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| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Holy moly, ofc it was a joke xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?hahahaha jesus fucking christ this is a odd subreddit, literally I was joking, I saw alarm bells when I was with her that would of made me break up with her anyway we just werent compatible. You only realise that when your free of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?I agree that is usually the case with these type of things but not with her, we did go dutch for all the spending whilst I was there, she gave me a damn good tour time in the city and I did things I had never done before! She was a nice girl when I was on her good side, and a mean one on her bad side. It was a bad experience for us both but good at the same time because Im sure shes learnt a lot about things and I know I have. We just didnt get the chance for sex after that. or Didnt make chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?thanks a bunch pal, nah if I had read these posts earlier I probably would of been extremely depressed but now it just solidifies what I already worked out for myself, ie, mostly my fault, reason: self conciousness brought on by being overweight cx I'll get there Im on the right path with the right motivation and making good progress, thanks for apologising but its not necessary. I kinda figured I was being used as some odd example of something or other. I can honestly say she probably was mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Hey man, hope you are doing okay! I'm an 18 year old guy and also from the UK and I honestly felt that I related to you as a person whilst I read that. Honestly, my heart sank for what happened to you as I was reading on, since I could easily see myself in that position too. But I also felt a sense of relief in that you now know that she probably wasn't worth investing your empathy and time into. I'm glad you passed your driving test, it was a great pick-me-up for me when I was down too. And I h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?haha I can agree with that, but yeah I was just hoping to reveal some truth on this story before it got melded out of shape and made people in similar positions to feel bad. If anyone reads this that has similar issues pls dm me Ill try and and help :) A guy actually pm'd me great advice but he deleted his account before I read it, wish I could thank whoever it was ", A" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Its my fault my girlfriend died and I stayed single for 2-3 yearrs then I wasnt confident to sex the next girl that came a long on the first night of actually meeting her. Then yeah its my fault. But she knew the context and she ditched me anyway, I dont blame her but what samurai is arguing that with the tables turned Id never of done that with her. But hey youre pretty weird about this topic from ur past posts so go figure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Then yes if thats the case with her thats true she is a shitty person, but thats not the point of the original post. That was just to work out what I needed to do tomakesure it didnt hhappen again, and the answer wasnt to date only non shitty people. Because everyone has the potential to be shitty, its human nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?mhm thanks, but yeah. If my first girl hadn't of died before I could visit her I probably wouldn't of had as much of an issue trying to be perfect for the first girl I broughtmyself to love after 2 years of sadness. I put pressure on myself to lose weight before I got there, had been for a yearr but I wasnt finished and I didnt want her to see me like that. Such is life, bad timing is my middlename. It wasnt as black and white as being a pussy or not. I loved the girl and wanted to make love to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?It wasnt like samurai said... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?You do have a point. I wouldn't have done that to a girl if she had held back but I am an entirely different person with a different upbringing. The point I'm making is it wouldn't of mattered what girl it was with. I realised I wasn't comfortable enough in my own body to be in an intimiate relationship haha. Yeah she said things like, Oh it wasn't a relationship "We only met once! I had no idea feelings would be as strong for you" well no shit I wouldnt of gone if I didnt feel strongly about he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Honestly, I thank you for xposting this, it did answer a few more questions for me but the fact is this. She wasn't the girl for me, I wasn't the guy for her, we both didnt have much experience with successful relationships, i was a fat virgin who had no confidence. She was an attractive swedish girl who was out of my league at the time. She wanted sex, EVEN though she saw me etc. And I blew it because I couldn't overcome my issues. Then we just didn't really get another chance. If I was happy w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?I see what you mean but it wasn't really like that at the time. At the time I was more concerned with me being fat than her judging my every move. At the end of the day I have had IRL relationships before with girls that were more attractive/I had more to lose etc, more months talking yada yada it wasnt the fear of that. By the way, I know she was dead because I went to her grave and met with her family. I never got to see her living because of money issues, school etc. She died in a car acciden… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Prehaps, some of the comments did make me feel terrible, Im glad I only just read them now haha. Well Yeh I was just looking for advice on how to move on, not making her out to be the bad guy, it could of been any girl. When it came down to it I wasn't ready to unless my manboobs on the world so I took it to the heart and went home and made myself more me. Hopefully I'll get a relationship once I'm done fixing myself... And yep a few parts of his did hit home but the consistant her putting press… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?this. Thank you you seem to be one fo the few who get it. She told me later she takes a long time irl to develop feelings for people, even tho she had feelings for me it was too hard to workout, https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ Anyone thinking about long distance, dont do it unless youve met them irl and have a really solid foundation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?From the UK, and she only told me 3 days prior after I told her the cancelation deadline for flight/room. Fyi, it wasnt desperation either, I had been on tinder and gone on dates before I met her, I just clicked with her and enjoyed talking to her a fuckin lot. Also she only decided to properly cut it off a few days after I got back. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6hms3v/are_women_who_do_this_users_or_is_this_the_guys/dkynsv4/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Are women who do this users or is this the guy's fault?Jesus christ guys, I'm the original OP this happened to me. I thought I'd come through and say I had no idea this would get xposted, I got 2 replies on the other thing and thats what I wanted. I went to see her, we liked eachother a fucking lot. I really wanted to impress her and be the best me I could be for her. I had confidence issues due to being over weight and out of the dating/social loop for a while. The reason I didn't date for 2 years was because my long distance girlfriend passed away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:33 PM |
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