Sabinecharles Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women? Not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 06:22 AM
19	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing A lot of women like being single what do you not understand. It’s less drama and headache. Damn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 06:28 AM
1	What is your ideal body type for a potential partner? The upturned nose. Is that a nose job I’m hearing? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 12:46 PM
22	What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough." Oh my gosh, what? This. THIS. It can be so terrifying dating as a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 09:45 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? I clearly said not all sex workers are happy. But then again, how many people love their jobs? Is everyone passionate about their job? Have you spent time around sex workers? Because... some actually had inspiration that inspired them to be in the industry. Sex workers are some of the MOST passionate people I know. I did not say all of them are happy. Do we only protect and accept those that love their jobs? Or jobs accepted by society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 06:25 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? Actually I don’t think sex work is low status- lol. Maybe I just don’t really consider what others think? I’m not saying that’s good or bad, but why would a person let others dictate their life? I wouldn’t tell my family and friends because there is stigma attached, not because I’m ashamed. I think about this a lot. I’d try to be supportive. Adult children will do what they do. One can learn a lot about their own sexuality in this industry too. People are interesting. If you manage your money pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 12:47 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? Hill I’m trying to die on? Did you read anything else I said? I’m not saying parenting doesn’t influence kids, but it’s not the only thing. You’ve never heard of the black sheep of the family? Most second or third born tend to move towards the arts and take a less traditional path. Would you say most kids with addiction became a substance user because of their parents? What about the ones who shoot up schools? I’m not saying sex workers come from perfect households, but there is this wrong and b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 12:32 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? Onlyfans is legal. Porn is legal. And prostitution isn’t illegal everywhere. I’d also argue that there are a lot of jobs where body use is important. Laborers, warehouse workers are used to just move things. What about the military? Religion also says being gay is wrong, so I’m not sure why you threw that it in there. Sex work is WORK - why are you blaming the worker for hypothetically breaking up a family? If it’s not a sex worker a client will see and “ruin his family with” it’s with someone e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 03:43 AM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? First, I wouldn’t equate serial killers with sex work. Or the mafia. There have been folks who murder which were brought up in a “stable” environment. Most folks who are serial killers have a brain abnormality, something has to trigger it. If it’s not their home life that will trigger them, certainly something in adulthood will. Most people are born with their personality already set and brain chemistry. Second. I don’t know - some sex workers really like their job, why would a parent be upset t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 08:33 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? This comment is just repeating what I already read in the comments. Why does it make the father feel like a failure? Sometimes, jobs have NOTHING to do with the parents. We put too much pressure on parents, people are born with most of their personality developed. It’s not about you. The stigma for sex work is so ridiculous - most folks USE their services. Stop playing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 03:02 PM
1	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? Why are they considered low status?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 02:59 PM
0	Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker? These responses are disturbing. Parents don’t own their children. I can understand concerns, but disowning? What world are you all living in? If anything, you should try and be supportive because if it is a decision she makes, wouldn’t you want her to be able to come to you for help? It’s like none of you think a woman can actually make this choice, even being brought up in an environment with other options available. And I’m sure most of you watch porn so it just makes me confused. Obviously yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 03:18 AM
4	Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income You can definitely overcome shyness if you try. I don’t have an OF because it isn’t really my taste. I don’t make content. I also don’t want to deal with folks messaging me all day. BUT it can be very fun if you like making content. Posts like OPs are infuriating - stop shaming women’s sexuality! Women can enjoy sex and their work in the sex industry too! There is always a time and place to be sexy - in this industry, you can control it. It’s like, women are sexualized anyway, might as well make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 09:25 PM
8	Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income And shocker, entertainers might actually enjoy their work. Get out of here! Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 08:42 PM
16	Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income It’s like - if you don’t like OF or porn, don’t participate. Don’t shame or knock the folks who do. I’m agreeing with you. Lol Why are people so concerned with what other people do with their bodies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 08:24 PM
10	Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income Sex work has and will always be around. It’s just a bit more open now. And it’s a relatively small number of folks who participate in the industry compared to vanilla jobs. Eye roll	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 08:19 PM
11	Women are 6x more likely to get divorced (read get left) if they suffer from cancer or MS, compared to their male counterparts That’s so inconsiderate	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 02:15 AM
11	"Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped. Also, just because someone is attracted to someone, doesn’t mean they want to have sex at that time. Rapists can be physically attractive, they aren’t all foots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 02:31 AM
0	Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on dating At this point everyone should just be trained to fight. Self defense can even be useless against someone who knows how to fight, ha. Just because there are criminals doesn’t mean we shouldn’t talk about how violence is bad. There is a lot of learned behavior where people don’t even realize what they are doing are bad. Especially with sexual assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 09:44 PM
1	Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on dating People can use it against you. If you’re going to tell people to carry around knives you should tell them how to properly handle them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 09:26 PM
4	Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on dating Ok- this is the most logical post on this whole sub. If folks don’t understand this comment, they should go to therapy. The drinking thing really gets me. For gods sake, women should be allowed to go out and have fun. Just like men. Promising young woman highlights this and I’m unsure if it would be triggering for those who experienced sexual assault or rape..but the rage Carey mulligans character feels hits close to home. Just pure rage and frustration. To everyone who thinks sexual assault or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 08:18 PM
2	Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on dating Nah folks are preyed on by predators. They aren’t strong. Predators apparently have to pick “weak” targets. Lol sounds pretty cowardly. I don’t think those who are preyed upon are weak though. I do think a lot of people see the good in others. If you have a kind heart, people take advantage of that. Being kind isnt weak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 08:14 PM
7	Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on dating I don’t think knives are a great weapon. It’s easy for someone to take out of your hands and use against you. People shouldn’t be carrying weapons unless they know how to use them. Stupid advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 08:02 PM
2	What turns a woman on changes alot from age 16 to 24 Aren’t you supposed to be an adult? Lol yikes	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/21 03:12 AM
0	Can someone be considered “loyal” if they aren’t practicing “fidelity”? This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 01:41 AM
1	CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20s Oh that’s so true! Lol I hear people even removing their buccal fat just to have cheekbones in their 20s. However when their face thins out in their 30s ...yikes! I think it’s buccal fat. I could be wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 03:56 AM
1	CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20s Yes! So lucky. I’m half black so i hope I have a LITTLE bit of this. At least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 03:48 AM
3	CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20s I’ve heard this too. A plastic surgeon said this. People look most (facially) esthetically pleasing in their 30s!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 03:47 AM
5	CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20s Johnny depo circa 1990s...when he lost some baby fat around his face. Cheekbones!!! Ugh so nice to look at. I still think he’s handsome. I can’t tell what he looks like as he seems to wear hats and sunglasses a lot 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 12:50 AM
6	CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20s I can agree with this. There are black men out there who look 28 but they are in their 40s. I’m like ??? Amazing! Women too! Phew	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 12:46 AM
1	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. Now THIS is something that I’m not educated on. How does this work? If a man was raped, can he fight child support? How common is this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 01:28 AM
1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. I KNOW and she’s so cute lol. She seems like she has a nice personality	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/20 06:08 AM
1	Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious? This makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 03:50 AM
1	Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious? There are asexual men you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 03:48 AM
7	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Look at Regina hall. SHES FIFTY https://twitter.com/chuuzus/status/1337830700041576449?s=21 And cute as ever!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:48 PM
11	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Or take the NYC subway! I was just talking about this with my mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:46 PM
7	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. Nicole Kidman keeps having kids! If given the right opportunity, women can have kids at 50. I think it’s a little late for both men and women but it’s not my life!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:45 PM
0	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. It’s his money & status, not looks. I saw him and he looked homeless! Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:42 PM
3	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. I’ve met 50+ men with soft skin lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:41 PM
10	OnlyFans and nudes sent are eventually going to come around and bite women in the ass. Nah it’ll be sort of the same. Some men care some don’t. At least now folks can pay for their porn instead of getting it for free. I’m sure most men watch / have watched porn before... do you all hate yourselves that much that you shame the women in it? If you’re a man who watched or has watched porn, why do you hate / not have respect for the women in it? Serious question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 04:03 AM
7	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? Or they have both, lol. Plenty of sex workers in relationships!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 05:07 PM
2	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? Clients are paying for a fantasy. That’s the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 05:05 PM
1	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? Absolutely	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 05:05 PM
3	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? And so what? Is everyone cut out for every job out there? Give me a break. You have no clue what you’re talking about. You seem to have this idea that sex workers are drug addicts with mental issues with 0 education. Wake up, that’s not true. I’d like to add, there aren’t as many jobs that provide flexibility either. Have you ever thought providers / sex workers like working for themselves? They essentially control everything about their business, leave them alone. Oh please, stop saying somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 05:03 PM
1	30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you. Try to keep talking to those you find attractive. The more you do it, it gets easier! Even if they don’t reciprocate, it’s good practice. Yes! 32 is still young. You only feel old because well, you are the oldest you have ever been. You aren’t even fifty years old yet! So much life to live!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:54 AM
1	30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you. This sounds like me, female version. Ugh it can be nerve racking speaking to others. You’re still young!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 03:59 AM
12	30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you. At some point, isn’t the common denominator you? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 03:54 AM
4	30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you. Ah, I don’t want kids. The thought of pregnancy makes me feel very sick. I have an aversion to the idea of having something grow inside me. Seriously freaks me out! It’s so invasive	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 03:52 AM
2	Why won’t you go gay for pay? Huh? So sex is only about love for men? Not every woman participated in hookup culture. I was a virgin until 25. Never had a one night stand, never dated anyone in high school or college. Had crushes— yes. Everyone views sex differently. It’s not that big of a deal. Find someone who shares the your similar view. As I get older & I am old, I have realized that people are very different in perspective but we all essentially do want to feel connected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 09:04 PM
4	Why won’t you go gay for pay? A lot of jobs don’t suit many people, lol. This job doesn’t suit many people either. You are not wrong though. I’ve always found the industry interesting and I don’t know why. I always focused on my other career through out my life but finally decided to try it out. I am glad I did. I work for myself, make my own schedule, I have a community that I feel connected to. I generally like it. Lmao! I wouldn’t say 100% of my screws are tight but whose actually are? I know not everyone’s story is like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 06:02 PM
4	Why won’t you go gay for pay? Not everyone thinks sex is just about love. It can be but people view things differently. While I respect your opinion and it is more in the norm, you’re blaming women for desecrating sex? I mean. Hello? Most clients are looking for sex WITHOUT attachment. That’s the whole point. But I also believe, many many people do NOT receive ANY physical or emotional attention. It is quite nice to have someone pay attention to you. Life isn’t easy, people are lonely, shy, awkward, ugly, disabled. Some clie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:46 PM
16	Why won’t you go gay for pay? Correction, not everyone chooses sex work out of desperation! This is misinformation. Some do, but not all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:35 PM
2	Which is more appealing to you: a life of pleasure or a life of purpose? Purpose	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 12:33 AM
9	If older man go for younger women because they aren’t attracted to women their age, what do they do when that woman gets older? I don’t think its necessarily because a woman is getting older. Marriage is hard. I can’t imagine being with someone for 10+ years AND raising kids. And yet, their are faithful partners out there who have been together for years. It takes a lot of effort and self reflection to make sure you’re creating a good life for your partner as well. People cheat, divorce for a plethora of reasons...I think it’s easy to not appreciate your partner as the years go on. That is really important in someones ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/20 04:50 AM
5	Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older? I liked your comment! I laughed out loud at the last sentence!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:18 PM
7	Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older? 48 is old? If you think 48 is old good luck. You’ll be that age before you know it (if you’re lucky.) People live well into their 70s, haven’t you heard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:16 PM
2	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? I don’t understand what is wrong about thoughts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 09:31 PM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Ok. Since we aren’t discussing what behavior means, you think it’s ok if someone is disrespectful or suggestive to another based off of how that person dresses?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 09:10 PM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Not necessarily. Behavior is ones actions and how they act towards others. Anyone can wear a bikini because they like it, not because they welcome indecent attention. People dress for themselves as they should. It’s not an excuse for people to be impolite	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 08:22 PM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Okay..? Anyone’s behavior is on them. I’m sure we agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 07:30 PM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Yes. Rich people can be low class. What I am so confused	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 07:30 PM
4	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Ok. I’m not using the word class in that way. Having class does not mean you’re rich, it is a way a person behaves. The Kardashian’s are like trump. Trump is wealthy (I guess?) but he is trashy. He’s like the definition of a wealthy person with no class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 06:00 AM
3	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? I thought it was in everyone’s nature to check out people they find attractive? It’s not? I thought we were talking about behavior. I’d never say something suggestive or stare at someone as it would make them uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 05:52 AM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Alright. I’m not arguing against people’s thoughts, it’s their behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 05:51 AM
5	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Huh? You’ve never heard the expression, money does not buy class? Being “classy” is polite. And polite means not staring or being suggestive towards someone based off of what they are wearing. Unless it’s a mutual attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 05:49 AM
3	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Class? Have you ever heard money can’t buy class?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 05:49 AM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? What do you mean by instincts? I don’t understand how we can change a persons thoughts. How is this even a topic? It’s natural to find people attractive, men and women. And a bikini or turtleneck, someone will find it attractive. Doesn’t even matter lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 03:00 AM
2	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Staring? When did I say staring? There is nothing wrong with admiring someone, but don’t stare too long— it’s impolite It’s natural to find people attractive. It’s rude to act on that attraction or be insistent if it’s not reciprocated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 02:57 AM
32	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? Agreed. I see attractive men everyday, I keep myself on the down low. I see attractive women everyday, I keep it on the down low. The people that blame their behavior on what someone is wearing are ridiculously low class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 02:56 AM
3	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? A woman can’t wear a bikini if she likes it? I mean, women do dress for themselves you know. They should be able to. Women shouldn’t have to dress themselves each morning thinking what a man thinks. God that’s terrible. You are dumbing men down, thinking they have no control over themselves. Give me a break.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 02:53 AM
5	How does female dress size effect their SMV? And does it create millions of single who cannot adjust their biology and pursue fat women? Wait, I’m a size 2 and my hips do not look like hers (I wish.) Lol She look more like a 6/8	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 11:31 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 10:33 PM
2	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Not all women are looking for providers. Are we hating women for this? If a woman can make more money on onlyfans than in retail, why would she stay in retail? And actually making decent money from that platform isn’t easy. People think it is. But it’s not. However, not all women use their sexuality to get what they want. Women can enjoy their sexuality as well, sex isn’t just for men. But, I’d like to say people use money and other things to get what they want all the time. I mean, hello? This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 07:48 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic It is. That kind of job is a small minority — they just use social media as a platform, they are loud. And just because someone is a sex worker doesn’t mean it’s because they don’t have other options or are single. A lot do have relationships and have other careers. Some do not have other options. We really shouldn’t make assumptions or shit on people if they aren’t really harming anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 11:48 AM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Nobody has control over that. I thought meant acting on it. Lol Obviously there isn’t something you can do about someone’s mind, it’s the actions	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 11:45 AM
8	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic It’s more like choosing when to be viewed sexually. There is a time and a place for that sh**.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 04:19 AM
-1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Not all objectify themselves for money. That’s a small minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 04:17 AM
0	Popular fake news debunked : men leave sick wives, college educated women divorce 90% of the time yes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 09:40 PM
2	Popular fake news debunked : men leave sick wives, college educated women divorce 90% of the time I guess it’s just easier to cheat on a sick person. As sick as that sounds. Now, as a woman— if I was sick and I mean long term illness sick, I’d absolutely allow him to stray. It would be a discussion. However I am not sure if my views count as I do not mind open relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 09:25 PM
3	Women and gynomorphism I know- wow that’s insane, lol. We have gotten our rent lowered, a new television practically half price. Customized suits for reduced price. A whole new world. I’m bad at doing it myself though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 02:32 PM
3	Women and gynomorphism It has already. We get discounts!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 02:04 PM
8	Women and gynomorphism Yes! Lol my husband is turkish. He negotiates prices WITH EVERYTHING. I thought it was rude at first but I realized it’s their culture and it works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 01:54 PM
2	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. If you were to pay the difference to the other spouse, how are you sure it goes to the child? I am not understanding your counter argument, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 08:35 PM
1	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. Huh? That is child support, what? Someone is paying to help care for the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 05:10 PM
10	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. Obviously not. But the state isn’t demanding free money for the woman, it’s for the child. I’d rather her have additional support than none. Not all single mothers are trash. We can’t sum up populations based off of a few bad apples. There will always be shitty people but that doesn’t mean the ones who are decent should be punished.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 05:04 PM
9	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. Child support is for the kid, not the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 03:38 PM
1	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU Also birth control effects libido too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 11:17 PM
1	Are women pickier about the age of their partner compared to men? Ok but getting older happens to men too. Of course nobody young finds that appealing lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 10:56 PM
2	Are women pickier about the age of their partner compared to men? Ok but older women aren’t called rats. That’s so disrespectful. Do you call your grandparents rats? I always find this so comical, you’re going to be old too. I can’t understand why people think being old is an insult. Honestly, it’s a weak insult towards someone because you’ll be in their shoes sooner than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 06:57 AM
3	Are women pickier about the age of their partner compared to men? Dry old rat? Are you serious	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 08:53 PM
1	Unpaid emotional labour is a bullshit term. I thought emotional labor meant emotional support. For example, being there and being in a good mood 24/7 as to not upset the other. I think to some women they feel they are expected to be almost like a therapist and are unheard when they in fact need emotional support too. I lump it into housework too. As a woman, not all, but through my experience, we worry constantly about our partners and sacrifice our needs for the sake of theirs. Changing schedules to match theirs, sacrificing careers for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 07:00 AM
1	CMV: Referring to human beings as "high value" and "low value" is low value behavior It is! I have been more serious lately and seeing actual income. Its a learning process for me as I’ve never been self employed before. Keeping track of my income and making sure I pay taxes (I want to start doing it quarterly) is VERY important. I am not well read on finances but I think this is a motivator to understand such matters. Also hiring an accountant, which you have to be selective about. I am very new - lol so I am just trying to learn as much as I can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 04:57 AM
3	CMV: Referring to human beings as "high value" and "low value" is low value behavior Exactly!!! I feel the same way. “High quality” is the way you are treated and loved, that is for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 04:54 AM
1	CMV: Referring to human beings as "high value" and "low value" is low value behavior Yes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 03:31 AM
3	CMV: Referring to human beings as "high value" and "low value" is low value behavior Yess hello! I love all your comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 03:30 AM
3	CMV: Referring to human beings as "high value" and "low value" is low value behavior Blue collar does make the world go around. Seriously. Thank god for the firefighters, truck drivers, plumbers, constructions workers, public transportation people—- They keep society alive and running. I’d rather be stuck with a handyman when the world ends, not a banker	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 03:27 AM
0	Do y’all like women? Psychopathic country. I like this. It’s true! I hoard money! I’m one of them. I am always afraid I will lose money so I save a lot instead of donating a huge chunk to something, I think it’s just anxiety. Sometimes I do lower amounts like $20 or $100. I like to think I am not materialistic, though I have a certain style and appreciate when others present themselves well, but I’m not paying 2k for a damn bag. Give me a break!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 03:09 PM
1	Do y’all like women? I can agree!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 03:04 PM
3	Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality. Not everyone is the same and not everyone should have kids. I think it’s smart to assess if you actually have genes worth passing on- that’s smart lol And also, as a woman, I do not want to give birth. Completely grosses me out. I have a visceral reaction of disgust and nausea when I think about myself giving birth. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 04:55 AM
1	Do men value women who "invest early"? Lol malignant narcissists	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:13 PM
1	Do men value women who "invest early"? This is sweet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:02 PM
1	CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated. Interesting I never felt that way before - I suppose everyone is different	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 03:39 PM
8	CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated. Sending a crude or explicit message is different than actually meeting up. It takes 0 effort and energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 03:16 AM
6	CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated. Is there proof of that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 11:55 PM
23	CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated. But having sex with whoever is not a privilege to most women. Some, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 11:21 PM
2	Why don't high value men marry virginal women? 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 08:45 PM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? Oh ok! I do not need to be married either, unless I had kids. Hard pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 08:29 AM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? I guess so! Do you want to get married or are you married? Is that too personal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 06:03 AM
1	Women have baby fever. Myth or reality? I haven’t had baby fever. I never even held a baby. Lmao. They are cute but I am too pessimistic to raise a kid and I worry worry worry. Kids are expensive, I have a weird aversion to being pregnant. I do NOT want something taking over my body and I do not want to pass on bad genes. My mothers side of the family has bad luck whether it be mental illness or people dying brutal deaths! Not happening! In fact, many of my close friends do not want kids either. Maybe I would feel differently if my ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 05:36 AM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? Oh..lol oh no I hope for the best! You’re just going to get older. Sorry-I assumed you were around 20. Is everyone in your age group now unattractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 05:26 AM
1	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash I suppose. Every man is different. Masturbation is healthy- but excessive porn use is not. Most men, at least from my little surveys lol, say that their porn usage decreased by late 20s/30. I can understand a teen obsessed with porn but an adult man? That’s scary lol I am all for amateur porn but if someone is watching too much porn and it effects their relationships or potential to be in one, it’s an issue!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/20 03:02 AM
0	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash 🙌🏽	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:49 PM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? Really? I’ve seen a lot of beautiful people 40s+, maybe our perception is different. Also 30s are not that much different than 20s look-wise, depending on lifestyle. Of course people gain weight, but if you eat healthy and don’t drown yourself in drugs and alcohol, you relatively look the same. How old are you? Just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:43 PM
4	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash Women’s sexual peak is 30. I haven’t read about sperm quality being better for men 30+. You’re just there dude. Lol But on a serious note, mens sperm quality, no matter the age, has decreased significantly from two generations ago. For both men and women, especially in westernized countries - our diet is crap and so is our lifestyle. It effects everything!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 10:59 PM
-1	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash I always like your comments...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 10:57 PM
2	The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 10:55 PM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? Why can’t you judge dudes but can judge women? I’m not sure- you better start finding older people attractive because what are you going to do when you’re forty? Think you’re ugly? Think you’re friends are ugly? Lmao like seriously. My preferences aren’t delusional- it’s called being realistic about life. People age. It’s better to look at the future positively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 09:23 PM
2	Do men have fifteen years on women? Lmao. They are out there. Obviously they don’t look 20 but that would be creepy if they did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 09:22 PM
1	Do men have fifteen years on women? Angela Bassett, damn. Black dont crack it’s true	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 09:22 PM
5	Do men have fifteen years on women? I agree! Women look beautiful in their 30s and 40s- no more baby fat on their face and their cheekbones come out! Lol it’s great People like to say men age better but I don’t think they do. People are just kinder towards men aging- they bald and gain weight too. Which is normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 05:02 AM
9	Do men have fifteen years on women? I think women look good 50+ but it’s usually women who keep themselves fit. I think men look good 50+ but it’s usually the men who keep themselves fit. I’ve seen some absolute silver foxes- it’s not a sexual attraction, more of an aesthetic attraction/approval. I’m also careful to not judge the looks on women more than men! Women also go through more physical changes through out life (kids, menopause) so I am careful not to “judge” them too much. It’s all personal. But I think people start to lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 04:52 AM
1	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Women*	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 04:25 AM
2	Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal? A cheater is never a high quality person. I know relationships and marriages have different rules/boundaries- but if you cheat outside of those boundaries you are NOT quality. Quality is not just about money. In fact, quality isn’t even about having money. At least to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 04:12 AM
1	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? no....	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 05:47 AM
5	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 06:58 PM
7	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? No. People as young as 18 get plastic surgery. In fact a lot of people in their 20s get the fat in their face removed to get the cheekbones that they would have in their later 20s, early to mid 30s The plastic surgeon actually advises against this because when the skin hollows out as age increases it will look bad. Now, if a person has chubby cheeks that’s different issue. So no, it’s not just 30 year olds getting fillers. It’s 18+ people doing shit to their face. I suppose men do not care about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 04:16 PM
1	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Yes he is career oriented and his current girlfriend is too. Late 20s/early 30s. it makes sense. I don’t think he wants kids either. None of my brothers do. I don’t either. We all have our reasons but I feel a little bad because I know my mother wants grandkids!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 02:55 PM
1	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Black do NOT crack. Honey, I have some black genes in me so I’m praying I can still look good at fifty lol. Asians age well but then when they reach 70 or 80(?) they look really old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:52 AM
1	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? What! A 74 year old woman had twins? I don’t believe it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:46 AM
2	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? I’m sure you don’t look that bad. As long as you’re healthy and maybe start some skincare! Wear spf! Don’t get yourself down, we all get old which is why looks aren’t the most important thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:43 AM
4	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Sunscreen is so important for men and women. Most importantly - do not smoke. My younger brothers face does not bounce back after he makes facial expressions! He’s 23 but smoked for a long time paired with drug habits. He’s also skinny too, naturally so that impacts skin bounce as well. Men need to get on skincare! I swear in you’re thirties you’ll thank your younger self	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:39 AM
4	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Illegal? Most of the mothers I knew growing up had kids late 30s. My mom had her last at 47.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:36 AM
5	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Miranda Kerr is so cute! I also think Jessica alba looks exactly the same from ten years ago. She seems like a sweetheart too. I really want to make an appointment with her esthetician...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:34 AM
8	Do you believe the wall hits women around 30? Oh my gosh! I follow a plastic surgeon on Instagram and she said women look the most “beautiful” in their 30s because their facial structure becomes prominent. I do agree, but then again I am a woman who admire women for beauty / style / charm / character not just young and “hot.” I am a woman in the fashion industry so beauty means something different to me. Lol It’s true, in my earlier 20s my face looked very round it was off putting. I am pretty slender so it wasn’t extra fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:31 AM
2	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Idk but ok. Some people look the same after ten years. I haven’t really seen anyone change that much in five years. I mean are people really paying attention? No wonder women go to plastic surgeons like the dentist. Not opposed to fillers and aging gracefully though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:05 AM
0	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Yes. Like this comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 04:38 AM
2	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? My older brother said “I am only marrying a woman who makes as much as me or more.” I was like oh shit. He makes a lot haha. Most people marry/date within the same income bracket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 04:35 AM
5	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Women rot after 25? How can people say things like that. I mean, even take the oldest man and I still wouldn’t be mean about it. It’s life	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 04:33 AM
0	Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed? Lmfao. That was funny!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 04:31 AM
7	Q4W: Is it difficult for you to understand why men don't want to be a woman's beta bux? Such a weird statement. Most people don’t settle down until late 20s-mid 30s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/20 04:05 AM
0	"What was attractive at 18 isn't at 30" is true for women in large part because they're not as hot at 30 as they were at 18 yeah I don’t lmfao But I can say the same for you and everyone else on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 09:45 PM
2	"What was attractive at 18 isn't at 30" is true for women in large part because they're not as hot at 30 as they were at 18 no, I didn’t say anyone was forcing me. I give my input, like everyone else on this sub. It’s just a reminder to be nice to others, that’s all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 09:32 PM
2	"What was attractive at 18 isn't at 30" is true for women in large part because they're not as hot at 30 as they were at 18 Just because it’s legal does not mean it’s recommended. My parents would ground me if I dated a thirty year old or at least be suspicious. Yeah, I’m not sure where you stand on relationships but I wouldn’t use words like that to find someone. It’s fine for sex, people talk like that in the heat of the moment- but for being serious or as an insult? Are you eighteen? Twenty? I am not being sarcastic- the way people talk about the other gender on this forum is horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 08:32 PM
3	"What was attractive at 18 isn't at 30" is true for women in large part because they're not as hot at 30 as they were at 18 Idk when you’re younger you don’t have much experience, you do not know as much about yourself. If you are dating at 18, you do not necessarily know what you like, what you expect from the other person. I’m guessing you are young? Saying preferences don’t change over time is naive, people do change as they get older because of experience and life stage. Perhaps some do not, however I find most people change their preferences as they age. Personally, I think of it more so as “been there, done tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 08:14 PM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Well less people would want to be in the industry if the rates were dropped. That’s less sex in general, less unprotected sex by your argument. It’s big in the industry to be protected but alright	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 06:55 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years How can an increase in demand cause unsafe sex workers? Do you mean human trafficking? If sex work was legalized than rates would drop. I am not sure if many women would want to bang dudes for 50/hr. However they don’t seem to be having issues in other countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 06:20 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years My apologies, I don’t understand, explain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 05:33 AM
2	What makes you valuable? What? I am agreeing with you, I think it’s nice you love your wife. Am I “all women”? Not every woman responds to the same thing- people are different	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 03:19 PM
1	Q4Women: How Long Do You Think You Could Go Without Having Sex With Your SO And The Relationship Still Be Salvageable? I love my partner but sometimes we just forget. It’s strange. I have also been visiting family a lot over the summer. It would probably have to be a half year or a whole year before I started questioning it. Lmao. Now, if this happened a year into our relationship I’d feel suspicious. But we’ve been together for five years. I know other couples are different, that’s ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 02:02 PM
3	What advice do you/would you give your daughter? I think this is a great comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 05:28 AM
2	What makes you valuable? I love this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 04:29 AM
1	What makes you valuable? My value comes from the support and affection I show my partner. I am also helping him start his business! I have some capital. I am excited for him. I know it is not very feminist, but I think of us more as a team. Kind of like a ride or die chick. We aren’t perfect but I think we are a good fit. We do not have a traditional relationship, but he is the dominant one, which is fine for me. My value also comes from the support I give my family. My parents are divorced so I help her out with lawn w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 04:28 AM
0	What makes you valuable? I love this! I hope all husbands could think this way about their wives, given that their wives feel the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 04:13 AM
1	Men are inherently born with no value, and need to demonstrate value to women and society. I know. I find we support military men until or if they develop mental issues. I do not know too much about veteran healthcare but it ain’t good. My friend lives in a community where it’s expected to be in the military, they get a lot of support. There are a lot of issues within the military itself but that’s another topic. On the bright side, the military can really help clean up the youth! I’ve had a few relatives who went because they had bad grades and an attitude problem. Shaped up real qui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 03:59 PM
11	Men are inherently born with no value, and need to demonstrate value to women and society. Ok, I misunderstood. You’re right— a lot of people look down on those kinds of jobs, but they shouldn’t because they are essential. It’s crazy, depending on the type of construction work, some construction workers are working very high up...bridges, buildings. It gives me the chills just thinking about it! Without garbage men, our neighborhoods and cities would be a wreck. I had an uncle who was a garbage man and he was valued in his town (this was many many years ago.) When he passed everyone w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 07:05 AM
23	Men are inherently born with no value, and need to demonstrate value to women and society. Men are valuable. The people who say otherwise are idiots. This may be off topic but.... They do work hard. It’s not like women do not work hard, but I know a lot of men who work physically demanding jobs. I think of the garbage men, the construction workers, the truck drivers— these jobs are male dominated. Without them, we wouldn’t exist. These jobs are the back bone of society. It’s not like women cant do these jobs but men have the strength needed to execute it. However as a woman, I do not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 05:24 AM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years What? A lot of higher end clients prefer late 20s+ because They know what they are doing. Sexual experience and intelligence. Can converse in witty banter Can be taken out without getting strange looks and/or without having to deal with a sloppy 20 year old who had too much wine. 3.There is more of “woman” vibe. A woman’s facial structure is best in her 30s. Given that she has taken care of herself. Look it up. I can see how an insecure, immature, woman hating man would prefer youngest though. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 03:54 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I’m the same. I don’t party either. I do like to drink a little bit. Not too much, 2 drinks MAX. I am too paranoid to do more. However, I haven’t had the opportunity to have drinks with clients- I know one of mine only smokes. Gotta keep it classy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 02:51 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I once saw a post where someone said the sex industry should only be compromised of partiers! I was like, uh absolutely not. It can be dangerous. The industry is rampant with narcissistic mental and physical abusers and they go to these younger men and women, whether it is clients or agencies. Can I PM you!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 02:30 AM
3	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years OMG! I have always said sex workers should be late 20s! I’ve gotten weird looks from that, but it’s so true. It is so so so easy, especially as a newbie, to get into serious trouble. I mean it’s even kind of easy for an older woman too. There has to be a specific mindset, like you said! Ugh. If you’re too nice....it’s over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 02:04 AM
1	Q4A: When is life over? I agree with you. The youth definitely has higher rates of depression and anxiety. I think a lot of it is social media and wanting to be super successful. Especially in the US, everything’s about money and less about valuable human connection. But people are different and some can really thrive and that is good. But you’re right, being insecure is essentially useless. It’s hard though! As I’ve gotten older I realized it was my own issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 02:01 AM
1	Q4A: When is life over? Ok I am glad you had a good early 20s. I hope you can continue that! But in general, I think younger people feel more insecure than older ones. Or in other words, they worry about things that don’t necessarily matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:54 AM
2	"Depressive symptoms were associated with engaging in casual sex differently for males and females. Males who engaging in casual sex reported the fewest symptoms of depression and females who had a history of casual sex reported the most depressive symptoms." that’s nice of you! I hope you enjoyed yourself as well :) I’m not sure about TRP but I’m not 100% sure about anything, so. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:47 AM
1	Q4A: When is life over? I don’t think so lol. “Artificial peak?” Someone else can’t tell a person what the best part of their life is. There have been studies that say 50s+ are the happiest times. Supposedly the older you get the more secure (financially, mentally) you are, along with being somewhat settled. The stress of having to figure your life out is gone as well was worrying about stupid things Personally, that doesn’t sound too bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:41 AM
2	"Depressive symptoms were associated with engaging in casual sex differently for males and females. Males who engaging in casual sex reported the fewest symptoms of depression and females who had a history of casual sex reported the most depressive symptoms." Good point! I was thinking that but wasn’t sure! Casual safe sex is a short term solution but it is healthier than a lot of other things (drugs, over eating).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:38 AM
3	Q4A: When is life over? No because life gets better. For me, as the years go on, it gets better ...so no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:25 AM
2	Q4A: When is life over? I heard parents enjoy their 50s the most. No kids, less stress, established.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:19 AM
2	Q4A: When is life over? I disagree. Early 20s was bad for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:17 AM
0	"Depressive symptoms were associated with engaging in casual sex differently for males and females. Males who engaging in casual sex reported the fewest symptoms of depression and females who had a history of casual sex reported the most depressive symptoms." No - I meant that’s why it can make women feel depressed. Instead of having sex for their own satisfaction and enjoyment, they do it for other reasons... which is an issue in itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:16 AM
0	"Depressive symptoms were associated with engaging in casual sex differently for males and females. Males who engaging in casual sex reported the fewest symptoms of depression and females who had a history of casual sex reported the most depressive symptoms." Who wants bad sex? It seems to be that women experience dissatisfaction with bad sex whereas for men, it’s harder for the sex to be so bad they wouldn’t do it again. Casual sex can be fun if the sex is good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 12:49 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Me too. It could possibly be safer for both sides of the industry. It’s going to exist whether it not it is legal, shouldn’t we at least try to make it safer? I also wonder if it’s legalized in the US, if rates would drop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 10:29 PM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Yes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 10:26 PM
9	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I can’t understand why there is judgement towards men using sex workers. Seriously- it’s just easier. If you have the money, treat women with respect, are safe then I don’t understand. I think media sheds a bad light on being a sex worker, ex: a drug addicted, money hungry bitch etc etc and for men, using sex workers means “oh you have to pay for it.” give me a break. people do not always have the time for relationships, do not want one, or do have trouble getting laid. What if a person has a di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 10:25 PM
1	Don’t hide who you are to attract women, you will never know who will love the person you hide I understand what you are saying. But would you want to partner with someone who is abusive? I have an addict brother, I still love him. But I wouldn’t want to date and/or be surrounded by the negativity. I could perhaps help my partner if he fell into addiction but I’m not sure how health that would turn out. I don’t know. I think it’s sweet when someone cooks for a person. They can make it in a special way that they know that person adores. I disagree with you on that. I also want to drive my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 06:16 AM
1	Don’t hide who you are to attract women, you will never know who will love the person you hide So we are expected to love someone who who leeches off of others, has addiction issues or abusive? We should date partners that make us feel good as well. I would like a partner that cares for me as I care for him. Is that utility too? For example, make food for each other, pick each other up when needed. In regards to what you say to your wife, I suppose that makes sense. I would hope that my partner would actually want to be honest. I guess because I would feel like I would be disrespected. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:56 AM
2	Don’t hide who you are to attract women, you will never know who will love the person you hide We can’t have preferences? I’m still not understanding. When you use the word utility I’m thinking oh a man who has a lot of money, a man with a good job, a man who will pay for me blah blah, a man who will get me a good job. I see that as utility. Considering you spend a lot of time with a significant other, should we not expect them to engage in honest conversation? I think I see what you are saying....but I’m trying to be clear. Personally, I expect a partner to be honest and kind hearted bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:27 AM
-1	Don’t hide who you are to attract women, you will never know who will love the person you hide I don’t understand. So she’s supposed to love someone she has nothing in common or connection with? Just because she wants to be able to talk art with her partner does not mean she can’t love someone for who they are. I’m completely lost by this comment. Why would anyone want to date someone where they don’t have a connection? For example, I’m sure some men prefer a woman with a specific body type or prefers someone who enjoy their hobby, that’s only liking them for their utility? What lmao. I n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:15 AM
1	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... well maybe people shouldn’t be assholes. Don’t call me naive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 01:45 AM
2	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Okay that was beautifully written (the last part.) But I’m confused because women are hated on for “wanting the top 20%.” If it’s for “protection” and “resources” to have babies, shouldn’t we be okay with it? On the other side, men are hated on for wanting younger women/divorcing their current wife for someone younger. How is any of this healthy to raise a strong family with decent values? We can blame biology all we want but we also have a conscious and feel love/loyalty. It all seems so depres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:50 AM
2	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... No I’m not saying that a man has no say? Lol what, of course each person does But I’d hope a person would be open about that at the start as most people date to settle down	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:44 AM
1	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... I would think women would think that. Isn’t that why women date? To find someone forever? I understand marriage isn’t for everyone, I don’t think it is for me... but I assume most people date to stay with someone	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:32 AM
2	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Oh really? I don’t think trying to go out of their league applies to everyone. The only reason I can think of women “looking worse” than men is having kids. I think it says a lot about a person who holds that against someone. In my own opinion, I’ve seen attractive men and women age 50+. However women seem to take more preventative measures and use procedures like Botox. Why wouldn’t we? We get shit on for aging, which everybody goes through It seems like most people on this sub are so superfici…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:28 AM
2	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Lmfaooo dingus. Ugh I feel for the girls on reddit who post photos. I’m bi so I follow girls too and seriously some of the comments! The comments are so different from men vs women. Some of the comments are super cringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:50 PM
1	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Hooray!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:46 PM
3	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Dude if a single woman at 50 is a “left over” so is a man at 50, wtf? That is just an awful thing to say. Most of the people on this forum are young (I am too) and idk I’ve spoken to a lot of older people, life isn’t easy. Things happen, husbands and wives die- just because your single and older doesn’t mean you’re a left over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:42 PM
5	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Well find that one woman lol. I mean I feel it’s the same for young men and women. I see A LOT of young folks looking crazy. It says a lot when a person reaches 50 that they take care of themselves. I think that’s better than a young person. It’s easier to look better when you’re young which means lazy habits lmao. At least you know with a hot 50 year old they will stay in shape, it matters to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:37 PM
3	OLD would be a lot easier for young men, if older men would stay in their lane.... Usually by 30 haven’t they found someone already? If they were “high quality”	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:33 PM
1	Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future? Thanks for the info! I don’t know anyone who does porn but I was also curious about how it was really like. I guess (like most things) some companies have better working conditions than others	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 11:26 PM
1	What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage? No, he wasn’t that way to begin with as he wasn’t stressed. I don’t know the full story but turning into an alcoholic when stressed is something a child does not need to be around. How long does someone wait for a person to change? seriously. And having someone around who handles stress like that? Give me a break. Adding a personal story- my mother waited around for my dad when he cheated because she thought he would change. Lmao no, he didn’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 06:32 AM
2	What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage? Things can change? Seriously? We really want to give someone who is potentially abusive a chance! It’s so funny- if a man is a jerk or abusive, it’s the woman’s fault as she should have seen the red flags in the beginning and that people dont change. Major eye roll	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:58 AM
2	Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future? Yeah it’s unsettling. I suppose there are a bunch of teens browsing porn though and they don’t want to see someone in their 20s, I guess. But I know it’s just a bunch of old guys lmao like it just creeps me out! I’m all for sex workers but I just think 18 is way too young. For men and women. Anytime I bring up the age thing, I get bashed because of biology bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:53 AM
2	Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future? Yeah- plenty of 25 year olds can pull off teen. Porn is mostly fake looking anyway. Also it’s sort of effed up- teen porn. I don’t like it, makes me feel uncomfortable lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:48 AM
3	Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future? This makes sense. I think as a young woman (well some) think that this attention is positive. I suppose it can be positive(?) but eh if you base your worth off of sexual attention it doesn’t seem healthy. I don’t want to say what’s positive or not. Sex is healthy and fun- but when you’re so young it can get iffy. I don’t think they can emotionally handle it or fully grasp the consequences. People in the sex industry should really be 25+	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:36 AM
1	Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future? I’m interested about your experience. Do tell..if you’d like. Did you get paid a fair amount compared to women? I always read women were paid more. Were the sets safe and sanitized? So many questions!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:26 AM