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Nice reverse psychology It’s not reverse psychology, it makes perfect sense. Women are independent adults and can approach, just as they can work and support themselves. If you find that you’re getting rejected, you’re free to stay single. It doesn’t work answers nothing and male loneliness has 0 to do with it. Again, women are already making the first move and 45% of young men have never approached a woman in real life. Y’all complained about being approached so men stopped. You’re no longer de…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:37 PM
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Not all of us, and women do make the first move, they just do so differently than men. 45% of young men haven’t approached a woman IRL anyway so it’s already trending in this direction. Encouraging women to approach would reduce sexual assault and harassment since men would no longer be socially conditioned or expected to do the approaching. The low standards exist because men are told that their worth is based on how many women they sleep with and that they’re losers if they don’t get laid. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:36 PM
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I disagree - “Wine yoga and traveling” is on every basic white girl’s dating app bio, but it’s only unattractive when “I love to travel” is your only personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:11 PM
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I disagree - modern women say they don’t like most men and don’t like being approached so they should do the approaching instead. Would also eliminate the expectation that men initiate and thus reduce instances of sexual assault and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:42 AM
2

If men were genuinely trustworthy we would accept coffee. If women were truly trustworthy and men didn’t have to worry about being the “foodie call”, they wouldn’t just ask for coffee. Women will go on basically any date with a guy they truly like because they want to spend time with him, guys will also spend a bit more money on women they’re truly interested in. There’s a give a take with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:21 AM
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That’s sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:24 PM
1

Okay lol so then why did you marry a man if dating women was so much easier and more enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:19 PM
1

If it’s easier and more enjoyable for you, why are you still dating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:12 PM
1

Lol good luck with dating women, because I believe the bi and lesbian women on this sub who have talked about how difficult it is and the misconceptions around it somehow being easier. To each their own, I just find it interesting that you’d basically flip the game board if things don’t go your way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:39 PM
1

A guy could easily keep up the charade until you have sex, then ghost you, he could even convince you that you’re dating and he’s “waiting” for you while he sleeps with other women. I don’t support such behavior regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:20 PM
2

Then do a good job of convincing me you aren’t lying I’d rather miss out on a relationship than be pumped and dumped The reason this doesn’t make sense to me is that this is exactly how you and many other women get pumped and dumped lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:03 PM
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It doesn’t make sense because if I want to be in a relationship with you, I want to have sex with you lol I’m not going to respect you any less if we have sex quickly, but I am going to question your interest in me if you sleep with other guys quickly but make me wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:35 PM
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It’s not an issue of whether or not he’s okay with casual sex, it’s the inconsistency in your reasoning. You’re entitled to your own private life and I understand why you think men are moronic in that aspect - I think your strategy is illogical, I’m just not going to insult you (or all women) over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:26 PM
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I’m childfree too, but there’s still a risk for STDs, even with a condom. Dicking around with fuckboys also makes you less appealing to attractive relationship guys, so you risk losing out on a high quality partner, especially if the hot guy with a lot to offer had to wait while the hot guy with nothing else to offer got to hit it without waiting. Other women also want the hot guy with a lot to offer, so why wait for someone who’s already sleeping with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:53 PM
2

So is quickly sleeping with someone you’d never date long term, especially if you’re child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:22 PM
2

That’s not even what was being discussed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:15 PM
2

It’s not illegal to cheat on your spouse/partner, just shitty, so I don’t see how/why the government would get involved in this. You’d have to make it something like “Are We Dating The Same Guy” with the requirement of proof, but even then you’re going to deal with the same problems as is typical for those types of groups anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:23 PM
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You calling guys “morons” when you’re child free but will quickly sleep with someone you’d never date long term, while making the guy you actually like wait longer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:00 AM
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I mean that’s the whole reason he’d be going elsewhere in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:08 AM
2

I don’t want a man who is with me just for sex. That’s fair; men don’t want women who are only with them for their time and resources, so having to wait for sex if I’m supposedly attractive and meet all these thresholds doesn’t really make sense to me as a man. I have had long term relationships with women I slept with on the first date, so it’s not that I look down on women who do. Likewise I get making a man wait, but there’s a give and take because attractive men also have options who will sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:10 PM
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The female equivalent would be if you dated a man for years waiting for a ring, then he dumped you and proposed to the next woman within a few months - y’all don’t want to be a “practice girlfriend”, men don’t want to be the guy who had to jump through hoops and wait for sex when another guy got it the first time y’all met (and with far less time and effort). Maybe you think it’s stupid but you are also not a man - I think quickly sleeping with someone who isn’t relationship material because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:12 PM
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Unfortunately, even when we are honest about just wanting something casual, y’all still complain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:51 AM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:47 PM
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What are you not understanding?Just admit you don’t like the argument to be thrown back at you 😂 😂 ” instead of actually responding to my comment but you’re gonna try to lecture me on not making things personal? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:27 PM
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Aww you’re one of those, bless your heart ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:57 PM
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I literally just said that I don’t agree with OP, but your comments also aren’t the “gotcha! Men are so misogynistic, they don’t value women’s autonomy!” that you think they are. Most men aren’t turning to AI girlfriends nor do they “not value sentience in women”, your strawman rebuttal is just as dumb as what OP is arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:48 PM
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Because you’re not arguing in good faith. I don’t even necessarily agree with him, but he literally said that the men who can get women won’t be affected whereas the men who women don’t want will simply find AI girlfriends, not because they “don’t value sentience”, they just know that women don’t want them and are opting out. If anything, they value sentience more because they’ll leave women alone, isn’t that what y’all want anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:28 PM
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Yep, as soon as I got to that sentence I checked out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:00 PM
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Couldn’t disagree more, and I met my current girlfriend because she made a move on me. Most of y’all are just afraid of rejection or getting used (both which happen to guys) and the women who are already being approached don’t need to approach because the attention comes to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:12 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:30 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:11 AM
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And you’re ugly, alone and bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:16 PM
2

It’s a “bs narrative” because things are changing. Women are in more leadership positions than ever but it’s still not the case that women make up most of the CEOs; it’s also still an improvement and better than things used to be even if it isn’t a perfect metric by whatever subjective standards you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:17 PM
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Neither did men, and women weren’t expected to hold full time jobs AND handle childcare/housework
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:12 PM
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Still a difference and even that study is going on 10 years old given that we’re going into 2025. Either you want change or you don’t - women in previous generations also weren’t working as much as their male partners hence they took on the majority of childcare and housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:25 PM
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And women in previous generations weren’t working the same amount current generations of women are, hence they usually handled childcare and housework. “There aren’t enough hours in the day for any one person, man or woman, to do it all.” Good lord are you dense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:23 PM
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I never said “just women”, read the whole comment next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:11 PM
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And previous generations of women did not work as much as men, hence they were more likely to handle childcare and household chores. Men didn’t have it all either, and women nowadays still have to make compromises if they want to balance a career, family and romantic life. There aren’t enough hours in the day for any one person, man or woman, to do it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:05 PM
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Here’s another article that references Pew for those findings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:04 PM
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That’s one example, but on average, according to Pew, millennial men do more than previous generations, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:35 PM
0

It very well could be more, as is the case with my brother, who spends far more time with his infant son than my sister in law does and they both work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:28 PM
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And women weren’t working nearly as much as the men who supposedly did “nothing”, if you actually look at the Pew research I linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:26 PM
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Aww you mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:01 PM
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Men also need to get with the programme and start doing their share of the childcare and housework Sick of this bs narrative - millennial men spend 3x as much time either their children and do more housework than previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:01 PM
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chad doesn’t manipulate to get sex I know because I’m him lol cope and seethe uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:13 AM
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I also didn’t realize that men pretty much universally prefer dainty, helpless, femme women who “need” them for everything. We really don’t and I’m currently ending a relationship because my now soon to be ex gf is so needy. I have no desire for “submission” either, but it’s equally as unattractive to me as when the pendulum swings in the opposite direction and a woman makes “men ain’t shit” her whole personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:03 PM
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Lol nope I called you out because the other poster did address your point about Pete Davidson, you just tried to act like he ignored it but he didn’t. If your case was so strong you’d have no problem defending it but instead you act like this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:14 PM
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Lol you have no argument so you’ll just make shit up; at no point did I defend any blackpill bs and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:55 PM
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I’m not blackpilled dumbass lol Literally nothing I’ve ever argued on here is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:44 PM
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He’s a butterface in your opinion, he’s also tall, allegedly well endowed and clearly has enough intelligence and wit to became a famous comedian, so please tell me how any of that equates to “bad genetics”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:39 PM
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Exactly, so why are you even bringing him up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:36 PM
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What about the celebrities who date and marry people who aren’t in entertainment, or are you going to just ignore them. Attraction is different for everyone, no one is arguing that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:35 PM
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Ignores Pete Davidson because it ruins your narrative. He literally addressed this, you just can’t accept that you’re wrong because you’re comparing celebrities to everyday people which makes 0 sense, just like most of your dumbass posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:06 PM
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They are ignoring the average looking normal women entirely. I think a lot more men are aware that they themselves are not exceptional looking - plenty of women are pretty quick to tell us how awful we all are in every way. Too many men have stories where a woman has told them “you’d be boyfriend material if you were hot”, I literally see them posted here and throughout social media all the time. Same thing with “the worst she can say is no” and women just being unnecessarily cruel to a guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:23 PM
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>yet all dating advice created by men for men is to become a top % guy Because unfortunately, women in pill spaces seem to only find "top" men to be attractive and are also very keen on insulting men. >What advice will the pill community give to men who will never be a top % guy? I can't speak for others but my advice for those men is to take comfort in knowing that they will reap the benefits of their efforts to improve their own lives even if they remain single. Those men need to decenter wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:55 PM
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Highly doubt that plus a lot of women willingly choose to date and sleep with toxic men but based on the vindictaratecelebs/ugly/foreveralone subs you’re a part of, it’s probably not worth engaging any further here anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:03 AM
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you really think a women wants you when she sees other women getting bought mansions and having yachts named after them. Most people, men and women, will never reach this level of wealth in the first place, and this happens so rarely that you even bringing it up is delusional. What happened, did a guy you really liked cheated on you or picked another girl over you, childhood trauma? Seriously, I’ve seen your posts and comments, you’re on the typical glow up/“mean girls rating celebs” subs, it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:38 AM
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Do you think the people who are active in this sub are a good representation of the general populace?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:27 PM
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Lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:25 PM
5

“men will fuck anything. They will fuck you even if they hate you. They’re desperate.” I usually see women saying this, not men. ”wait why don’t you see being fucked as a privilege!” Women always complain about bad sex, whereas a lot of men complain about a lack of sex due to lack of options, so neither are really satisfied; wouldn’t having an attractive partner who satisfies your needs be to your advantage, especially if most of your options are not to your liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:05 PM
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The closest equivalent is if the man has a “starter girlfriend” who sticks around hoping for a ring only to get dumped and watch her now ex-bf propose to a different woman after only a few months of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:51 AM
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It’s on her regardless, the same as it is for men when they try to wine and dine a woman into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:43 AM
6

Only if the guy isn’t hot enough; if he is, many women absolutely delude themselves into hoping a hot guy wants more than just an easy lay and when he doesn’t, they cope, seethe and play the victim after he drops her, even though she knew from the beginning that it was always casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:04 AM
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Not to mention that getting used for sex (vs. just getting rejected immediately) isn’t really better for most women, even if they aren’t explicitly rejected. This is the key difference, because those women are still getting laid, whereas conventionally unattractive men are literally getting nothing unless they have something really outstanding to offer otherwise. Also, for women, the attention and approaches come to you and you can further increase your odds by actually approaching men tactfully…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:54 AM
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But when women prefer richer, taller men then it’s shallow and unacceptable. False equivalence - wanting an FWB situation or casual sex is more akin to women wanting a sugar daddy, not some rich Chad. If the question was “why do men like thin women with big tits and asses” then you might be onto something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:30 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:47 AM
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Because women have comparatively more options than men at all levels of attractiveness and expect to either be rewarded for not having casual sex or, to justify when they do sleep around or do shitty things like cheat and play men. I’m a hot guy and I know women on here will either call me delusional or arrogant for saying so but I have abs and nicer ass than probably 90% of y’all, I have plenty of options and have never cheated on any of my partners, nor have I ever been into casual sex. I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:45 AM
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“My dad was shitty so ALL dads must be lazy incompetent and selfish” - what a dumbass take that completely explains why you act the way you do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:32 PM
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None of what you typed is fact, it’s all subjective to you and that’s fine, just don’t date if you don’t enjoy it. But some people actually do enjoy dating and many women like makeup, dressing up, looking feminine, etc, others don’t and that’s fine too. Sounds like you’re trying to make this into some sort of feminist issues when it really isn’t, I could say the exact same thing about all the performative masculinity many women expect from men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:33 PM
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Dating isn’t fun This is your opinion, which is fine, just don’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:06 PM
2

Its not attractive to surrender all leverage, displaying endless iois to someone that is giving you a slither of attention in return. I think you meant “sliver of attention” but all you’re really saying is “desperation is unattractive”, which yeah, no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:27 PM
1

Even more unnecessary than your last comment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:48 PM
1

…because they don’t need to lol what an unnecessary “correction”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:55 PM
2

I don’t need to have more options than women to find a partner. Even if the number was 20, it’s still a lot I have confidence in myself and also enough self respect to walk away if she’s not actively showing interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:29 PM
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Men are still largely expected to initiate so it’s not all that viable for men to stop approaching, but it is in our best interests to stop placing so much stock in pursuing women/relationships and instead improve our lives for ourselves outside on our own. If a relationship happens, it’s happens, if it doesn’t, I still have an awesome life on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:19 PM
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Women have 1,000 options on their phone. At least half of those “options” are not compatible partners for them in any way, nor are the women in question attracted to all those men, so are they really options? there are 30 guys ahead of you Okay, she can pick them, I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me so it really doesn’t bother me. I have options too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:16 PM
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Problem is a lot of guys think that once they gain some sense of discipline in life, they still expect a woman to fall into their laps, rather than realizing that the more they improve their lives, the greater the likelihood they’ll actually attract a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:32 PM
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Men who get laid don’t need to chase women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:31 PM
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Yes, many mentioned he should have been kicked out of the game. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:31 AM
1

Yes, and both of the things I mentioned are seen as accomplishments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:09 AM
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I’m not gonna advocate some Handmaid’s Tale level of control, but society, which includes women, still equates men’s worth with how financially and romantically successful he is. Women can be and do whatever they want and they’ll be called “brave”, but men who give up on dating because they don’t like their options are just called “incels” and “misogynists” even if they don’t loudly complain about women. Also, literally 90% of every women’s sub on Reddit is just there to shit on men, not that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:02 PM
1

And all men are always malevolent scum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:08 PM
1

Thats for the viewer to decide, right? Yes, and they treat those women like Karens, because trying to make yourself out to be the victim when someone is literally not even looking at you, as is the case in the videos I was describing, is Karen-ass behavior. This: If the cameras were on gross old Boomers as often as they are on Karens, we wouldn’t be having this conversation. seems contradictory to this: And they are all on camera, with signs all around pointing to the cameras because my state re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:16 AM
1

Most people have a smartphone and plenty of creepy old men get filmed and called out for that behavior on camera, but the pendulum has even swung so far as women filming old men simply existing at the gym, not even staring, then posting it to tiktok to call them creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:42 AM
1

I find it hard to believe that middle aged men ultimately mean no harm. Some people mean no harm because it’s not their intention, but that doesn’t mean their actions can’t still cause harm, nor does it really excuse it, which I think is the case for a lot of socially awkward people. Some people are absolutely creeps and honestly any adult who harasses teenagers has serious issues, whether it’s creepy old men or Karens abusing wait staff at brunch after they just left church.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:23 AM
1

I think there are a fair amount of both - some people just aren’t very socially capable and ultimately mean no harm, but unfortunately, people can also be creepy and get off on making others uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:13 AM
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boomers in general are horrible to young women Yeah I’ve definitely noticed this and also with Gen-X men too, the respective “eras” in which those two generations grew up in are steeped in patriarchal views/social practices that weren’t really questioned at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:00 AM
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it feeds your enormous ego Incels don’t have egos, most of them are depressed because they feel worthless as a result of the romantic rejections they’ve experienced. But 100% with the revenge fantasies because they genuinely think women hate them and wish they’d off themselves or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:14 PM
1

Women tend to be more indirect in their approaches, they want to protect their egos too and they know good looking guys have options - nobody wants to be settled for or used.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:12 AM
0

Not answering because a lot of women are probably on here looking for inspiration lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:52 PM
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Didn’t you say youre married? Unless you’re in an open relationship you wouldn’t be approaching people anyway, idc how promiscuous you are lol Women don’t really approach men anyway, even the hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:51 PM
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The good ones, who also have confidence and swagger, are in incredibly high demand so very few women can get them. So they settle for bad boys. Exactly this - so many women even admit as such because they say “average looking guys treat us like shit too so we might as well at least be with someone who is hot if he’s gonna treat us poorly”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:27 PM
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Why 1-7 Scales of 1 to 5 or 7 are common in Likert style survey questions, wherein the researcher is asking for the strength of participants’ opinions. Source is my degree in research psychology lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:49 AM
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Because most women dont have to put in any effort to get laid (granted, it may not be the best partner) but casual sex is more difficult to come by even if you’re an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:12 PM
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Again, where did I refuse to acknowledge that there abusive people in the world? you should know a woman always has options. Always. Oh sweetie you’re trying so hard but you don’t realize that we don’t care about the LVM who want to fuck you because we know they basically aren’t options and you’re mad you can’t get the men you actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:05 PM
0

Please point out where I defended abusers because two consenting adults can date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:53 PM
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That’s the socially acceptable version a lot of women give to avoid admitting that they’re envious of both the attention attractive younger women get and that some older men can still pull those younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:27 PM
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I never said anything about being “allowed to generalize”; do you like when men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:40 PM
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No, women just compare us to the worst men and act like that’s the default
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:05 PM
2

I think that’s a fair point in terms of the concept of objectification, but men are also comparing women’s behavior to other women when they say things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:19 PM
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No analogies here and I think comparing women to cars is pretty crass, but I get what you’re saying - it’s not to be a whataboutism, but to say that many PPD women do largely expect the same but present themselves as so moralistic and good while men are superficial and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:13 PM
5

I definitely agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:10 PM
0

And women frame men as abusive predators all the time, what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:10 PM
3

And again, do women not do the same? Literally every women-centric sub is there just to complain about and shit on men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:59 AM
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Do women not expect the same from men? Women on here don’t seem to want men who have slept around a ton but are still attractive and low investment, who will provide stability and predictability without question or dissent, also to reliably get them where they want to be. Only difference is PPD women will frame a man who wants the same as misogynistic, incel, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:49 AM
1

Oh the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:40 PM
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And all of the questions are loaded as rage bait. When FDS was around one of their mods used to ask the most purposely backhanded Q4M questions, but now that they’re private, it’s just the incel/blackpillers doing the same towards women ALL the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:54 PM
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I think OP listing his salary was cringe af and that’s why he was getting nowhere, behaving like that makes it seem like a person lacks some self-awareness, which is the real reason that person isn’t getting anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:13 PM
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Do you live in a big city? Because I’ve lived and worked in NYC for many years (live outside the city now though) and the hot women in cities like that are already making bank, they want to be around guys who have either a similar lifestyle or even better. I’ve dated women who made comparable money to me, as I do now with my current gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:45 PM
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I literally just like arguing with PPD women because so many of them think they’re these perfect beings who should be the moral compass of the universe, also the smug ass Redpillers and their dumbass theories and strategies. Lots of blackpilled dudes on here too, if anything I hope that I can reach those dudes so they don’t stay misogynistic timebombs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:38 PM
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Fits off - it's not a woman's job to be a strange man's emotional support animal or therapist. I literally said I know that Reddit isn’t a therapist’s office!!! Lol they’re dreaming up ways to punish and demean women for all of their perceived slights against them I don’t see that on PPD so much as I see it elsewhere on Reddit in incel type spaces. Many of the CMV and Q4W posts do have very loaded (often rage bait) questions though, and I’ve seen the inverse from PPD women too. Most of those get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:17 PM
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I’ve seen that and agree that being single is better than being in a crappy relationship, a lot of the PPD women seem to have their own chip on their shoulders about men. Not saying sexual harassment isn’t a problem, but it seems like a lot of women come here to shit on men too (though yes, plenty of incels and blackpilled who will do the same to the PPD women)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:46 PM
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a lot of single redpillers seem to have their entire personality hinge on their lack of success with women and come to some positively deranged conclusions as to what is wrong with women, not them, with every woman. I agree, lots of blackpill and incels posting in here too. A lot of women on here are trying to counter this weird roundabout logic ubiquitous on PPD I do see that, but I do also see some really out there stuff from PPD ladies too, and hypocritical in regard to benevolent sexism many…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:39 PM
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How do you know they want relationships and won’t admit it? A lot of PPD women are active on other subs like r/deadbedrooms or r/datingover30 (as are many of the men), so I’m not buying that they don’t want relationships. They wouldn’t care if they didn’t want it A lot of people cool with being single I’m sure there are, but from what I’ve seen, a lot of the PPD women who say that seem to be pretty unhappy with their romantic lives and just keep it separate from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:56 PM
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Are we reading the same sub? No because for each "woman that insults men" there is a whole tread about how not been a non virgin woman makes you 100% guaranteed to cheat on every single one of those poor men that just want to love you... I do agree that some men have really wild ass expectations of their partners, but the last thread I saw discussing what N count constituted being promiscuous, I saw a lot of women saying some really out there stuff too - one woman said anything over 1 partner is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:41 PM
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Lol okay big guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:31 PM
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You’re getting mad but you could have easily copied and linked a comment from another post (or even an entire post where the PPD women said this shit) and I would have said “oh okay, I do see what you’re saying”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:23 PM
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I agree with you but it seems like so many PPD women fall back on having masters degree or PhD, or being a homeowner, having a successful career etc to insult men and act like they’re better than them when those same women still want good relationships but won’t admit it. They act like they’re sooooo above wanting a partner to maintain the “strong independent woman” persona, but then it quickly devolves into classism when they talk about how much more money they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:16 PM
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Yes, because it was easy sex and I was a virgin at the time. I didn’t care and ended up feeling worse after it. I also had a ONS through tinder much later on, again because it was easy sex, and again, felt awful about it afterward. Not doing that shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:51 PM
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Not evil but I don’t like this and it kinda reinforces some beliefs I have and makes me feel justified in avoiding women like you. Just me personally, I appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:48 PM
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Good way to approach a debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:05 PM
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I’ve literally never seen women say “ men with crappy genes shouldn’t reproduce” outside of FDS or some pinkpilled spaces - please point me to where multiple women said that outside of those communities and I’ll accept it as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:27 PM
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Sexually unsuccessful men are statistically the least likely to shoot people and rape women. Right and how many incel mass murderers have we had? Elliot Rodger, Alek Minassian’s van attack in Canada, Chistopher Harper-Mercer - for a small community, they have a pretty high instance of producing murderers and they were all sexually unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:22 PM
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Why is it that men with crappy genes are expected to take one for the team by women and not reproduce, Literally no one says this, ever. Please point me to post or sub (that isn’t FDS or some pinkpill bullshit) where most women actually say this but women never ever expect other women with crap genes to not reproduce? WHAT?!?!?! Lol Men don’t have kids with those women, simple as that. Don’t all unattractive women get pumped and dumped by Chads and wind up as cat ladies unless they settle for Bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:43 AM
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Fear and phobias are detrimental to our survival as species. Evolutionary psychology states that we all have two basic evolutionary tasks: survival and reproduction. Fear and anxiety are emotions that help one cope with threats of danger, but they do not mean that one takes no action in the face of a threat. Without them, people become reckless, which is not attractive because it could get your whole tribe killed. It doesn’t really work when you apply evolutionary psych to predict how modern men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:37 AM
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But they don't, and they're not going to. Because it's scary to put yourself on the line like that, and they have the option not to. And that's really the only reason. Very few women straight up admit that they’re worried about rejection and you’ll just get the same excuses from them as to why they won’t approach: it’s dangerous “I’m attracted to guys who make the first move, I can’t help it” “Men just treat us like crap if we approach” as if no respectable men like women who show interest towar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:54 PM
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My bad - but either way, this is still some gendered nonsense. Yes some women like being approached, but some women do also find men attractive and will approach them, and I don’t think it’s mutually exclusive because if she’s interested enough, she’ll let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:02 PM
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Women are attracted to masculinity, confidence and assertiveness. As a guy you should take the lead, be assertive, plan dates and obviously have the confidence to go after what you want and face rejection. This is some seriously gendered bullshit lol If you’re arguing that this is biological, then all the other evolution psych nonsense pushed by RP has to be regarded as true as well. You’re straight up saying “I don’t want the responsibility of approaching, I like attention”, which is fine, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:55 PM
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They can comfortably wait for a woman to throw themselves, have sex with her and cast her aside due to low cost or involvement. So behaving like women do, except they use men for dinner dates and drinks instead of sex? Lol Women select a mate not a sexual partner Are there no women who want casual sex? There is zero advantage asking men out unless I just want sex with the hottest guy. You’re assuming you won’t ever be rejected, in which case, even if you look good, I have bad news for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:50 PM
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Entire thread is going to be PPD women saying “we already do approach men, you’re just not attractive enough to approach” but most women still don’t make the first move and actually say “hi”, in which case we’ll have to hear these same women complain that “it’s too dangerous to initiate”. But yes, it does make more sense for women to do the approaching, in fact they should discourage men from approaching since most PPD women seem to say they never want men approaching them anywhere anyway. A lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:46 PM
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I have a close friend who is a bisexual man and he’s said that both straight women and gay men have given him a hard time, although he’s said that some people fetishize his sexuality too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:50 PM
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Honestly…good on you for this type of introspection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:39 PM
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Disagree because I’d say that all landminds are designed to kill/harm. Yes men commit more violent crimes than women, and I get what you mean from a safety perspective for women but no singular person is born inherently “dangerous” or malicious. This kind of comparison makes me think of the “lock and key” example redpillers like so much, but women (rightfully) complain about how sexist it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:25 PM
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