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If you listen to this track from his first album you'll hear Bill explaining his position. Nia's been with him since back in the day. If you listen to their podcast you'll hear they have a fantastic rapport. Bill said, "When people ask me who makes me laugh, I don't even have to think I about it, I say 'my wife.'" How many guys are getting cleaned out emotionally and financially by some acquisitive bitch who was only there for his finish line? If you've got a woman who was with you for the ups a…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:36 PM
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Given that this message/meme is now out there in the mass consciousness this has got to be a good thing for men. We never saw this kind of comedy message in the 80's and 90's. Betas like this were held aloft as the "sensitive, sweet guys women wanted" and a whole generation of men was brainwashed into weakness. Masculinity was lampooned and diminished as being equivalent to low intelligence and lack of sophistication. Now we are making jokes about these beta guys. The assumption behind the humou…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:43 AM
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Thanks. So if someone is trying to AMOG you by playfully patting your arm, an appropriate response would be to pat theirs right back.
/r/seduction09/04/14 07:16 AM
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"Making playful, non-reciprocated contact with male friends" What do we think is the importance of the "non-reciprocated" element? Does this mean if you tap your buddy on the arm and he DOES tap you back, she assumes: 1) You have no dominance over him? 2) He is your boyfriend?
/r/seduction09/04/14 12:20 AM
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I want to see more comments like this on TRP. The teachings here have saved my sanity and I'm much much happier in my life, as a man, and with women as a result. BUT, once you get this stuff you have to realise that women aren't like a marketing or advertising company. These companies have made a science out of systematically exploiting consumers psychologically to get the advantage over them. They know what they are doing every step of the way. The consumer is getting mindfucked, not the compan…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 09:53 AM
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You raise an interesting issue I've been pondering for some time. When women are craving emotion/drama, when they are trying to push your buttons, and you just walk away whilst maintaining your power and composure letting them know you're happy to leave, and then later they come back to you with adoration - what was it they were hoping you would do originally? If you lose your shit and blow up what do they gain?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 09:36 AM
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Patrice O'Neal has a fantastic breakdown of this dynamic. If we can keep this in our heads we'll be ok
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 08:46 AM
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That's why I can't subscribe to the "fake it til you make it" strategy a lot of PUA-types advocate. Like you say, it can get results in the short-term, but I know a lot of these phony fucks. Once their burqas come off they are boys. And the women they have attracted are wildly disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:21 AM
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Bill Hicks on the Ted Bundy situation.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:05 AM
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I know this app is going to die on it's ass but I'm concerned about the future. I remember reading a reddit thread where a woman was comforting the OP whose date had actually been quite exploitative. She said, "I wish they had an app where all the guys in your area could be reviewed and so you'd know if they were a scumbag." Oh great idea. So when some woman is embarrassed and trying to do damage control after your one night stand together, she can just go on this app and say, "this guy got me d…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:12 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ, you're 19?! I'm 32 and only just getting comfortable with this stuff. Good on yer. Great work, man.
/r/seduction26/01/14 10:02 AM
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What would Frank do in this situation? Probably call over his Mafia friend: "Hey Mike, take this guy outside would ya? He needs a lesson in manners." "Sure t'ing, Frank. Alright you, c'mere . . ." [savage Joe Pesci style beating ensues in an alley]
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:40 AM
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Haha! I like that. I'd probably be more krypto-passive-aggressive/self-depracatory/actually-dominating with the bloke (in typical Brit fashion): "Ugh, mate, your breath [make disgusted face] - were you rimming my mum before you got here?! You're excused."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:33 AM
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On the subject of relationship gatekeeping - Listen to the Black Phillip shows with Patrice O'Neill. Sorry, I'm on my phone and can't find the link. He gives a fucking brilliant perspective on this. Basically he points out that a man gives out his time the way a woman gives out sex. Be honest, the most interesting people for you to actually spend time with in a non-sexual way are your male friends, correct? Or not even your friends, just men that you know. If you could somehow create a woman who…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 09:06 PM
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Fantastic bit. Link.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 11:20 AM
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He's in the wonderful honeymoon period a lot of Western men go through when they come to Japan. It is true, Japanese women just throw themselves at you if you flaunt a little status. You feel like a fucking rock star. I had some good times when I first got here. But you realise pretty quickly that marriage is at the very top of their priorities. Even in their 20's. I haven't worked out how to do plate-spinning with Japanese women yet. They all expect exclusivity and commitment from the get-go so…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 11:14 AM
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Exactly. This is the difference between simply being 'interesting on paper', and building rapport.
/r/seduction11/01/14 09:41 AM
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My kingdom for a time machine.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:44 AM
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I agree that's a very important question. I'm going to take a stab at answering it. I'm going to apply a lot of my personal perspective, which I realise isn't very scientific. I think we need to remember a few environmental conditions when considering TRP's attitude towards putting out early: When a woman is younger and her physical value is higher it's famously said that the top 20% of the men get 80% of the sex. This inevitably means that there's going to be a LOT of sexually frustrated men ou…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 06:38 AM
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Now what would be fascinating is to see what happened when ten other guys take the exact same approach.
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:26 AM
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I've gotten a lot of lays because of my phone. I've yet to meet a woman who's impressed by an I-phone 5, or any phone for that matter. Then again, the apps can be helpful for meeting and chatting with women.
/r/seduction05/01/14 08:43 AM
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You're absolutely right, man, but unfortunately I don't think a lot of people are ready to hear what you're saying. I too am sick of seeing newly-awakening men being mislead by a bunch a fragile super-egos, the "just start believing you're a rock star" evangelists. For one thing, these assholes start far too many sentences with the word, "just", when they claim to be advising their brethren. That's all you need to know these men have never held a position of authority. You can't instruct those l…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 03:19 AM
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Mate, fucking excellent work. It's one thing to just go in with the intention of opening and allow the initial momentum to work for you. That's what most people rely on. But no, it sounds like you actually hesitated for a long time, and still managed to bring yourself round to take action. Awesome stuff. Imagine how crappy you'd have felt if you went the whole bus journey without talking to her at all. G'wan.
/r/seduction31/12/13 03:02 AM
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Here's a technique I developed. It's a bit weird, but hey, sometimes that's the only way we're allowed to go in modern society and still be assertive: At the point I'm interrupted, I lock eyes with the person who offended, grinning a big grin like we're sharing a joke, widen my eyes and continue what I was saying in a comically loud voice. ME: "so I walk in and the guy behind the counter looks like [person interrupts, I continue as described above] HANNIBAL LECTOR IN SILENCE OF THE LAMBS WHICH W…
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 10:58 PM
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Historically I was a non-sporty type who loved music instead as a non-competitive medium. Something that's really helped me is listening to the comedian Bill Burr's Monday Morning Podcast. He talks with enthusiasm about hockey, american football, football and rugby. He's also funny as fuck.
/r/becomeaman30/12/13 01:49 PM
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SIR, YES SIR!!!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:42 PM
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I think it can be a useful phrase. It has been exploited to put men at increased risk of physical and mental health damage. The only person who has ANY authority to say it is you, to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:40 PM
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So, if you start out FWB honestly (if that's even possible, because I'm not sold that there's a sane, healthy woman alive who isn't in the market to find the right alpha male and lock him down) Haha, I agree, man. You just reminded me of my last girlfriend - in a conversation she threw out something that happened with her FWB buddy in the past. I think she was trying to test how I'd react on hearing about her having such an understanding with someone. I just said, "the whole FWB thing, I don't k…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:10 AM
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Right on, man. I like the extension of the red-pill metaphor to the character, Cypher. Holy shit, I was just looking for a clip of him on Youtube but there's already a MGTOW themed clip of him. The argument with him would be: Cypher: What's the fucking difference? The Matrix feels real. The Matrix tells my brain it is the truth. It tells my mind I can feel good on it's terms. If my brain believes that then what's the problem? TRP: That's nice. But it's not real. It is not the truth.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 03:19 PM
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I agree with hotshot. And I would say what he said about the emotional issue, "be a man about them" can also be applied to other areas. Like mistakes. The OP talks about the importance of keeping your word. This is important. But so are mistakes. We all make them. You're allowed to make them, just be a man about them. Like for example - this past weekend I forgot to text a woman I'm meeting for language exchange. I said I would text her about when we're meeting next, but I had so much other stuf…
/r/seduction17/12/13 10:29 AM
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THIS, OP, THIS!! Seriously, this is what took me YEARS to wrap my head around. Swallow your pride and get over this NOW. To take a famous example - I couldn't let Russel Brand into my brain for ages. Regardless of what anybody here thinks of his work or alphaness, the fact remains he has got tonnes of minge (as we would charmingly say in the UK). For years I was just like, "Nope, he's a cocky asshole, why would I want to be like that." I only recently manned the fuck up enough to know I was just…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 10:32 PM
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There's some good advice in this thread OP. I'm going to give you some atypical advice. Take it or leave it. I wish you the best of luck. Try approaching a middle-aged woman who, y'know, might be a little starved of attention. I've dated a couple of women (in superb condition, I might add) in their fourties when the opportunity presented itself and they were AMAZING experiences. They know what they're doing, they will tell you what they want, even if they want you to dominate them. There's a lot…
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:28 AM
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That is the problem with a lot of people who cry "alpha". They apply the principals of human attraction behaviour and assume that these dynamics are without exception played out in every single exchange, completely faithfully to the theories as they interpret them. This starts to fall apart when you have them analysing a conversation between a group a successful, 'alpha' types and spluttering, "this guy! This guy's the alpha in the room! It's him! Be like this guy!" Completely ignoring the fact …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 07:02 AM
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Seriously, I really like this analogy. And it can be taken further. Sailors are not born, they are made. If you want to become a sailor, you need to get on the sea. You will stumble a lot at first, you will also get wet (huehuehue) eventually, it's inevitable. You will find your sea-legs. You will find how you function on the ship in a way that works for you. It's a hard path to follow, it takes years/decades to develop mastery. There are so many situations where you can't afford to fuck around.…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 06:35 AM
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I TOTALLY agree with you, man, and at the same time I just don't think our society/culture allows for a woman to take a long, dark, painful, introspective moment with herself; to process the situation around her - her REALITY - and have her computation spit out a harsh truth: That she needs to change, fundamentally. Most women today will go on the internet for advice, meet the tumblr termagants preaching how she's entitled to the man of her dreams, and how she just needs to continue occupying a …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:07 PM
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Send the guy to TRP. You want your sister to be happy, right?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 01:51 PM
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I'm sure you know this already, just want to emphasise: The fact that you wince when you go over this stuff means you are not that guy anymore. You are superior to that guy. Most of us were that guy at some point due to indoctrination. And HERE'S the amazing part. It's impossible to go back. It would take a near-mortal blow to the head to undo the understanding you've earned. Enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 01:46 PM
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it sounds like he has found his balls. And that's such a great thing. I, and I'm sure many other men here, have been fucked over by a woman in the past. Yes, I learned my poor frame was a large part of it, but so was her inherent nature. But that moment when you realise what's happening, and that primal rage comes out of you (I'm almost shaking remembering it, I certainly did at the time) and your inherent nature as a man bursts out, yelling, "Fuck this! I'm out of here!" It's such a painful les…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:26 PM
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Good show, old man!
/r/seduction24/11/13 12:24 PM
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Reminds me of this Chris Rock bit
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:16 AM
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isn't it funny that both guys and girls are at their horniest when their value is at its lowest? That trick of nature still keeps me up at night. Why?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:11 AM
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Now I'm in my thirties I can hear the 21 year-old me who was too shy to approach women sexually. I can hear him screaming at me, "If they're not going to give me a chance now when they can do better, don't you fucking DARE settle for less now when you can!" I don't know if it strictly is 'payback' in these circumstances, but it is most assuredly a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 05:57 AM
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"Winners go home and fuck the prom queen"
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 11:09 AM
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Absolutely, and just to back-up what you've said here: I was listening to the David Deangelo and Hypnotica interview very recently. David said that men approach him saying "I've been dating this girl and it's going well but [insert typical problem - she's not texting me as often/she's not as available/she's being flakey, what can I say to her to make her want me more? etc etc]. Rather than try to advise them on their specific problem with that specific woman he advises them, "go out and get more…
/r/seduction20/11/13 11:59 AM
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You've touched on a point that I've hitherto suspected and think of in neurological terms (guess who was a nerdy beta until the red pill?)(Now a professionally successful high-status nerd in blue-pill recovery) It seems that achieving Alpha-ness is like the conduction of nerve impulses. Before a nerve conducts an impulse it's ready to fire, it has everything it needs i.e. an ion gradient that is physically aching to restore the energy equilibrium. But it can't because of the voltage gates that a…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 12:49 PM
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One idea. One field report blip. Idea - Offer to do sprint training with them. I've done this with a female friend who was training at the same time: You both share a lane. You do 1 length (do they call them "laps" in the states?) as fast as you can, when you get to the end she starts and does the same. When she arrives at your end you do two lengths as fast as you can, when you finish she starts. Then you go up to three. Back to two. Then one. Stop, all breathless and enjoying a MAD endorphin r…
/r/seduction17/11/13 12:07 PM
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Here's what worked for me: Talk like Jean Luc Picard. Now, it took years for it to become my normal way of speaking. I'd forget I meant to do it a lot. And when I first started my friends and my brother used to take the piss. But I stuck with it. I had a wonderful outcome with two of recent girlfriends when we'd be walking along talking and they'd remark, "you've got a great voice." BOOM! And I can make myself heard in clubs. I repeat, it took a long time though. Caution: I have a British accent…
/r/seduction17/11/13 10:35 AM
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UK version of "can you get to the good part please": Skip to the end . . .
/r/seduction11/11/13 06:04 AM
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Yes, please!
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:59 AM
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Also, I don't what you call a "good friend", but none of mine would assist a cock-block like that. Just saying. Or maybe he'd had a few too many and wasn't thinking.
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:03 AM
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1 - I think it would be helpful to qualify what "very flirty" and "seemed interested" mean, and how "going out again" was discussed. 2 - But something I found helpful to remember with these issues though - I had to tell myself, "Stop being such a fucking egomaniac; stop making everything she does about what you did. Remember she's a whole person too. She has a whole life to live with a thousand different competing interests, just like you do (because you're interesting). Anything could have happ…
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:15 PM
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Meh. Thanks to studying game I now enjoy success with women. However, I have never identified with the anachronistic "alpha" stereotypes, traits, behaviours, whatevers, that most people would think of. I decided early on to be congruent with my personality - The Outsider, The Nerd, The Wanderer, The Metalhead - whilst working on success with women in the world of attraction. Definitely not "The Leader", "The Player", "The Tribal Warrior", "The Alpha". In my opinion these are labels that have bee…
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:30 AM
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