SadAbbreviation Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? I already answered why she might be more lenient in accepting shitty or abusive behavior. "Perhaps the person she goes with who eventually is abusive, she misses the red flags, or has been abused in the past and this is less abusive than her past so she thinks she's doing well." There are lots of reasons why someone accepts abuse. And there are lots of shy introverts who are abusive. These are not comparable things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 06:00 PM
7	If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men? Perhaps you have shitty qualities that they're not interested in or are boring, your interests are not compatible. Not that you're shy and she's into being abused. Perhaps the person she goes with who eventually is abusive, she misses the red flags, or has been abused in the past and this is less abusive than her past so she thinks she's doing well. Having generalizations saying because you're shy/introverted you get less attention than if you were abusive is completely unproductive. Those two a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 05:09 PM
6	When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner? Why would it be problematic ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 08:20 PM
1	How much should you tell your significant other about your financial situation? Both my partner and I have tfsa without eachother, rrsps without eachother and separate accounts except the one we pay shared bills from. We're both aware that life happens, people fall out of love and that accidents happen and having a backup plan is important. You can plan for the future with someone and still recognize the need for a safety net for the unknown. This was something that we talked about from day 1 though, and money is a hot button issue for a lot of couples, let alone having a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 03:34 PM
1	Ugly - hot people Always	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 02:22 PM
1	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older My requirements in how I'm treated and what I expect emotionally from a partner went up as I got older but my tastes in someone physically are still the stoner gamer guy in a punk band lol but that's not exclusively who I date when I'm single and looking, my tastes vary, and it's more about treatment than physical, but physical attractiveness plays a role of course, im just more open to someone less attractive, if they're a good emotional and compatible fit. I think women's tastes vary regardles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 04:52 PM
2	Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man? I've dated men shorter and taller than me, I prefer someone closer in height to myself and im 5'4". But everyone has different preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 02:33 PM
2	Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable. This was the point I too was trying to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 02:02 PM
1	Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable. It's really situational, I don't know you or the situations in which someone has found you creepy, so unfortunately, I cannot say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 09:06 PM
1	Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable. Of course he wouldn't be leaving in a police car for creepy behavior, that is not a chargeable offense, but I would be leaving the situation because im uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 07:29 PM
2	Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable. Creepiness often has nothing to do with physical attractiveness. Creepiness is the way in which someone conducts themselves, whether that's overtly sexual/predatory behavior and comments or if it's just weird things they do/say. There are plenty of people who are attracted who are also or have acted in a creepy way. Creepy is more about the feeling of discomfort or unease they make someone else feel. Sometimes this is purely looks, but I think a lot of people would agree it's more than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 07:17 PM
8	Q4W: Do you actually worry about violence on the first few dates (with men)? I have gone on dates with guys who make me feel unsafe and dates where I feel safe or even the dominant party. It is all dependent on the woman or female presenting persons experiences and the man or male presenting persons actions in the moment. More often than not I am cautious about how I interact with men out of the better safe than sorry mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 11:23 PM
2	What do women mean when they say that they feel like their boyfriend's mom I've been in this situation where I felt like I was my boyfriends mom rather than a partner. In my situation, I had to do all of the chores for him, call to make appointments for him, and arrange his schedule to ensure nothing was missed as he wouldn't do those things. I cooked, cleaned, and took care of ensuring all bills were paid, and nothing was missed, while I worked longer hours than him, and attempted to maintain a life outside of our relationship with my friends and family as well. If I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 05:56 PM
7	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates Exactly this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 04:57 PM