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Not locally, no, but the global media is pushing hard, though. Also praise is one thing, the other is the collective stifling of anyone who dares mention something that could be improved. "Womanhatrism". Fair, I guess I am not much of a "mainstream media" person, but I have seen some men get called "misogynists" on Twitter and TikTok over some really mild and non-offensive stuff, so I am inclined to believe that there's a general push in that direction. I agree. Might be a Slavic (EU?) thing. Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:10 AM
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together as well as individually. Yup. The loud "single independent" "don't need no man"isms come to mind. Think about it, how long has the mouthrunning been going on now? 4 decades? I'm not sure honestly, I think this will vary from culture to culture. I am Slavic and although 3rd wave feminism has certainly permeated our media and academia, I still feel women here aren't really praised for being "single" and "not needing a man". I mean I certainly don't think people would judge women heavily f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:41 PM
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I mean yes, all disputes in relationships are two sides of the same coin, both men and women should actively work on understanding one another and working on their relationship issues otherwise the relationship is doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:06 PM
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To be fair "asshole" is usually a relative descriptor, the same person can be an asshole in one situation but be a perfectly nice and normal person in a different one. Women vent about men in relationships and call their man an "asshole", but this isn't just a woman thing, men vent about women too, and usually they don't genuinely mean every word. Your partner is simply one of the people that is involved in your life the most, it makes sense why people would have the biggest amount of emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:39 PM
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Oh no, we have equal rights nowadays, how dare we. Nobody is permanently happy. Suffering is a side effect of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:16 AM
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I didin't say they weren't, if they were unhappy, they were probably unhappy in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:05 AM
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So many men would benefit from knowing that women are different from us. It’d make communication more navigable, especially in a time where even flirting/courtship is done through screens. Both men and women, couples who don't try to understand the opposite gender and actively work on making the relationship better are doomed to frustration and dead bedrooms. And yeah I agree that proper sex education is definitely lacking in general, especially the one that focuses on the differences between me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 02:27 AM
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Idk people collectively nowadays just seem very unhappy to me, I wouldn't single women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:55 PM
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I agree, there are a lot of things that are out of our control but might as well work with the things that are. I get depressed pretty often about the state of the world, but at some point you just gotta cut your losses I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:26 AM
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Those both make sense, but, having used that term twice, we created a precedent of it standing in for some general sense of fairness, which is just too vague. Especially with men and women... because we have different needs. Yes, I think it's good that we have equal rights now, but denying that men and women are biologically different is not doing either gender any favors. One of main conclusions I've come to over the years of this stuff is that women are inherently submissive (as I say in the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:01 AM
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It’s pretty much taboo here to admit that women and men are different if you’re anywhere near the PMC or academic class. Oof, yeah that sucks quite a lot. Makes it extremely hard to discuss gender without being labeled a "misogynist" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:50 PM
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Correlation doesn't equal causation. Maybe some women would go for the asshole but not because he is an asshole, his success usually lies in his confidence/charisma. But no one likes doormats. You can be a genuinely nice man and also be an assertive, confident person that can stand up for themselves, these things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:19 PM
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Not the point of my comment. Yes men do like kind women for LTRs but kindness alone isn't the only attribute that makes them sexually desireable. The same is also true for women. Also you can be a generally kind woman but that doesn't necessairly mean you are feminine or motherly. Just like being a kind man doesn't mean you are "emasculated".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:20 PM
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Oh god, this again. Kindness and respect alone aren't sexually attractive to men either. You can have a fat promiscuous girl who has a lot of masculine character traits but she can be the kindest and most respectful person when it comes to her moral values. It just means that she is a good person, not that she is sexually desirable jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:11 AM
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It looks like how it is in the West, with liberal (corporate) feminism and “fuck a bunch of strangers to be liberated” and such? It's not that extreme, although women certainly wouldn't be punished for acting promiscuously. It's more in the little things such as "women and men act the same, think the same" etc. Also, I am Slovenian which is more like Central Europe, so I do think that we're quite different from Eastern Slavs, from my experience East Slavs are definitely more conservative, depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:42 PM
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Yes, I agree. I feel like discourse about gender differences is being fully pushed back, particularly in the West. I am Slavic, and even though it isn't as extreme here, somewhat of a similar narrative has definitely occupied a lot of the mainstream media. I definitely think that not all women should be expected to be Betty Draper, I am glad we have the option to work or get educated, but denying that we have feminine tendencies and that men and women are different, isn't doing either gender any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:36 PM
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Not necessarily, what's good for someone long term varies from person to person, but there are somewhat objective things that are good for us, or at least good to strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 03:06 PM
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I mean sure, technically you don't have to choose to better your life in any way and give up all responsibility. I don't think it's good for your life long-term tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:59 PM
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Hmm, I don't think it does. I still feel like it's something to strive for regardless of the world around you. You are still responsible for the things that are in your control. Whether you succeed or fail, It's a goal worth moving towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:54 PM
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Maybe a part of it is fatherless homes or feminism, but I believe it's very hard to pinpoint one specific "culprit" when it comes to social issues, it's really just a bunch of intertwined problems within the system. I also have seen some women-children, I have 2 female friends who are older than me and are still NEETs, so it probably isn't just a male issue, but it does affect males more. I think there just isn't as much of an incentive for people to get married, or compete in the workforce beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:42 PM
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I don't really know how true this is tbh. My slut friends never had a problem with me when I was a virgin and I didn't have a problem with their lifestyle choices when I was hanging out with them. Them " cheapening" sex doesn't affect my life, considering the fact that sex nowadays is predominantly cheap anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 10:33 AM
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People who are naturally good at something often tend to overlook the finesses of a craft, due to being more intuitive when it comes to improving at it. I personally have a lot of respect for people who reach proficiency in any skill with their hard work and focus, that kinda amazes me a lot more tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:38 PM
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They are ideologies built around pain. Sure, many people learn completely valid truths and perspectives by making mistakes and pain often accompanies this, but these specific ideologies just salt the wound constantly by rationalizing self-affirming beliefs (ex: “AWALT,” whatever arbitrary shit FDS adherents think of that constitutes LVM behavior) Yeah, they did get some things right, but it is indeed very counterproductive to act as if every individual will exhibit some of the more toxic traits …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah, I'd say that's fair. Language in itself is highly interpretable, and I really do feel like "misogyny" is being thrown around everywhere on the internet nowadays to the point where it completely lost its meaning and its severity. Similarly, if someone thinks "men and women are equal", when no one can even explain what the fuck that is supposed to mean, then I don't really care about what they think when I write this , because it isn't intended to please them, and I don't need them to be ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:15 PM
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I have, but it was always within a LTR. Where I trusted my partner to have my comfort and pleasure in mind, as much as his own Yeah, same. I was referring more to people I was just dating, not people I was actually committed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:57 PM
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Great response, I feel the same way. I am not an ONS or a hookup type of person, but I have never consented to anything before I was ready. You simply have to give a firm "no" at times, it's a lot better to be called a tease or a prude than to do something you don't genuinely want. Women who give away their power to a man regarding consent are oppressing themselves, it's not "the patriarchy". Obviously not justifying the men for being pushy, but it's still the woman who has the final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:39 PM
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Yeah, I feel pretty much the same way. On the surface, FDS seems to be a fairly innocent sub dedicated to female empowerment, but underneath that "yaas girl" veneer, there's a pretty toxic ideology. I too get a similar visceral reaction when I view the content on their sub, although I tend to get that from echo chambers in general. There is definitely nothing wrong with having standards but the bigger problem is the attitude rather than the standards themselves. Do their standards encompass trai…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:48 PM
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Really well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:57 PM
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Lol, oh no I don't judge people with age gaps, I have no problem whatsoever with that. But I did honestly chuckle a bit when you told spacechicken that looksmaxxing is irrelevant as a woman, yet you yourself are looking for very high caliber women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:48 AM
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I mean really your entire post is basically you complaining that you can't get 7 or above chicks and women a decade younger than you. Not judging, just saying you are contradicting yourself here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:33 AM
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Depends on the person, bit definitely questioning our beliefs as to why we feel so mistrustful is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:02 AM
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Vetting and caution are one thing. Deep mistrust of the opposite gender to the point where you ruin your own relationship or dismiss every possible good match because you are too jaded to see the value in anything other than the superficial is a whole other animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:55 AM
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Vetting and dominance/submissiveness dynamics are one thing, deeply mistrusting the other gender to the point where you ruin your relationship is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:49 AM
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I mean sure, hurt is hurt whether you have been actually hurt by someone or you have inflicted some of that hurt on yourself. It isn't always your fault but it is always your responsibility to fix your trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:42 PM
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Whoo, congrats, wish you guys luck 🔔💖👰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:37 PM
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aww, thanks Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:16 PM
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Of course, mistrust can manifest itself in many different ways, and many different scenarios can lead to it, it never just happens out of the blue. Also sorry your fiance went through that, glad you guys managed to work through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:13 PM
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Perhaps, but at its core, this is simply an issue of trust. What do women on FDS have in common? They have all been either hurt by men or they have been told that men will inevitably hurt them. So they put up barriers. Their thought process is "Well if I'm going to get hurt anyway, might as well extract as much as I can get from a man", so they all sound like "I want a ring, I want him to be tall, have a good job blah blah blah, all about me and my needs". And this obviously doesn't work because…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:21 PM
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I've had some friends who could be considered sluts, and they were really nice girls. Their lifestyle was a bit too much for me and they were slightly SJW-ish and had language policing tendencies though. (and I myself am centrist-liberal, so it's not like I'm some conservative bashing them) But yeah overall I personally don't mind whatever people choose to do with their bodies, it doesn't lower my opinion of them, and it doesn't affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:01 AM
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Yeah, I can see how plenty of guys nowadays would end up feeling that way. I think the good thing about more progressive societies is that everyone pretty much has equal rights, which is a good thing. On the other hand, there has been a lot of "gender neutralizing" mainly caused by 3rd wave feminism, which made men and women sort of believe that both sexes are attracted to the same things which is obviously not true. Humans are a sexually dimorphic species and we are neurologically wired to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:06 PM
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I assume yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:43 PM
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This question is framed as If our biology doesn't influence our dating tendencies at all, and women just happen to be a certain way. If I was reborn a man I would have a different mindset about sex and relationships entirely so I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:43 PM
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lol if someone heavily disagrees with you or doesn't like you, your arguments don't matter, they'll construct an image of you or say anything that confirms their beliefs anyway, pretty common from all sides here, especially during purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:59 PM
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that is true yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:01 PM
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I definitely agree. I think emotions themselves aren't "good" or "bad", they are amoral, and it's about whether we choose to channel them in a healthy way or not. Sadness can be positive cause it might help you with introspection, fear can be good cause it protects you from danger, anger can be good cause it pushes you to take action and change things. I think society, in general, tends to suppress emotions, particularly the more "negative" ones, but I do agree that male anger is probably the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:40 PM
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No, that's not what I meant exactly. “men are more likely to be dangerous, therefore it is reasonable for a woman to be wary of her safety in some circumstances, especially when alone” was my point. If you are a woman alone at night and you see some sketchy-looking dudes it's probably wise to be wary and look out for your safety. This doesn't mean ignore men in general or hate them, just look out for your safety. I don't avoid my male friends just because they're male, because I trust them and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:26 PM
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Dominance and submissiveness have nothing to do with one's physical attributes, I know personally some short dudes who are quite dominant and don't have any issues with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:09 PM
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You trying to flip this into a race thing ignores the biological differences between men and women, and the fact that women are more vulnerable in certain circumstances, especially if alone. Black people and white people for the most part are the same except for the skin pigmentation differences, all the other differences are of cultural nature. Also, I still feel like the core of my argument is quite reasonable even when you replace "men" with "black". ( even though it would have to be worded d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:31 PM
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Yeah I can imagine. I think reactions like that are really unhelpful and breed a lot of mistrust and negative emotions in everyone. Women mistrust men, men start mistrusting women, and a whole bunch of vitriol ensues. It's as if they ignore that men also have a moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:54 PM
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sigh Look dude, sure. Men as a whole aren't respnsible for women aside from the basic courtesy people extend to other people in social groups. I think nobody owes anything to anyone. Fair. I think men feel attacked when women talk about female experiences and fears, and look, I get it, nobody should get accused of being a "threat" simply for existing. I get that it feels unpleasant but sadly assaults still do happen and I think any sane woman would be cautious in some circumstances. If you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:29 AM
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Why yes hello dear women, would you like to be in a marriage with a Chad who doesn't give a shit about you? Would this bother you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:07 AM
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Um the thread referenced was addressing female fears regarding relationships in general so.....no, I believe you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:05 AM
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I am not from the West. Also, I haven't mentioned sexual assaults so idk who you're arguing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:38 AM
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I am aware, it was just an example I gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:34 AM
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Now when are women going to stop blaming men and start actually listening? I blame only the people who have directly done something bad to me, I see no point in blaming half of the population. I can't speak for all women, but I am pretty empathetic to people regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:49 PM
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true, you can't, it's up to the other person to solve it for themselves, but I do believe both genders should be able to communicate in a healthy constructive way and be mindful of the partners' needs/fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:28 PM
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I got an answer for you. Stop treating women like overgrown children that constantly need men to make it safe for them. Why can't both genders try to accommodate the opposite gender's needs and try to alleviate their fears?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:39 PM
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For individual men, it depends, each relationship is unique. Men in general? Idk maybe being aware collectively that sex is a lot more serious for women because of biological reasons, but I am personally not much of a " people should do Xyz..." person, I do understand that sex is a very big need for men, just being aware that women aren't choosy out of spite helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:35 PM
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Lol, I mean sure why not, as long as it's not a kink that's painful or degrading I am fine with roleplaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:57 PM
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men and women are wired differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:11 PM
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Have you tried red pill sub or something like that? You'd probably be able to get some advice there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:39 PM
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You are asking for personal advice regarding your views about wanting a family, ppd isn't for personal advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:32 PM
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Dude, look, you can go to any other manosphere sub to talk about personal advice or your personal conflicts about marriage, PPD is a debate sub, read the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:26 PM
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you have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:21 PM
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You were basically just ranting, so whatever I said you wouldn't perceive it as valuable because you have already characterized all women this way in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:58 PM
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Yeah, most men seem to care about it, although to which degree, is very individual. I think some men prefer virgins and low n-count women due to having a similar mindset about intimacy and sex, but don't get pissy about the exact number of partners. Some prefer virgins cause they view the hymen through the lens of Christianity or symbolic purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:53 PM
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If you don't wanna date woman you don't have to. If we bring nothing to the table don't date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:19 PM
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Nah nobody owes anybody a stellar discourse, just pointing out my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:35 PM
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Yeah, I see. My view is that everything has the right to exist, but also people can say whatever they want about it. Obviously tho, there are always extremists and neanderthals who will resort to attacking people, and sending death threats in spaces not designated for them, which is a whole other animal. I am sorry you have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:05 PM
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It frankly baffles me how many people here can't comprehend that just because we acknowledge the issues of one gender it doesn't completely erase the issues of the opposite gender. We can address both, and if we address one it doesn't minimize the other, these things are not mutually exclusive. Ppl be so jaded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:51 PM
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Yeah ofc, nothing wrong with it. But the context in which this phrase is usually used on the internet is when teenage girls who listen to metal think they're superior to "girly" girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:51 PM
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Yeah I've been sexually harassed by a dude who I rejected, cause after the rejection we agreed to stay friends and continue hanging out so I was in proximity to him. Not friends with him anymore obv.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:30 PM
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the autism on this sub is real lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:07 AM
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I think because a lot of dudes here are over analytical so they expect women to be the same. You perceive in others the behaviors you yourself exhibit the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:07 AM
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Oh no, why do people fear for their safety sometimes? Should men also never fear for their safety ever because they're 0.003% more likely to die from whatever bullshit disease that doesn't occupy their mind? Oh no, how dare women as the weaker sex, fear for their safety in some environments? I am sorry but the way you framed your argument is really shitty, I am not engaging with it in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:50 AM
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Most can't fully, but they can still get somewhat close to that lifestyle. Either way, I'd rather have people be able to make their own life decisions than being put in one single mold, which we already did in the past, and people got sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:21 PM
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Why do women insist that their feelings are more valid than reality? Well, I don't know if they do, but I didn't say that. They aren't more valid than reality but a feeling in itself is valid. Some people have phobias that are a lot less rational than the fear of "getting abused or raped in a dark alleyway" and they are still valid. My ex wife used to do this all the time. She'd accuse me of shit I never did and then would accuse me of invalidating her feeling when I defended myself. Fearing for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:09 PM
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I can see how you got the impression that some women are exaggerating or being overdramatic, and perhaps some are, but women definitely experience a lot of fear depending on their surroundings/circumstances, I don't think most men can relate to that sinking feeling in your chest when you are going to your first date with someone. ( if you know what I'm talking about, you know) Even if you rationally know that the chances of shit happening to you are low, this doesn't make the feeling any less va…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:58 PM
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I mean this entire post is essentially "let's cherry-pick which conservative traits we should keep and which ones we shouldn't" so frankly might as well grant people the freedom to choose how they want to conduct themselves in relationships. If a man and a woman want to be Mr breadwinner and Susie homemaker, I absolutely have no problems with that, but if some people don't want that, I also don't care, their choices don't affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:35 PM
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I mean the only way to make men less disadvantaged in dating is If women start accepting sex from any man who approaches them, which most likely isn't happening cause women aren't wired that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:04 PM
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I believe people having the freedom to choose their own values and roles within their relationship will lead to a happier society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:57 PM
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I assume they actually envy the fact that women are the ones getting approached and receive a lot more attention, and have an easier time finding a partner, not the sex part. I guess I do get it to an extent, it must rly suck, especially if you feel like you can't attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:39 PM
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Because these things would be considered a privilege to a man, so they assume women benefit from it in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:29 PM
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Basic Mazlowe's hierarchy of needs are not entitlements, everyone wants that. Everyone sooner or later will want affection, closeness or a stable significant other. Calling this an entitlement is another form of female privilege. You attain affections, closeness and a significant other with little to no effort because of your unearned privilege but, call those who do not have your unearned power and privilege entitled when they also endeavor towards what you have. It's not entitlement to WANT se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:14 PM
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I mean fair, I guess it depends on how you define shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:54 AM
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I mean women are objectively shallow I am pretty sure most men wouldn't want a terribly unattractive fat woman, who doesn't take care of her hygiene and has a very cringe personality, and I wouldn't call this man shallow, it's perfectly acceptable to have some kind of basic requirements in relationships, and it doesn't mean you don't care about the emotional connection at all. But ok, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:49 AM
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lol. I mean what, these are the only two options I got and I can't opt-out of either choice? I mean the first one, I am not polygamous but it still sounds like a better option than someone who doesn't even take care of basic hygiene and has a cringe personality. Was this supposed to be some "woomen bad woomen shallow " gotcha? 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:23 AM
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A person's moral compass has nothing to do with the number of options. Attraction is one thing, actively choosing to cheat is another thing entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:15 PM
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Also in impoverished societies kids aren't really cherished as much, they're expected to work and contribute to the family fairly young, so having a lot of kids there might make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:14 PM
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But it's not like people's profiles can tell you everything about their personality. Also, OLD is used for hookups often, If they want a hookup or sex yea maybe they'll prefer the shirtless pretty boys. I am an introvert so I am not into gym rats, but I can only speak for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:56 PM
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Nah, I was simply pointing out that men and women feel attraction in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:11 PM
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True, I definitely think a lot of guys assume that because they prioritize looks, that women also prioritize looks, which is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah this entire topic is definitely a lot more nuanced than it's presented on this sub, there are definitely a lot of factors that will also vary from woman to woman. I feel like this blurring of private and public lives due to social media and curated images people post on their insta has given a bunch of people an inaccurate image of what is an "average" person. So yeah people with unrealistic standards definitely exist. However, this works both ways. Due to this a lot of people get a mindset…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:52 PM
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I think the fact that a lot of women are "attention whoring" on the internet suggests that most do not have a very high self esteem. If you think you are the "prize" in a relationship, you probably have a lot of insecurities as well because you feel inadequate unless someone puts you on a pedestal which prevents you from communicating with your partner like 2 human beings. It can also be a sign of narcissism which is, you guessed it...a condition of people who don't have high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:35 PM
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I mean I agree that TRP and similair subs should be allowed to exist as a place for men on the internet but these men who are here choose to come to PPD. I think it's pretty clear that PDD is not a place you go to if you want support or validation in your beliefs. Quite the opposite. It's a given that people will dissect your beliefs and might not always agree. I had some really nuanced and interesting convos here, most people regardless of pill tend to be somehat cordial. (unless it's purge wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:18 AM
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Sure but my point tho was that I understand that most of these men who make these shitposts are hurt and venting and I am not taking them 100% seriously, regardless of whether I like/dislike them. That was my entire point. Also, you insisting that I'm infiltrating male spaces is pretty wrong because PPD is a neutral space. Everyone can post whatever they want ( well, during purge at least). So leopards can do leopard stuff and I can depict leopard stuff. But I do agree with your point that two w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:54 AM
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I have lurked there a bit, I've seen a couple 20+ femcels. But yeah must be crappy dealing with puberty, being constantly exposed to photoshopped insta girls, and your only cope is a subreddit that confirms all your beliefs and keeps you in an echo chamber.oof
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:20 AM
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Here, a cookie for you 🍪✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:41 PM
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WOW. As in positive WOW, unbelievably rare. Aw thanks :) Yeah, I feel like a relationship is a process, not a goal, and societal expectations are meaningless anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:09 PM
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Oh damn, that's awesome, you guys did good :) I mean frankly, I think it's up to everyone to decide what they want individually, I am glad people have a choice nowadays. I personally would like to continue working, but I am cool with women who'd want to be a SAHM, and the same goes for men and their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:59 PM
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Well if we are talking about underdeveloped societies and time periods when women didn't even have the option to enter the workforce or have any form of independence, no I don't blame individual men for participating in a system where this kind of construct is seen as the default. But we live in a society where people have equal rights more or less, I am not denying that people can be influenced by ideas of certain movements and this is a reality, but I don't think there is one clear "culprit" f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:53 PM
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I mean definitely, I won't argue with that, shame is still a pretty big factor, but at least we have a choice to do whatever we want. I mean realistically there will always be someone who will dislike you or shame you for not living your life according to their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:41 PM
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Oh, I didn't say that it's impossible for feminism to be an organized movement. Obviously, feminists do exist, and some of them are organized in their goals and campaigns, I am not denying that, my point was that most women aren't that. Even the ones who do believe in feminist rhetoric. My argument was that I felt like OP was linking too many things together when observing female tendencies within society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:38 PM
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I mean yeah but are there any nowadays? You can choose to date whoever you want or not date at all, we can survive without needing a partner or marriage, unlike more primitive tight-knit communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:25 PM
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Read my reply again. I said that the term patriarchy is nowadays used in a very abstract way, regarding developed societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:17 PM
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I would hope that my partner was someone I could trust enough that I could tell them anything and they wouldn't judge (and vice versa). Within reason of course, not confessing to heinous crimes or anything like that. And that should be a unique mutual trust. There shouldn't be things that she tells her friends that she can't tell me and vice versa other than just complaining about something small that I do that annoys her or whatever. Yes, I really don't like it when people do that, I mean nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:12 PM
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I think the mass shootings and crimes can be a correlation but that doesn't mean lack of masculinity is the causation. I think masculinity is still there, it's alive and well, it's just that plenty of men are having issues adapting to the contemporary dating scene and life in general, due to the massive amount of social changes that have been going on in the last couple of decades. I feel like a lot of them don't feel needed or they feel like their work won't pay off so they're choosing to opt-o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:04 PM
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I think men do want it but I don't know how many want to actually do it considering the contemporary economy. I am sure plenty of women would also like to be SAHM but I don't think many are willing to accept the risks of it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:48 PM
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Ah, fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:23 PM
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So what's left, friendship? I mean yes, this should be a basis for all healthy relationships. If you don't have your partner's interest at heart as well as your own, it's just a transaction. Imagine....actually liking to spend time with a person? How would you date if there was no pressure to find a husband? Would you date at all? Would you ever get involved in a LTR? Yes, I would go for LTRs, I see value in growing together with a person. Honestly, I personally would rather be in a happy LTR th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:17 PM
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Yes, I have spoken about this in my reply to the OP's comment. I will quote myself: I believe that "patriarchy" is an oversimplified term and a scapegoat for many women to blame their issues on, I think both men and women have unique advantages and disadvantages and the system definitely should be improved, but acting as if such an abstract term as "patriarchy" is the one specific culprit is oversimplifying things too much. Also, my point was that just because some of these phenomena exist withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:01 PM
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yooo, it do be like that here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:37 PM
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That's victim blaming imho Is it? Victim blaming is when you actually blame the victim, If I told the victim something along the lines of "Well it's your fault they hit you", " You wouldn't have gotten raped if you didn't do that", "You were an idiot for letting them abuse you" etc. Simply suggesting that if a certain partner or a social circle isn't healthy for you, and that it is in your best interest to distance yourself from such people is reasonable. It is probably the healthiest thing you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:46 PM
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feels =/= is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:11 PM
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Yeah, you could definitely phrase it that way, since humans perceive liquids as wet when getting into contact. To us It feels wet, therefore we assume that it inherently exists in a permanent state of wetness, but it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:56 PM
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Shit, she's with a married man? Oh, that's a big no-no, never be the "other woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:06 PM
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ooof, yep the social circles are very unlikely to mesh well, considering the age gap. Different mindsets, interests etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:30 PM
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Water isn't wet tho, as molecules are all bound together and not wetting one another. Things submerged in water are wet ofc. (Sorry for getting pedantic)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:19 PM
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They seem to enjoy gang bangs and orgies in their youth and sleep around with multiple people. Look, I am not a western woman, but I feel like you are getting your idea about these women exclusively based on porn and shows such as Sex and the city lol. You are the equivalent of that guy who thinks Japan is exactly the way it's depicted in anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:06 PM
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Understandable, we all are to some degree. I think of it like this. Compare a situation where you want to buy a house and a situation where you are visiting someone else's house. In the first scenario, the goal is to get something. In the second scenario, the goal is just to have a good time. In the first scenario, you will be a lot more critical, inspecting every nook and cranny, the heating, location, and you are more likely to write off all the positive things about it because you want to ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:49 PM
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The problem is that both your definitions of the "ideal" and the "right" person are vague, and you haven't provided a clear distinction. Even if you end up with the most ideal person that is literally all you ever wanted, real life issues will still creep into the relationship. Your partner got sick, you can't make it to an event that's really important to them, they can't have sex currently etc. Relationships can absolutely make your life better (if they're healthy) but no matter who you date r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:58 AM
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Oh yeah from what I've seen most people on tiktok are absolute degenerates, the only reason I have an account is to read the comments when someone links something from there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:39 AM
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Yeah, that was all good but general advice a lot of men need. People in general I'd argue even. His points in a nutshell are: Don't date someone who constantly makes reductive broad generalizations about your gender, don't date someone who isn't over their ex, don't date someone who is entitled. I haven't seen his other videos so I don't know if there is some context for these accusations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:56 AM
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Really? I thought everything he said was pretty reasonable and tame. Honestly, if he was talking about a hypothetical man in this scenario I'd see the things he listed as red flags as well. If women on tik tok think this was misogynistic...then hoo boy, they would not be able to stomach some of the heavier exchanges within the manosphere. I think they would break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:20 AM
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You see that's a double edged thing, this usually unfold some unpleasant state of affairs and will be gaslighted for its nature. Maybe you just need to surround yourself with better people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:48 PM
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As you can see people telling their sides of the story are labeled as incels or some other curse words and ridiculed. I do think it's wrong to gaslight men when they open up about their experiences. I do understand that not all incels are hateful, it's wrong to overlook that many are very hurt. Yes, the dominant political stance on it is to release tension on women without touching that of men. I am inclined to agree when it comes to the west. I am a Slavic so I can only speak from my experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:26 PM
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The contrast here, women are not dismantled from society from being incompetent whereas men do. I think you are somewhat underestimating the pressure on women to get married and have children. After a certain age, they certainly are judged by society. I do agree that men do very much get judged for underperforming sexually. I don't deny that these issues exist. I guess if men are judged for competency or lack thereof, women are judged for deviating from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:03 PM
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Um the purge week is over, but either way, there will be people who will see you as "too white" and people who will see you as "too black". I don't think it's something that should concern you much, just find friends and men who like you the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:33 PM
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Also no one gets jealous when their friend gets a boyfriend. Maybe if that "friend" is really an enemy, but probably not even then. I would argue some do, but I don't think this is an exclusively female behavior, since plenty of young men also feel inadequacy and resentment when their friends have gfs or more sex than them. All humans are capable of these feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:11 PM
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There are few to no women who claim that they don’t want to dismantle the patriarchy or that patriarchy doesn’t exist in the first place. Hello, nice to meet you. I believe that "patriarchy" is an oversimplified term and a scapegoat for many women to blame their issues on, I think both men and women have unique advantages and disadvantages and the system definitely should be improved, but acting as if such an abstract term as "patriarchy" is the one specific culprit is oversimplifying things too…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:03 PM
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In the entirety of your post, you are conflating feminists, women, and the need for power, in a sense that all of these things are one big organized conglomerate trying to take down the "patriarchy" and be on top of the social hierarchy. This is quite a dubious claim, especially considering the fact that you assume that females in their personal life choices are thinking about influencing society in such a big way, nobody does that, everybody does what is convenient for them personally. Just lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 08:42 PM
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Perhaps your observations are correct, but I hear blame coming from both sides. The biggest problem that I see is people in relationships just sort of assuming how they're "supposed" to have sex instead of communicating properly and asking the partner what they actually like. Blaming people in a relationship is unproductive unless they genuinely do bad shit like being abusive or cheating. If the sex is meh it's nobody's "fault", people just need to communicate and make it work, or break up if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:50 PM
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Keep on twisting my words, I don't care what you do bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:07 PM
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It's ok if some women don't wanna date men under 6'0, it's their choice, and potentially their loss. It's also ok if some men feel insecure about their height, for whatever reason really. People can be insecure, people can have dating preferences. As long as they aren't being an asshole to others about it and doing the whole "woe is me" shit. That's the only part that is cancerous about this and similar subs. But yes I do agree that everyone settles to some degree. To me, height was never a deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 03:30 PM
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You can do whatever you want or date whoever you want for all I care. Just saying it's a neurotic way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:43 PM
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Yeah, I am Slovenian so I understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:27 PM
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Marketing agencies and people who make money off of it don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:02 PM
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For all you know she could have been celibate or in one LTR. You applying one single scenario (AF/BB or whatever) to every woman you know will poison you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:39 AM
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So yea you've basically described pickmes and tradcons more or less. Also if you're "giving" just so the boys would like you, you aren't really selflessly giving because you always expect something in return, and this pattern is extremely neurotic and can poison you. This goes for pretty much any other example. I personally feel like no matter what I do in life, there will be at least one person who won't like me for it, or they will misinterpret my intentions. You can get judged for literally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:25 AM
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I agree it's a crime, except in the examples you gave you are stealing a physical object from someone. With intelectual property, it's a bit different. I always have a mindset that If I really want something, I can just pirate it, and later when I have more money I'll spend it just to support the creators. Considering the amount of shit there is nowadays why would I support low effort crap that's just made to be mindlessly consumed? I won't because I'll just be voting with my wallet for more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:56 AM
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.....What are you even talking about? It's not like we can even see whether she replied or not. Still doesn't change the fact that this person was trying to manipulate her into sending nudes under the pretense of "feminism" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:31 AM
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The question is to whom they should be held accountable? You? Just don't date them I guess. So what, a woman takes responsibility for the fact she fucked some thug and now wants a better man and says it openly. Unless you wanna fuck her or have an LTR with her, what purpose does this serve? Who you choose to date is your private life, the only problem I have with people is if they choose to behave badly in their public lives, and if she was at least a relatively decent member of society I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:25 AM
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I always get a bit weirded out by such generalizations, since I have a pretty minimalistic lifestyle, do women generally spend a lot on non-necessities? (not moralizing)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:39 AM
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And thus are, with some degree of sarcasm, requesting the courtesy of that listeners extended to you the assumption that your views are more nuanced than your actual cartoon. Pretty hard to express extremely nuanced views in a short comic, perhaps it was my technical flaw as an author, however, I think you are still choosing to read into this too much. literally depicting others as a mixture of human and reptile is a bit a of tough sell, no? Oh, I see. The purge is funny and "not serious" when a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:13 AM
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Exactly, reality is ✨ nuanced✨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:19 PM
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I agree I think people need to distinguish between responsibility and blame. It's not your fault if you get raped, and no woman deserves it, but it is your responsibility to make yourself less of a target.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:58 PM
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Maybe, I guess some men would be ok with any women for sex really, ecen the fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:15 PM
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We don't live in an ideal world so we should obviously know how to protect ourselves from getting robbed, it is not your fault if you get robbed, but it is your responsibility to do all the things in your control to prevent it. A person who actively chooses not to is careless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:57 PM
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Yeah I have lurked there a bit, i think it's sad how many people are convinced by RP that they have to dissect their authenticity completely in order to succeed with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:03 PM
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yea but isn't 2/3 of Americans obese in general? Not all people here are American.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:11 PM
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Who says it SHOULDN'T be a turnoff when a woman does this, this is your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:16 PM
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I guess I just don't understand the idea of being angry at people who don't want to fuk you. I understand it emotionally (because yes, people feel inadequate when rejected), but rationally if someone is just existing and dating whoever they want why are they a threat to you, especially if they are nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:13 PM
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Of course good men and women should be wary of the bad ones. My entire argument was that we shouldn't hold a moral high ground and apply it to just one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:25 PM
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Cute narrative, but you can't apply it to every single relationship on earth and there are plenty of external reasons why a relationship might go south. I am just against black and white thinking thas all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:20 PM
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Um. Dude you think any hardcore mysogynists here really ever change their mind? Most people are here to circle jerk, especially during purge week. I'd argue men are a lot less sane during purge week considering the amount of insults and hateful shitposts they post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:14 PM
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Yea baggage is just a side effect of being human, we choose how much we can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:56 AM
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I agree, I am against both of the extreme views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:10 AM
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My dude if I wasn't aware that some(the obligatory not all) of these men see us as snake-women, this wouldn't exist. And well, I mean you clearly also are upset by this since you keep reiterating your points, and really it is your own assumption that I see all men collectively like this simplified little caricature. Your flair says you are a misogynist, do you hate us all? How far should I read into this? Don't worry, I won't hold it against you because I assume you are a three dimensional perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:52 AM
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So losing half of your hard-earned money to some woman is a lot different than getting shouted at or getting punched in the face once and then leaving the asshole Yes, If that's all a bad guy does to you, and depends where you live, but yes ideally a woman can just leave. Look I am aware of divorce rape being a possibility but then your battle is against the rigged court system. I was making a point of this black and white thinking and holding a moral high ground that is a theme in these spheres…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 02:39 AM
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Sure. And I understand why hanging around angry dudes might not be your cup of tea.Thing is, you don't have to. You don't have to spend time here. Dude this is PPD (during purge mind you), so I'm not infiltrating any manosphere spaces. None of us have to be here, yet we are. We all have the right to say whatever we want, and I clearly haven't called you out on disagreeing with me. You could be off using those art skills to karma farm on mainstream reddit I have other social media accounts for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:54 AM
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I do. I just didn't have much of a response to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:02 AM
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oof
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:43 AM
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I specifically said 'some' trpers, of course not all of them are extreme, which goes for any movement really. But I have seen and read some things within the manosphere that made me genuinely depressed knowing how so low some men think of us. I assume most trp guys are good but surely you agree to some extent that some of these ideas about women being inherently bad are ingrained within the RP philosophy? Plenty of feminists think like this too. yeah, ideologies/movements/religions tend to be li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:34 AM
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How is this purge tame compared to other ones? ( I am asking cause I'm new so I don't have a frame of reference)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:14 AM
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Ok that comic really made me laugh ngl. You are more than free to disagree with me, I am not trying to "win" anything, this is just a comic from one single female in a sea of RP/incel comics that generalize ALL women so if this ain't your thing, you are free to disagree or dislike it, I think two things can be true at the same time and there are nuances to each perspective. Also, I drew the RP guy that way cause a lot of guys on here are angry let's face it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:10 AM
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There's a difference between caring about what the opposite gender likes and getting triggered over any person that posts something on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:21 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:04 PM
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I mean yea that is basically the entire content of FDS and WAATGM subs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:38 PM
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Why are people so offended by people with high dating standards and define their worth as a human based on the opinion of randos? And of course, biologically we are wired to care about what the other gender likes but getting triggered over every single individual who has different standards from you is unhealthy. Like ok, some people have retarded standards when it comes to dating but tf does that have to do with you, they aren't hurting anyone, and life will teach them whether they should lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:19 PM
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I agree they do in some circumstances, and I am very opposed to this point of view as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:58 PM
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I mean yeah games like this practically already exist, and it's probably going to get even more realistic and customizeable. I agree that it's probably a better option if somebody wants to invest in something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:40 PM
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to get to the good stuff, you need to dig through the shit. Yeah, this is true for most things really. People should think critically about ideas instead of being dogmatic and following blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:33 PM
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O no I mean he is proficient in both English and Slovenian it's just his lisp I personally find annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:09 PM
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Guys post what happened and instead of FDS style encouragement no matter what, there will be criticism, "Your frame was weak", "You did this", "You did that". I mean FDS is hella toxic for sure. But yeah it's not so much about improving yourself, I am aware that they do see their shortcomings, it's really them having a lot of cult-like beliefs about women that rubs me the wrong way. Some of them genuinely believe women are inherently bad and exist specifically to harm them. You can't deny that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:48 PM
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I'm sad now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:36 PM
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I mean yes women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of commitment/marriage, if a man sees red flags in a woman that should be his cue to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:34 PM
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I'm a web designer, but I draw in my spare time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:28 PM
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Wash your pee pee inkwell!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:20 PM
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lol, but is either of these extremes really healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:09 PM
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I was exaggerating for comedic purposes sorry you didn't like it :((((
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:08 PM
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I mean I do know they talk about self-improvement a lot, which I have 0 problems with. That's fantastic. But when it comes to relationships I haven't seen a single RP ever say that he did something wrong, when women get screwed over then it's their fault for not reading the red flags but somehow this doesn't apply to men and they are always the victims? (I don't deny the fact that some women out there do make bad life choices ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:04 PM
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she thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:53 PM
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Um....waaaaaaat This is the most toxic way of forcing someone to send you nudes loool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:34 PM
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I mean she is somewhat average, she is just dressed in a very masculine way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah it's a meme comic, I couldn't put in a lot of nuance, but I might make a comic making fun of FDS as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:31 PM
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jesus was thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:30 PM
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That was a test and you passed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:25 PM
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Ok, but have you ever heard of Jesus? Jesus>penis
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:02 PM
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So you are saying how you want to replace us but we're not allowed to cope? What's your alternative then? Men cope in fairly similar ways except they get dogs and fall in love with female fictional characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:53 PM
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Sure, if that's what they're into. For me personally, it would feel empty. I don't have a super high libido so I'd manage, and I have hobbies. But yeah I mean, to each their own, everybody can choose .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:47 PM
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Damn, sorry, I'll make a more accurate representation next time, with a whole orgy of Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:46 PM
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Well wouldn't actual robots be hell expensive to produce, dunno if average joes would be able to afford em? Then again maybe in a few decades idk. But by then most jobs will probably be automated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:41 PM
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Honestly, most guys don't see much worth in us either way, so I'd rather them be fucking bots who match all the "pornstar moves" if that's what they truly desire anyway. Women handle celibacy a lot better than men anyway, and I believe that everyone has the right to a personal choice in life so...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:37 PM
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Honestly, people can do whatever they want with their genitalia. Dunno how economically feasible it would be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:29 PM
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yes, it is basically our hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:28 PM
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Yea pretty much. If men got pregnant, they would be the gender that people would be harsher towards for choosing badly. I mean plenty of men go for dumb materialistic bimbos who use them because they're hot but these men are always presented as the "victims", despite actively choosing bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:24 PM
3

6 pack is absolutely unnecessary, it's a bonus for some but far from a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:17 PM
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I was refuting your argument that any girl can be Stacy. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:44 PM
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Wait....is it not clear that we were both trolling each other? At least I was. I am 165 cm lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:40 PM
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Um no bro, women can't do anything about their breast size, or facial symmetry, or hip to waist ratio or ass size. You can only influence your weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:35 PM
6

it depends on the person men like Stacies too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:31 PM
3

I haven't read it yet, but I've heard it's pretty good, if you like typical shounen stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:30 PM
3

oh boy...Healthy relationships are based on way more than superficial shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:27 PM
3

I have dated guys who were around my height and I am 165 cm. So yea, I'm not a very tall woman. I think it's ok for height to be a preference but it shouldn't be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:23 PM
3

Kimetsu no Yaiba/Demon slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:04 PM
1

um no honestly not everyone generalizes people in obnoxious self-righteous ways, it is very common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:41 PM
3

Um idk, I would NEVER condone cheating if some of my female friends told me they are cheating on their bfs. Cheating is cheating, and it is immoral, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:39 PM
7

Yo no, meditation and mindfulness practices will make you more productive, not be a victim of your ego, you will sleep better, overall you will have a better life if you detach yourself from what you "think you are". Coping is when you distract yourself by shoving ice cream in your mouth or watch tv shows 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:10 PM
1

Well then just permanently shut your eyes, you sexist >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:56 PM
6

I think a lot of them are cool and interesting, they have pee pee, they're pretty straightforward, they have a lot of interesting hobbies, they don't have boobs. Some guys with the incel mindset do genuinely scare me ngl. But overall I approve, they cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:52 PM
2

I am 6'5 and 63 kg and I am offended :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:44 PM
5

that seal is cute
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:40 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:33 PM
2

a 6'5 chick would look anorexic if she was 60kg jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:32 PM
8

it's ok if you are like 180-185cm, which I don't think most women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:25 PM
6

Not all people here are American, we are aware the US average ain't the healthy average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:21 PM
1

Ok, I should have said "unlistenable", I can't listen to him on whichever language he's speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:13 PM
17

Hmmm, I agree with a lot of the points here, there are plenty of traumatized people regardless of age. However, I do think it's fair to say that younger people probably have less baggage than older people, due to still being relatively new to this game called "life" But honestly, this entire concept of not choosing to date someone because of baggage is frankly weird to me, because we all struggle in life at one point or another, and the treshold of "baggage" is subjective. Not to mention that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:09 PM
7

Nah, it's a pretty real problem. It's a very weird thing where even black people segregate amongst themselves based on their shade of skin tone. It does also exist as a phenomenon historically regarding white slave owners, lighter-skinned people would serve in the house, darker ones would work on plantations. Also, plenty of famous black men can be seen with either light-skinned black women or white women, it is definitely a pattern that keeps occurring. It's also a common issue even in many Sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:50 PM
2

I mean It's definitely possible, it just depends on what her career is, and if she has to be in a competitive mindset all day long it might be hard for her to "switch" to a more submissive role once she gets home. I do agree tho that submissivness/dominance has nothing to do with external things and there's a difference between submissiveness and being an actual slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:44 PM
0

tbh isn't everyone kinda autistic here? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:16 PM
1

lol wat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:15 PM
2

They don't, according to incels and trpers here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:11 PM
1

Noooo effin Zizek, I am Slovenian and that man is just incomprehensible to me. How can anyone stand to listen to him with that lisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:01 PM
1

Yeah I am also Slavic but from what I've gathered these kinds of attitudes aren't a thing in bigger cities. But some of this "it's your fault if the husband leaves" still prevails. Which is funny because we are basically penalizing women for the simple process of getting old, and it's her fault if she doesn't put herself through plastic surgery or whatever else apparently? Like what tf are we supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:39 AM
5

They support you to become a better man by calling you an incel and creep if you're sexually unsuccessful. I am kind to any man regardless of sexual experience, but you do realize that some of these men are genuinely very hostile towards women? Why would I throw myself in shark-infested waters?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:47 AM
5

Evil and good are concepts humans created, humans aren't inherently either, they just are. Is2g yall' need Jesus here. Have a blessed day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:14 AM
10

I mean if you gonna call someone out at least reference what they've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:37 AM
1

There isn’t a single thing I can do to improve my life that isn’t taken as evidence that I am insecure about my height, because women can’t conceive of a man not obsessing over his height as they do. I am sorry but if other people's view about your height insecurity triggers you this much, then you are genuinely insecure about this. If you feel like you are compensating, you are. I have dated guys who were close to my height and I am 165 cm, so not very tall. I like confident guys who have simil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:18 AM
0

Awww common, let people cope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:09 AM
1

Can we be objective about reality at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:04 AM
1

If I touch my computer screen is it also just my neurons stimulating my brain giving me the illusion of touch, while in reality there's nothing there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:48 AM
0

Well, I can interact with what I perceive as the physical reality but how can I be sure it's not a simulation? Mabe my life is just somebody's dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:37 AM
0

Yes, unless I am ALSO somebody's Tulpa. so these women are a Tulpas within a Tulpa within a Tulpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:31 AM
4

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:13 AM
1

Yes, all women are essentially Tulpas , we are just stress induced hallucinations that don't exist in the real world. I don't exist in the real world, I only exist as a part of the collective consciousness on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:08 AM
2

Don't date hairy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:00 AM
2

I'd watch that. prepares popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:49 AM
2

Well, men have a lot of it as well, it just seems to be the zeitgeist right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:42 AM
6

Maybe because not all women participate in casual sex? I know...shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:40 PM
26

Oh my god, the amount of people who have these weird revenge fantasies is insane. If ya'll don't wanna date promiscuous men or women, cool you don't have to, but this fucking retardation as if you are the main character in everybody's life and where you construct people's backstories based on a few details about them needs to stop. People don't exist to give your life closure or a happy end and it's a seriously solipsistic way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:29 PM
2

Can fat women fuck fat men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:03 PM
1

Well If he is okay with it you can just take it slow, enjoy the relationship, and figure out where things are going later, especially if the relationship is fresh and you are still testing the waters. Now whether you are being settled for or not, I have no idea cause you have provided way too little information.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:49 PM
2

Your mboobs are fine, you can relax
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:43 PM
5

It's purge week, incels and extreme trpers be wildin' 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:39 PM
1

How fun I wanna try If you are a men Your only purpose is to eat thy own turd 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:37 PM
6

Yoo but like 'Prince charming' is the most common term when people try to explain to women that they probably won't meet such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:29 PM
3

Based. Also, people who contextualize their entire lives through stereotypes and act like they are the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:22 PM
0

So this sub is about racial supremacy now. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:28 PM
2

You have a blessed day as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:25 PM
1

what about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:20 PM
2

Imagine being a person who struggles in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:13 PM
1

trpers find oppression sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:12 PM
2

I just saw some guy send an opening line to a girl who's nick name is Cat. His opening line was '' I've always wanted to f*ck a cat ''. It's this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:00 PM
1

You know it. Happy cake day btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:49 PM
1

Both 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:42 PM
1

Aww man, her past is pretty sad tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:41 PM
1

They poor troubled kids mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:36 PM
2

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:34 PM
1

Self-righteous generalizations about either gender for venting purposes are the biggest poison there is when shared in public. The only place where it deserves to exist is in your personal journals or between your closest friends who understand you're just hurt and venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:25 PM
2

I believe that everyone should have a moral compass and not treat others badly, and I believe in a system regulation that isn't biased. That's about it as far as I'm concerned, your comment was fairly vague so I gave you a somewhat vague overview of my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:14 PM
2

I don't subscribe to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:04 PM
3

"I" am not a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:00 PM
2

Shove plastic in yourself, shove your pee pee in plastic, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:55 PM
1

Because their role was to be in the kitchen and breed tiny humans, which is btw what men want and scream how it's something women aren't doing nowadays and bash them for focusing on careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:17 PM
5

Yeah but penis hoomans profit off of, exploit and fight other penis hoomans, it's a system penis hoomans have created
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:57 PM
6

Drawing, painting Going to the gym Learning languages (Japanese currently) Reading/ watching films Writing Making clothes when I have time I am an introvert, I don't drink and nightclubs annoy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:05 PM
-1

How many school bullies become a fucking CEO? Jesus what the fuck even are these comics, they seem like basically half-true anecdotes of one dude mixed with some "woe is me" revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:55 PM
1

Why not ask in the r/AskTruFemcels sub, some would probably be up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:48 PM
17

Nah, if some men out there wanna shove their pee pee in a bunch of plastic and metal they can go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:37 PM
1

Depends on who you ask. In the TRP sphere women have to essentially be pure virgin trad wives who pretty much have to dissect any personality they have in order to be agreeable, pleasant, soft-spoken, have no hobbies outside of cooking and having sex with their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:23 PM
2

I mean, 90% of male memes here are projections because some girl rejected them 10 yrs ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:19 PM
3

It do be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:12 PM
6

I mean this is basically just PPD summarized lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:54 PM
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