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Not every woman finds me charming, never said i was a stud or a ladies man, just said i can attract women, date and have sex. Sorry that that doesn’t fit the narrative you’ve crafted in your head based on reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:32 AM
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ANOTHER redditor making a story up in their head about someone’s dating life that’s they have never, and will never know. It’s pretty sad with you people. And telling as well that the first insult you go for is “you’re a loser and can’t attract women” if you disagree with them. It’s pretty pathetic that you make a story up in your head about an anonymous person online. I do pretty fine and get laid on a semi regular basis. Your concern or what you think is the truth in the story you’ve made up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:30 AM
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actually not 30, and you’re ad homming rating your desire for me to be a loser because it somehow makes you feel better about your own sad life. i don’t face rejection as much as you’d like me to and you keep for some weird reason inferring to me not being good enough to attract women when i’ve told you numerous times i don’t particular struggle in this area, so now you’re just going to keep going on because you made a whole story up about a guy you don’t know on the internet and what his dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:28 AM
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I like dating the small amount of women who would make for good partners, which definitely isn’t many. I’m content until (if) I find one to keep things casual and not commit to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:23 AM
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The optimal path for me is whatever i decide it is sweetie. I don’t struggle too much with women so i’m sure i’ll choose one to pro create with once im actually ready to settle down. Also i have a pretty good social life as well, so wrong once again. All you can do is throw ad homs bc you get all worked up when you see someone advocating for what’s best for men, pretty pathetic and sad tbh. Oh most of us know you don’t care at all. It’s pretty much expected that most of the women on here aren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:18 AM
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Mmm, quite a bit of death and dying in this day and age is expected and not out of the blue sudden. Biggest killer are from chronic heart disease, cancer, and pulmonary issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:13 AM
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He listed his rational. You chose to interpret it like that. Women’s increasing sexual power over men and women’s hypergamy is damaging men’s mental health and so therefore it should be prioritized over women’s as this is causing men’s mental health to be worse off than women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:12 AM
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Quite a few people who die of chronic diseases or cancers get to say goodbye to loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:07 AM
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You can say that all you like or call me a loser all you like. That doesn’t change the optimal path forward for men. Also i’m fairly successful, but thanks for your concern. Reported for ad hom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:05 AM
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Well i meant truly alone. The process of dying you do not have to believe alone. I was inferring she will not have loved ones to send her off when she dies it appears. Not being surrounded with the comfort of your loved ones being there as you die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:04 AM
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It’s the same blue pillers and fake purple pillers who simp for women on here so i’ll just start calling it out, no emotional involved. Easy as that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:03 AM
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It looks like you must not know how to form correct sentences or type either. How unfortunate for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:36 AM
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Yeah i’ve noticed an uptick in women and blue pillers on the sub. Just like my comments randomly get removed for black pill or woe is me despite me not definitively saying something blackpill or lamenting about my struggles. They’ll just remove whatever they don’t agree with and not respond to you when you ask why they did. The sub is going down hill honestly. I’m sure i’ll have comments removed tomorrow or possibly get a ban, who cares. Anything that goes against the blue pill women are wonderf…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:35 AM
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Wow really running around looking at all my comments like a weirdo. Par for the course with people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:11 AM
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You’re a horrible person, won’t surprise me if you die alone and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:11 AM
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I am the person who is not afraid to say horrible things to horrible people. I don’t care how you feel about that. I also probably won’t be having kids so oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:10 AM
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Uh, don’t recall saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:08 AM
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Ehhh more are definitely going to. Thankfully more men are losing sympathy for women after seeing them for the petulant children they act like. I genuinely wish most of them nothing but the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:43 AM
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Actually not at all. I don’t care about for the sake of this arguement who women are dating or not. I don’t care if they are desperate or not. I have zero desire for women to date anyone of desperation, i quite literally do not care about women having to resort to dating a wider range of men. I hope most women end up dying alone in fact and don’t have to have to broaden their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:39 AM
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You’re right, they can see how much of a smooth brain you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:33 AM
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You know, yeah maybe i do dislike most women. Such is life when your interactions with a group of people are overwhelmingly negative. It’s justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:32 AM
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Projections about how stupid you are? You certainly use enough emojis to seem like an idiot. There was zero point in your comment, like at all, you’re smooth brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:29 AM
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I’ve slept with plenty of women. I do think women’s lives may benefit from being made a little more difficult as most of them are entitled spoiled brats. They’re too comfortable with the coddling in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:28 AM
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Yup. Equality. Need to make things equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:25 AM
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Yeah, like i said it’s really not that deep. Women are not as complex as they like to think they are. They’re simple minded creatures that are shallow and drawn to the HVMs they chase and will tolerate poor behavior to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:25 AM
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Nope. I do know how it works. Women can actually take more than they receive in it because they live longer. #equality let them figure out their own funds when the money tap runs dry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:17 AM
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Actually more and more men are realizing the nature of women and what they are like. The manosphere is the largest it’s ever been and it’s still growing. Most women are reprehensible selfish shallow individuals, all that’s happening is the internet is exposing more men to the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:15 AM
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Social security should be cut off at a certain age and women should be banned from receiving too much benefits until it reaches the average of how much benefits men receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:14 AM
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Nope. It’s about fighting against female supremacy and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:12 AM
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All men should be anti feminists. It’s men’s best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:12 AM
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This is why men need to vote to strip women programs, harm women however they can in a politically legitimate way by voting against things that help women and hurt men. They simply need to be taught like petulant children that they aren’t always going to get their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:10 AM
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Hopefully you die of cancer alone with no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:09 AM
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Okay foid. I know you’re mentally challenged, try to keep some help. It’s unfortunate your brain was developed with so few wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:08 AM
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Reported for personal attack. You seem to lack the capacity to actually respond without ad homs. Par for the course for a woman. You’re dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:06 AM
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No one is owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:05 AM
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change your flair white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:04 AM
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Signs point to my theory being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:01 AM
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Nah more like more men in future generations will see the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:01 AM
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Nope. Women are the ones that pretty much ruined the dating market. Doesn’t matter what you think. Men that get locked out of the dating market should sue the power they have to get revenge. If this is how it’s going to be that’s fine, but they should try to sabotage women’s privileges, abortion, programs however they can. It has nothing to do with being desperate. Hurt those who are the cause of your problems. Women are the problem in the dating market by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:56 AM
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Nope, I just send women will put up with it if it’s a guy that gives her tingles and that she knows is out of her league/ a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:52 AM
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There’s a reason the manosphere is growing. Because men are having these experiences with women and more and more men are seeing how women act and it’s really not just a one off thing or a few women, it’s most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:51 AM
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You guys really are not that complicated. It’s laughable how complex women think they are when in reality they’re simple minded. I’ve talked to, had sex with, and been friends with numerous women. Women are the reason why I view them how I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:50 AM
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Women’s hypergamous nature drives more and more men out of dating. So there should rightly be retribution. There’s not reason not to seek recourse. Hurt them in whatever non illegal way you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:49 AM
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Wow showing your supreme intellect by capitalizing every other letter. Yeah most women have the mindset of spoiled petulant children so they refuse to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:48 AM
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No i didn’t say “only”. But women love the emotional instability and having to prove they are good enough for chads so they take the cheating and/or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:05 AM
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I said it’s the woman’s fault for choosing poorly and staying with a man like that AND obviously the guys fault for breaking the law and abusing his partner. Yeah, only women will do that to you. No better red pillers than women themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:04 AM
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The whole point is that they aren’t going to regardless. So your attempt to ask why they would choose them when they adopt this attitude is irrelevant. Women’s hypergamy pushing increasing number of men out of dating is a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:58 AM
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Or the the type of men women lust over and give her the tingles because he excites her. Women like the emotional instability, they crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:56 AM
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I said those men are responsible for their actions as well and will most likely face legal ramifications unless the woman is simping for him so bad she doesn’t say anything which happens quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:55 AM
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Women having such sexual power and advantage over men while men’s evolutionary advantage of their strength gets regulated is inherently unfair. So there fore the only recourse for men who are shunned out of dating bc they’re not very attractive should be vengeance by mobilizing the little political power they have and boycotting anything related to women owned or affiliated brands or groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:54 AM
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Found the weirdo stalking comment history bc they don’t have a life. Get lost freak. Sorry i made you butthurt 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:52 AM
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Irrelevant. Women were already avoiding them. Vote whoever you can to harm women’s issues. Ban abortion, vote for conservatives, vote to defund women’s programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:48 AM
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Nope, what’s dangerous and harmful for men is not knowing the reality of women’s hypergamous and shallow nature. Yes they essentially are just a hole to me unless I want something more than casual sex. Not trying to “revise” anything. Women being spoiled entitled petulant children on average because women have life much easier than men on average is the problem you ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:47 AM
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There’s no coercion. It’s not going to happen for these men. Women having such an unearned advantage harms them, so why not use the limited power for justice. After all life isn’t fair, they don’t have to be fair either. Women will never settle for men they don’t consider beneath them (most men) and would rather be abused by a HVM than do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:45 AM
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They act like men resenting not being able to do despite putting in much more effort and work is somehow shocking. Like no shit? Every group of disaffected yes individuals has not been happy at not getting the same results despite working harder than other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:38 AM
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No but harming women politically however they can is a legitimate point to take as women’s hypergamy also harms them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:37 AM
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He’s made numerous counter points in arguements. Plus many of the women here don’t argue in good faith either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:33 AM
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Nah, most women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:31 AM
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Any women who choose poorly are responsible for their own situations. Especially the women who stay with abusers and men that cheat with them. I have no sympathy in that case. Your decisions are your one problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:27 AM
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Nice circle jerk. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:26 AM
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Nope, comment got removed because women on this sub mass report anything they don’t like. Yes women that aren’t worth being in a relationship with I just have casual sex with. Nothing wrong with that. I’m using them they are using me. Women do quite often act like petulant children, many men that interact with women know this. Knowing the truth about women is “dangerous”, interesting. Manosphere content is good for men to see the reality of the situation in dealing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:26 AM
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You wish i was an incel. I get laid fairly regularly, good try white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:22 AM
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oh look a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:39 PM
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Women are responsible for the choices they make. They need to own up to the type of men they date and stay with after being abused. It’s not anyone else’s fault that they date abusive men other than her and the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:16 PM
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Nope, try reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:42 PM
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Not taking accountability would be women’s most predominant trait, not men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:20 PM
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You can say whatever you want. The fact of the matter is i don’t hate women. But you can believe what you’d like. I have nothing to prove to you. If me telling the truth means i hate women that just say a lot about the attitudes of women huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:09 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:11 PM
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What’s pathetic is most women. But there are a few decent ones out there. Until I find one (if i ever do) i’ll just settle for hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:53 PM
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Yup. Will literally accept abuse and getting cheated on. “I can change him”. Just like a stubborn child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:47 PM
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Yup. They do it all the time. Can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:42 PM
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Women will put up with abuse and objectify themselves for a high value man, peace ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:41 PM
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Oh so your only argument is “nuh-uh”. Figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:40 PM
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Because i still like sex and having a partner? Just because i can say children are extremely selfish and irresponsible on average doesn’t mean i hate them. I just realize what im dealing with and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:40 PM
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You are. Either that or someone is allowing you to have unsupervised access to the internet you shouldn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:39 PM
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Someone’s so butthurt all they can say are two words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 PM
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It’s not about hating women at all. It’s about recognizing their toddler like nature and acting accordingly so you don’t put yourself in a position to get emotionally damaged or hurt by them. Most women are vindictive and extremely shallow. Men are slowly realizing women are really not all that they’re made out to be. Once you can get some pussy most aren’t worthy having around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:35 PM
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Most women aren’t. Most men are detestable and disgust women. Hence the bear vs man debate. Men are just reacting to women’s true nature and disdain for non HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:34 PM
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It is. Where most men go wrong is they get mad and bitter about the child like female nature. Better to level up and get what you want from women than to stay bitter and mad. Learn to play the game, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:33 PM
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Sorry, it is. We’ve seen it over and over and over again. It’s why RP is even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:32 PM
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Any man who has actually gotten a woman’s panties wet knows the actual truth, sorry. Women are attracted to toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:31 PM
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They definitely are. Women will objectify themselves, put up with abuse and being cheated on to stay with a HVM they constantly crave. They can’t help it, it’s in their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:30 PM
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No because occams razor. It’s really not that deep. Women are vain and shallow and will put up with being abused, cheated on, and willingly objectify themselves for a top guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:30 PM
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They definitely are. Men hear about it every time they talk to a new woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:29 PM
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And men rightly call them out on their lies and extreme shallowness. Most men don’t want chad scraps in their 30s. Recreational use only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:28 PM
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Women aren’t nearly as complex as they think, that’s the problem. More often than not women get themselves in these situations regardless of upbringing bc it’s in their shallow short sighted nature. They want what’s exciting and fun and a guy who gives them tingles regardless if he’s actually a good partner or not. Most times it really isn’t that deep, it boils down to women are vain and shallow just as much if not more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:27 PM
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Mostly women do lie about a lot of things in dating. It’s why watch what she does not what she says is a thing and why so many women have stories about their horrible abusive exes that they chose to stay with bc he excited her and gave her tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:25 PM
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He actually made several good points. It’s just that women refuse to engage with it because they still try to hide their true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:24 PM
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Most women want grandchildren eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:21 PM
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I mean your case is especially tragic then. Most women at least will care about their own offspring. No wonder why you don’t trust women, you just saw right from the start how awful they can be. The rest of us had to slowly learn that over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:19 PM
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Next time I see it I promise i’ll PM you okay? Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:19 PM
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Women do not have to do much to be that attractive. Their efforts are laughable compared to what most men have to do to be considered “attractive” unless it’s a natural top 5% man women lust over and objectify themselves for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:12 PM
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Yep like women do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:04 PM
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They will never sympathize until their own child goes through it. Tragic irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:04 PM
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Now you’re stalking my profile? Odd. Again this is reality, and no where do I recall saying I don’t “pull”. I’m not top 10% man so yeah of course I don’t get a girl on my looksmatch but i’m not an incel either. You just inferred that. I can still see the injustice and bullshit that is imposed upon men in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:58 PM
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Fortunately this status quo isn’t self sustaining and women’s shallowness and indecisiveness will be reigned back in for the good of society within a few generations. Women can’t be trusted to have complete sexual autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:38 PM
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I do. You’re the one that has zero idea what you’re talking about. Get lost. Someone’s mad men have to work harder than women to be attractive, while women really don’t have to do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:40 PM
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Excuses weak minded idiots use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:59 PM
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Most women are just not sophisticated or smart as they think they are and will drop all the “rules” and accept abuse if it’s coming from a guy she thinks is “hot” because she finds so few men attractive. He can cheat, abuse, make her cry, she still won’t leave him. It’s pretty pathetic, men do the same thing with super attractive women that are out of their league but women pretend they aren’t also dumb and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:57 PM
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Just as much as your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:55 PM
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Most women are shallow and dumb and since they don’t find most men attractive readily ignore red flags or toxic behavior or even will put up with it to be with him. Of course if they break up they’ll lament about how terrible he was and how much of a victim she is, without acknowledging the fact that she willingly stayed with him through pretty much all of it bc “hawt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:54 PM
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Every once in a while I come across a post like this and I wish i had those super upvotes or whatever they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:44 PM
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Yes very cowardly beings by nature i’ve found.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:43 PM
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I think more so the exact same women will say different things on this sub depending on the thread and their argument just because they want to argue and refute the point being made in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:42 PM
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This is the only correct answer. Yes a lot of men are cowardly but women are much more cowardly by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:41 PM
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See my above comment. You’re detracting from the point. Women will do whatever they have to for that small percentage of high value man they truly want. This the disparity lies in the effort for average and above women, and super attractive men, everyone else has to put in monumental effort and in general don’t get as good returns on said effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:30 PM
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Nope, but she’ll do all the things for him she wouldn’t normally do. Paint her face, swallow his load, take it up the ass, doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:19 PM
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repeatedly agreeing with each other is circle jerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:01 PM
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Oh you guys just self congratulating and making the same points replying to each other repeatedly isn’t circle jerking? Mhm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:53 PM
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You guys done circle jerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:19 PM
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Yup, 9/10 times. Unless she’s chasing a HVM out of her league. Then she’ll do all the degrading and disgusting stuff he wants. She swallow his load every time for a chance to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:54 AM
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https://www.livescience.com/20294-women-choose-bad-boys.html Not ad homming when i’m pointing out a well known tactic used by the women on this sub. There were no personal attacks involved whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:51 AM
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Oh so holding you accountable to what you’ve said previously is stalking you. Shocking /s. I mean I know you make up stories but it’s actually funny recalling you saying something and having you turn around and lie about not even that long after. You in particular stand out yes because you’ve built yourself quite the reputation on this sub as a troll and the men who have encountered you prior know to not respond to your bad faith arguements and bitter drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:40 AM
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Oh okay then apparently you make up stories then. Can’t say i’m surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:20 AM
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Nope. Women result to the sour grapes argument whenever they don’t have any more points to make. My above points are well known and documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:04 AM
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Going to the gym takes much more effort and work than what women do. You completely over exaggerate the effort women spend trying to look good for dating. We have nothing else to discuss as i’m not interested in listening to your white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 AM
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Tell that to your autistic brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:43 AM
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By your own admission in previous comments. Attractive men will not want to be with a chronically online ugly woman. That’s just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:33 AM
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You are also ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:23 AM
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Women love bad men, especially if they are attractive. Women crave emotional instability and excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:08 AM
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Men put far more effort into looking good regardless. You have to do much more as a man to be considered to look good since women are excessively judge mental and picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:32 PM
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It is what it is. Grow up. Most men face a terrible dating reality and prospects. We all have to do what we have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:10 PM
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Plenty of dudes I know do. The gym takes much more effort and discipline than a “skincare routine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:35 PM
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Nah, men put in much more effort to date. Vast majority of gym goers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:30 PM
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There is an inherent disparity in the effort and results in dating. That is it. Full stop. That is why men are frustrated. Women do much less to get much better results. Anywhere there’s a vast disparity such as this people will complain about it, that’s true for plenty of things that have nothing to do with dating. Your attempt to link a normal guy who isn’t super attractive as the equivalent of a 500 pound ham beast is also noted and goes to further drive home the point that women want to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:20 PM
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It is a valid complaint because it overwhelmingly affects men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:45 PM
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It’s pointless, she always thinks she’s right, blows smoke up her ass with her self congratulatory comments and i have never seen her concede a point even when her own comments admit she’s basically wrong. She’s just here to troll, taking the most convenient position at the time to attack men. She doesn’t even disagree with the principles of the red and black pill as her own comments show time and time again, what she is enraged about how men that are blk and red pilled view women. They obviousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:34 PM
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Thankfully your views are self limiting not self sustaining. Women simply can’t be trusted with their own sexual power as they misuse it like men can’t be trusted with their own physical power and that advantage is largely nullified by the legal code of society. It’s a self correcting issue in a few generations time span fortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:30 PM
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Should try again anyway. It’s a valid topic about dating and women’s nature. Although of course since it goes against their narrative i’m not surprised if they’d delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:39 PM
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There are few things on this sub reddit that actually disgust me, this is one of them. You should make a post about this. Just drives home the point soooo much more. “Thanks for sacrificing life and limb for our country and to keep me safe, but you’re an amputee? Ewwww no thanks.” Just shows what women are truly like no matter the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:25 PM
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I don’t know why you even take the bait man. She’s a well known troll that will just take whatever position that allows her to bash men. She routinely says she’s not a misandrist and thinks blackpill and redpill are stupid but talks about “lesser men” and who “deserves to procreate” all the time. At this point I don’t know how her posts don’t get removed. She’s a massive misandrist troll who honestly probably doesn’t have that great of life regardless of what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:09 PM
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How racist you are towards whites shows you’re either non white and hate whites or were brain washed into hating yourself because of your skin color. Pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:02 PM
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More BS from sharp engineering. Christian principles are sorry what propelled Europe to the renaissance and light years advancement of tech beyond the chinese. Same as with the arabs and islam before the mongols deserted everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:59 PM
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If you are fat you are not conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:01 PM
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Has nothing to do with how I view black people. I’m skeptical of most things people on reddit claim
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:29 PM
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I’m sure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:05 PM
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Damn you’re really calling children mediocre replications now. The anti natalie’s are strong on this sub reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:04 PM
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Doesn’t matter, still affirms what red pill say about what women prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:48 PM
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Alright, you’ve piqued my interest. How do you expect to solve the growing issue between men and women then? You’re can’t possibly believe it’s all by some design of some “corporatist overlords”. That of course takes away any responsibility of the people who are in the current dating system creating the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:55 PM
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Why are most of the women middle to late 30 something’s and act like they are the arbiters of dating and understand dating for younger men? Just more women trying to inject themselves into problems that aren’t relevant to them only because they dislike Red pill and the truths it shares about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:35 PM
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Yes hoeflation has caused issues with society at large and we can only hope it blows up in their faces. That would indeed be justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:29 PM
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Why have empathy for options very many men didn’t even get? No thanks. Fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:25 PM
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They will virtue signal for their own sake. Women are very cowardly by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:10 PM
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Our society is weak minded and without purpose. At some point it will be replaced with something worth existing by virtue of its strength and purpose. This moral decay rot that seeps into every facet, whether economic, cultural or otherwise is a slow infection that will kill its host. You can posit all you want, but the same elites you complain about are ultra feminists and are a part of the narrative that will drive a reactionary response from men being disenfranchised in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:02 PM
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Some day the survival of the fittest will actually come back, won’t be so funny then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 PM
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I know history much better than you, and your weak materialistic feeble minded opinions and your pride in your weak insignia may country is grossly misplaced and of that of an insolent child
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:57 PM
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Not at all. This vain act of base instinct hedonism and longing for the approval of others is cowardly and pathetic. Only societies worthy existing rise to something greater. A society that encourages the moral decay and useless individualism people like you love rightfully will cave in slowly but surely. The weak will implode on themselves far more often than an outside predator catching it by the throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:43 PM
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I am not. I am saying how your own dating history affirms the red pill points you hate so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:31 PM
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If we perish in a war then we simply were not strong enough and do not deserve to exist. The coward of the people in the west never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:25 PM
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They have purpose which gives them strength. Purpose much stronger than our own individualistic society. That is why we failed to destroy them and we will always fail to destroy to destroy these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:21 PM
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The weakness and cowardice of wearing a mask is self evident enough that the creation of these alter egos that we put on for our own vanity and for others is proof enough that our society is weak. I don’t know how close modern society is to a collapse, but it will be gradual, and I look forward to the crushing of the hedonistic individualistic decay of the west. May our society forge into something actually worth existing by virtue of its purpose and strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:19 PM
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More denial of systemic issues because the ones who benefit from them or unbothered by them don’t think they exist. This entire post literally can be boiled down to, people who benefit from or are not affected by issues are more likely to think they do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:04 PM
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No one cares about your irrelevant poor pseudo eurotrash country (you’re not european). I sense you’re supremely jealous that america is relevant and your country will never be. Yikes, looks like you would be the real loser. Your country can’t even take back land that Russia illegally occupies, cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:58 PM
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Now there are lots of problems with women having complete autonomy and destroying the dating and reproduction market. Works both ways. Women have never had access to their full sexual power, because when they do societies start to decay and demographic collapse ensues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:27 PM
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Oh yeah all of that extra money men are earning for their families they’re hoarding for themselves and not using it for their family at all! They’re working more hours for their family, because it benefits their family. Same as women doing unpaid domestic labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:57 PM
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Your claim was that more men were very much more overweight and more likely to be overweight when the first is not trust at all and the second is basically the same rates. So really not true either. I’ve never been overweight so fatness has never held me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:42 PM
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Literally 90% of places in the west lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:36 PM
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Complete fem-drivel as usual. The birth rates and marriage rates are falling because women don’t want responsibility. So basically you just admitted your previous point is null because women aren’t doing these things anymore. Also men work a significant amount more hours than women that makes of for the disparity of child rearing as well. Women are increasingly voting for large government as they are the primary beneficiaries of wealth transfer and gynocentric policies designed to benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:46 PM
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I’m not interested in your dating history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:43 PM
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This one is from the CDC and states there is no statistical difference and women are more likely to get morbidly obese. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db360.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:39 PM
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https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity#:~:text=The%20percentage%20of%20men%20who,have%20severe%20obesity%20(6.9%25). Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:16 PM
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We literally live in a gynocracy. I don’t expect you’d admit that as you benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:14 PM
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Okay yeah nursing is really not that underpaid. Also more women aren’t having kids and are remaining single while having situationships so the domestic labor and child rearing rates are falling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:13 PM
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Or the point they’re trying to make lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:12 PM
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Yes while i’m sorry to hear about your divorce it doesn’t change the fact that you automatically assign good traits to men who fit your ideal vision of a man you’d want to date. Halo effect. And then woman complain about when these men don’t turn out the best and extrapolate it to all men, apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:12 PM
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It’s so out of touch that it almost seems like trolling if i didn’t know better…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:33 AM
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Yup, this is the point. Women don’t need or want to understand men to find partners/relationships or start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:32 AM
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Yes ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:31 AM
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Ah if only your reductionist misandry was true, but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:25 AM
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This is exactly the problem most men have on this sub at least with what women say. On one thread they’re saying how scary sex is, and on the next thread they’re talking about how it’s natural for women to want fun with random hot strangers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:23 AM
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Exactly right, which is why women are so eager to protect the privilege they have in society, god forbid feminism actually be about equality and not female supremacy. Nah, women are some of the most privileged classes in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:21 AM
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I fell for zero propaganda. I can observe the reality of the situation that women drain welfare at a rapid rate, choosing to enter fields that they know pay less all while still getting the benefit of DEI programs in the public and private sector. The government regularly transfers wealth from men to women, this is why women love big government. When did I say I was anti materialist? Wtf does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:47 AM
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Oh no, you get the wrong idea. I don’t think i deserve to be anymore happy than any random woman on the street. I’m content with waiting until enough people become unhappy with this joke of a society as well. You said it yourself, why do you think boys are flocking to garbage like andrew tate? Because the answer is even more hopeless than going down the red pill, or any pill path.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:03 AM
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First, I do not believe in the “patriarchy” anymore and DEI programs still exist with almost every major white collar employers but sure. I didn’t realize the other side of the grievances that women had with me too. Now I do, and now I realize relationships, love, all of that is slowly going away. More and more disgruntled people that can barely afford to scrap by. I don’t have a care in the world anymore. This is what happens when humans are allowed too much free rein over themselves, tragedy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:00 AM
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Women literally are the biggest recipients of wealth transfers and welfare programs. The state overwhelmingly benefits women. Nothing the state does to encourage the birth rate will fix the problems with modern technology and women overwhelmingly causing the issues with modern dating. Women primarily have the power when it comes to dating and hold an unfair advantage when it comes to sex and creating families, and since women aren’t interested in rectifying this inequality in a edition to the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:42 PM
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I do think everyone should exercise don’t get me wrong. But plenty of men bust their asses in the gym and get mediocre results compared to the vast majority of women who hardly take care of themselves. It’s not a fair world, we just have to carve out what we want with the hand we’re dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:34 PM
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And I guarantee that somehow this midnight black black pill take won’t be moderated bc it’s attacking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:46 PM
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Same as with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah so they can end up with an overweight woman LMAO. Women are just as overweight if not more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:43 PM
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Hmm, it’s disappointing seeing you saying these things. Maybe I had the wrong idea about you. It seems all of your concern about boy and men’s problems truly were just faux concerns from a moralistic standpoint and treating them as dysfunctional women. That’s unfortunate, though not unexpected. You have become part of the problem holding men, and even your own son back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:41 PM
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Good for you, but as most of your comments are from the stand point of an attractive woman who both couldn’t possibly understand the majority of men and condemns RP and blkpill talking points while affirming them, i’m not interested in debating you as you adopt whatever position that is convenient for you at that moment. You say you don’t go out with misogynistic dorks but simultaneously lament about your divorce, interesting. I suggest you move on and find other targets for your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:32 PM
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Um, that is not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:15 PM
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Mhm, sure whatever you say. You implying any man that disagrees with you hates women when you yourself just confirmed what RP and Blackpill says lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:11 PM
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Are you like tracking my comments now? What I said is in fact true. People are simply putting off having kids until later in life. But yes there is yes fertility in general and it’s contributing to what is probably a collapse demographically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:10 PM
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Still doesn’t change the fact that women on reddit tend to be more radical progressive/less likely to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:47 PM
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Is this not a debate sub? My bad must be in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:42 PM
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Women who don’t want children are over represented on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:23 PM
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Another ad hom, reported. The facts that you continually try to move the goal posts on? Sure lady, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:56 PM
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Instead of re hashing the same things we’ve already told you so many times because clearly you’re not going to listen, i’ll just say have a good Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:51 PM
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Nah, every comment i come across of yours on a thread that’s reportable i’ll report you for as i’m sick of you doing the same. Two can play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:39 PM
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I will not answer your question as you won’t answer mine. They do in fact have a very pertinent place in the discussion, you fail to see the relation which is a you problem. You’re the one constantly going back and forth on what constitutes a successful man when it comes to reproduction but refuse to follow through with your own logic to what’s relevant, present day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:38 PM
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Reported for content less rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:35 PM
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So men should be more aggressive regardless of how it impacts others, that is the takeaway. As long as you’re going to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:33 PM
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Modern medicine has made child birth much easier and far less dangerous. Women make the choice to get pregnant and keep it, not men, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:32 PM
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You’re the one spouting off about religion or some shit that no one talked about in the first place. Since we live in a society, there are moral values placed upon thing like reproduction and sex and it doesn’t have to have anything to do with religion. So since men in the past were successful by raping women should they do that now, in 2024? Yes or no. If no, then I want a detailed explanation of why not without using a moral reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:29 PM
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He was not hysterical whatsoever. He calmly explained how the points you were making were completely irrelevant around 50% of your replies to him. I literally went through them and saw it myself. Numerous people have also called you out on this very post. You’re getting quite the reputation as a dishonest debater on here. Also you were in full agreement with him on that point. So yes, if men want to be successful they should maximize it however they can even if it means harming others, happy? So…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:23 PM
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Except the foundations of society being individuals forming families and reproducing to keep said society going. Women hold most of the power in this area. That’s un-equal and therefore needs to be rectified. Of course that’s completely un realistic and there’s no real way to solve that, but so is your complaints unless the government forces wealth transfer from men to women which is why women love government so much. It is equivalent as much as it affects society and well being, you can’t get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:17 PM
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Reported for personal attack. Just doing what you do. So his claim that there are no moral attachments to reproduction which was agreeing with you was simply saying that by that logic there is nothing morally wrong with the sexual strategies of rape and oppression if it means men will be sexually successful. He was in agreement with you on that which you clearly did not understand. Except we live in a civilized society and there are rules in place and social norms for a reason. You bringing reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:11 PM
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You got absolutely cooked 😂 you have nothing to say and you know it because you can’t debate. That’s honestly what’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:59 PM
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You’re obviously the one who has no idea what they’re talking about. He explained so many times to you his exact point and you just continue to change the goal posts or change the topic because that’s what you do. You do not debate in good faith and if the mods weren’t biased honestly you would’ve been banned by now for trolling and your ad homs that you constantly get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:57 PM
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Yes my entire comment was just making fun of her comment because of how ridiculous it is she actually believes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:54 PM
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Oh okay i see, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:53 PM
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Women are definitely holding out for the guy they think they deserve rather than finding someone to settle with like most people have accepted is the reality of dating. These are the same women who will complain about how terrible the economy is and how everything is too expensive lol. When you choose to chase after a small number of men and never be realistic and find a reasonable partner, you’re not going to be able to save as near as much money and you’ll be somewhat more poor. Marriage has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:53 PM
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Oh shocker, men who have literally never struggled with women never had to have that realization that women can be hypocritical and very shallow. The only red pill men that look very good or are extremely athletic etc are the ones that know what the other side is like and had have a long and hard glow up and are aware of the difference in how they are treated now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:49 PM
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Yes everyone will just have to scrape by on one income because women would rather be chasing a small amount of men than partner with a guy who doesn’t meet with her 5 page checklist and is a minimum 8/10. I guess there’s solace in knowing that they’re being pumped and dumped AND not able to save any money 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:36 AM
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Yeah just childish and pathetic behavior from someone who calls Red pill and manosphere men immature boys that need to grow up. So many of the women on here are so fucking toxic. Will literally make any arguement about why RP or blackpill is stupid and hateful and isn’t right blah blah but will affirm RP and black pill talking points ALL the time. Go look at my comment to Tsquared like 10 minutes ago. Case in point honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:33 AM
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Yeah I wonder where red pill guys get their ideas from. You guys literally whine about RP and then affirm it. It’s ridiculous and you just hate admitting most women are extremely shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:29 AM
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Women controlling and influencing politics and the economy with their sex appeal and via the libido gap is bad for men’s equity and ability to have a family. If you don’t want to fix both men shouldn’t care about your problems either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:21 AM
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This is just pathetic. She’s a pretty bad debater for someone who is chronically on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:14 AM
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Honestly, she says absolutely asinine off the wall shit. Will literally say Redpill and blackpill are dumb and are holding men back yadda yadda and the vast majority of men can and will find a partner, women aren’t shallow and to not assign moral aspects to sexuality etc etc. which I agree with to an extent, and then turn around on another thread (like this one) and claim that a bunch of men being left unable to find partners is actually natural selection and it’s only natural they get left behi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:11 AM
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The second is a completely valid point if you believe the first point. It’s quite literally just women avoiding any responsibility for their actions while cutting out as much men’s own autonomy when it comes to financial responsibility and reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:59 AM
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Damn this comment hits hard and really spells out a lot of the problem. When you can see how well others are living it’s not something you can unsee. Human brains haven’t had nearly enough time to adapt to technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:16 PM
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No, not really. Most women don’t view most men as options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:25 AM
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So not a real option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:31 AM
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Most men are not options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:08 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately a lot of men aren’t viewed as options hence the singleness gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:01 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:01 AM
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Lie again. You’re pathetic. Piss off. I don’t hate women but you certainly hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:01 AM
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Will you leave me alone? Jesus you really are weird. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:59 PM
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Nope. Try again. I actively advise men here to stay away from the black pill. You’d know that if you actually read my comment history like you said you did. Everything you comment is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:58 PM
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Nor do I you. You’re a pathetic spiteful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:56 PM
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Thank you very much. I am very much a proponent of a a shared domestic responsibility household. I also am in very good shape and have visible muscle, especially when wearing athletic shirts. I’m not short, i’m 5’11” but my face is average so i just don’t stand out on apps obviously. I wish you the best as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:53 PM
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Months? Just started posting recently so now I know you’re not actually even looking. Just looking for another punching bag for your misandrist rhetoric. Sad but expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:51 PM
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Look at my exchange JUST now with Comfortable Wish. Bites into your narrative huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:44 PM
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So striking up a conversation and maybe buying someone a drink is pointless, got it. The women on this sub refuse to see the privilege they have as passive daters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:38 PM
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“45% had never approached a woman in person,” according to the study” So legitimate studies with statistical modeling and references to peer reviewed studies and data isn’t a study? Whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:36 PM
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Why are you bringing such an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:33 PM
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https://www.mystateline.com/news/national/almost-half-of-young-men-have-never-approached-a-woman-romantically-study/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:27 PM
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The study that shows 45% of men have never approached a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:26 PM
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Oh so now approaching someone and making conversations is begging for a date. More misandrist drivel from Sharp Engineering. As sure as the sun will rise tomorrow morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:20 PM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about? What vile “vomit” am i spewing about women? I’ve had several pleasant exchanges with women on this sub. I clearly can’t with you because you’re absolutely fucking unhinged and your paranoia won’t let you sympathize with any man other than a guy who agrees “man=bad woman=good” honestly gfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:19 PM
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See here you go. One comment asking you to stop shitting on men and portraying men as predators and you’re equating it to me asking every woman to stop what they’re doing and give moral support. Me? You have not the first clue about me. The women in my life are very important to me. I support women and don’t shit on women unless they become hostile or give actual bad advice to the impressionable young men on this sub. Here I thought I could actually get you to see something other than your own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:17 PM
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Yeah not all men are extremely handsome. We get it you only entertain cold approach’s from the most attractive men. You guys are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:12 PM
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That’s a very heart warming story. I hope to have kids like that of my own if I find a good woman that I can actually fall in love with one day. I imagine i’d be no less attentive to the issues my daughter(s) should I have one would face, it’s just all of the data points to, and being a man myself so I know and have struggled with black pill content and thinking I was worthless in the past because I didn’t make enough money, only got my masters degree and not my PhD, not tall enough, not attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:07 PM
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Look, are there some shitbags and weirdos? Yes. Probably on that sub. But this overwhelming misandrist rhetoric is turning impressionable young men on this sub into misogynists, is that what you want? Honestly you lament about crabs in a bucket so much and about how RP grifters and black pill content creators are holding men back and making them resentful, yeah how about the shit that is said about men on this sub? You think that doesn’t? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:01 PM
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More delusional paranoia. Vast majority of men politely hit on a girl and go their way if she’s not interested. Bet you still wouldn’t want to trade places with men having to approach and not being able to be passive. You guys are honestly ridiculous and the misandry just oozes out of your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:49 PM
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Who said they do? This study really just highlights even more the very privileged position most women have in dating. Any men expecting understanding from most women on this sub are dumb as fuck. Most of them never will be able to nor do they care, at least until a loved one or a son has issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:47 PM
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Not grumpy at all. Calling out a weird butthurt misandrist on reddit gives me a nice quick dopamine hit, so i’m content right now actually 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:45 PM
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I agree with everything you said and i’m really glad there’s a woman on here that’s interested in fixing the mourning number of issues boys and young men have. It’s sad many women aren’t interested in this until they have sons of their own and all of the sudden they can tangibly see serious issues exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:45 PM
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oh not at all. You seem like the one that has a chip on your shoulder against men and have to come on PPD to try to dunk on men bc you’re so butthurt for whatever reason, it’s pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:42 PM
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Everyone here can see for themselves that you are indeed a sad delusional weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:37 PM
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Oh you mean my reddit auto-generated username? Sick burn freak!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:35 PM
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Forgot the delusional misandrist part
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:34 PM
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It’s funny because look at some of the women on here. Literally saying to not approach someone you don’t know under any circumstances and their delusional paranoia is only matched by some of the incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:33 PM
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oh i know there’s some absolutely delusionally paranoid dudes that women are out to get them or something on this sub. It’s just it’s funny that that label is never applied to the weird women on here like her and windmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:31 PM
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I’m really sorry you went through that. My concern is that more men are going to start lashing out towards women. It’ll only be a very very small minority but even a handful of mass shootings/stabbing is very scary. I really hope more men can have healthy role models of healthy masculinity to look up to. Men are falling behind in every aspect and are left behind in our society. It’s only a matter of time before some tragic happens unless we start paying more attention to boys and young men’s men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:26 PM
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A lot of misandrists on this thread today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:21 PM
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Idk. I’ve seen her posts but I think the sheer paranoia coming out of this one is weird and deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:21 PM
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You’re sooooo coooool. Super Keyboard feminist misandrist strikes again 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:20 PM
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Thank you, thank you uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:19 PM
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She is absolutely unhinged. Starting to get concerned for her mental well being. Her takes and opinions on men get more paranoid by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:18 PM
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I can tell, you do it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 PM
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Jesus. You are absolutely unhinged. Do you actually read what you type before you post it? You sound more paranoid than the incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 PM
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Pure coincidence, I assure you my good man…. Jk but seriously pick your battles. She’s not one that you want to try to get any point across to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:14 PM
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Wow now I feel bad. You’re actually genuinely trying to be helpful to men on here. Sorry, I just assume most of the things said from women on here are snark because usually it is. I’m not sitting at home trust me lol. I struggle to date sure but not as much as probably most of the guys on here do. I have some options and have had girlfriends/hookups on and off. Glad your kids are doing well for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:13 PM
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The women on this sub are half the reason the men are so hostile to them. Ironic considering they cite that as the reason they have zero sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:11 PM
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Might be your autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:08 PM
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She is absolute batshit. I’m sorry. This will probably get removed but unless you’re willing to go along with her trollish bait comments there’s zero reason to even engage with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah yeah we get it all the men on this sub suck, are autistic and aren’t funny. Don’t you get tired of the same old act? Is this really all you come on reddit to do with your time? Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:07 PM
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Yeah yeah we get it blah blah cold approach never works. Good thing you aren’t a guy and men shouldn’t listen to women giving advice about how to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:05 PM
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That’s literally the definition of a cold approach. Women on the sub aren’t the brightest clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:04 PM
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That’s still a cold approach lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:04 PM
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“my kids don’t struggle with dating so most men just are doing something wrong” -apparently single mom on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:04 PM
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And you really don’t understand the other side of the equation because you’re not in the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:14 AM
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Well one, that’s not the correct use of the term then even. I believe you’d be looking for the term misogynistic. Like most women here, you have zero understanding on dating from the male perspective, so before you go on talking about how you know all these men apparently hate you and all women, you might want to try delegating grievances about how unfavorable the dating market is for most men, from “omg he hates women, incelllll reeee”. And honestly, only an immature half wit downvotes a reply …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:00 PM
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I’m not saying a woman should date a guy like that. Most incels don’t hate women. They’re bitter sure, but justifying your own hatred of men that struggle with dating because they only see you as “a set of holes” is extremely disingenuous and just world nonsense as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:15 AM
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I see, so all you’re going to do is re hash the old stereotypes you constantly push for why you think men fail at dating. All you’ve made clear is that you despise men and that you have an inability to acknowledge the reality that women are in fact part of a cause of why the dating market is unfavorable to men. Oh yeah, as much as you want to revel in your “rated women like cattle thing”, if that’s the case wouldn’t that mean i’m also rating men like cattle and therefore it has nothing to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:06 PM
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Very small small amount compared to the men women are actually with. Left that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:38 PM
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Yes looks being the biggest factor women look for as well and the fact they have options is the reason why red pill and black pill exist in the first place. Yeah there’s some self improvement you can do for sure, but a lot of men are going to have a hard time dating if their faces are not what women find genetically attractive, and women have gotten quite selective about it. You can “blah blah” all you want. You’re saying the same thing as me and still justifying black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:36 PM
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No, TERPers aren’t their “enemy”. Yes some of the advice is harmful, but there is no “enemy”. What brought them there is unfavorable dating dynamics that has left more and more men out of dating. There’s always a cause for an effect, something a lot of you seem to leave out. Like I said, you wouldn’t know anything about it at all. Women do primarily focus on looks just as men do. Which is why the phenomenon of women consistently shooting out of their league is an issue (at least when they’re you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:31 PM
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I have not been wishy wasn’t about it at all. I’ve said that multiple times. Yes women are usually black pilled in the sense that what they do through their actions, not the black pill mindset. Men turn to the red pill and blackpill for a reason, it’s because of women, not in spite of them. Women lusting and simping after the most attractive men was where we were at to begin with. There is always a sliding scale to how attractive someone is or not, whether you want to acknowledge that or not. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:08 AM
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Black pill is a mindset in reaction the women’s extreme pickiness and preference for only the most attractive men. The talking points of it are similar to your own. That’s all I was pointing out. Attraction can be boiled down to mostly looks. The halo effect has a significant affect on perceived compatibility. Yes many men wish that looks were interchangeable with compatibility precisely because women put such a large emphasis on very attractive men and this leaves a lot of men out. Again, I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:04 AM
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I said women are just as shallow as men. Just that women have more options and are convinced they can land a man significantly more attractive than they are, and end up in the camp of women complaining that all men want is sex, when in reality they just aren’t good looking enough or at least make up for that in other ways to commit to. Men find a much wider range of women attractive and more men find more women at least suitable to date, which means men are more flexible on looks than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:52 AM
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Shallowness is based on how much of an emphasis you place on looks and what qualifies as attractive. Women being extremely picky about looks would suggest shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:48 AM
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It is shallow the way women extrapolate this to a very small subset of the most attractive men. Women are shallow in the sense they only want the most attractive men, the 80/20 if you will. That is shallow, not that i’m saying it’s morally wrong, men are shallow too, just in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:44 AM
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Didn’t say that. Women and men are equally shallow. Women go for only the most attractive men at first and end up getting casual/situationships when they want relationships and then complain. Usually they come to their senses and realize that if they aren’t actually as attractive as these men then they aren’t going to get a relationship with them and go for someone in their own attractiveness threshold. If she only wants men more attractive then her then she’ll end up alone/in perpetual situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:42 AM
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Abuse as in if a woman is literally being rude or mean just because he dared approach her and he wasn’t extremely attractive. We’re not talking about men who are rude when they approach or overly sexual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:40 AM
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I’m not obsessed with a narrative. I’m only interested in what is or is not the fact. Thankfully most women set more realistic standards once they realize they do want to find a partner and settle down. Men can become more attractive through looksmaxxing and most average men are at least somewhat attractive, they just are overlooked for the most attractive men at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:38 AM
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I didn’t say it didn’t. But the many, many women and narratives in general claim women do value other traits in a guy more than just looks. At one point they did in the not too distant past, and no i’m not talking about when women literally depended on men to live comfortably. I think most people have become more shallow and vain in general. I’m not too close to this. I used to be blackpill, I know how harmful and how terrible it can make your life. The difference is I can also see why this conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:29 AM
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Okay so you’re saying just because you confirm what their view is it isn’t true? You’re one data point in a larger trend that is observable with other large data sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:23 AM
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Yeah that’s not what i’ve seen at all. I don’t know why someone on here is calling you a whore for admitting you are shallow, most people are. Calling someone a whore for admitting they care mostly about looks is not a blue pill, red pill, or even black pill take. That’s just a rude and unreasonable person who wants someone to aim their vitriol at. I did not attempt any “gotcha”, I quite literally was making a comment about what Ive observed you and quite a few other women here saying. You claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:20 AM
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No one claimed that. Men get the short end of the stick on dating and have to work much harder, that’s what the point is. Something most women would know nothing about. Women don’t have to “work up” confidence or hit on various men and get rejected the majority of times to find a partner in most cases. Most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:14 AM
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Yes the implication is that women go for a minority of men and want the hottest men. You are just one data point of that, but it’s a wider trend a lot of men observe. There is no fault in extrapolating what you said to a broader narrative that you just confirmed yourself on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah completely off base. We weren’t even talking about the red pill, but even if you want to throw the red pill in, i see very very few red pill people claim they’re at “war with women”. More so that women will adopt a narrative that suits them for the specific argument they’re making. Again, it’s ironic to me that the men you lambast here for adopting black pill/red pill points are saying the same thing as you just in different ways. Men complaining that dating sucks because women are just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:07 AM
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Yeah she just selectively picks which blue pill points she wants to push one day, then the black pill points she wants to push the other day. A lot of the blue pillers on here really feed into the black pill narrative. It’s confusing because they DESPISE men saying the same thing they do in other ways that make women look bad. Like every time a guy complains about something it’s “of COURSE super hot guys can get laid left and right and nothing else matters besides their looks, who told you other…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:03 AM
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See the thing is you’re confirming a lot of the black pill aspects you say you hate so much. You’re inadvertently giving credence to the 80/20 that’s spouted here. You do it and you don’t even realize it. The halo effect does ensure there’s really not much difficult in creating compatibility if a woman finds a man very attractive. You seriously dismiss and ridicule the men that believe the things they do on here, and turn around and say almost the exact same thing they’re saying, and then you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:58 AM
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Because it lends credence to the argument that women are only going to chase a minority of very attractive men and thus the complaints of many of the men here about the struggles of dating for the non super hot men are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:26 PM
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You should look into joining, you’d fit right in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah the absolute arrogance that it gives off is off putting. Like you can’t put two and two together about why men who struggle to date (which doesn’t just happen to be incels or neckbeards who don’t shower, it also includes increasing number of average or even in shape guys who just aren’t extremely attractive) don’t want to take advice from you or think your takes are completely irrelevant to them? Assuming what you say is true or course. Women like you as women in general on this sub reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:05 AM
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Oh nooooo. Not contentless at all. More so that men in this sub need to consider thinking twice before listening to a reddit keyboard stud who apparently has to take TRT to stay in shape. Yeah, self proclaimed reddit “studs” are always the some of the most boring and insufferable people on the planet honestly. Top it off with the fact that he downvotes and reports when his cringe-bragging is questioned, yeah sorry man, no one should be listening to you on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:01 AM
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We get it, you and your husband are soooo attractive and the vast majority of men aren’t good looking enough to have some woman give him signals to approach. Honestly cringe posting. Not only are you directly feeding into the exact rhetoric which women like you claim to hate and say is the reason why men can’t get laid, but it’s also cringeworthy to read a redditor trying to brag about how great and attractive they are. Usually it’s non-remarkable people who try to reddit peacock like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:52 PM
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Yes, women only actively approach, or tolerate a very small minority of men approaching. It’s almost like this is what numerous men here have been saying and complaining about, not that the complaining is productive, but it’s also really not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:47 PM
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You are 100% just spewing misandrist rhetoric. Go back to TwoX.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:23 PM
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I always find self proclaimed reddit studs hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:22 PM
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To win an argument when you know his points are logically consistent and you have no logical counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:04 PM
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She is just a misandrist peddling common hateful rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:47 PM
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Women can also be physically/emotionally abusive. Statistics show that there is not as massive of a gap between men and women committing domestic violence as feminists want to make it seem like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:45 PM
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It would make the problems considerably less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:54 AM
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Women can beautiful regardless of their skin. One of the things that broke me out of it was realizing women are actually amazing and I think most incels would admit that too once they finally break out of their shell and find a woman they really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:03 AM
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No trust me, if you look at my comments I literally made to a guy a bit ago I was telling him there are girls that will date him and having this conspiratorial mindset that women are out to keep him single is extremely harmful. He accused me of all people of being a white knight. I also tell others frequently that I was formerly black pilled and it did nothing but harm me and make me severely depressed. I’m not even a bad looking dude, but it convinced me I was worthless and was a victim of an u…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:14 PM
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I see, I agree. I’m sorry that anyone made fun of you being raped, that’s absolutely horrible, and whoever did that is actually a horrible human being. In that case feel free to troll people like that to your hearts content. I’m not of the opinion women are “only” chasing chad. I believe women are just as shallow as men are (and i’m not saying that makes them bad, since that would inherently mean men are bad too, because I said just as shallow as men) and since they have the option to be with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:57 PM
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Idk if i’ve gotten into it with you or not, but i’m far from someone who agrees with every woman on here at all. I disagree with a lot of you, but at the end of the day this absolutely toxic and self defeating mindset is what i’m here to try to tell men to drop, it’s sad to see there’s men so emotionally hurt or damaged that they truly believe this. I was once like that too, and I know how much you hurt yourself as a man by going into these horrible mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:50 PM
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Dude, look at my exchanges with the women here. I am the LAST person to white knight. I’m an average guy, I get how much dating can suck and how hard it can be. Some really shitty vindictive women who have personal grudges against specific men maybe will try to keep them single, that is small, small minority of women. Women are not going to be rate you just because they aren’t attracted to you man. I’m not going to give you the bullshit “treat women like people” trope, i know it’s annoying, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:48 PM
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I understand, but weaponing terms like loser and autistic are going to guarantee there are no good faith debates. Women, even like yourself, come on here to shit on guys because they get a kick out of it, not because they want to give advice. No one said this was therapy, and no one asked you to be their therapist, just to not be a shitty person because you’re protected by anonymity. Literally the same exact behavior as the incels most of you to claim to hate so much. A lot of men are debating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:37 PM
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I think he is inferring that the automatic assumption is that if you struggle with dating at all you’re clearly autistic, misogynistic, or a loser, or some combination of those, which women do like to weaponize on here when they get irritated or decide to troll. The truth is no one has any idea why some random on the internet struggles with dating, a lot of the women here aren’t giving advice in good faith, they’re passive aggressively suggesting these men are losers bc every guy they personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:26 PM
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You sound absolutely unhinged. These women don’t care about you if they aren’t attracted to you. They could care less about if you’re single or not. Women aren’t out to get you. Yes women have gotten pickier, and yes it sucks and is unfair for men, but this mindset is unhealthy for you where you think women are conspiring to get you. Trust me, there are women that will date you, and women that won’t, that’s all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:23 PM
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Yes see this is a take I am completely on board with and something many men that struggle do miss. They jump straight to women suck. I do think certain points of women going after a smaller number of men is true, but it’s far from universal and most women stop doing it because they want relationships and not casual sex with men that aren’t going to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:18 PM
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Incorrect. Maybe some bitter men or legit incels who are mad at the world are, but women picking men (hot or not) has zero to do with me or vast majority of men. I’m ONE guy, i only need ONE girl. I couldn’t care less personally who other women pick. In the context of a debate yes we see a lot of women picking for attributes that don’t necessarily make for a good relationship (if that’s what they’re looking for), and then they complain that a guy that is out of her league and has numerous option…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:16 PM
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Uhhh, okay? Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:03 PM
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Uh, no there is evidence women, at least younger women chase a minority of men OTHER women all want as well. Plus ask most guys who have gone to college or knows women and he can confirm this. Also I don’t be rate women for staying single. I think it’s sad that they’ve given up on finding a solid relationship with a looksmatch, just like I find it sad that plenty of men are unable to date at all, but that’s their choice, i’m not going to disparage them for it. Just because you’ve seen men on her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:01 PM
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Um, well i hate to break it to you, but if your looks standards are out of your own league, then you’re most likely going to be used for casual sex. Men are telling the women trying to chase a small number of very attractive men that they should probably lower their standards if they don’t want to get pumped and dumped, not because they’re trying to force them to date men they “aren’t attracted to”. You have three options like most men do. Have reasonable expectations and date within your league…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:53 PM
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Yeah well i’m sure where a lot of the men get pissed and the reason they get so hostile is that they’re literally being conflated with incels or extremely autistic men when the truth is dating in general has gotten harder for the average man. That doesn’t mean they have zero social skills, are autistic, or are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:49 PM
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“Pop pop” “Gen z” Inability to read confirmed. Also the fact that you’re a troll is available to everyone else to see as well. I mean shit you say it on your profile even.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:05 PM
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Yes i’m calling out your pathetic actions and why it makes you pathetic. That does not make me emotional in the slightest. At the end of the day the people who go around trolling like yourself always have the least maturity and low control of their emotions? Your gen z like me right? Time to grow up, can’t be a kid forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:04 PM
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Well since this is a dating subreddit and other topics largely aren’t allowed, you’re going to see a lot of takes regarding dating. Anyway, issues are relative. Climate change and a war half across the world does not affect most people’s day to day life. Being unsuccessful with dating can. Although I agree more men to focus on other things and the things they can control like building themselves up and becoming the best version of themselves they can be because it feels good, not because “women”…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:02 PM
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Nope, as much as you’d be satisfied with that, I more so think you’re pathetic lol. I don’t get emotional about reddit like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:57 PM
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I find it amusing how a lot of the women on this sub claim that because they know 3 guys personally they don’t struggle that means every average guy obviously doesn’t struggle and if you do you’re not average or you’re some misogynist. More like you have no idea of what it’s like to date as a man. So usually they just resort to trolling and bad faith arguments. You see it from a lot of the women here unfortunately, which is pretty sad that they want to go around saying horrible shit to men becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:40 PM
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Chronically on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:35 PM
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Yes this the root of men’s troubles, complaints, and the manosphere. Women shooting out of their league and chasing a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:54 AM
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Yes spamming downvotes on every reply is in fact against the rules. It shows pretty childish tendencies that you feel the need to spam downvote. I’m willing to be you yourself are not a high value it attractive woman and it makes you feel good to try to shit on people you think have it worse than you. Honestly as sad as it is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:11 AM
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Nope. Just reporting you for violating the rules. My feelings aren’t hurt in the slightest. You violate the rules of the sub, you get reported, has zero to do with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:04 AM
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Okay, im gonna go ahead and report you for violating the downvote rule. You don’t recognize me because I only recently started posted. But i’ve been looking at the threads for months. You consistently are someone i notice saying terrible shit to men that you deem unsuccessful that dare to speak about their struggling to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:00 AM
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Oh i’m sure you think it’s unprovoked. You know people can see the shit you say in other threads right? It’s not really unhinged to question when people infer that they are kind and generous when they say pretty awful things to others because they happen to be men and they’re protected by the anonymity of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:56 AM
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Are you actually implying you are kind and generous? I’ve seen you say more unhinged shit to the men on this sub than the average twox thread which says quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:48 AM
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You know, I really like this response, and I think it’s a surprisingly empathetic take to a lot of the men that are punched down in this sub because they have problems seith dating. Are some of them incels? I’m sure. Are a lot of them just average guys who don’t have the opportunities to go out as much or have smaller social circles? More likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:46 AM
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Women are as picky, if not more so in looks than men are. I appreciate your acknowledgement in this. This is why dating has gotten significantly more difficult for the younger generations of men in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 AM
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Didn’t back pedal at all. Overweight women are not attractive to me. I said overweight people are in general less attractive than they would be if they were slimmer. Point out specifically where I said it was impossible for you to be attractive to anyone ever if you are overweight. Because I have preferences means i’m personally attacking you? Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:30 AM
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I have said you are overweight, by your own admission, you are. I simply said that is not AS attractive as non overweight people, not that you can’t possibly be attractive. I said it’s not attractive to ME. ONE single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:27 AM
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Didn’t say they deserve it, however they clearly are simply suffering the consequences of their choices of who to chase after for dating and sex. That’s pretty objective and non loaded language.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:26 AM
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I have made my point several times. You aren’t going to acknowledge or agree with it because you don’t like it. We have nothing further to talk about. How did I belittle you? Because I said the truth? Overweight people are generally less attractive than non overweight people, good thing you’re a woman and have more options than men and you could still find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:25 AM
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Don’t try to shift goal posts, that doesn’t matter. All that matters is that is what is happening and that creates issues in the dating market, which is what we were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:22 AM
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Oh i’m just assuming that’s the next ad hom you’re gonna stoop to because that’s all you’ve been doing from the very first reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:21 AM
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Women go after a smaller number of men than men go after women, which is why are we dating the same guy groups exist. It’s not that complicated. Some women even know this and choose to stay and try to compete for him. I’m glad you agree like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:20 AM
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Riiiight, women don’t find me attractive and I MUST be an incel that somehow has also dated and hooked up with women but STILL an incel. You’re honestly getting pathetic with the ad homs. Literally just told you plenty of women have/do find me attractive and you just want to pretend for your own satisfaction or some weird shit that women don’t find me attractive. Whatever you want to tell yourself! Don’t you have a boyfriend? Why are you chronically on reddit rather than spending time with him? …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:19 AM
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They’d both be dating around because these situationships never last, and they are STILL dating, compared to smaller numbers of men. I’m glad you agree that women chase after a small number of men!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:17 AM
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There is literally an obvious an inherent difference between men and women’s ability to find dates and date, something obvious to most men and women except you apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:16 AM
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Smaller number of men dating around, more women dating around, is logic that hard for you to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:14 AM
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Nah, it’s more like women are notorious for overrating their attractiveness and plenty end up in situationships because of a libido gap and men will sleep down. Nice projection though! I’m sure you’d love to think i’m overrating my league but I have objective evidence from photo feeler and women in general, especially ones i’ve dated/hooked up with that i’m not, so sorry to burst your bubble :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:13 AM
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It would suggest that more women are “dating around”, and end up dating or having flings with men that are objectively more attractive than themselves because women are getting more picky on things like looks. You can read the data for yourself, it’s literally pew research, doesn’t lie. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:04 AM
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Never said i was going for instagram models, that’s projection on your part. Not blaming the world either. In numerous posts i’ve made i’ve said more men need to put the world in to become the best version of men they can become, to avoid being stuck with women like you. The truth is that women have more options and have become significantly picker. I tell men that they need to avoid the doomer/blackpill mentality and focus on becoming better men and leviton fulfilling lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:03 AM
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It actually does, i’ve looked at the study. I’ve linked a study that showed the majority of younger men are single but looking, and the disparity between men and women being single is significant and doesn’t close until the age of 60. So there goes that argument of yours. It is most definitely data, here’s the part you left out, it’s data you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:59 AM
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But that is statistically significant and suggests the inverse of your own study. Of course people tend to overrate their attractiveness in general, that’s not a gender thing, women just do it more is what this study suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:54 AM
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Black pill is not centrist whatsoever. I don’t fully believe in red pill or blue pill, i believe a mix of the two, so I am “purple pill”. I think the names are dumb but it’s simply describing a position, you’re try to over complicate something that’s really not that complicated. It’s a name, a term. And dude i’m not upset or worked up at all. Redditors are so fucking weird when they say that shit like it gives them some sort of joy if they think the other person is somehow upset and foaming at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:53 AM
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I don’t care if you have a partner or not. Not at all. My data did indeed prove something you just don’t want to acknowledge it because it goes against your narrative. Your hypotheticals were aimed squarely at me. Anyone who is looking at this comment thread can see that. You just thinly veiled them as hypothetical so you can avoid getting them removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:47 AM
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Nah, you’re not a good person at all, you’ve shown that. And you also have the privilege of being a woman so dating is default easier for you, even if you are overweight. Women tend to verrate their attractiveness more on average in men, and there is data that proves women are trying to bag out of their league and are getting more and more picky. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she’s_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:45 AM
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So you’ve assumed i’m autistic, ugly and lanky, and delusional because you’re mad that i can prove what i say and you can’t. I must’ve really hit a nerve with the overweight thing. And here you STILL know NOTHING about me other than what i say! All you’ve done in your last post is ad hom into oblivion! I’ve mentioned several times i’ve hooked up and dates numerous girls, and that even still dating is difficult. The data supports me, while your tantrum does nothing but make you look like an imbec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:40 AM
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Yeah you’re just a misandrist and refuse to acknowledge reality. I’ve linked you actual evidence, yet you still have provided none but your personal opinion. Overweight people are objectively less attractive, you seem to be made about that. Slightly above average is like 6 by the way. Os the men here say women are delusional and you say men are delusional, it’s almost like your views are different based on what your gender is! And like I said there’s evidence women’s standards are becoming highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:43 AM
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A ten year old study of 161 college students means absolutely nothing. Literally as useful as anecdotal evidence. Here is a larger study that shows the opposite. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she’s_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_attractiveness_between_women_and_men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:35 AM
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Well one, i didn’t say it’s all women, i said many of women are increasing their standards based on looks and height. Two, the majority of younger men are single, while the majority of younger women are not, and women are less single than guys at a significant rate until 60. Three, you’re the one going around assuming men think they are hotter than they really are, it’s funny, men say the same thing about women which is why they have higher standards than they should, who is right? I already kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:30 AM
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Try not to engage with their snark. I debate in good faith and ignore the personal attacks. She’s overweight so i doubt she’s the model of attractiveness herself. Just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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Um, are the pills and dating dynamics not the topic of this sub? And i’m pretty calm, thanks. You literally have a red pill flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:21 PM
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Actually i’ve been told the opposite. I look much better in person than in photos. Anyway it’s interesting that men are much more single than at every age group until 60. It’s very much pronounced in the youngest age bracket (18-29). More women are securing dates/dating than men, and a significant margin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:17 PM
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What the fuck are you even talking about? You’re not even disagreeing with what I said so… My point was that women on this sub can be pretty hypocritical too, so don’t take everything strangers on the internet say to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:14 PM
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Two things can be true at once. A lot of women’s standards are quite ridiculous and unfair. They are allowed to be. A lot of men don’t like this and are upset about it. They are allowed to be. While I don’t think continuous complaining and extreme pessimism helps men and actively harms them and that energy is better put to becoming the best man they can be, there’s a reason why this stuff is becoming so popular and why it seems like a lot of men are struggling more than ever with dating. If wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:14 PM
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While i don’t agree with all of red pill, a lot of the women on here certainly do say the same redpilled stuff that they claim is the reason why guys can’t get laid, just in a different way. I’ve even seen some pretty black pill takes from some women on here, it doesn’t bother most women because most women of course have options, it’s a pill for men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:09 PM
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So agree, most men get stuck on anger and bitterness and that’s a quick slope to black pill if you aren’t careful. I do not agree that most of the dating pool isn’t worth dating. Based on what? Are you just THAT pessimistic or THAT shallow? Having a fulfilling relationship is definitely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:06 PM
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For some reason you deleted your other comment so i’ll just respond to the parent comment what i was going to reply to that comment with. Or could it just be dating for men has just gotten harder, but oh no, you’d never want to admit THAT. The truth is plenty of things point to that being the truth, but in your anecdotal experience of course you don’t care and just think it’s increasing numbers of men’s fault. Part of that IS true, more men need to stop being lazy and put in the work and work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:01 PM
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I’m sorry, i’ve seen you saying some truly horrible stuff to the men here, so it’s hard for me to believe you want men to succeed. Further more, what’s this about advice men are giving other men that causes them to get rejected hard? How about you go look at my comments and the advice IM giving men. Is it not exactly the same stuff you’re saying about saving young men from going black pill/doomer? Yeah that used to be and it was a terrible time in my life, and a lot of it was self inflicted, I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:52 PM
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You’re the guy that flip flops to every man can date to survival of the fittest and literally goes around telling men that if they can’t find a partner it’s because of some darwinist bullshit right? Yeah setting aside the fact that you just seem to like shitting on men who are already down for god knows what reason, i’m neither socially awkward or have bad game. Sure my game isn’t exceptional, but the vast majority of people’s aren’t. And no, i’m not autistic because for whatever reason everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:46 PM
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Yeah you might’ve already be fairly attractive to begin with because that’s not my experience at all lol. Could be that i’m not going out enough/to the right places though, no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:43 PM
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Well one, i didn’t say im hot, i said im average to slightly above average. Two i’ve had photos rated and they consistently 7-8. Translating to real life I think that means average to slightly above average, and numerous women have said i’m handsome or attractive, i’ve punched well above my league, and have had hookups. It’s more so that the women on here are not going to admit under any circumstance that women’s standards have become higher for looks threshold and they want to bat above their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:14 PM
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Honestly not too much different than me. Being in shape really is not the difference maker that some people seem to think it is unless we’re talking about being significantly overweight. Yes, women like my muscles, no i don’t think i’ve gotten THAT much difference of treatment from guys that are average but have less muscles but aren’t also overweight. Trust me, I have seen what special treatment is for some guys. Tall, very conventionally attractive men are just batting on a different level tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:59 PM
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I’m average facially, but very much in good shape. Can confirm, do not get special treatment lol. But that’s okay. I’m not going to sit on reddit and bitch about it, I just focus on becoming the best man I can be, and if a woman recognizes the value in that and comes along, great, if not, that’s okay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:54 PM
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Well, that wasn’t necessarily what you said. If they are complaining about fat women that are unattractives standards then I would agree with you. If you’re an in shape guy but average attractiveness, you’re probably talking about women that are closer to your demographic, not model tier women, and certainly not women who are not in shape and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:50 PM
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They want to be chad. There are men that women do break rules for. It sucks but life isn’t fair. Too many men get stuck on this phase of “why can’t that be me, why is shit so unfair” and make themselves miserable. Most likely that will never be them, but there are still women that will like and date them, especially if they put in the work to be the best man they can be for themselves, not bc of tail or women. It hurts finding out you’re not one women go for and they don’t particularly find you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:48 PM
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I really do not see why these two necessarily make a man “beyond help”. Are you implying both can’t possibly be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:45 PM
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Two things can be true at once. While I think venting once in a while about how dating has gotten relatively difficult for men over the past couple decades, I don’t see perpetually complaining about it as particularly useful. The men that are specifically hypocrites are the ones that aren’t putting in the work. I have no idea what percentage of men this is that are complaining AND not putting the work in where they can to become more attractive, but I personally know (including myself) several m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:39 PM
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I see, thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:54 PM
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Yeah why does it seem like your posts constantly frame men in the worst light possible? I don’t agree with another post that tries to say the “weird” insult is gendered, but it seems like more than a few women here use it as their go to to describe men they think shouldn’t have relationships/men who have trouble dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:38 PM
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Then what would be the main cause of divorce in your opinion? Because that seems to be an oft given reason by women here why the divorce initiation rates are so imbalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:29 PM
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A lot of it is also luck unfortunately. A lot of guys depend on dating apps to meet women and that’s just not going to be the best playing field for the vast majority of men. If you aren’t very attractive/have the pictures/have the social status dating apps are gonna be difficult. It’s something I myself struggle with as i’ve leaned on them quite heavily in the past because there’s just not a lot of third spaces/social events where I live unfortunately besides going out to bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:58 PM
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It will at least make you feel better about yourself if you are in shape and look good I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:56 PM
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I agree, that is much more difficult to find, especially as an average guy living in a small city/suburban area. Dating apps are garbage as most of us know, harder to find people through mutual interests/hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:54 PM
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It seems like there’s a very small user base on the discord when I looked. So there are many more people on the subreddit than the discord, and like I said, just because someone is struggling to date, doesn’t mean they are an incel. Plenty of men who aren’t incels or aren’t that bad looking struggle to date, that’s just how it is for a lot of men now. Will you stop downvoting? Isn’t that against sub rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:44 PM
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I agree internal aspects are what make a relationship truly fulfilling. I also agree that the black/red pill stuff in the end usually does not help. It’s self sabotage, although many men don’t have many opportunities to date in the first place, it just makes them miserable and hate life. I know, I used to be one of them and I refuse to go to that headspace again, I was just saying I can understand why it’s happening and why they go to it, although I try to tell guys on here now how bad of a plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:57 PM
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Well think about it, yes it’s good seeing happy things and seeing men and women saying how much they appreciate their SO and that gender relations aren’t always super toxic, but it has to be bittersweet also seeing people happily have what you want and can’t seem to get. I say this as a guy who myself struggle to date, but primarily because i’m trying to use dating apps as my main method of dating. I’m not an incel or anything of the sort either, i’ve had a decent number of hookups and relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:54 PM
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I disagree. I don’t go in the discord but tbh there seems like there’s quite a number of men here that struggle to get relationships. I really don’t see why married people are even coming on here to be honest. Maybe it’s the men YOU see. The blackpill stuff is toxic but some of what the men on here are saying aren’t completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:52 PM
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No i’m not. You really do not have to go out of the country dude. There’s plenty of feminine women in your country that would be with you, but since you’re an average guy (like myself) you have to compensate for it by having more to offer other than just looks. I would personally recommend trying to find groups through like Meetup.com depending on what your hobbies are. It does hinder you a bit that you don’t like to go out to bars because that’s where a lot of single people go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:50 PM
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I agree with most of what you said, I just said I can understand why more younger men are becoming disaffected with modern dating and turning to extreme black and red pill narratives considering how difficult dating has become for average dudes, not that it’s a good thing. Many attributes of what it is to be a man aren’t valued in society anymore. Having inherently more options means more chances to find relationships and love. Where I disagree with you is that most men my generation want tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:45 AM
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I genuinely don’t think the view that men are constantly going after model type women is true in the vast majority of cases in my opinion. I mean, the truth just is women are able to date/find men to date much easier, along with a small minority of men that are very desired either due to looks or social status/money. I don’t think anyone should be tricking anyone into sex obviously, but this just shows in my opinion how bad things have gotten for very many men that they even rely on that type of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:15 AM
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That is a great accomplishment man, you should be proud. Most people aren’t cut out for STEM degrees that’s for sure. Maybe you won’t have women flocking to you (I don’t either), but I guarantee you once you have yourself established there are women that would be willing to date you. Does it suck that we have to compensate with stuff like stable finances, a house, etc. to what just comes with little to no effort for some guys, yeah it fucking sucks, but life isn’t fair, and the more you focus on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:08 AM
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Yeah that’s not for you to decide himmler.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:55 AM
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Yes, I understand that when women talk about the bar being low they are talking about emotional availability, not cheating etc. and yes, i’m also aware these women are mostly talking about men they find very attractive, but i also don’t think people are just saying you suck just because you struggle with dating dude. No one here really knows what the issue is as you’re a complete stanger on the internet, and honestly man, i know this hurts to hear, but average guys just aren’t that desirable. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:47 AM
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Of course we do. I don’t want to be misled for some ulterior nefarious method like a woman wants my money or is trying to build me up to tear me down. But if a girl is genuinely interested in me and is trying to hype me up because she’s into me, I don’t see why I would not enjoy this if she’s just trying to be flirty/engage with me. Women do often do this with men they are very attracted to, but most men won’t actually get this genuine experience unfortunately. It doesn’t mean no woman will like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:42 AM
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Partly true but also not quite as simple as you’re trying to make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:34 AM
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You’re not entirely wrong, but a lot of men DO listen to what women say, and then observe them doing the opposite of what they say want men to do. It’s just what people say and do don’t match sometimes. It’s not just a woman thing, but a lot of the resentment I imagine comes from being a decent guy, and respectful, trying to be fun to be around are not really the biggest factors in dating. Men who are in the higher echelons of attractiveness or social status do whatever they want and treat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 AM
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I agree, but also it can be pretty tough to be an average to below average guy these days. I mean i’m even saying this as a guy who is at least somewhat attractive but still struggles to find a suitable partner. I used to come on this sub and fume and let what people said on here upset me, and even find the odd ACTUAL misandrist on here saying unhinged shit, and it just kept my view of women that much more negative. Like yeah dating is hard and getting harder for a lot of men, and a lot of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:22 AM
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This has to be extra depressing for most of the active user base on this sub, reading about all of these happy people in fulfilling relationships they so desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:12 AM
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I would imagine most women just want common courtesy in general, but want special treatment rather from the men they find attractive and want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:11 AM
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