn’t match the evidence, what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:55 AM
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Failing to offer women what they want, which is romantic love, presumably resulting in failed relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:53 AM
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That’s because men assume the fetish has to do with sexual attraction Fetishizing money or career, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:52 AM
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Time Trust is earned
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:51 AM
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Why should we when men don’t either ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:51 PM
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It’s not, if the the woman didn’t intend it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:51 PM
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They do The fact that most younger women aren’t attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:50 PM
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Fine, because your take on the situation is not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:50 PM
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If you love the fetish and not me, I am easily replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:12 AM
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So? They will either learn or never succeed, just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:11 AM
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The people who answered the surveys made it feasible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:09 AM
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What “reasons”? I just gave stats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:46 PM
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The breakdown is currently 16% female breadwinners, 29% egalitarian, 55% male breadwinners, with women doing the majority of domestic labor Seems pretty fair https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:44 PM
2

Mhmm, that’s why they’re so appealing in wealthy, modern countries with female autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:07 PM
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TIL that conservative traditions are fixed and genetically transmitted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:05 PM
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Expect me to do most or all of the work to get them hard again, repeatedly, and then blame me And then not being able to finish at all, and being sullen about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:02 PM
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No, that’s the entire point of relationships, traditionally. We’re supposed to tame savage beasts or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:34 PM
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It is if you make it my problem Which some men have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:33 PM
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You know who the earliest and biggest misandrists in my life were ? Men. Specifically, my dad, uncles and cousins They were also misogynists too, but that’s another issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:33 PM
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Scolding people into having more and earlier babies never works
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:17 PM
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Not if we’re blamed and judged for not considering a man dangerous because they’re a man, aka victim blaming And we are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:15 PM
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Nah. We’re not the French, with all their affairs and second families
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:45 AM
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You can help. Risking life is not expected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:44 AM
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Men are very much aware of the libido disparity, I assure you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:43 AM
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I don’t think they will drop enough to change behavior or attitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:07 AM
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You misspelled biology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:12 PM
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Most people don’t ask for either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:12 PM
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Hashtag notallrelationships Also, money is still a thing, especially if you have kids And women sure do love babies, even now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:11 PM
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Why do you think America is the only country that exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:09 PM
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Sure they can. Gold diggers and second wives still exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:07 PM
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No, everyone already know that women aren’t thirsty and indiscriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:03 PM
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If that were true, men wouldn’t be complaining about the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:31 PM
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Because it would be dumb of us to not learn from the past, wouldn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:51 AM
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Why do men keep saying that when it doesn’t get them what they want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:50 AM
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It’s not. A bad date/partner is worse than being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:47 AM
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If that’s what someone considers success, that can be criticized
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:46 AM
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So? We are concerned with real world, not fictional, outcomes, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:05 AM
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Why fiction and not irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:18 AM
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Sex work is prostitution, not relationships Men complain about not having sex, not lacking love If you think women don’t enjoy sex, you will be confused about a lot of our behavior. We just don’t have sex like men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:18 AM
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Yes, but it’s harder. Online only relationships don’t seem very fulfilling to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:30 PM
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If you don’t want to play games, don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:28 PM
1

Those are part of conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:25 PM
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If you have to manipulate and exaggerate, it’s bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:28 PM
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You admitted your title was bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:05 PM
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Receipts needed for these various numbers you’ve tossed out *”my ass” is not a receipt Also, high schoolers and college students date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:02 PM
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Not at all. If we want you, we’ll let you know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:01 PM
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Guess the truth isn’t a concern
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:00 PM
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Again, I knew that you’re supposed to display what people, not you, want to see —- at age 11. Especially when you’re trying out for a team, or running for student council or club president, or applying to a competitive school Also, “slaughters” How dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:53 PM
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I’m sorry it took you until your first real job to understand that you need to put your best self out there and give a shit about things other than you Most of us learn that in middle school, or even earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:42 PM
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You’re the one reducing relationships to sex and money, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:51 PM
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Again, deliberate denial of female employment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:37 PM
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These were all average, normal dudes They weren’t all slurs or insults — icky opinions count too, like “chicks aren’t funny” or “it’s biology”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:28 PM
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Yes, so not the best place to ask for personal experience, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:08 PM
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