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actually not 30, and you’re ad homming rating your desire for me to be a loser because it somehow makes you feel better about your own sad life. i don’t face rejection as much as you’d like me to and you keep for some weird reason inferring to me not being good enough to attract women when i’ve told you numerous times i don’t particular struggle in this area, so now you’re just going to keep going on because you made a whole story up about a guy you don’t know on the internet and what his dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:28 AM
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The optimal path for me is whatever i decide it is sweetie. I don’t struggle too much with women so i’m sure i’ll choose one to pro create with once im actually ready to settle down. Also i have a pretty good social life as well, so wrong once again. All you can do is throw ad homs bc you get all worked up when you see someone advocating for what’s best for men, pretty pathetic and sad tbh. Oh most of us know you don’t care at all. It’s pretty much expected that most of the women on here aren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:18 AM
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You can say that all you like or call me a loser all you like. That doesn’t change the optimal path forward for men. Also i’m fairly successful, but thanks for your concern. Reported for ad hom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:05 AM
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You’re a horrible person, won’t surprise me if you die alone and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:11 AM
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Projections about how stupid you are? You certainly use enough emojis to seem like an idiot. There was zero point in your comment, like at all, you’re smooth brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:29 AM
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This is why men need to vote to strip women programs, harm women however they can in a politically legitimate way by voting against things that help women and hurt men. They simply need to be taught like petulant children that they aren’t always going to get their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:10 AM
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Hopefully you die of cancer alone with no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:09 AM
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Okay foid. I know you’re mentally challenged, try to keep some help. It’s unfortunate your brain was developed with so few wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:08 AM
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Reported for personal attack. You seem to lack the capacity to actually respond without ad homs. Par for the course for a woman. You’re dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:06 AM
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change your flair white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:04 AM
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Wow showing your supreme intellect by capitalizing every other letter. Yeah most women have the mindset of spoiled petulant children so they refuse to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:48 AM
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What’s pathetic is most women. But there are a few decent ones out there. Until I find one (if i ever do) i’ll just settle for hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:53 PM
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Most women want grandchildren eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:21 PM
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I mean your case is especially tragic then. Most women at least will care about their own offspring. No wonder why you don’t trust women, you just saw right from the start how awful they can be. The rest of us had to slowly learn that over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:19 PM
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Yep like women do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:04 PM
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They will never sympathize until their own child goes through it. Tragic irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:04 PM
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Fortunately this status quo isn’t self sustaining and women’s shallowness and indecisiveness will be reigned back in for the good of society within a few generations. Women can’t be trusted to have complete sexual autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:38 PM
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Most women are shallow and dumb and since they don’t find most men attractive readily ignore red flags or toxic behavior or even will put up with it to be with him. Of course if they break up they’ll lament about how terrible he was and how much of a victim she is, without acknowledging the fact that she willingly stayed with him through pretty much all of it bc “hawt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:54 PM
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repeatedly agreeing with each other is circle jerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:01 PM
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Oh you guys just self congratulating and making the same points replying to each other repeatedly isn’t circle jerking? Mhm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:53 PM
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You guys done circle jerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:19 PM
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Yup, 9/10 times. Unless she’s chasing a HVM out of her league. Then she’ll do all the degrading and disgusting stuff he wants. She swallow his load every time for a chance to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:54 AM
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Going to the gym takes much more effort and work than what women do. You completely over exaggerate the effort women spend trying to look good for dating. We have nothing else to discuss as i’m not interested in listening to your white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 AM
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You are also ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:23 AM
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Men put far more effort into looking good regardless. You have to do much more as a man to be considered to look good since women are excessively judge mental and picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:32 PM
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Plenty of dudes I know do. The gym takes much more effort and discipline than a “skincare routine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:35 PM
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Nah, men put in much more effort to date. Vast majority of gym goers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:30 PM
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There is an inherent disparity in the effort and results in dating. That is it. Full stop. That is why men are frustrated. Women do much less to get much better results. Anywhere there’s a vast disparity such as this people will complain about it, that’s true for plenty of things that have nothing to do with dating. Your attempt to link a normal guy who isn’t super attractive as the equivalent of a 500 pound ham beast is also noted and goes to further drive home the point that women want to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:20 PM
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It is a valid complaint because it overwhelmingly affects men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:45 PM
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It’s pointless, she always thinks she’s right, blows smoke up her ass with her self congratulatory comments and i have never seen her concede a point even when her own comments admit she’s basically wrong. She’s just here to troll, taking the most convenient position at the time to attack men. She doesn’t even disagree with the principles of the red and black pill as her own comments show time and time again, what she is enraged about how men that are blk and red pilled view women. They obviousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:34 PM
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Should try again anyway. It’s a valid topic about dating and women’s nature. Although of course since it goes against their narrative i’m not surprised if they’d delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:39 PM
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There are few things on this sub reddit that actually disgust me, this is one of them. You should make a post about this. Just drives home the point soooo much more. “Thanks for sacrificing life and limb for our country and to keep me safe, but you’re an amputee? Ewwww no thanks.” Just shows what women are truly like no matter the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:25 PM
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How racist you are towards whites shows you’re either non white and hate whites or were brain washed into hating yourself because of your skin color. Pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:02 PM
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If you are fat you are not conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:01 PM
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Has nothing to do with how I view black people. I’m skeptical of most things people on reddit claim
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:29 PM
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I’m sure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:05 PM
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Why are most of the women middle to late 30 something’s and act like they are the arbiters of dating and understand dating for younger men? Just more women trying to inject themselves into problems that aren’t relevant to them only because they dislike Red pill and the truths it shares about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:35 PM
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Why have empathy for options very many men didn’t even get? No thanks. Fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:25 PM
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They will virtue signal for their own sake. Women are very cowardly by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:10 PM
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Some day the survival of the fittest will actually come back, won’t be so funny then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 PM
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I know history much better than you, and your weak materialistic feeble minded opinions and your pride in your weak insignia may country is grossly misplaced and of that of an insolent child
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:57 PM
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If we perish in a war then we simply were not strong enough and do not deserve to exist. The coward of the people in the west never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:25 PM
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They have purpose which gives them strength. Purpose much stronger than our own individualistic society. That is why we failed to destroy them and we will always fail to destroy to destroy these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:21 PM
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The weakness and cowardice of wearing a mask is self evident enough that the creation of these alter egos that we put on for our own vanity and for others is proof enough that our society is weak. I don’t know how close modern society is to a collapse, but it will be gradual, and I look forward to the crushing of the hedonistic individualistic decay of the west. May our society forge into something actually worth existing by virtue of its purpose and strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:19 PM
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More denial of systemic issues because the ones who benefit from them or unbothered by them don’t think they exist. This entire post literally can be boiled down to, people who benefit from or are not affected by issues are more likely to think they do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:04 PM
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No one cares about your irrelevant poor pseudo eurotrash country (you’re not european). I sense you’re supremely jealous that america is relevant and your country will never be. Yikes, looks like you would be the real loser. Your country can’t even take back land that Russia illegally occupies, cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:58 PM
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Or the point they’re trying to make lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:12 PM
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It’s so out of touch that it almost seems like trolling if i didn’t know better…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:33 AM
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Yup, this is the point. Women don’t need or want to understand men to find partners/relationships or start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:32 AM
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Yes ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:31 AM
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Ah if only your reductionist misandry was true, but alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:25 AM
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This is exactly the problem most men have on this sub at least with what women say. On one thread they’re saying how scary sex is, and on the next thread they’re talking about how it’s natural for women to want fun with random hot strangers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:23 AM
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First, I do not believe in the “patriarchy” anymore and DEI programs still exist with almost every major white collar employers but sure. I didn’t realize the other side of the grievances that women had with me too. Now I do, and now I realize relationships, love, all of that is slowly going away. More and more disgruntled people that can barely afford to scrap by. I don’t have a care in the world anymore. This is what happens when humans are allowed too much free rein over themselves, tragedy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:00 AM
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I do think everyone should exercise don’t get me wrong. But plenty of men bust their asses in the gym and get mediocre results compared to the vast majority of women who hardly take care of themselves. It’s not a fair world, we just have to carve out what we want with the hand we’re dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:34 PM
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And I guarantee that somehow this midnight black black pill take won’t be moderated bc it’s attacking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:46 PM
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Same as with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah so they can end up with an overweight woman LMAO. Women are just as overweight if not more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:43 PM
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Hmm, it’s disappointing seeing you saying these things. Maybe I had the wrong idea about you. It seems all of your concern about boy and men’s problems truly were just faux concerns from a moralistic standpoint and treating them as dysfunctional women. That’s unfortunate, though not unexpected. You have become part of the problem holding men, and even your own son back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:41 PM
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Um, that is not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:15 PM
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Are you like tracking my comments now? What I said is in fact true. People are simply putting off having kids until later in life. But yes there is yes fertility in general and it’s contributing to what is probably a collapse demographically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:10 PM
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Still doesn’t change the fact that women on reddit tend to be more radical progressive/less likely to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:47 PM
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Women who don’t want children are over represented on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:23 PM
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Nah, every comment i come across of yours on a thread that’s reportable i’ll report you for as i’m sick of you doing the same. Two can play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:39 PM
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Reported for content less rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:35 PM
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Modern medicine has made child birth much easier and far less dangerous. Women make the choice to get pregnant and keep it, not men, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:32 PM
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Yeah just childish and pathetic behavior from someone who calls Red pill and manosphere men immature boys that need to grow up. So many of the women on here are so fucking toxic. Will literally make any arguement about why RP or blackpill is stupid and hateful and isn’t right blah blah but will affirm RP and black pill talking points ALL the time. Go look at my comment to Tsquared like 10 minutes ago. Case in point honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:33 AM
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Honestly, she says absolutely asinine off the wall shit. Will literally say Redpill and blackpill are dumb and are holding men back yadda yadda and the vast majority of men can and will find a partner, women aren’t shallow and to not assign moral aspects to sexuality etc etc. which I agree with to an extent, and then turn around on another thread (like this one) and claim that a bunch of men being left unable to find partners is actually natural selection and it’s only natural they get left behi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:11 AM
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Most men are not options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:08 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately a lot of men aren’t viewed as options hence the singleness gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:01 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:01 AM
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So striking up a conversation and maybe buying someone a drink is pointless, got it. The women on this sub refuse to see the privilege they have as passive daters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:38 PM
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“45% had never approached a woman in person,” according to the study” So legitimate studies with statistical modeling and references to peer reviewed studies and data isn’t a study? Whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:36 PM
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https://www.mystateline.com/news/national/almost-half-of-young-men-have-never-approached-a-woman-romantically-study/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:27 PM
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The study that shows 45% of men have never approached a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:26 PM
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Oh so now approaching someone and making conversations is begging for a date. More misandrist drivel from Sharp Engineering. As sure as the sun will rise tomorrow morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:20 PM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about? What vile “vomit” am i spewing about women? I’ve had several pleasant exchanges with women on this sub. I clearly can’t with you because you’re absolutely fucking unhinged and your paranoia won’t let you sympathize with any man other than a guy who agrees “man=bad woman=good” honestly gfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:19 PM
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See here you go. One comment asking you to stop shitting on men and portraying men as predators and you’re equating it to me asking every woman to stop what they’re doing and give moral support. Me? You have not the first clue about me. The women in my life are very important to me. I support women and don’t shit on women unless they become hostile or give actual bad advice to the impressionable young men on this sub. Here I thought I could actually get you to see something other than your own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:17 PM
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Yeah not all men are extremely handsome. We get it you only entertain cold approach’s from the most attractive men. You guys are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:12 PM
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Look, are there some shitbags and weirdos? Yes. Probably on that sub. But this overwhelming misandrist rhetoric is turning impressionable young men on this sub into misogynists, is that what you want? Honestly you lament about crabs in a bucket so much and about how RP grifters and black pill content creators are holding men back and making them resentful, yeah how about the shit that is said about men on this sub? You think that doesn’t? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:01 PM
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More delusional paranoia. Vast majority of men politely hit on a girl and go their way if she’s not interested. Bet you still wouldn’t want to trade places with men having to approach and not being able to be passive. You guys are honestly ridiculous and the misandry just oozes out of your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:49 PM
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Who said they do? This study really just highlights even more the very privileged position most women have in dating. Any men expecting understanding from most women on this sub are dumb as fuck. Most of them never will be able to nor do they care, at least until a loved one or a son has issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:47 PM
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Everyone here can see for themselves that you are indeed a sad delusional weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:37 PM
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Oh you mean my reddit auto-generated username? Sick burn freak!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:35 PM
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Forgot the delusional misandrist part
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:34 PM
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It’s funny because look at some of the women on here. Literally saying to not approach someone you don’t know under any circumstances and their delusional paranoia is only matched by some of the incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:33 PM
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You’re sooooo coooool. Super Keyboard feminist misandrist strikes again 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:20 PM
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Thank you, thank you uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:19 PM
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I can tell, you do it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 PM
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Pure coincidence, I assure you my good man…. Jk but seriously pick your battles. She’s not one that you want to try to get any point across to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:14 PM
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The women on this sub are half the reason the men are so hostile to them. Ironic considering they cite that as the reason they have zero sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:11 PM
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She is absolute batshit. I’m sorry. This will probably get removed but unless you’re willing to go along with her trollish bait comments there’s zero reason to even engage with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah yeah we get it all the men on this sub suck, are autistic and aren’t funny. Don’t you get tired of the same old act? Is this really all you come on reddit to do with your time? Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:07 PM
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Yeah yeah we get it blah blah cold approach never works. Good thing you aren’t a guy and men shouldn’t listen to women giving advice about how to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:05 PM
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That’s literally the definition of a cold approach. Women on the sub aren’t the brightest clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:04 PM
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That’s still a cold approach lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:04 PM
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And you really don’t understand the other side of the equation because you’re not in the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:14 AM
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Well one, that’s not the correct use of the term then even. I believe you’d be looking for the term misogynistic. Like most women here, you have zero understanding on dating from the male perspective, so before you go on talking about how you know all these men apparently hate you and all women, you might want to try delegating grievances about how unfavorable the dating market is for most men, from “omg he hates women, incelllll reeee”. And honestly, only an immature half wit downvotes a reply …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:00 PM
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I’m not saying a woman should date a guy like that. Most incels don’t hate women. They’re bitter sure, but justifying your own hatred of men that struggle with dating because they only see you as “a set of holes” is extremely disingenuous and just world nonsense as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:15 AM
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Very small small amount compared to the men women are actually with. Left that part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:38 PM
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Abuse as in if a woman is literally being rude or mean just because he dared approach her and he wasn’t extremely attractive. We’re not talking about men who are rude when they approach or overly sexual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:40 AM
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No one claimed that. Men get the short end of the stick on dating and have to work much harder, that’s what the point is. Something most women would know nothing about. Women don’t have to “work up” confidence or hit on various men and get rejected the majority of times to find a partner in most cases. Most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:14 AM
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Yes the implication is that women go for a minority of men and want the hottest men. You are just one data point of that, but it’s a wider trend a lot of men observe. There is no fault in extrapolating what you said to a broader narrative that you just confirmed yourself on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:09 AM
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Because it lends credence to the argument that women are only going to chase a minority of very attractive men and thus the complaints of many of the men here about the struggles of dating for the non super hot men are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:26 PM
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You should look into joining, you’d fit right in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah the absolute arrogance that it gives off is off putting. Like you can’t put two and two together about why men who struggle to date (which doesn’t just happen to be incels or neckbeards who don’t shower, it also includes increasing number of average or even in shape guys who just aren’t extremely attractive) don’t want to take advice from you or think your takes are completely irrelevant to them? Assuming what you say is true or course. Women like you as women in general on this sub reddit …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:05 AM
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Oh nooooo. Not contentless at all. More so that men in this sub need to consider thinking twice before listening to a reddit keyboard stud who apparently has to take TRT to stay in shape. Yeah, self proclaimed reddit “studs” are always the some of the most boring and insufferable people on the planet honestly. Top it off with the fact that he downvotes and reports when his cringe-bragging is questioned, yeah sorry man, no one should be listening to you on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:01 AM
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We get it, you and your husband are soooo attractive and the vast majority of men aren’t good looking enough to have some woman give him signals to approach. Honestly cringe posting. Not only are you directly feeding into the exact rhetoric which women like you claim to hate and say is the reason why men can’t get laid, but it’s also cringeworthy to read a redditor trying to brag about how great and attractive they are. Usually it’s non-remarkable people who try to reddit peacock like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:52 PM
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Yes, women only actively approach, or tolerate a very small minority of men approaching. It’s almost like this is what numerous men here have been saying and complaining about, not that the complaining is productive, but it’s also really not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:47 PM
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You are 100% just spewing misandrist rhetoric. Go back to TwoX.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:23 PM
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I always find self proclaimed reddit studs hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:22 PM
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To win an argument when you know his points are logically consistent and you have no logical counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:04 PM
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It would make the problems considerably less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:54 AM
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No trust me, if you look at my comments I literally made to a guy a bit ago I was telling him there are girls that will date him and having this conspiratorial mindset that women are out to keep him single is extremely harmful. He accused me of all people of being a white knight. I also tell others frequently that I was formerly black pilled and it did nothing but harm me and make me severely depressed. I’m not even a bad looking dude, but it convinced me I was worthless and was a victim of an u…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:14 PM
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I see, I agree. I’m sorry that anyone made fun of you being raped, that’s absolutely horrible, and whoever did that is actually a horrible human being. In that case feel free to troll people like that to your hearts content. I’m not of the opinion women are “only” chasing chad. I believe women are just as shallow as men are (and i’m not saying that makes them bad, since that would inherently mean men are bad too, because I said just as shallow as men) and since they have the option to be with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:57 PM
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Idk if i’ve gotten into it with you or not, but i’m far from someone who agrees with every woman on here at all. I disagree with a lot of you, but at the end of the day this absolutely toxic and self defeating mindset is what i’m here to try to tell men to drop, it’s sad to see there’s men so emotionally hurt or damaged that they truly believe this. I was once like that too, and I know how much you hurt yourself as a man by going into these horrible mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:50 PM
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Dude, look at my exchanges with the women here. I am the LAST person to white knight. I’m an average guy, I get how much dating can suck and how hard it can be. Some really shitty vindictive women who have personal grudges against specific men maybe will try to keep them single, that is small, small minority of women. Women are not going to be rate you just because they aren’t attracted to you man. I’m not going to give you the bullshit “treat women like people” trope, i know it’s annoying, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:48 PM
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I understand, but weaponing terms like loser and autistic are going to guarantee there are no good faith debates. Women, even like yourself, come on here to shit on guys because they get a kick out of it, not because they want to give advice. No one said this was therapy, and no one asked you to be their therapist, just to not be a shitty person because you’re protected by anonymity. Literally the same exact behavior as the incels most of you to claim to hate so much. A lot of men are debating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:37 PM
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I think he is inferring that the automatic assumption is that if you struggle with dating at all you’re clearly autistic, misogynistic, or a loser, or some combination of those, which women do like to weaponize on here when they get irritated or decide to troll. The truth is no one has any idea why some random on the internet struggles with dating, a lot of the women here aren’t giving advice in good faith, they’re passive aggressively suggesting these men are losers bc every guy they personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:26 PM
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You sound absolutely unhinged. These women don’t care about you if they aren’t attracted to you. They could care less about if you’re single or not. Women aren’t out to get you. Yes women have gotten pickier, and yes it sucks and is unfair for men, but this mindset is unhealthy for you where you think women are conspiring to get you. Trust me, there are women that will date you, and women that won’t, that’s all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:23 PM
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Yes see this is a take I am completely on board with and something many men that struggle do miss. They jump straight to women suck. I do think certain points of women going after a smaller number of men is true, but it’s far from universal and most women stop doing it because they want relationships and not casual sex with men that aren’t going to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:18 PM
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Incorrect. Maybe some bitter men or legit incels who are mad at the world are, but women picking men (hot or not) has zero to do with me or vast majority of men. I’m ONE guy, i only need ONE girl. I couldn’t care less personally who other women pick. In the context of a debate yes we see a lot of women picking for attributes that don’t necessarily make for a good relationship (if that’s what they’re looking for), and then they complain that a guy that is out of her league and has numerous option…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:16 PM
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Uhhh, okay? Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:03 PM
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Uh, no there is evidence women, at least younger women chase a minority of men OTHER women all want as well. Plus ask most guys who have gone to college or knows women and he can confirm this. Also I don’t be rate women for staying single. I think it’s sad that they’ve given up on finding a solid relationship with a looksmatch, just like I find it sad that plenty of men are unable to date at all, but that’s their choice, i’m not going to disparage them for it. Just because you’ve seen men on her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:01 PM
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Um, well i hate to break it to you, but if your looks standards are out of your own league, then you’re most likely going to be used for casual sex. Men are telling the women trying to chase a small number of very attractive men that they should probably lower their standards if they don’t want to get pumped and dumped, not because they’re trying to force them to date men they “aren’t attracted to”. You have three options like most men do. Have reasonable expectations and date within your league…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:53 PM
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Yeah well i’m sure where a lot of the men get pissed and the reason they get so hostile is that they’re literally being conflated with incels or extremely autistic men when the truth is dating in general has gotten harder for the average man. That doesn’t mean they have zero social skills, are autistic, or are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:49 PM
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Well since this is a dating subreddit and other topics largely aren’t allowed, you’re going to see a lot of takes regarding dating. Anyway, issues are relative. Climate change and a war half across the world does not affect most people’s day to day life. Being unsuccessful with dating can. Although I agree more men to focus on other things and the things they can control like building themselves up and becoming the best version of themselves they can be because it feels good, not because “women”…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:02 PM
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I find it amusing how a lot of the women on this sub claim that because they know 3 guys personally they don’t struggle that means every average guy obviously doesn’t struggle and if you do you’re not average or you’re some misogynist. More like you have no idea of what it’s like to date as a man. So usually they just resort to trolling and bad faith arguments. You see it from a lot of the women here unfortunately, which is pretty sad that they want to go around saying horrible shit to men becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:40 PM
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Yes this the root of men’s troubles, complaints, and the manosphere. Women shooting out of their league and chasing a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:54 AM
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Okay, im gonna go ahead and report you for violating the downvote rule. You don’t recognize me because I only recently started posted. But i’ve been looking at the threads for months. You consistently are someone i notice saying terrible shit to men that you deem unsuccessful that dare to speak about their struggling to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:00 AM
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Oh i’m sure you think it’s unprovoked. You know people can see the shit you say in other threads right? It’s not really unhinged to question when people infer that they are kind and generous when they say pretty awful things to others because they happen to be men and they’re protected by the anonymity of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:56 AM
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Are you actually implying you are kind and generous? I’ve seen you say more unhinged shit to the men on this sub than the average twox thread which says quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:48 AM
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You know, I really like this response, and I think it’s a surprisingly empathetic take to a lot of the men that are punched down in this sub because they have problems seith dating. Are some of them incels? I’m sure. Are a lot of them just average guys who don’t have the opportunities to go out as much or have smaller social circles? More likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:46 AM
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Women are as picky, if not more so in looks than men are. I appreciate your acknowledgement in this. This is why dating has gotten significantly more difficult for the younger generations of men in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 AM
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It would suggest that more women are “dating around”, and end up dating or having flings with men that are objectively more attractive than themselves because women are getting more picky on things like looks. You can read the data for yourself, it’s literally pew research, doesn’t lie. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:04 AM
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It actually does, i’ve looked at the study. I’ve linked a study that showed the majority of younger men are single but looking, and the disparity between men and women being single is significant and doesn’t close until the age of 60. So there goes that argument of yours. It is most definitely data, here’s the part you left out, it’s data you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:59 AM
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But that is statistically significant and suggests the inverse of your own study. Of course people tend to overrate their attractiveness in general, that’s not a gender thing, women just do it more is what this study suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:54 AM
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Nah, you’re not a good person at all, you’ve shown that. And you also have the privilege of being a woman so dating is default easier for you, even if you are overweight. Women tend to verrate their attractiveness more on average in men, and there is data that proves women are trying to bag out of their league and are getting more and more picky. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she’s_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:45 AM
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So you’ve assumed i’m autistic, ugly and lanky, and delusional because you’re mad that i can prove what i say and you can’t. I must’ve really hit a nerve with the overweight thing. And here you STILL know NOTHING about me other than what i say! All you’ve done in your last post is ad hom into oblivion! I’ve mentioned several times i’ve hooked up and dates numerous girls, and that even still dating is difficult. The data supports me, while your tantrum does nothing but make you look like an imbec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:40 AM
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Yeah you’re just a misandrist and refuse to acknowledge reality. I’ve linked you actual evidence, yet you still have provided none but your personal opinion. Overweight people are objectively less attractive, you seem to be made about that. Slightly above average is like 6 by the way. Os the men here say women are delusional and you say men are delusional, it’s almost like your views are different based on what your gender is! And like I said there’s evidence women’s standards are becoming highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:43 AM
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A ten year old study of 161 college students means absolutely nothing. Literally as useful as anecdotal evidence. Here is a larger study that shows the opposite. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she’s_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_attractiveness_between_women_and_men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:35 AM
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Well one, i didn’t say it’s all women, i said many of women are increasing their standards based on looks and height. Two, the majority of younger men are single, while the majority of younger women are not, and women are less single than guys at a significant rate until 60. Three, you’re the one going around assuming men think they are hotter than they really are, it’s funny, men say the same thing about women which is why they have higher standards than they should, who is right? I already kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:30 AM
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Try not to engage with their snark. I debate in good faith and ignore the personal attacks. She’s overweight so i doubt she’s the model of attractiveness herself. Just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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Um, are the pills and dating dynamics not the topic of this sub? And i’m pretty calm, thanks. You literally have a red pill flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:21 PM
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Actually i’ve been told the opposite. I look much better in person than in photos. Anyway it’s interesting that men are much more single than at every age group until 60. It’s very much pronounced in the youngest age bracket (18-29). More women are securing dates/dating than men, and a significant margin too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:17 PM
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What the fuck are you even talking about? You’re not even disagreeing with what I said so… My point was that women on this sub can be pretty hypocritical too, so don’t take everything strangers on the internet say to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:14 PM
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Two things can be true at once. A lot of women’s standards are quite ridiculous and unfair. They are allowed to be. A lot of men don’t like this and are upset about it. They are allowed to be. While I don’t think continuous complaining and extreme pessimism helps men and actively harms them and that energy is better put to becoming the best man they can be, there’s a reason why this stuff is becoming so popular and why it seems like a lot of men are struggling more than ever with dating. If wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:14 PM
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While i don’t agree with all of red pill, a lot of the women on here certainly do say the same redpilled stuff that they claim is the reason why guys can’t get laid, just in a different way. I’ve even seen some pretty black pill takes from some women on here, it doesn’t bother most women because most women of course have options, it’s a pill for men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:09 PM
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So agree, most men get stuck on anger and bitterness and that’s a quick slope to black pill if you aren’t careful. I do not agree that most of the dating pool isn’t worth dating. Based on what? Are you just THAT pessimistic or THAT shallow? Having a fulfilling relationship is definitely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:06 PM
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For some reason you deleted your other comment so i’ll just respond to the parent comment what i was going to reply to that comment with. Or could it just be dating for men has just gotten harder, but oh no, you’d never want to admit THAT. The truth is plenty of things point to that being the truth, but in your anecdotal experience of course you don’t care and just think it’s increasing numbers of men’s fault. Part of that IS true, more men need to stop being lazy and put in the work and work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:01 PM
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You’re the guy that flip flops to every man can date to survival of the fittest and literally goes around telling men that if they can’t find a partner it’s because of some darwinist bullshit right? Yeah setting aside the fact that you just seem to like shitting on men who are already down for god knows what reason, i’m neither socially awkward or have bad game. Sure my game isn’t exceptional, but the vast majority of people’s aren’t. And no, i’m not autistic because for whatever reason everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:46 PM
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Yeah you might’ve already be fairly attractive to begin with because that’s not my experience at all lol. Could be that i’m not going out enough/to the right places though, no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:43 PM
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Well one, i didn’t say im hot, i said im average to slightly above average. Two i’ve had photos rated and they consistently 7-8. Translating to real life I think that means average to slightly above average, and numerous women have said i’m handsome or attractive, i’ve punched well above my league, and have had hookups. It’s more so that the women on here are not going to admit under any circumstance that women’s standards have become higher for looks threshold and they want to bat above their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:14 PM
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Honestly not too much different than me. Being in shape really is not the difference maker that some people seem to think it is unless we’re talking about being significantly overweight. Yes, women like my muscles, no i don’t think i’ve gotten THAT much difference of treatment from guys that are average but have less muscles but aren’t also overweight. Trust me, I have seen what special treatment is for some guys. Tall, very conventionally attractive men are just batting on a different level tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:59 PM
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I’m average facially, but very much in good shape. Can confirm, do not get special treatment lol. But that’s okay. I’m not going to sit on reddit and bitch about it, I just focus on becoming the best man I can be, and if a woman recognizes the value in that and comes along, great, if not, that’s okay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:54 PM
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Well, that wasn’t necessarily what you said. If they are complaining about fat women that are unattractives standards then I would agree with you. If you’re an in shape guy but average attractiveness, you’re probably talking about women that are closer to your demographic, not model tier women, and certainly not women who are not in shape and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:50 PM
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They want to be chad. There are men that women do break rules for. It sucks but life isn’t fair. Too many men get stuck on this phase of “why can’t that be me, why is shit so unfair” and make themselves miserable. Most likely that will never be them, but there are still women that will like and date them, especially if they put in the work to be the best man they can be for themselves, not bc of tail or women. It hurts finding out you’re not one women go for and they don’t particularly find you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:48 PM
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I really do not see why these two necessarily make a man “beyond help”. Are you implying both can’t possibly be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:45 PM
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Two things can be true at once. While I think venting once in a while about how dating has gotten relatively difficult for men over the past couple decades, I don’t see perpetually complaining about it as particularly useful. The men that are specifically hypocrites are the ones that aren’t putting in the work. I have no idea what percentage of men this is that are complaining AND not putting the work in where they can to become more attractive, but I personally know (including myself) several m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:39 PM
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Yeah why does it seem like your posts constantly frame men in the worst light possible? I don’t agree with another post that tries to say the “weird” insult is gendered, but it seems like more than a few women here use it as their go to to describe men they think shouldn’t have relationships/men who have trouble dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:38 PM
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A lot of it is also luck unfortunately. A lot of guys depend on dating apps to meet women and that’s just not going to be the best playing field for the vast majority of men. If you aren’t very attractive/have the pictures/have the social status dating apps are gonna be difficult. It’s something I myself struggle with as i’ve leaned on them quite heavily in the past because there’s just not a lot of third spaces/social events where I live unfortunately besides going out to bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:58 PM
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I agree, that is much more difficult to find, especially as an average guy living in a small city/suburban area. Dating apps are garbage as most of us know, harder to find people through mutual interests/hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:54 PM
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It seems like there’s a very small user base on the discord when I looked. So there are many more people on the subreddit than the discord, and like I said, just because someone is struggling to date, doesn’t mean they are an incel. Plenty of men who aren’t incels or aren’t that bad looking struggle to date, that’s just how it is for a lot of men now. Will you stop downvoting? Isn’t that against sub rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:44 PM
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Well think about it, yes it’s good seeing happy things and seeing men and women saying how much they appreciate their SO and that gender relations aren’t always super toxic, but it has to be bittersweet also seeing people happily have what you want and can’t seem to get. I say this as a guy who myself struggle to date, but primarily because i’m trying to use dating apps as my main method of dating. I’m not an incel or anything of the sort either, i’ve had a decent number of hookups and relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:54 PM
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I disagree. I don’t go in the discord but tbh there seems like there’s quite a number of men here that struggle to get relationships. I really don’t see why married people are even coming on here to be honest. Maybe it’s the men YOU see. The blackpill stuff is toxic but some of what the men on here are saying aren’t completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:52 PM
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I agree with most of what you said, I just said I can understand why more younger men are becoming disaffected with modern dating and turning to extreme black and red pill narratives considering how difficult dating has become for average dudes, not that it’s a good thing. Many attributes of what it is to be a man aren’t valued in society anymore. Having inherently more options means more chances to find relationships and love. Where I disagree with you is that most men my generation want tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:45 AM
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I genuinely don’t think the view that men are constantly going after model type women is true in the vast majority of cases in my opinion. I mean, the truth just is women are able to date/find men to date much easier, along with a small minority of men that are very desired either due to looks or social status/money. I don’t think anyone should be tricking anyone into sex obviously, but this just shows in my opinion how bad things have gotten for very many men that they even rely on that type of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:15 AM
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That is a great accomplishment man, you should be proud. Most people aren’t cut out for STEM degrees that’s for sure. Maybe you won’t have women flocking to you (I don’t either), but I guarantee you once you have yourself established there are women that would be willing to date you. Does it suck that we have to compensate with stuff like stable finances, a house, etc. to what just comes with little to no effort for some guys, yeah it fucking sucks, but life isn’t fair, and the more you focus on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:08 AM
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Of course we do. I don’t want to be misled for some ulterior nefarious method like a woman wants my money or is trying to build me up to tear me down. But if a girl is genuinely interested in me and is trying to hype me up because she’s into me, I don’t see why I would not enjoy this if she’s just trying to be flirty/engage with me. Women do often do this with men they are very attracted to, but most men won’t actually get this genuine experience unfortunately. It doesn’t mean no woman will like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:42 AM
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Partly true but also not quite as simple as you’re trying to make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:34 AM
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You’re not entirely wrong, but a lot of men DO listen to what women say, and then observe them doing the opposite of what they say want men to do. It’s just what people say and do don’t match sometimes. It’s not just a woman thing, but a lot of the resentment I imagine comes from being a decent guy, and respectful, trying to be fun to be around are not really the biggest factors in dating. Men who are in the higher echelons of attractiveness or social status do whatever they want and treat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 AM
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I agree, but also it can be pretty tough to be an average to below average guy these days. I mean i’m even saying this as a guy who is at least somewhat attractive but still struggles to find a suitable partner. I used to come on this sub and fume and let what people said on here upset me, and even find the odd ACTUAL misandrist on here saying unhinged shit, and it just kept my view of women that much more negative. Like yeah dating is hard and getting harder for a lot of men, and a lot of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:22 AM
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This has to be extra depressing for most of the active user base on this sub, reading about all of these happy people in fulfilling relationships they so desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:12 AM
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I would imagine most women just want common courtesy in general, but want special treatment rather from the men they find attractive and want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:11 AM
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